Sunshineandrainboots Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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19	FDS STRATEGY SPOTLIGHT: SATURDAY JULY 10 2021 I just categorized an ex of mine as a Project Vampire! He was an alcoholic and I begged him for years to go to therapy which he only did when he knew I was on the verge of leaving him. He was diagnosed with PTSD but after a few months of therapy he started using the terminology he learned to blame me for not doing enough to improve my own mental state. I was depressed from having my energy constantly drained by him. I was doing a lot of emotional labor and working two jobs so he could be unemplo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/07/21 05:00 PM
23	If your partner does this, RUN in the opposite direction. This is abuse and a power play. Thank you so much for this! Reading this made me realize that’s what I do. I was so used to following behind that I automatically do it even though my current partner is often encouraging me to walk at least next to him if not in front. Recognizing it as a product of low self esteem blew my mind and I think will help in stopping that behavior.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 08:15 PM