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| 7 | Wife threatens divorce if I don’t agree to a second child. Agreeing might actually be cheaper than alimony. What would you do?Why the fk would you ever have another child under that kind of threat? You don’t even sound like you like her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/26 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over the feeling that you will never be loved again?Most of the things you describe are things you can change. You admit you are a loser so how about stop being a loser? Get on the shot and go to a gym. Get a skill and find a better job. Start manicuring yourself and looking better. You make changes and the world is your oyster. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/07/26 02:00 PM |
| 0 | What to do with her ring?It’s her separate property why would you have it though | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/26 01:29 AM |
| 22 | Anyone Feel Loneliness Even with a Solid FWB?I felt loneliness with a wife. I don’t feel loneliness anymore, I just feel alone. Know the difference. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 12:29 AM |
| 1 | what to do immediately after dropping off kidsI usually run if it’s not the morning aka school | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/26 03:48 AM |
| 12 | The people who have hurt me most in life have been womenAn abusive parent is the only thing that can hurt you worse. So for those of us with children in this community make sure you never ever ever ever hurt your children, even by neglect or emotional abuse, because it creates scars we carry our entire life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 06:37 PM |
| 7 | Divorced Dad here. Need dating advice.That means your divorce was final a week ago. No matter how you view it, that is fact. I don’t judge for dating while it was pending; I dated as well. But what I am saying is you are acting like someone who is needing to make serious, long-term life decisions about a new relationship when your old one was officially finished a week ago. That is red flag behavior and I would suggest you take a step back and just see where life takes you. If you aren’t self reflecting and working on self improveme… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Lawyer feesFor divorce that ultimately settles: Very low end $2,500 Average $5,000-$7,500 High end $10,000-$30,000 For divorce with trial: $20,000 and up to six figures in some really toxic cases | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Wife keeps delaying settlement agreement / uncontested divorce. What should I do?I think you should tell her you want to get back together and try for a baby. You’ll either be married forever or she’ll sign the papers that day | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 06:21 PM |
| 6 | Divorced Dad here. Need dating advice.The people that say this kind of stuff are never the kinds of people that could get a quality woman 15 years younger | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 06:13 PM |
| 7 | 2 year trial finally over: ResultsI stopped reading after you said a hooker sucked your dick | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 06:07 PM |
| 13 | Divorced Dad here. Need dating advice.You are a week out from your divorce and already worried about whether you should marry or dump your 34 year old girlfriend? Not to be harsh but you are acting like a red flag. Student loan debt isn’t a red flag. But making 100k and struggling financially definitely is, especially if you’re single no children. You aren’t gonna marry her anytime soon. Does she think you’re getting married soon? I doubt it. Has she asked you for financial help? So what exactly is the risk of getting to know her an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Relationship with in lawsLast words I spoke to him he threatened me. Both of them regularly isolate me and distance me from my son and enable their worthless, abusive daughter. If he threatens me again I am either calling the cops or breaking every bone in his body | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/26 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Post Divorce and Sex?Edibles shouldn’t have any effect on ED issues. Tapering off the SSRI is all over the board. For me I felt nothing and eventually quit it entirely. They aren’t meant to stay on forever and I took that to heart because I think the only reason I felt like I had to task them was because my abusive ex wife gaslit me and pressured me into it. The edibles may not interact well with the Wellbutrin. That’s another thing I would ask your doctor about. Ask them to look into interactions between these meds… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Post Divorce and Sex?Talk to your doc about that. They might suggest cutting dose in half | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Post Divorce and Sex?Are you on SSRIs? When I was married I found those really killed it for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/04/26 03:42 AM |
| 3 | New Relationship AdviceAll you mentioned was her negatives. What would you expect this community to say in response 😂 I wouldn’t do anything if you have doubts. Those doubts are usually your body screaming at you to turn around | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/26 06:02 PM |
| 7 | Talking with my ex is like kicking a hornets nest.If it has only been 4 months her attorney can fuck off. Not remotely long enough to modify child support based on some sort of material change. I wouldn’t respond to that shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/26 01:32 AM |
| 5 | Has anyone had a successful reconciliation? HelpBad decision my guy | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/04/26 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Has she tried to come backWomen like that don’t feel regret. Their mind won’t let them. Don’t waste time chasing dopamine highs that will never come | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Has she tried to come backBrother this path is one full of danger. I literally spent a night in jail in the process and lost my job, had to completely start over to burn that bridge down. It’s not a path I recommend to those with better options | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Has she tried to come backFuck no. I burned that bridge just to watch her drown | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Why Keep the Name Especially with no Kids?She’s a narcissist | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/26 12:22 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck?You have to set boundaries and actually be willing to enforce them so choose wisely. Sounds like she’s the one who need to be in therapy. Someone that could help her self reflect and understand why she is so detached and unmotivated. Maybe that’s the boundary you need to set? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/02/26 12:38 AM |
| 2 | I am so sadDo not let them see your weakness and use it against you. Get in therapy asap | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/26 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Custody disagreement and resolution2-2-3 is for diapers 2-2-5-5 is for school aged kids That’s what I’ve found to be most helpful | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/26 01:08 PM |
| 4 | How many months before giving upNot one fucking day brother. Never let someone disrespect you by trying to control you through holding your marriage hostage. Divorce her ass now because you don’t have to wait like she does. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/26 03:02 AM |
| 1 | How did you get back out there?Don’t. Become an unstoppable force and gravity will bring new energy to you. Focus on finding a replacement and you’ll doom yourself to repeat your failures. Having a hookup buddy to satisfy your physical needs is great but you are giving your energy to someone you have no future with. What I mean by energy is your time, mental bandwidth, actual energy, connection. I promise you it isn’t worth it. If a hookup happens organically that’s great, but do not enjoy repeat customers if they do not poss… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/26 02:42 AM |
| 7 | STBXW $35k in DebtThose credit cards are your debt too unfortunately. However most states have things like “waste” and reimbursement claims. Those are likely the only ways to recoup any of that money, but don’t go into it thinking you will be free of that debt. That way if something good happens you’ll be surprised lol | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/26 03:17 AM |
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