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| 0 | Are men justified in hating women?I wish it were just the algorithm. Even just the other day, a woman I work with refused to train a man because she says she hates men. The hate is, unfortunately, very real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 07:21 PM |
| – | Why do men complain about women choosing assholes but simultaneously shame men who are simps and treat women with kindness?I find that this happens often in here. Take all the qualities of a male "loser," flip the gender, and you have plenty of guys' dream girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 03:24 PM |
| 3 | What Is the cause for lack of empathy for men's dating problems?"That sucks, I'm sorry," even a little acknowledgement like this is honestly as much as I'm hoping for, but even this level of empathy is generally too much to ask for; I've only ever heard it a single time when talking about my past friend who is currently a drug dealer, can't hold an actual job, and lives out of his grandma's house but somehow has a wife and 2 girlfriends. I find that most people I know have been in their LTR since high school so they just take it for granted, it's just someth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 03:18 PM |
| 0 | If women don’t dress provocatively for men, what do they do it for?It's kind of like a competition to see who can be the hottest. Not unlike other competitions to see who is fastest, strongest, or most skilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.>So he wasnt always like that. Maybe, maybe not. He has always seemed like an evil genius when it came to stealing money from his parents' store and manipulating others. I don't think people just wake up one day and decide to become a maniac. >Exactly. He’s only getting people as fucked up as he is. If that’s what you want, okay. Lol According to his previous marriage: False. And uh yeah, that's the idea. We don't all want to date up to be carried through life like so many on here seem to. I suf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.He left behind a marriage and 3 kids due to gambling and drug addiction. Dude can barely articulate a coherent thought, the way he speaks is barely intelligible, probably due to being cracked out, but the red flags seem to be waived because he's hot and has a rich family. Although I think he may be only attracting the crazy ones (One of them stabbed him with a fork in the leg before she left him) but nonetheless he is attracting women. Even just got my childhood friend a job, turns out he now al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.Eh, I see unemployed gambling/drug addicts that can barely communicate that live in their mom's basement and they still get plenty of attention from the ladies just because they're physically attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:33 PM |
| 2 | What % of men fail to meet reasonable hygiene or grooming standards?Always boggled my mind how my old roommate had success with women despite foregoing body soap entirely in place of Axe Spray. Make it make sense! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 04:38 PM |
| 5 | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”Behold, the media giving people ridiculous standards. I genuinely find the girls at work or in public just as attractive as any celebrity, and I guarantee these non-celebrities put WAY less effort into their looks than your average celeb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Is Colorful Dyed Hair as disliked by men as it appears to be online and why?I personally find colored hair to be quite super! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 08:44 PM |
| 7 | What is the dating experience like for an average man?Can't date without experience, can't get experience without dating. Just doesn't seem like there's a solution unless it's to be a sleaze bag that tries to hook up with every woman they meet or groom em while they're young. Not into either of these so I guess I'll just live my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/24 04:22 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: Would you date an attractive "loser"?Guess it depends on one's personal definition of Cultured. For me, it means "characterized by good taste and manners." What does it mean to you? Basically if you have passions, decently-formed opinions about your passions and you aren't toxic about them, you're cultured. Such an opinion can even be something as little as "I like Darth Vader because he looks cool." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 07:36 PM |
| 16 | Q4M: Would you date an attractive "loser"?I DID date this except she was very out of shape and below an 8 out of 10, and she still dumped me. So, yes. As long as she's kind, cute and cultured, not much else matters. Most dudes don't date for social status or any of that nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Men need to be more shallow in their approach to datingComplete opposite here as the other guys mentioned. There's absolutely no shortage of attractive women out there, and tons of different types of beauty, so that's good news for the guys that date solely based on looks. There's nothing more attractive to me than a lady who is passionate and cultured about her geeky hobbies, I just don't see any future with someone that I can't share my passions with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:50 PM |
| – | AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon.We DO and still get dumped by entitled 30+ y/o STI-ridden broke overweight single moms that are doped up on tons of meds and live with their parents. How much lower do our standards need to be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 05:22 PM |
| – | AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon.Yup, been trying irl for 17 years, only got ghosted or rejected. Tried the apps, bam, met 2 people in about half a year. Didn't last of course because they had crazy standards due to getting bulldozed during their Hoe Phases for the past many years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | For average men, getting a female partner mostly comes down to luck, everything else is insignificant.On the other hand, luck is what screws you over even when you're doing everything else right. No amount of effort or self-improvement can defeat poor luck. Being pleasant and making people feel comfortable around you will help.. if you're lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themI agree, everyone should show empathy, but no one should take it for granted or take advantage of another's empathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Men shouldn't expect to have positive relationships with women if they can't express basic empathy for themYup, I find that most women are very resourceful regarding this. They know where to go for empathy, and they know where to go to get bulldozed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: Question for men who have trouble getting women: how is your platonic social life?Plenty of male friends Plenty of non-binary female presenting, but some female friends as well Yes Not too bad, I have made some solid adulthood friends through work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/24 07:05 PM |
| – | MEN who don't want kids- Why?I don't want my first serious relationship to involve a kid, I still want to witness the authentic dating experience that so many young adults, college students, and high school students had the privilege of experiencing. I have dated a single mom and we never had time to hang out or do anything together really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 03:47 PM |
| – | Why men must never open up to women.Checks out. Same thing happened with my girlfriend as I reached out for some emotional support due to some social anxiety. She pretty much said man up, git gud, feel what you feel. Ironic as she was pretty doped up on anti-depressants. Broke up with me soon after of course, not sure if I even saw her again after I reached out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 07:51 PM |
| 0 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?Checks out. I was in an autistic relationship and she broke up with me because I was slightly bi and interested in drag, feminization, makeup and femdom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why?Define "insecurity." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why?A high level of confidence is off-putting to me, makes me feel like they've already got their life figured out and there's no room for me in it. Maybe it's the hopeless romantic in me but I'd rather help a low-confidence grow to become a confident person, let us both grow and develop together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Would you date a broke woman?Absolutely. I dated a broke single mom that lived with her parents and played video games all day and she still dumped me. Is $50k/year considered low? I'm at about $30k/year and still treated her to dates and dinners, money is total non-issue, pretty much the least of my worries in life at $30k/year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | There is often criticism targeted at women for dressing provocatively - sometimes at a moral level. What about men who do the same?Yeah I don't get it, I love it when a girl says "GAT DAMNN THAT ASS" when I'm wearing my booty shorts. If I say that to a girl though, I'm done for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:38 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionIt always seemed like a competition to me, a competition between girls to see who can be the sexiest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men?Exactly, anyone has the capability to learn self defense and use technology to aid them, but most of them will sit back and whine and complain about being the victim of society instead, even though they have a clear solution. Agreed, people don't understand just how vulnerable and fragile the human body can be, even if said human is a 400-pound musclehead, their eyeballs are just as vulnerable as anyone else. Physical strength does not matter much in our technological age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men?This is the kind of self-empowerment I would like to see from more modern women, no victim complex here! Go you! But I hear it so much, how men are privileged because they can walk down the street safely after midnight. Men are just as vulnerable to being stabbed, shot, or robbed as women are, but that's a tough pill for many to swallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:51 PM |
| 10 | Men have "fetishes", women merely have "preferences"True that, I've always been amazed at womens' resourcefulness regarding people. They know where to go for emotional support, and they know where to go for sex, generally not the same resource for both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 05:03 PM |
| 12 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Can verify, two of my old friends became drug dealers and the results are no lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:04 PM |
| 3 | “genuinely kind guy” is a rebrand of the “nice guy”I feel like this goes for most of these "attractive" traits. Confidence alone is not attractive, it can only enhance someone that's already attractive in the first place; chances are they're confident BECAUSE they're hot, not the other way around. Same goes with being funny. Either being funny isn't actually that attractive, or so many girls around me have been fake pity laughing aka enacting social manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | A scenario of our world where men suddenly have less or no libidosTons of E-Girls gonna have to go get real jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 09:03 PM |
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