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DebateSuitable-Ad-8598/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:00 AM
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What behavior specifically?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:34 PM
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That’s a great question, how did people being assholes get lumped into masculinity? You never hear about women being assholes being considered an aspect of femininity. I hate to drop this in here, but in my experience, every “asshole” I have dealt with usually just had some sort of mental health problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:07 AM
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I never claimed you made a mistake or anything. I’m just saying that your approach is not blue pill. You are red pill but want to call yourself blue as that’s “the right thing to be”. You are actually benefiting yourself via red pill strategy for women by not engaging in hypergamy as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:55 PM
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They don’t like to say it because it sounds bad. I’m a switch but wouldn’t openly tell people i wasn’t in bed with that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:48 PM
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My interpretations come from the frequent debates I see on this sub between red and blue pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:56 PM
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I think you’re having an identity crisis. Red pill means you are merely taking note of these forces at play. Blue pill entails rejecting these forces and claiming that it’s all up to how good of a person you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:51 PM
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Ehh I don’t think we are on the same page. Red pillers don’t make their own rules, their just being cognizant of the unspoken forces
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:48 PM
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I think you are a bit misguided. Red pill obsesses on the material and blue pill outright rejects it. Red pill hones into the cause and effect in dating while blue pill is purely subjective along with the message “just be yourself”.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 08:36 PM
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You’re taking it to an extreme…Im considered rich for my age, and it benefits me a fuck ton. When I was in college and the second a woman would find out i wasn’t in a frat they would stop talking to me. The second I got a good job, it was extremely foreign to me bc all these women that would have never talked to me were now trying to date me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:59 PM
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I totally agree with you from a logical standpoint. But much of bluepill consists of denying a man’s income is part of how attractive they are. I’m saying you have bluepill as a label on here and you are saying things that are red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:37 PM
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This is normal but what men usually put up with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:27 PM
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This should not be coming from blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:26 PM
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It’s a normal thing. In the same way a man is shallow and doesn’t want to date an overweight woman, woman are shallow and don’t want to date a poor man. Everything about dating outside of the connection is shallow. This woman couldn’t tolerate being dragged down
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:24 PM
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The difference here is the blue pillers are thinking about what ought to be, while the red pillers are thinking what is. The advice OP listed is not morally righteous, it is just how men and women are perceived and how you can act to benefit yourself depending on what gender you are. I think the biggest misunderstanding between red and blue pillers is that blue pillers think red pillers are advocating for the status quo, rather than just understanding how it works and acting accordingly. Blue pi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:45 PM
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You’re actually incorrect. Here is your faulty logic: if a single place allows a person to speak, they aren’t being censored. Second piece of faulty logic: censorship must be implemented by a government with 100% success to be considered censorship Third piece of faulty logic: Censorship must occur out in the open as a public statement from the govt. Parties asking social media companies to remove people secretly is not censorship because it’s not a public official act of govt. (despite them hol…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:44 PM
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You’re referencing the only two platforms that are anti censorship and haven’t kicked him off…. They are literally red pill platforms. You are pretty much agreeing with what I’m saying. Alex jones is a fucking idiot, but it’s a complete lie to say he isn’t also censored. Just because there’s still an anti censorship site willing to host your videos doesn’t mean you aren’t being censored on every other platform. He was under trial mainly for human trafficking of people that claimed they weren’t b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:32 PM
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I didn’t make the complaint just explaining it. But yeah back then 100%. Not a fan of Andrew Tate but they basically did this to him and put him in jail. The supposed victims were actually on his side, that’s why he was held but never tried. He was 100% put in jail because of who he was and what he was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:06 PM
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It’s not taking place in 2025. 2020 it was heavily.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:53 PM
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Censorship is far less than it was 4-6 years ago. Companies being urged to kick these people off their open platforms is censorship. What is the goal of removing these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:43 PM
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No quite the opposite. For example, a woman that’s a 5 will let a man who is a 9 have a ONS. That same woman will want to go on a couple dates with a 5 man before being willing to have sex. But what often happens is, that woman will think she can date a 9 because they were willing to have sex with her, and will go chase these men that will use her for sex and ghost her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:07 PM
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I wasn’t saying these men are cheaters. Most men are willing to have sex with women they wouldn’t date. I’m saying the women chasing the most attractive man she can get is a faulty strategy because that man will be willing to have sex with her but not date her. She will have to find someone on a more equal playing field to actually date. Separately just based on your comment, I have noticed women tend to subconsciously like cheaters and I have no understanding of why this occurs. I just keep not…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:43 PM
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I don’t really care, just making an honest observation. Men are willing to have sex with 10x more girls than they would be willing to date. With women I believe it’s the other way around, which leads to the stereotype that men are heartless, because they are only dealing with men that aren’t willing to date them because they are too attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:20 PM
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I think what he’s saying is, it’s a lie. They have too high of standards that no men will date them just fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:11 PM
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There’s always the claim of people doing an exodus from the dating market. Always has been always will be. In recent times this exodus seems to be more focused on men not women. I think it’s fair to say that anyone not participating in dating is not finding a good match for whatever reason. Most likely, you are either looking for the wrong kind of person or your standards are above your own level. If your standards were below your level you would have plenty of options, unless you live in a rura…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:06 PM
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Try to understand rather than argue. My intent is to explain what I’m seeing, not to defeat you or something. The points of my last comment stand. Plenty of nice guys get gfs. The guys that get a ton of attention from women and act on it are who we are talking about here. The guys we see fucking a lot of attractive women (not getting into a relationship) tend to exhibit this personality type we are talking about. It’s not something us men expected before we witnessed it take place. I think that …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 05:02 PM
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You misunderstood me as well. We are not talking about successful men. We are not talking about men who get girlfriends. We are talking about promiscuous men. Men that can and do sleep with a high quantity of women. Men who are promiscuous are assholes. One of the reasons men avoid promiscuous women is because the same psychology in them is present and they cannot be trusted. Women and men are not a different species lol our brains work the same. If your intentions are to fuck a variety and high…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 04:39 PM
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You’re attempting some sort of ad hominem attack on anyone that says they witnessed this phenomenon. Those who said they see it take place are coping. When I see it take place it must be because I’m a bad person. The next person that bears witness to this phenomenon will also face a personal attack rather than speaking about the phenomenon itself. The people I describe are more acquaintances and people I don’t really trust due to me observing this. There’s a decent amount of statistical evidence…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:29 PM
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Too be fair, as a man in a major city I also feel swamped by choice. When your options are limited you cherish them. When you can get a date within 2 weeks on the apps with a decent looking girl, there’s no risk in fumbling or not maintaining the relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:51 PM
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Nope. Actually, I think that most men are shocked to see their friends who cheat on their gfs and basically abuse women are the ones getting chased after. Of all of my guy friends that were very promiscuous and got into a relationship, only one of them doesn’t cheat on his girl. This observation is very surprising to men but you see a large number of men acknowledging that they see this too. Men keep drawing attention to it because it’s very counterintuitive that women seem to like dealing with …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 02:10 PM
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You seem to have a very binary world view. Just because someone turns to prostitution out of desperation doesn’t mean they are no longer a human that wants love.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:12 PM
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I think you replied to the wrong comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:04 PM
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Even you would be that guy if you weren’t that attracted to the girl
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:33 PM
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The problem for women though is they match with guys out of their league that just want to have sex and not date them. The woman will keep going after these guys and think all guys are dirtbags that are not interested in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:29 PM
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Casual sex is easier for women than men. If you’re a pretty woman, you have it easier than men in general. If you’re an uglier woman you have it harder than men in general. Depends on what areas of life you are looking at and where you live of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:28 PM
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Men's standards are usually viewed in society as wrong to have. The same is not true for women's standards. Men keep quiet as its not ok to openly express their standards. Women reveal far more standards because it is considered ok to voice their standards. If men were not shamed for saying they want a woman who cooks and isn't overweight, these standards would be viewed as just as valid as a woman wanting a man that makes 6 figures and is 6 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:51 PM
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I think there is a difference between saying all men should legally have high paying jobs and Tate telling men they must reach for a high paying job due to the way society is structured. It’s like telling a woman to work out and wear makeup to improve her dating range. You might not like that these societal rules exist, but telling someone how to play by them is not the same as saying it’s good these conditions are present
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:55 PM
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This is a great question actually. I’ve noticed this in myself and amongst my friends actually. I used to go crazy over girls and now I really don’t care that much. It’s an extreme amount of effort and emotional investment too so I guess it almost feels like it’s not worth the trouble. I’m just guessing however, I don’t know the answer. All I know is I’ve lost motivation to date and those around me have as well. It appears like women want to date far more than men now. Not sure if it’s because I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:57 PM
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I agree with you. There is one sort of thing causing this however. Many men feel as if when they were under 23 or so, women their age expressed disinterest in them and women are the ones who decide if they’re interested. When a guy turns like 25 or so, the tables turn and women that were too good for them are far more desperate in looking for a partner and often do not look the same as they did at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:36 PM
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Most women are not like this. But any man by his 20s will encounter women that will drain a man of his money with unrealistic expectations and leave him once he runs out or says no. Such a relationship is not sustainable and not wanting to be in one does not make you sexist. You can typically tell when a woman has this mentality somewhat immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:51 AM
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Roe v wade was not overturned with religion in mind. There is correlation with religious people being pro life, but it has nothing to do with religion. You could blame republicans as a whole as they elected presidents who appointed conservative justices. These justices ruled roe v wade unconstitutional, not because of their religious beliefs, but due to the weak constitutional ground it stood on (which has been acknowledged for a long period of time devoid of politics)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:42 AM
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Equality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 02:00 PM
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Men don’t get creeped out by women they aren’t attracted to hitting on them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:39 PM
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The reason women think they don’t need consent from men is because men are chill about it and there aren’t any consequences. On the other hand, men worry about the consequences of even introducing themselves being seen as evil
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:25 PM
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Plenty of homeless people do not receive that from the government. Also you do have government subsidized sex via tax breaks for having kids and being married. Regardless, just because something is a need, it doesn’t mean the government needs to provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 03:19 PM
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People need to fulfill their own needs. Shelter is a need, but I don’t let randos stay in my house. Money is a need in today’s world, are you morally obligated to give free money to people?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:03 PM
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Who is suggesting that we do that??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 01:35 PM
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You could say the same thing with wealth distribution. A small percentage of people are smart enough/lucky enough (you don’t choose your iq) to make a lot of money. Businesses and individuals do not consent to giving their money to people who do not produce them value. Is this fair? Idk but it’s reality
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 07:41 PM
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You should become a mod so you can create and enforce this rule
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:07 AM
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A small minority of posts on this sub are data backed. I think what the author was trying to say is that men notice women give fake advice to be encouraging to other women and they are doing the same when they give advice to men, instead of telling them the hurtful truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:24 PM
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I don’t think anyone is saying this is ok. I think they are saying that when women date men of this category, these problems have been observed to happen commonly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:19 PM
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Does any post in this sub not meet this criteria?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 11:06 PM
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You aren't picking up on the topic being discussed here. One side is complaining about women being cocky and rude, while the other side is referring to this behavior as high self-esteem, and then saying why don't men want woman with high self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:02 AM
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The author is strawmanning people complaining about cocky/cunty women acting like they are better than everyone else and calling it high self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:59 AM
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I think you are strawmaning this concept. Nobody is saying women don't deserve good men. People are saying there are many women who have the expectation of dating an attractive man that either makes over 200k or ones that will go into financial ruin trying to please the woman's financial demands (until they no longer can and the women leaves), while there are not enough men that match this description. In the same way that men wanting a fit attractive women that doesn't have a gold digger/cheate…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:47 AM
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I think the concept going on here is that there are far less (attractive/suitable) single people as you age, and women typically date men older than them and vice versa of course. This concept is enforced by men and women. Women don't typically date men younger than them, and men don't typically date women older than them. The reality is, 40 might be like the latest you have reasonably get married and have kids as a woman. It might take 5 years to comfortably arrive in that spot from being compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 03:37 AM
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Very true. I’m a pretty successful and attractive guy (this is recent upon a bunch of weight loss) and I find this to be an issue with myself. I have a really hard time talking to new women. I once outgrew this, gained a bunch of weight, so women stopped wanting to interact with me, and I lost my confidence all over again, and it’s very hard for me to mentally adjust now that I am back to looking good. It’s almost like I’m conditioned to women not wanting to talk to me, but now they do and I’m h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:21 PM
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Philosophical territory? Abortion is death entire time unless they fail, the entire act they are doing is unaliving the child. Whether its been born or not, if you take a coat hanger and jab a baby until its heart is no longer beating, you are causing it to die. I am not seeing the philosophical angle here, it seems quite simple. The pro abortion crowd does not have a coherent argument for why this is not death. The concept that a baby is a child after it makes it out, and until the moment of bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:48 PM
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Its her body. But theres also a child's body involved too... It actually is quite complicated. I am not claiming that life begins at conception, but what about when the child can feel pain? Additionally, in the cases of failed abortion, what is your view about the survivors? Who will pay their life long medical bills? Do they just deserve to be killed once they are born? If not, do you just think thats tough shit for them to deal with and they can go fuck themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:25 PM
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What about the bodily autonomy of the child lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:20 PM
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I think OP misstructured his argument, the father has nothing to do with this choice. What about the ratio of cost between the mother and child? 9 months of extreme inconvenience vs the child's guaranteed death. The adult has a voice and the child doesn't and that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:19 PM
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lol who do you know doing single mother by sperm donor? That’s not happening
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:19 PM
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well at least your honest haha
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:24 AM
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Nah to be honest, my friends that get the most action are the worst offenders of that rule. The concept I was talking about in the post typically happens to my shorter friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:49 AM
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I can't tell if sarcasm, but if not that's extremely interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:43 AM
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From what I have seen, I have noticed many women (even ones that are nice to me) enjoy almost tormenting short guys specifically . Im considered tall, but watching my short friends get consistently made fun of by women, even ones they arent hitting on has been sickening. Those are the people I typically see this sort of thing happen to
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:41 AM
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Exactly this. Nobody is complaining about a girl saying I have a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:40 AM
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True, but I am talking about places like clubs and bars that are basically designed for this activity. Also, I am not talking about a girl saying I have a boyfriend or ignoring and that is what the vast majority of women do and it works. I am more talking about a girl saying something like "Ew!" and proceeding to laugh to her friends after. I don't really think any sort of past trauma justifies insulting someone. I 100% agree men do that, and not to say its ok, but I think many men see that as t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:37 AM
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I had to look that term up lol but based on my understanding of it, I don't believe it is exclusive to 10/10s. I have seen all kinds of girls do this however rejection is more common the hotter the girl gets. Additionally, I am not really asking for some sort of solution as I wouldn't really want to date a sadistic girl anyway, but more trying to understand the thought process at place as it seems like they are getting enjoyment out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 02:08 AM
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Penalty is probably not the right word. What men are noticing is that the older they get, the hotter women they can pull. Like a girl you wouldn’t have been able to get in college isn’t hard to get when you are like 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 12:37 PM
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I think there is a big miscommunication about this "nice guys" subject. The concept that men are finding to be the case is that if they keep being nice and respectful (which is very easy to do as its very socially acceptable and no embarrassment can come out of this) women won't be interested in them. If this same guy tries to force himself to not care or pretend not to care about what the girl thinks of him and shows little effort and isn't courteous, women will be interested. It's not about lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:06 PM
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