SummerTomato1 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	Men love and respect pick mes But you are very concerned about how she looks - that trumps personality, intelligence, humor, success, career, work ethic, style, charm, even kindness and integrity. Make that make sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/26 03:02 AM
–	Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worse I slept with my husband on the second date. We made out on the first. They were only 2 days apart. I moved into his house 3 weeks later. That was more than 30 years ago. Its going pretty well so far. 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/26 04:49 AM
9	Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromise I agree that is probably true at the extreme ends of the spectrum. However, for most of us in the average looks bucket and in good, long-term, loving, relationships, how you view your partner’s attractiveness is heavily influenced by how you feel about them. You may see how they have aged/etc. but to you, they are just as attractive, maybe more, than they ever were. That’s because your brain is filling in the objective reality with memories of warmth and care and sex and fun and admiration and a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 04:40 PM
2	Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromise There are a ton of studies showing great health improvements from regular cardio. It doesn’t however correlate with weight loss. Surprisingly, your body compensates for the exercise by moving slightly less the other 23.5 hours a day. It all tends to balance out. This book does a great job of explaining the weird science: <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 03:54 PM
41	Never settle” has slowly morphed into “never compromise As someone who has been happily married for 30 years these lists of dating/marriage requirements drive me crazy - both from women and men. Your spouse’s height or weight or attractiveness or profession or bank account is not going to determine whether you have a happy, fulfilling, relationship. You know what will? How kind you are to each other; How well you listen to each other; Whether you show up for each other when its hard; Whether you put each other’s happiness high on your priority list; …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 11:54 PM
3	What do you value? That’s differnt. Lots of people are fun and great to be around. Few are there day after day, year after year, when things are hard - those people are gold. I know. I married one.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/26 06:21 PM
2	What do you value? You left out D, the most important: Someone kind with integrity who is reliable and always there for the people in his life when they need him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/26 05:47 PM
3	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? Sure. Makes sense. I have no dog in this fight. But, I don’t understand your first comment about “you of all people…”. What am I missing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 01:28 AM
4	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? Well, my husband is 14 years older than me, so it rang true to me, even though that is not statistically significant. It would make sense that many, if not most, of the women at the top end of that range are dating/marrying men outside the range. Analt223 offers some other explainations. I’m no expert. What do you think is going on?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 01:17 AM
3	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? Right, but the women in that age group are dating men older than that age group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 01:01 AM
2	What is your strongest Pro Blue Pill Argument? I’ve read that it’s older men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/26 12:53 AM
1	Horny men pretend to care about romance so they can justify being selfish. I think men, like women, do actually want sex, connection, real love and relationships. Are there men, especially young men, who just want to sleep with as many people as possible? Sure. Are they the majority? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/26 07:50 AM