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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Separated from wife of 18 years		SunMoonWordsTune	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/22 03:50 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Serious question about swingers Gonna go out on a limb here and say they sleep with other people.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/26 06:32 AM
3	What do I do with 1000’s of pictures of my STBXW on my phone? Give them all to her and then delete. If you have kids, keep a copy.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/25 03:02 AM
6	Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex? Nope. I try, but her and her new husband basically hate me for no reason. Everything i do is wrong, documented and then she tries to take me to court and my attorney shuts her down. Crazy how we can go from married to just hatred. Kids feel it, that’s the hard part. I don’t see any reason why we can’t just exist separately together for the kids. They want nothing more than to be with both of us at events. She’s a severe narcissist though, and I’ve been healing these last couple years.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/24 05:31 PM
3	Did anyone end up being Happy their Wife Divorced them? Meeeeee	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 06:17 PM
3	David Goggins. Looked up Walton Goggins by accident. Still a solid dude.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/09/24 02:59 AM
3	No contest divorce If you have kids, get that parenting plan down and signed by a judge. Could come back to haunt you if you don’t.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/08/24 06:27 PM
5	Took Her Less Than Two Months To Find Another Man Mine was engaged after 3 weeks. I’m better off now and you will be too.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/24 07:48 PM
6	She moved on super quick The relationship is going as you would assume. Sunken cost fallacy at this point imo.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/24 09:23 PM
5	She moved on super quick Mine was engaged in like 2 months to a different guy.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/24 08:08 PM
1	Why do women like to see us suffer even when they are the ones that chose to leave ? Look for the positive…start talking to complete strangers. ;)	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/24 12:37 AM
3	Why do women like to see us suffer even when they are the ones that chose to leave ? Complete strangers talk to me better than my ex does.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/02/24 12:35 AM
2	When that "enough is enough"? I get it. Divorce is typically reserved for instances where someone usually hates the other person or unfaithfulness or lying or cheating or financial infidelity, etc. not when the going gets a bit rough.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/22 07:25 PM
0	When that "enough is enough"? OP means original poster or you in this case. Happiness is defined by what makes you happy. I can tell that she makes you happy but its a rocky happiness hidden by years of going through motions and just becoming complacent. I just got out of a 20 year relationship with someone i just couldnt make happy anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/22 07:11 PM
0	When that "enough is enough"? I didnt mean to be harsh. Go start dating her again and make some more good memories.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/22 07:07 PM
1	When that "enough is enough"? Jesus, OP. Go do something nice for her and repeat it as often as you can. Shes worried, cares about you. Shes not out banging other dudes.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/22 06:57 PM
17	How to live happily after divorce? Lots of sex.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/12/22 12:56 AM
1	Anyone thinking of dating a single mom? This is who I’m dating.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/12/22 09:11 PM
7	For the men who initiated and filed for divorce This for me as well.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/11/22 06:01 PM
1	Can I propose a "divorce offer" to her? You can do no CS if the incomes are close	/r/Divorce_Men	17/11/22 12:51 AM
5	I (30M) have a newborn with my spouse (30F), and I am staying in the relationship for now, during the “nesting” period. I am literally dying daily, mentally, as I do not get along with this woman. I really need the support of someone to just tell me that “it gets better”... if it actually does. Save yourself some costs and look into filing without lawyers or serving her.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/11/22 05:10 PM
1	Separated from wife of 18 years Should probably edit my post that I’ve been with new gal for 9 years but thats not gonna be fun.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/22 03:59 PM
1	Separated from wife of 18 years Yeah. I know this. I need to pull this plane up and keep it from crashing.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/22 02:53 PM
2	Separated from wife of 18 years Thank you for that.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/11/22 01:13 AM
0	Separated from wife of 18 years If i had knew what the future held, i probably wouldn’t be divorced nor would i be asking the internet for advice here. What im trying to do is gather support and thoughts and advice because i dont know how to perfectly live life.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/22 11:40 PM
-2	Separated from wife of 18 years Absolutely have and I want to do the second time better than the first.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/22 10:18 PM
-1	Separated from wife of 18 years I really like this advice and that entire post. Trying to figure out how those rules apply to someone who I've already started dating pretty heavily. Every situation is different and while mine seems different, it's probably more common than I think.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/22 08:38 PM
5	Separated from wife of 18 years I took equally half of everything. She gets the house with a 50% buyout on sale or refinance if she keeps it. It was honestly a good legal process. Lawyers were great, looked out for the interests of both of us, settled our assets and property very well.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/22 04:46 PM
-1	Separated from wife of 18 years No. Im financially set and I’m saving money for a house with my future wife, who im currently also dating. Moving in with her is also financially economical, but is tricky to juggle with my kids.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/22 04:27 PM