Sumbuddyonce Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to handle playing hard to get?	Escalation & Calibration	Sumbuddyonce	/r/seduction	04/08/22 10:51 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Caffeine, Alcohol, and Porn: some of the most detrimental contributors to social anxiety are also the most accepted by society Caffeine is the best, if it weren't for caffeine my first cold approach never would've happened (she was a barista)	/r/seduction	31/10/22 04:29 PM
4	Sexual breakthrough for men Find out for yourself. You won't regret it	/r/seduction	30/10/22 03:48 PM
23	Sexual breakthrough for men Realized they were looking at me cuz I'm cute not cuz I'm wierd	/r/seduction	30/10/22 12:39 PM
5	Field Report - One of my approaches I've done Regardless of whether you were rejected or not it's always a good thing that you shot your shot, better to find out than he left wondering	/r/seduction	29/10/22 11:55 AM
2	The last post you'll need to read here: Just do difficult things, be vulnerable, and treat women like intelligent and interesting individuals. That's it. lol. Just hang out with them and be kinda flirty and they might let you jizz out of latex. Especially if your head game is strong so work them tongues	/r/seduction	29/10/22 11:49 AM
13	How can I (22F) approach guys? What do I do if I catch them staring at me but they never approach me just stare??? Recently a girl working at a coffee shop came over to my table, sat down, and took off her mask to talk to me. Some of us are so oblivious you might have to do something like this 😆	/r/seduction	09/10/22 10:12 AM
1	things were going great and I told her my love for her Old timey sports caster voice "oooh ya hate to see it folks"	/r/seduction	29/09/22 08:08 PM
1	Do curved cocks make a difference for women? Curve makes it easier to hit the button. Those with a different shape need only keep geometry in mind while hitting the nana	/r/seduction	29/09/22 05:48 PM
1	How do you guys deal with the depression of being an older virgin? Deal with your emotions first. Imagine you spilled a cup on the counter and it's dripping down to the floor. Are you going to wipe the floor first and continue to do so as the liquid keeps dripping down? Or are you going to dry the counter first and then deal with the floor?	/r/seduction	27/09/22 05:13 PM
1	How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here? Yeah but I'm not convinced this sub really helped. I figured out on my own that a lot of the shit people say on here is useless and found my own way. The only people here you should listen to are the ones that say "just go out and do it". Everyone else is just talking out their ass	/r/seduction	22/09/22 06:13 PM
2	How to tolerate a loud AMOG? Be sarcastically dismissive when he makes bad jokes.	/r/seduction	18/09/22 11:16 AM
1	Old high school classmates that I didn’t have a chance with back then are now suddenly open to me. Wtf? Hello, fellow late bloomer. Feels good to be pulling while the dudes who were cool in high-school are getting fat huh?	/r/seduction	18/09/22 11:09 AM
3	Remember when you were little and tried to impress girls with how fast and strong you were?? Holy shit, never thought I'd see good advice on this sub	/r/seduction	14/09/22 04:39 PM
0	How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl? Beg for them	/r/seduction	12/09/22 06:55 AM
0	How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl? 🍑🍆	/r/seduction	11/09/22 10:50 PM
0	How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl? ☺	/r/seduction	11/09/22 09:24 PM
0	How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl? 😉	/r/seduction	11/09/22 03:15 PM
1	How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl? Cool arbitrary metric of human attractiveness that provides no useful information. People in the 4-5 range tend to get upset when they see the actual objective scale.	/r/seduction	09/09/22 07:37 PM
1	How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl? You've probably never met a 9.5 And you're lower on the scale than you think you are	/r/seduction	09/09/22 05:28 PM
1	How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl? 10s don't exist	/r/seduction	09/09/22 12:18 AM
2	I can only seem to be flirtatious and charming when I’m not trying to be Same. Stop trying and just be natural	/r/seduction	08/09/22 06:07 PM
23	The instant you show a girl too much interest, she plays hard Sometimes you think they're playing hard to get but they're actually just kinda awkward	/r/seduction	14/08/22 01:12 PM
1	Attractiveness Equation Don't you have some RFIs to answer?	/r/seduction	11/08/22 01:26 AM
5	Attractiveness Equation Nah this post is just the kind of classic overthinking engineers are all about. It's really not as complicated as you're making it out to be. But if that's the way it works in your mind that's fine for you, but telling most people to overthink it like you won't do them any favors	/r/seduction	10/08/22 09:56 PM
7	Attractiveness Equation This is why no one likes engineers. Imagine thinking this way 😆	/r/seduction	10/08/22 08:47 PM
4	The checklist mentality - just because you have some conventionally attractive traits doesn’t mean women will be automatically drawn to you If you're sexy pretend you're not. Put in the effort you would have to if you were ugly.	/r/seduction	09/08/22 11:21 PM
6	Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive? Don't place too much importance on the outcome. Live in the moment instead of thinking about where you want the situation to go. Just see where it goes instead and remember to enjoy yourself in the process	/r/seduction	09/08/22 02:18 PM
26	Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive? Are you being too nice and formal? Do you have interesting things to talk about? Some people's only problem is they treat a date like a job interview. Loosen up a little, be flirty.	/r/seduction	09/08/22 12:55 PM
3	Tinder is a MASSIVE waste of time I don't think you actually know the scale https://imgur.com/IP2LiZ6 Otherwise, explain how I, a 6.5 at my best, manage to get play on tinder when an "8/10" doesn't. you just come across like an asshole over text?	/r/seduction	08/08/22 11:28 PM
1	Won't I bother a girl if I approach her without her saying if she actually wants to be approached beforehand? It's okay to bother someone for a second as long as you leave them the fuck alone as soon as it becomes apparent	/r/seduction	08/08/22 11:09 AM
1	What to do when a girl reaches out after ghosting? Accept her offer and "forget" your wallet	/r/seduction	06/08/22 05:12 PM
1	I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked? Just call her, talk to her for a bit, make her laugh, then fucking ask her out. That's it...	/r/seduction	06/08/22 04:44 PM
0	If you never approach, then you might be the greatest lady’s man of all time. Projecting much?	/r/seduction	01/08/22 01:30 PM
4	What made you realize you actually learned to seduce women? It absolutely is. Approval seeking is extremely unattractive and makes you seem desperate and wierd. Being self actualized is sexy, it gives you confidence and magnetism.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 11:43 PM
4	What made you realize you actually learned to seduce women? If you really trained then you should know that you need at least 6 hours of sleep every night or you'll never see gains	/r/seduction	28/07/22 10:35 PM
5	What made you realize you actually learned to seduce women? Those are some cheap ladies	/r/seduction	28/07/22 10:32 PM
5	What made you realize you actually learned to seduce women? You're seeing it wrong. You do what you need, not what others need. And you don't do it out of fear of consequences or hope for gain, that's the adolescent bargaining stage. You simply do it because it's what you do, that's being an adult.	/r/seduction	28/07/22 10:31 PM
3	What made you realize you actually learned to seduce women? When they started fucking me	/r/seduction	28/07/22 06:23 PM
1	Is it worth staying friends with a girl I dated? If you hit it right she won't wanna stop. Plus you're free to explore other avenues too.	/r/seduction	22/07/22 04:39 PM
8	Does anyone know guys who insult women after they reject them? When I worked a line cook job women weren't allowed to take out the trash for this reason. They got so mad cuz we got to have a smoke break lol. I remember a group conversation with the manager where a couple girls were complaining about it and after he explained my friend was like "but what if we get assaulted" Manager was just like "no one cares if you get assaulted Ryan" He wasn't serious It was just a funny way to break the tension after a scary realization for those girls.	/r/seduction	21/07/22 06:03 PM
-1	Do girls and women like being talked to? Evidently	/r/seduction	20/07/22 09:36 PM
1	Do girls and women like being talked to? Nothing insightful there	/r/seduction	20/07/22 06:19 PM
1	Do girls and women like being talked to? Well, she's not underage so Drake wouldn't be talking to her	/r/seduction	20/07/22 02:05 PM
1	Is this is test from her? Reciprocate. It's good to have her chasing you but if you don't do the same sometimes she'll get bored. Make a plan for this road trip, include things you know she'll like. Show her you remembered things she said. Then pitch the idea	/r/seduction	19/07/22 02:57 PM
6	Older people (50+) walking by will sometimes say "Hello" to me. Younger people, especially women, will not. What does this say? People don't know how powerful self talk really is. If you're always telling yourself you can't then you won't	/r/seduction	19/07/22 12:08 AM
2	Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman? Hiding under her hood. You can make her come out if you ask nicely	/r/seduction	18/07/22 07:36 PM
1	Any of you guys do TRT? Has it changed your game, confidence? Definitely not most. Most of us just don't understand how often we have to eat smaller amounts to make up for being an ectomorph. Certainly there are those who can't but most just don't.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 10:29 PM
1	Any of you guys do TRT? Has it changed your game, confidence? You don't need to be able to eat huge amounts of food in one sitting is what I'm saying. If you spread it out you'll find it easier and you'll actually be absorbing all the nutrients instead of shitting most of it out. Now if your appetite is so low that you can't even do this then yeah, you've got some extenuating medical circumstances to deal with.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 10:00 PM
1	Any of you guys do TRT? Has it changed your game, confidence? lol, eating past the point of fullness is doing nothing for you my guy. Your body can only absorb so much protien in one sitting, anything extra you eat will just get shit out. The trick is to eat every 3 or so hours.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 05:07 PM
2	She is the one who texts me, but it takes hours to answer me. Maybe she does more with her day than staring at her phone?	/r/seduction	16/07/22 12:47 PM
3	Do girls talk about other guys as a test? lol, just be poly and stop giving a fuck	/r/seduction	15/07/22 01:48 PM
4	In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions? What will help you is to practice. Lower your standards to the level of girls who will be patient with bad flirting because you're perceived as "out of their league" physically (I hate the concept of leagues but it works). It's a great way to get better at banter in a low risk environment	/r/seduction	15/07/22 12:29 PM
4	In the process of flirting, how do I avoid dropping into asking questions? I have to say what they say about eating well and exercising works wonders. Not just because it will improve your physique but it makes you feel yourself more, makes you feel more confident, and gets rid of the brain fog standing between you and thinking of what to say.	/r/seduction	15/07/22 11:50 AM
1	Are we as men working too hard to get women? As someone who has recently been seeing drastically improved results, yes you're probably trying too hard. I know I was	/r/seduction	14/07/22 01:15 AM
2	Is a woman staring at you a tease or not? Just talk to em like you would anyone else. Also, don't be scared to go out on a limb if that match isn't responsive there's plenty who will be.	/r/seduction	14/07/22 12:28 AM