Sufficient_Tone9314 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	The treatment for divorce that worked for me An amazing post, very thoughtful and to the point. I think it may help to add to figure out the cause(s) of divorce. Look inward on the personal things that contributed not just blame the other person. Are their similar dating patterns? Usually it can help reveal where we need to heal and love ourselves.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 05:57 AM
2	Getting divorced, concerned about my children and need input. As a woman, I can’t speak for why she is acting this way. It could be she wants help with chores, she feels unappreciated, or if there is someone else, or she’s realized she’s XX years old and hasn’t accomplished in life what she wants. What I can say is the Let Them theory. She mentions divorce, « okay if that’s what you want » with no emotional reaction. You could say you would like to stay together, if she ever wants to work together to fix it and leave it at that. Either she will come around…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/11/25 04:31 AM
1	I’m leaving work early tonight to go home and tell my wife I want a divorce. I’m sorry to hear that, but I’m glad you found clarity. What makes you feel like there are financial things that she is hiding? I guess from the outside looking in she might feel scared that she may not have a place to live or be able to afford to buy? Or maybe the house is sentimental to her?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/10/25 05:49 AM
2	I’m leaving work early tonight to go home and tell my wife I want a divorce. Thank you, I really appreciate your reply. I wish they allowed men to comment too. I’m here on this sub to get a males perspective and comment positive suggestions if it’s helpful. You’re right, accepting that divorce is a possibility and that I would be okay is essential. For me, there’s more than just him feeling like we are roommates, but to be brief he’s not committed to being transparent about important things, he wants a one-sided marriage where he benefits without the responsibilities. Ag…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/10/25 10:02 PM
2	I’m leaving work early tonight to go home and tell my wife I want a divorce. OP im sorry you are feeling this way. I’m debating to as well because I’ve brought issues and I get grilled for it. He says he sees me as a roommate but won’t make the effort to fix it. In my situation I feel like he is financially using me as I do work. I wish my husband would give me the options of date night and counseling. It’s probably too late, but as a woman the approach may have been better if it was something like “I feel like we are roommates and I can’t live like this anymore. We have…	/r/Divorce_Men	15/10/25 05:49 PM
1	How to be the Other Man? I’m sorry for what you’re going thru. There are women out there who just want to love and be loved. I think when you’ve healed it will feel different.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/10/25 10:17 PM
11	Ex wife pregnant with new boyfriend She divorced you against your will? So you were trying to keep her married to you against her will? If your family is thinking that she wanted another baby and you knew that and didn’t want another baby, she is supposed to sacrifice her wants so you can have your wants? Respectfully it sounds like you didn’t see her as an equal. Your wants and wishes and “will” came before hers. She waited awhile to be in a relationship, she wasn’t pregnant while she left you. It’s not unreasonable for her to da…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/25 07:21 PM
5	Divorce Woman Effects on Married Women I wish the only issue I had was my husband golfing and gaining weight. I’d just take up golfing and call it a day. I’m struggling to get divorced or at least separate when I know I need to and hearing people say they are leaving because they are bored just kills me.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/25 02:56 PM