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Neither did OP say what the original commenter said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:44 AM
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All she did was clearly give to examples of one man being a protector and another man not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:29 AM
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Accidental killings of children, for instance, are more likely to be the result of neglect among mothers and abuse among fathers and stepfathers. This reflects what we know about gender patterns in childcare responsibility and domestic and family violence. Proving her point lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:28 AM
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No one is arguing that 99% of men are perpetrating violent crimes. Not all men but almost always a man and all that. If you were a parent, and you had to hand off your small child to a random woman or a random man for a day would you rather give them to a random woman or a random man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:27 AM
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personally I am on the cusp of creating a group of young men who will side with the forces that makes society worse out of spite I can do it, but it will take my lifetime to achieve. This increl uprising. 90% of incels report no benefit (even marginal) from therapy Yes, and studies theorize that is due to blackpill ideology poisoning the mind. https://osf.io/preprints/psyarxiv/de67q_v1 "Among incels reporting therapy experiences, 70.8% reported negative outcomes whereas only 7.9% reported satisf…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:16 AM
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Regardless, my point stands. My conversation has been different than the one she was having with you. Instead of working on an incel uprising, how about you get therapy instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:07 AM
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I was trying to be nice by giving you the benefit of the doubt, but I'm starting to think that was a mistake. Maybe you have truly "loved" platonically, but I'm starting to doubt you ever had an accurate experience with true romantic love. This goes into the difference between a crush and real "love". I don't think true love can be one-sided, so in that way yeah you haven't ever truly romantically loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:04 AM
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Lol, when did I say that you have never loved. Look what my original reply in this thread was: No, I don't see what you mean. This is sound advice. Any love you would be able to achieve with sucha defeatist and unhealthy attitude wouldn't be good and wouldn't last for long. The love you could give, as you are now, would not be a worthwhile kind of love. I would neglect to even call it love. In another post you told me you had no idea what you really wanted in a woman because you have no experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:35 AM
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I'm not trying to be offensive, but I don't think you or anyone who has the same views as you has the social skills that any of those things require. We could certainly do with less virgin bashing in the world, but when most people insult incels they are talking about a very specific kind of virgin man. Someone who isn't just a virgin but deeply bitter and angry about the status of their virginity and viewing sex in an unhealthy and obsessive way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:32 AM
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See, you say crazy weird unhinged stuff like this and then wonder why I say you aren't currently capable of loving a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:22 AM
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I have no idea if your thinking was always as messed up as it is now. All I'm saying is that as you are now you aren't able to really offer romantic love because you only have romantic obsession to offer, which is unhealthy. what gives youthe right to make that judgement The fact that I am a human being with a brain and eyes. how fucking entitled are you that you belive what you are saying You can call it entitled, but it's true. If lots of people tell you that the way you think is unhealthy you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 08:11 AM
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It would actually be really bad for you to get into a relationship right now, for both you and whoever you would have potentially ended up with. There are healthy kinds of love and unhealthy kinds of love, you, as you are know, would only be capable of the unhealthy kind. Being good and being someone that can love people romantically in a healthy manner is not the same thing. You do not "love" women in the way these women are talking about, you are obsessed with the idea of women and having a gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 09:35 PM
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No, I don't see what you mean. This is sound advice. Any love you would be able to achieve with sucha defeatist and unhealthy attitude wouldn't be good and wouldn't last for long. The love you could give, as you are now, would not be a worthwhile kind of love. I would neglect to even call it love. In another post you told me you had no idea what you really wanted in a woman because you have no experience, this any woman you would "love" now wouldn't be because you actually like her, but because …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:30 PM
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There are lots of extreme women in here, yes. There are even more extreme men in here. I think I've seen a handful of women that are sensible that I think would raise good boys. I have seen exactly 0 men in here that I would ever trust around children. Leftist people are, on average, less likely to push gender roles than people on the right, and there are more women on the left than men. I think most leftist women wouldn't resent having a kid like me, and would be sad about having a kid like you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:56 PM
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You have no way of knowing how many women would actually take that unless you were actually offering it to them. Regardless, it is not important in the way you think it is where being closed off from it is akin to ultimate suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:50 PM
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Liberals are more likely to be feminists. Women are more likely to be on the left and feminism is a leftist ideology. wha5 makes you think the lack of gender roles is the key to? Because the reason women do better single than men is because they have better non-romantic relationships that abates lonliness. The reason they have those better relationships is because female gender roles do not stifle interpersonal relationships in the same way men's do. the6 are concerned with how in equality affec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:48 PM
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I would actually argue that women, being more liberal than average, are more equipped to raise healthy men than most men are. It tends to be more conservative thinking and traditional values that forces gender roles down men's throats, which in turn forces them to supress their emotions and not seek any sort of emotional support outside of relationships. Men are of course more aware of the male experience than women are, but I actually think women are better at teaching their male children healt…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:39 PM
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Lol, it's always some older age people need to reach to in order to speak on anything. My dad, who is divorced and in his early 50s, has absolutetly no desire to get remarried or date anyone, so I guess he must just be defective, right? Yes, dating is unimportant and not worth worrying about. I am not coasting by assuming it's going to happen because I'm young and have time, I just couldn't bother to care all that much about romantic relationships. It will either happen or it won't. I've talked …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:35 PM
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I guess if we can ever screen for a specific gene that makes men more likely to be obsessed with getting a girlfriend, then maybe. As it stands now, there isn't really any evidence that men experience such a strong amount of male-specific suffering that having male children is cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:31 PM
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Hasn't changed me. Lots of the biggest assholes I know have been rich, but my life isn't suddenly meaningless because I'm not rich while bad people are allowed to be rich. And by the way, even as a virgin and someone who has never had a girlfriend, I still have a pretty good idea about what I would want sexually or in a partner lol. I get that it could be different than what I magine but I assume my current assumptions about how I want things to go are pretty accurate. And, like I was saying, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:25 PM
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So says you. Regardless, it shows that most aren't against birthing a sex even if they think their life will be harder than it would have had they birthed the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:15 PM
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And more women are raped than men are. Dating is, all things considered, a pretty unimportant part of the human experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:14 PM
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Sure, and healthy men don't need women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:12 PM
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I am not really concerned about my height for some reason. i5 has never been something I blame my singleness on. You literally just said: With m6 genes for height and anxiety ...that boy is doomed to follow a similar life trajectory to mine, something I wouldnt wish on anyone else. Seems like you are concerned quite a bit. I hate that bitches can come along and deny m6 life experience - tell me that I have never experienced love because you need to be in a relationship to experience it .... and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:12 PM
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why even risk it Why even have a child at all if you're so worried about their potential suffering? You could just as easily have a female child that suffers greatly in some female specific way. Better to not have kids at all in that case. ivf could help screen for genetic abnormalities, most people, already do them. they abort kids with downs all the time Sure, but there are abnormalities that you can't catch, and people still choose to have children despite that. There is nothing male specific…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:07 PM
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Most women would argue that they suffer more by virtue of their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:52 PM
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The ramblings of a very sad and mentally unwell man. Lots of the men here are out there, but this one is long gone lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:51 PM
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And women have a higher likelihood to be raped, or be murdered by their partner. Gee, what a great love that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:50 PM
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He doesn't, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:49 PM
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I think you are too far gone to realize how weird and irregular your thought process is. There are loads of short, single men that don't obsess over sex or relationships(me being one of them) You are essentially asking "why would you have a son when they could turn out to be deeply mentally ill?" You could say the exact same thing for women. Someone could give birth to a woman and she could be mentally ill to the point where she believes she is the reborn virgin Mary that has to torture and muti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:47 PM
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Like I said in the other post dude, not every guy is this fucking obsessed with getting a girlfriend. If a woman gives birth to a male child and they turn out to be some weird obssesive forever alone type dude then yeah, that isn't ideal. But they could also just as easily give birth to a woman that has some sort of severe chromsomal imbalance or other mental deficiencies. Most people understand that there is a whole host of things outside of their control that could fuck up their potential chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:41 PM
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As long as you realize being this obsessed with it is unhealthy and not at all typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:32 PM
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Dude there is more to life than relationships. Women occupy a pretty small place in my mind and not having a girlfriend or being a virgin isn't some aching all-consuming desire that you make it out to be. Read a book or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 06:29 PM
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I mean, it's only hypocritical if you believe that women should or ought to be chaste or virginal and discriminate against sexually experienced women. If you both want a woman who is instantly attracted to you for your body and has sex with you quickly because of that, and are also okay with her having done that with other men in the past, what's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 03:18 PM
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So if I can't find any women that I think are suitable to date, I'll simply find something better to do with my time than trying to date. If you really want an Italian sandwich, but no place close to you has any Italian sandwiches that are good or affordable, you'll find something else to eat. Btw, from my perspective, the amount of women I find attractive is actually increasing because of social trends. I don't find virginity, submissiveness, or traditional values attractive in women in the sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 04:09 PM
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Yes, this is a community to discuss sex and relationships, and I'm asking why I should care what women I don't like should do. Why is this some big societal problem I should care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:59 PM
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Who cares what they do? Either date them if you like them and they like you or do. I, as a young guy, can't imagine why I should ever spend even .00001% of my time and energy thinking about women I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 03:45 PM
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We got a badass over here...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 03:04 AM
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I mean, I agree that women shouldn't have to date men they aren't attracted to, but lets not pretend that it isn't heavily looked down upon to call women who don't adhere to feminine norms silly names. Like, if I called a woman with short hair a dyke there is no way that it wouldn't be seen as a big deal in the circles I hang out in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:52 PM
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Do you think that would be a good universal principle for everyone to have? Like, if a woman shows up to a first date trash talking her ex or claiming that he abused her it's probably a bad sign for the future of a relationship. Like, if that's one of the first things she says.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:38 PM
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I guess, but fulfillment can also come in many different flavors, lots not involving a family or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:47 PM
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Well then, I hope you remain happy and content and that the relationship lasts the rest of your life. I worry for what may happen to you were she to break up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:43 PM
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Technically all happiness is is a neural-chemical reaction in the brain. I think men working hard to eventually have a family is the status quo only via intertia. If that was suddenly ripped away, they'd find something else to strive towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:41 PM
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I always love asking people what they would do if they were suddenly convinced that they would never have a romantic relationship no matter what they did. For me, this wouldn't change my life much at all, but for a decent handful of men it means their lives are effectively over. I have to be honest, I sort of doubt your honesty in saying that. I feel like you'd be sad for a bit but eventually you'd find something else to latch onto that required you to achieve to accomplish
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:31 PM
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I guess I fundamentally disagree with you that more stuff cam't buy happiness. Your purpose could be getting stuff for all I know. I also just disagree that the largest factor in men doing stuff is the family carrot-on-a-stick. I think we may just think of things differently and hang out in different social circles. I have never really strongly desired a family or children and I hang out in leftist circles where men have very emotionally expressive friendships that can nearly replace the intimac…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:28 PM
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It technically isn't your choice to make, either, since not having a romantic relationship is becoming more and more likely for everyone, assuming you're serious about doing the bare minimum if you have to live your life without a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:21 PM
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I would much rather have three of my family members die, then die myself, than condemn a woman to be your gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:17 PM
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I mean, I guess we just fundamentally disagree on how much importance the average man puts on having a wife/gf and if that aspect of life is irreplaceable. I don't actually know if the majority of men are driven forth by one day having their ideal version of family. Like, I feel like a lot of men may assume that'll be the form that the reward they get for achieving and struggling takes, but I think for most men the reward they want is just having a better life than they do right now. You can get…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:10 PM
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I disagree, I feel like a woman being forced to be your gf would be the equivalent of forcing someone to be in the Brazen Bull for the rest of their lives. Three deaths a year and the resulting suffering from that is more preferable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:03 PM
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Even if I was dating, I wouldn't spend a lot on a woman. I'd always split bills and stuff, so I may end up spending less than I typically would. I think the men that see getting women to notice them as the sole reason that they do anything beyond waste away aren't the type of men to acomplish much in life regardless of what rewards they get. I think the big achievers in life have something more fundamental that pushes them to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:35 AM
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Uh, I'm an alone man and I have a shit ton to work for. I want gaming consoles, money for new hobbies, to buy a house one day, to get in shape so I can do more stuff. This idea that men work only to survive and have a wife is baffling to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 03:06 AM
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I would argue that the suffering of any woman that had to endure you would be greater than the suffering of three people a year dying.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:49 AM
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Some people can't afford cars lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 02:47 AM
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I gotta be honest dude, I just don't see it. I don't see that video of being evidence of anything other than her maybe poking fun at herself and or men who care so much. I don't believe this idea that single women are secretly resentful and bitter about not being able to find a partner, that just isn't what I see. I'm friends with lots of women, I hang out in women's spaces, I overhear the conversations of older women who let life pass them by without choosing to be moms, and never once did I he…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:44 PM
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A lot of men take the position that women can't be happy being single, she disagrees as a happy single woman, so she makes a short comedy clip about it that also makes her money and draws attention to her. I don't see some miserable woman coping, I just see someone doing something goofy with such a contentious topic. Even if she was sad with being single, most likely not as sad a settling for someone she didn't lile, which is a good thing. If you can be fine being single, you don't need to lower…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:13 PM
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Seems like the life. I still don't understand what you see being wrong with this. She doesn't want kids because they would take up too much of her time, so she doesn't have kids. What are you seeing that is wrong with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:07 PM
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I have never heard of this woman before, so all I know of her are her Wikipedia page and a basic skim of articles, but she seems to be doing a lot better than pretty much every man that laments being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:48 PM
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Just looked her up, and unless there's some controversy I'm missing, yes! Unironically, if more men were like her the world would be so much better. I don't understand this thought process that it's impossible to be happy single. I honestly think it's just projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:45 PM
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This would only apply if women would rather date men they don't find attractive than be single, which I don't think is true. And that's a good thing. Instead of trying to rewire your brain or whatever, you can instead just choose to be happily single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 06:40 PM
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