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Please explain what choices I have that don’t involve me spending money I don’t have..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:33 AM
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Your “solutions” aren’t reasonable just go into debt and move across your state with little money and go to college you can’t afford and go into more date then MAYBE you will finally be able to date someone oh joy… Again I know don’t how it was ME who me the decision since i wasn’t even born when my family moved here and got into drugs. You’re “situations” only work if you have a lot of money. Oh you live in a rural area just move! Homeless just buy a house!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:20 AM
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Yep being born into poverty and in a rural area totally my fault I should have picked a richer family 🙄 I guess I should have/should go into debt to go to college problem was closest college was 50 miles away in the next town and my family didn’t own a car. It took years to get my own place and a car I fully own so excuse me if I don’t feel like going into debt again. Not everyone is born into a good life not everyone with a. bad life is a result of bad choices. It’s hard to beat the odds when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:14 AM
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The average American is classified as borderline obese so no going to the gym and dieting isn’t “basic” being in shape makes you above average but it’s not good enough. I make average money for my state it’s full time, dependable, benefits, good co workers/boss and low stress. I don’t want to go into debt just for a degree to get a good job to get a woman which would be the only reason for me to do it right now. It just feels like average/above average isn’t good enough anymore everyone is chasi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 10:05 AM
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When you are someone like me like who was born and raised in a retirement town with no way to meet women my age. Whenever I go to the bars it’s 50 and up the young women that DO go are with their boyfriends. I try taking classes to meet ppl again old people and couples. I can’t approach women at the gym or at the store so I go to online dating because the local options in real life just don’t work for my area. It’s a nightmare just getting a match let alone a date and most of the time I have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:06 AM
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I love being pegged but I’m reluctant to bring it up when I’m dating someone. If they aren’t into it completely changes how someone sees you 😔 One chick asked if I was gay and left calling me a “f*g” others have broken up with me over it or stopped after sex saying their feelings change “They don’t know why” and we break up because of the “unknown” reason. I think it should be talked about and start small start with finger or small plug. Don’t pull out the strap and being like bend over haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:39 AM
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Not bachelor but more like single tax of I want to go to a show or a cruise I have to buy two tickets because apparently the seats are Siamese twins and can’t be separate 🙄 Cruises I don’t understand at all why do I have the same price as two people? The same room is getting used what’s the difference between one person or two? It also means one meal less for a person so it should be cheaper off the bat. The crazier thing is when it’s the same thing for SINGLES cruises.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:33 AM
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People literally go on dates with strangers called blind dates. It’s obvious they thought they could doing better and used him as a back up. If it isn’t a yes then anything else is a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:42 AM
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Isn’t that the point of a date is to get to know someone? A maybe is a no but keeps the person around like the chick didn’t an answer until literally the day before. She wanted to keep her options open and since no one else asked well her might as well get a free meal from OP. If she wanted to date him it would have been yes not a maybe it’s a technique to keep orbiters around giving them hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:52 AM
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I don’t do that it was at parties or bars where people were chatting and mingling. However if I wasn’t attractive to them they would tear me about apart completely uncalled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:39 AM
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I agree it depends on the women but from personal experience it is quite common. I know this isn’t proof of anything just sharing personal stories. My step dad was good looking think discount Jason mamoa he was a abusive piece of crap who would beat my mom all the time and cheat on her she let him get away with because she was turned on by him she flat out told me. I was friends with a woman for 2 years and we decided to start dating. On Christmas Day she dumped me for another friend hers. He wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:35 AM
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I completely disagree if you are good looking enough you will be forgiven for being a dick that’s why bad boys are a thing. A 10 in looks but 3 in personality will have a much easier time the a 3 in looks but with a 10 personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:26 AM
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Right but it gets tiring hearing “Just lower your standards and stop going after models!” When a majority of men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:23 AM
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I dislike that argument it dismisses men's struggles with dating its like if a guy struggles it must mean hes going after women clearly out of his their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:27 PM
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You can literally say same about women to men I've gotten the cruelest things said to be when trying to chat up women not even using a pick up line just trying to chat. At least women aren't expected to approach just to get mocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:24 PM
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Another amazing piece of advice "Just be friends at first and attraction will grow!" HA! Yeah right all this resulted in was me getting friendzoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 10:03 AM
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Yep I was told to just wait and you I'll find love when you stop looking. I was single for 3 years not a date not even a flirt so I learned the bs of that advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:11 AM
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I do think attraction level does play a factor if someone your attracted to do does something kind then awww how nice. However if someone you're not attracted to does the same thing then ugh how creepy they were only nice to get something from me! I've seen it and heard it from my female friends. They have done studies and its show that lesser attractive people are more likely to be looked at with suspicion off the bat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 11:00 AM
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Because alot of times its unrealistic and downright delusional I have seen a single mother demanding a man who is 6 feet, has a career not a job but a career while she was a cashier at wal mart, and didn't want any more so the guy she dates cant have kids of his own but by ok with hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:28 AM
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Single motherhood is already high despite abortion being legal in their state so I doubt it'll drop in fact I think its going to go up from here. You say women are going to raise their standards which are already high so they are gonna go after the top men who don't have to commit and get pumped and dumped. You want him to buy you all this but what do you bring to the table to lock down a man who can provide all that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:24 AM
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In the situation it doesn't mention her holding back sex and they were meeting a couple times a week so i dount they weren't having sex i'm sure that would have been brought up by Mike as well. Also its mentioned her and Tyler also went on dates so it wasn't like it was ONLY sex at the start it just didn't work out. The post even mentions the sex was good so I doubt she was holding back or wanting to be with Tyler. It also mentions it was once in while every couple of months so it wasn't like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:12 AM
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I have contacts of people i havent spoken to in YEARS i'm just lazy though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:56 AM
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My pleasure :)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:36 AM
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Ahhhh I see well I'll try to explain it better then. Sex is very intimate to me its sharing yourself completely with another person. I don't mind that she shared intimacy with other people before me but when she won't share that same level of intimacy it hurts a lot and make me wonder if the person isn't attracted to me and is just using me because its happened before. My last relationship was a dead bedroom we we're together a year and half and never had sex. I tried not to let it bother me but…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 06:03 AM
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I still don't see it I think your projecting religion in a situation that doesn't call for it. I don't want to shame you why would I?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:22 AM
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First off I'm atheist so religion literally has nothing to do with my choices. Also why the kink shaming? You don't think religious people can be kinky? Some of the BIGGEST freaks i knew were very religious. This is why people get repressed and go have affairs cause they aren't honest with their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 05:00 AM
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Ohhhhh yeah it took me getting into my 30's and smoking weed for my anxiety before I could heal from my trauma my family were abusive drug addicts and I ate to make me feel better. When you get to be obese your whole its VERY hard to even think of yourself as in shape I'm literally discovering new things about my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:55 AM
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Someone get that boy a sandwich!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:48 AM
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I'm working on getting in shape currently idk if I'll reach below 11 percent but i'm down 80 pounds so far 340 to 259 and 60 more to go to reach my goal. I'm going to the gym at least 5 days a week and dieting I have been obese my whole life due to eating from childhood trauma well this year I kicked eating disorders ass. Each day I feel better and better I love theme parks but had to stop going cause I couldn't fit anymore now I fit on everything and LOVE it. No more anxiety wondering if I can …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:43 AM
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I don't know what secular has to do with the situation. I simply would have felt resentful that I have kinks I want to do and she did them with other men and not me. It would be like if you wined and dined your first few gfs but then only started taking your gf to macdonalds and burger king you would feel the effort wasnt the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:31 AM
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Minor differences I've seen from the last two one was the last was banging another guy while another guy was taking her on dates. When they became "exclusive" she broke it off with her FWB but still made the guy she was dating wait another two months for sex. The other one was a lady who was a hoe back in the day but found Jesus and NOW wanted to wait for marriage with her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:20 AM
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I don't care about talking to my SO about their past relationships. In fact I can find it really helps making decisions I had a girl I was dating briefly and we got to the subject. She mentioned doing some kinky things with ppl in the past and some were things I wanted to try and she said she wouldn't do them any more cause that was her wild youth and wants to settle down. I broke up with her because I knew I wasn't gonna get her A game and it was most likely gonna be a dead bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:15 AM
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Yeah I can see a little paranoia at first that's normal but she hasn't talked to him in over a year and clear didn't want anything romantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:12 AM
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Yeah it mentioned the sex was great so I doubt she made him wait too long and mentioned they her and Tyler went on a few dates so I wasn't like she wasn't just banging him right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:10 AM
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I agree but there are limits my last ex had two ex's one was her ex husband seemed like a good dude was remarried they Both agreed they just grew apart. No problem with their friendship. However she had another more recent ex he was the typical bad boy. She complained how much of a asshole he was and how he ruined her life. She mentions she wants to start talking to him again and be friends. I ask her why since he was abusive she started making every excuse in the book for him and told me to my …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:08 AM
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I agree they were hooking for years every couple of months and once Mike showed up she gave up Tyler. If she wanted to date Tyler she would have or the text would be more then "you free?"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:04 AM
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B she was upfront about it not trying to hide it and it was clear from the text it was clearly just sex and it was literally months before they met. She hadn't even talked to him in those months the situation said the sex between her and Mike. I have a fwb that I'm still friends with haven't had sex in years I'm still friends with her cause we were friends to begin with. Tyler isn't waiting in the wings they banged once a couple months over the course of years if they wanted to date they could h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 03:02 AM
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What if you don't know how to act dominant? How would you learn that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:13 PM
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Its like how 50 shades is a romance because Christian is hot if he was a balding overweight dude named Bubba in a trailer it would be a horror movie XD
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:05 PM
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Also the women who have to lie in order to get a man aren't worth dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:00 PM
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Just so we're clear what type is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:55 PM
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Waw that's a lot of denial
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:00 PM
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Oh totally but there still needs to be some effort on both sides that literally killed my last relationship. I made her feel special constantly taking her out to eat, telling her was beautiful, took out the dog when it was her turn, would surprise her with food, and the list goes on and on. Meanwhile she didn't go any of that those and wouldn't even dress up sexy for me or wear make up and it got to the point where she wouldn't cuddle with me naked. This is what I mean when a man needs to feel s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:34 PM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:10 PM
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In a general sense probably but if we are getting intimate if she are just laying back and making me do all the work And doesn't act interested it kills my erection. A guy can get a boner from literally nothing it's not that hard (ha) to get a guy aroused but she need more to make it special. If she gives a blowjob but doesn't seem into the guy can easily get turned off both parties have to work to make the other feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:04 PM
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shrugs I just don't have sympathy for her the next morning when he leaves and she was nothing but a toy to cum in. If she had said no he would have just picked another woman that night that's what chasing that special feeling get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:59 AM
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Ah no it's not enough to make a men feel special I can literally go for a hooker for that that's literally the BARE MINIMAL to make him feel special.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:17 AM
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I mean if she wants to get pumped and dumped by Chad to feel "special" that's on her 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:16 AM
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I completely disagree there a PLENTY of women who bang dudes they don't care about at ALL they don't even know their names. If you mean it makes them feel special cause the alpha picked them well the alpha would have picked another chick so she's not really special.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:36 AM
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I'm not saying it's stupid I'm saying it's unrealistic for the average man living paycheck to paycheck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:33 AM
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Are your guy friends within their league? I'm average and i never swipe on the models I know it's just a waste of time or a scammer. I don't like to waste my swipes like that haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:16 AM
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While I agree to a extent the "just take a shower" is condescending I'm sure some men need to hear but if they do trust me there is WAY more they need to work on before dating. I shower daily, take care of my skin, im balding but I shave my head and everyone says it looks WAY better, I go out, I'm sociable I work full time own a car and have a apartment. One big flaw I'm obese from a eating disorder from childhood I recently made that eating disorder my bitch, been hitting the gym everyday 80 po…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:36 AM
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If guys didn't go after the top percentage of women?? We have multiple studies show the opposite. I don't go after the top percentage and I still get rejected. Even dating apps show if a average woman signs up for tinder or bumbles hundreds of likes in days. Meanwhile the average guy MIGHT 1 or two swipes a day and get ghosted. I don't doubt that you're struggling in dating but to say men only go after the top percentage of women isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:30 AM
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"Just go live in another country!" If most guys could afford to just go live in another country they wouldn't be on Reddit about their dating struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 09:22 AM
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Right but it is a delusion and we should try to break that delusion. You wouldn't tell a 5 foot two string bean nerd Who wants to be an NFL linebacker yeah just go for it never lower your standards for a job. Everyone should have standards but when they are literally unattainable that becomes a delusion and that's not good for anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:15 AM
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Or they didn't have opportunities. I wanted to go to college but my family were a bunch of addicts so no money. No car to get to class because they sold it for pills, I couldnt get federal aid because I wasn't "officially adopted" my adoptive mother was granted physical custody which wasn't good enough for the state. I have no contact with my bio parents and I need their info to get aid and was told oh well. Not everyone has options to go now that I'm older I'm saving money so I can go to school…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:02 AM
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So a man has to be attractive/have status/options/freedom and a women just has to be a women? She doesn't have to bring anything to the table AND we still have to make sure to give her attention If a man has all that he does need to choose at all? No and probably won't why would he? You said it yourself you were a pussy you still are. You are putting women on a pedestal as these wonderful creatures we have to provide for to get sex. Do you think Chads make women feel special? He might not be des…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:51 AM
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Is it the same with fwb? Not judging again curious
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:30 AM
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The problem is she is a slut for other guys and not him and that's dishonest. There is a joke a like the difference between a whore and bitch is that a whore will fuck everybody but a bitch will fuck everybody EXCEPT you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 04:00 AM
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So would you go on a blind date or just people you already know? I'm just asking out of genuine curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:55 AM
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Oh she will be VERY frigid she will only do missionary for him and when pressed to do more kinky things she will say "I'm not that kind of woman anymore!" And it will be duty sex alright on Christmas and his birthday.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:19 PM
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This is what exactly happened to me multiple times her saying"I'm just not ready" getting dumped for another guy before they got "ready" and they bang them right away. If they aren't interested in any intimacy after a few dates I move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:16 PM
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My ex used the "not comfortable" like for a year and a half how long do you have to wait for someone to be comfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:12 PM
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It also helps men filter out women like you 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:07 PM
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Yep after this relationship I went on 3 dates with a woman who would say the sweetest things but never put any effort into physical contact. She would barely hold my hand and wouldn't kiss me after my experiences with the ex I just took off.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:07 PM
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I used to feel that way like an ex had a crush on a friend she still hung out with I thought whatever it's in the past she dumped me the day he got single. I judge past behavior until the person earns my trust I don't fully write a person off but my guard is certainly up nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:03 PM
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Again why is one of the other? He doesn't want to be casual sex guy he wants to be in a relationship with her. Is marrying her ONLY way to prove he wants to be in a relationship with her?? Why can't a relationship guy also get sex? Why does he have to jump through all the hopes the other men didn't? It's this logic that makes cause become the casual sex guy. He sees all the hard work he is putting into the relationship to gain sex. He doesn't want just sex he does want to be with her but why is …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:49 PM
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I find that kind of foolish to be honest of you met someone who cheated on every partner they were with would you still want to date them thinking your the one they WONT cheat on with or would avoid them like the plague cause they will most likely cheat on you too. I'm not even talking about the situation op made I'm just saying that past is a factor in behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:42 PM
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Why can't he want both?? Why is it sex OR a relationship? I hate when people assume wanting sex means he's ONLY in it for sex. It's normal to expect sex from a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:37 PM
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It was a gradual thing and there was alot of other factors. I work overnights so I couldn't always spend the night and vice versa thing on my days off we wanted to go out and have fun and by the time we got home we were too tired for sex. At first I didn't mind cause it felt like we were bonding and felt sex would come later. We were also dealing with a lot part of her family got homeless and my mother got cancer so other stuff on our minds most of the time. It didn't start becoming a problem ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:35 PM
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In this situation it is he wants something and can't get without a huge commitment and it's going to effect his judgment. It's the same as him saying I'm not marrying you until we have sex yet he married his first wife without having sex first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:22 PM
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I agree he should leave and it's funny how that standard only applies to certain people It's almost like a double standard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:18 PM
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I agree it's not perfect just saying past is a factor. No he wouldn't because its consistent that's what she did before she's not making an extra rule for him so like I'm saying past IS a factor. I'm not saying she's wrong for sleeping around but to make another guy wait is a double standard. I'm not even talking about waiting a couple dates but she's waiting for marriage I've had an ex's with fwb in the past and we didn't have sex right away which was fine because she didn't make me wait passed…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:16 PM
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Yes men can get irate but I think majority of men just move on I get annoyed if I feel like she wasn't into me and just wanted dinner. But you said it's not fair he is pressure her into sex but she is pressuring him into marriage but withholding a form of intimacy she gave others. She has the right to do that but she shouldn't be surprised if guys dump her for that. Of course your not gonna marry the first person you date to make one person wait for marriage and one not is a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 08:04 PM
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You said past doesn't matter but it does. Would you take you car to a mechanic who is know to drink on the job and has caused accidents in past but went to AA and is sober now or would you take it the guy who was always sober did his job and didn't cause an accident? Actions have consequences this one was losing out on a possible relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:59 PM
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It happened to me it wasn't until marriage but it was a year we never had sex. I agree to it because I was willing to wait for her cause I really liked her. We both had family living with us so a good time never seemed to happen. But once we got more alone time she still never wanted sex and at this point I figured I waited this long whats a little longer? I was in love and didn't want to let sex ruin a otherwise good relationship. For our anniversary I got us a hotel and romantic weekend planne…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:52 PM
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It absolutely has a bearing on the present there is going to be resentment. I don't mind with her making him a bit but until marriage is ridiculous that's making the ultimate commitment and what if they aren't compatible sexually? All it is going to do is put pressure on him to propose to get sex. He is also going to be resentful that he has to put in all this work to get something that other men didn't. I don't care if my gf has alot of sex before me but when there are different rules for me I …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 07:39 PM
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Ok since everyone is saying how unrealistic this is let me share my own story. I dated a woman for a year and half and never had sex. At first I was understanding because both of our houses had family staying so we couldn't get much privacy and her meds lowered her libido. For our year anniversary I book us for 3 days out of town in a hotel where I figured our first time would be super romantic and we have the rest of our lives for sex. Nope no sex AT all for the whole trip saying she wasn't in …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 05:41 PM
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Yes it does the number of times I got ghosted for my job is proof. I work full time overnights at a hotel it's a good job for my area but when I tell women I get ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:26 AM
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Only the good looking guys though I did work at wal mart asked out a bunch of coworkers all of them rejected me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 09:23 AM
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Frankly it doesn't interest most women. Men that go into STEM fields tended to be nerds in school and weren't popular. So they don't get a lot of attention from women, aren't invited to parties and end up getting into nerd culture. This might spark a love of science and they go from there. Women on the other hand are more popular during school (on average) so they don't face as much rejection and are able to be social. So they go on dates and party because that's what most young ppl are into and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:33 AM
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I'd rather just walk away then change who I am as a person. If I started acting like that I wouldn't like myself anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:27 AM
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I wasn't able to date in my 20's I lived in the middle of no where and couldn't meet people I was finally was able to move but I find dating a nightmare. I'm not about sex I like relationships I like cute dates and romance sex is just a bonus to me. This new world of dating of let me get mine and to hell with everyone else makes me just want to walk away even cause this whole mindset isnt for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 07:33 PM
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There is a poster who keeps defending sleeping around and is pretty sociopathic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:06 PM
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I'm honestly concerned you might be a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:04 PM
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So your honest until you want something? That's not being honest 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 06:02 PM
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Reading some of these comments has made my view of dating even lower then it was....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:58 PM
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Starting a relationship on a secret is such a great foundation sure it probably wouldn't come up but if it does it's a time bomb waiting to happen. She could get drunk once and let it slip to him or her friends and someone can tell him. I honestly don't care anymore about the debate so im no gonNa reply anymore cause it feels like we are making any ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:57 PM
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I think fucking a guy while claiming to like and date another guy is very twisted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:38 PM
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She was willing to gamble on it which means she felt that if she got caught it was worth it because Marks sex was that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 05:35 PM
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No Dylan is expendable if he finds out he will not want to date her but she thinks Marks dick is worth the risk. She's only willing to get rid of Marks dick for Dylan's commitment without it he's not worth giving up mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:37 PM
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She is literally using it AS a weapon she is denying sex to one man in hopes it'll keep him around longer because she was worried he would leave her. He might have left her after having sex but she never gave him that choice instead she's giving it away to another man for her own urges that's completely dishonest. I don't care if she fucked him before Dylan and her started going on dates but when they started dating after like 2 or 3 times she needed to stop fucking Mark. Such a healthy outlook …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:15 PM
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All of this just comes off as super sneaky and selfish if it's "just sex" and nothing more why not tell Dylan cause he would be pissed! You can say this is how dating is it's cause y'all make it like that. Yep and Dylan wasn't good enough to give her that hard dick till he proved himself worthy of her pussy. You can dance around it all you want but that's what happened it she was fucking both of them at the same time it would be one thing but making one wait is fucked. She choose to have sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:21 PM
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This is part of the reason I dropped out of dating you say he needs to proof he can provide sex in the relationship that to you in a relationship but you are off doing that with another guy and not even giving Dylan a chance. Shouldn't you have to proof you can provide loyalty in a relationship? It feels like he has to do all the work to show he is "worthy" of a relationship with her and thus sex. I wouldn't care before the dating but during is super scummy. Ok replace it with something else you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:00 PM
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Sex isn't "nothing more" it's a very intimate thing the fact you admit when you say of course Dylan would leave you admit it's a shitty thing to do. She didn't let go of Mark until she HAD to she WANTED him to be around. Dylan also has sexual urges but instead of being in together with him she got some action on the side while Dylan had to use his hand. Call it what she want she CHOICE Mark over Dylan when it came to SEX She gave a peice of herself she refused to give to Dylan that is choosing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:52 PM
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Well I'm telling you as a man how I would feel if I found out the chick I was taking dates to and making me wait for sex while screwing some other guy. I would be gone in a heartbeat I'm sure most men would that's why the women don't tell them and that's super sneaky. It's like I said before what if your boyfriend who made you split all the dates, only took you to cheap dates, stayed home and watched Netflix etc. Meanwhile he is taking another chick out on fancy dates, the beach, night clubs etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:30 PM
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You missed what I was talking about sex is important mentally to men. Dylan wouldn't see it as oh she just needed a release he would see it as her picking Mark over Him because that's exactly what she did. Yeah she went exclusive when he asked for it for the simple truth is she gave Mark way more intimacy way faster with less work then Dylan If she needed a sexual release she could have used a vibrator but no she kept the guy she was least attracted to on the hook while screwing the guy she foun…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 02:22 PM
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She still made Dylan wait and not Mark women need to understand that sex is important. People can say it's meaningless all the time but it's simply not true. If she found Dylan more attractive she wouldn't have made him wait she would be focus on only him. She can say it didn't mean anything but if i found all it would mean it be is "You weren't good enough to fuck me without working for it first and giving me a commitment. This other guy though was so HOT he could fuck me so strings attached so…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:48 AM
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And you wonder why we want women to lower their standards 🙄 it's not enough to have someone who is equal they need someone BETTER then them. So you're saying that all men have to settle? Why don't men deserve better? That would also mean that men aren't attracted to their partners...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:12 AM
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This is what I'm talking about. A 5 and up is a long shoot I was putting 5 for other factors like money. I also don't think it's unrealistic for a man to expect to date someone EQUAL.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:48 AM
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My problem with it is expectations Im about 4 or so I don't expect an 8 and up to settle for me but I would expect a 3, 4 or 5. We want women to lower their standards because those 3 4 and 5s are still chasing 8s and up. We don't want women to settle just have more realistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:23 AM
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Chad is a attractive guy I've known several chads some as friends and 3 of my gfs cheated on me with a chad. One was a crush my gf had and when he got single she dumped me and screwed him (probably not in that order) two was a neighbor who was "just a friend" she admitted to it and begged me to forgive her I did not, third was her ex I just kicked her out and I haven't dated since.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:09 AM
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I would annoyed if I found out it was going on before we started dating but whatever. However if I found out she was banging him while in the early parts of dating and still made me wait months?? Oh HELL NO instant break up for me yeah we weren't exclusive but while I had to pay for dates you and him got to have the intimacy for free. I'd feel so emasculated and felt she didn't find me attractive at all and think of AF/BB. It would be like if you found out your bf while dating made you split the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 09:06 AM
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I highly disagree if she was more attracted to Dylan she would have broke it off with Mark. Sure they weren't exclusive but she clearly wanted Mark more then Dylan it's easy to make one person wait while you're having fun with another guy. If she was more attracted to Dylan she would have tried to be exclusive with him to lock him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:53 AM
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Oh yes how horrible she's keeping him around and giving him sex whenever for free but the other guy has to wait for it, has to pay for for, deal with the drama of a relationship. How horrible it is to be the first guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:41 AM
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For me it was because I've been used and/or cheated in most of my relationships. So in my 30s yes I'm still single I was always the nice guy beta who did whatever women wanted me to do. Not anymore I'm focusing on myself and working out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:55 AM
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Couple of reasons 1. I'm obese but working on it diet and working out everyday I'm down 80 pounds so far 340 to 260. I have Aspergers and it's hard for me to interact with ppl but it's something I'm working on. I don't frankly don't trust women every relationship I've had resulted in me getting used and/or cheated on so why would I keep putting through it. I'm so tired of chasing I'm tired putting time and energy into chasing women for literally nothing. I live in a small town and so dating loca…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:41 AM
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I agree however the problem is a lot of men have been friendzoned so many they want to avoid that. I have a lot of women who are friends but I cant be attracted to them romantically or sexually. My best friend is a woman she is like a sister to me and I honestly trust her more then anybody else she has helped me through my darkest times. However I am not attracted to her in the slightest so I don't get jealous of her husband same for my other female friends. Meanwhile in the past when I was attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 10:36 PM
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My best friend is a woman who i absolutely trust and love I'm just not attracted to sexually. She is like my sister, I see her husband as my brother and her daughter as my niece. She has been there for me in my darkest times and have dumped women who told me to stop being friends with her. She is an amazing mom, wife and friend we have been friends for over a decade, we are smoke buddies, have movie nights we are pretty family at this point. We talked about the idea of us dating and we both went…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:43 AM
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God I related to Arthur in Joker so much it's not even funny (haha) I'm have Aspergers so I'm always been different, my mom is mentally unstable, no dad just her abusive boyfriends, found out I was adopted, no girlfriend, crap job, even the little fantasy of him being on Murray and being praised I've done similar thoughts, and just beaten down by the world over and over. I made plans to shoot up my workplace years ago while in my darkest time and it was similar to Arthur I just where to lash out…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:31 AM
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As someone who had made plans for shoot up my work place YEARS ago I think I'll share my point of view on the subject. I was working at a call center it was a miserable job I was dispatching roadside assistance. That job made my mental health the worst it ever had been I was getting daily panic attacks. It was also a 2 to 11 shift which is terrible it's too early to do anything fun in the afternoon but too late to do anything fun at night. Everyone was asleep by the time I got off work so no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 07:25 AM
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This was my ex hoe in her ex's prude with me I didn't marry her and when she refused to even cuddle naked I dumped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:21 AM
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Omg this was my ex we dated for a year and half and never had sex. We both had families members in the house at all times so it was difficult to get privacy so I was understanding. However for our anniversary I booked us a hotel just us and still no sex that's when I really started pushing for sex. She would never do any of the stuff no sexy outfits, no random fun, and she gave me a blowjob one day on my birthday (I will admit the best bj I've ever gotten) It all came to and end when one night w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:18 AM
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I recently came out as pan in my 30s and have started openly dating men. The first thing I noticed is how unappreciative women are at mens efforts. I'm used to being the one to drive to meet the date sometimes up to two hours cause I live in a rural area. So when this guy offered to drive two hours away and said I was worth it Omg I was so attracted to him. When he came over I started kissing him and he was amused how thankful I was. The distance though was gonna be an issue though long term so …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:18 PM
1

Literally had never happened to me once I'm in the friendzone I'm stuck so I just move on.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:47 AM
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I pretty much felt prostitution should be legal when someone pointed out its perfectly legal to pay someone for sex as long as you film it and sell it or put it online. If it is legal it should be regulated so you need a license and work at a legal brothel. It would be safer as women wouldn't be on the street meeting random dudes and if they get raped or attack they wouldn't feel the need to hide it from the police. I think it would also help men alot of men nowadays unless their chads don't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 09:00 AM
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Reminded me of Groucho Marx "I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/20 06:40 AM
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Nope not worth it I don’t need the baby daddy drama or her trying to come after saying it’s my kid. Why go through that drama when I can just find someone else.
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 05:48 PM
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Thank you
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 03:40 PM
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Reply Yep I'm learning that fact and going to do so in the future.
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 03:11 PM
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I don't give a shit if you think i'm a red pill or not,
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 03:05 PM
1

I disagree that women can’t be friends I have alot of friends who is women that are only platonic. They have helped me many times like with rides when I didn’t have a car. I’m not saying all women should be friends because plenty have stabbed me in the back but so have a lot of guys I’ve been friends with. I play it case by case with each person. However I do think you are about this chick I was trying to date her and not be her friend so I shouldn’t have given her a ride cause she didn’t show m…
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 01:09 PM
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Sorry just don’t see it that way I’ve seen too many cases where the woman have buyers remorse and make a false rape accusation I’m getting a new job and don’t need something like that fucking it up. And on a personal reason I don’t feel right messing around with other guys chicks. I don’t care if it’s not red pill or alpha it’s just my moral code and I’m not breaking that it’s just where you and I differ.
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 12:42 PM
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Yep I’m sure I did people have told me that about using coupons don’t care my money is more valuable if they can’t see the wisdom of saving money fuck em. I wasn’t getting involved that train wreck I didn’t need her to her buyers remorse and tell her bf i hot on her and now wants to kick my ass. Or worse scream rape or some other bs wouldn’t matter if I have the screen shots she can say she was joking and why would a hottie like her hit on a guy like me. Sorry the odds were not in my favor too m…
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 12:23 PM
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Yep I’m sure I did people have told me that about using coupons don’t care my money is more valuable if they can’t see the wisdom of saving money fuck em. I wasn’t getting involved that train wreck I didn’t need her to her buyers remorse and tell her bf i hot on her and now wants to kick my ass. Or worse scream rape or some other bs wouldn’t matter if I have the screen shots she can say she was joking and why would a hottie like her hit on a guy like me. Sorry the odds were not in my favor too m…
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 12:22 PM
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Oh I know the world doesn’t care about nice there a reason nice guys finish last. I still don’t care I’ve tried not being nice and it just made me miserable only having to put on a act. And the REAL friends I’ve made being my normal self are amazing I wouldn’t trade their friendship for anything. Thank you for your advice.
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 12:16 PM
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Oh trust me I have more stories one involved getting dumped on Christmas Day because a friend of hers became single -_-
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 12:09 PM
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The thing is I don’t really care about sex I dated for the intimacy and for a building a relationship but it’s honestly not worth it.
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 12:07 PM
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I meant that I would give any of my friends a ride in the rain and I was giving her the benefit of the doubt.
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 12:06 PM
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I've had two women who only wanted me to have sex raw and i refused causing the break ups and i saw them a month or so later in public pregnant with someone else's kid. Thats what they try to do have sex raw and then claim its yours when they know they are pregnant.
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 06:31 AM
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Definitely made and made by women. All of my dating life has been terrible and this month i finally took the redpill and said fuck this i'm out. I wasn't always like this i loved romance and enjoyed being a gentleman but all that gets you is walked on and treated like crap and being called creepy.
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 06:25 AM
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I admit i do get lonely it would be nice to have someone but then i remember how every time I've never been a priority to them and think I'd rather be alone than with someone and feel alone.
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 05:46 AM
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I have nothing against trans people but when it comes to sport or even the military i don't think trans people should be allowed. For sports its just not fair biologically men even if they are trans women have a extreme advantage over the women its just unsportsman like. If they want to create their own Trans sports group then great more power to them but until than i just don't think its fair.
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 05:32 AM
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But if he does that than he is clingy and he needs to give her space doesn't he trust her!
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 05:30 AM
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The only thing i thought was a bit much was he required speaking another language i just don't see the point i mean its cool if she does but i don't think it should be a requirement.
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 05:06 AM
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"Always have a paternity test before signing the birth certificate" Advise my mother always gave me.
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 05:01 AM
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You can also change the Robo wives into what you are craving want a redhead? Boom change the hair, want a big tiddy goth gf? A few minor tweaks and got it, want her to look like the cheerleader from high school who got knocked up at 17 with Chad's bastard? Can do. The options would be limitless.
/r/MGTOW17/08/19 04:39 AM
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I'm so not getting involved with that train wreck i dont need her getting buyers remorse and then telling her bf who wants to kick my ass for fucking his girl. Or even worse saying i raped her or some other bs its better to wash my hands my hands of the whole situation.
/r/MGTOW217/08/19 03:46 AM
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Holy crap i think i know this chick we were friends years ago she invited me out drinking. Got pissed when i didn't want to fuck and blocked me and never talked to me again. We had been friends for years and just shocked me how she just through it away for nothing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/19 12:03 AM
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"There's someone for everyone."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/19 11:54 PM
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“Just give me a shot” funny how she wouldn’t have given the same guys a shot when she was younger that she wants to give her a shot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/07/19 09:49 PM
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I don’t know if this is right to post here but I thought it would fit. The movie pretty much describes alpha fux beta bux and I have always hated Jenny.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/07/19 07:06 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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