Sugarcinnamonvanilla Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
33	Big Bang Theory and their LVM + Pickmes SPOILERS	FDS MOVIES & TV	Sugarcinnamonvanilla	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/21 07:35 AM
1	If he ever does this to you, RUN.	MALE DEPRAVITY	Sugarcinnamonvanilla	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/22 02:46 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
53	Women are not a rescue plan for men. I see what OP means. Generally everyone needs nurturing, it is different than the nurturing we give children though. Example, I wish I had more non-pickme girlfriends so that we could nurture each other’s goals and have fun without any of them bringing a LV bf / husband around to ruin the fun. Men need to nurture each other as a community and they don’t. That is the issue. They bromance over hating women, and if they’re “building one another up” it’s almost always around hating on women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/08/21 04:42 PM
3	This is like FDS talking sense into extreme pick mes 🤣 Someone give us a weekly advice column in the news already! Omg that slap, "SHE DON'T LIKE YOU!" This aged well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/07/21 05:22 AM
6	Adopting a nonchalant attitude to female dark triad behavior while dating. This made me cackle out loud! Absolutely ruthless!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 09:01 PM
36	Why I don't feel empathy for unattractive men “But men can rely on their money and even their personality. Women are literally groomed to lower their standards from birth.” THIS. Not enough women even get the opportunity to begin undoing pickme conditioning, which is a trauma of its own. Men however, learn from a young age that if they get some money and treat women generously, they stand a chance despite their looks. Women don’t always know they’re allowed to demand better for themselves, but men do.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 09:52 AM
53	Beware the ones who “forget their wallet,” ladies. Wow! Personally, I feel it's hard to find a therapist that doesn't align with pick-me behaviors themselves and encourage us to lower our standards. So frustrating, ugh! Glad you trusted your intuition.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 08:43 PM
60	Why ? The mini-scrotes! Hahah, so funny omg.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 08:41 AM
35	Why ? The cost of being a woman is expensive compared to living as a man. There are actually stats on this but you don't need them, just add up what you pay for in skincare, makeup, beauty, fitness, menstruation, children (if you have them), and onward. If he wants his woman to feel and look like her best self, he should absorb the cost of dinners and bills to share a home. But her parent's need to also set some boundaries with this man! He can't feed his own kids? Please. Trainwreck. I hope she liste…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/07/21 08:38 AM