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lol. Actually I did a lot - it took me some time but i found my unicorn. the problem is that girls don’t respond well to old-school dating anymore. it’s much easier to fuck them first and then flip it into a relationship (or, in majority of cases, ghost them). that’s why lots of normal guys struggle in dating, while assholes thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:29 PM
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sure, but then welcome to the world of single mums, because why those remaining 70% of men should pick up the bill? when wifey was pregnant we went for a few scans. I was usually waiting outside and listening to conversations of future mums. what strikes me that about half of them don’t really have long-term partner. you see - most people would make shitty parents on their own, but we have a society to keep up standards. right now many girls think only with their vagina and them expect someone p…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 04:01 PM
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I have meet four or five girls (out of 50+) who like to be seriously dominated / degraded in bed. Funny enough, I never knew who they were before we fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:55 PM
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Is 60% father-ship high in your opinion? It’s a disaster in making! Also, that includes Baby Boomers, etc. Currently, among my friends (<40) maybe 30% have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:50 PM
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Retroactive jealousy happens when your body is telling you something important. This system evolved over thousands of years, therefore I would definitely listen to it and evaluate seriously. Some people are able to uncondition it (brain is very flexible system), but imho it’s like disabling smoke alarm in your house, i.e. doable, but definitely not a smart thing to do. Almost all poly- and open- relationships I saw are cluster-fucks (e.g. Will Smith, lol). Girl being open about her past or not d…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:59 AM
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Girls with promiscuous past are substantially more risky for any serious dating and men instinctively reject them (so called ‘retroactive jealousy’). This is biological adaptation which is beneficial for men to ensure children are theirs. Generally, as soon as girls find about the above (early-to-mid-20), they try to either hide their past or shame men into accepting it. Not all men have other dating options and some decide to stay. This is especially valid for low value men. After being cheated…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:50 PM
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My personal experience made me move towards RP: cheating ex (which I found to be sugar baby). After I took her back, she cheated again. that crushed my self-esteem. after that cheating I also started to fuck around a lot too. Around a third of my lays were girls in relationships. I tried to understand what caused those girls to cheat in order to prevent incidents like those. I read a lot about RP. Those were my wake-up calls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:30 PM
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modern dating sucks, i agree. it shouldn’t be that women are so dismissive and expecting so much while being average at best. but they are and those are facts. it isn’t fair. if it will cheer you up, most of my exes ended with some schmuck because they waited too long or were to slutty, and their options dwindled. however, if you want to pass down your genes with a quality girl, i suggest to start working on it now before it’s too late. i told you exactly what to do - sort yourself out and appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 12:06 PM
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in my experience, 300 isn’t enough. you aren’t smooth enough, you are nervous and make too many mistakes. go out twice a week, approach 20 each day. i never said it’s easy. i suggest to learn it when you are still young, after 40 the results aren’t that great. learning game isn’t for getting laid in hundreds, but getting laid with a quality girls. hot girls can get dudes with millions, why would they care about your 700k? nope, you need to be someone they cannot get easily. in dating, having no …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:56 AM
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I don’t really care seeing your photos, loool. it’s hard to imagine 90kg / 170cm dude being fit or having a waist 31inch, but whatever. i accept you are some genetic freak, loool. my advice - get slimmer (down to 70kg), muscles won’t go away. you got it right, that girls prefer to date Chads - then be one. i am not saying it’s easy, but you can learn game in 3-4 years. i am average looking and only a bit taller than you (5’9), so it’s doable. i stated cold-approaching at 30yo and got first lay i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:09 AM
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‘masculine man with a backbone dating a sugar baby’ is oxymoron 🤣🤣🤣 masculine men don’t need to ‘date’ escorts to get sex. With escorts you pay and fuck, everything else is just a delusion. don’t be that desperate creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 09:00 AM
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first of all, 5’7 with 90kg is overweight. get on diet, not gym. you need to drop like 15-20kg. secondly, out of 300 approaches you should get 50-60 numbers. out of 50-60 numbers you should get 15-20 dates. out of 15-20 dates, you should fuck at least 5. mind those are stats for London and elsewhere is only easier. if you getting all flakes, then you should work on your text game. be funny, joke and push for dates in 3rd text. third, if you decide SB is for you, it’s your thing. Just keep it min…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:43 AM
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in other words - creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:46 PM
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sugarlifestyleforum sub is piss pool and cringe fest. no one should ever go near that bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:45 PM
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you are very desperate. have you thought that being desperate is what repulses girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:44 PM
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learn how to cold-approach. public transport, street - those are places where you can hunt. it takes lots of energy, but you will eventually get what you want. then you won’t need prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:42 PM
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shame, it was perfect example what’s wrong with sugaring. especially with those few creeps trying to defend it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:34 PM
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you exactly sound like one of those creeps from r/sugarlifestyleforum ‘mentor’ my ass 🤣🤣🤣 also, do you think that girl told her fiancé about her sugar daddy? 🤣🤣🤣 i have no other words and time for you. like i said above - desperate guys like you only disgust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:36 PM
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porn stars hotter than average women? 😂😂😂 look for photos without makeup. dude, if you are not desirable as a person, then you won’t get attractive girls. you are overweight (from your other post). young girls are tempted to earn quick money, but they are lazy and don’t understand how much they lose on attractiveness. my ex (who i found to be sugar baby) could get me, but instead she got some lowly musician - i would say the net difference is like a million £ for now (at least!) and counting up.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:36 PM
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because it’s easy money and they are lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:33 PM
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work on money and confidence take acting classes and learn how to be funny start side-business get better paid job do PhD
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:32 PM
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‘Friendship’? 🤣🤣🤣 Man, I am sorry for your marriage. After being cheated on it took me a few years to get my shit together. However, like a grown man to a grown man - wanna fuck them? Fine. But stop being delusional about ‘friendship’.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:57 PM
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bs with marriage you can expect children and family (i don’t see other reason to marry). with escort it’s sex and you go home. however, sometimes you just want that. with sb it’s fake intimacy and the knowledge that she fucks for for money. Fucks your self-esteem too. Dude, go to r/sugarlifestyleforum and just read a bit those idiots. I seriously despise guys like this and it would be funny if not so creepy, loool. Trust me, you don’t want to do anything with that bunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:38 PM
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I had an ex like that. Complete train wreck. Got my lessons. Regular? Maybe. Ltr-worthy? Hell no! I think I would prefer a common slut, than a whore. With common sluts there are usually self-esteem issues which can be fixed. However, once you fuck for money, it opens whole new box of issues and I am not willing to touch that. You have to be very naive to trust gal like that. Way too much risk. For serious dating you need woman with high ethics (preferably higher than yours).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:28 PM
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Athletes get girls because of their status. They have no clue why it works for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:34 PM
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yes, you still are. you will get your 20% income tax back immediately (but not NI) and then you can apply for further 20% at the end of tax year. btw, there are many gov contracts outside IR35 - just look deeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:22 AM
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why resent SBs? they are escorts with low value for relationships, but can be normal people aside from it. Fuck them, but don’t get close to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:21 AM
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more steps with SB. same premise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:18 AM
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many of SB are very average looking. once you spent a bit of time on yourself you can get girls like that easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:16 AM
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there is one thing to make sure your partners has means to support a family; there is completely different thing to spread your legs for coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:15 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:13 AM
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is this a joke? Sex workers are the worst kind to start a family with. Generally lazy and un-ambitious, and promiscuous on top of it. High risk and low reward. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:11 AM
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those wealthy betas just failing for young pussy because they didn’t get it before. once you fuck a few early 20ies in your 30ies, they lose that excitement. o
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:10 AM
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you can get the same way cheaper if you get out of house and hit gym. yes, it’s harder but also way more satisfying to hunt yourself. learn it once and you never need hookers again (yes, sugar baby = prostitute).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:08 AM
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the best is just to work on yourself (fir gym, dress better, fix hygiene, etc.). after a few years, you won’t need any prostitutes anymore. sugar baby = prostitution with more steps
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:06 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 dude, you pay for sticking your penis is a vagina. with sugar baby there is just more steps involved. same shit. sugar baby = prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:03 AM
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hahaha try to (i) get wife, (ii) buy house and (iii) save something for retirement. that will leave you with not that much ps. don’t forget you can use 40k allowance for SIPP to lower your tax bill
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:17 AM
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congrats on getting into magic circle! yep, £120k is more like it in mid-30s if you qualified right after uni and have like a decade of experience. London is full of gold diggers - that’s true! wifey didn’t know my income for half a year of dating, lol. man must protect himself. i know lots of older people who earn like £40-50k, but own two houses worth half a million each (or more). who’s better? lawyer with £120k salary or retired teacher with £1m mortgage-free house?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 08:06 PM
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there are many areas of law. family law (i.e. divorce) isn’t that well paid actually, banking law, private equity, maybe ip law (if you are lucky) - this is where good money is. at 40, getting pregnant is very difficult and risk of miscarriage and other complications is very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:59 PM
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yh, but i assume he talks about London. £60-80k isn’t that much here. lawyer freshly after qualifications gets this. then it goes to around £100k after a decade of experience or so. edit: here: https://uk.jobted.com/salary/lawyer £250k is fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:50 PM
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wifey actually works in legal team and i can tell you that barely any lawyer gets £250k, lol. The head of department is around £100-140k nowadays which is still not that much in London (50% and more tax and very expensive life). Maybe if they are equity partners they can get this kind of money, but that’s almost impossible in 30ies. it’s more likely that 60-80k mid-30s overworked dudes are settling with 60-80k mid-30s overworked women because they cannot pull anyone younger. being a lawyer doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:47 PM
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being wealthy doesn’t make you hvm. if this lawyer cannot pull himself a hot early 30yo, then he’s very far from hvm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:37 PM
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ok, i see you just want to force your point. i don’t see a point of further discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:22 PM
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yes, lots of ONS and FWB. 50+ body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:20 PM
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height matters but not that much as you think. i am not a giant. however, i spent a decade in a gym lifting weights (i flatten out after five years), i dress very well and my hygiene is superb. i have good education and career, side-business and investment portfolio. i am very confident and funny. those things matter. you don’t need to be 100%, 80% is good enough to score lots of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:20 PM
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fucking for sport is one thing. dating for marriage it’s something completely else. different tools for different job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:16 PM
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i didn’t want to ‘achieve’ anything, lol. it was just to boost my ego and i was simply horny. i didn’t care much if they are cheating or not - it’s their boyfriends’ problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:14 PM
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i was afraid of that too, but honestly women don’t care. i recall only one girl who said she wouldn’t date me because on my past. just be attractive, fit and have good career. don’t project your expectations on women. they want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:12 PM
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then you haven’t meet really attractive men. it’s rare combination of career, looks and taking care about yourself. it isn’t your typical alpha, but more of a mix of alpha and beta traits. we are very very picky. OF, porn, sex work and like are immediate dealbreakers for any serious relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:08 PM
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of course i got married. i want my family and kids, and marriage is the best strategy to achieve that (with right woman). sex with wifey isn’t that exciting as with my exes, but she’s very stable as a partner and a great mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:05 PM
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i happen to be pretty chad-ish and my circle of friends is alike. we have good education, good jobs, good fashion and almost everyone is gym goer. that gives you confidence which is like golden ticket to pussy. to put it bluntly - why should i keep being friends with people who aren’t giving their best?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 07:01 PM
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That isn’t my business. I do care about finding the best partner for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:53 PM
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nope. it’s different standard - women are looking for wealth / status / attractiveness / intelligence, i.e. power to influence environment; men are looking for chastity / attractiveness / youth, i.e. low risk of that children aren’t theirs. Wifey doesn’t care about my n-count and she often jokes about past hoes. But then I have to work and deliver resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:52 PM
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i disagree. me and my friends have high-n, and we aren’t looking for high-n girlfriends. the reason is that many of my lays were in relationships. sluts are just too much of a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:30 PM
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Being cheated twice (by the same hoe), I sadly agree that taking back a cheater is very simpy behaviour. It doesn’t matter what reasons are - cheater should be cut off immediately. The only exception might be when there are kids involved and even then I would still drop the hoe once kids are old enough not to be impacted much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 06:28 PM
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nope, i wouldn’t stay. i normally expect to fuck on 3rd date at the least. wifey was conservative and damn hot, that’s why i kinda waited longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:36 PM
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they don’t have too to go around to get a boyfriend. as for not being single - true, hot ones always have orbiters, but they almost never fuck them. wifey had a few when we were dating and it pissed me off early, but i just got used to them. after we married they disappeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 04:29 PM
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yep, but women don’t care that much 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:01 PM
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i guess you can say that. previously, i didn’t think high-n was an issue. because if you truly love someone… right? i was very naive. my experiences made me aware how risky for relationships are sluts. good as friends, good as lays, and terrible as girlfriends / wifes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:21 PM
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actually no, lots of them married their sucker boyfriends later. i occasionally see one of those as we travel on the same train. i never can look her husband in the eyes. poor idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:21 PM
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yep. you are very right about money / social status. phd won’t get you far, btw. it’s better to focus on business/connections. 2-3 / 10 fucks per new date was my average too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:05 PM
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your average butter-face semi-chubby girl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:02 PM
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late 30ies. married a few years back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:53 PM
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i agree with raju - he summarised it pretty well and it matches my experiences. there is really not much middle ground left nowadays, i.e. either you stick your legs together or spread them very wide.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:40 PM
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Stunningly beautiful women actually go around much less. It’s hard to get them, thus their boyfriends stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:36 PM
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50+ body count here. around 1/3 of my lays were in relationships, a few were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:33 PM
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it didn’t matter for me till I was cheated twice by the same hoe. then i started fucking around - roughly 1/3 of my lays had boyfriends and a few were also married. then i started to care. sluts are just high-risk while reward stats the same. she could have changed, but how would i know? i am not a mind reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:31 PM
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that scene is cited a dozen times on subs like FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:28 PM
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hahaha 🤣 so true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:28 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 girls just wanna have fun. only when they find out that guys might high-n, they slow down.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:27 PM
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some are ^ my ex wanted to fuck like twice a day. she was slut, cheater and proper train wreck, but sex was ground shaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:25 PM
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Major European city here. Full of liberated people and feminists. From my sample size (50+), I would say a half of girls have 20+ and a half had <10 (usually 0-5). There is almost no middle here. Also, I don’t think it gets worse, therefore I would expect the rest of the world to be rather of chaste side.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:08 PM
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hahaha, you are just bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 11:14 AM
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High-n older women (>30-35) will accept any dude who will stick to them. They care more about money he makes than his sex skills. High-n younger girls usually don’t get into relationships because they want to have fun. If they go into relationships it’s usually with some Chad who drops them after few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:15 AM
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I was young lad who was clueless and damn naive. I found out that she had sugar daddy. I threw her out, but she cried her way back. Sex was awesome too and yes, it matters. She had some financial difficulties and I didn’t strike as dude with money. I thought it was the problem so I helped her with bills. A few months later I found she cheated again (much worse). This time I started fucking around too. It lasted till I found wifey and she was too good to lose her go. After all of this, you would …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 10:08 AM
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there will be always a queue of thirsty dudes who will date those spinsters. almost all of my exes were still able to marry, even in their mid-30s and with slutty past. the quality of their partners is low-to-average, but they still got someone. guys with no other options accept even sex workers. the only ones that are really single are ones with children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:19 AM
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Relationship isn’t just about happiness of person, but primarily about having offspring and providing for it in the best possible environment. Monogamy is the best strategy to do that, i.e. two committed parents are always better than any poly- or open- arrangements. Like mentioned - this is main reason why monogamous Europeans were able to wipe the floor with most of other cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:14 AM
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N-count makes a heck lot of difference. Once inhibitions are lowered, a person won’t think much of fucking others. I had an ex like that and she was very promiscuous. She cheated on me twice and, while she regretted later, it was very easy for her to fuck other men at moment’s notice. Sex was very good, but imho sluts just make bad girlfriends. She now posts lot of feminists bs on her social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:05 AM
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This is a very good point and I saw it a few times in practice. Men are bored too, but finding a new partner is much higher cost for men. Many women who I knew (fucked) in their 20 are now divorced, single mums, or permanently unhappy in their marriages. There is huge correlation with them being quite slutty before. Damn, a few even reached to me while being in a relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:00 AM
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While it’s a gain for this individual, it’s a loss for society and creases wrong chaos. Also, broken families are terrible for children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 09:06 PM
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some dudes are thirsty enough for those 300lbs women. damn, some are even desperate enough to seriously date sex workers. i could send you to a few weird subs here on Reddit times changed, my friend. i haven’t seen such display of simping like nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 02:03 PM
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it was fun though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:53 PM
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I guess you are right. But then - I wanted to date seriously and got leaded for free stuff lots of times. Then I started to P&D.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:34 PM
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Being used for free food is also terrible :D I P&D a few girls, but was used for free labour/food several times more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 04:22 PM
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StubHub reported somewhat like 25x sales for Rock’s tours :P Will achieved nothing more than three years continuous delivery of memes featuring him. However, I don’t think there will be any action against Will. You just don’t anger the man, who might share his wife with you 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 03:13 PM
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need a spine replacement
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:36 PM
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if you are going into fray, your intent should be to end this fight as quick as possible, preferably by rendering the opponent unable to fight. If you don’t have intent to hurt your opponent, then don’t start a fight. If Chris had any training he would either evade, block it or counter that. Will’s posture was completely open after that attack. First, Will lets wife fuck other people, then he cannot even hurt dude thirty pounds lighter. Will is just so damn pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 06:12 PM
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Whatever’s the reasons, Will Smith punches like a pussy. First time I saw it I thought it was all acting. Dude has absolutely no upper body strength. Undefended punch should result in at least some blood and way more shock. One word: weakling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:09 AM
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Going to a gym for three months won’t change anything. Going to a gym for three years will change everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 09:55 PM
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They definitely do. Each of my friends has different attractions triggers, some like pretty faces, some big boobs, etc. Yet I know no one who is attracted to chubby girls. We are above average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:34 PM
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6 or 7th date, so around a month. She had two bfs before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:19 PM
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lol, just bugger off
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 10:30 AM
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bs, go back to FDS
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:45 AM
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modern dating isn’t great at all. it’s a must if one wants to have family.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:45 AM
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not in my opioid and i did lots of research of this: (i) poly isn’t stable and there are many breakups, (ii) having other ‘parents’ confuses shit of out children, (iii) focusing on other people means you focus less on your partner and (iv) all those jealousy issues. does that sound like a good environment for children? dating women with kids is going against your own biological interests. kids are energy and time suckers, why should you invest in other man’s children? therefore, please seriously…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 07:40 AM
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family unit is the best for children
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:27 PM
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yep
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:27 PM
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women have it waaaay easier to cheat, that’s why you need much more ethical girlfriend than yourself. yes, in my experience they cheat as much as men. a third of my lays had boyfriends, a few were also married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:51 PM
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it’s habits, this is unfortunately how promiscuity works. now, i am a man and it takes lots of time and energy to get laid. for women it’s as easy as to open tinder and swipe right. that’s why promiscuous women as so much more risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 07:46 PM
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being rich isn’t that attractive as you think. it helps, but well-rounded man can do much better. prime example is Jeff Bezos’ girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:26 PM
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bs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:24 PM
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it does to be honest :( for the first few years i miss the variety and almost cheated on a few occasions. however, i know how hard it would be to find a good woman again in this feminised world. therefore, i somehow pushed through it without doing anything stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 03:09 PM
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not in my case. actually my standards were way lower in my 20ies and early 30ies. Then I understood that sluts are fun but just damn risky for long-term. It took my good two years of going around to find my unicorn, but we are happy since.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 02:49 PM
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lol, wifey was exactly that. first two years were terrible, but now she fucks very well and normalised lots of things. Getting a virgin also has its risks. Ideally you want a girl who had 1-2 serious boyfriends before you and that’s it. I see it as reward / risk computation. You want low risk (chaste) and high reward (hot, young). If that’s not possible then high risk (slutty) / high reward (hot, young) is acceptable too, but you need to have error margin. In my 20ies I would go with high risk /…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:57 PM
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dude, it’s your bet and your risks. I never said all sluts are worthless, I just said they are way more risky than others. I decided for myself that I have one life and I won’t take more risk than i need to. You have been lucky - more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 01:42 PM
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no, because i prefer young pussy and perky boobs. that’s it. if you want to call it ‘conditioning’, then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:28 PM
1

blah, blah, blah. those are your values. don’t project them on me. i am 40+ and reasonably successful. if i ever divorce (hopefully not), i will look for late 20 or maybe early 30 (if she’s still hot). please stop lying to yourself that men want older women - we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 10:08 AM
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i am very hypocrite then. do i care? nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:31 AM
1

men who have problems with getting casual sex don’t have options. they are happy that they got something at all. they convince themselves that they don’t care about body count. men with options do care because showing you the door isn’t a problem. there will be next one soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:29 AM
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you are making a point ‘how well she goes along with his kids and previous wife’ and i am saying - why should he care? successful dude wants to be with 20+, 40yo women are invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:26 AM
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dating is terrible for men, so please bugger off with you ‘it is unfair’. we simply want different things - men want hot, young and chaste girl, while women wants status and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:19 AM
1

40+ now. i had fun run.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:16 AM
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that young pussy comes by itself thanks to feminism. because ‘ThAt Is My BoDy’
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:16 AM
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bs not in my case and not in many cases i saw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:14 AM
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he doesn’t have to get along with her. successful men don’t care about women’s money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:14 AM
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women and men are attracted to different traits. wifey doesn’t care about my body count, i would definitely care about hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:12 AM
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bs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:11 AM
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love lasts you two years maximum. afterwards it’s real life ^ nah, getting girl with 10+ dicks is just risky. sure, she might have changed, but how do you know for sure?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 09:10 AM
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I was like you and I didn’t care. Till I started to care and filtered out all sluts. What was left were a few hot and good girls, one of them is my wife. There is a strange correlation between wife-value and chastity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:13 PM
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I see what happened to my exes. Out of a dozen, two were good and have decent guys. The remainder was slutty or waited too long, and are either single mums or with some schmuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:11 PM
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hahaha, only cucks truly don’t care about her body count. Most of men do care, especially those men who have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:09 PM
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…while this high-earning surgeon is happily fucking 20+ yo pussy which cannot wait till he proposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:06 PM
1

bs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:03 PM
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Loool! women throw themselves at this kind of dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:02 PM
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THIS it’s obvious that men with their shit together won’t bother with matchmaking. we are either already married to some hottie or hunting in clubs / pubs / street, online or among friends. It might take some time, but I need no overpriced matchmaker to find girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 11:02 PM
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It’s bs. I have high libido and SES, yet I wanted to start family early. I fucked a lot and it’s fun to remind myself. But I could live happily without those experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:21 PM
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You are reading this right. In brief - she was in a bad spot financially and hence the cheating. I didn’t look like the guy with money (I was saving for house) so she didn’t take me ‘seriously’ (her words). I thought if I help her the problem would go away, and I took that hoe back. Well, let’s say a hoe is a hoe and they don’t change. I was damn stupid, inexperienced and naive. Afterwards, I was long and wide looking for a wife, and found my unicorn at the end. That hoe is still posting on soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:00 PM
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Nowadays they start Only Fans and call themselves entrepreneurs 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:48 PM
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citing my cheating ex (after I found out): - I am not this kind of girl - It wasn’t me - It was your fault - I won’t do it ever again Guess what? She cheated again in few months. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:24 PM
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thanks if i lose then i lose, but it’s the best bet i can do so children have decent upbringing. women got mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 12:26 PM
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hopefully not :( if so, at least i would have some kids by then. i did the best i could given the circumstances, i.e. found a decent conservative woman and made sure it’s not her gaslighting. what the fuck else I can do? options (i) die childless and (ii) have baby mamas are both v-bad for offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 11:02 AM
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nah, i was serious about starting family and it was just time waste to (i) learn game, (ii) go through those entitled bitches and then (iii) explain wifey why this ‘me-me-me’ attitude isn’t working. Wifey is a good woman, but she had lots of that feminism shit in her head. Whole process (i) to (iii) took about a decade. A fucking waste of time just to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:54 AM
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minority? like a half imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:29 AM
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Bad boy traits are attractive for girls, i.e. confident and independent. Obviously, society rewards cooperation more, therefore those ‘bad boy’ traits are failing short in long term. When girl gets older, they want to settle down and they are looking for other traits (which bring more resources). Then decent men are expected to ignore those ‘mistakes’ because she is a ‘dIfFErEnT PeRsON noW’. Imho, the best strategy is to fuck sluts, but then marry conservative hottie. Funny enough, she won’t hol…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:24 AM
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Hahaha! Which society tells women to be ‘agreeable and subservient’? You are very out of the loop what’s going on in the West. I suggest to listen to Cardi B and like. There wasn’t a time in human history where girls were encouraged to be such hardcore bitches like its now. My dating life was a clusterfuck, not because I couldn’t get dates, but because that ‘i-deserve-better-than-you’ mindset. I am reasonably good looking (around 7 score in lots of photo feeler-like apps), fit dude with a good c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 08:42 AM
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THIS Exactly, marriage was designed to protect both parties against their weaknesses, i.e. people married young and then men were kept at bay with draconian divorce laws. Nowadays, girls fuck around with wrong people and then expect to be forgiven for ‘mistakes’ by an equal-age guy who has earned some money meanwhile. I have three-words-reply: fuck that deal. Yet many women are sincerely surprised when they hear that, lol. Almost all of my exes (one exception) overplayed their hand and ended wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 11:10 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:56 AM
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The thing is that we don’t have options in early 20ies. Those girls we should be dating are getting silly-fucked by jerks / older men (sometimes married) / etc. and there is absolutely no way to discuss that with them. I tried a few times and it just doesn’t work thanks to that dumb feminism ‘i-deserve-a-prince’ attitude. Later, when girls grow up they suddenly want dating in their age group, but then most of decent dudes want younger partners. Then the screams about ‘toxic masculinity’, ‘peter …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:51 AM
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I didn’t know what red-pill is before being cheated on. Afterwards I started to read and learn. In modern dating market, you NEED red pill to some degree. You cannot trust most of women anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:39 AM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:32 AM
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If women want to follow their natural urges, i.e. fucking the most alpha guys, then they are also to suffer consequences later when not even decent betas wants them later. Women have to think more strategically. Once they lose their youth, there aren’t many men who wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:50 PM
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She will like wait till her 30ies for her tall price charming, and then her attitude will completely change. Nowadays every girl is that unique snowflake which deserves the best. Just fuck her and pass on to the next dude. Wifey is taller than me and I just make fun of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:59 PM
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Almost every male starts from position of low value and slowly raises in value till mid-life. Some of that bunch might even achieve high-value. However, the question is how rough that path was for male. If 20-or-so dude was routinely ignored by girls or even cheated on (happened to me twice) - what his mindset will be in his 30ies and 40ies? In my early 20 I sucked, in my late 20 I started to deliver, in my 30 I kicked ass (and fucked around a lot), in my mid-30 I married a conservative hottie w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 03:53 PM
1

My personal limit has is 5, with 100% compatibility I could maybe stretch it to 7-8, but I leave girls with double digits to other guys. From my experiences in major European city, roughly half of girls have low-N (<5) and the other half has high-N (~20). There is almost none in between that. The older they are, the more are on the high-N side. Imho, good girls just marry up earlier. Generally speaking, girls are just aiming too high, they have those FWBs and ‘temporary’ boyfriends till around 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 02:05 AM
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No stepfather role for me. Ever. It’s simple - kids require lots of time and resources, and I am not investing those into kids that don’t have my DNA. It’s not kids fault that mum didn’t choose right partner. However, I am not a charity, I don’t pay for someone’s else ‘mistakes’. All dates I had with single mums, I ejected myself as soon as I learned about it. Also, it’s surprising how women think men are OK with being a stepdad. No, we are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 09:05 PM
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Muslim countries aren’t monogamous at all :) I have few muslim friends and those are the worst/best players around. Men are very spoiled there and fuck around a lot - it’s all alpha-display in a culture where women have very little value. They have zero regard for women and that makes them very effective, especially vs. Western girls who are used to guys being honest. Muslim men don’t have issues to lie if that gets them sex. There is lots of anger in muslim men - brother against brother, son ag…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 01:19 AM
1

It doesn’t really matter if human are polygamous or monogamous. We have intelligence and capacity to override out basic instincts. The monogamous is just the best strategy for society. A few sluts think they can do otherwise, but the truth is that most of them pay price later either in suboptimal partners or no partner at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 05:16 PM
1

In my experience, even the worst whores, e.g. former sugar babies, prostitutes, etc. find some husbands if they (i) didn’t wait too long (till 40ies) and (ii) aren’t single mums. Those won’t be quality guys but still decent enough. It just shows how fertility-driven men are. 40yo women are invisible for anything more than a shag, even if they were really decent before.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:53 AM
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The most of human societies were polygamous - there is lots of evidence for it. However, you also should take a note that monogamous Europeans basically wiped the floor with every other polygamous society in a relatively short time. It was simply because men could focus on other things than just mate-guarding, e.g. making better weapons and colonising other countries. European sailor could be relatively sure that children at home are his. Monogamous society is just winning strategy, where childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:43 AM
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Most of poly- people are low tier guys with girl who just fucks around. Those guys try to fuck around too, but it usually falls flat. Funny enough, those are couples where female is visibly more pretty than man, i.e. famous 6-9 couples (imho, it’s 3-6 in practice). Those few poly HVM I saw usually have few girlfriends who don’t fuck around and just tolerate each other (because they know finding next HVM is v-hard). After a while they usually settle with the hottest girlfriend, but cheat around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:34 AM
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early-30yo man: - is still in very good physical condition, even better if he exercised. Only like 10% of people exercise regularly, therefore it isn’t that hard - is finally earning good money after a decade of education and professional career. this is the time where a girl can see what future is before that man - is somewhat mature or at least started to be mature. he’s also lower risk vs. 20-something who wants to fuck everything that moves (points to myself) - has many acquired skills and k…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:18 AM
1

ok, but why are you do hell-bent on it? did some dude cheat on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:41 PM
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lol, I don’t fuck men. Those are my friends I know off. Only 13% women and only 20% mean cheat? LOOOO. This is sooooo bs. I would say around 1/3 girls cheat and the same goes for guys. actually, why are you so focused on providing men cheat more?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 08:31 PM
1

https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/do-men-cheat-more-than-women-infidelity-data/ 67% (men) vs 55% (women) isn’t that far off. I was cheated on twice, then I started fucking around too. Most of my lays had double digits N and at least 1/3rd had boyfriends. A few were also married. I still remember one girl answering her fiance on the phone while I was fucking her. That was real eye-opener for me. At the same time, most of men (with few exceptions!) are around 3-5 lays. Those few exceptions a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:48 PM
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it isn’t truth anymore - please check the most recent stats. Women caught to men. also, in my experience, there are many more girls i would classify as promiscuous than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:09 AM
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well, in a wide view, there are only a few men who can be really promiscuous. fucking around requires lots of time, money and energy. therefore, statistically speaking, the norm is rather loyal husband. i would say, that’s like 80% of men at least. it’s just hard to be player. on the other side, having high-N is very easy for girls and, unfortunately, lots of girls in major cities fuck around a lot with those player-guys. I know that because I was able to pull lots of pussy. I also know most of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 10:26 AM
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lol, that’s true. that’s why the divorce laws are so draconian. women aim to get quality and value, while men want to be sure kids are ours. anyhow, before i was fucking around a lot, but now married for almost a decade and no cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:43 PM
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it’s not hypocrisy if i want low-N girl, while mine is high. it’s just both sexes look for different traits. i.e. women look for successful and wealthy men, while men look for young and attractive girls. my (past) promiscuity wasn’t ever a problem while (past) lack of money was.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:09 PM
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my numbers are somewhat similar - it took me ca. three years and lots of condoms to find wifey. some of it was enjoyable but generally i was disgusted how bad girls are nowadays. being good with sluts is also being good with other girls. i can see some of exes and their husbands via social media. i can bet any money those soya boys have no idea what those females were up to before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:03 PM
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that’s the best strategy. if she’s relationship-worthy, then you can easily flip it into bf-gf deal. sluts are mostly not relationship-worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:21 PM
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Boyfriend material = someone possibly to marry in 30ies Hookup material = someone to fuck in 20ies If you want to be hookup, disqualify yourself from being a boyfriend asap. I suggest old good ‘I am not a boyfriend type’ right away. Don’t show money or any relationship-oriented skillets - that will delay access to pussy. Funny enough, IF you actually a good boyfriend material it’s very easy to flip hookup into a relationship. Good girls don’t do hookups, but they will stick to see what you are. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 05:09 PM
1

lol, you do have an idea. you are lying to your boyfriends because you know they would bail out. it’s usual ‘my past doesn’t matter’ bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 11:01 AM
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that’s something between dishonesty and lying in my books
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:56 AM
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I am glad someone said that - being jealous isn’t the same as insecurity. Jealousy trait evolved so we can protect our paternal investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:19 AM
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THIS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:17 AM
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if it stresses me out and adds drama to my life. it’s very much my business. if you aren’t affected - more power to you. i am and i expect my gf to cut those ties (as i cut mine).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:13 AM
3

It’s not about you, but your partner. That will stress them out, especially men. I dated a pretty decent girl in the past. She was definitely a marriage material (one of the very few I met), but she kept calling her ex-boyfriend. I talked to her a few times but it didn’t stop, therefore I broke with her. I actually wanted to propose, but after extensive thinking on it, I decided I am not getting myself into that drama. Later she found boyfriend and the first thing she did was to call me and ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 07:07 AM
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They will die off childless and the problem sorts itself out. It’s nature way of dealing with this madness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 02:48 PM
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Promiscuous (even formerly) female = high risk. Chaste girl = low risk. Hot young girl = high reward. Mid-age average girl = low reward. The best deal is low risk / high reward. High risk / high reward is also acceptable (that’s why hot sluts aren’t that bad). Low risk / low reward is OK too if you aren’t superb yourself. However, high risk and low reward, i.e. mid-age slut, isn’t acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:28 PM
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man, i tried to read it three times, but i just cannot follow your writing. could you please make a quick brief? five sentences maximum
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 08:23 PM
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The only reason to get married is to have children. That’s because kids grow the healthier in two-parents family. Other than that, there is absolutely no reason to marry as a man. After 30 sex is plenty and risks of divorce are just too great. Assuming you have children in your 30ies, then it’s another 20-25 years (or even 30 in the current economic environment) you should be together. Afterwards, you are in your 60-ies and you might stick together till the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:01 PM
1

Man, after fucking around for a while, everyone starts to think if relationships are worth it. I came from PUA background. It was fun at start, but in time I just became more and more red-pilled. About third of my lays had boyfriends (a few were married). It gets to you when you start thinking about those poor dudes. After so many ‘i am not like that’ and ‘it’s first time i had sex on first date’, you just lose all trust. I consider maybe 2 out of 10 girls to be trusted for any ltr. Much less if…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:57 AM
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TRP is actually quite good for relationships, i.e. it tells you the ropes and prepares you to be more attractive (gym, bro!). However, what’s missing is marketing. Even the best product doesn’t sell by itself. Here is what PUA teachings come handy (approach, bro!). Btw, anyone saying PUA is just lies and manipulation likely never got laid. Girls are way better at this game naturally and manipulating them is hard. PUA + TRP + Money (or decent career) will get you very far, even if your looks aren…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 08:31 PM
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TRP - women are bad and relationships-unworthy. let’s work on ourselves and fuck as many women as possible. never marry MGTOW - same as above, but they don’t bother with dating at all. Black Pill - world is fucked and all women are bitches. there is no point of doing anything. let me play video games all day long. PUA - same as TRP, but with a dose of self-marketing. I.e. just working on yourself is not enough, you need to actively approach girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:18 PM
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for women, promiscuity often leads to worse quality partner than they could attract otherwise. i was lucky to belong to attractive bunch and have options. me and many of like friends reject sluts for any serious relationship. it doesn’t work opposite - most girls weren’t phased by my past promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 05:14 PM
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This is exactly what I meant in this post above, i.e. women with high-N are more risky deal, which makes them worse investment of time, money and energy. In other words, it’s better to spend your time, money and energy into low-N (low risk) and hot, younger and smart (high reward) girl. The above conclusion came from my experiences and my friends stories. If that rubs you wrong way, that’s your issue. Also, feel free to call me incel or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 12:00 PM
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hahaha, so true! Wifey (very hot one) once complained that she was ghosted after like half a year of dating. That was the worst that happened to her ever, loool. She was one of those deeply religious girls who don’t put out easily. Yet guys were dating her for long time. I can only imagine a line of frustrated dudes, loool.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:29 AM
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why not? the return of investment is much higher than pursuing high quality girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:24 AM
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Yeah, something like this, i.e. 1/5 pretty ones and 3/5 average ones are slutty. I haven’t seen much difference average vs. ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:19 AM
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Fucking around takes time. I spent last decade trying to get laid as much as possible. When averaged, I got a bit more than one new girl per month. Some were ugly, some were pretty, but most were average looking. Generally pretty ones were harder to fuck and way more flakey. Ugly ones weren’t easier than average. Younger ones tend to be more slutty. Older ones just hide it better. Almost all of them, i.e. ugly, average and pretty ones were entitled little princesses. Nevertheless, I met a few de…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:11 AM
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