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| 1 | Question, what’s one or two things you’ve done to massively change your dating game?If you don’t already: Start lifting weights | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 01:58 AM |
| 3 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.Respond on Tuesday: “damn, just saw this booty call” and then you ignore her | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 04:56 PM |
| 2 | What is the general rule for women with boyfriends?From my experience: If it's a BF/fiance/husband that I know...forget it. If it's a BF that I don't know....our 'relationship' is going to last one night. If it's a fiance I don't know...our 'relationship' is going to last one night. If she's married and tells you her husband is 'cool' with it, one night 'relationship' If you're on vacation in Mexico and your 'relationship' happens at the pool during the day and you later discover she's on her honeymoon....switch hotels. | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How to slide into a girls dms?I've also just thought it was for attention/increase #'s because they think that one day they'll be able to get one of those Jenner $250K Fyre Fest posts. | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Body languageLimp handshakes are for weak men and communists. | /r/seduction | 13/01/19 02:59 PM |
| 11 | Is it wrong to hit up women on 23andme?Haha, yeah. I’ve seen too many movies | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 06:08 PM |
| 99 | Is it wrong to hit up women on 23andme?23andme opens a lot of unlocked doors... ChrisitanSingles, AA, NA, the Battered Women's shelter... You'd be the Apollo 13 of dating... | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 04:56 PM |
| 12 | My ATTRACTION MANIFESTO : What I've learned in 7 years. From an introvert CEREBRAL guy who went deep down the rabbit whole.With grooming, clothes, styling, diet and exercise there is a tremendous amount we can do to bolster our attraction to others... but really the most important part of this is to take steps that makes us feel better about how we look and feel. That's the real key to attraction: To look in the mirror and see the handsome, charming, confident, intelligent, witty, romantic man who makes unsuspecting women unexpectedly soaking wet when they see us the first time. Yeah, this. Maybe do all of the super… | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?In my experience, I think it's more normal than not.... Well, maybe the food part is a bit less normal; it's usually just drinks or something. Everyone's different but I'd say most women are going to feel more comfortable meeting in public first before you or her just go into some random stranger's place. Not saying that it doesn't happen but it's probably the least likely to happen. I think what the roommates are saying is that most guys on Tinder are asking for exactly that, no meeting prior, … | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Best content I've seen on how to express excitement without coming off as needythe briefest of summaries: be genuine, be yourself. We think we have to be smooth or "trick" them but women generally know when they're being hit on so we're not "fooling" them into liking us and we don't really have to. (they're people too. you tell them their sweater is nice, it makes them feel good, just like it'd make you feel good if someone said it to you) They're attracted to confidence, especially in yourself. An example would be cheesy pick up lines. I can get away with saying them beca… | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 01:22 PM |
| 3 | What To Say After "Hey" - a step-by-step daygame guide for newbiesI think it's good to pick something that isn't a general compliment about them, like "you're cute", but is a compliment specific to them at that moment. So something like "those shoes/that dress look good on you". "that's a cool necklace/bracelet, I like silver/gold more than silver/gold so good choice" Or if you're going to say "you're cute", pick something random/innocuous but specific. "your hands/hair/ears are cute" (I've learned A LOT of girls REALLY, REALLY like hands and check them out on… | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 02:22 PM |
| 4 | 53 years old...out of the game for years: is it all over?There are lots of people (including women) in the same situation so, no, I dont think it's all over. Will it be more difficult to get with 20-30 year olds? Definitely. 40-50 year olds? Probably a lot easier than you think. It sounds like you have your wife's permission to go outside the marriage and find that ONE need she isnt providing? If so, be honest with people and go for it. | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 12:55 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl smiles + stares while walking past you ? (19 M )For sure. I generally avoid using terms like that...babe, sweetie, honey, etc. They feel slightly demeaning/creepy and I'm not so sure women like them coming from strangers. That's just my policy though, I'm sure there are girls out there that like them. *That said, I did have a girl recently say "Hey, handsome.." and swoon. So I could very well be an idiot. | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl smiles + stares while walking past you ? (19 M )I can see it working. Especially if "babe" is dropped. It'd be all in the delivery. Cheeky response to a cheeky smile. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:21 PM |
| 18 | What to do when other guys start trying to dance with the girl youre dancing with and shes open to it?The walk away is a very underrated move in all interractions. Let's her know a number of things in one fell shot. You're not desperate. You're the prize, not her. She made out with 2 other guys but you left with her and made out with her, isnt that proof enough?? She sounds like someone that could possibly key your car so proceed with caution. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 01:04 PM |
| 5 | 7 Mistakes Guys Make in Bed (And How to Fix Them)Yeah, early on there are lots of reasons really. Not getting it on the reg, etc. Though I doubt a woman isn't 100% happy with it, she's probably used to it. You just better get that tongue loosened up and be ready for round 2 and 3. As lame as it sounds, sex usually does get better the more you do it with the same person, until that one day it gets boring, haha | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Instagram can help your Dating LifeSure there is: NSFW *I've also won 2 vinyl boxsets and free tix to a concert just by making a stupid comment on a record stores post and band's post. | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Instagram can help your Dating LifeScrew Facebook, keep the account, continue to do nothing. I'd say you dont even NEED Snapchat either but it doesnt hurt just to have an account, a lot of people like to chat through it nowadays... But I agree that Instagram is really key. They get a snapshot of you, your interests, what you find funny, where you're hanging out, cooking, etc. a million things really. Plus, IG is actually kind of cool, I'd say it's the only social media most people actually enjoy... | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 01:34 PM |
| 6 | As somebody who probably has an addiction to one night stands. This is how i approach women or groups of women at any location.Like...you're just being honest and "coming clean"; smiling/smirking/laughing, etc. Basically, just don't take it so seriously. *I'm personally "afraid" of complimenting women, I always assume they've heard it all. Something I gotta get over. | /r/seduction | 11/06/18 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Attitude: Life is 10% what happens and 90% how I react to it.If flashing money to you is a $4 beer then yeah, you got bigger fish to fry. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Attitude: Life is 10% what happens and 90% how I react to it."status, money and achievements" - If you meet a girl in a bar, or anywhere really, she knows very little about you. Are you dressed ok? Make her laugh? Not being "cheap" (basically buy her a drink or 2 and tip well)? Comfortable in your own skin (confidence)? They can figure that stuff out after awhile and decide to stay with you or leave but that's another discussion for relationship talk. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Are tinder and bumble just totally not working for anyone else lately or is it just me? They've been bone dry for a long timeI’m in a major US city. (I do get matches on other sites so I’m only partially hideous looking). It would be nice to somehow know if other people are at least active/on the app. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Are tinder and bumble just totally not working for anyone else lately or is it just me? They've been bone dry for a long timeI downloaded and get nothing from this. I like the specific time frame idea though, may keep people's interest. I get that it's new so not many people know about it yet but my major criticism would be that you get the feeling it's not doing anything. So I find myself questioning if it's even working or worthwhile to use. Maybe put up some pics of recent activity or something? Like the Uber cars on a map theory, the cars aren't actually there in real time on the map but it at least feels like som… | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 07:18 PM |
| 16 | (FR) Shortest “date” of my lifeYou should have asked the guy to go get ice cream....Haha Having self-respect can feel bad sometimes, because it's a weird way of rejection, but good for you for doing it. And at the very least, you raised your status in her eyes....So in a way, you actually did "win". I wouldn't be surprised if you heard from her again down the line, you handled it like a mature, confident person and she's probably intrigued now.. Prevention? You asked her out earlier so she knew you were interested, so aside f… | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 01:47 PM |
| 63 | 5 Cheap First Date Ideas Women LoveComes back to your place...."why do you have 17 Xmas trees?" Haha. That was just an example..picking out a birthday present for neice. Basically anything where you're requesting their input on something... | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 05:29 PM |
| 20 | 5 Cheap First Date Ideas Women LoveEven better if they're a little more "high-profile" like..going to get a Xmas tree. These are actually my dates of choice and have had the most success with them. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How to approach tall girls as a short guy.IRL? Just go after it with humor and confidence. I wouldn't even bring up the topic because it indicates you're thinking about it, will likely bring her attention to it and her possible "self-consciousness" or desire for a taller guy could manifest itself. Just act big. OLD? You're in a more challenging situation. | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Do hot women get rejected ?Pretty complex question. It depends on what "rejection" is, that's a pretty broad term. I'm sure they have it a lot easier when it comes to many things. But at the same time, adversity is what builds personality and in my experience, the majority aren't the best people personality-wise. (always exceptions, just making general observations). As much as everyone wants to be with the hot girl, personality really does win out when you're thinking long term. Or it's at least something you can only pu… | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Girls lose interest after a whileAccording to girls I know, most guys don't read so I'd consider it an interest. Maybe not the most glamorous one but still something girls find relatively interesting, and certainly better than nothing. *It also doesn't have to be "books". An interesting/random magazine article, newspaper story, etc. Shows signs of intelligence, not a bad thing. | /r/seduction | 05/04/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | How to hook up on Tinder in college?Coffee dates are generally pretty weak but there's still probably a way....leave or whatever as usual, then make the "2nd date" for that same night. "Sorry that had to be so short, was having fun, let's meet up later?", etc. It actually benefits in a couple of ways because you know where you stand right away and won't have to be that expensive. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 06:16 PM |
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