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| 3 | The cost of living crisis is in a large part contributed to by the ability of women to pursue careers.True the child eating billionaires | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent.In my opinion I think that if a man isnt holding a gun to your head, threatening your safety, doesn’t financially control you or you’re not married then IN MY OPINION I think it should be easy to say no without feeling pressured. My issue is that women want organic consent in real life like women want stuff to naturally happen and guys are expected to read every grey area it is so hard for women to want organic consent but still want to give verbal consent if that makes sense? I have had some se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 01:11 PM |
| – | Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric.Because women dont like men being honest about what they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | It’s unrealistic to expect men to find romance by just “living their lives.”The real brutal pill, I have always said this humans Aint fucking dumb. Just living your life won’t get you no gf or wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 02:08 AM |
| 1 | The reason men get "friendzoned" more than women is often because there's a Masculinity + "Does he say / do the right things to turn me on" component to women's sexuality that eliminates her male friends from contention.Get your testosterone checked bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 02:05 AM |
| 1 | If you dont like women, don’t date them.This isn’t common sense if this feels like common sense you must have bumped your head real bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 02:03 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Is pink pill like the black pill for women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Social media encourages self-indulgent self-pity and that is why so many guys fail to blossomBro, if that version of you came into college in 2026 you probably would have roped brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:49 AM |
| 7 | The Voice Memo Guy, Proves Women Also Can’t Handle Rejection.It definitely did, it makes no sense how can a man you barley know make you feel pressured to do something over a voice message? Like thats some weak pussy shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:46 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.I have always wondered this, and I made a post about this and generally speaking women fear random men cold approaching, why would women still expect men to approach why don’t they just do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:32 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.This is far off from the truth, comments like these convince me more and more women dont know shit about men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:29 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.To get a woman to not call you creepy is to agree with everything they say and do if a woman thinks Im creepy I swear I wouldn’t give a fuck like genuinely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:28 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Im confused on what’s being conveyed are you saying my comparison dehumanizes women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:22 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.I don’t believe that, the thing is women have been so used to be chased and desired for it has become boring to them. And I see this now whenever women on my local campus or every other college post in fizz they talk about how every guy is becoming feminine, and how men not approaching and wearing sparkles. Even when we have unpopular opinions night where people post unpopular opinions women always mention men not approaching I genuinely think if men could be on the same accord it genuinely coul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:17 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.The sad reality is that if you are a guy and you are extremely ugly you might have to stay lonely or develop some good copes to not worry about relationships or kill your libido | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:12 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.My girl, doesn’t even know I engage into this type of stuff on Reddit. What I believe on the inside never leaks out cause I know that not everyone is the same, but my general observation is that women do control dating dynamics. Im not a creep i dont follow women around, i dont do shit for their attention or approval, i dont stalk women, I don’t say shit to make them uncomfortable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:11 AM |
| – | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.If you are married, have you ever done something to envoke reaction out of your husband in hopes to see how he reacts thats shit testing, or being off and on with a man to see if he is still willing to keep an connection. Or when I used to be shorter In high school women would often crack a joke at my height just to see what I would do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.This isn’t about me personally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Ur right, me personally i dont care what people think but I do think this stuff could be discussed cause I also feel with different caliber men different rules change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:15 PM |
| 7 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.I don’t pursue anymore so I know if a girl approaches me I know for what reason it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Shit testing? Depending on the guy it can confuse them to keep chasing or to not chase, in general I think more mature guys will just break it off and not engage. But it is still a behavior women still do at any age. Cause consent is not just verbal indicators, it can be tone, body language etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.It really should be “their feelings matter so therefore I will attract what comes to me” it isn’t a humans duty to do anything unless it’s to keep your family or children alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.It generally takes a lot for a man to be completely turned off, men personally dont really have “icks” persay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Because woman’s feelings matter more than a man’s, so therefore if women express to me that cold approaching makes them uncomfortable Im not gonna chase something that doesn’t want to be chased so I just let women approach me so I know we both on the same page. I just explained it to you, you have a lack of understanding because you feel like it’s a man’s duty to follow gender roles | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.I understand social interactions and this is why im having this conversation. Men definitely don’t play the same game when it comes to attracting a woman cause universally there isn’t an rule to attract a woman. But every man can agree if every woman made the first move everything can be clear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.I explained it to you. Men are expected to do it, like I explained earlier the act of approaching a woman in itself is uncomfortable for them because they already are afraid of a man’s intentions when he walks up (go read my comment above) You feel like it is your personal duty, Im only explaining the dynamic between men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Women will continue to shit test men, every woman has done it to their bfs, husbands etc. purposely get on their nerves or pissing them off by doing something they don’t like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.It mostly is. And my reason being is because women have the final say in anything unless she is the one vetting the man then that’s different you can argue that but 8 times out of ten men are expected to do these things approach, charm her pay for date, etc. I also do feel like rejection can go both ways but women still control dating dynamics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.You can have control over a situation without forcing a person. Everyone can universally agree that women control who has sex and who doesn’t, who gets a date who doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.I shouldn’t have to explain why cold approaching in public could be seen as cringy or uncomfortable. The act in itself involves you approaching someone you don’t know in public, and asking for personal information in hopes of dating someone. That can be seen as uncomfortable especially for women when they just have a general fear for their safety when they are alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Men in theory do control who they pursue you’re not wrong but he can’t control weather the interaction keeps going or if they can go on a second date, third date etc. Im not trying to argue who has what easier but the main thing is mostly women control dating dynamics. And STD’s are something everyone gets, women have an higher chance to Sti’s though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 02:03 PM |
| 8 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.That goes back to what I said to someone else if a woman is not interested then back off and he is completely wrong for doing that. But I have met women that would shit test you to see if you would keep chasing in a playful type of way. I didn’t figure this out until later after the interaction I thought about it that I had with a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.Being straight up and being clear about their intentions. Guys are only expected to guess off of signals which could be interpreted as something else for someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.A lot of women say that because they fear for their safety or are scared of men often worry about a man’s intentions when he cold approaches. I made a post about that a long time ago and you should take a look at it. But often times than not when a man cold approaches women tend to get uncomfortable or have an unconscious fear and questions his motives. But you’re not addressing the original point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 01:54 PM |
| 4 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.You’re acting ignorant, doing those things could be seen as uncomfortable in a general sense like in United States cold approaching is somewhat normal, but in other areas of the world it’s not. But specifically speaking USA cold approaching and approaching someone in public can be cringy or icky Americans just have an higher tolerance to it. And if you feel like it’s your duty as a man to do it then thats all you, but it doesn’t really address my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 01:51 PM |
| 5 | Women control every grey area in dating and it makes it hard for men not to make them uncomfortable.That is a different scenario where a guy just isn’t respecting the woman’s response | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 01:48 PM |
| 0 | Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce.No man wants this dumbass shit man. This is why I say women need to court men more because you bitches dont know men at all. You think men are just sex, babies, abuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Women are not more emotionally intelligent, Men just complain lessMen complain on the internet cause women dont want to hear it honestly or no one cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 01:15 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThis is accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for.Men’s standards for sex are low because of the lack of options. “The hotter she is the less you care about character flaws” yes thats true if the guy is only dealing with her for hooking up and not LTR’s or if that woman is the hottest and only woman that man ever had in his life. And women are special to men because men desire traits like femininity, hygiene, and how well you can articulate yourself. Shit like that And for your second part, if more men had more options to have sex they definite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 09:34 PM |
| 2 | You only smash cuz she pre-approved you.Ngl I was gonna disagree but the way you worded it in the second paragraph made me realize that in the early stages of the relationship I like to flirt and have fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Reddit lacks nuance when it comes to casual sexYou want a link saying what the first paragraph says when you could literally just join a forum about hooking up gtfoh lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for.What you’re saying about pnc is true but during that time your testosterone raises really high then drops really low. But with your situation you gave if you gave men the opportunity to sleep with women he find attractive then pnc wouldn’t really matter if he finds that woman attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Putting in less effort in attracting women actually works.I still believe there has to be some sort of effort when attracting a woman, you literally can’t just roll out of bed, dont brush your teeth, dont keep yo ur face clean and keep a woman. Almost every guy will agree that hygiene will attract women and I feel like hygiene is putting in effort or grooming. Your advice only works for guys that were blessed with crazy looks. And Insecurity is normal bro, but what I said was facts an guy that looks good an puts in effort will attract more women vs a g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for.I hate the narritive that all men would fuck hella women because they are men and not cause of their lack of options. If a man has sex with you he finds something about you attractive enough to keep his dick hard who’s to say those relationships won’t grow into anything more than sex or if those women also only seek monogamy. If we are really being honest if those women that man got a chance to fuck actually have consensual sex under the impression that it’s only sex not many menwoukd even fuck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Putting in less effort in attracting women actually works.Bro, there is no way you can maintain an relationship for more than a year without buying your bf or gf flowers or going out once in a while. To keep a woman attracted requires effort. Imagine a guy that is even more attractive than you pushes up on your woman? She is gonna get took bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 11:29 PM |
| 0 | Men fail to understand that women want to be chosen, not settled for.I mean technically he did choose her if you gave the guy a chance to sleep with the women HE finds attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Putting in less effort in attracting women actually works.It’s 2026 if you still believe that putting in less effort attracts women you gotta be a doorknob fucking retard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Work on yourself is useless adviceIt’s definitely not useless it’s only useless if you’re so ugly that you look like a burn victim. Self improvement helped me lose weight and have more options but im in a relationship so I can’t indulge in the hooking up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:04 PM |
| 2 | A vast chunk of pro-women takes on Reddit are actually just benevolent sexism.A lot of guys would be soft asf if women raised them legitimately i dont think it has to do with genes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsHere we go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/26 02:29 PM |
| 1 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceI really do think it’s attractiveness and appeal, like how you carry yourself is how people will treat you. And most people agree but they don’t agree when it comes to looks and bone structure. I seen a hideous guy in high school get bullied by men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 02:50 PM |
| 1 | When men and women say they have “no options” it means two completely different thingsHell nah men usually live by the universal rule that if I don’t like her one man will. Generally speaking if you are a social outcast to society you won’t get not any interest in women. Now there are definitely women that are generally invisible that’s something I won’t lie about but they will always have men orbiting them cause in point We all know those one group of weird kids and the girls always had orbiters in that group and every guy in that group atleast dated her once. My point is, is th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 12:35 AM |
| 3 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.I agree, but my point still fucking stands don’t expect to find someone good at a club, bar, or party. “Frat guys are good guys too” lol hell the fuck no. Finding a good frat guy at a party is dead ass like finding gold in the sewers you don’t even believe that bullshit. This is what redditors do never did I say I was a good man this discussion was never about my morality you could curse and still have a good heart the message doesn’t change little man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 11:13 PM |
| 2 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.Liking parties definitely isn’t a disqualification to being a good man or a woman, but let’s just be fucking realistic here clubs and parties (depending on the parties) you will not find someone of quality there of course you can like those things but it’s other shit you can do to increase your chances of finding a good ass man. Going hiking, going bowling, joining a book club, learning to play an instrument. By all means anyone that do those can be a shitty guy but overall I have noticed that p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 09:59 PM |
| 4 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.Parties just arent a good place to find a good fucking man. Obviously women cant line up at a stem building thats the exaggeration. But women never hang around stem buildings or libraries to find good men. And fucking obviously you got to be a student to be on campus holy fucking shit. My whole point is women’s taste in men is fucking terrible women want shitty men. And yes I think practices like those would be acceptable because the degenerate shit gen Z women are doing now is driving away men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 08:16 PM |
| 3 | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.It’s not about the social skills, dont be a dumbass. Men tell women shit and say sweet shit so they can string them along. But because women are always blind to bullshit and they are the “manipulated one” they deal with their shitty ex of 3 years. Do you honestly think women are as naieve as they tell you? These bitches be lying 25/8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 06:32 PM |
| – | We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected.I actually said something about this and men’s inability to be selected isn’t something thats a net positive I just don’t think women wants to select better. There is a guy you know that is bad for you but women continue to give him sex because he say the right things or because the sex is good. I never see Gen Z women lined up at any S.T.E.M building at my university to actually find a good man. They lined up at a door to party I can guarantee you that. Or at a day party. If you ask me I think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 11:33 AM |
| – | The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.I believe women should but it’s not always easy to judge. You know I hate when women on this app or subreddit blame shitty men but y’all continue to date them. My sister had the “tea app” and the men that looked the most attractive had the most red flags and there were still women in the comments saying “what’s his instagram @, or what’s his #?” Like you hoes say the same shit blame the shitty men but shitty people exist. Have you ever been to a bar, college? Worked in a warehouse? Good lord tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 09:22 PM |
| – | The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.See I think men are definitely manipulative but men are fucking stupid. Unless the situation is about domestic violence it’s way different but most cases what the OP is talking about was a relationship that didn’t last and the woman sacrificed her dignity to keep it. Men know other men are fucking stupid men arent calculated. Fool me once Shame on you fool me twice shame on me. What ever type of excuse yall come up with Im blind to the bs unless it a genuine situation where her life is at risk E… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 08:27 PM |
| – | The "she did it with her ex but won't with me" situation is typically valid for a man to be concerned about.Being a boyfriend is a humiliation ritual, you get with a woman and if you seem like an open and honest guy they will get comfortable with you and the mfs will tell you some shit that will genuinely give you the ick but they give the information in bits and pieces before they tell you some stupid shit. Now most women only do this shit cause they felt like they were pressured to but it makes a man angry because of how easily a woman can feel manipulated in a situation she can walk away from. Now … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 08:18 PM |
| – | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menEverything in this world is transactional even fucking marriage. But what you saying can be twisted as only base attraction looks can get you in the door and your personality can be trash. I don’t believe all unattractive people are good but 9/10 most of them are good because the world already beat them down for how they look an unattractive person has to provide some type of value to even socialize | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 08:10 PM |
| – | Most young women are dating the same set of terrible menAnd you know what’s crazy about this post we also have this same thing for my city on Facebook. Im telling you I never believed shit that come out these hoes mouth because how are those type of men still reproducing and tricking women? Women gossip the most about men how in the fuck can they get away with this and then have more kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 08:07 PM |
| 6 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?There are probably a lot of men that are red pill and black pilled, it’s either one they don’t share those ideologies or 2 they haven’t found the correct term to identity themselves. My gf doesn’t have no idea i even engage in these types of conversations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Red pill men: what turned you red pill?Back pill definitely isn’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Men are less sympathetic because they more readily display antisocial traitsBeing bold in public, from a woman’s perspective it can be seen as being “loud” or “disruptive” or “irritating” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Men are less sympathetic because they more readily display antisocial traitsIm not deflecting I genuinely think it’s equal but the behaviors are seen as negative because men do it. I think being edgy can be negative but it depends on what you think edgy. I think shera7’s audience is edgy as well as Andrew Tate or content that hates on men and women or content that antagonizes men or women. But my point is that women are also attracted to antisocial behavior . Or that they can also be edgy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Men are less sympathetic because they more readily display antisocial traitsWe wouldn’t know, I think being misandrist could be defined as being an edge lord | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Men are less sympathetic because they more readily display antisocial traitsYes, I see. Women also display those traits. Do you think women cant be edgelords? Or what would you define an edge lord as? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 01:26 PM |
| 5 | Men are less sympathetic because they more readily display antisocial traitsI agree to an extent, my issue is there are women that are just like this and they aren’t marked off for their lack of social skills or they aren’t marked off for being less sympathetic. It’s always the excuse that a woman acts a certain way because of a man. Now what Im really trying to say here is that women also can display antisocial traits but they are better at masking them or they are never considered antisocial but “shy and timid”. I think overall “men suck at social skills” because men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 01:16 PM |
| -1 | We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it.So which is it? Are men losing testosterone? Or is it not all women? Cause if it’s not all women why arent men given that same grace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 05:32 PM |
| – | As a women I'll never understand other women's obsession with marriageBro thats not even the point of my comment you coconut brain. Obviously there are pros and cons but the woman that typed this made it seem like having children is something only men want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 11:26 AM |
| 1 | We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it.You can’t be red pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 11:24 AM |
| 4 | We agree alot with each other, but for some reason men are wrong for saying it.I’ve noticed that gen X men are or were misogynistc like my great uncles and grandfathers. But I don’t think this is the case for gen Z men. Now I have read some studies and I occasionally go to social events and men just don’t approach women that often and women also arent having kids that early in their life anymore. I genuinely think women don’t know what they really want cause if an man is too feminine it’s “oh my god men are losing testosterone” but when he’s too masculine then yall get ick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 11:18 AM |
| 8 | As a women I'll never understand other women's obsession with marriageAnd why is OP framing having children as something women don’t want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Women peak 18-25I don’t agree, realistically I think a woman stays in her peak as long as she is childless, but when she does decide to have kids it affects their bodies heavily and not because it messes with their belly but mental health, quality time, and her quality of life. A woman destroys her body to have children and raise them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 01:55 AM |
| 1 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.I agree but as a gen Z man red pill definitely exists because of how easy women have and also because of the caliber of men women chance thats just undeniable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 01:53 AM |
| 2 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.So I ask what do you think is fair criticism to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 01:45 AM |
| 2 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 09:30 PM |
| 4 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.I didn’t respond because it’s just stupid to assume everyone is kissless, hugless, and single in the red pill, but why would you ask a plumber to fix your car (a woman for relationship advice) when you can as a mechanic (a man that’s successful in dating the men that get the most women etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:27 PM |
| 2 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.No, but you can learn how to work on your cars and learn the simple shit by watching them, like changing your tire, changing your oil, or putting oil in your car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Men like action and sci fi, now they may have love interest but it’s not the focus of the story. I do think some stories with love interest objectifies men or women. But my point is you never see men interest in shows like; love island, jersey shore, or just love romance shows, or baddies. But yall call sports, anime, games, etc boring (not all women but most) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:17 PM |
| 3 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.This is just not fucking true at all like what so ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Car engine different I would say and more accurate analogy would be, you know a little bit about cars but you watch a YouTube video on how to change your oil and you figure it out, even if you don’t know about cars you watch a YouTube video about your car and change your oil or tire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:14 PM |
| 4 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:12 PM |
| 2 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Rose meets a guy on the titanic for 7 days has sex with him he risk his life for her she gets married and has grandchildren and she still thinks about that man. And I wasn’t saying romance novels make sense but what genre is popular to men and women makes sense in the context of the manosphere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:05 PM |
| 5 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.So how would you know they are all single? So you think not one have relationship experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 02:58 PM |
| 4 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Ok than why’d you call it creepy? “Depends on the situation” ok lmao Nah you said selecting someone good for you is hard for men too and it’s not Hard for men to select someone good but it’s the process than can be hard depending on the man especially with the shit test, going on dates, etc etc. I genuinely think women or gen Z women are so disconnected from the courting process i often think that they forget that courting is intentional and not something men can mindlessly do over and over unle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 02:56 PM |
| 3 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Im telling you, college exposes the dating dynamics of men and women especially with gen Z. Women DO monkey branch, women DO keep orbiters. Name one 2 toxic red pillers that aren’t Andrew take or Myron gains | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 02:46 PM |
| 4 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.You can be experienced in dating and never dated before, do you think every man of the manosphere or redpill isn’t dating? If you do then thats just very naive. And how did this discussion jump to me? Every relationship i been in has at least been more than 2 years of just dating. my current relationship has been 4 years. and most of what guys say in the red pill isn’t wrong but I would say is over exaggerated. But it’s very naive to believe that the red pill is just full of men who haven’t trie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 02:38 PM |
| 4 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Nah most men don’t give up after high school I would say they would still have hope but not much confidence but dating dynamics is not the same as it was with women back then now that we have social media, unisex clothes, women only bars clubs etc women are telling men they make them feel uncomfortable how could a message like that make anyone confident unless you are the guy that can just naturally bag women? It’s either wrong time and place, right place wrong time, right place right time but y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:36 AM |
| – | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Ok let me break this down sk you can understand Even having experience of courting or hooking up, you are qualified to give advice when it comes to the red pill. It’s is not Don’t even try to date > turn to the red pill because of what other guys say Men don’t bend that easily it’s usually Try to date, get ghosted, get some interest but it never goes beyond that > looks for advice > finds the manosphere thats why I can’t stand when women say men can’t believe women until they dated them when men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:31 AM |
| 0 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.You are new to the red pill then, cause red pill is simplified attraction for someone that understand complex behaviors, it’s not just “if she does this then do this” it can be sometimes but not all the time. Looks maxing came from the red pill not anything else but as in red pill material Im interested in what red pill content you consume. Im not red pilled anymore but I just want to see where you are at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 06:24 AM |
| 9 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.How is wanting to court or have sex with a woman creepy? Do you find men sexuality creepy? Or would it have been better if I said take you on dates and buy you flowers? It’s not hard for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:21 AM |
| 6 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Nah, ur missing the point Im gonna break this down as simple as possible Man tries to date > cant get matches, get ghosted cant get laid, > searches online for advice > manosphere It’s not Doesn’t event try to date > finds manosphere Most of genX are red pilled and misogynistic lmao Women are not stunted esp when it comes to socialization | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:19 AM |
| 13 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Not always bruh thats like me saying feminism allows misandrist there is always gonna be bad people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:15 AM |
| 7 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Red pill isn’t simplification of life. I would say the most simplest advice I got was for blue pill not trying to be funny but most blue pullers say be yourself, get a hobby just shit like that red pill goes into more detail as to what your looks match is and how to improve yourself (not the cold shower bs) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:14 AM |
| 8 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Only hard part about dating for women is selecting someone good for you most men already find you attractive and want to date or have sex with you, not every man that wants to court you or date you only wants sex. But as far as dating goes thats like the only thing that’s hard for women selecting but then again women like to tell people how good their intuition is or how the bar is in hell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:00 AM |
| 8 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.You can never date, but that doesn’t mean you don’t actively try to date. There are truly men out there with server deformities that will never get a chance to date and most of them are black pilled still actively trying to date like burn victims, Autistics cripples. Midgets. Yea, they didn’t date but that doesn’t mean their view on courting or dating isn’t wrong but genuinely it does suck. Especially for men in college. Or in their 30’s. Idk if you are an older person but it’s this app called “… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:51 AM |
| 1 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Well, yeah.. but that’s the same for any space. red pill itself isn’t anti women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:48 AM |
| 9 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Red pill or manosphere isn’t victim hood just a place for advice you either take it or don’t. Whatever fairytale you made in your comment it’s not that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:47 AM |
| 7 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Thats the part I also agree I only think 75-85% of the manosphere gives good advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:29 AM |
| 9 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.So which one is it? Do the shit i see and people I know my own little bubble? Or are the people on the internet just all robots Im in a bubble with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:24 AM |
| 14 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Because you are a man, you would be apart of those groups or see those things, Andrew tate is not even a red piller and thats the issue yall use a grifter as a pure definition of red pill. Women would express negative opinions in your face, and online and it’s because collectively older folks made it more inclusive for women and safe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:17 AM |
| 16 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.Bro how are you a woman telling me about men’s dating experiences? That is the issue right there. there is only some truth in what you say I can give you that but. The red pill has always taught men that but learning the red pill as a man is brutal or the black pill because it’s something you discovered while trying to get dating advice. Red pill is only a tool to just listen to and not wallow but what I disagree with is men do not try and become stunted That shit is so false because if men neve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:15 AM |
| 5 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.You can be red pilled and never date those things arent mutually exclusive. Most women are though and these ideas actually start to present themselves in college settings. Unconsciously women keep orbiters and consciously. The guys that give advice are the guys we see that either were able to get status, looks, or something thats transactional to attain women and they share that advice and I kid you tf not 7 times out of ten they are right on the dot Especially about monkey branching and orbitin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:07 AM |
| 9 | The manosphere or redpill are things men observe in the dating market and NOT something men blindly believe.At 12 on paper it’s too young to date but thats the age where you start to develop crushes and thats around 6th grade middle school, where people dating in middle school? Yea. Do I think red pullers can grift? Of course but it doesn’t change the message at its core. And if those teens were watching andrew tate it proves to me 2 things Because of the internet red pill started to grow And Andrew rate sounded like he was from the Uk so I’m not surprised that most teens consumed his content. Andrea … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 03:02 AM |
| 2 | The RP concept of hypergamy is (a) incoherent pseudo-science and (b) does not line up with actual human behavior or genetics.Nah man it definitely is a real thing and let’s take for example we have a nuclear fall out and everything an everyone was wiped out if we as humans restarted do you really think women would choose weak men to pass in their genes? They would choose men with status looks competence. Or if 2 guys were both 2 out of 10 one was rich and one was unemployed who do you think would get a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:36 AM |
| 0 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.No thats not what my argument boils down to cause when men are against the idea of marriage women pushback against it saying he isn’t a real man or just saying things to challenge his masculinity. My issue is if they feel that way why arent more women just opting out of marriage why does it seem like when a guy is against marriage he gets more pushback from women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 01:33 PM |
| -15 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.There only partial truth to that, if marriage wasn’t an expectation men wouldn’t marry most men don’t care for marriage or arent against it but when men do say that they aren’t entirely wrong cause it’s usually men giving away half their assets or paying child support | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 01:31 PM |
| -5 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.Because there was a series called “who did I marry” and it was just a bunch of women making videos about how their husbands dont do anything around the house and don’t help and the video will have millions of likes and over 100 thousand comments agreeing with the woman why not just opt out of marriage if men benefit so much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 01:28 PM |
| -1 | Women can’t sit here and say that only men benefit in a marriage and still continue to marry them.I knew this comment would come like clock work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 01:22 PM |
| 2 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.No, I don’t think a lot of men would do that. If Sydney sweeney was selling bath water it would not sell out in every state of the United States. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/26 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Forget the pills. The views expressed here represent a specific internet culture and don't reflect real life.Nah I think the internet is representative of real life, a lot of people think these things they just haven’t found ways to express them or found groups that better align with their ideas, like pink pill, blue pill red pill, and black pill,(including religion )those are just internet saying to categorize you in what you believe how we interact with the world and people around us. And also because you can be anonymous i dont think what people say here are bullshit cause unless you’re getting paid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 05:26 PM |
| 11 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.Ngl it’s not men’s fault for thinking this, idk if you are familiar with an R&B artist named Chris brown but a year ago or 2 he was charging anything between $100-$1,000 for suggestive pictures with ‘fans’ and this motherfucker sold out in every state in the united states. No joke. He is the classic tall handsome light skin (black) guy with money and he sold out in every state just for an ass grab pic or something. That’s why I think it’s bullshit to say that caliber of men dont exist Im not bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 05:19 PM |
| 6 | You're just not that guy. Its ok. There's nothing wrong that.There are levels you can work on yourself and your max potential maybe someone at their lowest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | The courting process never ends for men.Ok so me and my gf or previous relationships, I think dates could be as normal as coffee dates but for me i like doing things that involve activities, now coffee dates are cool but my current gf doesn’t consider us watching Netflix together or something and me ordering food a date. I also like eating. But I feel like I spoil women too much cause sometimes they expect more and thats why I think the courting process never ends for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 01:14 PM |
| 0 | The courting process never ends for men.My issues isn’t doing those things it’s being reminded to do those things instead letting me actually do it, my message is being interpreted as “i dont like doing those things”i like doing those things I get her flowers randomly sent to her job. To me it felt selfish for her to mention what I’m not doing instead of what I am doing. And you can show that you care without going on dates most guys can take a woman on a date just to fuck her. Your first paragraph has nothing to do with the courting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 01:08 PM |
| 2 | The courting process never ends for men.Yea I really always at least go on a date with her twice a month and because I care I don’t always want it to be something boring, now we do eat together but ig she doesn’t consider those dates now recently I have been working a lot doing alot of paper work and we haven’t gone on a date in a month or until 2 days ago. But it pisses me off so much cause it’s like this is a thing I see that is reoccurring. She didn’t consider the nights we do spend together watching Netflix and me buying food date… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/26 12:59 PM |
| 5 | The courting process never ends for men.That’s what I’m already getting now I’m getting a lot of “ why should courting end? You don’t like doing things for your partner” just stupid shit like that when that’s not what I’m talking about courting in general is. Just an on going thing for men something women dont have to worry about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 07:09 PM |
| -3 | The courting process never ends for men.Yea I’m a man and I agree I love doing nice things but everyone has their limit like I love you but I’m not always gonna be planning dates just always being the courter and initiator | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 09:14 AM |
| 4 | The courting process never ends for men.I don’t mind going on dates some days I love planning them some days I just need a mental break from consistent courting especially when you actually give af about the dates because when I plan I think weeks or months before hand planning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 09:11 AM |
| -4 | The courting process never ends for men.Nah I would argue almost all women want romantic things based off of the books they read and popular tv shows and nothing is wrong with that but the courting process is just on going | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 09:09 AM |
| -4 | The courting process never ends for men.Of course I agree you should but courting never fucking ends for men, you’re always reminded of what you didn’t do instead of what you are doing. We as men just expect our women to be loyal while women expect you to do these list of things. Most women expect you to buy them flowers occasionally they expect you to plan dates when we don’t expect anything of them but loyalty. Now do I think doing those things for women are wrong no but the fact that it’s never ending and she always reminds you of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 09:07 AM |
| 2 | The courting process never ends for men.And this is another thing I hate if you aren’t their ideal type of guy you have to often over compensate and as soon as the areas you are overcompensating in starts to lack they bring it up to you. Like it’s never ending self improvement always doing something and you have to fit in this box of what a man is. Women say they don’t expect it but it’s such a fucking lie that I’m tired of hearing because everyone woman wants a masculine man and thats just and undeniable fact look at the type of men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/26 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Women have far too much of an in-group bias to ever have fair discourseYea I quickly realized this when I was younger and tried to date it started with my mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 10:16 AM |
| – | it’s depressing that money feels like the only way out .I used to be in a similar situation as op and words definitely do hurt you. People will eat at your confidence especially if you’re ugly lol. They will insult you and call it a joke and it chips away at you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 10:12 AM |
| 1 | ‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not genderedThat’s why you ask someone early on what do you see as laborious in your house see what their parents dynamic is I don’t expect someone to be perfectly perfect but there is no way this many men exist that are slobs that aren’t helping women especially house hold chores | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:46 PM |
| -2 | ‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not genderedI’m glad you mentioned these things, and currently me and my gf lives together overall my habits didn’t really change especially cleanliness do I expect perfection nah? But do I think your area should be clean when possible also yes. And I also do think it’s the same with men who stay with women who don’t reciprocate those things especially early on in the relationship they don do those things I think it is a partner selection issue/compatibility. So with the socks point, are women over inflatin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:43 PM |
| -1 | ‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not genderedThere are many signs though how clean he keeps his car, how well he keeps up with hair and teeth, how how neat his closet is those are like the things you can check and 8 times out of 10 he’s a type of guy to not burden you with labor. Not to mention ask the guy you’re speaking to what he sees as laborious around the house that’s my general solution or just be upfront about it like “hey I’m a very clean person and I would prefer my partner to be that way” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:38 PM |
| -5 | ‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not genderedAnd also to add on I went back The gendered domestic affordance perception hypothesis Could be true but there is really no basis for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:34 PM |
| -5 | ‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not genderedI just skim read it and it said that the divide in labor stayed the same as in women still did more, it still doesn’t prove it’s gendered because the results stayed the same. The dynamic exists in the first place because of partner selection because there definitely are men out there that are clean neat and can share household chores. It still doesn’t take into account childless homes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:29 PM |
| 0 | ‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not genderedThis also what I had an issue with too. I don’t believe in emotional labor and that may sound crazy but me and my significant other are 1 I feel what she feels I would never see her emotions or mines as labor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:25 PM |
| -1 | ‘emotional labor’ and ‘physical labor’ are more about partner selection and not genderedIt still doesn’t answer my question how come women are still even dealing with men like that or her even having kids with them? And my biggest gripe is how are chores a big issue when there are no kids involved | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/26 02:18 PM |
| 0 | Are current partners less loved than previous ones?That’s study is true, my take away from it though is that those type of men aren’t even precieved as human, whereas men get triggered at fat women I think that being ugly and fat and getting people triggered is a universal thing but I would argue atleast the guy sees the woman as human | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Crime can’t increase when everyone is poor, during the Great Depression you wanna know why crime didn’t increase? Because there wasn’t anything to steal because everyone is broke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I was, moderate before. I still kinda am. But women are most likely to be sexually assaulted, abused, etc. I tried to search into reason why this is the case and it all leads back to men just being violent I don’t hate men but I have opened my eyes to what women are saying. The women here said they don’t hate, and I agree I should have said disdain or dislike. But it doesn’t make my point any less valid. I used to be on the side of men all the time 24/7 no matter what now i actually see what wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I never said I hated my own gender, your mind was already made up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I tried to reach a middle ground. But you can’t reach a middle ground when almost all women in your life will be sexually assaulted at any age range even when they’re old. I have done extensive reasearch to prove women wrong. The only message I got was that women genuinely should be cautious and i wouldn’t blame them. Look at male prisons it’s genuinely terrible they rape each other and do all types of things. One thing you have to realize is that men dislike women because of arbitrary things li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Nah man, I used to be the red pilled, black pilled men are victimized by society guy I have switched over my beliefs because by volume women experience more weird shit from men and just being a man myself I know these things. And the rape part most would as I said my coworkers are hella misogynistic, and one of my coworkers are 43, dating a 23 year old. My gf dealt with creeps consistently in highschool at gas stations. Even at fucking work. I used to be the not all men do this weird shit type. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.So what are you asserting? You said even black men so I’m assuming if you had a bad experience with a black person I assumed it was crime based. So if crime isn’t correlated with poverty what is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.It’s not though it’s only one race that commits the most violent crimes and mess with little girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.This should be common sense really, because in prison men rape each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:06 AM |
| 7 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Men definitely are. And when I explain this to guys they don’t get it. Men say all the time that they keep a level of respect with each other because the threat of violence and that’s the fear right there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I’m not for misandry, but something that made me understand it more was the fact that for women at any age of their life men can over power them. They will guarantee be sexually assaulted by men at any age. So they turn misandrist. Having these tough conversations with very important women in my life changed my beliefs. If you had a daughter or sister right now come up to you and tell you that some grown man touched their ass at a party or told her some inappropriate shit you’re not gonna say, ‘… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Dude, how can you say I need to adopt a more nuanced view when you just said certain skin colors act more violently than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.You still have yet to prove crime is correlated with race | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Well yea because everyone was broke as shit, in a country with huge wealth disparities poor people are gonna commit crime, you have to prove to me that crime correlates with race or I’m just gonna assume you’re a moron. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I agree with everything you’re saying. I hope all goes well for you brother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:32 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.It was by a man, nowadays I think about it here and there makes me angry but I let go of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Things like this happen to women all the time, I’m a man and me and you both know that’s this is bullshit not many men get SA by women but by other men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Minorities don’t commit majority amount of crime tho, if I told you what race you might just fall to your knees and cry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I used to be black pilled, I left it’s belief and the black pill isn’t completely invalid cause it something’s I still follow like keeping up my appearances and determinism, but it can become to a point where it’s over amplified. And that’s what the black pill became to me it was too much extremism determism and racism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I’m judging based off statistics, women are more likely to be sexually assaulted it’s 1 in 4 or 1 in 3 vs men it was like 1 in 5 or 1 in 10 mind you now these stats are underreported on both sides women would be much higher I would put women at about 1 in 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Nah i wouldn’t because skin color has nothing to do with violence, women get sexually assaulted across every religion. Even Christianity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:57 PM |
| 9 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Thank you for telling the truth brother. It takes alot of self reflection to admit this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Yes I definitely did. And my gf is curvy and she’s beautiful the cat calling from grown ass men been happening to her for so long it drives me nuts. Like for women it’s consistent. But I get you cause hearing a woman saying how much they loath men can be heart breaking but women be getting their asses grabbed at parties especially headphone parties and it’s just shit like that. That makes them think all men. My only solution to stop these things is to just keep talking about it. It’s gonna ruffl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.So what specifically am I picking and choosing or who can you please explain more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Very true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.If it’s not then it’s not it is what it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Most crime is caused because of poverty, you need to do your research. But at the same time crime isn’t also correlated with race either so I don’t get what you’re trying to get at | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.To be carful yea but if you did i would understand especially if it’s repeated assult from women. For women it’s repeated it’s a guarantee it will happen at any age range for them. For men at age 13 and up you are already stronger than your mom and women of that age group so you won’t really take shit like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.The world is becoming more dangerous, I agree I don’t think we should be super isolated but women definitely should be cautious. And I’m not picking an choosing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Hate this argument because crime is based on poverty and not race where as women get sa by men of all religions and cultures | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.This is true, and I live by this. I just choose to not make them uncomfortable and interact as friendly as possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Very true. Take for example my mom is 4’11 and I’m 6’2, I used to hate when she was overly protective of us like in an anxiety attached kind of way. Now 50% was being a mother and the other half was her just being small and knowing the danger we could face. My mom was never taught to hate men but it was learned behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I should have said dislike or caution not hate. But I understand your point. A lot of men don’t change their beliefs like me because they are willingly ignorant to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.It’s mainly because I was SA younger and didn’t know what it was so I thought stuff like that happens to every man but getting older maturing and getting a gf and having sisters changed a lot of my beliefs. And a lot of it was just willingful ignorance. And to be clear men can be SA too but as I got older it never happened again because I can defend myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Yea, I agree, I shouldn’t have used hate but I should have used dislike. Or disdain. But yes I’m sorry it happened to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I agree it’s just as a man i didn’t understand the passive fear and we as men often underestimate how intimidating we can be by volume | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Nah I think everyone is spinning my narritive, I don’t think generalizations are ok. But I think that women being wary of their saftey is valid. I just think that men often underestimate how intimidating we can be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 04:35 PM |
| 8 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.This is very true every man for a fact knows a guy that’s a straight up creep even if it’s a co worker damn near all my male coworkers are mysoginistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.This is just not true all the time but thats a discussion that’s different, I don’t think all men are bad I think that their saftey and concerns are definitely a must. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I don’t think it’s just a few though I think it’s more than how many ever normal man. Have casual talk with a normal guy it’s either he has a mysoginistic belief, or is normal but still resent women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:36 PM |
| 6 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.Nah, I think it’s valid because all women at one point in their lives will experience it, it’s a guarantee they will. And statics show this. I see the message you’re trying to get at but stats don’t show violaence or SA has anything to do with race, ethnicity, or religion. Women’s fear comes from repeated scenarios of the same situations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Women’s concern for men, or passive fear of men is valid.I’m saying that, women report SA more than men, but the thing is both men and women under report SA. So I was essentially saying that if both men and women started reporting more SA at the same time women would still get SA more than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.That was a general rule for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 05:09 PM |
| -4 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Yea I believe everyone faces pressures men just care less and a lot of women say this “if men cared about their appearance more then [insert what ever] “I wish we could live as cafe free as men” My main point is men definitely face pressure and social norms but it’s doesn’t consume men as much as it does women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.I meant just social norms picking up ques, dating stuff like that. I get what you’re saying because humans definitely have a herd mentality when it comes to following trends and stuff like that, men do act that way I can admit that but I don’t think it’s as often and it’s just less often when we are older I see this a lot with teenage guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Men didn’t have to conform to social norms as much though, a lot of men being exiled was due to them being born with deformities look at Ancient Rome or early Europe men got exiled for being born deformed not reading social ques | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 04:59 PM |
| -1 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.The thing is, a lot of people do this. A famous person wears something everyone else does it. Haircuts videos games and movies aren’t all like a trendy thing with men it’s different niches. I can say though that if a video game is trendy then it’s usually good and not something men are forced to play. Now haircuts you got me there 😂🤣🤣, cause I am guilty of getting a hair cut or hair style another guy had but mainly because I thought it looked good and not cause everyone else was doing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.this could actually be true, cause my sisters were raised this way. And I think that a lot of people are lonely not just men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.I see what you’re trying to say, but making everyone uncomfortable isn’t a trait apart of socializing and complying with social norms. The manosphere is a group think but it’s just a group of men sharing their experiences really and you aren’t really obligated to join a manosphere it’s completely optional where as with women there will always be an social expectation when meeting with a woman casually or non casually. I do agree with the little portion It could have been genetics for women to na… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 04:42 PM |
| -2 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Men often don’t put up with bitchy women though, generally the only time men put up with bitchy women is if she is giving him sex and still loving him a man will leave when there are more cons than pros and usually it takes a lot for a man to really leave because the courting process can get tiresome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 04:36 PM |
| 3 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.No, I’m a man myself and I think the ability to not care is a good thing and bad thing because you’re not confined to social norms. But in a society where you have guaranteed survival as in you don’t have to hunt for food or any bs like that the only thing peoole would have to adapt to is social ques and that can very with each individual depending on child hood and genetics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 04:34 PM |
| -2 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.I think men also follow crowds but it’s just less common with grown men. With the women I have been around all my life it becomes more prevalent especially in social settings. It’s common for men to just not give a fuck and make everyone uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 04:26 PM |
| – | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.No she’s not ok with it, why would I be jealous when I can do the same it’s just that I don’t want women touching her inappropriately without her consent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:19 PM |
| 2 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.I thought I would be that type of bf but after it happened so many times and he expressing how uncomfortable it is for her it starts to irritate me and piss me off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Bro you are literally lgbtq bro. And I’m not talking about no hugs, I’m talking about actual grabbing her ass slapping her ass women putting their hands too low to touch her vagina. Giving wedgies and kicking shins isn’t the norm I wrestled with my friends but never grabed their drawls bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.I hate debators like you. You just minimize every issue that goes against women. It’s just fucking irritating. And many people like you exist IRL. Minimize every issue that people have with women. Then you say that’s her fault. But it’s totally fine to be non confrontational it’s totally normal in the world to have people like that. Most women are non confrontational but you minimizing it to her own“inability” instead of saying that they should just ask you aren’t debating in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:50 PM |
| -9 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Where have you seen guys get drunk and start making out with eachother or start grabbing their asses under the impression they are hyping their friends up. At first I was the yea you know that’s what girls do typa bf but then it started to happen more and more even with gay women as hyping her up but really they are sexually advancing on her. And because it’s so normalized it’s consistent. And the main issues is because being in women spaces you as a woman have to confirm to the stuff they do to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:44 PM |
| 3 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Thank you, they can mask what they truly feel behind being a woman. 2 gay girls touched my woman inappropriately you don’t even understand it pisses me off because it happens with ‘straight’ women too. It’s just like they don’t understand to keep their hands to themselves either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:40 PM |
| 3 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Bro I can’t read your mind and I know not to touch you. That’s acting fucking dense please for the love of god. If you meet anyone automatically you make sure to consent to most things you do because you don’t know their comfortability. For example when you see someone if they go for a hug you hug them. If they go for a handshake that’s what you do. you don’t just randomly touch people in the name of hyping them up. You ask “hey are you ok if I touch you in this way” they either say yes or no th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Not even saying that, but you can say what ever tf you want because talking to you is like talking to a wall. Nor did I say it was anyone’s responsibility. Asking is just basic fucking human respect it shouldn’t be tension for her to ask other women to stop fucking touching her that should be the default. You are so incredibly ignorant that I may just have to block you because you’re being disingenuous and you do this a lot within this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Oh yea and happy thanks giving 🦃 eat good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:00 PM |
| 2 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Happy thanksgiving too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:58 PM |
| 2 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Happy thanks giving 🦃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:58 PM |
| 3 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.This argument can apply to a lot of things but I will Just leave you in your own ignorance, and happy thanks giving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:56 PM |
| 0 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.You’re being disingenuous, you can keep rambling though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:50 PM |
| 3 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.So asking for consent is expecting more? She’s not the only woman that delt with this though I gauntree a lot of women delt with this by volume because women hang with each other way more than men and it’s easier for them to mask sexual advances as “hyping her up” Maybe you should stop being individualist and care for others or maybe hold your home girls accountable that’s what it looks like to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:50 PM |
| 0 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.So asking for consent is too much to ask? That’s really telling of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:47 PM |
| 2 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Because not everyone is confrontational, and people that are like that need other people to give them that push. And as I said before it’s so normalized because she’s a woman she feels obligated to it. Even if she wants to speak up about it. But that’s just women that deal with those situations. And also it’s just basic fucking respect to ask? She shouldn’t have to be confrontational they should just fucking ask it’s not that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:44 PM |
| 0 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.She didn’t because she is a girls girl and she is very timid and non confrontational and there is nothing wrong with that. Do i expect other women to say don’t do that she not gay? Hell fucking yes because it will help her speak up for herself. And not have to feel so tied in with a sister hood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:42 PM |
| -10 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.No don’t try to project because men don’t do shit like this with each other when they are hanging out. And it makes me angry because it does make her uncomfortable and because they are women they don’t see that so I made that comparison. It’s just annoying as fuck ASK for consent if I really wanted to slap an ass all day I would slap my significant others it’s not that I’m fucking jealous are we dead ass right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:39 PM |
| 2 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Now I’m jealous I’m done debating your ass. So what about the respect of fucking asking? Does that not matter to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:35 PM |
| 2 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Nah accountability should definitely be held as women would expect from men don’t change nothing I said bro. She didn’t she tells me that when they do it she feels very awkward and she’s silent about it because they are ”girls” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:34 PM |
| 6 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Dude whenever she tells me this stuff it makes me hate the sisterhood more because they are genuinely just as creepy as they call men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:32 PM |
| 2 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.EXACTLY MY POINT. Always ask because she is not the only woman that has had this issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:32 PM |
| 3 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Oh now it’s not your issue. Then you shouldn’t have said anything it’s a debate sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Not even just her friends it could be random ass women that do it too that was my point so many women do this shit that it’s normal. And it is very hard for her because she is really timid and non confrontational so if “oh she slapped my ass I don’t like it but she’s a girl she’s ok” that’s NOT ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:30 PM |
| 2 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Bottom line is you should ask, “are you ok with me doing so and so” she either says yes or no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:28 PM |
| 2 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.No that’s not even what I’m saying, it’s the fact that women do it so fucking much that y’all forgot to ask first that’s literally SA if you didn’t ask and she said nothing don’t touch. And ofc I feel passionately about this because my woman is curvy so it happens to her from time to time and she doesn’t like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:27 PM |
| 2 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.That’s the problem it’s hard to do that on spaces with women because you have to conform to all the weird shit they do because they are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:24 PM |
| 4 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.And it’s just bare minimum respect ask first women just do the shit and assume everyone is ok with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:23 PM |
| 4 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.No cause my gf is uncomfortable with it and other women are as well but they will confirm with the sisterhood to make it seem like that behavior is ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:21 PM |
| 0 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.Honestly it pisses me off. So much and my gf is a “girls girl” so when they do this weird shit to her she has a hard time saying something about it. But later she will call me and tell me and it pisses me off super badly. And she’s not the only one that experienced this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:20 PM |
| 6 | women normalize touching on other women without consent and not holding that woman accountable.I live in the USA whenever women are partying and hanging out or dancing or whatever they will occasionally slaps the girl ass or just touch on her and call it “hyping her up” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Being evil is not a factor when it comes to not being able to find a girlfriendI’m surprised anyone still argues this anything that has to do with personality in dating is cope. I joined this sub to escape the black pill and red pill echo chamber but I end up becoming more black pilled. Some random woman said I was a woman larping as a man even though I was trying to argue aginst men it’s really fuck women now I tried to escape the thinking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 02:41 AM |
| – | Men have massive egos and because of this it clouds their judgment on dating dynamics.No not even joking I am a man I am just more open to more povs my next post should be about bashing women then since you think I’m one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 12:21 AM |
| – | Men have massive egos and because of this it clouds their judgment on dating dynamics.I agree, but when I say policing I mean it as a man trying to control what his woman wears or how she react to men speaking to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 10:32 PM |
| 4 | Women are obligated to “fix” male loneliness by dating/sleeping with lonely men.Holy shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.Did your mom love him, and did your father fit a standard of beauty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.But majority of marriages are failing and marriages are declining, the rates have been declining since the 20th century. It’s been a 54% drop since 1900 to today. And that’s the thing replacing obligations with paid services makes connections feel disposable. Now I think being able to door dash and grocery shop offline is good because some people don’t have the ability to drive or walk. And your last part I really agree it actually can suck keeping close ties with people you hate. But is everyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:58 PM |
| 2 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.Actually I agree with this, and I think that finding meaning is hard and sometimes having people that relates to you can help you with that. But I think as time goes on there is starting to be no community kids are being socialized less. They aren’t reading at their reading level. (I think this has more to do with phonics being taken out of the curriculum) but for the socializing part yes kids aren’t really socializing that much. And it could just be me. I could just be over exaggerating but I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.If you don’t mind me asking what’s the dynamic between your mom and dad and where is she from? I really wanna know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:39 PM |
| 0 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.That’s a very good point, but my question is why are so many people in the west struggling culturally? I’m curious on your thoughts on that. Everyone seems standoffish and most marriages fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.I think women and men are struggling culturally and financially | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:41 PM |
| 0 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.I agree, I don’t think collectivism is a good ideal. But even in the west were freedom of choice is exouraged people still fall victim to collectivism and traditional gender norms. And because of this men and women are very lonely and bitter towards one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:39 PM |
| 2 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.Yea, and I think most of that comes from extreme famine historically and exploitation. That’s not to say it’s ideal but I do think overall it’s not that bad or it’s alright. Cause to some degree peoole in the west have freedom of choice but not really it still depends if that man or woman checks all their boxes and fit the ideal partner and that’s if the partner is oblivious enough to not know that the other partner is not attracted to them or using them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.Yea, I don’t believe in arranged marriages, and I think you wouldn’t want to trade places with them mainly because you’re born in a different culture. People in Japan or other places wouldn’t consider western culture and ideal if you get what I mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:34 PM |
| 1 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.Yea I agree, I don’t think collectivist ideals are theee go to but I do believe that they could bring better community and help with dating and loneliness between men and women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:31 PM |
| 0 | The individualistic culture in the west is why dating is very bad.This post wasn’t targeted at men specifically. But both I think the west lacks community both men and women are struggling but I am interested to hear your thoughts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Yea, I can imagine being neurodivergent can affect a lot. More than some people realize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Nah, I was a late bloomer. I didn’t really started growing growing until freshman year college and i actually started getting taller around my sophomore year and growing facial hair my junior year. Yea happiness is the point, I would have been happy to atleast been chosen some people don’t get chosen at all. No problem though I just had to grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Because I feel as if getting a job and getting a date both are a coin toss but you will eventually find a job. Most people don’t find dates peoole die alone. I don’t want to die alone truly. And the job tracking yea it can be pretty rough but with jobs eventually you will get one I feel like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Thanks it truly means a lot. I still am recovering and trying to deconstruct. Some of the times I got rejected was humiliating. It was not all the time but the one that really destroyed me was I was trying to talk to this woman and her friends were laughing and she was too so I had assumed yk maybe she is shy or nervous. It wasn’t like a hysterical laugh but like a giggle. But long story short we talked for a bit and it fell off I tried to make plans but it didn’t work out. I saw her friends on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Yea it doesn’t. For some men like me it was constant not just once or twice a month every get together party every social event I genuinely just stopped trying but ended up finding the woman I truly do love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.I did at one point in my life I stopped dating for like years I think like 4 years. that was before I was ‘putting myself out there’ ya know that stuff. I eventually found a woman after all the self improvement and maturing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.But i love reading your comments they are very therapeutic man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:22 PM |
| 4 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.For me I found the love of my life I plan on marrying her on thanksgiving (I’m excited). But for me back then I got rejected a lot worked on myself then find my gf. But this was just my speculation after trying to improve people would tell me “just keep putting yourself out there” and it really didn’t work for years I just gave up and found my soon to be fiancé. And being a man it’s expected for you to just break the ice ya know? So I faced a lot of rejection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.If the post was titled “ rich people say it’s ok to lose money it’s apart of life, but I don’t think they are poor enough to understand it” ^ if it was titled like that most people would agree But since it’s titled [insert title] you act like you can’t apply rational thought to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Can you further elaborate on what it cost you? Just want to know everyone’s perspective. And a lot of bitter people do that. So I can understand that it can be fustrating some time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.No because I understood what the other guy said but you called it rambling, if your not gonna engage intellectually then don’t say nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.You are just a very strong woman honestly I don’t know too many women like you irl that would ask out a lot of men. Truly so I feel like you understand, but calling it whining I wouldn’t agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:14 PM |
| 4 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Could you elaborate I really want to understand you more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.I agree, I just feel as though women don’t empathize with it as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.What do you find demoralizing about it I’m open to understand and see? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.I agree women are humans. But I also agree women and men experience life differently . Was there not one man interested in you? Are you nuerodivergent? What did you think caused you to get rejected so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Yea, but after a while if a job rejects me it doesn’t really bother me. In dating it’s different though for most people. The rejection is accumulative most times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.LMAOOOO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Yea, I have been and it hurts like hell. But I’m saying that in dating women experience it less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Honestly you’re not debating in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:04 PM |
| 9 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.That’s actually amazing and it took a lot of will power to keep going. I’m glad it worked out for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Yea i eventually found the love of my life. So mainly what I say here is from speculation from being around people in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Yea I agree with you. It’s just that atleast they get chosen some men don’t get chosen at all. (Anecdotal) me I was fat I wasn’t there in the look category and I was shorter. I didn’t get chosen at all but I was encouraged to approach more women maybe it will happen after the accumulative rejections I decided to stay lonely and work on myself. I got taller and became more lean and I wasn’t as lonely anymore. Women that are chosen last per se are at the least chosen and they can also enhance thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.I agree with the second part. Cause I’m not a woman. But just from an humanitarian standpoint of who has it worse I feel like it isn’t that complex to answer. Most of the times men just want acknowledgement and empathy from women. Like for example I can never understand pregnancy or you guys hormonal imbalances but just from a human to human standpoint I can empathize with what women go through if that makes any sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.I agree, with 95% of what you’re saying. I do want to discuss the whole being chosen as “last” could you elaborate more on that? Because I think that men don’t have universal taste in women so the one that’s chosen “last” per say I would say that maybe they weren’t chosen last but more so niche men are her type. And the first bit also I could agree to disagree that women understand how demoralizing it is, but for men rejection is more so accumulative based on what attributes you have. That’s the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.That’s what’s this sub is about, but I am interested to hear what you feel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Bi sexual men/women are way easier to date.So would you say dating bi women is easier and dating bi men is harder? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Bi sexual men/women are way easier to date.Yea bruh bi people more interesting to talk to cause y’all don’t fit into one box which is good because I have multiple interests | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Bi sexual men/women are way easier to date.Oh my god. I’m sorry that stuff happened. Ive noticed that when men identify as bi sexual it’s really a stigma around them that’s bi peoole in general but it’s really bad for men. That’s not excusing his actions cause he a bum ass dude, but I’m glad you responded I was just curious. I wanted to make a post about infidelity and looks but I know the mods wouldn’t allow it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 11:35 PM |
| 0 | If you could guarantee up to three personality traits in your future partner, what would they be?Bro your comments be bangers cause I agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are notYo i actually agree with this a lot of men do this and they don’t realize that they are the losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Bi sexual men/women are way easier to date.If you don’t mind me asking are you bi sexual? And if you are do you think you find women more interesting cause you lean toward to more the feminine side or is it just by experience I am interested in knowing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Bi sexual men/women are way easier to date.Fr? Can you further explain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 11:07 PM |
| 9 | Women tend to be all about mental health awareness, yet practice a zero tolerance policy for socially awkward menHoly shit that’s brutal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.Everyone has a biological clock lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | It’s a good thing that women are so selective sometimesYea I get your argument and I did acknowledge that there are cheating women. But I was debating that since women find less men attractive they are tempted less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Men should increase thier standards and be ready to be single if they dont get what they want.You know the problem with western men. You guys want sex way too much. His suggestion worked for countries in asia. Women there are critical of each other gettinf fat because men would die alone rather than be with a fat woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 12:06 PM |
| 1 | It’s a good thing that women are so selective sometimesNo one was arguing morality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 12:03 PM |
| 1 | It’s a good thing that women are so selective sometimesI wasn’t arguing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 11:28 PM |
| 1 | It’s a good thing that women are so selective sometimesNah I think they will be more tempted if they found more men attractive. For your second question nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 08:53 PM |
| – | Why do women take offense from men asking about their past?Your first sentence is proof that most men won’t do it demeaningly in front of their face. you don’t know anyone that wouldn’t date a woman based off their past. This is also true for most men too it just depends on the age range. If you’re in your thirthes I wouldn’t expect most men to worry about her past unless he doesn’t have a past himself. That is what I find interesting because for me I wouldn’t care about body count or straight up ask “what’s ur Ermm past” at the age of 30 and up. Let al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Why do women take offense from men asking about their past?So genuinely asking, the example you gave when have you ever heard anyone ever call a woman a slut up front to her face. Usually 2 of the things happen a man usually just ghost the woman or just tells her he can’t date her because of her past. There were probably men that did say “eww your a slut not wife material” but that’s a minority vs the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do women take offense from men asking about their past?Bro usually in a situation where a guy is asking just two normal people it’s the first one. I usually see the second one online but I never see it play out IRL. But the first one for me personally I wouldn’t take offense even on the second one genuinely because I enjoy watching anime. But in the first scenario when a man straight up tells a woman she genuinely feels insulted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do women take offense from men asking about their past?Yea you’re fine, because most of your sex was relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 01:37 AM |
| – | CMV: Struggling men should focus on making life unfair for others, especially political and social enemiesIt’s already happening bro look at elon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 05:39 PM |
| – | Progressives or blue pill people ironically blame the male loneliness epidemic women when it comes to shaming single men.Ur saying leave them alone as if I even waste my breath to speak to one. Ok Mr captain save a hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 01:15 AM |
| – | Progressives or blue pill people ironically blame the male loneliness epidemic women when it comes to shaming single men.I don’t want to cause harm to them. Every time a woman speaks I genuinely get annoyed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Progressives or blue pill people ironically blame the male loneliness epidemic women when it comes to shaming single men.You don’t understand the deep hate I have for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 12:06 AM |
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