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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Problem when talking to a girl		SundbergBLC	/r/seduction	14/09/14 10:31 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Problem when talking to a girl Thanks, exactly this kind of answer I was looking for. Appreciated!	/r/seduction	15/09/14 08:44 PM
2	How do I say "you're beautiful, i want you to be my girlfriend" without sounding cheesy? Tell her you think she's beautiful, and ask her for a date? Why would you go so far as being together so fast? I don't know without more details, but it seems like you don't know each other too well. Just go for the date, or ask if she has any plans for the upcoming weekend? Good luck!	/r/seduction	14/09/14 10:42 PM
2	Fear of being SEEN alone in social situations. How do I fix this? If you are affraid of being in the spotlight, why not just stay in the background? I love being there, when I'm in a group of 5-6 friends I try to make sure I follow their conversation, comment some topics, laugh when needed, and if the spotlight is on you, just be yourself. I don't know this feeling of being affraid of it, I don't understand it to be honest. But I can give you tips of not being affraif of it. Don't force a conversation. If you don't have anything to come with, let your friends …	/r/seduction	11/09/14 01:06 PM
2	How do I stop trying to 'act and look cool' all the time If you want to be cool, why not just act like you are? Don't act different around friends, just be yourself to 100%. You don't need a cool story, or a cool attitude in public. Acting like yourself will automatically make you the cool guy. I had this problem myself, until I got a gf. I broke up with her when I realised that I am the cool guy, I am the guy people look up to - though I didn't realised it myself, it was actually the girl saying that she's "grateful" by being with me, since I'm the g…	/r/seduction	11/09/14 12:55 PM

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