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That is awful. I am so sorry. The emotional pain on top of the physical must be so painful, and I feel for you. That is not a normal response, even playful, and shows some sadist tendencies. I have played around with my boyfriend, and he sometimes gets a little too playful and rough for my tastes, but I tell him so and he doesn't mean to actually hurt me. I never understood people that take a joke like someone says "punch me as hard as you can" as a joke and people do it. I wouldn't hurt anyone …
/r/MensRights18/05/12 02:15 AM
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Stereotype much? Stereotypes and generalizations only suck when they happen to men? Funny, since the reason op is upset in the first place is because of dumb cliched stereotypes. Fyi i'm a woman and I think it is tacky and offensive to both sexes. Why the fuck are women grouped into ages and then painted over with a brush that i'm sure describes every woman ever. And noticed that all the stupid women descriptors involve appearance, because that's important.
/r/MensRights18/05/12 01:58 AM
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So mock women for fearing and believing men are predatory, but then say the same for women...?
/r/MensRights17/05/12 01:45 AM
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I agree that if a boy is denied a spot on the boy's team and earns a spot on the girls team, he should be able to play
/r/MensRights16/05/12 06:13 AM
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Absolutely. If there was a history of this man, rest his soul, reaching out for help and being shut down or laughed at, yes this would be a mr issue.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 02:19 AM
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To me, it is not appearance based. If I call a man a creep, it is because his actions were seen as predatory. True story, I live in an apartment building. One night, I got home, it was storming, and the streets and my lot were deserted. I pull in and see a man walking very slowly, so I turn around and go into the lot the other way. I park, get my keys out, make sure I have everything, and get out of my car. As soon as I shut my door, this guy whom I couldn't recognize and prob didn't even know s…
/r/MensRights16/05/12 02:18 AM
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Unfortunately, people caught in abusive relationships have a high risk of a deadly attack, but this affects both men and women. It is very likely I can find a story where a wife was murdered. if she gets a lesser sentence than a man would, then it is MR issue.
/r/MensRights16/05/12 02:05 AM
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Evolutionary, women carry more fat for childbirth, this is why we have hips and a waist (weight is carried lower in the body). In fact, whenever using one of those electromagnetic fat scanners for body fat percentage, you have to enter whether you are male or female for a reason. Men are physically stronger with more muscle mass, period. In some sports it would be acceptable, (isn't there mixed doubles in tennis), in others it would be ridiculous. A relatively small man (130-150) is undoubtedly …
/r/MensRights16/05/12 01:53 AM
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These articles are generally condescending. Like oohing and awwing over a kid's crap painting. If Ebert actually thought that way he wouldn't have written an article. Its pretty insulting to me and should be to other women, it's basically saying I'm a woman first then my profession, attributes ect. second.
/r/MensRights14/05/12 03:02 AM
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I'd like to think I am good at reading comprehension and understanding the meaning in metaphors, but am I missing something here? Help anyone?
/r/MensRights13/05/12 04:46 PM
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I re-read it and was like woah, definitely not what I meant lol.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 11:29 AM
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I'm sorry. I meant to say that the pictures somehow circulating beyond the intended party would obviously be a bad thing.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 05:14 AM
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I agree...but I guess the real issue might be the circulation.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 04:48 AM
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Oh I see...If i think about it I definitely wouldn't want a bunch pics of kids in compromising positions floating around. Edit: accidentally missed a word that conveyed a very different message than I intended.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 04:48 AM
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Well I myself am definitely no domestic goddess and very few people enjoy cleaning. But if it was mutually decided that I would stay home and my husband/boyfriend worked I would consider the household my job. It's not sexist at all. There are stay at home dads too and I'm sure they do dishes and cook and don't think its insulting.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 03:38 AM
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As a female, I can tell you that there are times I am extremely drunk and more than enthused to be with my boyfriend. If you are drunk and give consent, it is still consent. Maybe you'll regret it, I've been there, but it is NOT rape. It trivializes real rape. It IS rape if one party is passed out for example, but if no sex was allowed after a certain BAC the world would be much less populated I'll tell you that.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 02:34 AM
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Right? Whether you're a male or a female, if your role is the homemaker it is not insulting to be asked to do the dishes. Are there women out there that think this way? Seriously. I mean it's not anti-feminist, it's being an adult and maintaining a household. Kids are tiring, true, but such is life. A lot of problems would be solved if everyone stopped acting so offended at everything. Sheesh.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 02:31 AM
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I don't understand the law. If they're both 17, it may not be in great taste but it is not illegal. What about all the sexting that happens in middle school? Are those children sex offenders? Goodness this world is amazing sometimes, and not in a good way.
/r/MensRights13/05/12 02:21 AM
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Oh my goodness...that's a scary alternative that doesn't do anything to increase the equality between the sexes. And outlawing abortion is a silly fantasy held by some, outlawing abortion actually increases the number of (backalley) abortions iirc. It's difficult to question motives, but I don't think sex is automatically a consent to be a parent, people tend to think unplanned things won't happen to them, at least imo. You brought up interesting stuff, thank you!
/r/MensRights12/05/12 02:29 PM
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I suppose that is almost always true. I have had a SO for 5 years and honestly can say I have never been on a real date, so I guess I'm ignorant on the subject. I don't think dates should be an expected fee in order to get to know a girl. Seems ridiculous. The only logical alternative is to not go out on dates that cost money, where I live there is a ton of awesome free events to go to and then top off the date with a home cooked meal?
/r/MensRights12/05/12 02:23 PM
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I'm a girl, so maybe I am not the best to comment on a predominantly men's issue, but perhaps go to a park or go get coffee. Most girls would love the time to talk and get to know you, and the expense is minimal. I don't care about the gender, but usually whomever asks is the host should pay. If a girl won't accept a date if it's not a fancy dinner she's probably not worth a fuck.
/r/MensRights12/05/12 05:31 AM
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I really appreciate your gracious welcoming and helping me to learn more about MR. I was interested, as I feel it is my duty as a citizen to know about the injustices in my country. An injustice anywhere is an injustice everywhere. If I am to be honest, I was a little intimidated in even starting a conversation based on comments from other sites, but I am really glad I did. Thanks again!
/r/MensRights11/05/12 07:55 PM
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I feel it would just be easier. Also, genetics play an important role in diseases and pathology so wouldn't a person want to know who their child's father is anyways? I would, if only for the family disease history.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 07:52 PM
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I agree. Like any movement, the craziest are often the most vocal and do some damage. I am happy that I actually spoke to men who identify with the movement rather than just read the literature. On some sites it seems that even if a person is interested in the cause, if said person is a woman some, and I stress some, can be vicious.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 07:51 PM
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You bring up a lot of good information. I agree that it seems that if feminists are actually fighting for equality with men they would join your cause. On work, equal pay should be a given. ON paternal family leave, most women I know would be very appreciative of paternal family leave, and it is hypocritical to push for fathers to take on equal roles if they do not get equal benefits. A baby is a huge change, and new parents deserve the time off. The U.S. is very backwards in this regard. Every …
/r/MensRights11/05/12 05:33 PM
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I apologized earlier if I made it seem as though that was the general sentiment. I thought it was this subreddit but it is very possible I am mistaken.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 02:37 PM
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Yes, that is what I was trying to say, thank you :)
/r/MensRights11/05/12 12:37 PM
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I agree. I also don't understand why paternity tests aren't given at the hospital as soon as the baby is born. Seems like the cheap and efficient solution, a lot of time and heartache eliminated.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 12:36 PM
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Yea it's late I'm rambling. But the gist was that men should absolutely irrevocably have the right to withdraw so to speak from the obligations of parenting a child while it is in the womb. That's what I meant then I went off the rails there. I will and Thanks!
/r/MensRights11/05/12 06:46 AM
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It seems archaic that there is no protections for men who were deceived or trapped because a woman lied and became pregnant. I can say I would be livid if it happened to a loved one. At a grass roots level, I am wondering if girls can start somehow culturally influencing others to realize that it's not cool. I don't know of anyone who has ever admitted to trapping a guy though, and it is likely looked down upon. Maybe stop glorifying crazy in movies etc. Sane girls look bad
/r/MensRights11/05/12 06:43 AM
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Yes, the abortion issue I brought up was explained earlier and I don't know where I read it but looking back does seem extreme. I agree that men should have the option to give up a financial obligation to a child for a certain period of time. If society is worried about fatherless children, which seems to be the only reason I can think of that something like this isn't procedure, maybe society should look in the mirror. I can't quite articulate what I want to say, but it would force responsibili…
/r/MensRights11/05/12 06:34 AM
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All of this reminds me of an analogy though it's a stretch. At one time maybe some of these things were necessary, but it is overkill at this point. It's like someone needing to lose 5 pounds, and losing the 5 pounds, but they just continue to diet until they starve to death. I don't know lol I'm not a poet. But i get the point. It is a bit much.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 06:30 AM
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There is a lot of information, so I first would like to say that if women think that it is reprehensible any woman would bring a child into the world as a way to keep a relationship is a terrible person. Personally I would only want a child if both myself and my boyfriend were enthusiastic and in agreement about the prospect of being parents. I see where the law might have it's hands tied, as ultimately the child suffers. I am not smart enough to find a solution. Male abortion seems fair, and wi…
/r/MensRights11/05/12 06:27 AM
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This seems much more reasonable. I don't really know where I got the previous idea. Thanks!
/r/MensRights11/05/12 06:20 AM
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I agree that all adults should be actual adults. I know there is a large number of female only scholarships for college students, for example, and it is bizarre because of the concerning trend of female college exceeding the number of male college students. At my school, a private Catholic university, women outnumber men 2 to 1. So there is an absolute institutional inequality. Can you discuss any other examples of the gender privilege? That is one I though of atm and I am interested in more.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 04:35 AM
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That is because I'm not? How would this be trolling at all? Oh yes a respectful civil and intelligent conversation=troll.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 04:20 AM
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Thanks for your kindness :)
/r/MensRights11/05/12 04:03 AM
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Ok, is it okay to discuss abortion for example. I have heard it mentioned, and I apologize that I cannot recall the source, that it is only fair that men have an input on whether a woman aborts the man and woman's child in utero. However if there were legislation, if there were an impasse there is only 2 solutions, and can force a woman to abort or keep a baby against her wishes. What are your personal feelings, or the general consensus in the movement. Stemming off of that, I have never given i…
/r/MensRights11/05/12 04:03 AM
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You're right. The anonymity of the internet can bring out the worst in people.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 03:59 AM
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Yes, we were still close. I saw him every weekend. My parents were both in their own world's of torment. My father was an alcoholic who thank God is now recovered. I harbor no ill feelings and I am living with him atm.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 03:40 AM
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Thank you. I was not aware that there are laws on the books regarding females who accuse men of rape falsely. It is quite disturbing that they are not enforced to the point where the average person are not even aware that the laws exist. It is apparent that the U.S. justice system is successful in blind once again /sarcasm. As for my statement regarding the applause of men leaving the country to avoid cs, I am almost positive it was in this subreddit but I would have to click around. I did not m…
/r/MensRights11/05/12 03:38 AM
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I have read through various sites online, such as a voiceformen or mensactivism, I have read some of Paul Elam's work as well. I was just interested in conversing as opposed to just reading. I'm new to Reddit in general so I am not sure if general q and a's are a no no or not.
/r/MensRights11/05/12 03:28 AM
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I mentioned I do not identify as a feminist. I am attempting to initiate a discussion and I am sorry if I angered you, just trying to not be ignorant on the subject. Thanks for your response :)
/r/MensRights11/05/12 03:17 AM
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