SupaButt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-21	Village idiot says idiotic things (Will Ferrell) The fact that you were downvoted for simply asking why in a genuinely curious way should tell you everything you need to know about this sub. Lol. Wild.	/r/MensRights	26/02/26 04:56 AM
1	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? Begone troll! We will not take your rage bait here! 🧙🏻‍♂️	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 06:31 PM
-3	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? Awfully convenient that the data that supports your point of view is valid but the data that goes against it is invalid. Best of luck to you. I hope you live a long and happy life. And I don’t mean that sarcastically. I really do.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 05:01 PM
-16	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? So are you saying that women actually do it more than men they just are not caught or charged? That seems like a long shot. And it doesn’t seem like cherry picking. The cherry picking seems to come from all the stats I have seen here that talk about a subset of a subset and how THOSE stats show women are slightly more neglectful than men or something. Look I know I’m not going to change your mind on the internet. No point in arguing. But I joined this group hoping to see perspectives into this p…	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 04:29 PM
-12	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? So that first link is from a 2007 Arkansas school and does not list a source. But I fact checked it and seems to be fairly accurate but I think the confusion here is what we are talking about. More women are charged for maltreatment and neonatocide because they are the ones usually taking care of the child and newborn. But yes that is correct that slightly more women maltreat a child than men. But when we are talking about violence of sexual abuse that is mostly men by a LONG shot. So, again, it…	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 04:24 PM
-19	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? “Women abuse and [kill] more kids than men”. I’d love to see any sort of proof in that statement from you u/WeEatBabies. lol. I believe the opposite is true.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 03:59 PM
0	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? I’m was a pediatric ICU and ER nurse for about 5 years and I always felt a little sad bc I kinda look like a stereotypical creep (short and balding) and I felt like people didn’t trust me around children but I would statistically actually be one of the safest people for a child to be around. So I think just as with any candidate you would need to vet them and hear their qualifications. I never tried to baby sit anyone other than my niece and nephew though. But at the same time I am not a parent …	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 03:57 PM
-32	Would you allow a male babysitter to babysit your child? Wild that they ask for facts, you show them, and then they just downvote and ignore you. Lol.	/r/MensRights	24/02/26 03:47 PM
0	Look at how virtue signalling falls apart “I don't believe in what they say, not even for a second”. Maybe that is part of the problem. Women are saying they have been assaulted and you’re saying you don’t believe them which leads them to not trust you. I’m a man and I work in healthcare and have a disability myself and I’ve seen men with mental and physical disabilities try to grab nurses’ asses and boobs and things because they know they can get away with it usually. An asshole is an asshole, regardless of ability/disability.	/r/MensRights	16/02/26 10:58 PM
1	"Masculinism is not necessary because feminism" How does the VAWA “enforce institutional violence against men”??? I googled it and seems like it’s to protect people in abusive relationships both male and female… Also I know I am not going to change any one’s mind on reddit but I joined this subreddit to see different points of view. I am a straight cis man but I see that women tend to be more at risk of violence than men and usually it is at the hands of men. But obviously things happen to men too. I don’t think it is wrong to focus on the 90…	/r/MensRights	16/02/26 02:45 PM
6	Studies Show That Physical Affection from a Partner Has a Healing Effect on Men (and All People) It doesn’t have to be a woman’s touch. Or even sexual or romantic. We as humans crave community and closeness with others. Chimps groom each other to bond. Hugs from your friends and family are just as effective. It’s all about connection with another human. I don’t think it has anything to do with sex and therefore does not need to be a gendered thing.	/r/MensRights	09/02/26 05:50 AM
-10	Almost got caught up with a single mom Look you can try to deflect and twist it against me all you want but that doesn’t change my original statements about this post.	/r/MensRights	25/11/24 04:01 PM
-7	Almost got caught up with a single mom I just really don’t understand what this post does other than belittle a woman who is going through a difficult time in life. I don’t understand the point of the post other than to act superior to someone looking for a friend. I expect to be down voted in this sub and I probably am not going to change anyone’s mind here but damn. When empathy is downvoted while a joke (hopefully) about giving women a license to procreate is upvoted… I just don’t understand	/r/MensRights	25/11/24 02:54 PM
-27	Almost got caught up with a single mom WTH is this? The condescending judgmental tone, the misspellings & grammar errors, the lack of empathy… what does this have to do Men’s Rights? This is gross.	/r/MensRights	25/11/24 01:52 PM
1	Imagine you are a male client of a therapist and you pee on the couch… So I think it’s stilly to compare those two things. That was the comparison that was made in this post.	/r/MensRights	23/11/24 06:23 PM
4	Imagine you are a male client of a therapist and you pee on the couch… You choose when to urinate (hopefully, at least for now). Women don’t choose when they menstruate.	/r/MensRights	23/11/24 02:11 AM
0	What do y’all make of someone who posts shit like this? The first picture I can partially understand the rage (never completely bc I don’t have a uterus). I’m pro-choice and I think it is gross that it’s far easier to buy a murder machine than to get access to healthcare just because some people morally disagree with it. Idk what the second picture is about bc I don’t know those names and don’t really care about celebrities.	/r/MensRights	22/07/24 11:22 PM
2	The reason men don't get therapy or talk to people isn't because they want to be "manly", it's because most people don't give a shit about them (and therapists have a bias favoring women). So you believe women are superior to men? I’m very confused by your comment.	/r/MensRights	03/03/23 02:53 AM
2	The reason men don't get therapy or talk to people isn't because they want to be "manly", it's because most people don't give a shit about them (and therapists have a bias favoring women). I don’t think it’s fair to say “every single woman”. That’s half of the entire population you’re making a large assumption and judgment on. Do you really believe this? If so, what led you to this conclusion? I do think emotional abuse from women towards men is often underreported and not recognized as much, but that doesn’t mean all women do this to all men. And you just said yourself that being mentally healthy helps us realize our boundaries and what we are and aren’t ok with. So we should str…	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 05:20 PM
5	UK: A former Met Police deputy commissioner is being investigated after allegedly saying the "bulk" of rape complaints were "regretful sex". This is refreshing to see in this sub. Thank you for this. Upvote given. I think we as men need to work on lifting each other up and helping each other rather than belittling women. We all want a happy, healthy, and fulfilling life. Let’s start focusing on what we have in common rather than our differences. Sorry, I’ll step off my soapbox now. Lol	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 05:13 PM
-5	UK: A former Met Police deputy commissioner is being investigated after allegedly saying the "bulk" of rape complaints were "regretful sex". It seems like most commenters here agree with this alleged sentiment. But in the article, the commissioner in question himself denies saying “regretful sex” and that "these are not words I have ever used in relation to rape or sexual assault and the reason I am so certain that I did not say this is because I simply do not believe it; I find the phrase abhorrent” May I ask, if you do agree that “the bulk of rape complaints are regretful sex”, what is your definition of “regretful sex”? Do you thi…	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 05:05 PM
0	The reason men don't get therapy or talk to people isn't because they want to be "manly", it's because most people don't give a shit about them (and therapists have a bias favoring women). I’m don’t think I agree that it’s a trend. I think women look for healthy men and are realizing that physical health is only a part of that and that mental health is so important too	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 04:13 PM
4	The reason men don't get therapy or talk to people isn't because they want to be "manly", it's because most people don't give a shit about them (and therapists have a bias favoring women). I know I can’t change your mind. Only you can do that. You seem, to me, to be very intrenched in your beliefs. Part of therapy is deconstructing mental barriers and trying to rethink the way we think. And you kept saying “many” but that’s not most. “Many” toys kills children every year but most don’t. Finding a therapist that you vibe with can definitely be tough and can be disheartening at times but it was really worth it for me when I found one. And the difference for me was finding one that s…	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 05:04 AM
2	The reason men don't get therapy or talk to people isn't because they want to be "manly", it's because most people don't give a shit about them (and therapists have a bias favoring women). Definitely! It’s not a one-stop-shop or cure-all. You have to put the work in and have realistic expectations too.	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 04:51 AM
-4	The reason men don't get therapy or talk to people isn't because they want to be "manly", it's because most people don't give a shit about them (and therapists have a bias favoring women). I’ve had quite the opposite experience actually. Most women I talk to (or at least those I’m interested in) love hearing a man say he goes to therapy bc it shows he’s working on himself and his mental health. I’ve heard more than one woman say it’s a turn-on and a green flag when they hear a guy goes to therapy. Have you had a different experience with the women you talk to?	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 03:02 AM
4	The reason men don't get therapy or talk to people isn't because they want to be "manly", it's because most people don't give a shit about them (and therapists have a bias favoring women). A therapist doesn’t have to completely understand an issue to empathize. After all, no one can completely understand you bc you’re the only one in existence to have ever had your life. A good therapist can empathize with the feelings you feel without understanding the whole complexity of the situation. But the empathy is just a start. It’s about pushing you to grow in a healthier way through self-realization. They can’t fix you. But they can help you figure out steps YOU can take to live a happi…	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 02:56 AM
3	The reason men don't get therapy or talk to people isn't because they want to be "manly", it's because most people don't give a shit about them (and therapists have a bias favoring women). Hmmm I disagree with this. You shouldn’t put that burden on your friends. And you shouldn’t try to be friends with your therapist. A good trained therapist should be able to offer you some tools to help you analyze your ways of thinking and notice patterns that you can then use to alter your way of thinking to a more beneficial one. Or process trauma you didn’t even know you had. Stuff like that. I didn’t even realize the trauma I had until I told my life story to my therapist over several sessi…	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 02:48 AM
6	The reason men don't get therapy or talk to people isn't because they want to be "manly", it's because most people don't give a shit about them (and therapists have a bias favoring women). Talk Therapy can help you look at things in a way you haven’t before. That’s what it did for me. It helped me gain perspective on things and gave me tools and avenues to help grow in a healthy way. I am also neurodivergent and avoided therapy for a long time bc I think I know myself pretty well and tend to dive deep into my own thoughts, but after a few session with a therapist that understood my way of thinking, I was able to notice changes in my thinking and behaviors. (finding a therapist fam…	/r/MensRights	02/03/23 02:40 AM
1	Being the Main Character Have you talked to your wife about this?	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 01:58 AM
1	How did the topic of male birth control get hijacked by feminists? Thanks I didn’t know that about Stanford Health Care. And all the sources you listed still prove to be same point. You still have a good chance of a successful reversal and pregnancy.	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 01:54 AM
0	How did the topic of male birth control get hijacked by feminists? “One common misconception is that after a period of time, a vasectomy reversal is no longer possible. While the age of the vasectomy is a factor, there is no time cutoff where a vasectomy reversal will not work. Our patients have high success rates, even decades after a vasectomy. Our experts have performed successful reversals with vasectomies performed more than 30 years prior” -Stanford Medicine Yes many factors effect it, but it’s still an option. We have options. That’s the point. Take your…	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 04:47 PM
-1	How did the topic of male birth control get hijacked by feminists? They are reversed all the time. Not always successful but nothing ever is 100%. Personally, I don’t want to have any kids so I won’t ever want mine reversed. Seems like the best option for me. But they can and have been reversed with good success (obviously depends on the skills of the urologist too) Mayo Clinic Stanford Johns Hopkins	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 04:42 PM
-1	Feminists often deny that boys or men could be forced by women into sex, citing the feminist myth of "a man can't be forced to have an erection". Enclosed is a link to a detailed clinical paper on involuntary arousal under coercion in both sexes, that you could paste to feminists who protect rapists If you don’t want to defend your position (assuming your position is thinking feminists believe the myth that “men can’t be raped”) you don’t have to. Why even reply then? If you don’t want to have an open dialog about it, no one is forcing you. You don’t have to reply. You didn’t have to downvote me. You could have ignored me. But you engaged. And your engagement is simply to tell me to go figure it out myself? But I came to this subreddit to talk to people. People like you. To figure out what …	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 01:35 AM
-1	Feminists often deny that boys or men could be forced by women into sex, citing the feminist myth of "a man can't be forced to have an erection". Enclosed is a link to a detailed clinical paper on involuntary arousal under coercion in both sexes, that you could paste to feminists who protect rapists My question was “who believes that men can’t be raped?” This subreddit seems to assume that all (or many) feminists believe that myth, but I see no evidence of that other than random extremists on Reddit.	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 01:28 AM
-2	Feminists often deny that boys or men could be forced by women into sex, citing the feminist myth of "a man can't be forced to have an erection". Enclosed is a link to a detailed clinical paper on involuntary arousal under coercion in both sexes, that you could paste to feminists who protect rapists All the top results I see are websites calling that a myth. I’m using Duck Duck Go with safe search off.	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 01:24 AM
-4	Feminists often deny that boys or men could be forced by women into sex, citing the feminist myth of "a man can't be forced to have an erection". Enclosed is a link to a detailed clinical paper on involuntary arousal under coercion in both sexes, that you could paste to feminists who protect rapists You can google literally anything and get a lot of results. Haha. I mean do your female and/or feminist friends believe that?	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 01:14 AM
-4	How did the topic of male birth control get hijacked by feminists? Get a vasectomy. Outpatient. Fairly routine. Can be reversed. That’s what I’m planning on doing.	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 01:04 AM
-7	Feminists often deny that boys or men could be forced by women into sex, citing the feminist myth of "a man can't be forced to have an erection". Enclosed is a link to a detailed clinical paper on involuntary arousal under coercion in both sexes, that you could paste to feminists who protect rapists I’ve never heard a feminist make these claims. Do you have a source for this? Most women I talk to are very much all about consent. But abuse is prevalent everywhere, unfortunately. But I have never talked to a woman who had a view point that men can’t be raped. I’m sure there are some wackos out there that might say that, but there are also men who say the same about women. I guess all I’m saying is don’t take the beliefs of the extremists in any group and assume they apply to the entire popula…	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 12:53 AM