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| 284 | Audience during an interview laughs at a man getting abused and hurt, but interviewer explains how they wouldn’t be laughing if it was a woman. | Social Issues | Sun-Kizzed | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 08:18 AM |
| 8 | Do You Think It’s Sexist To Fear The Opposite Gender? | Social Issues | Sun-Kizzed | /r/MensRights | 16/03/22 06:35 AM |
| 1 | The well-being of women is taken more seriously than men. Disturbing. | Social Issues | Sun-Kizzed | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Image speaks for itself. People care more for women’s wellbeing’s and laugh at men’s. Disturbing. | Social Issues | Sun-Kizzed | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 08:09 AM |
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| -1 | this article in r/psychology on why women initiate divorce more the second key point is that divorce is more costly for women... how?Not talking about alimony. I’m talking about the divorce process, which is a long expensive process. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/22 07:13 AM |
| 2 | this article in r/psychology on why women initiate divorce more the second key point is that divorce is more costly for women... how?Divorce is absolutely expensive. I know families/couples that refuse to get divorced even though they want to, because they can’t afford it at the moment. Lol. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Which gender has it harder? Change my mind: It's harder to be a man than a womanKeep thinking that. | /r/MensRights | 10/03/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Which gender has it harder? Change my mind: It's harder to be a man than a womanYou have to be scouted most of the time of major competitive teams. A lot of people aren’t on teams anymore or don’t join teams. A lot of women in so many games definitely have the ability to be on many teams for different games, and it’s kinda sad to me that you don’t think so. 2 years ago I was GM on Overwatch, and I play low elo with my friends up to this day so I can still have fun with them. I main Bap and Ana, but on occasion, I play Mercy. Before the game even starts, DPS are moaning and … | /r/MensRights | 10/03/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Which gender has it harder? Change my mind: It's harder to be a man than a womanAs someone who has played League, dota, and a bunch of other games, those women who are challenger and other high ranks, exist. They just get called out countlessly. Pokimane for example still gets shit on for being a female gamer, and she’s a pretty decent gamer. People don’t take actual female gamers seriously, even if they’re good. Majority of men won’t get treated differently when representing a gaming team like a woman would. Pants Are Dragon bought a girl on Epal and kept trying to get her… | /r/MensRights | 10/03/22 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Why don't the rich women buy tampons in bulk to distribute to poor women instead of bitching about it on international women's day?You WANTING expensive clothing to make you happy is different from a woman NEEDING tampons and pads for their hygiene when they can’t afford them. | /r/MensRights | 09/03/22 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Why don't the rich women buy tampons in bulk to distribute to poor women instead of bitching about it on international women's day?Why are we, as MRAs, complaining about the availability of feminine hygiene products??? Why does poor women not being able to afford tampons make you “go nuts”? This post is the reason media shames MRAs. Do feminists affect men? Yes. But this real women’s issue on feminine hygiene does not hurt men when advocating for it. It’s not complaining, it’s doing exactly what men do about custody, law systems, circumcision and more. You are not complaining, you are advocating and spreading awareness. And… | /r/MensRights | 09/03/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"I don’t have to care about men’s rights as a woman, because at the end of the day they will never truly affect me as a person / woman. But here I am still caring and advocating. It just shows what kind of a person he is. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/22 01:00 AM |
| 6 | I am sick and tired of hearing about men ‘volunteering’ in UkraineThere was one article talking about women staying back and fighting and learning how to use guns. And I was like…. Uhm well they have the option?? Where is the part where men are being held against their own right to fight?? And then one tiny sentence full of euphemism out of the whole article said men 18-60 stay. They added it like it wasn’t even important, as if nothing was wrong with that and it was just a filler sentence. It’s sickening. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/22 06:45 PM |
| 2 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"Dude, no one is trying to STOP there period. Whether you insert the ring right after the old one or not, you just don’t have a flow. The contractions and cramps are still in place where you would have your period. I have the Mirena. Regulating and lightening periods is different from stopping them all together. And even if you do stop the flow, the pain is still a possibility. And menstruating is healthy. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 03:45 PM |
| 2 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"What???? I’ve been on birth control pill since I was 13. I was on it first as a mood stabilizer because a lot of things were going on then, and then it became my period regulation. Birth control absolutely does not stop menstruation. If you or any girl you know is not getting her period ever because of her birth control, tell her to see her OBGYN. You may miss a month, but if it stop all together you or someone needs to see a doctor. At 19, I currently have the IUD, I’m getting mine taken out an… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 03:38 PM |
| 4 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"Tubes tied doesn’t stop menstruation. It helps prevent and descalate the cramps and severe contractions and other pains you get. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 03:34 PM |
| 2 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"I did say unpaid leave. And many women don’t just feel better with ibuprofen. Some try to get prescribed contraceptives to help with mentrual cramps and even then they have terrible side effects and feel like shit. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 03:28 PM |
| 3 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"It personally seems like you haven’t read the majority of my comments. I’ve explained how I believe if you take the day off that month, you should not be paid, but it should also not be held against your work ethic. There is no positive discrimination in how I explained it. You do realize men can live longer than the average life expectancy? Every woman, which very few have reasons that they don’t ever get their period, experience menstrual cycles. Maternity leave and paternity leave I have talk… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 12:49 PM |
| 0 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"1 leave PER month. Look at it as 1 day per month. That is not what it says, lol. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 12:40 PM |
| 6 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"I’m a woman, but since I don’t have to deal with being discriminated against in child custody, law and the prison system, MGM, or other things that deal with dads, felons, or another baby boys that I don’t know and don’t affect me, why should I care? I still go to work and get paid, have a great husband I care about. Why should I care about strangers who are suffering if it doesn’t affect me? The point that you are making is a terrible way to go about this. It doesn’t affect him, but he should s… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"I definitely agree. Some business can take the time to fly the whole company on vacation to a spa. Other can’t even fire the people who do no calls no shows, because they need them when they do show up. It would definitely depend on the business. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 12:32 PM |
| 15 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"Trans men, I believe is who they are talking about. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 12:20 PM |
| 5 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"The difficult part about it is it can’t be a specific day. I definitely agree periods range no doubt. But I might get my period the 1st and then someone else the 20th, for example. It would be tiresome to keep track of who unless they have documentation of telling them “this is my mentstrual cycle date”. Although… some women may get there’s a week later or it could be irregular. Menstrual suppression can also mess up your cycles dates. So it definitely depends on how the woman feels during her p… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 12:19 PM |
| 2 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"And I’m telling you how I feel and disagree that they should be paid that day. Why should a man be paid for a woman’s struggles? I just don’t think you understand the severity of periods because you just don’t have it, which is understandable. I’ll absolutely never know how it feels to be circumcised, but I still sympathize with the men who are hurting and are victims from it. If a man bled from his genitals once a month, had severe pelvic cramps and other contractions down there, rashes, dizzin… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 12:01 PM |
| 2 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"You menstruate once a month. Your cycle normally lasts a week or a bit longer. They are talking about giving one day off during that week. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 11:53 AM |
| -2 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"Its not though? If a POC who is a man is held back from getting a job because of his skin color from a racist employer compared to a white man, than he is being discrimated agaisnt. I agree with that. I’m sure if you got severe contractions down there, dizziness, rashes, possible fainting, and bleeding almost every hour from your genitals once a week, you could be considered on having one day off during your cycle. Woman didn’t ask for that obstacle every month. Just like how POC didnt ask for p… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 11:50 AM |
| -14 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"It’s not that you don’t have to. It’s that you don’t care to. And I never said that’s not discrimination. What point are you trying to make? | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 11:42 AM |
| 19 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"Yes, I don’t think you should get paid during that day, because you are TAKING THE DAY OFF. It should be unpaid time off, but it shouldn’t be affected against your work ethic. Give men the same day off….? You realize women aren’t in sync…? They won’t all have the same mentrual cycles…. I believe if you decide to take this day off, know you will not be paid nor will it be held against you, but if you need to recover from severe contractions and sometimes vomit and dizziness / near fainting experi… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 11:41 AM |
| -30 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"We know you know we get our periods, but just like how you will never know how pushing a baby out of you / labor feels, you will never know how periods can feel for some women. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 11:37 AM |
| 2 | Guy makes a noise in workplace, she proceeds to verbally abuse the man.I’ve never been on this Reddit, FDS, and actually looked through it. I finally did…. Crazy how it’s not banned and it’s pathetic some people don’t see anything wrong with what they’re saying. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 11:35 AM |
| 16 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"Did this for my periods. Worked for me, but some women literally get their tubes tied for it because no medication works. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 11:32 AM |
| -1 | "It is really important for all of us to accept the biological differences in the workplace"I don’t see anything wrong with this? Maybe it’s because I’m a woman, but many woman have severe Dysmenorrhea which not only includes painful contractions multiple times but also vomiting, dizziness, fainting, and rashes. Which can last for a bit longer than a week. I understand not knowing this as a guy, but these things are painful at times. Not female privilege, because trust me when I say no woman WANTS a period, lmao. But it’s not a mans fault, but I definetly think this would be nice for w… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with loneliness. An advice to all humans out there, especially young men.“Loneliness is a sign you are in desperate need of yourself” - Rupi Kaur This is great advice, OP. Thank you for sharing this. | /r/MensRights | 02/03/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | We Don't Have the Ballsand this is why women aren’t drafted. People genuinely think all women aren’t capable of going to war but the average American male is. It’s misandrist and misogynistic in their own ways. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | All the gender earnings gap proves is women avoid higher paying but dirty, stressful and very dangerous jobs. If you want more money you can find it in these jobs.If a man was given an option to be a business man working in an office and make the same pay as a physically demanding job like construction, majority would pick the office. Blue collared jobs have never been the only option. I’m not a feminist, nor do I agree with what they do, but the amount of things said on this Reddit and other MRM platforms is a lot. It’s not the organizations that make the MRM look bad, it’s the specific group of people on social media calling themselves MRA but only spew… | /r/MensRights | 28/02/22 06:48 PM |
| 0 | All the gender earnings gap proves is women avoid higher paying but dirty, stressful and very dangerous jobs. If you want more money you can find it in these jobs.If men choose to risk their lives at work and women don’t, then that’s their CHOICE. Majority of people working do not care enough about their jobs to put their lives at risk. So if women aren’t willing to risk their life at a physically demanding job and men are, the fatalities would be skewed towards men. But that statistic isn’t bullshit? And the fact that the majority of men who commented think women need to get married and have kids to be happy or it’s all they need / want, is sad. Many wom… | /r/MensRights | 27/02/22 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Having a kid soon, been on a lot of parenting subs and it makes me sick that women think men should have no say in termination of pregnancyWell we could ask the same question on why people do a lot of things. Majority of people are stupid. But the majority of people don’t condone that behavior during a pregnancy. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 06:38 AM |
| 0 | Having a kid soon, been on a lot of parenting subs and it makes me sick that women think men should have no say in termination of pregnancyI think if a man tells the woman she doesn’t want the baby before birth or whatever day abortion seems “unfit”, then he should be able to financially abort and physically abort ( as in not be in the child’s life ). That still begs the question if MRAs dislike single mothers so much, doesn’t this just create more….? Definitely if they continue with the pregnancy. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 03:19 AM |
| 5 | Having a kid soon, been on a lot of parenting subs and it makes me sick that women think men should have no say in termination of pregnancyI’ve always heard people say NOT to drink or smoke during pregnancy and it’s definitely looked down upon…. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 03:17 AM |
| -10 | Having a kid soon, been on a lot of parenting subs and it makes me sick that women think men should have no say in termination of pregnancyNot any hate to this law or you, but this law is for babies who are endangered, neglected or abused. Not just to “give them up”. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/22 03:15 AM |
| 2 | USA: Starbucks barista wrote secret message on cup for a girl, 18, who was (apparently) being pestered by stranger. OP: And they wonder why men do not talk to women anymore!True! But another example should be we shouldnt 100% believe the mother because she’s a woman and mothers are “nurturing and caring” and instead, we should be skeptical if she’s fit for parenting. Just like we should be skeptical of strangers since we don’t know their true intentions of talking to a random person they don’t know either. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | USA: Starbucks barista wrote secret message on cup for a girl, 18, who was (apparently) being pestered by stranger. OP: And they wonder why men do not talk to women anymore!The difference is a majority of people go to the bar with friends or to make friends. The majority of people don’t go to Starbucks to make friends. That’s what makes the situation skeptical. If this was a bar, it would be very different. Is it walking up to the woman and being nervous about saying hello that’s scary? Because I’ve heard so many stories about women being walked up to and flirted with at train stations and other places and scared to say no because something may happen. You act like… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/22 06:30 PM |
| 4 | USA: Starbucks barista wrote secret message on cup for a girl, 18, who was (apparently) being pestered by stranger. OP: And they wonder why men do not talk to women anymore!You do realize I said man or woman? I said “Male or female, majority of people are cautious are puns strangers who just come up to them. You don’t know them or their intentions. And this goes whether your a man or woman.” But, really, nice try. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/22 05:03 PM |
| -7 | USA: Starbucks barista wrote secret message on cup for a girl, 18, who was (apparently) being pestered by stranger. OP: And they wonder why men do not talk to women anymore!What? You realize the plot of “Taken” is literally a real concept daily all the time, off screen? Many boys and girls get taken in plain sight by strangers or someone they even know. It’s the fact that, male or female, you have no idea what their intentions are if they walk up to you. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/22 04:23 PM |
| -8 | USA: Starbucks barista wrote secret message on cup for a girl, 18, who was (apparently) being pestered by stranger. OP: And they wonder why men do not talk to women anymore!Did you not read where I said how about if there were no bruises? If something someone did or said was “off”? There doesn’t have to be bruises involved to have something wrong. Hence the boy in the restaurant, girl on the plane, etc… my point is if something WAS wrong someone could say “it’s not my place nor my business” and let the abuse stay a secret. An unwanted conversation with a stranger can lead to anything. Whether the girl thought it was unwanted or not, a conversation with a complete s… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/22 04:21 PM |
| -11 | USA: Starbucks barista wrote secret message on cup for a girl, 18, who was (apparently) being pestered by stranger. OP: And they wonder why men do not talk to women anymore!Have you not seen the story about the girl getting kidnapped on a plane to get delivered to a sex ring? The man she was with told the flight attendant that she was fine. This was after the flight attendant tried to talk to her. The flight attendant could’ve shrugged and minded her business, then the girl could’ve never been seen again and sold as a sex slave. If I was any victim of abuse of any kind, I’d rather someone say something than not say anything and “mind their own business”. You’d be s… | /r/MensRights | 22/02/22 04:00 PM |
| -19 | USA: Starbucks barista wrote secret message on cup for a girl, 18, who was (apparently) being pestered by stranger. OP: And they wonder why men do not talk to women anymore!I dont know what this has to do with men’s rights? There have been so many of these with sex trafficking and it got women out of sex trafficking and other kidnappings and abuse. Along with a boy who was saved from a neglectful and abusive family at a restaurant. This method is so important, whether they are in danger or not. Id rather her say something and everything be okay than not say something and the woman still be in danger. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/22 01:34 PM |
| 1 | "there is more to being a man than being commanded by a woman" okay, but like, is there?His mother said it’s too far away, and I’m guessing she won’t help fund the tuition because of it, but I’m not sure. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | It’s Important to Teach Consent, but Do Women TRULY Want to be ASKED Before EVERYTHING? Or is Reading People Important?There are a lot of times women won’t decline something even when they don’t like it. Obviously I’ve never accused of false rape, but I definitely used to just shut up and let someone do whatever was “supposed” to be pleasant for me, but wasn’t. Definitely ask because there’s nothing wrong with making sure she knows you are comfortable, and you know she is. And if she’s so fragile-minded that asking is a turn off and she leaves, it’s probably for the best and you dodged a bullet. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 04:31 PM |
| 0 | "there is more to being a man than being commanded by a woman" okay, but like, is there?She has actually a very good point. I was never home, more of avoided it when I was in high school. I moved 12 hours away for college, dropped medications and started new. I ended up disliking college and dropping out and had no where to go, because I had no car and no money and no shelter. A fall back plan is definitely good. I know being with her is something you would never want, which is understandable, but I’d definetly find a college available at least 3-5 hours away from home just in case… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 04:27 PM |
| 1 | "there is more to being a man than being commanded by a woman" okay, but like, is there?I was in a similar situation where I was kicked out but had to financially depend on someone still because I had no money. Do you have the option to go to an inexpensive college? Obviously all colleges are extremely expensive, but having dorms and a meal plan and to feel more independent and you’ll have to see less of her is a great way to start off adulthood. If you could balance academics with a job you could probably make enough in 2 years to be able to find an apartment if possible? Obviousl… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | My observation of Anti-male bias in the Kanye West / Kim Kardashian stories in the mediaOmg… I was talking about the woke people who insult and harras police officers trying to get them to do something to prove the woke people’s points. Are you lost? ALLEGATION? Dude, it’s just a fact. If I saw a man or woman neglecting a child as a scenario, it doesn’t make me misogynistic or misandrist to say that, lmao. Again, you realize singing is a healthy art form that brings people together. Harassing people online and in real life only damages relationships and tears people apart. “Go find… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 01:41 PM |
| 1 | My observation of Anti-male bias in the Kanye West / Kim Kardashian stories in the mediaFirst of all, it’s not misandrist to say someone is doing those things. Just like it’s not misogynistic to say that someone treats their children like trash. And second, I’m literally half black, your statements are so pathetic. Are you just another woke person poking at a police officer, trying to get them to shoot? You look so dumb right now, lmao. You realize the whole show is about mocking and impersonating people on SNL?…. “Kanye does look crazy and he does it on purpose”… did you seriously… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | My observation of Anti-male bias in the Kanye West / Kim Kardashian stories in the mediaI just realized all your posts are gawking about Kanye, his music and memes about him and his family. I can’t have an actual conversation with you, lol. Only thing I can believe is that your trolling me. Have a good one…. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | My observation of Anti-male bias in the Kanye West / Kim Kardashian stories in the mediaWhat stereotypes am I playing on? If you honestly think I’m misandrist because I dislike a person acting on impulsive and erratically, that’s on you and you’ll continue to sound like a feminist blaming men for not siding with abusive and toxic women who want to be victimized. You realize how many times people go on SNL mocking people? Until Pete pulls up to Kanye’s house, stalks him constantly, repeatedly writes about him and harassing him and Kanye’s girlfriend online and through private messag… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 07:46 AM |
| 1 | My observation of Anti-male bias in the Kanye West / Kim Kardashian stories in the mediaBecause he’s not just “talking about it”. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 07:41 AM |
| 3 | I asked women a question. The replies felt very toxic. Did I do anything wrong?That’s not the point. If the subreddit was r/AskLesbianWomen this would be a different conversation. Even in this subreddit there are men who are bisexual, gay and transgender, so if your comment is not directed towards women or men, who is it directed to? I just think your post needs way more clarification because it does seem trollish in a sense, whichever way you look at it. From the sense you asked about a man and the fuzzy way you asked about sex is super confusing. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | My observation of Anti-male bias in the Kanye West / Kim Kardashian stories in the mediaI’m misandrist for what? Would I be misogynistic for saying Britney Spears is also mentally unstable? He has dude. When he was “running for president” he did stand ups and speeches about running and he talked crazy shit about Kim and his children. Mocking someone on SNL ( which is literally what the show is ) is different from stalking outside someone else’s house, harassing them constantly everyday and so much more. Your statement about me being misandrist is literally the equivalent to a femin… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 07:36 AM |
| 2 | I asked women a question. The replies felt very toxic. Did I do anything wrong?You realize more countries besides America advocate for LGBT+? You do realize people are more open about their sexuality on the Internet than in real life? No matter where your from? Some countries that have strong negative beliefs about it still have pride parades and other things to advocate for the community. The difference is a huge majority of subreddits will have people of LGBT identities. So whether it’s unfavorable in your country, that doesn’t stop people who ARE gay or trans or somethi… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 07:14 AM |
| 3 | I asked women a question. The replies felt very toxic. Did I do anything wrong?No, it’s just not every women in r/AskWomen are heterosexual, just like how in r/AskMen, not everyone is heterosexual. I don’t know what you mean by lesbian Reddit? If your new, anyone can join subreddits, even lesbian women in r/AskWomen. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 05:48 AM |
| 2 | I asked women a question. The replies felt very toxic. Did I do anything wrong?Considering your in a Reddit where woman’s advocacy is pretty large, I think they definitely misunderstood what you were saying… but rightfully so. When I think of the best night of my life, it’s definitely not sex-related, I don’t think most peoples memories are of it. Specifying sex may of helped. And a lot of the women, even if they understood it was sex-related, are lesbian so not everyone resorts to men for sex in the Reddit, lol. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 05:04 AM |
| 4 | My gf (22) just confessed to me (24) that there’s a double standard when it comes to leering.Definitely. Her “win” at the argument was to break his self esteem and make her feel like she could “easily drop him”. None of those men probably want her and I highly suggest OP looks at the pros and cons of his relationship. This relationship seems mentally draining. :/ But again, I only know this argument, but I do wish him well. <3 | /r/MensRights | 20/02/22 10:23 PM |
| 6 | My gf (22) just confessed to me (24) that there’s a double standard when it comes to leering.My man and I gawk at cute girls ( I’m bisexual ) and he lets me think guys are cute. Because guess what, women and men are attractive. The difference is we don’t act on it and we let each other know through self esteem comments and reassurance that we would never want to be with anyone else. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | My observation of Anti-male bias in the Kanye West / Kim Kardashian stories in the mediaYou do realize the reason she keeps talking about it is to fix his messes and the batshit craziness he says on social media? Interviewers ask her about the insane stuff he’s done becauD it doesn’t ever stop. I promise you she does not want to deal with a crazy ex husband stalking her and constantly harassing Pete 24/7. She has fame, she has money. She does not need her family drama and personal life with her psychotic harassment of an ex husband out with her name attached. And even if she does w… | /r/MensRights | 20/02/22 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else think a lot of feminists turn everything into an issue about themselves?Yes, and I wish people knew more that Down syndrome is a bigger possibility and you have like 3% of your eggs at 35-40. The women who do genuinely want kids lose that opportunity if a guy still wants kids and so does she. So people expect women to have kids way before that, whether they’re ready financially, emotionally, physically, or not. Hence the reason that traditional, sexist roles are still expected all the time for women and men. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/22 01:34 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else think a lot of feminists turn everything into an issue about themselves?You’d be surprised how many women this decade get asked from family members, friends and social media if your famous why you don’t have kids yet at 30, lol. A lot of people expect people of age to get married after college (22 -25 )or around then and have kids soon after. If women are drafted at 18 that means “less time to find a husband and do her duty as a woman” lol. Can’t tell you how many of my late 20s friends are sick of people asking when they’re having kids with their partner, and that … | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 04:01 PM |
| -3 | Anyone else think a lot of feminists turn everything into an issue about themselves?Had nothing to do with that. My point is we continue to put down women as a group, it’s not even feminists anymore. But the second an MRA hears a woman say the exact same words about a man, it’s a shitty thing. And vice versa when a man says it about a woman. I don’t know why both movements act so innocent all the damn time. Edit: If any women or feminists said that “Men are self centered, emotional and only started the MRM because they hate women” there would be a very interesting reaction. I’v… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 03:25 PM |
| -5 | Anyone else think a lot of feminists turn everything into an issue about themselves?If a woman said this about men, you’d call her self centered…. Right? Lol. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 02:49 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else think a lot of feminists turn everything into an issue about themselves?A big reason they say because of the patriarchy for drafting is because most politicians and people of power excuse women from getting drafted because they have “children to take care of”. In a way it’s pretty sexist???? Although it’s even more sexist to only draft men. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 02:47 PM |
| 13 | My observation of Anti-male bias in the Kanye West / Kim Kardashian stories in the mediaI personally don’t like the kardashians whatsoever. But Kanye is absolutely not in his right mind. Money involved or not, he is not mentally okay. He is harassing people. He is just a bundle of toxicity and is losing his family the more crazy stuff he does and says. Do you not see or hear the stuff he says about his kids and Kim? He still thinks they are together and harrassed Pete daily. All for men’s rights and women’s rights, but he is insane. And if Kim did the same thing as he is right now,… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveThe reason women make a big deal about random guys hitting on them is because sometimes it doesn’t always end with them harassing women. Have you not seen the women riding trains and busses and getting harrassed? It’s not only a shitty uncomfortable feeling, but you don’t feel safe. Imagine if she didn’t let a police officer, someone of the law, get away with hitting on her? Do you not realize how the majority of cops share their feelings? It’s a scary situation. Being objectified and sexually h… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 09:04 PM |
| -1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveIf that’s what you think, you need to see a psychiatrist. It’s not like you haven’t been responding and seeing the comments. Do I seriously need to quote some of these to show you that that’s literally what almost everyone here is saying? | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 11:34 AM |
| 0 | woke friendships are literally toxic for straight malesDo I have to remind you how many CEOs and people with a shit ton of power are sexist in general? Or do I have to remind you how many sexual harassment cases that are genuine happen in workplaces? If that’s a random statistic, how about fraudsters? That’s huge in business. In 2018 and 2019, 72% perpetrators of fraud were male. Why isn’t this a big enough concern? This doesn’t seem in anyway of women being threatening in business and workplaces as much as it is you thinking women are crazy and bec… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/22 10:57 PM |
| 0 | woke friendships are literally toxic for straight malesUNODC.org did a report on global homicides. Did you know 90% of all homicides recorded world wide were comitted by male perpetrators…? I guess that means we shouldn’t hire men either because this means they are statistically going to kill more people during work! We need to get rid of male bosses, male employees, all of it! /s Just because some women do this, doesn’t mean all women are shit. I’m pretty sure we don’t have to bring up the how unfair false rape accusations are. Not all men should b… | /r/MensRights | 15/02/22 10:09 PM |
| 2 | woke friendships are literally toxic for straight malesDon’t make “friends” with modern men. Don’t work for men. Don’t hire men. They are always on the edge of being crazy. Can snap at any time, and yes, they will target you without the slightest compunction. It’s just about survival. You don’t make friends with or hire crazy people, right? —— Sounds pretty fucked, right? Not every woman is a woke feminist. Not every man is destructive, dangerous and abusive. | /r/MensRights | 15/02/22 12:56 PM |
| 3 | woke friendships are literally toxic for straight malesThis doesn’t seem as much as “woke” friends as it is high school, and I guess college, drama. But besides that, I’m sorry that this happened to you and I’m glad this is a safe place to vent. I’d try to surround yourself with people that love you, and it’s definitely hard because not everyone is who they seem right off the bat. Stay strong. 💕 | /r/MensRights | 15/02/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveWomen should be happy being sexually harrassed / objectified if they are getting something! Men should start being grateful when they have a woman fuck them! It’s not rape, they should feel lucky. /s Does no one see why what you guys are saying is so messed up???????????? | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveRight now this comment section is giving me “He should be grateful he got touched by that woman” after a woman rapes a man vibes. Kinda fucked. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 03:18 PM |
| -1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveI didn’t give shit to that creep and neither did my mom at her age. I’m just saying that it’s not a good and valid option and it should never be treated as one. People always come up to women, following them, flirting with them, touching them on subways/trains, but a cop, someone with authority and access to weapons is not exactly someone you want to cross in this day and age. Its more of the fact that no one is realizing this creeps actions and she should be “happy that he objectified and flirt… | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveNever drove drunk, that wasn’t what was going on. Something with plates. It was a silly thing. I didn’t have sex with him. It was the fact that he even gave me that option to get out of a ticket that’s disturbing and feels violating. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 12:41 PM |
| -1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveI know. But it’s the fact that that’s even a valid option to get out of a ticket that’s so messed up. So many people have said “at least you get to use your body”, like it’s a good valid option to have. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractivePolice telling us we will get you out of tickets and other silly incidents with police if we do some sexual favor. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 12:39 PM |
| 0 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveI know there weren’t in this story. You guys are saying, “Damn she just got out of that! She better be happy!”… it doesn’t always end like that is what I’m saying. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 12:38 PM |
| -9 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveCrazy story…. But as someone who’s been in this situation and so has my mom, the price was sexual acts. We were both underage. She obviously got pretty privilege in your story, which is shitty/life-altering for both men and women who aren’t considered attractive, but getting a pass from a cop isn’t always a good thing. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | I wish we didn’t live in a society that shamed male virginsWhat do you mean? They all started saying how body counts don’t matter and they’d never let a woman control them and other stuff. Obviously it didn’t “change their mindsets” forever because it was them being defensive. But, yes, for that time after I brought that comment they stopped talking like that. Whether it was for that call or not, they switched what made a mans self-worth matter. I don’t care about changing my friends’ friends on the internet’s mindsets for the rest of their life. Talked… | /r/MensRights | 13/02/22 09:31 AM |
| 0 | I wish we didn’t live in a society that shamed male virginsWell… I personally don’t care how many relationships a guy has had or the amount of sex he’s had with x amount of girls. As long as he’s not pushing what I said onto other guys and isn’t following that kind of ideology himself ( for his own mental health ), I’m good. | /r/MensRights | 13/02/22 03:58 AM |
| 1 | My sister thinks I'm anti-femaleI feel like I’m having a deep conversation with someone in an intensive mental institution. This is going to get no where and so are you. Have a good day. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | My sister thinks I'm anti-femaleYour spewing 9 year old insults that they found through Google at me because I asked what the actual problem was? I asked for context. It was nothing against you and I was ready to defend you if your sister was being misandrist but you just seem like an asshole in general. I don’t know if I should feel bad for you or your sister. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | My sister thinks I'm anti-femaleWhat’s wrong then….? This is more of a vent with no details than anything else. You could say women shouldn’t have any rights and your sister says “Oh you’re not saying it’s wrong then?” Or you could say women shouldn’t be able to force men to become fathers, and she could disagree. Very confusing rant. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/22 02:37 PM |
| 182 | I wish we didn’t live in a society that shamed male virginsI was actually in a call with a friend and his friends. Two of the guys were fighting about “who gets more bitches” like if you didn’t have a high body count you weren’t shit…. All I said was “Imagine letting a woman define your self worth as a man.” and they all changed their mindsets and got defensive, lmao. I wish people realized you can be a pretty awesome dude without fucking a bunch of women. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | To those who are single, how do you afford it?I’m not sure what you’re on about?? I’m talking about MRAs putting down single moms as a whole. The ones who commit crimes and the ones who don’t. And what do you mean pills….? Like SSRIs or birth control? This whole comment is confusing, lol. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | To those who are single, how do you afford it?I don’t keep a folder of comments some redditor or someone else said a week ago, or a comment thread about people talking shit on single moms, but you can definitely find them in the forum and social media as a whole. Couldn’t we agree that when women are angry they say things with anger? Definitely when it’s misandrist? That does not make it acceptable whatsoever. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | To those who are single, how do you afford it?I do too! And when the mother is a genuinely good person and has no choice but to be single and raise the child by herself, why do MRAs shit on them as a whole so much? I personally have seen it multiple times in different MR’s social media platforms including this one, but never understood why they label them all the same. Feminists are very different because they are advocating for a movement that continuously hates on men, whether the feminist is nice or not. Single women who raise children w… | /r/MensRights | 11/02/22 01:11 PM |
| 0 | To those who are single, how do you afford it?I agree. That was my whole point. But I do not agree with taking the generalization of single moms and calling them names like that and more. Single moms that commit crimes, single dads that commit crimes, ANYONE who commits crimes are normally a piece of shit. But why should some single moms who work their asses off to provide and support themselves and their children be categorized like that as well? | /r/MensRights | 11/02/22 12:59 PM |
| -7 | To those who are single, how do you afford it?That’s the one thing I never understood about some MRAs. They are all against single moms. So many insults get thrown at them in this Reddit and other MR’s communities. I never understood it. Crimes the single moms commit? I understand that. But they are talking about single moms as a whole, yes. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/22 12:54 PM |
| -4 | To those who are single, how do you afford it?I agree with this. Although, I still don’t understand why people here still call single moms absolute pieces of shit, even the ones working their asses off. I couldn’t imagine being a single parent, man or woman. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/22 12:46 PM |
| 0 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.It is. It’s not about translation as much as it’s about being focused only towards women. I tested it for my country and it told me different. I asked him to screenshot to show this is real ( because I’ve seen people post fake things all over the Internet ), and he couldn’t. As much as I’d love to go off of what a random strange on Reddit says, I’m not just taking their word, haha. Bulgaria may not have a sexual assault hotline, but my point was whether it was gender based. If my country didn’t … | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.I don’t know if that’s sarcasm or not because that seems pretty normal. I’m pretty sure a lot of MRAs wouldn’t be able to get their points across if they didn’t have stats to say, “No, these feminists are wrong about custody, wage gaps, etc…”…. Excuse me for not believing a stranger with no evidence on the Internet, lmao. Edit: People don’t like guilty unless proven innocent, or innocent unless proven guilty because they make sure evidence and information is clear. Right now, he could tell me Si… | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.And that’s why I said if someone from India has the ability to screenshot those words, I have no problem with agreeing and saying I was wrong. Right now it just seems like what I have but changed to add “for women”. But again, I won’t know until someone from India can show lol. OP said he couldn’t. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 06:47 PM |
| 1 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.I’m not, but if someone who is can show me this actually said by Siri, again, I have no problem believing them. Right now it just sounds fake though, lmao. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 06:38 PM |
| 1 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.I understand a different response like that, but mine is so similar to his it’s hard to believe he didn’t just add in “for women”. As much as people do believe DV can’t be against men, I do think the addition of words was fake, lol. Definitely since our responses were so alike. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.Yes, but for some reason all these excuses are correct and I’m in the wrong, lol. I’m all for advocating about this ongoing issue that needs attention now, but just how false accusations isn’t a good way to get your point across that rape is wrong, so is this. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 05:04 PM |
| -8 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.Perhaps he can’t provide evidence because apple isn’t changing Siri’s lines compared to their translation because of countries. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 05:03 PM |
| -29 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.The point isn’t the hotline. The point is that he is saying not only did the translation change drastically, he is adding words to it. It’s pretty made up… | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 01:53 PM |
| -6 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.Again, that’s my whole point. This post is important to normalize, but don’t normalize faking stuff. You can ask Siri to take a screenshot if you’d like. But everything sounds so fake. Doesn’t bother me as much as you think, it’s just kind of low. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 01:44 PM |
| -16 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.Why would Siri change the translation depending on the country? She actually would’ve had to ADD more words. This just seems really fake and intentional…. If he can provide an Imgur to when he speaks it, I’d be totally okay with being proved wrong, but until then this is just fake news. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 01:13 PM |
| 26 | I like how siri only mentions women as if men can’t be rape victims.This is false. I tried this out and it said: “Help is available. The National Sexual Assault Hotline offers free and confidential support whenever you need it.” You are then given a button to “Call the hotline”. As important as it is to spread awareness about male sexual assault victims, don’t falsely spread it. | /r/MensRights | 10/02/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | (Serious) Why are so many men so misandrist? Why do men hate the idea of men’s rights and care more about the well being of women than of other men? I know men have an out group bias, but how pervasive said out group bias is never fails to astound me.We’re talking about to people who are friends right? Believe it or not women have guy friends that hang out with each other. That women doesn’t always want sex and that man sometimes actually wants to be around her and wants her time and presence. I’m guessing your not too familiar with having female friends. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/22 05:05 PM |
| 1 | (Serious) Why are so many men so misandrist? Why do men hate the idea of men’s rights and care more about the well being of women than of other men? I know men have an out group bias, but how pervasive said out group bias is never fails to astound me.My boyfriend could of gone to the closest strip club or bar and fucked women, he could’ve gotten a girlfriend in real life and been with me online. The thing is he does not do that. He is devoted to me as I am him. It disgusts me that you portray all men like that. You saying those kinds of things only validates feminists when they say “men are sexual predators.” Are all men like my husband? No. But don’t set standards for men so low. Only validates feminists and invalidates the men working hard… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/22 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Saw this post on r/teenagers, this is indeed not gender equality (I’m a teenager, not a pedo)That’s so messed up. When you search anything suicide related, hotlines and support pops up. The fact these don’t give you the same search results is so misandrist…. People need to stop thinking women are so nurturing and innocent and realize how much men are hurting from this. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/22 02:35 PM |
| 1 | (Serious) Why are so many men so misandrist? Why do men hate the idea of men’s rights and care more about the well being of women than of other men? I know men have an out group bias, but how pervasive said out group bias is never fails to astound me.You realize some women actually want to be genuine friends with a guy. Before I was married I would tell people I had a boyfriend and they would still try to get with me. I literally had to start telling men I was married and then they would back off or they wouldn’t talk to me. Imagine having a nice guy friend and then finding out he just wanted you for your body. Shit hurts dude. You thinking guys only want sex and I should expect it is so low for an MRA. I was in an online relationship with m… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/22 07:40 AM |
| 2 | (Serious) Why are so many men so misandrist? Why do men hate the idea of men’s rights and care more about the well being of women than of other men? I know men have an out group bias, but how pervasive said out group bias is never fails to astound me.Some people aren’t feminists and still think MRM is a joke though. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/22 06:39 AM |
| 1 | (Serious) Why are so many men so misandrist? Why do men hate the idea of men’s rights and care more about the well being of women than of other men? I know men have an out group bias, but how pervasive said out group bias is never fails to astound me.I understand that, but when you end up not receiving sex, because she does not owe you sex after telling our “excruciatingly boring stories” and you listening to them, what makes it okay for some men to get angry about it and take it out on her and other women? I’ve experienced it myself. I was having a deep conversation with a guy I had just met and he expected sex afterwards. Hell, a guy I had met in high school asked me out on a date only to bring me back to his house and expect we were going… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | (Serious) Why are so many men so misandrist? Why do men hate the idea of men’s rights and care more about the well being of women than of other men? I know men have an out group bias, but how pervasive said out group bias is never fails to astound me.Group? What are you talking about? Edit: If you’re taking about MRM, yes. I criticize women for being jerks and entitled just as much. I support and advocate for both rights and issues, but I won’t support a majority of people when they are being shitty, no matter their gender. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | (Serious) Why are so many men so misandrist? Why do men hate the idea of men’s rights and care more about the well being of women than of other men? I know men have an out group bias, but how pervasive said out group bias is never fails to astound me.And it’s a big problem that they do. Because the type of men who expect sex if they are nice to a women, and end up getting rejected because she doesn’t sleep around with any and everyone are confused why they didn’t get it, and why she doesn’t like him. It’s not always that they don’t look good or they aren’t nice. Sometimes women don’t want to have sex with every nice, attractive ( or attractive enough ) man. Sometimes they don’t want to have sex no matter the preferences. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | (Serious) Why are so many men so misandrist? Why do men hate the idea of men’s rights and care more about the well being of women than of other men? I know men have an out group bias, but how pervasive said out group bias is never fails to astound me.Imma be honest. As a woman, if a man told me he supported women’s rights, I’m not going to have sex with him. I don’t get why people think women will have sex with everything that says something they like. Your scenario is so irrelevant. This is why women say men aren’t entitled to sex. I have so many great kind guy friends who care about men and women’s rights. Guess what, I don’t have sex with them, and neither do their girl friends. That ideology is so fabricated. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/22 06:49 PM |
| 3 | (Serious) Why are so many men so misandrist? Why do men hate the idea of men’s rights and care more about the well being of women than of other men? I know men have an out group bias, but how pervasive said out group bias is never fails to astound me.I can’t tell you how many times when I’ve brought up male issues that are a constant struggle for men that guys laugh and joke about it more than my female friends do. I feel like the MRM talks a lot about feminists ( and sometimes straight up women in general, as a whole ), but does no one realize that men are hurting you all too? | /r/MensRights | 08/02/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I saw a post on r/dating advice and it made me realize something about sex ed clearly lacking: sizeThe cervix grows DURING labor and all trimesters. If it is not, they need to see an OBGYN. Too many girls I know / heard have said sex has been so painful for them but they don’t say anything because they think that’s how sex is supposed to feel and so do the guys because the girl doesn’t speak up. It shouldn’t feel painful. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/22 05:19 PM |
| -3 | I saw a post on r/dating advice and it made me realize something about sex ed clearly lacking: sizeI agree that size doesn’t matter, but please realize the cervix grows an immense amount during pregnancy and can tear the vagina all the way to her rectum, causing surgeries, and normally women already bleed from labor. Women do not have that same size outside of pregnancies and labor whatsoever. And anyways, clitoral stimulation is where it’s at. Haha. Edit: Most women who are in labor are at 35-50 cervical length. Prior to pregnancies, she’s at 3.5-5.5. Big difference. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Not all menIt is different though. We could bring up police brutality and how white men and women are treated by police than black men and women. There is a big difference. Maybe we’ll just have to agree to disagree. The articles and news you see online is probably 1% of what happens with police brutality. They’re lucky they got their death filmed. “Racism is not getting worse, it’s getting filmed.” — Will Smith ^ And you can replace racism with misandry. There are way more articles about men’s issues now … | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: Not all menThat’s like saying since some Muslims are terrorists and have committed crimes we should be cautious and watch the ones in stores so they don’t blow the store up. It’s pretty different when it’s directed to a specific race. Why not be cautious of all men? Instead of just black men? It’s a race thing, lmao. Very different. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Not all men💕 | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 09:28 AM |
| 0 | Discussion: Not all menAgain, your scenario is so unrealistic, lmao. I made mine realistic so I could relate it back to current events going on right now. Car insurance one I still think is very strange, lol. I think both of those scenarios are just not realistic, but maybe you don’t see it that way. It’s hard to compare a real current event that happeneds a lot to a made up one that doesn’t ( or very rarely ) and call them equal. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Not all menAgain. Actions is what change the scenario. You’re a racist manager in a store and you tell someone to follow a black man that’s not doing anything suspicious at all? Pretty f-ed. It’s all how you react in that scenario. I wouldn’t have a problem if people were racist if they didn’t express it. If judges and gov officials didn’t express and act on their racism I would not care. The problem is is that they do. Someone could hate men / women all they want, it become an issue ( for me ) when they s… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: Not all menAnd I totally agree. I’m a rape victim and I don’t see men any different. Healing takes time. But there’s definitely a difference between misandry and racism and other hurtful ideologies than trauma effecting your healing process. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Discussion: Not all menThere is a difference from being cautious and skeptical of someone and acting on it in racist / misandrist ways. Someone walking down a street and seeming suspicious is not a reason to shoot them. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 06:19 AM |
| 0 | Discussion: Not all menFirst off, I am so sorry you had to go through that. But I purposefully said male and female, because rape is rape whether it is a male victim or female. And because of those traumatic experiences, it’s okay to feel those ways. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 06:17 AM |
| 4 | Discussion: Not all menAnd when contraceptives fail, which happens, what would you rather do? Unless you’ve had a baby when you aren’t financially, physically, emotionally ready, or maybe just not with the right person, I think you’ll understand. The lack of empathy for the people living their lives and actively trying to reach their goals compared to an embryo that has no idea what is going on is baffling to me. Kids can ruin lives and parents can ruin their kids lives if they aren’t ready for parenthood. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Not all menIf abortion wasn’t available, and the man had no want for the baby, should they just have it and both have to pay and help support the baby? Because abortion should be illegal and it’s considered murder? Very quick to ruin two grown ( and sometimes not ) adults’ life rather than an embryo. I think abortion should definitely be legal. For the father and the mother. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/22 03:58 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: Not all menSo, trauma is a very big effect on how a rape victim thinks of that gender. I think it’s very valid to be in some ways afraid / cautious after getting raped from the opposite gender. Just as well, I think it’s valid to be cautious and afraid of getting falsely accused and sucked into alimony and child custody that can ruin your life. Men definitely should be careful on who they choose to marry and be with in general. It is also more prominent in men that have had that personally happen to them. … | /r/MensRights | 25/01/22 03:52 PM |
| -1 | What do you guys think about the "male gaze"?It’s one thing to look. I look at cute girls, cute guys, that’s natural. It’s another thing to get there attention so they know you’re looking and/or act on it. I’ve seen so many comments talk about women dressing up for attention in this post, but the amount of women who have talked to me saying they just like fishnets but don’t want to be looked at sexually because they are wearing them is bigger than you may think. There is nothing wrong about looking at attractive people, it is another thing… | /r/MensRights | 24/01/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Men are told we should talk about our feelings, but when we do...Exactly. The problem isn’t about how much bravery and pride you have. It’s about how people REACT when you show emotions. People talk about how men should show emotions, but then call them “pussies” and “weak” when they do. And it is done with women way more than you may think, lol. But yes, women are told to share their emotions more, but are also thought of as more emotional creatures and who act on their feelings. We might have more freedom to show our emotions and are told to, but the judgem… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Men are told we should talk about our feelings, but when we do...It is insane to me that you got downvoted for this, lol. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.Yes! Agreed. I can understand the desperation for a relationship at times, but not to that extent. Media and society makes guys seem like they need a woman at their side to exist. Unfortunately, incels take that to the extreme. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Men are told we should talk about our feelings, but when we do...You missed the point. But wow, haha. That’s good to know. We talk about how we need more supportive women for men’s issues, but when many people see this, it makes it hard for some female MRAs. Personally, it doesn’t affect me, but I know it does towards women who are discovering how they can be an advocate to the MRM. I don’t believe you’d like if a woman said that to you, correct? My point wasn’t to bring up women’s problems, it was to explain how a safe space depends on the person you are tal… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.Personally, if I was anyone of those things ( I don’t like the word ugly so minus that one, because it’s up to perspective ) and a guy, I’d rather be single and sexless and still happy with myself, than single and sexless and mad at women for the rest of my life…. Or even with the wrong woman because she pities my sexlessness. The problem is it isn’t the guys fault either, and if it isn’t his fault, incels normally think it’s someone’s fault and direct their anger towards them. There is no one t… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.Believe it or not but there are short guys and disabled guys who have a hard time finding someone, but don’t become misogynistic and sexist. That is the difference. I’ve heard conversations on here talk about how when a man denied / rejected a woman for sex or a relationship she reacted irrationally. That’s what I mean by an incel. Many guys in the world, no matter how they look, can still have the ability to be happy and not bitter about not having a body to fuck or a woman to date. It becomes … | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.Again, Reddit is a forum. An incel website is a website. Incels aren’t just on Reddit. If you truly don’t believe there aren’t any incels on the subreddit MensRights and aren’t apart of the MRM as a MRA, then that is your own opinion…. There are many websites that DO make you prove identification prior to joining. Not Reddit. I didn’t realize I had to make that clear for you. If female sexlessness is more prevelant than male sexlessness, than why do men in this subreddit continue to talk about h… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.No you absolutely read that wrong. MRAs are defending incels because they are men and should be supported. I am also a woman’s rights advocate but I will not support a women who handles terrible situations with men through misandry. Many MRA support incels even if they’re sexist and misogynistic BECAUSE they have been through hard things with women. As I said with the doctors and therapists, they will never tell a patient it is okay to self harm. They will give them a different coping mechanism,… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.The problem is we have different definitions of incels. I’m pretty sure your definition of feminist / feminism isn’t what pops up as a quick Google search, as well as mine. If every misogynistic incel came out and said the things they do in a forum that doesn’t condone sexism and misogyny, they would be banned. It is the very reason they make servers, forums and websites very secretive. Sometimes go so far to share their identification and personal information to make sure they’re not female or … | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 05:01 PM |
| 2 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.Want to know who also does simple “word searches”? Flat earthers, woke feminists and gen z kids, influencers on tiktok and other social media platforms. But is that how you get accountable and reliable data? Or do you get them through studies and researches? You may get educated on a topic, but there’s nothing saying that you can’t be wrongly educated. How many times has the Men’s Rights movement used statistics and researches and studies to provide countless times why they are treated unfairly … | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.I have had multiple conversations about MRAs or incels defending an incels actions, no doubt about it. You can be an MRA and not an incel and still praise an incels actions. You can also be an incel AND an MRA. If you want, you can scroll through my comment activity and find the numerous conversations with them, but personally I don’t care if you report it or not. Believe it or not, there’s many incels who also identify as an MRA not only on Reddit, but other forums too, and if you don’t believe… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 04:47 PM |
| 1 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.Because they don’t use the word INCEL. That is my whole point. The government and media see INCEL as a bad and negative word. When a man take that word and hold it proudly, it is seen as misogynistic. I’ve never met a woman who is outspoken about identifying as a misandrist / misogynist incel. Just how I said a racist person may not come out and say they are racist, but when they do it only makes it more worse than it already was, lmao. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 04:39 PM |
| 0 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.Wait why are you directing it towards me lol, this is what the gov and media does. Everyone has a reaction when someone identifies as a label. You come out as trans to homophobic : transphobic religious parents? Could be a very negative reaction. Tell someone your a Trump worshipper to a Biden lover? Some hostility towards each other may be there. Again, it’s how you view incels. A MRA may view the word ince differently from how the media and government does. So if someone is loud and proud abou… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.That’s exactly what I’m saying. The media doesn’t see incels as people who don’t have sex, they see them as misogynistic men. Many misogynistic incels bring up MRM’s known statistics and refers back to them, and some even agree that they are MRAs, so when the media already sees the MRM as bad and now that incels are also identifying as MRAs, everything only gets worse for men, their issues, and the movements progress. And even if a MRA isn’t an incel, they more likely will advocate for them, rat… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.I agree. MRM is an amazing movement. Just many MRAs refuse to realize that their actions and comments are disgusting and sexist and should be stopped because they want to advocate for ALL men. Personally, I advocate for women’s rights as well, but I will never ever support a woman who thinks being misandrist is the solution to her experiences with men. Should incels be supported? Yes! But they should not be told that their actions and the things they said are okay. Doctors and therapists help pe… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 12:49 PM |
| -2 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.Again, I haven’t checked out those subreddits, but I am saying they don’t identify with the word “incel”. Media and the government portrays “incel” as a negative, misogynistic word, not a word that describes a person that simply doesn’t have sex or sexual interactions. Many men will take the label incel, but also the label MRA. That is where it gets messy. Many people act like racists, but not every racist openly admits they are racist. Many women are sexist, but don’t openly admit they hate men… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 12:42 PM |
| -3 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.Personally, I’ve never met or heard a woman who has identified as an incel without it being a joke. And why is this turned on the feminist movement when I don’t agree with what they do either? Many misogynistic incels who identify as incels also identify as MRAs, if the government, and their funds, already dislike incels, they will definitely not like MRAs and the MRM as a whole. The problem is the majority of MRAs condone misogynistic incel behavior because they want to advocate for men and the… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | My Mothers Slaps me and Gets Away with itDoes your college not have dorms? Or is it too expensive? When I was younger every chance I got was away from home. Everyone hated school, but school was the best thing that ever happened to me ( not college / uni ). I was the founder of my high schools Creative Writing club after school as well. It was really anything to just give me an excuse to not go home. I’m so glad you have supportive friend(s) who are willing to let you stay with them. I personally also have no interested in talking to m… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | What should I teach my kid about dating and women to prepare him for living a gynocentric society?Your future son towards women: • Have him know he should not feel obligated to pay for every date, even 50/50 is nice. • Help him better understand everyone has different boundaries, men and women. Don’t be afraid to ask and speak up about them before acting on them. • Notice red signs/flags in a s/o or a love interest before taking them further • People change. Everyone wants a good first impression. Some want a first good impression for 3 years. Make sure you’re not dating, or marrying, the wr… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 10:04 AM |
| 1 | General abortion stance pollI don’t understand how some MRAs can be against abortion but also be for signing off ownership to a baby. What if the woman doesn’t want the baby either? I guess it really falls down to the situation on where you are for and against abortion. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 09:51 AM |
| -3 | UK: Major new study to track spread of Incel ideology online. OP: Feminist male haters will try and link "Mens Rights" to Incels.The problem with this is that most incels ( the toxic misogynistic ones, not your average incel ) also identify as MRAs. Which makes a wonderful movement very messy at times. Just how many MRAs focus on the toxic feminists, feminists focus on the “toxic” side of the MRM. People see the bad before the good. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 09:40 AM |
| 5 | Men are told we should talk about our feelings, but when we do...It really depends who you share your feelings with. Personally, I’ve had crying men on my shoulders and I comfort the shit out of them because those kings deserve love and support during hard times…. Others will not. Although women are more allowed to share their feelings in the media, how many times do we have to hear: “are you on your period?”, “stop being dramatic/emotional!”, “What a bitch”, “She has mental issues lol”. It’s really not a safe space for guys to express their feelings even whe… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 09:37 AM |
| 4 | My Mothers Slaps me and Gets Away with itAs a minor and a girl, i had bruises from my father, but since he was a popular lawyer in my state and knew a lot of people in that field, he got away with it all the time. When I turned 18, I got the hell out of there. Even if he won’t hurt me as an adult, he will verbally and emotionally abuse me because he knows I will go further with charges in ways I didn’t know I could. Whether you deserve the slap for something you did or not, you gotta get out of that toxic household. When your under the… | /r/MensRights | 07/01/22 09:31 AM |
| 2 | Being singleYes! | /r/MensRights | 30/12/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on "White Knights"?When men stick up for women it’s simping and white-knighting. When women stick up for men, they’re a “pick-me girl”. And I’m not talking about actually simping, I’m talking about when people are legitimately being rude to a woman, and vice versa when women are called pick me’s | /r/MensRights | 29/12/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Question: Why mens sexuality is frowned upon as opposed to womens sexuality is celebrated?People may not like this but many guys ive known and heard people talk about ( that I know and don’t know ) enjoy watching lesbian porn. I haven’t heard much from women watching gay porn. It’s definitely more sexualized in a “good” way. I think because both genders are generally more accepting of “girl on girl” it’s just easier to talk about ( not my opinion, just what I’ve noticed ), which is pathetic. :/ | /r/MensRights | 29/12/21 03:13 PM |
| 9 | Being singleAs a woman, I’ve noticed many men seem to not like that they have to be the provider to women’s shopping ( rightfully so ). My husband and I enjoy doing things that are free and we’re still happy on and it’s so nice! Picnics, walks, hiking, etc… I wish women and some men didn’t have the mindset that the male partner needs to shop and financially provide for the women. It should not be mandatory and women should not be expecting them to do it. | /r/MensRights | 29/12/21 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringPersonally, I don’t think anyone’s going to stop supporting the feminist movements. But I do believe they can start supporting the MRMs. Considering we call out feminists on what they do, they see that as sexism and criticism rather than showing how evil they can be. So they support feminists more than ever when MRAs say those things. It’s stupid. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/21 05:08 AM |
| -6 | Professional female e-sports team members are complaining they’re not equal to menOn higher ranks people don’t care if you’re female or male, theyre most likely just trying to win. But low - mid ranks will tear you apart if you’re female. And blizzard has a shit ton of sexual allegations against them that keeps on going that they don’t do much about. To me, it depends on the team / league. Pros don’t care, low-mid ranks are sexist as all hell. But anything where body strength and bone structure aren’t an issue shouldn’t have different leagues for gender. That’s weird, lmao. | /r/MensRights | 25/12/21 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Female Dating Strategy is disgusting and openly discriminatoryI think mental health issue for both men and women are sometimes a red flag. Whether the man or woman aren’t ready to take on / handle their s/o’s emotions, or they don’t want things to get unstable and up and down to easily. I personally don’t see it wrong in neither men nor women. Some people just genuinely don’t know how to handle / be with someone with mental health issues. I’ve definitely seen it shown both ways, but I’d rather be with someone who wants / can handle my mental health than so… | /r/MensRights | 23/12/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringYou don’t get what I said? He raped me even when I said no when he asked. The point is he was sick of women saying no so he decided raping me was the solution to that. I think we just have different definitions of incels. I think we both agree that harming someone because of the lack of sex is not okay. The reason I cant provide evidence to the statistics you gave me is because we have different definitions and ideologies of incels. I believe incels are people who are unable to have sex because … | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringI genuinely can’t tell if you’re serious or not? “Women=vagina=let’s find some excuses”??? I’m not sure I understand what you’re trying to say. I don’t make excuses for incels because they are harmful to men and women. Just like how I don’t make excuse to “kill all men” and man hating women because they are harmful to men and poorly influenced women. I’m mental because I was abused? Are you okay? Now I’m wondering if you’d say that to a man who was raped or abused as a child. Is this a problem t… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 10:33 AM |
| -1 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringExactly! So if the father either died or refused to be in the child’s life, how is that the mothers fault? If it is initiated by women, there are more than one factor to why. My mother initiated the divorce because her last straw was if my father choked me again. And so went the divorce. Weirdly enough, he had full custody over me simply because he had more money. It was a pretty traumatic 6 years of that, lmao. The problem with shared custody is you act like the father is fit to be a father. An… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 10:13 AM |
| -1 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringI never understood why MRAs think that’s bad. What if the father left? What if he died? Killed himself? “Went to get milk”? If the women has full custody over the child, what do you expect her to do? Give the child away to the system? It’s awfully disrespectful to the single mothers who are working their asses off for their children. I can wholeheartedly bet if a feminist said “a man or woman turns out bad because they were raised by a single father”, you’d see the insanity in that sentence and … | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringThe difference between your thought process is you are comparing a religion to a hate group. Nazis are are hate group. Germans are not. Incels have misogynistic and harmful views. Some of those incels are men, but not all men are incels. You realize every religion, race, ethnicity, and community of people have hateful and hurtful people? The problem is nazis we’re a hate group all together. The incel community is as well, whether you believe it or not. Being xenophobic is not disliking a hate gr… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringAgain, an incel is someone who is unable to help their sexual needs, so most of them, if not all, become very bitter about it. You can not fulfill your sexual needs and still not identify as an incel because you are okay with rejection and/or move on and begin to love yourself without having someone to love and give their body to you first. So yes, I do believe all incels are dangerous. I don’t believe people who are okay and comfortable with being rejected and move on when someone says “no” to … | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 08:37 AM |
| 1 | I dont know if this counts as Mens "Rights" but has anyone else noticed the double standard reaction to Billie Eilish admitting shes addicted to porn?She actually hates porn now. That’s why people are okay with it. She explains how fake it is and when she had sex she didn’t like it, but she thought she was supposed to like it in a specific way because that’s how porn portrayed it. She was addicted, yes. But she explained how it damaged her, her relationships, self esteem and many other things. She has now recovered from it and advocates for how bad porn portrays sex. Although men who are and still addicted to porn are definitely frowned upon … | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 06:08 AM |
| 2 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringYou are born into a Muslim family. You are not born an incel. A Muslim isn’t a terrorist, so for you to make that assumption that I think that is where you are wrong. I never even said all Muslims are terrorists, you did. Terrorists actions are never right, no matter how many traumatic experiences you’ve been through, it is never right in any way. The problem with your food comparison is food doesn’t say no because they don’t want you or aren’t ready to be “eaten”. Food isn’t a human and doesn’t… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringIm not saying women shouldn’t be nurturing and men shouldn’t be assertive and strong at points. It’s used to benefit some. Women get custody because they’re the mothers and “more nurturing”. Men aren’t always seen as a gender who can get raped by women because they are strong and shouldn’t show emotions that may seem scared, sad or anything else, because they should be aggressive and strong. Women who are nurturing and love their kids are great. Women who work and make a ton and are big reps in … | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringI don’t think the media cares that a woman in his life impacted it negatively, it was that he acted terribly. A boy could have a drug addict mom or dad, and become one himself. He also has the choice to not become one. Just how as a teenager, many of them say “I don’t want to be a parent like my parents”. They have the choice to take their rage and hate out on their children, or convince them to do drugs, or they can overcome the hate and bitterness and not project it on others. Everyone has a b… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringYou are born white, red haired, with hands and with your height. You are not born as an incel. You begin to identify as one. That comparison doesn’t make sense. Generally, people don’t just “hate” women when they are born. Normally they are impacted and influenced. Just how man hating feminists absorb disgusting news that can ruin a mans life, incels have traumatic experiences that change his views on a gender. You are not born with that. | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 03:20 AM |
| -1 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringI believe men should be more supported and helped when it comes to emotions and traumatic experiences. The difference between how incels communicate and act and men frustrated with how fucked our government is run for men is what I mean. Men should have a safe space to vent and gather advice on custody with a wife, abuse with a woman, and support/advice in any other way. But when it comes down to “should I harm this woman or girl because a different woman or girl harmed me” is where people shoul… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 03:12 AM |
| 0 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringWell, here’s where I’m confused. Many people who hate women and believe rights or pain should be taken / inflicted, identify as an incel. Many misgynists see things as a traditionalist: women should be in the kitchen, care for the children, behave, act dainty and never speak up to a husband or other man. I’ve seen it. It’s just how some men and women think. Some men, who have been hurt by women in the past want harm and no rights for women, usually because of an experience with a woman that went… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 03:05 AM |
| -12 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringThen why do incels, who genuinely believe hating women and taking away rights from them is an okay thing to do, refer to themselves as incels? What would you like me to refer to them as? I can use a different term, just tell me which one you’d rather me use. Edit: And I know the history behind it. Just like how feminism was “supposed” to be for women’s rights, it turned into a terroism movement and ideology. Edit #2: How about the anti-vaxxing ideology? If I remember right, I think the man who c… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 02:51 AM |
| -8 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringExactly! They had no choice because either a woman rejected having sex with them ( which they have all right to do ) or they don’t want to because they dislike, or even hate, women, both result in “not having sex”. What is your point? | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 02:38 AM |
| 1 | (No spoilers) So yesterday I saw the new SpidermanWomen have breasts, bras expose a part of a woman’s body that can be consider sexual. Men do not have breasts and can take of their shirts because they don’t have breasts in public almost anywhere. Taking off ones shirt is different for each gender. They cannot even be a double standard considering the physiques are different and social norms as well. Are men sexualized without society and productions changing anything? Absolutely. Are women too? Absolutely. They are done in different ways. A sh… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 02:36 AM |
| -7 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringWant to know what a lot of serial killers and murders have in common? Mental health issues. Want to know how mental health issues are influenced and worsened? By traumatic events and experiences. But that does not give an incel the right to harm, kill or promote taking away rights of women. I can’t believe I have to say this, but I’ve been raped over and over by many men, my dad has left bruises on me. And here I am, still advocating for men’s rights because they deserve them. Here I am, not kil… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 02:30 AM |
| -19 | Starting to think the MensLib sub is a red herringI think it was taken down because the discussion of validation of incels occurred. Incels should not be considered as MRAs. A true incel is someone who hates women because they did not experience a sexual connection, or just because a woman refused to have sex with them. Many incels have hurt / killed women BECAUSE they hate women. Incels are different from MRAs and incels are definitely dangerous. MRAs are angry and frustrated with many women and feminists because the rights men deserve are not… | /r/MensRights | 22/12/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | (No spoilers) So yesterday I saw the new SpidermanIf a man was wearing tights and the outline of his genitals were showing, I can say that’s pretty sexualized, but children and everyone else sees men running without shirts and swimming without shirts. Women generally don’t run without shirts, and barely wear only sports bras. It’s sexualized and marvel is trying to stop that because it’s not seen as normal. It’s not sexist to stop sexualizing someone at all. They just don’t see shirtless men as much as a sexualized situation. I personally do, b… | /r/MensRights | 20/12/21 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Something I find interestingWhenever I hear people say “Mommy”, it’s to say someone is hot. Ex: Mommy? Sorry. Mommy? Sorry. Many women who use the word daddy sexually isn’t always because they had bad fathers. I’ve heard more men say you have daddy issues than women, referring to the woman’s dad was gone or missing. So having “daddy issues” just became the name for calling someone “daddy” and other attributes. Some women who do consider themselves as a “top” or “dom” enjoy being called mommy. Or they enjoy being called it … | /r/MensRights | 19/12/21 11:18 PM |
| 0 | (No spoilers) So yesterday I saw the new SpidermanThe problem I have with that is you think they “ONLY sexualize males” in their movies, when it’s honestly not true. Just because they didn’t take their shirt off to reveal their breasts, doesn’t mean they aren’t sexualized. I can 100% agree with you that men are sexualized in western movies and tv shows. I cannot agree with you when you say women are not in movies and tv shows, including marvel. The reason it is disliked more now is because people didn’t care 10 - 15 years ago in magazines or ot… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/21 11:06 PM |
| -1 | (No spoilers) So yesterday I saw the new SpidermanYou can still see women in a bra and panties without it being a porno. Not every movie has women taking their shirts off, just like it doesn’t for men. Marvel costumes nowadays aren’t as sexualized but their comic outfits and older outfits, definitely. And some still today. If you want to debate that men take their shirts off too much and it’s sexualized, it’s generally because they don’t have breasts and people take their shirts off as men at beaches and other public places like for running all… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/21 10:45 PM |
| -1 | (No spoilers) So yesterday I saw the new SpidermanYou act like western movies don’t sexualize females at all. Men and women are sexualized in movies constantly. Just because marvel chooses to wear skin tight clothes to accent the boobs and butt, doesn’t mean other western movies don’t show the female characters practically naked. I understand men being shirtless, but women can’t be shirtless, they have breasts. So what they do is make it a suit so their butt is out and a large v neck to see cleavage. Just because men can go shirtless, doesn’t m… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | (No spoilers) So yesterday I saw the new SpidermanCaptain Marvel? She’s badass as hell. She’s one of the strongest heroes with powers in my opinion. Probably a top 10, haha. | /r/MensRights | 19/12/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | (No spoilers) So yesterday I saw the new SpidermanMany women are in a bra and underwear for no apparent reason, just like men in their underwear for no reason. I think women are shown in a bra and panties for sex appeal, and men are showed to define masculine strong features which many people also find sexually appealing. Which both are pretty weird to put in a movie where it has no relevance. I promise you that many women who are considered warriors or heroes are wearing either skin tight clothes or almost no clothes, it’s just what the audien… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/21 08:25 PM |
| 1 | The "Man Cave" - a disguised negative thing for men?Personally, I am a woman, and when I was younger, a very big tomboy so whenever my friends would come over, I had a “man cave”. It was my space to play video games, do art, etc… no one ever came down there, so it was super nice. My husband mainly plays video games in his past time or we go out to do stuff, so he likes the gaming room. I enjoy reading and gaming, so I might sit in a different room while I read and he games. To me, “man cave” is a name for your favorite room that you go in the mos… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Wife lawyering upTheyre not MRAs, because many MRAs do hate on women as a whole ( not like as a gender. Some do, but they will say very insulting and sexist things ). I personally do not mind, because this is a safe space for men to let their feelings out. Many other women do mind those derogatory and hateful terms, and when they explore so they can support men’s rights, it’s not always greeted in a good way. I know I certainly wasn’t. And generally, it was because I was a woman, I hadn’t even talked to anyone a… | /r/MensRights | 19/12/21 06:55 PM |
| 1 | My wife actually agrees with the idea that men should have the right to financially abort their responsibly of a child the same as a woman has the right to abort an unwanted pregnancy.Oh, I thought you two were together or something and you wanted to be able to see your son and help him grow up. I didn’t know you didn’t want him, that’s why I was a bit confused. I feel like there would’ve been a larger say during the pregnancy rather than after, although she should of alerted you way sooner than after he was born or after that. I think it was complicated to decide whether or not you pay child support because the child was already born and you were biologically the father. Alt… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | My wife actually agrees with the idea that men should have the right to financially abort their responsibly of a child the same as a woman has the right to abort an unwanted pregnancy.I personally would’ve gone more in depth with that, considering there’s literal shows about who’s the father ( don’t ever go on them, I’m just saying that it’s not uncommon ). I’m sorry about that though, and I hope you are still able to be a father in your sons life and was able to explain your side. 💕 | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 07:11 AM |
| 1 | My wife actually agrees with the idea that men should have the right to financially abort their responsibly of a child the same as a woman has the right to abort an unwanted pregnancy.So what are your reasons for not getting an abortion? Is it because you think it’s morally wrong? Religion? I’m confused why you don’t like it. Just how some companies and some banks help their clients when they are in a sticky situation financially, it relieves problems. When you can’t afford to have a baby, an abortion relieves problems. I’m not sure why you wouldn’t want that for someone. If it is the worry about not experiencing trial and error, I don’t think giving a child a life that’s not… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | My wife actually agrees with the idea that men should have the right to financially abort their responsibly of a child the same as a woman has the right to abort an unwanted pregnancy.Did you know you were your son’s father or did you hide the fact you were, or did you not know? I don’t really understand your aunts or aunts husband’s situation. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 06:43 AM |
| 2 | My wife actually agrees with the idea that men should have the right to financially abort their responsibly of a child the same as a woman has the right to abort an unwanted pregnancy.Abortion is used when you don’t want your kid to starve and have an absolute penniless and possibly abusive life because you cannot afford to have a child or deal with one at that moment. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 04:13 AM |
| 1 | My wife actually agrees with the idea that men should have the right to financially abort their responsibly of a child the same as a woman has the right to abort an unwanted pregnancy.I never disagreed with this. I absolutely think men should be able to sign off ownership to a child before the baby is born. I agree with everything you are saying. I am saying I don’t think they should decide they cannot be apart of the child’s life way after this child is born. Definitely if they agreed to be the father during pregnancy. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 04:08 AM |
| -2 | My wife actually agrees with the idea that men should have the right to financially abort their responsibly of a child the same as a woman has the right to abort an unwanted pregnancy.Okay, so let’s argue that. Many MRAs express that men should not be able to pay for the child they didn’t want. The woman doesn’t want the child or anything to do with it anymore, so why would she have to pay too? If the man dropped the hammer and dipped, would he have to pay child support as well? I think the problem here is government doesn’t give you as much as you need and as much as you think. https://youtu.be/SgjGwOByays first minute or so of this stand up comedy is what I mean. He explain… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 03:57 AM |
| 10 | My wife actually agrees with the idea that men should have the right to financially abort their responsibly of a child the same as a woman has the right to abort an unwanted pregnancy.Many children are in foster care and get abused physically and sexually, so many. It fucks with a child so hard. Sometimes they just get out into home after home after home because no one wants them. Adoption isn’t always best for the child. | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | My wife actually agrees with the idea that men should have the right to financially abort their responsibly of a child the same as a woman has the right to abort an unwanted pregnancy.Okay, then let’s picture this: let’s say the woman is the main financial provider and the man has an okay paying job, but makes much less than the woman. The woman leaves because she dropped the hammer and dipped. Now he has to raise that child and go to work to provide all by himself. It is much more difficult than it seems. Definitely if it’s out of no where. If the woman knows that the man will not be in the babies life way before the baby is born, she can decide to abort for the best or rais… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/21 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Gotta love these feminist double standards. How would feminists react if a man on BBC said "My girlfriend weighs 105 pounds. Any more and it would be a dealbreaker. I'm very shallow" and another dude laughed in agreement and said "I like the shallowness of it. I think that's marvelous!"That’s why I said some. You and your friends aren’t the whole world. I’ve had friends that refuse to date women who are taller than 5’5 and girls who refuse to date men who are lower than 5’11. But I promise you, it is definitely a societal norm for the man to be taller and the women to be shorter unfortunately. If it wasn’t, people wouldn’t be talking and interviewing zendaya and Tom about it. People don’t like to step out of the norm / comfort zone. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/21 07:07 PM |
| 5 | curious question on the hate of circumsation(is that how you spell it idk)This is what hit it for me when someone once explained it to me like this. I’m a feminist and an MRA, and I was asking someone why they considered circumcision bad ( I didn’t consider it a good thing either ). They pretty much explained how useless it was. A lot of how I think goes, “If a women gets this, why doesn’t a man?” And vice versa with other ways of saying it as well. I thought about how shit it would be to cut a part of the female genitalia to look more attractive and for no other reas… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/21 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Gotta love these feminist double standards. How would feminists react if a man on BBC said "My girlfriend weighs 105 pounds. Any more and it would be a dealbreaker. I'm very shallow" and another dude laughed in agreement and said "I like the shallowness of it. I think that's marvelous!"I don’t think this is as much sexist as it is a societal standard. Many tall women don’t want to date a man at an average height ( or smaller than her ) because they are insecure about being the tall one because “the man has to be the tall one”. Many women who are “too tall” and men who are “too short” don’t get the love they deserve because of the labels put on them. I can probably admit that I do think most men ( not every ) would rather want a shorter girl than a taller girl and most women wo… | /r/MensRights | 16/12/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Are there currently any laws in the works regarding men’s right to choose? Second pic explains better)The problem is the us government doesn’t give a fuck about if the homeless are freezing to death on the streets or if families can’t support their children because they have no money. The underlying issue is who is in that government and the power and ideas and beliefs in which they have. It is so sad to me, but I genuinely agree with that last statement. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Are there currently any laws in the works regarding men’s right to choose? Second pic explains better)But you do realize many of those people who do already have single parents and are born with parents who can’t support a baby care more about not getting an abortion than the childcare when the baby is delivered? That in itself is a problem. If more funding went towards supporting families, which is definitely possible, it’s happening in many different countries other than the US, the issue would more than likely be fixed. Plus, if feminists want to call them deadbeat dads, then we need to help … | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Women calling men “hun” or “honey”.Oh, I see. I think it’s more looked down upon on women because it’s more of a feminine nickname. If you know her, you could tell her how you felt about it? I personally don’t mind getting called those names by people I know, but everyone is different. I think it’s kind of like how people call a girl a slut. It’s very feminine and you don’t normally call a guy a slut so it’s not seen as “as bad”, but there are other words for guys that are more “for men” that are rude and hurtful to say. I put a … | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Women calling men “hun” or “honey”.I haven’t heard of many women doing that, but I’m sorry a stranger tried to pick you up in a way you felt demeaning. I hope you don’t contact that person because she seems honestly really weird. I can tell you as a girl who’s been catcalled before, it doesn’t feel good at all. Obviously women do do very disgusting pick ups to pick up men and it should be brought to attention way more. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Women calling men “hun” or “honey”.I understand if a guardian called a younger person those nicknames. The only way I could see it as sexual harassment is if it was used as a pickup. Although, I don’t think many women call men those names to flirt with them unless they’re in bed doing some dominatrix type thing, lmao. Otherwise, calling a friend that in a non-demeaning way is a bit weird, but I wouldn’t call it either way sexual harassment for any gender. I feel most people use those words with friends when they’re trying to “pok… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Women calling men “hun” or “honey”.Men usually don’t like to be called buddy by other men, but rather bud. I personally, as a woman, don’t mind being called those names, unless it’s by a girl actually, lol. If it’s by a guy, I don’t really see it as a “bad” thing. Although, not to be that “don’t call me princess!1!!1!1” person, but yeah, I don’t like that nickname at all, haha. And a lot of the men in the comment section seem to not see it as a problem as well. I personally didn’t grow up with anyone calling anyone those kind of … | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 01:02 PM |
| 7 | Wife lawyering upAnd that officially makes finding love and happiness in marriage unattainable for you? If a woman gets raped and then never wants to find love again because of it, she’s setting herself up for failure because there are some amazing men in the world. But if you want to have that mindset instead of giving yourself time to be with yourself until being with someone else, that’s completely up to you. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 03:07 AM |
| 4 | Wife lawyering upI’m not talking about the law. You said “women don’t care about you”. That is like saying “Men just want to rape you”. Your putting a whole gender in one category and that’s not far off from what many feminists do, lol. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Wife lawyering upNot true at all. Don’t base your experiences and your friends experiences after they vent to you off of the majority of people who are happily in love. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Wife lawyering upSounds like you just haven’t found the right significant other, lol | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Wife lawyering upIt doesn’t. He married the wrong person. First red flag that he said was making him pay for her college. My husband and I have sex, sure. But we also like the little things: playing games together, cuddling, seeing a movie in the theatre, going to an art museum, picnics, etc… it’s like an intimate best friend. An escort is just a person you paid for sex at the end of the day. And if that’s how you genuinely feel that a wife is used for than I don’t know what to tell you besides I hope you have a… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Gender Equality supporter right here.You don’t engage. Why the hell would you start trying to attack them when the police are already on their way??? If you can’t call the police because they have found you, that’s a life or death possible situation. That’s when I would understand that. But many people don’t have the qualifications to take down someone else who is “qualified”. If you can prevent from engaging the most you can until help gets there, just don’t get angry and do something you’ll regret. I am not talking about to not f… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Wife lawyering upDo you genuinely think this is just “women”? As a whole? We talk about how feminists say “All men are sexual predators”, but then we also say this. It’s confusing. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Wife lawyering upAdvice? Wives aren’t just escorts. You marry someone you love and trust, not to come home and fuck. I hope that’s not your intention. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Gender Equality supporter right here.Not at all. You missed the point completely. I am comparing someone’s actions from a result of someone else’s actions. The point wasn’t whether rape is worse than a punch, it was about if punching someone should be the best way to get revenge. If raping the other gender because that gender raped you is considered good revenge. But compare it to whatever you want. Physically, sexually or emotionally hurting / abusing someone should not be a reason to do it back. It’s like when a woman cheats on a… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Gender Equality supporter right here.I know what it means. Your point? | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Gender Equality supporter right here.And who says the woman or man will stop punching people because she / he got punched? If anything, it enforces that behavior and causes a more destructive world. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Gender Equality supporter right here.True. Although it was a true story co directed by the daughters of the father. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 02:06 PM |
| 0 | Gender Equality supporter right here.When I hear people talk about punching women and men, I usually think of it as the perspective of an adult. Girls at that time need to realize that boys have feelings and should be respected and vice versa. But when you become an adult, it is expected by that point. But many people in this subreddit are adults and think if they physically hurt another human being it won’t have consequences. I get that everyone is growing and learning everyday, but people have been learning about personal space s… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 12:15 PM |
| 0 | Gender Equality supporter right here.And that’s great! I am very glad you realized who is a genuine friend and who isn’t. I just hope you understand punching a man or woman in the 5th grade will have different consequences than punching a man or woman as an adult. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Gender Equality supporter right here.But many people have consistently said that the police very rarely identify it as self defense. Which is so disgusting on the police and investigations side of things. But if this is known and said, what good would it be to worsen your case with “i punched the bitch back”? | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Gender Equality supporter right here.Uhm, no. You should actually call the cops as well if you’re being hurt sexually or physically! You should call the cops if someone is breaking into your house as well! I personally don’t like how cops treat POC and men who are falsely accused of things, but if you have no way of leaving a situation, then yes. I think you should call the cops in both situations. If a woman is in a fight with man / woman, whether or not they detain the man or woman, they have escaped and left the situation. If th… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 12:00 PM |
| -3 | Gender Equality supporter right here.I’m glad you made everyone see you as either someone with either an anger problem, a bully, or someone they genuinely wouldn’t want to be friends with. I knew someone who got beat up in that grade, hair pulled out and patches missing by another girl in school. She was terrified for 2 - 3 years after that of people touching her at school. How does it feel to have so much power that you make people know they are unsafe around you? | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:54 AM |
| -13 | Gender Equality supporter right here.Out of all of those options, you think punching another human being back is better? I recently watched King Richard and he genuinely gets beat up in the movie by a bunch of guys hitting on his underage daughters. He did not fight back, because he knew that fighting them would only worsen the situation for him and his family. It would only cause more tension, infliction, and conflict. Pick and choose the right battles. If you genuinely think and want to fight that battle, be my guest. Edit: King … | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Gender Equality supporter right here.That’s like saying a man raped a woman, so to get even she goes around raping all the men she can in the world as revenge. Please, see how disgusting that is and how the solution has not gotten better for anyone, only worsened. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:42 AM |
| -13 | Gender Equality supporter right here.Yes, the only way to stop a bully is to become one. /s There are many other ways to handle it, but many choose not to go that route because personal revenge feels better. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:40 AM |
| -2 | Gender Equality supporter right here.I certainly didn’t want to see “I’m tired of people calling teen attracted adults Pedophiles.” on one of your posts from your profile, but we have people in this world with opinions to “get off their chest”. I support men’s rights and support women to a massive degree, but I would never support a woman getting away with hitting a man or a man hitting a woman to solve that problem. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:38 AM |
| -5 | Gender Equality supporter right here.Which part? Me not wanting to solve fire with fire or because women should be held accountable just like men when hurting another man? I’m genuinely curious where you think Im a “loser”. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Men have been sacrificing their lives to protect women for all of human history.I definitely agree with this. For me, and not everyone agrees with this, it’s like a POC ( Indian, AA, Muslim, etc… )person and a white person. White people absolutely do struggle in many different ways, but they aren’t struggling for the fact of their skin color and the race they were born. They may have many hardships, but being a POC definitely can be a huge obstacle in some countries. Men didn’t choose to be men, but they are, and they shouldn’t be treated differently because of it. I know s… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Men have been sacrificing their lives to protect women for all of human history.I genuinely used to like her, because I thought she fought for equal rights way back then. But the more things she said, the more I was like…. “Wait….she’s actually crazy, what the fuck?” | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Any communities similar to this one?I like to think this too, but I feel as though Men’s Rights subreddit focuses more on an AntiFeminist perspective than ways to better the male daily livelihood. I can definitely understand why they dislike feminists, but I don’t see much of ways people have supported and helped with men’s rights than things women and feminists have done in this subreddit. I personally don’t mind, but if someone is looking to find specifically men’s rights topics without bashing a movement (feminist) that bashes … | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:25 AM |
| -34 | Gender Equality supporter right here.Equal rights doesn’t mean equal fights. You guys know how many women on women / man on man fights there are where one man or woman doesn’t engage in the fight because it is unecessary and unhelpful? They become the bigger, more mature person? How about no one goes around punching anyone in the face? This scenario where the girl punches the man isn’t justified at all, but please explain what good does punching her back do? It’s such a weird way to look at equal rights. I can’t tell you how many t… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 11:12 AM |
| 23 | Are there currently any laws in the works regarding men’s right to choose? Second pic explains better)I think women should have a choice if she wants to carry the pain and labor for 9 months. But if the father never wanted the baby and the woman actively knows this, he should be able to sign off papers and the woman be the sole provider. If this was an option, there would be either a lot less unwanted babies and a lot more rights and voices for men too. Although I’ve seen some MRAs feel like abortion should be abolished / banned, but men can still sign over all rights to the mother. If the mothe… | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 03:36 AM |
| 2 | From a true feminist: thank youDid you type this before I sent my last comment, lol? I’m willing to discuss it with you. “Studies have shown that black people are more likely to be pulled over in traffic stops by police. One of the most recent, a 2020 study by Stanford University, analysed 100 million traffic stops by police departments across the US, and found black drivers were about 20% more likely to be stopped than white drivers. The study also found that once stopped, black drivers were searched up to two times as often… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 03:51 PM |
| 2 | From a true feminist: thank youWould you like me to list some of the reasons I believe POC are oppressed? I wouldn’t mind talking to you about it in DMs if you’d like. This comment section is going off topic and one other person is talking to me, so if you are willing and wanting to listen to why POC are treated differently in a negative way, then I’d love to message you about it. If not, we can go about our days, but arguing with two racist and a person who doesn’t believe in the human right to get an abortion isn’t really a… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | From a true feminist: thank youI’m not stalking you. I’m just showing what kind of person you are and comments you make. We are having a debate. It’s super hard for someone who is egalitarian to debate with someone who genuinely believes a man or woman ( whatever way ) shouldn’t have any rights. In our situation, It’s really hard to debate as an MRA with another MRA about black men getting shot and oppressed in the workforce, streets and other places, and also that abortion should not be legal, but we shouldn’t pay for child … | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | From a true feminist: thank youI do have a concern there when it comes to education and other places with white people and Asians…. Again, you never asked me about that and it really does show how shallow and a narrow minded person he is that he believe POC aren’t affected. I do think in ways everyone is judged and sometimes in ways opressed. You were the one who said I didn’t believe that before I even said anything about white people and Asians. So what war are you fighting that I don’t agree with? Yes, I agree POC are oppr… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 03:27 PM |
| -1 | From a true feminist: thank youI’m black too, your point? Just to be aware, when boys weren’t allowed to use the restroom at a school because of a weed circulation Reddit post on here, this was your response: “You are at school to LEARN not smoke weed and piss all day. If you want to pee during school hours, go to a Private school. The taxpayers don't have money for you to piss during school hours. Flushing toilets cost MONEY. They should make you heathens go dig a latrine in the woods and piss there if it's that serious.” If… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 03:10 PM |
| -5 | From a true feminist: thank youOkay, yep, I definitely can’t talk to you about this. Doesn’t believe in abortion rights and that people of color are seen as inferior or different from anyone else. It’s really just a waste of time at this point. Have a good day. | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 03:04 PM |
| 2 | From a true feminist: thank youYes! I agree women should be drafted and it’s such a misandrist and sexist thing that women shouldn’t. But voting is a whole other human right. Just how abortion is. And custody rights. And so many other human rights. You can’t take away one human right and give a different one. It’s still not balanced in the end. But the problem is, he is, lmao. He wants abortion abolished and not to pay child support if he doesn’t want the baby. I agree with half of that. If a man doesn’t want a baby and the w… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 03:01 PM |
| -6 | From a true feminist: thank youI didn’t put myself in that role. Women before the 21st century were usually told and taught to grow up to be the main caregivers and cooks. That was there traditional sex role. Things changed obviously, but that standard still remains. Even though we aren’t told and taught to cook, clean and care for a baby, we are still thought as as innocent and nurturing BECAUSE of that traditional sex role. It isn’t because we are. That’s a big reason I see the sexism and unfairness during child custody, pr… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 02:57 PM |
| -10 | From a true feminist: thank youAh, yes, since I am a woman and seen as a nurturer and innocent for anything I do because of the traditional roles of having to stay home and cook, clean and take care of a baby, I will make sure with all my power they take away my right to vote because they didn’t draft me. Those two things together don’t make much sense. I think it’s so fucked women don’t get drafted, but I also think it’s fucked for someone to say we shouldn’t be able to vote because of it. And you want us to get (safe) abort… | /r/MensRights | 09/12/21 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Got laughed at for saying I was MRAYou actually think MRAs don’t laugh at feminists too….? MRAs dislike man-hating feminists to the ground. Rightfully so too. I’m not sure why they wouldn’t laugh at them. But if you think they don’t, then okay. | /r/MensRights | 05/12/21 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Got laughed at for saying I was MRAAs an MRA and a feminist, both movements laugh at each other all the time. Although women are allowed to talk and cry more easily about their problems they get hit with the “emotional” and “bitchy” comments. When men do, they get called weak and “pussies”. Honestly, it’s not a safe place to show feelings for anyone. Some feminists actually believe men are treated better and men believe women are. It’s a constant scoff to both movements. And in reality, both are treated very differently in bad wa… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/21 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Another mother murders 6 yr old son.Well, considering Rittenhouse and a lot of other cases where men have gotten off whether it was rape and murder, so have women. I could name so many murders around the world. The problem is this one has nothing to do with sexism. I could talk about all the murders men have done on there relatives, but frankly, it has no relevance to women’s rights at all. This has absolutely nothing to do with “following the story”. This is just an example of another murder that happens everyday ( which isn’t ju… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Can you imagine if they did a “Fattest Women in Hollywood” post? It wouldn’t go over as wellWait… you guys think women aren’t called fat in magazines? I’m still seeing people talk about the next actress who gained so much weight and random comments. I wish everyone would stop talking about men and women’s bodies in such a disrespectful manner, but the thought you guys don’t think people talk about women’s bodies at all is very confusing. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/21 01:40 AM |
| 0 | Why is it whenever a woman is independent and self sufficient, she's celebrated and treated like she changed the world, but when a man does it he's seen as someone to just use and exploit?Not every woman who is strong and independent is single. I totally believe women should be able to protect and depend on themselves. Nothing wrong with that. I believe everyone should. I believe I’m pretty mentally strong and independent, but that doesn’t change the fact that I adore and love my husband. | /r/MensRights | 04/12/21 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Another mother murders 6 yr old son.What does this have to do with Men’s Rights? I was waiting for the part where the brother was arrested for something he didn’t do, or something sexist about him, but it’s literally another parent murdering their child. If I wanted to read about murdering children, I’d turn on the news. If she said / did something misandrist or hurtful to men as a whole, I’d come to this Reddit. At this point, I don’t think we’re talking about the MRM and sexism as much as “women bad”. I get that so many women ar… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Im tired of thisIn that situations’ moment, the man should not be focused on “winning”. Hell, even if the man was a woman and she was hit by a woman, she shouldn’t be focused on that. Whether you’re male or female, you need to leave the situation, and if you continue to be provoked, followed, etc, you call someone who can a. Pick you up b. Handle the situation or something else. People who come into a store without a mask and cause a scene get the police called on them. That happens because they don’t want to e… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of thisI agree. So what are you disagreeing with me about? We both agree police are pretty shit. And I think measures need to be taken to fix this. So where do you stand in the disagreement? Do you truly believe if someone hits you, you hit them back? Because if so, you were wrongly educated. If you truly believe fighting someone because they provoked you physically will solve the issue, that is where we disagree. It’s not even societally acceptable, morally correct, it’s just the truth. Unless you’re … | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Im tired of thisOkay, go ahead and make up that scenario. I’ll just play along with it. Let’s say they do arrest the victim ( man in this situation ). Whether or not you think this, the police officer is still removing you from the chaos and situation, and in a way descalating it. Whether he removes the woman or the man, they are apart from one another. If the police officer removes the woman from the conflict, the man is safe and the woman can’t harm him. If he removes the man, the man is safe and can’t get pr… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Im tired of thisI’m going to be honest, their bias toward women is very obvious. But what they won’t do is continue to let the woman hit you, they will deescalate the situation, and if they don’t, you can take higher measures. The point is that escalating the situation by hitting the person isn’t going to solve anything. It really only makes you look like another 12 year old or a “Karen”. You don’t fight fire with fire. In kindergarten, if a boy hits a boy, you aren’t taught to hit him back at school for a reas… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Further confirmation from toxic women that they get the final say in whether their child lives or dies, and that men are just "sperm donors".I’d rather pay half and half for an abortion and never talking again, than paying half and half for a child with no father in their life for 18 years and maybe more. The second slide was disgusting on the woman’s part, but I don’t see a problem with the first slide. They were both careless about the sexual intercourse it seems like, and it had repercussions. She’s not spiting him by having the baby. I don’t understand the problem with paying half and half for an abortion for a pregnancy they bot… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 07:08 AM |
| 1 | What if Kyle Rittenhouse was a girl? (it gets to gender)He was at a black lives movement with no intention to support the black lives. He was there to provoke and outrage. What the people at the protest did was not right, but whether you call it micro-aggressions or not, he is what’s wrong with the world. Do not look at it as if he was black, we all know how that could end up. But BECAUSE he was white, and the system is intended to run in his favor ( compared to a black man ), he walked free. It is not about shooting white people for Kyle, it was the… | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Woman bashes film because it features a manEven if it wasn’t produced by any of the Williams. Richard worked so hard to get these girls where they are today in an unfortunate environment. I’d kept it that title no matter what. It shows the difference between having supportive and uplifting parents growing up can change your life. Whether it was about these strong and amazing woman or not, Richard was still their role model and big support to them. | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 06:49 AM |
| -1 | Im tired of thisAs a woman, I’m not going to slap, kick, punch a man or woman if they physically do one of those things to me. Equal rights means equal fights? Don’t touch someone no matter what. If they touch you, try to leave the situation, find and bring it to authorities, and if it escalates to something bigger than you call the police. You’re not 12 and physically assaulting someone because they physically assaulted you doesn’t solve anything, and quite frankly makes everything worse. Don’t poke the angry … | /r/MensRights | 24/11/21 06:39 AM |
| 1 | UK: Why must every man on TV today be a monster? A tidal wave of male-hating shows depicts women as victims, this toxic sex war hurts us allI feel like if I didn’t, no one in a MR community would watch a woman get “raped” and make all men look literally like predators. That’s how the movie was advertised. I’ll put a spoiler though, I apologize! | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 01:37 AM |
| 0 | UK: Why must every man on TV today be a monster? A tidal wave of male-hating shows depicts women as victims, this toxic sex war hurts us allSpoiler alert for a movie: I actually got second hand embarrassment and offended for many men who are accused of being dangerous while watching Last Night in Soho. It started off portraying women and only women looking vulnerable and innocent, but at the end, it was the woman at fault, but no one actually knew it. It took a very different turn than I ever thought it would. I was very surprised and I suggest you check it out. As much as men are portrayed as these dangerous and terrible creatures … | /r/MensRights | 18/11/21 12:05 AM |
| 1 | If you ever have to call the cops on your gf or wife GET OUTIt’s absolutely disgusting. Police can’t be bias, and if they’re going to be terrible people like that, they shouldn’t be police. If you’re racist, sexist, xenophobic, you have no right to be an officer and only protect the people you like and favor. Thank you for sharing this. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 10:46 AM |
| 2 | My teacher favours the girls more than the boysMany teachers do this. I remember we were numbered off once for a pre-test quiz game. My team won, but bonus points on the test were given to everyone rather than the winning team. It isn’t really favoritism, as much as he wants people to try hard and be motivated. Although, this was the only example given and no one can really gather it from one piece of evidence like this. I suggest gathering more and taking it to someone higher up who can do something about him. | /r/MensRights | 14/11/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Feminism has always been bad.I also don’t think an average person would want to associate with some people who consider themselves MRAs but only yell at feminists. Kind of how I don’t want to associate with feminists who only yell at men. It’s not a good look if you want people to help support MRAs. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Feminism has always been bad.The difference between ALM and BLM is it is a diminish of BLM because ALM protesters don’t realize it means BLM too. People think the MRM is a reaction to the feminist movement. They don’t think of it as a support for men’s rights, only to show these “stupid feminists that they suck”. The more we put them down and sit in a corner with our arms crossed at them, the more they’re going to side with the feminist movement. I’m not sure why we are putting all our energy towards a movement that won’t h… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Feminism has always been bad.They have been. We have showed society how terrible feminists are. How many of those people have supported and now sided with the MRM instead of the feminist movement? You can’t convince someone to support you by bashing on the people they love, they will get very defensive. | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 04:36 AM |
| 4 | Feminism has always been bad.The Men’s Rights MOVEMENT is for sure a positive thing, some people who associate with it are not. When I say “cancel” I mean not everyone is trying to hate you and belittle you. When we accept the people who are trying to support and help instead of saying they can’t and they won’t do anything ( feminists and MRAs, centrists, etc… ), you will continue to be in a negative same state of mind and will in the end, still be in a negative state of mind and have gotten no where besides calling feminis… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Feminism has always been bad.I am a POC. People do discriminate. People will accept someone because of their skin color, and not because of their grades and how well they did on tests or an essay. Those scholarships were most likely made by either an organization for when women weren’t being treated fairly in schools, or someone who would like to donate as a scholarship. Feel free to open a men’s scholarship. I personally don’t have the money to hand out like that once a year, but it would definitely make someone happy. But… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 03:33 AM |
| 5 | Feminism has always been bad.How so? Because honestly, I do more for both movements than crossing my arms and complaining about men and women on Reddit. Maybe you should get to know someone about what they’ve actually done for you until you put them down. The problem with the MRM is if you support women too, or even if you seem like a woman, you will get put down or other men will get defensive ( not what is true, just what I’ve seen and found ). You guys need to realize not everyone is trying to “cancel” you. And in fact, … | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Feminism has always been bad.I am a feminist. I am not apart of the feminist movement, but if you look up the word feminist it will likely tell you equality for all sexes. What’s nice about being both is if I see a scenrio where a woman has more freedom and leeway in an area, I get to think, well what if the roles were switched? Would it be fair. As a person who fights for equal rights in the legal system, court system, and other ways, I get to see both sides, I’m not just bias on one or the other. Edit: the feminist moveme… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Feminism has always been bad.Are you going to also tell us how there are scholarships for POC and not white people? How it’s not fair? There are still so many scholarships around the world that can fit into the category of a white male. And if you don’t mind, can I see where you found that information / research? | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Feminism has always been bad.True, but when we take screenshots of NOW’s post on Twitter and explain how much of a disgusting bigot they are to society it’s like convincing a Trump support to change their mind; most of the time, that’s not going to happen. I’m glad that there are posts like the donations and keeping us up to date on what’s going on in such a misandrists and sexist world. But the post where we hate on feminists for what they’ve said and done will not get the support from people in power who love what feminis… | /r/MensRights | 31/10/21 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Feminism has always been bad.If I supported the type of feminism that hates men, I also don’t think I’d be banned from the r/AskFeminists as a feminist for supporting and standing up for men being put down and told the MRM is anti-feminists and not pro-men at all for no reason. Pick and choose your battles, because it’s very strange to fight against me, when we are literally fighting for the same thing. I just don’t want to waste years angry and mad about everything a feminist did, hasn’t done for us, and probably never wil… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/21 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Feminism has always been bad.It doesn’t irk me, because I hate how women go about using feminism to empower them and use it to put men down. If it irked me I wouldn’t be in the MensRights subreddit and I wouldn’t be helping, donating and supporting the MRM. It irks me because it’s ALL this subreddit talks about. Let’s talk about accomplishments, ways to change the legal systems and support male rape victims. Not what NOW posted four minutes ago on Twitter. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Feminism has always been bad.So couldn’t I say some MRAs are hostile to men’s rights, and continue on for many of the same things you literally just said? Yes, feminist movements are bad. I can most definitely agree with this. But feminists and people who donate to them are like the political parties ( I could also argue MRAs are too, but I won’t go there ). They refuse to see other views and stick to what benefits them, and continue to make themselves seem oppressed. No matter how much you call feminists man-haters and naz… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/21 01:21 PM |
| -3 | Feminism has always been bad.So what is the goal? I understand that feminists bring down men. Okay, lets spread awareness on it by explaining to the world that loves feminists how much we dislike them. It is one of the biggest reasons MRM does not get the support it needs / should. I absolutely will always support the movement, but if we keep putting down the feminist movement because we’re angry with them, the people who are donating thousands to millions of dollars to organizations like NOW will not support or even look a… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/21 01:04 PM |
| -5 | Feminism has always been bad.Okay, so now that we’ve finally explained how feminism is a hate movement for the 102939022 time, can we continue to help support, inform and progress men’s rights? | /r/MensRights | 30/10/21 12:50 PM |
| -1 | The "women initiate most divorces" argument. Let's chat about the reasons.Texas is also the state with illegal abortions and “eliminating rapists” so I’m not sure what’s going on around there. Women are most definitely favored in court, but the laws there are a bit confusing to me. I do think alimony is necessary, whether you’re male or female, if you can’t afford to get back on your feet by yourself. But the laws stating forever are absurd. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/21 06:22 PM |
| -1 | The "women initiate most divorces" argument. Let's chat about the reasons.Alimony isn’t the same for every divorce. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Men being judged based on how they lookI’ve seen this too. There was this one drawing I saw which had two grown women in bikinis sitting next to a young boy in the middle. The boy is embarrassed but “that’s okay! They’re cute friendly women!”….. then they showed one with two grown men in swimsuits sitting next to the same boy with the same expression in the middle, and everyone had different feelings about it. How disturbing double standards and sex roles are. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/21 06:04 PM |
| -1 | The "women initiate most divorces" argument. Let's chat about the reasons.If I’m going to be honest, I think, if we’re going to be in this subreddit, we need to get the sex roles out of our head if we hate them so much. The last paragraph explains sex roles perfectly. There has been a fair share of women who have more income than men in some marriages, and fathers on more of the other role of “co-parenting, cooking and cleaning” have had those experiences too. A bit invalidating to the men who stay home or even just support their children more. But think about it like… | /r/MensRights | 26/10/21 05:57 PM |
| 2 | I understand the logic and I truly don't mind or protest the idea, they can have women-only nights and stuff but I can't help but think it would be the same logic as having a whites-only night because not everyone can feel safe from being mugged in the society we live in.Grandmaster | /r/MensRights | 15/10/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | I understand the logic and I truly don't mind or protest the idea, they can have women-only nights and stuff but I can't help but think it would be the same logic as having a whites-only night because not everyone can feel safe from being mugged in the society we live in.It’s usually the low to mid plat elo I’ve found that bash women on there lmao…. When you get to GM and stuff, everyone’s just play to win. It’s the guys ( sometimes girls ) who can’t even get to some of these Female GMs SR too that bash. | /r/MensRights | 15/10/21 02:57 AM |
| 2 | I understand the logic and I truly don't mind or protest the idea, they can have women-only nights and stuff but I can't help but think it would be the same logic as having a whites-only night because not everyone can feel safe from being mugged in the society we live in.Not limited to overwatch at all. Although I did see a “Looking For Group” on there today saying women shouldn’t have rights. A bunch of trolls, but they somehow find it funny. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I understand the logic and I truly don't mind or protest the idea, they can have women-only nights and stuff but I can't help but think it would be the same logic as having a whites-only night because not everyone can feel safe from being mugged in the society we live in.Totally agree. Men and women are both bashed on in different ways. But there shouldn’t be a war for any of this, period. | /r/MensRights | 14/10/21 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Another GEM by UN WOMEN👇Most definitely | /r/MensRights | 13/10/21 07:41 PM |
| 8 | Another GEM by UN WOMEN👇Thank you for saying those women ( feminists, anti-men, etc… ). Many people just say women in general. So seeing the women who DO do all of those things you mentioned is a slap to the face at times. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/21 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Another GEM by UN WOMEN👇Feminists feed off you guys getting riled up in their toxic ways. Instead of getting angry and bashing them ( which honestly doesn’t improve livelihood as a man ), move that energy to supporting men’s rights. Their whole GOAL is to be anti-men. Let’s not make MRAs goal to be anti-feminists, but pro-men. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/21 11:32 AM |
| 1 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?You’re probably not as good as some of the stuff I’m able to do, or at least novice level anyway. It frustrates others, like me, who are grandmasters. Not trying to be hostile though. Do you see how beneficial this was to our debate? You might not know this, but if you just told me what strawman meant so I could be better informed on the word if it is used in the future, this fiasco could’ve been avoided and I wouldn’t have wasted time talking about how you are a grand-master debater and I’m a n… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 11:32 PM |
| -1 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?I’m not sure that youth has anything to do with this. You’d be surprised how much someone can experience in 20 years. I’m sorry I’m a novice debater??? Some people are just better at other things. Not sure every star athlete is a famous mathematician. But trying to, as you are, put me down to make you look better also isn’t a good look. If I’m such a terrible debater, don’t debate with me. You didn’t actually even need to respond, because honestly all you’ve explained is how “novice” my skills a… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 11:26 PM |
| 2 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?You realize we are for and advocating the same thing! The legal system for prison time and court cases for divorce, marriage, and family custody is so messed up when you look at the father / mans side of things. We both want that to change. So why are you fighting against me about that? | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?That is literally what I’m saying??? There is a judge, right? And that judge who is appointed to that case and other witnesses have the choice to judge and say that “Men shouldn’t be trusted” or “We should listen to men”. It is most definitely how someone thinks and their opinions in any situation that affects the outcome of it. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 08:50 PM |
| 0 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Then maybe supporting them in making that a new weekly / daily routine than bashing them for being fat and ugly would do more justice. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 08:25 PM |
| 2 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?People don’t realize this. But don’t worry, you won’t get thumbsed down for saying this. Not sure why when this is literally what I’m preaching, lol. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 08:23 PM |
| 1 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?I know what fallacy means but thank you for the definition. I don’t get why you’re getting so hostile. I thank you for informing on these words and next time I’ll be aware what they mean. A debate does not have to be a conversation where you bash someone for something like that. It’s a time to educate and inform someone of your beliefs, and they do the same. Doesn’t have to be a negative conversation as you’re making it out to be. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?“You may not like people judging, but that’s not going to go away”… Then why is there a MRM? Because people are judging men and treating them unfairly. So we advocate for them, right? We stand up for them. If we had the mindset that “Men will always be considered rapists and that’s not going away”, the MRM might not even be here today. Change your perspective and mindset could change a lot. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 08:10 PM |
| 4 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?You don’t have to bash me and call me names. It’s not necessary, definitely when we’re having an important conversation brought up. I did not mean to frustrate you at all if I did. You say there is never a safe space for men and never will be one, but that’s where MRAs come in. To show men need this care and support as much as women are getting. They need to be recognized that they are more than just labor workers or any other comments people make. They are literal human beings with a mental hea… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 07:37 PM |
| 3 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Probably many articles on if she did or didn’t get taken advantage of. I personally don’t think she did, but was mislead. Many men and women do though. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Who is to blame for ethots making millions , look in the mirrorWhy is everyone hurt that some women in the pornography industry make more money than most people? The funny thing to me is it’s like free money for the e-thots, who wouldn’t want that, lol. It’s like any other view. YouTube and TikTok rely on people viewing their content and buying even merch to make money…. So if their way in getting views and making money is so bad, then why do people pay her? That man or woman who is working a minimum wage job could also be funding her onlyfans— not the smar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 07:30 PM |
| 5 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?You for real just said that? You’re the type of person who makes some men feel like they don’t have a safe space. Where they can’t be themselves. When men are told they are a pussy for doing / not doing something usually makes them not want to open up to anyone else again. If you’re going to advocate for men, maybe you should advocate for all of them— even the ones who enjoy wearing dresses and are emotional at times. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 07:19 PM |
| -1 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Most definitely | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:40 PM |
| 5 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?I get where you’re coming from, and I agree that some people see obese people as “unattractive”, but it’s when we see people using it as an insult instead of motivating and supporting them to change as a normal thing. I had a best friend in high school who wasn’t even that big and she got called a baby hippo almost everyday. Every time I’d come home with her for a little sleepover she’d cry and wait until everyone wasn’t laughing and looking. But mind you this girl was on a swimming team and was… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:39 PM |
| -8 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?All I see is support for Conan gray and other people who wear dresses as men, but say what you’d like. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:29 PM |
| -16 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Maybe you should get to know a person before you say that. When we talked all the time he was the kindest and caring person ever. So what? Is there something interesting about a ripped dude with blonde hair blue eyes? Because he could be the most rude person ever ( or not ). No matter what, I’m literally treating him how I would anyone else: With respect. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:27 PM |
| 3 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?You’re trying to put me down because I didn’t know a word…? Are you serious? I might be young and a woman in the MRM but that doesn’t mean I should be any less valid than the next person. I don’t understand that. I’ve planned to spread awareness on November 19 in so many ways, I’ve planned and aspired to open a library that has men’s support groups and have sat down and talked with men struggling with so many horrific issues, so they know they are supported. But when people don’t realize I’m try… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:25 PM |
| -7 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?This conversation is counterproductive because we will continue to disagree on a definition. Have a good day. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:20 PM |
| -6 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Exactly. And I think when it’s not in the porn industry and women and men are getting objectified and not taken seriously is when they get frustrated. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:19 PM |
| 0 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Example: You hear famous twitch streamer xQc talk about how he could lose his licensing if he talks about twitch. It’s not uncommon | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:18 PM |
| 0 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Because when they get off of the porn industry, they feel as though they can talk about them more freely without ruining their porn career. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Honestly, I think people watch more porn with the star being the women rather than the man. I don’t hear much about male porn stars. The industry favors them because they will get more money from them. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:16 PM |
| -11 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Your opinions and POVs of other people does not mean everyone will think that. Your scenario you gave us does not apply to every family, friend and neighborhood. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Where do you see porn as life threatening unless you’re being taken advantage of by someone or the industry? | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:14 PM |
| -1 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Believe it or not, you can eat healthy and exercise and still not be below 120 pounds for women. Some women are at 200 pounds and exercise and eat healthy all the time, but they are constantly bashed on. Same goes for men. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:12 PM |
| 3 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Playing with your life with drugs and trying to make a life and money is different. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:04 PM |
| 6 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Mia Khalifa was told she’d come in for modeling business and she signed the contract. Wouldn’t consider modeling careers and porn career the same, but okay. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:04 PM |
| 3 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?It IS a problem with the industry though?? It’s a problem in almost EVERY industry ( as you’ve practically said ), which is absolutely terrible and should be fixed. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 06:03 PM |
| 0 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Oh so the 15 dislikes was because people compare obesity with ugliness and I didn’t think that should be acceptable? Why should we treat a man different because he’s overweight? That shouldn’t be seen as ugly, and if it is to someone, the opinion should be kept to yourself and not thrown into their face. Putting someone’s flame out doesn’t make yours glow brighter. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:58 PM |
| -27 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?You can be fat and healthy. The fact that you think someone who has more weight should be treated differently to someone who has less is delusional. The only reason some men and women are getting shamed is because some men and women are shaming others. Literally the only reason why. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:56 PM |
| 2 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?And isn’t that a problem?! Why would we want that to happen to anyone? Shouldn’t they be accounted for instead of shrugged off? | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:54 PM |
| -1 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Not sure what that means | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:53 PM |
| -35 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Sorry to break it to you, but wealth and money is not a physical trait, nor is it a personality trait. And when I tell you I’ve met some fine short guys, I have. Hell, if you knew how much I got criticized by men and women for dating someone who weighed over 350 pounds without a job, you’d be surprised. Unfortunately, he’s not in my life anymore and he was a fantastic man, but maybe some men should stop putting women in one whole group. I’d rather not associate with man-haters. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:51 PM |
| -2 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Didn’t realize people would dislike the fact that obese men should be supported, but okay. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?“Perhaps the most important part of Mia speaking out, is her acknowledgment that while she wasn’t physically abused, many women and girls have since contacted her and shared their stories of exploitation. Some of those girls had been victims of sex trafficking, some were coerced to perform in porn, and others pushed to sign contracts they didn’t understand. The porn industry is so large that there are varying experiences from within, and Mia’s story is just one of those stories. Not every perfor… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:43 PM |
| -2 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?You really believe the porn industry doesn’t take advantage of people…..? It’s like the film industry too, just a heads up. Edit: They take advantage of both men and women | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:36 PM |
| -17 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?That “whore wife” is probably making more money than that snickering woman next to her. They can keep talking but I’d say she’s living her best life. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:34 PM |
| -12 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?Not sure where she said this. She still makes jokes about her porn hub career. She’s now supporting immigrants and women. Not sure why that’s bad. Although she did get married and I’ve heard ( not for sure ) she just got divorced though. She’s distraught over it, but overcoming it. I think she’s improved on herself after much hate she has gotten, and I don’t see that as a bad thing. Not sure where she is now though. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:32 PM |
| -67 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?They’re being empowered because you just explained how being obese is seen as “not sexy” you could’ve said “sexy obese women”, but you chose not to. After all the hate obese men and women get, I do think they deserve to be empowered. Response to the dislikes: You guys are misinterpreting what I am saying, lol. I don’t think we should compare obesity with ugliness. Why should we treat a man different because he’s overweight? That shouldn’t be seen as ugly, and if it is to someone, the opinion sho… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:29 PM |
| -7 | If women do porn voluntarily, how is it degrading them?When women are doing porn / onlyfans to make a living and are making money off of it, women think that’s great. When women are in an office and being objectified for their skirt and sexually harassed because of it ( by women and men, not just men ), we will take offense to that. Otherwise, you go girl for making porn and getting that bank. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/21 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Woman avoids jail after posting naked photos of ex online and 'hacking' his Alexa to scare new loverCan’t tell you how many times my friends have been crying to me that someone else spread their nudes, lol. Hacking the Alexa is kinda crazy though. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/21 02:31 AM |
| 0 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.I don’t think it’s about where I live. But hey, I’m rich I can “grab me by the pussy” and “man up”. Even though I live in a comfortable environment doesn’t mean people aren’t sexist or anti-men. People are horrible to men everywhere. But I guess if you live in a rich neighborhood, you won’t see any anti-men people, sorry, I forgot. Edit: also pretty invalidating to men who grew up wealthy but mentally / physically / sexually abused. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 07:21 PM |
| 0 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.That’s kind of strange, because I’ve heard a bunch of very terrible things still said. I actually don’t think all women and men do. I wouldn’t call them an outlier either. Women sexually abuse men and some of it is never spoken. Men sexually abuse women and some of it goes unspoken. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 06:01 PM |
| 0 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.Where are you getting this information. The men you know? | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 05:55 PM |
| 2 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.You’re right. Why am I responding to a troll, lol. Your comments are literally complimenting dick pictures and bashing on people in this sub. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 05:34 PM |
| 2 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.I don’t understand the name calling. It most certainly was a debate. You just decided to call me dumb and stupid instead of inform your opinion. I’m not against you, I’m trying to understand where you’re coming from, and yet I get called names… okay. Edit: I certainly am dumb for not understanding what you’re trying to explain. I’ll remember that next time: don’t ask questions. It makes you look dumb. Lol… | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 05:22 PM |
| 2 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.Okay, I’m confused… this is so unproductive as a debate. Have a good day. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.Yes, I am twisting up words by words by trying to understand why you think “everyone is taught”. Nice argument though. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 05:08 PM |
| 2 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.You said “but everyone is taught”. This is invalid. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.That’s absolutely ridiculous. Sex education is NOT being taught to girls and boys everywhere. And I think it’s unfair that not everyone gets to experience these types of lessons. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.I can’t help but laugh. How am I gaslighting you. I thought we were having a meaningful debate, but i guess im being very manipulative. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 10:21 AM |
| 1 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.In what…? | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 09:35 AM |
| 1 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.Let’s take a different deragatory term. Many women and men refer to women as “bitches” or “sluts”, but this can also be used a a positive term as well. I guess we have different views on the term feminism. I’ll have to agree to disagree with you. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 08:38 AM |
| 1 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.You said in a comment on a different post that feminazis and feminists are two different things. Are you going back on your own word? | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.Many people take on the role of a feminist but that doesn’t mean that’s the definition of one. I agree, there are most definitely women who will ruin the definition of feminism. I’m just here to tell you the actual definition of one. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 07:47 AM |
| 0 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.And why is that? | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 07:36 AM |
| 0 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.No, I mean people who are looking down at it. Of course, there are people who are very anti-men, but that is not what a feminist is. There are horrible women who think “men are devils”, and it is absolutely disgusting that people think that. Because I’ve met so many amazing men that have my biggest support, as I have theirs. It’s the people who use feminist as a derogatory term. It’s the people who associate equality with women wanting superiority. I hope you one day realize there are women who … | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 07:29 AM |
| -2 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.Google definition: the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. EQUALITY of both sexes. Society, as I said, has warped this. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 07:18 AM |
| 0 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.We should be educating people about sex education everywhere. Unfortunately, many schools think it’s inappropriate, so women and men don’t see a problem with sexually abusing one another. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 06:55 AM |
| -7 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.Please don’t compare this to feminist smearing. Feminism is for validation of women who would like to inform and educate EVERYONE that equality is important to both genders. Not that women are superior. Same goes with men’s rights. Men are equal to women, not that men are superior. Many people, men and women think feminism is a bad thing, but in reality, the definition has been warped for the worse. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 06:46 AM |
| -2 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.This is not a punishment?? It’s educating and informing…. Edit: If I had the chance to be informed in school about what men get put through horribly on a daily basis and be informed on how to support and help I would most definitely appreciate it. | /r/MensRights | 06/10/21 06:42 AM |
| -1 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.And also, isn’t this an all boys school? What do you mean about girls getting a lecture? | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 10:58 PM |
| -11 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.Did the murders happen in the same state? If so, my old hometown is going through murders right now that are happening to prostitutes. They are teaching prostitutes safety and how to defend themselves during this. There is literally nothing bad about teaching someone something good. I’m not sure I get your point. Edit: Notice I didn’t use pronouns. The murderers are still anonymous, and could in fact be women. Notice I used they because it can be women and men as prostitutes. Although the deaths… | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 10:50 PM |
| 5 | UK: Female head of state boys school is teaching 14-year-old pupils about consent, sexual violence and domestic abuse in response to murders of Sarah Everard and Sabina Nessa. OP: Using the murders to push a feminist agenda.I’m not sure how this is a bad idea. I would love if women were taught this too. Not sure why this is a bad moral / lesson to have. Everyone, man and woman, should be respected sexually / physically. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/21 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Happy to see this statistic show up in my work's Mental Health Training. I just wish the Mental Health Training wasn't optional.Of course! One thing that has helped BOTH of us tremendously is daily aspirations ( I do take credit for this one, hehe ). Every morning, before he goes to work ( he goes in much earlier than me ), I wake up with him and we stand at the bathroom mirror, and as silly as this might sound to some, we say three positive things to before our day! Even though I tell him he’s my smart handsome man all the time, when you tell yourself that and start to believe it, everything changes— mentally and emotio… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/21 04:46 PM |
| 10 | Happy to see this statistic show up in my work's Mental Health Training. I just wish the Mental Health Training wasn't optional.You said this perfectly, and I find that so fucked that people think it’s not okay for men to cry or “be emotional”. As a fiancé, when my soon-to-be-husband has trouble with something, he is comfortable and knows he’s “allowed to” cry around me. Wish society was like that with all men: had a shoulder / resources/ people to lean on. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/21 04:30 PM |
| 16 | Happy to see this statistic show up in my work's Mental Health Training. I just wish the Mental Health Training wasn't optional.I mean… I was suicidal a little back, but no one knew because I wasn’t out about it, lol. I definitely agree that men have suffered for so long with this, but women have too. It’s not just attention. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | A wife is pregnant and wants to go back to Asia because the father cheated on her...I would most definitely assume the same thing for a woman. Why wouldn’t I? Women are just as capable of abuse and malicious actions as a man is. I don’t understand why you’re getting so hyped up over something that isn’t true, nor did I say. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | A wife is pregnant and wants to go back to Asia because the father cheated on her...How am I being sexist? And how has she made that clear? I still have not seen anything this woman has written, which is the only reason I haven’t 100% confirmed it. It’s all what the OP has told us, and nothing more. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | A wife is pregnant and wants to go back to Asia because the father cheated on her...Adoption is one of the most conflicting paths to go to. Many adopted children and fostered children are abused. I’d rather abort than risk the chance of father ( or mother ) end up abusing a child. Many murderers and abusers can have a clean history. It’s not something new. This goes both ways: male and female. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 07:49 PM |
| 0 | A wife is pregnant and wants to go back to Asia because the father cheated on her...Rather safe than sorry. In my opinion, at least. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 01:04 PM |
| 2 | A wife is pregnant and wants to go back to Asia because the father cheated on her...Let’s not assume it’s for malicious intentions. Maybe she truly believes he will not be a good fit? | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 09:09 AM |
| 2 | A wife is pregnant and wants to go back to Asia because the father cheated on her...Did she not want to abort? Edit: If she didn’t want to adopt out the baby, did she not want to abort. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 09:06 AM |
| 1 | A wife is pregnant and wants to go back to Asia because the father cheated on her...The family can be interested, but at the end of the day it should still be able to make her choice. Honestly, if it’s true she doesn’t want anything to do with the baby, it might be wise not to have it in the first place. It’s weird, because everyone seems to care about the baby when it’s not born, but right after that, male or female, they’re on their own. If they handed over rights to the father ( which could honestly be the right decision ), that means inevitably a harder life for the baby. D… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 08:07 AM |
| 1 | I've been thinking about some moms say that they are there kids dad but not to be an ass hole no matter how hard you try you will never be a father to your kids sorry but its tureI haven’t ever heard this. Is this a reply when a man or woman is asked if “The father is still around” situation? Only way I can see this asked is if shes a single mom. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 07:55 AM |
| 1 | I understand the logic and I truly don't mind or protest the idea, they can have women-only nights and stuff but I can't help but think it would be the same logic as having a whites-only night because not everyone can feel safe from being mugged in the society we live in.You should go on voice chat for video games while being a woman. Get a real kick outta that | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 07:51 AM |
| 0 | A wife is pregnant and wants to go back to Asia because the father cheated on her...It’s strange to me. When it comes to masks in America it’s my body my choice, but when it comes to female reproductive rights it’s your body my choice. I totally get it though, the man wants to be with a child he helped create which is so supportive and loving, but you have to remember she is holding this baby and laboring it for 9 months. Seeing a baby that might grow up without a healthy mindset or body could mentally damage a mother maternally. I am not saying this doesn’t hurt the father, be… | /r/MensRights | 03/10/21 07:48 AM |
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