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| 0 | Have you ever been accused of sexual harassment/Rape?No. But if I went to college even a few years later it could have been wildly different. I was a dumb ass, naive, beta 18 year old who drunkenly hit lots of girls. I didn't do anything even close to illegal but a lot of men that I know who were much more honorable than me got accused of rape/assault and it absolutely fucked them. It's a scary, scary world out there and it's absolutely imperative that we educate the younger generation of the real dangers out there. Cover your goddamn bases; it of… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/16 03:04 AM |
| 5 | Matched with a real hot woman on Tinder. Conversation was flowing. When I pushed for a number she wanted to per-validate me via Facebook. I refused. Now what?It's just fucking Facebook and it's a chick from tinder. Who cares if you add her? Sure you will submit to her frame a little but it's really not that bad. The worst case scenario is that you don't meet up, look thirsty and delete her which is mostly likely exactly what will happen if you do nothing. Even if it's a 51% chance that this will get you a date as opposed to a 49% chance that doing nothing will get you a date I'd add her every fucking time. You should be confident enough in your abili… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 12:53 AM |
| 2 | How to handle a woman after a one night stand?The worst thing that can happen is that she accuses you of rape so you need to mitigate the chances of this. But you don't want to over do anything so that you can keep her as a plate if you wish. Be friendly in the morning but not intrusive. I like to get out of there earlier rather than later to keep up the mystery. Make sure to text her that you had a good time (super important!!!) If you want to plan from there go for it. The Facebook play is beyond dumb. It's clingy and useless. Unless you … | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 03:12 PM |
| 16 | Plate says "I don't want you fucking other girls" during sexI was in a similar situation as you about 6 months ago. Her comments on me fucking other girls increased, every time we hung out she brought up the fact that she wasn't seeing other people, etc. I deflected it for a month or so before determining that she was worth LTR'ing so one day after sex I said "Be my girlfriend" and she now is. It probably wasn't exactly by the book, but fuck it it was what I wanted and I am still happy with my decision. I would caution that TRP doesn't have as much A+ li… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/16 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Are these two 18 year old ladies trying to fuck with me? Do I continue to talk to either?There you fucking go. Evidence that TRP strategy works. Honestly this sounds great but you need to establish physicality. Hang out with her, but make moves sooner rather than later. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/16 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Are these two 18 year old ladies trying to fuck with me? Do I continue to talk to either?You are an orbiter. Stop entering their frame. Ashley bringing her friend on your date was a shit test that you failed. By easily switching your interest from Ashley to Maddy you showed that you are thirsty. In the future you need to makeout with the girl on the first or second date or else it gets a lot harder and usually isn't worth it. You also should work towards establishing your dates as dates and not just "hang outs". Stop using snapchat and texting as a way to validate them. Sending snap… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/16 07:28 PM |
| 2 | If it came down to Hilary Clinton and Donald Trump in the presidential election, who would you vote for any why?Trump 100%. He is the perfect TRP candidate. Totally alpha in the debates. Very strong physical presence. Pragmatic in foreign policy ideas (have other people fight our conflicts for us, don't trust anyone unless they prove themselves, make sure to always get something in return, etc.). And he it totally self sufficient on top of it so he doesn't have corporate interests breathing down his neck. I disagree with him on a lot of his more outlandish comments; but it is all part of his strategy. He … | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Plate?Ok well then just try to set up another time to see her again. She's probably lying about her phone but since the message didn't deliver there's a slim chance it did break. You were dumb for asking though and even dumber for not responding "ok you should meet me at X at Y time" when she did. It's a plate, don't over think it. The worst that could happen is that she doesn't respond and guess what? You're in the same position as you are now. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/15 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Plate?Have you fucked her? | /r/askTRP | 18/09/15 01:32 PM |
| 37 | My LTR of 8 months lied to me and she is pissed about it.You weren't as Machiavellian as you think. You reacted impulsively. From her perspective it went to everything being fine to you bringing up her ex (which you said you normally don't do/care about) to you accusing her of lying (which she did but remember "feelz over realz" for women) to you taking her phone and looking through it. This is too quick of a 180 for her to handle, the hamster goes into overdrive and she blames it all on you and boom the relationship is over. The smarter thing would h… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/15 09:09 PM |
| 1 | My unique problem hurting my case so much. What to do about it ?Being blunt here but if you are under 30 years old you've been India for more than half your life (meaning you likely come across as more Indian than you think). That coupled with your accent and computer science degree (somewhat stereotypical) surely are obstacles. But as other posters have noted, you can overcome these obstacles. The best thing you can do is lift and build muscle. Asian men who are built have nearly the same success rate as white men. Go to the gym everyday. Make it your short… | /r/seduction | 10/08/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Does love exist? Frame needs some work.Once the love chemicals wear off it gets harder but you if you play it correctly you shouldn't be constantly shit tested (her needing constant reassurance is a red flag). Continue to improve yourself, practice dread game, and don't get comfortable. If all goes well your woman will admire, look up to you and do as you please. It will never be unconditional and will take constant work but it's possible. There are no unicorns but it's unlikely that you can't do better. Successful long term LTRs are… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Does love exist? Frame needs some work.Don't second guess yourself. This girl may be quality, but if you are fighting all the time an LTR is not worth it. As the "love chemicals" wear off in your brain you will no doubt be tempted to fall back. Don't do it. To answer the second part of your question, that's what love is, chemicals in your brain. You won't ever find that "one, true love" either, that's beta bucks thinking; accept it. But that doesn't mean don't continue to strive for the best and highest quality women. Your problem of… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/15 03:35 PM |
| 2 | How do I become more assertive? Just had first kiss & lost my virginity - worried about my brainIt sounds like you weren't attracted to her which is why it was a let down. Next time go for a hotter girl and I guarantee it will be 100x better. If you want to raise your overall sex drive I'd recommend lifting, eating more nuts, meats and other high protein foods, and nofap. Once you start improving, be it physique, work-related, or your personal life confidence and assertiveness will come naturally. Looks like you've already made some good first steps. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/15 10:12 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill and ModestyIn terms of sexual strategy, I agree with you 100%. There is a fine line between boasting and confident amused mastery. Be confident, but don't be an open book. Ask more questions than you answer. Stay mysterious for as long as possible and be strategic about when you open up. A hilarious "loophole" so to speak of the female hamster is that they will literally positively reinvent you in their heads if you build attraction well enough. Case and point my top plate: my slightly above average job is… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/15 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Is it outdated to think I could find a girl who would want to be a stay-at-home mom?100% yes. If you have money, power and a high smv physically you will find women yearning to be your housewife. Every plate/gf I've had enjoyed cleaning, cooking and doing laundry for me to a certain extent, even if they didn't like to admit it. If you are wanting to pursue marriage and want a housewife, the secret is to keep them focused enough to avoid "the feminine mystique" ie feeling unfulfilled and becoming more susceptible to hypergamy. A good solution to this that I saw a lot of growing … | /r/askTRP | 01/06/15 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How (do I even need to) do I keep interest when date is not for another week?The key part of that is "as often". From the get go I barely text and I tell her in person that I don't text a lot and that I don't like it/suck at it. Going from texting all the time to hardly at all is obviously not a good idea. | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 01:20 PM |
| 7 | How (do I even need to) do I keep interest when date is not for another week?Well if you are planning a week in advance I usually don't have the time and place picked out yet, it's more like we agree to dinner or drinks on Thursday or something. Come Wednesday I'll text "hey are you still good for tomorrow?" and then follow up with time/place/logistics. If you don't text at all until the day of the date they may freak out and cancel. | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 04:04 PM |
| 37 | How (do I even need to) do I keep interest when date is not for another week?I may be going against the consensus here but I generally keep texting at a minimal as it can (inadvertently) come across as needy and honestly doesn't build that much attraction. Plus it's a pain and can be stressful. If the first date went well you should easily be able to pick right back up where you left off. I typically tell girls right away that I'm "bad at texting". This covers my bases in case I fuck up and misinterpret her texts. It also makes me look aloof and allows me not to go throu… | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Plate constantly abrasive to my leading and dominanceFrom my understanding, a hard next is to tell her that you don't want to see her again and then go completely no-contact, ignoring any texts, phone calls, etc. Soft next, to me, is to stop initiating all contact and to tell her you are busy / give cold one word responses if she texts you. You think of whatever arrangement you had as totally done and move on to other pursuits. If, in 4 weeks+ time she comes back crawling (they often do), then you can reevaluate. Soft nexting is a great strategy f… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/15 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Plate constantly abrasive to my leading and dominanceThis is stupid and normal. AWALT. You're not going to change her. I'd soft next and see if she comes back with a new attitude. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/15 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Recently discovered TRP and questioning my views...are they RP?Like any other worldview or philosophy you don't have to 100% agree with everything every poster on TRP says to "swallow the pill". Just by understanding what you are reading and acknowledging that the vast majority of it holds true in real life you have admitted that TRP has a basis in fact. Now it's up to you to put your knowledge (or the elements of TRP you believe in) into action and "swallow the pill". The real question is, why wouldn't you? The first step is remarkably straightforward and … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 09:43 PM |
| 1 | "I'm looking to meet new people, not a relationship" What is she saying?I don't see what the issue is, just try to plate her. Go on a drinks date, pay for 2/3 of the drinks max, and see how far you can escalate. Make it clear you are just there for fun too, not commitment. It's not rocket science. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/15 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what kind of shittest this is and what I should doThis is ridiculous. Texting is for logistics - this is logistics. And Sunday hasn't even happened yet so you have no idea if/how bad you fucked up. You are so concerned by sounding needy but by overthinking it you are by default being needy. Text her like you would your sister or female cousin and in the future leave it open ended like tombreck suggested. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/15 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Is 2/3 rule in terms of non-sexual favors really that imporant for an LTR? Please help me understandYou are doing fine. As long as the money is of little concern to you and you are doing it for your own benefit there is nothing "beta" about this behavior, in fact most "red pill" LTR's have male provider elements to them. The attitude you need to avoid is "I buy her this, now she owes me sex". Women can spot this from a mile away and they hate it. Her sexual desire from you needs to come from your alpha characteristics not because you buy her shit and she feels obligated. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/15 04:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] For NYE proving how amazed i am at how successful the theories work and requesting advice on a situation with my LTRFirst off, it seemed like you handled the club setting in a very textbook TRP manner so good work. Second, I'm a bit confused by the "would/wouldn't say no" storyline. What I gathered was that your SO was wing-womaning her friend by chilling with this guy at the party and told you she "wouldn't say no" to hanging out with him. Is that it? If that's the case than laying down the law coupled with dread game would be an acceptable strategy however I don't think telling her about the club is a good … | /r/askTRP | 02/01/15 06:29 AM |
| 3 | NoFap and objectification - Glorified shit test?Completely agree with Tapper. People here use NoFap because for some it increases testosterone levels and sexual drive/performance. Others (white knights/betas/etc) go on NoFap to complain about objectification in hopes of getting female attention. Same story for TwoX or any other feminist sub. A bit of a personal opinion but I don't really see any use of the NoFap sub except to research potential benefits. If it's for you, then do it, if it's not then great. The NoFap "community" is useless. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/14 04:56 PM |
| 22 | Drama: How It's a Woman's Drug and Why NOT To Avoid ItI tend agree with you and I think that "causing drama" goes hand and hand with shit tests, it's just sort of a larger scale version. Once every few weeks my plates will overreact to something minuscule/try to accuse me of inaction or immaturity/attempt to create drama between my friends. I see this as natural and I just approach it like any other shit test: ignore, a&a, or, less commonly, go nuclear. The only issue or comment I have with your post is that since my initial reaction to these large… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 02:37 PM |
| -1 | Presents for Plates?Your present for her is sex. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/14 01:46 AM |
| 2 | How do I accept my inherit limits (being a shot not attractive dude)?Look at Rory McIlroy. Short, kind of weird looking, but is killing it with women. Does it help that he's the world's best golfer and is worth millions? No shit. But it still proves that personality and accomplishments can overpower raw looks. Strive to be the best version of you that you can possibly be and the women will flock. By reading the stuff on here you are already ahead of 98% of men in the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 11:52 PM |
| 1 | If women actually enjoy being dominated... why is the society so angry with TRP?The things women say they want and what they actually want are completely different. Go to any askreddit thread on gender differences and you'll see this 100%. Not sure if this is the official red pill stance, but my theory is that just like men are programmed by society to be white knights/betas, women are programmed by society to think they are attracted to these type of men. Of course in reality they aren't and this is scary to a lot of people, hence the red pill hate. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/14 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls say they have BF's?If you are creepy this is a go-to line for chicks. That being said, it's also used as a shit test from time to time, specifically the "I'm seeing someone" line. This is easy to get around if you hold frame. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/14 02:15 AM |
| 2 | How do you ask girls out?I would say it depends on the girl. If you think they are easy or they already like you, go with drinks. If you need to build attraction, go with dinner. Either way, make sure to change settings at least once during the date. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/14 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How do you ask girls out?At the end of a conversation just say "Let's get dinner" or "We should get dinner" and if she agrees, set up a time as soon as possible. Keep it simple. Don't worry about the friend zone. If you take her to a nice enough place that's not the cafeteria/food court and show confidence/keep frame it will be clear that you are on a date. Not being afraid of rejection is 90% of the battle. Best of luck. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/14 07:30 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with ex just fine. However, I'm in a weird situation.What are your intentions with her? Do you want her back? Do you just want to have sex with her? Do you not want her back or have sex with her but still care for her as a person? I think regardless of your answer, thus far you are doing fine but the amount of further effort/follow-up you put into it does depend on what your intentions are. Exes along are tricky beasts to handle; I can hardly imagine combining that with cancer. Best of luck mate. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/14 02:35 PM |
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