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So she's decided to save giving at most 1% interest and not pay down a student loan carrying 4-6% interest. What kind of doctor is she?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/15 11:50 AM
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I would probably choke my wife during sex to shut her up if she started bitching like that or give her a hard slap on the ass and tell her to shut the fuck up until I am done. I like when my gf is vocal, but like 1 out of 1000 times for some reason I just want to slam fuck her and I want her to be silent, I don't know, something about her talking is going to take me out of the moment. So I take the pillow and put it on her face. Loves it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/15 02:58 AM
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I never suggested he is not depressed. Boredom is both a symptom and a cause, which was the point of that section. I know what CBT is. I've lived with someone in active recovery with CBT. I never said he shouldn't speak with a professional. In fact, if you read OP's post, he is working with professional because he is on medication for depression. Please explain how any of that precludes my suggestions.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 07:15 AM
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Don't even think about your wife at this point. You need to work on you. Stop playing video games. Get out of the house, take yourself on a date. Get a hobby, there are borderline free hobbies. Get a side project, you noted you don't have a job but you should have a goal. Learn something new. Start a small business. Go on a diet. Find an exercise that works with your condition, even if it is just walking around the block slowly for an hour. Take your kids to the park. I am not saying that depres…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 05:49 AM
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For a women, no a person, who is engaged to be married and ready to graduate school she is being a complete child. What the hell is wrong with celebrating an occasion either before or after the fact? Like there is some kind of magic window of opportunity otherwise it doesn't count? It is the job of your women to support you in all of your hustles. If you have to go to Tibet to learn meditation from a guy on a mountain top, her job is to buy you the boots. That is an exaggeration but basically th…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/15 12:00 PM
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I think you are thinking of your path in reference to her too much. Do what you want to do first, for you. It is your passion about it that will interest her. You never know, she might leave you tomorrow and then where will you be if you picked a path just to be juxtaposed to hers.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 05:32 AM
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Who said the word "focus"?
/r/seduction13/08/13 06:16 PM
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Disagree, we are human beings, everything is sexual if we set it on those terms upfront. How do you think sexting was invented?
/r/seduction12/08/13 10:28 PM
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I think you need to be single a lot longer than 4 weeks if you've been with the same woman for almost 20 years. I dated a girl for only 5 years and took a year to find someone worth being exclusive for. Just keep out of serious relationships until you fine one where you the desire to sleep with other women goes back to the normal low simmer we all keep it on.
/r/seduction12/08/13 07:56 PM
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This might not work if you're young, but for me a bit older, a lot more dates which start with drinking end up being a wild night. Only once did I have a hookup from a coffee date, but our next stop after that was the bar at 3 pm, so just goes to show you.
/r/seduction12/08/13 07:16 PM
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This is the most pimpin answer in this thread. Grade: A.
/r/seduction27/11/12 01:10 PM
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Play on playa.
/r/seduction16/11/12 07:49 PM
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Hyperbole, but yes this was implied as a goal.
/r/seduction16/10/12 03:40 PM
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Uh, yeah. What's a matter, your balls fall off? Edit: Ok, so the bar weights 45 lbs. So you should be working up to 1 plate i.e. 135 lbs.
/r/seduction16/10/12 03:26 PM
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Go to the gym, strap 1.5 body weight on your back, and squat for 5 reps. Then try to do 8 chin-ups in a set. Then take a barbell with 100+ lbs on it and press it over your head. You won't give a shit about tonality and body language because you will be standing tall with your shoulders back and have the ability to rip the heads off of lions.
/r/seduction16/10/12 02:47 PM
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Women love chest hair dude.
/r/seduction05/10/12 03:42 PM
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Watch this and msg/PM what you think. Alan Watts - Atheist Spirituality. Animated by South Park guys.
/r/seduction05/10/12 02:33 AM
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Alan Watts - Atheist Spirituality. Animated by South Park guys.
/r/seduction04/10/12 09:27 PM
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This is going to get a bit way out there. It works if you are an atheist or a theist though. I am going to give you the atheist version because it works for me. What are you? I mean, what are you really? You are a collection of atoms flying around, bound together by some forces. Even the atoms, at the heart, are just energy in a particular configuration. Your atoms were forged in the heart of a sun. The atoms forming that sun came from the birth of the universe, where infinite energy in an infin…
/r/seduction04/10/12 06:51 PM
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Maybe he is 2x as busy as you are. And if you're bored because he didn't text you enough, you've got bigger issues with him. Girls I date would never be bored.
/r/seduction21/09/12 07:11 PM
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I always have found success with the 2 for 1 rule. It is not that you shouldn't show signs of attraction—texting, gifts, or whatever—but in general you should do it half as much as she does.
/r/seduction21/09/12 05:44 PM
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Jesus. The desire for sex has nothing to do with someone's value. But if someone perceives themselves as lower value to you, there are willing to put up with a lot more shit for longer i.e. PUA jerking them around for sex when they want more than that. This works the other way too no? How many beta dudes are following around woman like a puppy and stuck in the friendzone? The sex or desire for sex itself has nothing to do with it. In my experience, like beta men, beta women get really attached r…
/r/seduction11/09/12 11:14 AM
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No one is slut shaming. I can guarantee you I am one of the biggest sluts you'll meet. However, higher value girls, unless they clearly are not in the right frame of mind to want a relationship, have less patience for the whole, "Well, see, I don't know, I am not in the market for a girlfriend right now, but you can continue to give me NSA sex" routine. My experience, your mileage may vary. It has nothing to do with the level of sex acts.
/r/seduction10/09/12 11:40 PM
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I went through a year period after a break up where I fucked a lot of girls, effectively doubling my number which was pretty respectable in the first place. It is fun, and it is empowering to your ego. However, the ones who are willing to put out easily are LV. HV girls have the luxury of being picky. And eventually each one of them you fuck for longer than a few weeks wants to have a relationship, and dealing with them getting emotional and having to break up with them is the worst feeling in t…
/r/seduction10/09/12 07:48 PM
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I think you should wait to see what she says. If she is like "oh, what would you do to me" then keep going with that, you might get into text-sex. If she is like "sorry, I am just too busy" then you might mention that that's too bad, you got some important secret meeting happening tonight in her area, but you might just be able to get away late in the night etc etc. Make it out like you are busy doing fun things, that is good.
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:57 PM
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Put that shit in your own words next time. What the hell does "Yo are dnny" mean. I am 31. Unless it means "funny" spelled wrong. In that case you should say something along the lines of "That's right, I am doing stand up, there is a seat for you in the front row" or something more sexual like "You just want me to describe what I'd do to you so you can think about it when I am not around." Idk man, start winging this shit on your own. Either be funny-cocky or sexy-cocky or funny-sexy.
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:42 PM
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Off the top of my head? "You are too busy for absolutely everything in the world? I bet I could think of something you'd make time for." And you'd better have a good answer ready. But don't give it away, make it a surprise so she has to think about it before now and the next time she sees you. If she really is a 9.7 model, it is Fashion Week. She will be busy with her fashion crew. If she says, "I only have time to see you quickly in my area" what is wrong with that? It is not a competition. Doi…
/r/seduction07/09/12 07:09 PM
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Me: Truth is I'm not looking for a relationship right now, just someone to have a good time with. If you're down with that, great. If not, that's ok too. Where the fuck did this come from. You are following that "template" too closely. That context does not apply to this one. Her "Well whatever tc" was her being alpha and not giving a shit what you decide to do. So you start talking about relationships? Creepy. HB9.7: Well explain good (good time) [a clear shit test] Not every request by a girl …
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:58 PM
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The more HV a girl is, paradoxically, the easier it is for me to deal with. I dated a superhot lawyer with swagger a year ago, and the longer things went on the more cocky and standoffish I got, which just made her crazy. I could tell that was exactly what she expected and it just made me more alpha by the minute. It didn't work out because our morals were not aligned (all she cared about was money, I couldn't care less). But by the end it was her begging me not to go. I loved every minute of it…
/r/seduction07/09/12 06:40 PM
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It is not a bad reason when you've had quite a few relationships and dating's lost that Disney glow: one person who drives you the least amount of crazy, or numerous people who drive you completely crazy. The trade off is the same sex over and over vs new sex. There are a lot of men who would love to be with you and have the freedom to also sleep with others, just go find one.
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:55 PM
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You know, as a guy, I might prefer to stay single forever and just have fuck friends, if it weren't for the fact that they all go nuclear after a month or two and wonder why you are not falling for them. Don't tell my gf, but the main reason I am not single is because I get really tired of having to deal with that shit. I am sure my desire for emotionless sex will return at some point though.
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:39 PM
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Do you know what I usually do with women I am just starting to fall in love with, you know, when things are all dreamy and perfect? I stay in bed all weekend and fuck. Sometimes we order Chinese food and eat it naked. Think about what the advice for a guy would be in your situation: if you don't want someone to be clingy, you have to take yourself out of those situations. Not doing so is a bit selfish in my opinion. You can't expect someone to just be on call for sex all weekend and just "get it…
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:25 PM
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Don't let him stay over. That is a boyfriend privilege. Fuck, send him home. He will get the hint. I mean, let him stay over if you've fucked all night, but this all weekend thing has to stop.
/r/seduction07/09/12 03:15 PM
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Because you've had a couple of months of dates, that's why. There is a 99.999% possibility that she is not the one you are going to marry. And, even that person might not be the last woman in your life. If you build it up in your head now you are laying all of the wrong groundwork for whatever this is going to be, be it 20 days or 20 years. This is supposed to be fun. Just act without expectations and you will come off as fun and light-hearted. All that confidence I learned about and inner game …
/r/seduction30/08/12 09:48 PM
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Seddit, you helped me land the girl of my dreams... Stop that. You found a girl. She is not your first (I hope). She won't be your last.
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:25 PM
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Dr. DRE - 2001. Instrumental version, unless you are with someone really cool and you can rap the words. That shit is pimp right there.
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:12 PM
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Seriously, or knock off some push-ups.
/r/seduction30/08/12 06:00 PM
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Go to the gym. Get a decent program and don't fuck around. Check out /r/fitness.
/r/seduction02/08/12 02:18 PM
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As a 31 year old who just discovered lifting weights last year, go to the gym now. The resulting overall physical and mental benefits to your life become immediately apparent, and your 25 year old self will be thanking you for all the girls you will be getting.
/r/seduction29/07/12 05:59 PM
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I think that you can get a lot of posture tips. I also think it has a lot to do with your personal style. I also think that the most important aspect of it is looking like you don't give a fuck.
/r/seduction27/07/12 07:00 PM
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I am not talking about money specifically. Having a job isn't about the money, it is about being interesting, having things to say. Why do you think artists and musicians get all the chicks but have no cash. I just mean, by all means go out and meet people, but if you are worried about your current situation, you have to be thinking long term about it
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:48 PM
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Shit, with that and your big pussy you must be having problems. :)
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:32 PM
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I think you figured it out.
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:31 PM
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Dude there are like seventeen thousand bullshit excuses to talk to people at a carnival. Stroll up to someone playing a game... I bet I could beat you. Or, hey, are you going to win me a toy....
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:28 PM
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I'd say no no no.
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:26 PM
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No. The Stink is you being confident because you knew you were going to get pussy regardless. Now you are hurting for pussy and people can smell it. The trick is to act like you are not hurting for it.
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:25 PM
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Run game on them the same what you always would, but increase the speed 10x. I mean, you should always be closing, but with girls like that if you play it right they will always be letting you. Fair warning, if you get girls like that for a while it is going to get back to your peer group and the nice girls might not like it. I am kinda stuck in that situation, was single for a year after five years in a relationship and fucked every easy lay that moved. Now my friends of friends who have their …
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:23 PM
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Go up to him, grab his ass, and say something dirty in his ear, like a boss. See what he does.
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:19 PM
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I thought at first you said that he should do to him what he did to her, and thought that was the best answer in the thread. Then I reread what you wrote and now I am going to make it my idea.
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:19 PM
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I starting to eat better, dressing better, and working out 3-4 times a week. Now I look the best I have in my life despite still looking average. All my effort has never led where I thought it might lead. I try to be flirty and awesome around girls I meet to get them interested but nothing comes of it. I feel like you guys are my only hope I don't want to be validated by women, but often times I feel like a loser I know this seems pathetic You are almost there man. You just got to own it. You lo…
/r/seduction26/06/12 11:07 PM
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I'd say go out and just have fun. But I like to think of it as the long game. Get yourself ready for the girl you are going to meet in the next month, the next year, the next five years. Shit, I have a girlfriend and all I do is focus on making myself awesome for if/when we break up.
/r/seduction26/06/12 10:47 PM
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Things should be physical from the get go. Like an old salesman, "Always be closing." You meet her you tap her shoulder to make a point. She lets you touch her shoulder, you touch the small of her back. She lets you touch her back, you brush her hair from her face. Yada yada yada you're having sex. "But it's not as easy as that." Yes it is. Always be pushing, respectfully, for the next step in the process. If you are not pushing, even if she is stopping you, she'll start to think something is up…
/r/seduction11/06/12 06:01 PM
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I don't think I'm particularly attractive, nor unattractive, just normal. I got a good sense of style but I just started working out so I have a belly. I've always had girlfriends though, and as long back as I can remember women have been a focus. I was maybe the third from last nerd at my elementary school, but I dated the girl with the biggest tits. Granted, I didn't do anything with them, but I knew I wanted them. My friends would say I am probably really sexual. Like, I hadn't been to a stri…
/r/seduction11/06/12 05:37 PM
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Here is a story when I realized I was a sexy hairy beast and I just had to own it. I had been dating my girlfriend for five years. Things had been on the rocks for a while, and we hadn't been having good sex for like a year or so. Details not necessary, but it wasn't happy. By the end, after a lot of weed smoking, I stopped being anxious at group events and realized, shit, I like being extroverted. I thought I was a nerd all these years, but really I'm not. Before this girlfriend, while I could …
/r/seduction11/06/12 04:17 PM
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Get hobbies with social components. Not only do you meet people, but a better class of people then you would meet at bars.
/r/seduction01/06/11 08:58 PM
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When you get all the shit on this list down, you don't have to approach women, they approach you.
/r/seduction01/06/11 08:13 PM
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Anyway, the truth is that I am a neurophysiologist and veterinary student and guitarist and chess master. So I'm pretty awesome All the rest could have been deduced from that. Everyone should be aiming to start FRs that way. Fuck, start every day that way.
/r/seduction13/05/11 08:46 PM
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I appreciate the suggestion but I really feel like your suggestion wouldn't have worked in the situation. All your replies in this thread are self-defeating excuses on why you can't do something, but the fact is you didn't even try. It was way too soon for scheduling anything, or even suggesting scheduling anything What is too soon? What if you were walking down the street with a girl and had 5 mins? You could pull it off. And you talked with them for quite some time. if I couldn't even manage t…
/r/seduction13/05/11 08:40 PM
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Where the fuck is the article?
/r/seduction09/05/11 05:32 PM
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Don't get me wrong, you did a lot of good stuff in this report, but... Me: “Oh, I dunno about that. It’s not perfected yet.” Your answer should have been, what the fuck are you going to do for me. Especially from a girl who had the balls to slap you on your first date. I love girls who try to out-alpha me. When I get a shy girl it makes me shy. When I get an alpha girl it is like a battle to the death and I am not going to fucking lose, period, bitch.
/r/seduction28/04/11 06:33 PM
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My memory is a bit fuzzy, and I either said something or went for the kiss, but she slapped me hard! Twice! ...all the meanwhile giving me this wild smile and laughing. A girl who doesn't want to get physical doesn't stick around for slapping and fake resistance. Caveman caveman caveman. I approach the bar with a huff, probably conveying I’d been blown off I can't tell from this if you said anything, but don't complain to a girl you like about other girls. That is what girls do with each other, …
/r/seduction28/04/11 06:06 PM
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I've written this here before, but do you think Tony Soprano gives a fuck about how big he is?
/r/seduction27/04/11 06:39 PM
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Look up connotation. Then look up denotation. "Je ne sais quoi" says "I don't know what" but it doesn't exactly mean "I don't know what." And it is a good description of that little something that all of you motherfuckers are working hard to get to come naturally. :)
/r/seduction19/04/11 04:33 PM
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This was on here just the other day. Get Her Number!. However, I am sure you could have just searched YouTube.
/r/seduction19/04/11 03:02 PM
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Not disagreeing with you, but we become what we want to be by just doing it first. He has to fake it before he makes it. Nothing makes you feel more like a boss then having two girls to play off of each other.
/r/seduction13/04/11 04:27 PM
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Spin plates. For some reason whenever I am only dating one girl, no matter the girl, be her really high value or just sorta meh, I always get hung up on the one. Oneitis is your subconscious fear that you will be left alone if she goes. When you've got two you can do the craziest shit with either of them, alpha actions that go beyond your comfort zone you never would have tried before, because who cares, you've always got a backup.
/r/seduction13/04/11 01:57 PM
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I don't know, people hate the taste of Red Bull, but I like it. I find others taste like shit.
/r/seduction12/04/11 08:11 PM
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In my experience, black girls smell it right away, but they want you to game them even more so. They are used to it, they have their own banter ready. They will shoot you down right away, but that is because they don't expect a real man to give up so easily. They have a lot more game themselves then most other girls.
/r/seduction11/04/11 06:17 PM
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That's right muthafucka!
/r/seduction29/03/11 04:42 PM
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This is a serious answer to a serious question: Ask Tony Soprano what he thinks about it.
/r/seduction29/03/11 04:38 PM
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I think when you get to the highest levels of the game the roles become reversed. You know you are good when the girls start picking you up, and you can be aloof from them and pick and choose. You start acting like a girl—flaking out on calls, not giving a shit etc—and they start acting like AFCs.
/r/seduction28/03/11 03:45 PM
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Respectful disagreement. He hit every note perfectly. He played it close to the chest and then made his intention known. After making his intention known he stopped. Yeah, the kiss was technically cheating. So maybe the guy does contact the OP. And OP says, "She kissed me, talk to your woman." I wouldn't call it manipulation in the least. It is a constant contest and he won.
/r/seduction25/03/11 07:46 PM
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Next time make her drink both. Problem solved.
/r/seduction25/03/11 07:40 PM
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Dude she didn't cheat on him. You won her by being the better man. If she is so hot you would have to keep that game up going on anyway, which is the way it should be. You think an HB8.5 doesn't have men after her all day. Man up and go for the gold.
/r/seduction25/03/11 07:22 PM
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He didn't rape her. She has free will. He was a gentleman and stopped the kiss short. She is an HB 8.5, you think she is ever without a man?
/r/seduction25/03/11 07:21 PM
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Lunch dates are the best way to pick up people who work around you. Limited time commitment and easy to organize. And who is going to turn down meeting someone new for lunch—at the very least you have a new lunch pal.
/r/seduction03/03/11 08:36 PM
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I am not into #4 at all, but god help #2 if I ever run into her in this big world.
/r/seduction16/12/10 10:03 PM
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There is actually an ongoing series in the Globe about this, and one of them is about feminization of education.
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