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LifestyleSulla314/r/seduction08/08/25 10:51 PM
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Field ReportSulla314/r/seduction23/07/25 04:01 PM
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Push-pulls, cold reads, purposeful misinterpretation, future faking ect. , ect.
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:54 PM
3

Flirt, banter, light touch
/r/seduction20/07/26 06:54 PM
0

The man and the woman.
/r/seduction20/07/26 05:56 PM
0

Tension
/r/seduction20/07/26 04:59 PM
1

Most of the advice I see from guys online is practical and from real experience. Most of it does. It’s not hard to find in-feilds online.
/r/seduction15/07/26 09:19 PM
1

No, to flirt effectively you absolutely have to risk not being liked. That’s what it is.
/r/seduction15/07/26 07:00 PM
33

Effective flirting requires being polarizing
/r/seduction14/07/26 03:59 PM
0

Gotta keep practicing
/r/seduction25/06/26 05:55 PM
2

Yes. Very relevant. Experience is pretty fucking important. Call me crazy.
/r/seduction24/06/26 04:05 AM
1

Of course it has something to do with his situation. They’re both trying to bang waitresses…wtf?
/r/seduction24/06/26 01:29 AM
1

I’ve seen guys date their waitresses but it’s hard to pull off…
/r/seduction24/06/26 01:28 AM
3

Basically 90% of the shit you learn in here. Focus on yourself and building a compelling lifestyle, don’t prostrate yourself or your needs for female approval, build a sense of self awareness where it’s needed ect. ect.
/r/seduction18/06/26 02:44 PM
9

“Treating them like people” means treating them as fallible humans, capable of problematic, entitled, and narcissistic behavior. It means advocating for yourself and your standards and expectations in a partner.
/r/seduction15/06/26 06:13 PM
7

I started getting way better results with women when I stopped listening to how they say they want to be pursued and I started focusing on what actually gets results.
/r/seduction15/06/26 03:19 PM
2

Why is that?
/r/seduction04/05/26 01:32 PM
2

Kino
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:21 AM
4

You need to be willing to ruin a friendship or it won’t work. You don’t attract them with the logical part of their brain.
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:15 AM
6

Flirting is verbal/light physical play with sexual innuendo.
/r/seduction03/05/26 11:26 PM
1

Wut?
/r/seduction28/04/26 01:28 PM
2

Yea, no. She liked him in large part because of his status. There’s costs to that. Costs on his time and attention. Costs that she was well aware of when she signed up…and she still cheated.
/r/seduction23/04/26 03:43 PM
2

Tom Brady got cheated on, dude…
/r/seduction23/04/26 01:26 PM
18

It’s isolating, too. You can make great strides in certain things, but it subtracts from others.
/r/seduction23/04/26 12:24 PM
2

One data point of many
/r/seduction17/04/26 12:54 PM
0

I’ve seen better advice on here
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:53 PM
-1

Welp, that’s what we got.
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:49 PM
-2

Use that advice
/r/seduction09/04/26 05:27 PM
33

It’s more of a them problem
/r/seduction07/04/26 07:48 PM
1

“Under confident”
/r/seduction07/04/26 10:04 AM
23

Naw, bro. At some point, being this sensitive makes you look try hard and reactive. If this becomes a pattern, that’s different, but the ultimate exhibition of strength is displaying grace.
/r/seduction29/03/26 03:09 AM
22

Dumb
/r/seduction29/03/26 01:01 AM
2

Yea, working out, being athletic, and dating all the time. Women hate that shit.
/r/seduction15/03/26 09:20 PM
1

I make sense, just to people that can think.
/r/seduction06/02/26 02:22 AM
1

See the original response. Read it slowly…
/r/seduction05/02/26 04:47 PM
1

Right and I’m telling they’re not feminine, my guy. Follow along👏👏👏👏.
/r/seduction05/02/26 04:44 PM
2

I think there’s a difference between effeminate and feminine.
/r/seduction05/02/26 04:03 AM
6

Acting like a women attracts women? Sure, 👍
/r/seduction04/02/26 06:29 PM
91

It 2025 bro, who can afford a house?
/r/seduction10/12/25 03:26 PM
1

Depends on how.
/r/seduction30/11/25 04:56 AM
1

Idk, if you keep getting similar outcomes, you’re probably the common denominator. Also, you just said you hate the absolutist advice, then you said “work out, have friends, eat healthy ect.” Human aren’t that different from each other. We’re large bipedal primates with opposable thumbs that fight, feed, and fuck. There observable changes you can make to get better outcomes.
/r/seduction29/11/25 05:04 PM
1

Hire a coach.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:20 AM
9

I’m assuming he’s loaded.
/r/seduction23/11/25 07:19 AM
2

The first paragraph just dead wrong in my experience. Most women don’t participate in dating apps.
/r/seduction19/11/25 01:02 AM
1

Already with the insults. Listen, if you don’t want people to call this stupid shit out, stop talking about it online. If you don’t talk back to bad ideas they spread.
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:27 PM
1

Is “doing the work” (whatever the fuck that means) a technical term? And go over alignment too. What landmark studies are you referring to. Explain how the “work is done” in graphic detail for me, because it sounds like complete bullshit.
/r/seduction14/11/25 07:17 PM
-1

Because she’s not right at all. It’s whimsical, fairytale reasoning.
/r/seduction14/11/25 06:54 PM
4

lol what? You barely know this person. You expect them to love you in the first month? And asking to beg or buy it?
/r/seduction11/11/25 11:22 AM
12

Why is everyone’s answer to relationship advice on this fucking app to “move on?” This post isn’t solving any problems.
/r/seduction11/11/25 12:21 AM
4

This. Words are wind.
/r/seduction08/11/25 05:43 AM
59

It’s insane, isn’t it?
/r/seduction03/11/25 02:49 PM
3

Who says you fucked up? Give her the gift of your absence.
/r/seduction03/11/25 03:34 AM
1

Do you make out with your friends?
/r/seduction28/10/25 12:09 AM
1

The problem is you’re most assured not going to trip and fall over it, though.
/r/seduction26/10/25 11:01 PM
1

Nah, the terminology is fine. There no progress without intent and using flowery, watered down language prevents you from getting better. What gets measured gets improved.
/r/seduction26/10/25 10:58 PM
6

Cold approach is “normal human interaction.”
/r/seduction26/10/25 06:12 PM
12

Asking her outright what she has to offer is pointless and insulting. That’s the type of shit I ask a girl when I want her to go away.
/r/seduction15/10/25 09:43 PM
1

Thanks ChatGPT.
/r/seduction15/10/25 10:24 AM
0

That’s about as wrong as it gets. Trust does pique attraction. The unpredictability is what women generally like.
/r/seduction15/10/25 01:00 AM
1

None.
/r/seduction15/10/25 12:01 AM
2

Of course it is. Who told you that?
/r/seduction13/10/25 12:20 AM
1

Try to create some more sexual tension. Flirt. Did you establish touch at all? How did she respond?
/r/seduction09/10/25 03:43 AM
23

Focus one your pics more.
/r/seduction05/10/25 06:54 PM
0

Camera lady really helped this
/r/seduction05/10/25 04:18 AM
5

I definitely understand that. If a girl has her hooks so deep into, and you’re not sure if you can resist texting her, that’s probably your best course of action.
/r/seduction03/10/25 11:47 PM
3

The biggest reason why is because I like to keep my conversations so I can review and get better at text game. The other reason is because what goes around comes around. One time I re-matched on a dating app with a girl that ghosted me. We smashed and I ditched her right after, conscious as clear as a cloudless blue sky. This game is played both ways, my friend. And I keep receipts.
/r/seduction03/10/25 11:45 PM
1

Pretty much the same thing but I don’t delete their number.
/r/seduction03/10/25 11:25 PM
3

The polarity of attraction
/r/seduction29/09/25 02:39 PM
7

IMO, the biggest thing is always have fun. If you’re just playing around, most can tell and they’ll buy in too.
/r/seduction22/09/25 10:54 PM
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No dude. Always move things toward the date. You’re always going to leave some on read, that’s the point. Polarize and filter.
/r/seduction21/09/25 05:04 PM
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The OP didn’t say anything about rejection at all.
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:45 AM
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It’s being downvoted because it’s meaningless, terrible advice.
/r/seduction18/09/25 03:10 AM
2

lol This one is going to be hard to pull off
/r/seduction17/09/25 06:01 PM
1

Stop judging yourself
/r/seduction17/09/25 12:24 AM
10

This is a very new age idea. People didn’t like this until 25 years ago.
/r/seduction15/09/25 12:42 PM
3

Good stuff. One thing I’ve realized about direct openers, and it makes sense, is that they force the woman to make a decision instantaneously and, since she barely knows you, she’s usually going to take the easiest, safest route (rejection).
/r/seduction09/09/25 08:29 PM
1

Wut?
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:19 AM
10

Manicures!?! lol
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:59 PM
-1

Showering that much is bad for your skin, dude.
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:58 PM
2

That does get tough, for sure.
/r/seduction07/09/25 02:29 PM
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Drinks. Don’t overthink it. Elaborate first dates are just as likely to work against you.
/r/seduction06/09/25 01:56 AM
8

To flirt effectively, you have to risk offending people. I don’t think there’s any way around it. You just have to keep a strong frame.
/r/seduction05/09/25 09:51 PM
3

There’s nothing you can tease her about?
/r/seduction04/09/25 06:43 PM
20

Hard to pull off but this is the way. You got to get her attention while, at least acting, she’s not getting yours.
/r/seduction04/09/25 06:43 PM
2

That’s another thing, I’m not sure if this can be accomplished in anyplace other than a world class city like NYC (Chicago, LA ect.).
/r/seduction03/09/25 08:21 PM
1

Evolutionary
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:36 PM
1

Especially anal, my friend. Especially. Anal.
/r/seduction26/08/25 07:07 PM
13

Because they don’t have to
/r/seduction26/08/25 06:11 PM
2

So how do you approach? Direct or indirect? Direct seems unethical if you’re genuinely attracted to them. Walk me through it.
/r/seduction24/08/25 12:43 AM
1

lol look at this jagoff
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:45 PM
4

Idk, dude, that seems…..idk…
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:11 PM
16

So you’re saying approach everyone?
/r/seduction23/08/25 11:08 PM
11

The problem I’m running into is that I’m not finding enough attractive women in my age range to get any reps in.
/r/seduction23/08/25 10:52 PM
0

“Accused” you?
/r/seduction23/08/25 08:14 PM
7

Why do you think?
/r/seduction23/08/25 08:08 PM
0

There’s no correlation between common interest and long term relationship satisfaction according to the Gottmans.
/r/seduction23/08/25 05:29 PM
-2

Commonalities are overrated
/r/seduction23/08/25 03:47 PM
2

No, dude. They only way you get better is to practice…
/r/seduction22/08/25 04:44 PM
6

I would be extremely careful. This is how people get fired. You could be misinterpreting this entire.
/r/seduction22/08/25 03:18 PM
1

No
/r/seduction21/08/25 08:33 PM
0

I wouldn’t worry about women until you get a job. The mental health stuff doesn’t need to be discussed at all.
/r/seduction21/08/25 11:55 AM
9

It’s pretty simple. The second they think they can’t lose you, you’re done.
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:45 PM
5

The “spark” is really just a synonym for anxiety. You have to demonstrate that you don’t need them.
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:31 PM
6

I see. I feel the same way. You can try to shift up in age, I would just remember hot women can be boring af at all ages
/r/seduction17/08/25 08:24 PM
19

Well, right, but what are you looking for? If you’re just looking to fuck, this isn’t a problem.
/r/seduction17/08/25 07:28 PM
17

What’s the downside?
/r/seduction17/08/25 07:06 PM
1

Whaaaaaaa
/r/seduction17/08/25 07:06 PM
2

Lots of bad framing and negative self talk here. You’re not “creepy” for going after what you want. No, you don’t want them to be nervous/anxious but that’s her responsibility at the end of day, not yours. She missed out, too, dude. Don’t forget that.
/r/seduction17/08/25 01:04 AM
-1

No, he actually becomes more appealing if he backs off.
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:45 PM
2

Yea, my ex wife pulled the same shit.
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:44 PM
3

Exactly this. I generally know what the answer is before I ask it.
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:43 PM
0

Me neither.
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:41 PM
3

This advice runs contrary to my experience.
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:40 PM
1

You’re placing too much value on what she’s telling you verbally. What was her body language telling you?
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:37 PM
2

I don’t know the full context of the date but, based off what you said, it doesn’t seem like she’s interested. A woman has to give me a reason to ask her out again. I need something that tells me the interest is reciprocal (assuming I have interest in the first place). I would text her afterward to make sure she got home safe then cut bait. What queues (verbal and nonverbal) was she giving you that lead you to escalate to the kiss?
/r/seduction16/08/25 02:34 PM
2

Maybe you should expound on that then, Sherlock.
/r/seduction12/08/25 04:17 AM
1

lol I’m sure that depends on the context
/r/seduction11/08/25 11:03 PM
12

Don’t apologize for asking for what you want…
/r/seduction11/08/25 06:47 PM
13

This isn’t masculinity you’re describing here. It’s thinly vailed insecurity cosplaying as masculinity. There’s nothing about warmth, friendliness, safety, and approachability that’s inherently anti-masculine.
/r/seduction11/08/25 02:40 PM
7

This. You have to avoid pressure, though. “It’s impossible to get someone to change their mind. It’s much easier to get them to make a new decision based on new information.”-Zig Zigler
/r/seduction10/08/25 08:43 PM
1

Well, that’s different. She may just be really busy or terrible at managing her time. Still though, that doesn’t mean you have to tolerate it. I would try to set up the date one more time, and if she gives you another excuse, I would do a hard takeaway.
/r/seduction10/08/25 07:56 PM
1

Have went with her at all?
/r/seduction10/08/25 07:39 PM
7

Forget what she says. What does her behavior tell you?
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:39 PM
1

She was live streaming and I just talked here up the way I would over text.
/r/seduction10/08/25 12:47 PM
2

You’re right. Women have no preferences at all. Makes perfect sense, guy👍
/r/seduction10/08/25 06:53 AM
1

I’ve pulled from TikTok and Facebook. I’m not good at it but it’s doable.
/r/seduction10/08/25 03:45 AM
4

Why wouldn’t you be able to build game in your 30s? Women would probably “prefer” to not date a guy straight out of a marriage but a lot of people do. The current internet manosphere rhetoric on age gaps is way off imo. They usually accompany substantial income/wealth gaps too, and you’re going to meet women that make great money so that drastically cuts the dating pool for you. You got to understand that the self-development is a never ending process. I’m literally the only guy that I know that…
/r/seduction09/08/25 05:30 PM
1

A lot of truth here.
/r/seduction09/08/25 04:20 AM
2

Oooof
/r/seduction09/08/25 02:38 AM
1

Am I? I asked a question about the current state of dating pool and you responded talking about people out of the dating pool.
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:02 AM
1

Wasn’t asking about couples.
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:55 PM
-9

No one is the prize. That framing is so dumb.
/r/seduction08/08/25 01:06 PM
3

Exactly. It helps you get rid of your fear of judgement, you gain confidence, you learn how to think on your feet ect. I think everyone should do it, truly. Every guy at least.
/r/seduction08/08/25 02:34 AM
11

The best place to go if you’re looking to learn how to flirt is an improv class. No joke. That’s the first place I would go if I had the time.
/r/seduction08/08/25 02:18 AM
1

Yea, I really try to stack ioi’s in those situations so I don’t deceive myself.
/r/seduction07/08/25 02:18 AM
1

Doesn’t sound like she’s complying.
/r/seduction07/08/25 01:50 AM
2

Why are you putting so much effort into 1 girl?
/r/seduction06/08/25 11:44 PM
2

You just mentioned you were hanging out with the same girl 2 weekends in a row. It’s hard to win at poker when you’re only playing one hand.
/r/seduction06/08/25 09:47 PM
1

Seems like you honed in on 1 girl.
/r/seduction06/08/25 09:18 PM
1

This! Purposeful misinterpretation is like a verbal game cheat code.
/r/seduction06/08/25 07:03 PM
3

Seriously
/r/seduction06/08/25 11:33 AM
1

Who cares? If it your just amusing yourself, just do it. Just don’t insult, that’s all.
/r/seduction05/08/25 06:53 PM
2

This is where I think improv comes in use. If there’s no wingmen around, I would playfully troll the cockblocker. You probably won’t have the woman’s attention for very long but you can make yourself look good in front of her. The key is not to react.
/r/seduction05/08/25 12:36 AM
1

Yea, I would wait a few days and send a very low effort nudge, but watch out she might sense that you like her…
/r/seduction02/08/25 10:08 PM
6

Dude, the absolute worst thing you could have done is “fight for her.” It makes you look desperate and needy. You made the right move. You need to focus on yourself and other romantic prospects. You’re probably feeling a lot of separation anxiety right now, so it’s hard, but it’s also, paradoxically, your best chance of getting her back. But she has to come to you, and she has to work for it. Don’t sacrifice your dignity no matter how much you love her.
/r/seduction02/08/25 07:30 PM
1

Sooo, you were originally the dumper, then you tried to get her back and she’s hesitant?
/r/seduction02/08/25 07:17 PM
3

Why did you break up with her? Has she been contacting you?
/r/seduction02/08/25 06:41 PM
3

I’m talking about on the date.
/r/seduction31/07/25 03:41 AM
7

Dude, women are under immense pressure to not come off as sluts so they’re going to say they’re “Looking for Relationship” when they’re just horny. It sounds like you’re pressing. Let these women come to you. Patience matters.
/r/seduction31/07/25 02:49 AM
1

What are you guys meeting for?
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:11 PM
1

Do it like any other messenger. Is she flirting with you?
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:02 PM
1

I would like to know how it works out though because there are some stunners on there. lol
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:00 PM
0

The letter is a terrible idea. Have you spoke to her? What’s the vibe?
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:41 PM
6

Honestly guy, it’s a solid strategy to focus on your career in your 20s, and have women be the afterthought. It makes things easier in the long run.
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:39 PM
24

I don’t think it will last long. Someone will create a male version and they’ll both go. Focus on what you can control.
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:20 PM
21

C’mon, just send a text. I’m having a similar issue but you have to at least try to leave them better than you found them.
/r/seduction23/07/25 10:48 PM
23

Bro, don’t ghost people. Bush league.
/r/seduction23/07/25 10:42 PM
-1

Right, but not an “obligation” or “conquest.” Those are distinctions you’re projecting onto the word.
/r/seduction23/07/25 09:56 PM
0

Naw, the words are fine. I don’t know how you derive obligation in that word comply or how you determined it’s void of empathy.
/r/seduction23/07/25 09:15 PM
-1

Finally someone understands. I can’t help but wonder if I had lightly placed my hand “elsewhere”while we were laying down, what her reaction would have been. She might have pulled away or she might have complied. I can’t but wonder if we would have had sex, would she have stuck around. Either way, you’re right. It doesn’t matter now. I get the feeling I was monkey branched. Dating apps, ya know?
/r/seduction23/07/25 08:14 PM
-1

Babe, I’ve been able to secure a shit load of second dates, but I would only need to have gone on 1 to know more about this than you. 😘
/r/seduction23/07/25 06:25 PM
-3

No dude, you’re wrong. By your definition, a guy asking for anything he wants is “pressure.” Women want assertive men and a guy that’s too afraid to do assert can’t offer them any security anyway.
/r/seduction23/07/25 06:08 PM
-7

It’s not. Lololol. Not at all.
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:59 PM
15

Sounds like you might be too attached. Do you care too much?
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:50 PM
-5

I assure you, it’s not. If you’re a woman, then wtf do you know about getting women? Why are you even responding?
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:48 PM
-4

It’s not. Not even close, dude. I knew I shouldn’t have asked this.
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:38 PM
-10

lol “rape and pressure.l Jeezus some of you people are psychopaths.
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:36 PM
-2

No on said anything about pressuring lol
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:34 PM
1

Yea, that’s probably true. I tend to treat “relationship material” much different than “hookup material.”
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:30 PM
-4

Naw, I didn’t even try.
/r/seduction23/07/25 05:28 PM
6

I think you do that by listening to her, asking questions about her experience that you’re genuinely curious about because most guys are aren’t doing that. If you show sexual discipline instead of treating her like a piece of meat, she’ll feel safe with you and open up even more. Play it right, and she’ll be begging for you to pipe her down if not by the end of the date, soon.
/r/seduction23/07/25 03:10 PM
4

Honestly, dude, I’ve been in a similar situation and I would recommend ignoring what she said and go where the vibes tell you to go. Start off with neutral body language and go from there. Flirt verbally. More times than not, women will say stuff like that to put on a front. Ignore her words. Follow her behavior. She could be testing your sexual discipline too, so let her come to you. She’ll let you know.
/r/seduction23/07/25 02:46 PM
2

The framing of this post is all fucked up. It seems like you attached to the outcome here, dude. You have to find a way to tone it down in your own head.
/r/seduction22/07/25 05:37 PM
1

Dude, these never ending text conversations between romantic prospects is seriously destroying dating. People weren’t meant to be in constant omnipotent contact with each-other like this.
/r/seduction22/07/25 04:05 AM
1

No dude. Assert yourself. “Hey there’s this (movie, concert, festival, TV show, whatever) I’ve been meaning to check out. You wanna go? My treat.” Direct. No fluff. Detached.
/r/seduction21/07/25 11:23 PM
1

Bro…fr?
/r/seduction21/07/25 11:13 PM
1

No it don’t
/r/seduction21/07/25 10:48 PM
1

Push pulls
/r/seduction20/07/25 11:42 PM
19

No one said anything about assault
/r/seduction20/07/25 09:04 PM
54

She almost assuredly won’t
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:00 PM
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