Sufyries Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Being a bisexual Male has given me insight into what it's like to be a woman	Removed: Off-Topic	Sufyries	/r/seduction	24/05/21 01:25 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	It doesn't matter what you talk about I appreciate you're trying to help other dudes but it isn't the best advice. If you come up to girls and talk about how rich and successful you are it comes off as tryhard and you're qualifying yourself too much. They're thinking to themselves "What does this guy have to prove? Is he compensating for something?" It's the eternal rule: Show, don't tell. Keep the attention on the girl rather than on yourself.	/r/seduction	17/04/18 12:00 AM
1	It doesn't matter what you talk about It's because you're qualifying yourself so much, why do you feel the need to explain to women (and strangers on the internet) how successful you are? In the eternal words of Tywin Lannister: "Any man who must say 'I am the King' is no true king"	/r/seduction	16/04/18 11:33 PM
1	It doesn't matter what you talk about This approach reeks of insecurity, but if you're following rules 1 and 2 well enough they will probably overlook it	/r/seduction	16/04/18 09:25 PM
72	My 2-year journey from socially anxious nerd to losing my virginity this weekend. Thank you guys for all of your tips. /r/prematurecelebration	/r/seduction	16/04/18 05:16 PM
1	how do you make tinder/bumble work for you as a virgin? If being a virgin is eating away at you, fuck a prostitute. The baggage you're carrying as a virgin (insecurity, fear, neediness) is going to be palpable for the women you are trying to seduce. Attempting to seduce/date girls when you're insecure as a virgin is like trying to swim with a 100lb weight vest on you. Just drop the weights, either by accepting the fact that being a virgin isn't a big deal, or losing it by a prostitute, because I guarantee you that attempting to lose it by thinking th…	/r/seduction	09/04/18 10:26 PM
2	Do hot women get rejected ? The inexperience of the sub is really bleeding through here. The dudes that claim hot women NEVER get rejected for sex are being hilarious. It's pretty much.... "I would never reject a hot girl coming onto me, and every dude thinks the same way I do, ergo, hot chicks never get rejected for sex!"	/r/seduction	09/04/18 10:23 PM
5	Do hot women get rejected ? I think the term "alpha" has too much baggage and has been poisoned as such. It also focuses on comparison, which is the thief of happiness. Being an "alpha" implies that there are "betas". Do you see James Bond talking about Beta men? No. Because the most high quality men don't compare themselves to others. Confident and decisive gets the message across much better, with none of the baggage.	/r/seduction	09/04/18 10:19 PM
3	Do hot women get rejected ? Yes. I have rejected hot girls because they were teenage moms and some men do not want to associate with that emotional baggage (and the crazy factor may be too high to bear). Also you seriously need to consider mental health of the girl. If she has Borderline Personality Disorder, I don't give a fuck if she's the hottest girl on the planet, fucking run Looks aren't everything, and men that fixate on looks way too much have the wrong mindset	/r/seduction	09/04/18 10:15 PM
5	If men flirted like birds What the hell happened to this sub?	/r/seduction	06/04/18 07:58 AM
2	How do I become a silent strong stranger and not a creepy loner? Pretend it's like your first day in school, and everyone's out getting to know each other. Just go up to a group and talk. Compliment people, give value. A great podcast on value: https://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/aoc-value-toolbox-identifying-low-value-behaviors-episode-693/	/r/seduction	04/04/18 09:45 PM
2	College is turning out... miserable! It matters, until it doesn't. Really the biggest plus for working out is the confidence boost. Inner mentality trumps all else in the game. This guy doesn't have the right mindset, and no toned body can save you from that.	/r/seduction	04/04/18 08:52 AM
2	Zero to hero - my tinder advice Height matters.... until it doesn't	/r/seduction	03/04/18 01:54 PM
1	How do you overcome the (1) Fear of bothering her (2) Fear of what other people think If you truly love yourself and see yourself as someone who is good company to be around, you shouldn't feel like you're bothering her. Be humble and check yourself (we don't need more narcissists in this world), but see your presence to other people as a gift. You're providing value just by being a good person (pro-tip: only works if you actually behave like a cool, good person). Also, to be blunt, dudes don't just intrinsically add value to girls by having a penis. There are some dudes (ex. nic…	/r/seduction	03/04/18 12:12 AM
42	Any guys successful on tinder mind sharing their profile with us? Not my profile but this article explains how important photos are and what yours should look like. http://www.tinderseduction.com/best-tinder-pictures-for-more-profile-matches/	/r/seduction	02/04/18 01:11 PM