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41

Because he doesn't love her, he's just upset his shiny trinket got rusty. Dude couldn't find any positive thing to say about her that wasn't her looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 09:22 AM
19

Well there are lots of ethnic Russians living in Ukraine, perhaps that was the case? Or they just didn't feel like explaining themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:04 AM
33

I think it's more of an "appreciating what they have in life" and "used to finding solutions" thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:18 AM
13

Did he stop making fun of her at least?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:16 AM
71

Nice to see them telling on themselves. No decent person is content surrounding themselves with abusers, they'd rather be alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 01:11 AM
67

We was feeling proud he could get a girl like you without putting in any effort, just "being himself". You know, like in the movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 09:05 AM
34

Sir, what you're looking for is a dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:56 PM
53

It won't work, the guys who pull that shit are just happy with any female attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:51 PM
4

Nah, I try (still learning this tbh) to not give out advice unless asked and pre-facing absolute statements with "in my opinion / in my experience". You were right about warning her about traveling with a stranger (your friend sounds super risky smh), but no-one wants to hear they're dating trash. Even if it's true. Watching one of my friends waste her life playing mommy for her bum boyfriend still hurts, not gonna lie. "hE tRiEd toMaToEs lAsT wEeK" 🤦🏼‍♀️ But except for sowing some doubt I don't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:22 PM
15

Oooooh, now I get it. And I was wondering what eating disorders had to do with dating 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 01:01 PM
100

No decent man is happy with a marionette wife, girl is in trouble. Coming to America illustrated that pretty well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 02:20 PM
50

Yep. The author went from "doing the bare minimum will not cause her to choose you" to "don't do the bare minimum, why bother?" It's like jumping from "speaking a common language does not guarantee pleasant conversation" to "don't talk to people, it's not worth it" 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 06:38 PM
7

Chris Chan Now that's a throwback! Didn't think the dude could get worse, but here we are...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:05 AM
73

Your ex sounds so gross, I'm glad you've made it out 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:02 AM
4

As I understood it, the vampires in Twilight don't age mentally? Which is why kid vampires are forbidden - they'll never be able to control themselves. Which somewhat lowered the creepiness of Edward's attraction (he's still a contolling psycho though), but made me think less of Carlisle & co. You're really gonna condone dooming someone to be a perpetual teenager?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:42 AM
11

Jacob is also a budding domestic abuser. It's portaited as a werewolf trait they feel oh so ashamed of, but then there's a scene where they joke about it. So dreamy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 10:27 AM
11

I looked it up, she is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:13 AM
21

👆🏻👆🏻👆🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 01:57 PM
12

I wish I could upvote this a ten thousand times! Self-hate is one hell of a beast...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:41 AM
39

The suggestion is his point of view, not absolute truth. He doesn't see himself as loveable, therefore in his eyes, you're not approaching him with love. Who knows what nefarious agenda you have?! Don't let it get to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:37 AM
21

It's not all caps though, this was all lowercase. I see what you mean, though. Cursive is another beast entirely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:01 PM
324

Doubles as a real name check, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:53 PM
66

This is the worst! It just means 'your cool shit makes me feel self-conscious so I'm gonna take that out on you one way or the other'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:53 PM
85

Like "ты сегодня слишком кокки"?? This sounds so weird...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 12:49 PM
96

It's fairly easy, actually. Older men don't go for girls. Predators do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 05:38 PM
61

Watch "I'm not an easy man" on Netflix, it has the gender roles swapped. They have push-ups for saggy balls and even cosmetic operations for the severe cases. I highly recommend this movie!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 08:37 AM
75

Pickmes who think others share their standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:00 PM
10

I have no words, only hope it's creative writing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:45 PM
4

What slug situation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:27 PM
81

I'm not feeling it, where is her own agency in it? I agree on not panting over people who couldn't care less, but I'm not gonna love anyone who loves me. Nor do I have the time to waste on haters. This is reactive living, not proactive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 04:47 PM
22

I don't think he necessarily meant it that way, but it does have that cute puppy/child undertone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:54 PM
31

Google KwaManshu, it's in South Africa. It's a tad different there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:56 PM
18

...Ladies, did you not read the last paragraph? The "man" you're condemning is a relationship boogeyman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:18 PM
5

This is hilarious and sad. Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:23 PM
10

The press (from what I've seen) dragged them, at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:15 PM
3

Can't be too long now with lab-made meat on it's way. (Already out?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:47 PM
40

He wants a therapist + prostitute combo. Dude's a cheapskate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 05:04 PM
85

In-group criticism will always be more welcome then out-group criticism 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:29 PM
7

I commend your mother for trying to do something, but I'm not sure this was the only possible approach. You can braid hair, you can cut hair, you can hit the books/internet on how to manage long wavy hair. But saying "guess you're the wild thing looking one" ain't it. Never settle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 07:12 PM
149

... Am I the only one who's worried the kid is being neglected and/or abused? The matted hair, mom saying it's alright to basically yank her hair - this does not sit well with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:10 PM
29

Oh that wasn't an apology. That was to show her wrong she was about him and stir up some nostalgia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 09:54 AM
31

To me, the difference is whether you asked for something because you needed it, or asked for something because you did something for me. I'll gladly provide emotional support for my friends, but I'll do it because we're friends and not because she did something earlier for me. That would leave a bitter taste. "Can you lend me an ear? I'm feeling down lately" vs "Can you lend me an ear? I listened to you moaning about you job last week"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:19 PM
26

Ah yes, sugar daddies, who in no shape or form benefit from capitalism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:21 AM
39

Same here in Germany, applies to both men and women, sadly. I'm from Russia and was recently talking about my hometown with a friend. I mentioned something about streets and traffic jams and my friend just laughed - "How much traffic can there be in SiBeRia?" Guys, my hometown is almost thrice as big as the one we both live in now. But yeah, since it's in Siberia all of it's 1.5mil people must live in some village with the occasional commieblock for that Russian vibe. The ignorance is unreal. I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 08:44 PM
9

That's very interesting! I don't get mood swings when on PMS, but my emotions feel more intense - happiness turns to elation, annoyance to anger, etc. Does that mean men have actually more intense emotional responses than women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 09:47 AM
21

Meh, just some lazy negging attempt. "Jump for my validation" is what he's actually saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 10:33 PM
1

I really liked the art style and the transformation sequences. It was magical 🦄✨ It was also the only show I remember that was aimed at girls (this was 90s Russia).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:51 PM
7

Yep, I swear I read this exact scenario somewhere on 4chan. Either it's extremely common, or a popular myth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:28 AM
11

So we can fully focus on each other 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:01 PM
6

Pathetic. What is "finesse" supposed to mean in this context, though? 'Cause according to to Urban Dictionary, he pretty much "finessed" 9 months of rent out of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:16 PM
8

They know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:16 PM
6

Don't!!! ❌🆖⛔ Even if the man caters to your every whim, you will be dependent on his good will. Build your own career/business/portfolio, so staying will be a choice, rather then a necessity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:14 PM
2

It's not silly at all, this is predatory behavior - making you deeply uncomfortable for his entertainment. Good for you for moving on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:40 PM
14

At four, the boy is parroting whomever this poor woman is married(?) to. She's with some abusive douche and the son picked it up. The lady needs boundaries and the boy a better role model asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:10 PM
17

I'm pretty sure it's a negging attempt. God forbid you talk to someone to get to know them instead of manipulation, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:51 PM
25

I just read that, he somehow made it even worse: Man: So, Jessica…let me guess. You were listening to heavy metal music, right? Woman: No, I was listening to [whatever she was listening to] 🙂 Man: Oh, that’s cool. You had me worried there. I thought you were like a heavy metal girl who likes head banging at concerts. I mean, you really do look like a heavy metal girl. Woman: Really? 😮 Man: No, of course not. Just kidding 😃 Woman: [Most likely smiling or laughing at that point]. 😃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:11 PM
11

To me, it doesn't read autistic because of the headphones and "alpha male" logic - that's just the usual bullshit, but because of the pre-mediated emotional responses (feels flattered, enjoying herself) and of how scripted it is. No offense to autists in general, author just sounds like a douchebag one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:54 PM
28

The memes are leaking into real life. Did he call you m'lady as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:38 PM
24

Maybe my memory was off (I only watched the movie when it came out), but I remember her working relentlessly towards her dream restaurant, which imo was quite impressive. Did you watch Coming to America? Girl gets her palace and then some :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:35 PM
17

She did. Naveen was broke though, he couldn't spoil her if he wanted to. (One more reason not to date him tbh)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:44 PM
38

To be fair Mulan also didn't exactly sit back all delicate. Tiana's mom sort of gets a "proper lady" ending, where she never had to cook for anyone else again. But I feel you, fingers crossed for future movies 🤞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:42 PM
5

Very possible, dude gave me weird vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:45 PM
5

I'm very sorry about your grandmother. Losing loved ones is always traumatic :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:03 AM
36

emotionally close up Yep, just watched a makeover show last weekend which featured a woman surviving tongue cancer. Her main issue was that after the operation, her husband started treating her like a friend/roommate, not a wife. And would block every time she tried to talk to him about it, which caused her to doubt her attractiveness and grow despressed. They had an appointment with a therapist where the husband said he didn't want to talk about it because it made him remember how she almost di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:29 PM
10

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:06 AM
20

What's DoT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:17 PM
1

I'm confused, so do they see parts or the whole?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:51 AM
9

Reddit rules, I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:33 PM
6

Just tell him "It's okay, you can't help you were born small-minded" in your most kind, understanding, it-must-be-so-hard-for-you tone. Watch him explode and feign ignorance. Treat like the little struggling baby he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 12:30 PM
20

I seriously don’t know why that is. Porn fueled fantasies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 10:57 AM
48

Yep. I remember reading a post from a guy who was sexually incompatible with his gf and still intended to marry her ~because he loves her~ but was super dismissive of her sexual preferences. He wanted bondage, she wanted vanilla. He bought her toys without consulting her and got upset she didn't want to use them. She asks him point blank why they can't just have normal sex. Then he complains she NEVER tells him what she REALLY likes, cause he would totally do it. wOmEn ArE sO sEcReTiVe YoU gUyS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:37 PM
27

At that point, just get a life-sized doll with a dildo. It will be just as involved as him and cost you way less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:35 PM
25

Or he travels for business and the only things he sees of a country are hotels, offices and factories 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:10 PM
3

he shouldn't have to go if he didn't want to This really says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:57 PM
19

If you have to demand respect from a person, they've never truly respected you anyway. Don't mingle with such people. Respect yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:06 PM
5

if they deserve it This is a big if. Unless the person can prove they've done personal development / change that stuck(!), I don't see a reason to believe in "I'll do better next time, I promise." Because the only promise here is that you'll hear that line again. And again. And again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:58 PM
7

Who Says You Can't? You Do by Daniel Chidiac
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:53 PM
6

Not even a good one, too, since he's under impression that all a lady needs is nine inches. Even if that would be true, a sex toy is much cheaper, less needy and far less annoying. Reminds me of those dudes who say women will be obsolete when sex dolls are mass marketed. For all women's sake I hope this will be very soon so those idiots leave us alone... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 11:00 PM
3

I thought it was some type of Christian gym guide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 10:53 PM
26

Yes, that's why it's always LVM who do this. They know they're shit and don't expect to "get far". If some women unexpectedly let's them have it, it's because they've gotten lucky and they know the odds aren't in their favour. So naturally, they're not inclined to invest in such a risky venture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:05 PM
17

It's actually a high risk, hence why sex shouldn't be given freely. But don't expect an idiot to realise that 🤷🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:29 PM
13

Just some loser trying to stir up internal drama. Failing, as usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:23 PM
9

Like, he literally expected me to go to his house and sit in silence. Oof, this one hits close. Made me feel like a lamp or something. Good on you for waking up! Your romantic partner is not an appliance to be used at your leisure and silent otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:12 PM
51

Coercion is the word here. No consent to be found.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:18 PM
63

The assumption that cheating has something to do with whatever happens in a relationship is so ingrained into society, but so wrong. The cheater is a scumbag and deflects responsibility by victim blaming. No amount of love, sexual "open-mindedness", working on your body will make up for lack of morals in your partner. That's his business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:16 PM
13

Account suspended, thank God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:18 AM
6

I'm pretty sure it's to weed out bots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:07 PM
4

Hear hear! The most attracrive trait in a person is the subtle confidence of being at peace with yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 10:23 AM
8

Even the post title, holy shit. He "ended her obsession", yeah sure bud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 10:08 AM
4

As much as I like this book, Master and Margarita's relationship always struck me as odd. I get that she loved him as an author, but what did he offer her as a man? (It's been a while since I've read it though) Also I think the quote should be taken with a grain of salt, since it can lead to "never make your needs known" territory. Also, asking for small favors strengthens a relationship. Generally true though, since it shows who actually takes you into consideration and who needs to be prompted…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 10:29 AM
3

Might be an unconscious attempt to "fix" her father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 06:46 PM
26

It looked like an honest accident on the video, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 01:53 PM
16

What did he say to make the lady walk out at the end?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:48 PM
1

I'm sorry for making assumptions. I really didn't mean to make you upset, please accept my sincere apology. Sometimes it's hard for me to think outside my own perspective. Lots of growth to do. Thank you and good luck as well! 🌷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 07:20 PM
0

What about classes/workshops? Chances are higher to find someone you click with and if you don't, you've learned something interesting. Win/win situation. Also keep in mind a lot of people feel lonely and depressed in the current situation, so you're not alone in that regard. Sometimes people don't reach out because they not sure you two are close enough, but it doesn't mean you can't reach out first and deepen your relationship. Because, no offense, but when you're (I assume) around 40 and have…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:45 PM
3

First of all, why are both of you hosting parties in the middle of a pandemic? Have some sense of responsibility, Jesus 😷 Second of all, is this like a bro & sis "party", or an actual party? Because if it's the latter, I'd reschedule, too. Trying to play and talk to someone while the music is blaring and people wander around is annoying. Especially if it's with someone I care about and want to fully concentrate on. If it is the former, then yeah, he's flaking on you to get drunk with his sister.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 12:42 PM
30

And when you do tell him you're nagging and "not my mother!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 11:17 AM
7

???? = A man performs oral sex on multiple women "All-you-can-eat", "banquet" ???? = Two men perform oral sex on a woman "Dinner date". .. Coming up with terms warrants a thread of it's own, lol. What if I wanted a specific body type on a male, are there terms for that? Gay porn has those terms, actually. Since hetero porn is aimed at men, it's assumed they don't care about the male actor so they aren't tagged. But I hear you, it's really a reflection of the average man as a lover. Inconsiderate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:29 PM
29

To be fair, even the comments on RPW are telling her this is a no-no. So a troll is plausible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:23 PM
52

Read: easy pickings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:41 PM
1

So he knew about your family and then chose to comment about their cities? Dude insecure as hell. Don't let that clown get to you, he just afraid that his choices suck so he rips into everyone else's. Blocking him was the right move 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:02 AM
6

Checked out his Twitter, apparently he doesn't believe in the Coronavirus as well. Truly someone to look up to 🤦🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 08:49 PM
1

Sounds like you're living your dream, no need for role play 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:03 PM
7

Oh God, yes. One time I called my ex out he had to sit down because his knees gave in. He was "mortified at his behavior and needed me to reassure him". I did. Did he apologize or change? No. Had the audacity to ask whether I'm too mad to go to the movies now. Never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 09:23 AM
11

Why though? If she wants to hang out with you, she can hang out with you. No need for him to tug along, he doesn't exactly enhance the experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:04 PM
8

Break it off, it's not gonna work. He says this stuff is important to him, "borderline deal breaker" important. So either he will resent you or badger you until you give in. As if this weren't argument enough, consider the nature of his 'kink'. Deep down, he wants to see you humiliated and degraded. The red flag is waving openly 🚩🚩🚩 Leave his ass and get yours into therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 10:05 PM
3

I wanted to comment the same when I saw the title. However, he didn't just learn how to do her hair, he organized workshops for other fathers to do the same. That is not the bare minimum and definitely praiseworthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 09:07 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/fvujjp/aita_for_asking_a_girl_why_shes_single/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 11:33 PM
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