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| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveYeah, I think women actually care more about looks than guys. They care about looks so much that even average dudes are apparently not attractive to them, only cream of the crop are good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Most women find very few men attractiveI call BS on that, I think women play this game that they're not attracted to any dudes physically or that appearance doesn't matter to them. But if you look at the real world, it's very apparent who gets most attention from women, it's not the ugly ones. I honestly think women have even gaslighted themselves into thinking they don't care about physical appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | If women were less “picky” do you think you’d be in a LTR?No, I'm anti-social. I could look like prime Brad Pitt and it wouldn't make any difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Where did the ‘nice guy phenomenon come from?Online, Reddit in particular I think.. before the niceguys subreddit became a thing, I think nice guy opinion used to be like the meta. The idea itself - probably TRP? Somehow spread to Reddit and other online places. As far as why they go apeshit, I think reading about how women dont like nice guys you start having some resentment towards women for not liking you, it's not your fault, it's because women are whores etc.. Like most dudes get called "nice", it's the default quality for a guy so it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 08:04 PM |
| 4 | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillI wouldn't consider myself red pill but in my opinion - no. If you define fun as casually sleeping around with a whole bunch of guys. Nothing to do with gender, if you reversed mine I'd feel the same. I just find this whole idea of having sex for the sake of it - gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How hard is dating for a 30 year old woman?Easy, women have it easy dating no matter what age. The idea that women have it harder past 30 is a red-pill fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Do most women acknowledge the fact they have very high standards and that the man they want probably has way less and doesn’t ask for much from a woman?You're completely right. I didn't read the post properly and thought it was another one of those "Women standards are too high!!!" (of which there are like 10 daily) threads. My bad. I left the post up mainly to give my thoughts on the general trend rather than you specifically but should probably delete it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?Yes, completely agree with that. People who can offer useful advice that you can feasibly actualize rather than platitudes are good friends to have as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 08:51 PM |
| 4 | I see a lot of "call outs" where women wish men would share their emotions more, and now men are pushing back saying when they do, it's weaponized against them. What's the healthy balance?The problem is that there's little reason to open up to anyone, you're not going to get any kind of useful comfort or advice. People will tell you "pick yourself up, do better" and that's it. Which is not a bad thing in a vacuum but sometimes, when you're in a bad spot - you just want someone to listen to your problems and that's it. That kind of skill is very rare in both men and women I feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | The average man does not "overestimate" his own attractivenessI don't buy into this "men overestimate" shit at all, most men don't overestimate anything. If a guy thinks he's 7/10 but for women anything below 8/10 is unattractive. That doesn't mean the guy who thinks he's 7/10 is overestimating his attractiveness - he accurately thinks, I'm reasonably attractive compared to most men. It's just that most men are not attractive to women. I also see a lot of women neg men even though FDS thinks that's strictly a male phenomena. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Do most women acknowledge the fact they have very high standards and that the man they want probably has way less and doesn’t ask for much from a woman?Men who cry about women's standards being too high are so pathetic to me, just zero dignity.. almost pleading for women to pick you. They have high standards either because they can get what they want or they're ok with not getting it. That's all you need to know. They're not running a charity for losers/ugly dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Debate On PPD Is Not PossibleMost men IRL are redpilled to some extent. Maybe not into the whole alpha beta and they might not have you know the whole ideology built around but the rough ideas are there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 10:16 AM |
| 7 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?I can't empathize because we're basically living in two different realities, that's not been my experience at all. I've really not noticed women going out of their way to be shitty like this. Maybe you are a true incel, as in extremely unattractive etc. But there are a lot of men who fit the label "incel" who are otherwise fairly nondescript guys in looks or success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 08:53 AM |
| 0 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?Most incels are probably incels by choice, unless you have zero redeeming features, there probably are women who are willing/want to fuck you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 08:34 AM |
| 63 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?It's hard not to see it heading that way, the trends are clear. We're heading towards a much different future than what our parents lived. A lot of men will have to adapt to a life potentially without women. I guess entertainment will replace that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 08:32 AM |
| 2 | CMV: No one should drop their standards for any reason whatsoever, and high standards are eminently reasonableI mean something's better than nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | CMV: No one should drop their standards for any reason whatsoever, and high standards are eminently reasonableStandards are based on perception on what you are worth and that sense can be inflated. If you're a basement dwelling fat loser expecting a rich model, you're basically dooming yourself to failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Is it true a "high status" job is required to get a girl to notice you?To build more wealth together. People are greedy. Not only that, you're less likely to get divorce raped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 01:35 AM |
| 12 | If you're not supposed to expect relationships to make you happy, then what's the point of being in them?People just like throwing out vague BS platitudes and try to pass it off as some deep wisdom. If not having a relationship IS the source of your unhappiness then obviously you need to fix that - if you're not addressing the core problem you're just trying to plug a hole with band-aids.. Also when people say "I was okay with being single", a) they probably weren't b) they weren't single for that long, I've known people who were in relationships for like 8 out of 10 years and because of a two year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 08:03 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Self-improvement and "loving yourself" are poor substitutes for romantic relationshipsI mean I'm not going to speak for all men (though I suspect most men think alike) but I kind of do the same thing. We're not purely focused on conventionally attractive features. Speaking generally though, throughout my life it seemed to be the case that the typical hot guys would get the most attention from women and vice versa. I haven't seen that much difference between the genders in that regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Self-improvement and "loving yourself" are poor substitutes for romantic relationshipsI agree with that my point is, they don't care less about the looks just because they also care about other things too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Self-improvement and "loving yourself" are poor substitutes for romantic relationshipsYeah but you need the visual as well. I can tell you right now no amount of candles is going to make up for a dude with a deformed face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Self-improvement and "loving yourself" are poor substitutes for romantic relationshipsWhy do you think women are less visual than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Self-improvement and "loving yourself" are poor substitutes for romantic relationshipsI think if you have bad genetics and you really think it's going to impede on any chance of finding someone, you just gotta somehow find a way to accept that you might/probably will be single for the rest of your life. Unfortunately there are no guarantees in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Do you consider yourself easy to attract? How easy is it for someone to pull you?Depends, I'm very rarely attracted to someone purely for physical appearance. Almost never happens. Once I start talking to a girl or think she has some interest then it's not that hard for me to have some attraction but pretty rare to have it to the level where I want to pursue her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do men tend to have a more varied taste in the opposite sex?I've not read the study but doesn't it just mean they have more specific taste or preferences between each other not necessarily that they have a varied taste themselves. Like if there's three dudes and they all agree the blonde, brunette and the redhead are all hot. That means they have varied taste in women.. If on the other hand you have another three dudes and one's like "Ok the blonde's hot but I don't like brunettes" etc etc.. Well you get my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:54 PM |
| 9 | Societal Expectations of DicksI don't know why women in these kind of threads always insist on saying "I have no idea what my boyfriend's size is!".. Like yeah, unless you're blind or have seen one dick in your life you know what your boyfriend's packing... This is like having a girlfriend with massive tits and being like "oh I have no idea how big her boobs are", I mean you might not know the exact measurements etc but you can tell whether someone's big or small lol. And from there on it's just, basic deduction.. If he's a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Men's worth should NOT be based on women's attractionOr they're not focused on anything, which is fine as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to beThis is such an important point and it's something I've not considered in my early 20s. The older you get, the less options you have.. And those options will also be inferior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 09:28 AM |
| 9 | Most men just take the little options they getAnd why do you think men's sexual attraction doesn't work the same way? I'm sure there's been women that you wouldn't notice in the street but became sexually attracted after getting to know them more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Most men just take the little options they getDefinitely and since they've had more relationships that means you probably won't be her "true love", she already experienced that before. You're just someone that fills the criteria for a long term partnership and are suitable to raise kids with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Most men just take the little options they getYeah but something lasting a long time doesn't necessarily make it "good" that's a limited metric to measure the quality of something.. Like I can work in a factory my whole life that doesn't mean it was a great job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Most men just take the little options they getNo I meant that, you had 2 relationships, one good one and one bad. You at least are able to compare your current relationship to the one that didn't work out and appreciate it. Let's say someone has had only one, it's like can they really ever be sure if this is the one? Maybe it's actually kinda meh but since they have nothing to compare it to they think it's as good as it gets. I feel like more experience is always good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Most men just take the little options they getAt least you know what sucks, if you had one relationship what's your comparison? Your knowledge of what relationships are like is going to be based on that one example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Only Date Women Who Worship YouHmm IDK, I guess it depends on how you use the word worship. It can be a doormat or someone who adores you which I don't really think is a bad thing. I think the gist of his post is not to waste time pursuing women who aren't strongly into you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 03:11 PM |
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