| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Seeking community and wings near Seattle | Resources | Sunshine_4_Pickles | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:32 AM |
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| 4 | In need of some supportI think you should take her back. She probably has some black in her, that's why she's attracted to black men. If the kids come out black, that's just recessive genes. Watch the movie Skin (2008) to get it all explained to you. P.S. Don't skimp on child support payments after the divorce, you dead-beat dad! Does this sub even do sarcasm? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 29/05/21 07:00 AM |
| 1 | (FR) How I picked up a professional modelI've never approached a women out with her mom. Is that something you normally do? Any complications? Tips? | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:42 AM |
| 10 | How do I fix being girl crazy?How do I fix being girl crazy? Getting laid helps. If you haven't had sex in a while, or never, focus on just getting laid however you can. Then you have something to build on. Otherwise, being girl crazy is your motivation. Use it to improve, and use it to overcome approach anxiety and actually talk to women. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:36 AM |
| 34 | Fam, sometimes you can do everything right but a flake is a flake.A flake is bad, but a girl showing up to a date with no interest is even worse. Getting "lucky" with a bunny boiler is even worse. Even the best of us get some flakes, some girls are just messed up. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:30 AM |
| 1 | How do I find a cougar?You can take the slow road, which is fill out your profile and start making friends to expand your social network. That's the way to start, because you don't know the community at all. They have their own dialect and conventions. Later, figure out how to post an attractive ad and find an appropriate forum to post it in. This isn't a cake walk but it's easier than seducing the more popular women that every guy wants. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:24 AM |
| 2 | When To Go For A Kiss: a method to always time it rightYou know what? You're right. With the right delivery the ask-to-kiss can be fine. Hell, with the right delivery you can say almost anything and it's fine. For anyone who's not that confident yet, it's much easier to state that you want to kiss her. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How do I find a cougar?It's a site, and I have no idea. Just do it, there's nothing hard about it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:18 AM |
| 4 | When To Go For A Kiss: a method to always time it rightHe didn't tell you that, but I will. It's hard to rationalize away a kiss, but an ass slap is playful flirting. Disagree? College athletes slap each other's asses all the damn time, but I never see them kiss on the court. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | When To Go For A Kiss: a method to always time it rightThis plan works best in bars, where firearms are hilarious and completely legal. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | When To Go For A Kiss: a method to always time it rightNeutral responses mean she's not that into you yet. Lacking either flirting (attraction) or comfort level. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | When To Go For A Kiss: a method to always time it rightthere’s nothing wrong with asking or telling her you want to kiss her Telling is good, but asking is bad. Unless you can tell us how to "ask" without being submissive. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How do I find a cougar?It's a good place, they don't require your CC. The forums are idiosyncratic, and there are some oddball catfish who pretend to be women (lots of guys insist on video chat before wasting time). There's lots to learn about their culture too. It's easy to post an ad and get some interest, but I wasn't into the "curvy" / older women I could easily get there. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Flirted with her in front of bfYou're brave. Did you know he was her bf? Did you know these people? Are you a strong guy who doesn't might a fight? I don't know what to advise because you haven't told us enough. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 02:52 AM |
| 1 | How do I find a cougar?If you're into fetish, fetlife is full of curvy. Otherwise, walk in the park in the nice suburb. That's not an in-demand demographic, they aren't so hard to find. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups?1/20 is a fantastic ratio. I've never had a ratio so high with any form of pickup, so congrats. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 02:47 AM |
| 4 | That chick with the vacuum [field report]You're here for self-improvement, yes? I'm here to offer my advice while I heal up from an injury. My opinion is that your intentions became ambiguous right there. I'll give you more thoughts, for you and for anyone else who happens by. -Me: "Hello" ... Pause I suspect "pause" is the response you'll get often with a cold approach. She's observing you and thinking about what's happening. You know this moment is awkward for her, and the only positive thing she knows about you is how you dress (hop… | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 02:45 AM |
| 2 | First cold approach in a long timeGood for you! Naturally your first try wasn't perfect, but you did it! Now find somewhere off campus, do 5-10 cold approaches, and tell us about it. It's all uphill from here. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups?Could you give everyone a sense of how much time you spent on those dating apps compared to how many lays? Just the lays you're not embarrassed about, not the drought-breakers. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Is texting back after flaking an indicator of interest?This is a rhetorical question, right? Girl flakes and doesn't text you for a week, and you're wondering if she's really into you? Come on. Keep your self respect. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 02:02 AM |
| -6 | That chick with the vacuum [field report]Hey I'm just drinking my coffee, do you mind if I walk with you? Misstep. Now you're friendzoned. Be brave and make your flirting unambiguous. Good on you for starting the conversation though! | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Can men bring up exclusivity talk?Like I said, you're the man. The leader. Most women are *hoping* you're going the be the leader, that's what they want. They really don't want a wimp they can push around. Have the conversation. Do it any way you like, except not meek or submissive. Know beforehand what you'll do if she says no, whether you'll keep fucking her for sport or break it off there. Just don't marry her if she says no, because it means you're her safety guy in case she can't get what she really wants. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:56 AM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups?You had 50+ lays mostly from *online dating*? Was it worth the time investment? Are you happy with the women you got online? I'm guessing the answers are "no." | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Can men bring up exclusivity talk?To people who've been on 11-15 "hang outs" without sex, end it. Doesn't apply to you, it seems. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Can men bring up exclusivity talk?Can men? Yes. You're the man, act like it. What do you want? Is this a LTR and maybe marriage? Just sex but don't want the STDs? Be clear in your mind. If you don't have this talk, she's likely fucking other men. If she refuses monogamy, she's not serious about you and she's at least hoping to fuck other men. If she refuses, she's not marriage material. I hope you've had sex with her, otherwise my advice is to end it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Why omegle is a great place to practice seduction: lessons I've learned.I thought you were suggesting we all masturbate on Omegle, and offering tips. Your advice is okay, I can't condone the online bullshit though. They're such a waste of time. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | How Does One Lower Their Standards?How Does One Lower Their Standards? Try online dating, that should do it. exploring a respectful casual lifestyle ... tinder ... social media Oh, you don't want to explore a respectful casual lifestyle with rude and ugly women? Maybe online dating isn't for you after all. Work up your courage and start talking to women face to face. PM me if you want, I can link you to some good advice. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Running out of things to textText isn't good for flirting, it's too hard to demonstrate your masculine qualities. Also, if you're still chasing her then of course she's bored already. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How to Introduce Sex into a relationship!transition from a platonic conversation/ relationship with women into a more Man-to-Woman conversation/ relationship that could lead to something more Physical & Intimate You don't. If she chooses to make the transition, she'll lead you to the sex. You might get lucky, but it's out of your control. When is it appropriate to ask someone about their sexual health history Before sex. how do you ask them without being offensive about it Ask her plainly and clearly, in a way she can't misinterpret. S… | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Kevin SamuelsHis advice is sound, and those women badly need his advice. 3 in 4 black women will never marry, that's insanity. The black community needs ten thousand more of him. His show is useful to women who fuck their lives with feminist advice. His show is useful to men stuck in the feminist mindset that women are innocent angels. His show is useful to men who don't have many examples of men conversing in a dominant manner. Don't like his manner? Doesn't matter, he's the medicine society needs. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 12:29 AM |
| 1 | How to impress a guy on first date?You want a relationship with a man? Act like a woman. Conversation tips for women: Show that you can add to his life by making the conversation fun for him. Be playful if you can. Avoid one-word answers like the plague. Give him several sentence responses so he has choices in how to respond. Don't talk over him. Stop talking if he interrupts you. Show interest and emotion in the conversation. More dating tips for awkward women: Show that you're happy to let him be the man. Go along with his idea… | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 12:21 AM |
| 1 | I feel like people get into a predator/prey mindset with seduction and it holds them backPredator / prey is somewhat off. You don't want to be seen as chasing, it makes you look desperate. Still, P/P captures the power dynamic between men and women far better than your job search analogy. Your job search approach is the same approach women take to finding a man. Think about it: I spent time working on my skills that I knew employers would want tosee, showing them off, and learning to be confident in my abilities. ... demonstrated to them that by hiring me we could start a mutually b… | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Finally gave it upI'm glad you've moved on, but what changes are you going to make in your life so you won't be tempted to repeat this behavior? 2 years is a huge chunk of your life wasted. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 11:50 PM |
| 11 | Have you had less luck in online dating responses lately?Online dating apps are good for easy lays for very hot guys. Otherwise, it's a huge waste of time for men. I have been laid off those apps, but the time cost is way out of line and the quality of my partners was low. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 11:44 PM |
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