Sukironi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
32	Broke up with a cheating LVM but backsliding	SEEKING ADVICE	Sukironi	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/01/20 11:40 PM
11	A follow up of sorts	SEEKING ADVICE	Sukironi	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 11:20 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	A follow up of sorts Thank you so much for your kindness. Sometimes we all need to be told there is nothing wrong with us... this feels like the most traumatic breakup of my life thus far. Right now I am stuck with how much I should distract myself to not wallow, and how much to give validation to my own feelings and pain. I think it’s a tough balance to achieve.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 12:05 AM
2	A follow up of sorts I am certainly not in a good place for dating right now! I’ve learned the hard way now. I am trying to remember what brings me joy. Right now I just drink a lot and watch reality tv. I feel so far from healthy.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 12:03 AM
3	A follow up of sorts Thank you for acknowledging the loneliness. But you are right, in the meantime I just need to hold on and stay strong. 💕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 12:02 AM
2	A follow up of sorts Sunlight is kind of difficult right now in the PNW but you’re right. I’m probably not getting out and moving as much as I should. I cried so much, so loudly last night. I feel 100% worn out from this pain. Thank you for your kindness.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 12:01 AM
3	A follow up of sorts Thank you for that. As someone who has been in this situation, I know you know how much I am questioning myself right now. I can’t look in the mirror because I think I’m so ugly and that’s why he cheated on me... it all hurts so much. But I really appreciate your words.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/20 11:59 PM
2	A follow up of sorts I think you’re right. Life gets tough sometimes and we need more than usual and this is one of those times. I am struggling, that is for sure. I love your username btw.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/20 11:58 PM
2	A follow up of sorts I agree there isn’t anything wrong with seeking professional help. I’ve actually been dying to talk to someone outside of my friend circle about this. I’m just struggling to find someone available who takes Medicaid in my area.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/20 11:56 PM
2	Broke up with a cheating LVM but backsliding I keep thinking there is an apology that will fix this... if he only said the right set of words. Then I would know he’s sincere and I could forgive him and we could salvage this. But I know you’re right. And I know moreover: “And there is nothing you can say that will make him feel as guilty as he should or feel your suffering” I feel I have no words to describe to ANYONE how bad I am hurting right now. He’ll never understand what he has put me through.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 05:33 AM
1	Broke up with a cheating LVM but backsliding Lol right?? Can’t say I disagree.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 05:31 AM
1	Broke up with a cheating LVM but backsliding White knuckling is so hard! But thank you, I know you’re right.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 05:30 AM
2	Broke up with a cheating LVM but backsliding Thank you so much for this. I truly appreciate your empathy. And yes, multiple friends have told me I need to sleep with someone else to feel like I hold the same amount of power he does. A) I’m terrible at flirting and don’t think I can pick up a rando B) I feel too fragile. I’ll probably cry during sex or something. But you raise an even better point that only absolute predatory assholes will be attracted to my sadness... this is something to remind myself.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 05:30 AM
2	Broke up with a cheating LVM but backsliding You’re entirely correct. My world was spinning and it was utterly awful. I felt like I couldn’t breathe. It was surreal. I have never felt worse in a relationship. “You can't understand why he did what he did because you are not that type of person.” Yes. I can imagine downloading tinder or something to see what’s out there... for curiosity or something. But the fact that he thought it was ok to go on a date. And then thought it was ok to kiss her. And then thought it was ok to have SEX with her…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 05:27 AM
2	Broke up with a cheating LVM but backsliding Hard to hear but very likely to be true. It’s painful that’s for sure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 05:23 AM
2	Broke up with a cheating LVM but backsliding Started reading this after reading your comment! Seems great already.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 05:22 AM
3	Broke up with a cheating LVM but backsliding “You don't really want him back. You want him to want you back. His cheating followed by the acceptance of the breakup are a double kick to your ego.” 100% I think you are on the money here. I am thinking what is wrong with me that he is not wanting me? I did his laundry, I ran errands for his workplace, I drove him around, I gave him massages... am I not pretty enough? Do I seem too desperate? My self esteem is at an all-time low. I have never felt more ugly and unloveable. Also, he is already …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 05:21 AM
3	Broke up with a cheating LVM but backsliding I’ve blocked him on social media, but truthfully he blocked me first. He said he was so sad about what he’d done that he didn’t want to see my face. He hasn’t been having sex with me so I guess in a way he didn’t risk my health? I’ve always been attracted to him but he said he started feeling “familial” towards me. I probably made a mistake by being so nurturing towards him always. I need to remember what you’re saying: I’m not a hospital for broken men. Even if I think I am capable of it, it sh…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/20 05:17 AM