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Most men in my country have wrinkles by about 25-26. I'm not saying it can't happen, but it isn't deep stuff typically White Europeans age faster, but even them, it isn't that severe I'd expect him to get a hair transplant. Okay, but that doesn't seem "blue billed" of you, it seems you should turn that to "black bill" or maybe red pill if you have other expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:17 AM
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They may explain this by saying they are attracted to different stuff, and they are more male in their attraction or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:46 AM
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And for the physical attraction to possibly also be sexual attraction, there needs to be other conditions, I guess related to mentality for you? So, what if a 20 year old or a 35 year old has the mentality you have at your age now? They are physically attractive And what if they are perceived to be in their late 20s both?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:01 PM
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Okay, I'm aware that most women find most men not attractive regardless of age, whether same age, younger or older So, another question, a man can't be sexually attractive to you if he isn't physically attractive to you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:49 PM
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Hey, this isn't my view, I'm explaining what I think their view is It isn't hard to understand their arguments, they think most women have some strong preferences that they could get over with lack of options who commit to them, because their bigger goal is having a "family" They don't think sex can never feel good with a smaller than average equipment, they just think it is less than preferred and most women settle if they have to woman sleeping around is also faking all of her sex? How about c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:46 PM
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Okay, but then again, in studies that make people evaluate others for physical attractiveness, and then their willingness to be in a relationship with them, the correlation is high for both men and women So, it doesn't seem men and women are that different in this regard Yes, men seem to be more affected by the visual in the real world, but when options are there,.... Anyway, for you specifically, after 10 years, you find your husband sexually attractive, does that make men who are in their mid …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 03:03 PM
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I didn't find them particularly attractive when I was that young, I probably didn't have much sexual thoughts, I was the type of boy who focused a lot on studying and getting high grades, and on my way, I ignored girls and stuff like that I'm young myself, my preferences didn't change much yet I guess this could be because: for men, physically attractive is sexually attractive Men don't differentiate much between finding a person physically attractive and sexually attractive But do women differe…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:53 PM
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Okay, but take your husband 5 years ago, are you more attracted to him now? And for your husband himself, he probably doesn't look that different to men who are...35 for example, or men who are 22, what I mean is that some people may think your husband is 23 and some others may think he is 35 and some others may guess the age right So..., of course there are a lot of men much older than you whom you can perceive as attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:44 PM
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I suppose you don't find 19 year old men that you previously found attractive as attractive anymore? But how could that change really? What is the fundamental difference physically?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:38 PM
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No, they don't think they are faking happiness per se, at the end of the day, they achieved one big goal they have, which is to have " a family", that can bring lots of happiness to most people But they still think she doesn't have what they call "genuine desire"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:36 PM
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For the wrinkles, at age 30? I was asking specifically about the out of shape trends for men just older than you I expect getting fat and balding could be two things there, because those may appear early Being fat is controllable mostly, but what will you do about balding?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:19 PM
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By the way, age horribly in what way? Getting fat? And what would happen if you are in a long term relationship? Will you quit it after some years?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:44 PM
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I have a question about this, because preferences don't change much If you don't find 30 year old men attractive, what will happen after some years? Will you date younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:42 PM
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The guys who obsess over it will say the women are just settling because of lack of options or danger of other options, and they are just using those men to "build a family" I don't think they mean huge per se, just average and above or so
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:22 PM
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What does average women mean here? But anyway, I think those guys who obsess over it will just say the women didn't have much options and are just settling to use those men for "building family"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:20 PM
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you work a dangerous job and don’t get enough pay or safety accommodations Some accidents happen, and some workplaces have more chances of those accidents Realistically, no matter what you do in a policy safety wise for now, elementary school teachers will continue to work in much safer environments than construction workers, at least with current technology Of course, men choose to go into those jobs, but this "choice" is for their family and marriage, if they didn't plan to be in a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:02 PM
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Some men are like this, of course But we are talking about the majority, if you talked mainly about the minority, a person can go and mention many cases of how women do very evil stuff to men who sacrificed for them.... Anyway, it is still a fact that men get themselves injured and die much more than women on their journey to be dependable for the family, men need to put more in marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:55 PM
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I don't think so, at the end of the day men die much more in their jobs and get injured, you could say it is because they choose those jobs, but do you think they choose them for themselves? No, mostly not, most men and most people are kinda lazy, they don't work because they love their jobs for the most part, they work for money This is most people And men don't need much money if they don't want a relationship or don't have a family, but men do it for their families It is just a fact that men …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 02:35 PM
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They don't say same autosomal chromosome per se, just that it is similar in size and genes So, they are like copies or something But this isn't an issue for being the default, this doesn't tell you which one is the default, and you still have to explain why it is more likely for women to get pregnant with males rather than females
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 02:32 AM
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Keep in mind this : "this is an interesting and hotly debated area of genetic research" And also, this doesn't say it was an X chromosome And the SRY genes matters the most in the genetic material for sex determination, the chromosome doesn't have to have many other functions outside of sex determination to be considered the default And my question above remains
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 09:09 PM
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Who says it is a damaged x chromosome? Also, we are talking about the default in embryological development, if having no Y chromosome is the default, then wouldn't sex ratio at birth be more females? But it is not, sex ration is slightly skewed towards males in every country in the world But then males die earlier due to different reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 04:20 PM
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where I saw them every day at the beginning, and I don't know anyone who has. Assuming you live close to each other, frequent the same places, that isn't hard, but my point in general is that it is easier to have sex frequently with them than meeting new people every two days There is a lot that a relationship entails that simply isn't involved in a hook up. Mention some outside of what very close friends do, of course I mean before kids is a big emotional commitment. What does this even mean? H…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 01:28 AM
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Okay, I agree it is easier on the app if you are planning to see a lot of people And actually, it's not easier to fulfil a high sex drive in a relationship. It is certainly easier, you are together, and many will have sex every day or multiple times a day in the beginnings of a relationship and for some time I don't doubt that even obese women can have hookups every day without much effort, many men are desperate for sex that they are willing to pay for it even for such women, but meeting a new …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:53 AM
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my grandmother riding a motorcycle with a German dude who had similar facial features to my aunt. This would be when she was very young? And if they saw him one time, they couldn't be that sure, right? And didn't her husband have a problem with it? You would think this would be a big topic in the family
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:27 AM
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I would still say marriage provides something to men, even the not religious ones, and it is more sex Most men find it hard to get sex 2 times a week out of hookups, and if he took a girlfriend for a long time, she would probably want marriage one day, and he would probably do it to make her happy for being with him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:24 AM
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Oh okay, thanks for replying But if you didn't make much contact with her, then you really don't know how exactly he treated her, right? Yes, men who are willing to provide financially are typically more invested and kinder, but there are exceptions Also, you wouldn't be sure she never cheated on any other boyfriend, right? If you think it is a matter of attractiveness, what would you say made the felon more attractive to her than him? Was the ex husband fat?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:22 AM
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Oh, that could be a big thing, many women take from this that you are in a "provider mindset" or something If a man is willing to take on the responsibility of a traditional man, then his somewhat liberal views wouldn't totally put off a woman who thinks she is conservative but isn't that religious You are in your 30s I would guess, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:18 AM
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Yes, slightly later, but on average at 18, unless the person puts a lot of effort into school or something Most of those "sexless" men aren't virgins, so it is like it is this way because their first sex is delayed too much
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:15 AM
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Oh, okay But how did you reach this conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:13 AM
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You were in a relationship for a long time with him or what? Because it seems you were between 23 and 35 when meeting I would easily find better on paper, I This is interesting, if I may ask, how did you start to know each other? You were friends first?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:13 AM
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That is it for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:09 AM
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women can't just walk up to any guy, proposition them, and get sex - most people would think you were mental. Whereas that's basically the premise of tinder. Actually you can, but in a club where the men aren't busy, or coupled ..etc Randomly on the street, you will have some men to agree, but the men don't expect because men don't expect women to be that desperate, so they might fear she is planning to do something to them rather than have sex, still some men will take the risk, according to st…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:08 AM
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I saw a recent study showing taller men are more likely to be married never mind have more successful marriages, and more children. Not much correlation there, if there is a gap, it is small when I lived in Ireland I heard girls being pretty nasty in regards to balding guys Yeah, but many girls are also nasty to some men with long hair that is not kept well or something, my point is, you can find girls that hate on anything, some will hate on muscular guys, some will hate on skinny guys, some wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:03 AM
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What do you think the factor was? It seems she told you about her cheating, what was her reasoning? And did the husband know?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:09 PM
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, yet my mom's sister is clearly not his child. If I may ask, how do you know? The one on my father's side cheated on my grandmother until he was in his 70 So he was cheating in old age still? Who was he cheating with? Old women like him?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:08 PM
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Actually no hot bitches. Those get cheated on the most, according to the data, the women who get cheated on the least are the ones who wait till marriage, the religious traditional ones, more likely to be the "sweet girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 07:07 PM
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That’s what I’m highlighting as risky. Not sharing responsibilities. Not teamwork. The risk of consolidating everything into one relationship with no safety net of your own. Who does that, though? There is always so sort of safety net Women are clearly more dependent by default of them being weaker and more vulnerable they are still less likely to be homeless
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:58 PM
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Well I was on tinder for easy sex, Isn't sex easy anywhere for a woman? It isn't that hard to have sex I would assume, you don't need dating apps unless you have very specific requirements, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 06:48 PM
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I think he meant generally, if your standards changed with age, many will think you are trying to settle down and desperate for it, and most people don't like to feel like the second option, I guess Most men hate the idea that a woman is with them because she was dumped by some guy she liked or he was acting very badly to her, so she has to give him up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:48 PM
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Men are shamed for masturbation more than women, but they still do it more than women, doesn't that go against your social role theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:43 PM
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Is growing a beard linked to testosterone level?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:41 PM
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May I ask? You see to think women don't care that much about the attractiveness of a man, how did you reach this conclusion? By just seeing some unattractive men being partnered?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:34 PM
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No, the penis wasn't a clitoris, this is assuming the female organ is the default, but there is not evidence of that Actually, since the default comes in higher numbers, one could say male gender is the default since in a typical pregnancy, odds of having a boy are slightly higher than having a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:29 PM
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They mean the confident men will hit on the shy women, they aren't necessarily looking for women who are too forward anyway Assortative mating for personality is weak, from studies, only about 0.1-0.2 Assortative mating for race, religion are much stronger
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:24 PM
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Believe it or not, the other parts make the lack of sex more bearable. Yeah, somewhat, but men have about as much friends as women, and they are still struggling with a lack of sex more, because they are hornier, and because having sex requires some effort from men Women know this, because it's what we do when single, and it's why singledom is a choice I don't think most women struggle much with not having sex? Primarily because they can get it whenever, but they are mostly not initiating or hit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:19 PM
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But keep in mind that data shows about 40% of men under 25 didn't have sex past year, this percentage is probably higher for the younger ones (men under 22), what do you think is the reason? Men are horny, I'm sure you know, most of them probably have a preference of at least 2-3 times a week, so, barely once a year will be frustrating to a lot But many cope with explicit material
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:06 PM
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Hey, I think your sample isn't representative that much, your people go to the gym regularly, that isn't the average guy by any measure Looking at data, about 40% of men under 25 didn't have sex the past year, if we go even younger (those under 22), the percentage will be higher, probably a majority Men are horny, you know that, their ideal for sex will probably be at least 2-3 times a weak, if most of them are barely doing it once a year or once a month, they will be frustrated A lot of them ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 05:01 PM
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Is it the biggest factor? When I looked at data for marriage, it seems there isn't a bias toward taller men But there is a bias toward higher earning men, so money matters more than height for marriage, but probably not pure physical attraction About fat, BMI doesn't predict body count much, and for women, it seems fatter women have higher body count As for bald, I didn't see much data here, so I will ask you, how much of a factor do you think this is? If height doesn't matter much for marriage,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:57 PM
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Well, a permanent parental leave would be preferred by her, probably, and liberal people don't support that, she can only find that in conservative circles and with conservative policies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:50 PM
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The left leaning man is not going to be as traditional in terms of being the provider and such, he will probably impede her desire to be a stay at home mom( a lot and even a majority probably want that) In terms of abortion, If a man is pro-life, that could indicate more willingness from him to stick around, so a pro-choice woman could find this easy While a pro-life woman may hate to date a pro-choice man for many reasons, she could be afraid that he might pressure her somehow to give up her ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:47 PM
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What does show in your profile? Do you see traditionally masculine? And do you say no to hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:42 PM
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No, it is probably just the men having a higher sex drive That is why much more men are willing to pay for sex, men are just more desperate on average, for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:41 PM
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Seriously? No potential for money? What does that mean? He isn't willing to work hard? If I may ask Also, many women say much younger, does that mean an age gap bigger than 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:35 PM
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I think a big thing for men is that, if the man is the type who has no problem having casual sex, then he is nearly always willing to do it with the woman he is married to (assuming they weren't married) Of course, most women don't find it a compliment to be desired for causal sex( women aren'tas horny after all, especially when it comes to sex with random people), so their husband being willing to have casual sex with them isn't a big deal But this makes a difference to a lot of men, and if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:33 PM
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I'm sure you are aware many people "settle", in the not preferred way I mean Alpha widowing" and "porn addiction" are both made-up bullshit to make your partner's loss of interest entirely the fault of their own bad choice They make a difference, pornography is linked to a doubling of divorce rates, for example Thinking that you have "better alternatives" very available, reduces relationship satisfaction, even if you think your partner is good And data is just there, body count is one of the str…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:21 PM
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I don't think most women are like her, but a noticeable thing about most women is that they don't do sex for "sex" per se For example, imagine a scenario where men lost their sex drive, totally, do you think relationships will form much? Or, to be more specific, they lost the desire to hit on women, meaning that women have to initiate for sex to happen and relationships to form, what percentage of people do you think will be having sex? I think a minority My point here is that, most women have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 04:09 PM
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Well, they were chosen because they make more or have the potential to make more and those men are typically healthier too, and happier, so it is mostly a selection effect A big reason for why Men marry quickly is because it is hard for most men to get regular sex through hookups, not many women are willing to provide that for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 03:39 PM
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