Suitable-Self Archive

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1	Asking for Paternity Verification Should Be Done Before Marriage and/or a Baby. If cheating and peace of mind is the concern, why not eliminate concern for both parties involved and require couples to constantly monitor each other’s location, activities, people they are around and who those people are, etc with proof such as texts, photos, videos, recordings and more. This way there will be no doubt for the man to doubt the woman and the paternity of their kid and same with the woman having the certainty that he’s not having any affairs himself. Just go full-on Big Brother …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 10:37 PM
3	CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flags Given how conception and genetics work, asking a longtime SO to provide a paternity test is pretty much an accusation of cheating. If you need a paternity test for your peace of mind, then it’s only fair that you provide her the peace of mind that you’re not cheating either like constantly letting her check your phone, letting her know exactly what you’re doing, where you’re at and who you’re with at all times with receipts, photos, recordings etc. same with her just to be sure. Bc yes, you’d be…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 10:30 PM