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Social IssuesSuperDadMan/r/MensRights09/05/15 01:29 PM
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GeneralSuperDadMan/r/MensRights16/06/15 10:00 PM
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QuestionsSuperDadMan/r/MensRights11/09/15 01:48 PM
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Social IssuesSuperDadMan/r/MensRights01/05/15 06:37 PM
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GeneralSuperDadMan/r/MensRights13/11/15 01:01 PM
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sick jamz
/r/MensRights23/02/16 09:07 PM
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Maybe it's because they assume men are too smart to fall for online scams
/r/MensRights23/01/16 01:36 PM
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Who is even a 'Mens rights activist?' it's like feminists made up their own imagined mortal enemy to justify their militancy. In reality, most men interested in men's rights are gender Equalists, and wouldn't want to be pegged as a men's rights activist only.
/r/MensRights07/01/16 03:35 AM
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This is disgusting. I would seriously take my child and move to a place where I can't be extradited.
/r/MensRights24/11/15 09:30 PM
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The issue here that should be focused on is the reality that a woman can just do this WITHOUT consent of the other parent. It should be illegal. The woman should have to find the father and give him AND HIS FAMILY the option to take the child. Scenarios where the woman was really promiscuous might be a big issue here, but there shouldn't be the option to cut a child off from his father or the other side of his family because the mom doesn't want to let three dudes know they might be the father. …
/r/MensRights23/11/15 02:10 AM
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In general, percentages like this hold true if they're based on a large enough population sample. So, of course, moms and dads who are raising kids together in the same home don't have this issue. But the question is, let's say everyone was separated...would 1/3 of the women still think that it's best for their children if the father didn't have influence in their lives? The answer is no. The 1/3 of separated women that feel this way are completely unreasonable, selfish people, and that reality …
/r/MensRights22/11/15 03:19 AM
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Thanks. You know...it's just completely new to me. My daughter went to school at the k-12 school that is across the street to my house, where my mom taught. Before she was born, right after I graduated, I immediately became a substitute teacher while I went to college. So when she got in school, I could literally walk on campus from my house and people would say hi and smile and I felt so welcome and invited. I never had any problems there. I didn't realize it was like this in bigger schools in …
/r/MensRights19/11/15 04:18 PM
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That response is gold. I'll have to store that away for next time. I usually get pretty dumbfounded (like with the resource officer last year) so I'm just glad I got the words out that I did. They have a great principal. If she really did bring this 'issue' to him, he would likely tell her to take a hike.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 09:27 PM
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I appreciate the sentiment but I would just like to make the point that I'm just a normal dad. There are so many more of us than anybody ever acknowledges, unfortunately the focus is on the deadbeats and absent. It's a natural thing, of course, but I sometimes regret making this username. I'm a dad and a big Superman fan, and sometimes I feel like because of the comments I make people think that I think I'm putting myself out there as some awesome, superior dad. I had a good dad and I'm trying t…
/r/MensRights18/11/15 07:12 PM
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Sorry his son is in the same grade. I fixed it.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 07:03 PM
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I tried to be as subtle as possible... but I will admit I was shaking after the interaction. I'm not big on confrontation, and in schools it never goes well...
/r/MensRights18/11/15 07:01 PM
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If this had happened when my daughter was this age, I might have responded differently... and likely would have gotten into trouble. But I've seen so many cases where dads go into schools and are defiant about the sexism they face and it never turns out well for them. I have no doubt that the resource officer was baiting me last year and that put me on my guard. He must have had other complaints also because he is no longer there thankfully, and his replacement's son is in the same grade as my s…
/r/MensRights18/11/15 06:59 PM
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Hey I really appreciate the leads on the studies. I have a letter crafted to the superintendent but I haven't sent it because I was looking for some empirical evidence I could include. This helps immensely.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 06:57 PM
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Thank you. My kid is in first grade, and he absolutely loves it. I have no doubts that as he gets older it's going to become something that he grows out of. But I'm damn sure going to take advantage of him wanting me to come while he does. I did the exact same thing with my daughter, who is almost 15. I raised her by myself so I did it for slightly different reasons but she is a very well liked person, very well adjusted and is on route to be valedictorian and will be spending half her time in c…
/r/MensRights18/11/15 05:14 PM
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Yeah you're entitled to your opinion, no matter how much of a jackass you are in expressing it. I'm not the only person who has lunch with my children. I see mothers there all the time. Some go weekly. And as I said, I do it every two weeks and my child asks me to come more, but I think that would be overkill. And he's in 1st grade and happens to have a lot of friends, many of which come play at my house with him. And yes I do have a job and I am fortunate enough to be able to make my own schedu…
/r/MensRights18/11/15 05:10 PM
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I like the term gender equality but gender equalist sounds weird. But its still what I call myself as a father of a boy and a girl who wants to see both of them grow up in a world where they have equal opportunity, where my son is free to be a good involved dad and show his feelings, and my daughter is not dismissed because she is not a man and not expected to rely on one. I am also open to suggestions.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 03:54 PM
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The non-crazy ones need to distance themselves from the term 'Feminist' just like the non crazy Muslims are trying to distance themselves from ISIS.
/r/MensRights18/11/15 03:39 PM
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I think the main difference here is that religion dictates that it's ok for people to kill other people in the name of their god (who apparently is also ok with just killing everyone.) They answer to a power they consider higher than the law. Feminists, on the other hand, aren't overlooking worldly consequences for some otherworldly reward. But I want you to ask yourself...what do you think they would do if there were no repercussions whatsoever? They already show a distinct hatred for men and a…
/r/MensRights18/11/15 03:38 PM
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As I've said to the other 5 people who said the exact same thing, it's not about the points, it's about my comments effectively being removed from view, which is exactly what their intentions were. That being said, the Mods were able to identify them and banned them.
/r/MensRights15/11/15 03:44 AM
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It's hilarious when people post on here that they've been banned from that sub like it's a badge of honor. (It IS!) Personally, I've been banned from there several times for innocuous, thought provoking comments. And I'm proud of it. If you get banned from that sub, you're just asking the right questions. In other news...how would they know if you are circumventing the ban by using another account?
/r/MensRights15/11/15 01:24 AM
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Yep. At first I didn't care at all, then I realized that some of my comments that I carefully considered and spent time trying to perfectly word would be down below the comment threshold because I offended one or two jackasses. It's really not that big of a deal, just friggin annoying.
/r/MensRights14/11/15 12:25 AM
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Yeah I appreciate it. I'm not saying they're downvoting me because I'm a man, I was just looking to see if this is a normal thing for other people here.
/r/MensRights13/11/15 10:57 PM
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Haha I appreciate it. It's not that big of a deal, but I did message a mod about it because I read that it's a bannable offense, and frankly, whoever it is needs to be bitchslapped.
/r/MensRights13/11/15 10:57 PM
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My ex dropped out of my daughter's life about 5 years ago, and if she tries to come back, I'm telling her the exact same thing, even though technically she has one overnight ordered every two weeks (that she has never exercised.) My daughter has already dealt with and gotten over the fact that she inexplicably abandoned her. She has no desire to see her. I keep holding out for when my daughter is an adult and her mom suddenly tries to re-establish a connection and blames ME for her absence, and …
/r/MensRights13/11/15 01:19 AM
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Of course all the feminists are getting their man-panties in a wad. For real, I can only hope that any opposition is met with a slew of supporters just donating more. This is something that needs to be done, and I applaud Cassie Jaye for doing what she's doing.
/r/MensRights11/11/15 07:43 PM
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Thanks a lot ya my personal saving grace was the fact that my ex went on to marry a sex offender and pretty much handed me custody, so I was very lucky in that I never got separated from my children. However just the whole experience of being falsely accused and the potential for what might have happened was enough for me
/r/MensRights03/11/15 03:13 PM
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I am so sorry to hear that you're going through this. I'm in a similar situation that is not NEARLY as bad, but I still feel a lot of the same effects you do...so I can imagine that for you, it's much worse. I appreciate the offer and I may be hitting you up for some more insight. I specifically decided to go back to college for a psych degree because I wanted to be in a position to help dads like me, and even more so dads like you. When I went through my custody battle, there was no one there t…
/r/MensRights03/11/15 02:27 PM
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This is golden, seriously, and has provided some great insight for a project that I'm working on about false accusations and their effect on Men as a Psych major... I appreciate it. And I love your username!
/r/MensRights03/11/15 01:30 PM
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That is just an excellent term that perfectly describes the loss of dignity and ability to trust or live normal lives that happens in these situations - divorce rape. And feminists will get all up in arms about using the term that way but I think that in this case it's absolutely justified.
/r/MensRights03/11/15 12:56 PM
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This is fucking disgusting. The whole thing makes me sick. That being said...Males and females need each other, if for nothing else, to perpetuate the human race. I've been falsely accused before (thankfully, the lies and the motivation (custody battle) were obvious and it only resulted in one stressful 10 minute conversation with the police for me) and I've pretty much lost my faith in women, and don't plan to be in another relationship... However, my daughter is re-instilling my faith in women…
/r/MensRights03/11/15 12:55 AM
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She should be prosecuted for manslaughter. This guy probably isn't going to do anything. Why? Because he's thankful to be out and wants the whole ordeal to be over with, and doesn't want to chance it flipping on him again.
/r/MensRights03/11/15 12:41 AM
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This is fucking disgusting. It's 5 years old, every time I see it I want to put a hit out on those women.
/r/MensRights25/10/15 04:23 PM
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Right but it would also be the same exact thing the female got... Hence no discrimination.
/r/MensRights28/09/15 09:30 AM
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Ok, there's SO much more going on here than what's in the title, and what's in the title isn't even going on. She pleaded guilty under a plea deal. He didn't plead guilty, but presumably would have gotten the same as her if he took the deal. Turns out, that's exactly what happened. Now if you want to address the rest of the ludicrousness of the events described in this article, there are enough without having to suggest that there's some sort of discrimination going on here. He's old enough to h…
/r/MensRights27/09/15 10:43 PM
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Well thanks I really do appreciate it...
/r/MensRights07/09/15 02:44 AM
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Yeah I agree that it can be detrimental. However there are also ways to to make the situation a mild difference instead of a detrimental one. My mom and my sister are both moms to my daughter, and even her art teacher takes somewhat of a motherly role in her life. Those are relationships that I encourage and make time for because I know how important they are to her as a woman. But I put an emphasis on that intentionally because I am aware of my daughter's needs. And not having those relationshi…
/r/MensRights07/09/15 02:44 AM
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Thanks, I do, I have a wonderful sister and mom who get to handle the stuff girls need a mom for, so I'm lucky. I am certainly no hero...in fact, after a while, I regretted making this username. I can't imagine not being a good parent to my children, but for me, it comes easily. There are men in much worse situations than I am with my kids that keep on fighting, keep on being involved, and just weren't as lucky as me...those are the real heroes.
/r/MensRights06/09/15 06:37 PM
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Came here to say this. Every mother's day my daughter, whose mother just fell of the face of the Earth when she was 3, tells me how much she appreciates me being there for her and filling the role of two parents, and you know what, that's all I need. Because mothers days are hard on both of us...for her, because she doesn't have one, and for me, because I see all this shit being attributed to moms only, that in my home I'm completely responsible for, and it gets a little offensive to me for the …
/r/MensRights06/09/15 04:29 PM
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Personally, I'm just tired of seeing your first sentence as a response to things that are blatantly sexist in this sub. No offense meant, of course, but it just strikes me that if we all keep accepting it as inevitable and something that won't ever change, saying 'what do you expect, they're feminists'...they'll never get the point. On one hand, we see it so often that we roll our eyes and say 'what else is new.' And I'm right there with you. But then, on the other hand, I wonder if the point wi…
/r/MensRights01/09/15 08:52 PM
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I got banned for asking a question. I forget what it was. Those chicks don't mess around, if you don't represent their backwards ideology 100%, you're out.
/r/MensRights01/09/15 01:51 PM
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...you done? Feel better?
/r/MensRights31/08/15 01:19 PM
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Why would you think I was complimenting you? I was just stating that I agreed with your statement...but you ruined it at the end by being a total dick, and your final statement called your own intelligence into question. Kind of like your responses to me are doing. If you didn't give a shit, you wouldn't be responding. Obviously you agreed with me, because you deleted your comment. I'll just consider that a win and move on with my day.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 12:44 PM
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Well I hope you're not that much of a dick in real life.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 12:17 PM
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I agree with that. Too bad you took the beating for it instead. Edit: a much deserved beating, but not because you were wrong about him stating the obvious.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 01:49 AM
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Ugh. I was with you until you basically told him to kill himself...before that you sounded halfway intelligent.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 01:41 AM
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Statutory rape is ABSOLUTELY rape. Perhaps not in cases where an 19 year old sleeps with a 16 year old, but in cases where there's an adult who sleeps with a much younger child, who isn't old enough to understand the consequences, especially when said adult is in a position of authority...That's rape. I agree that there's a grey area within the statutory rape laws, but just because some kid is horny and willing to stick it in someone twice their age doesn't make it ok. When you have a teenage da…
/r/MensRights31/08/15 01:40 AM
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For real. Same with the teacher rapists. "Man, I wish I had a teacher like her when I was 15." Sure, maybe...but you don't want your son to have that teacher when HE'S 15, I can guarantee it.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 01:34 AM
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Judges are lawyers who basically became politicians. Many of them were elected because they are known to be a fair, good person. But just as many are elected because their ambition and hunger for power drove them to the top.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 01:33 AM
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His comment annoyed me because it was stating the obvious. Your comment, however, implies that it's not common knowledge that this wouldn't be the case for a man. Unless I'm just misreading. In reality, a man is not going to get 'weekends only' because he's a father...but I've never heard of this for a woman, either, so I'm just confused as to why this judge chose to do this.
/r/MensRights31/08/15 01:30 AM
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Unwanted pregnancy is not the only possible consequence of sex the needs to be considered. Just pointing that out.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 01:29 PM
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I disagree. I think it's intentionally meant to be misleading. This graph was not designed for people who can math, it was designed for click bait on Facebook most likely. I'd better vast majority of people who didn't take some sort of higher math would instantly interpret that to mean more women are killed in the workplace than men, and any self respecting researcher would never present information like that.
/r/MensRights29/08/15 02:18 AM
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Right, well...I'm an American. And I'm sure they would get prosecuted here, too. I was being facetious based on this, which was a recent Men's Rights post.
/r/MensRights24/08/15 07:21 PM
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Precisely she could literally tie me up, feed me viagra, and force me to have sex with her, but she's well within her rights unless she sticks something in my butt.
/r/MensRights24/08/15 06:13 PM
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It's penetration of course. The victim has to be penetrated. With a penis. No, someone else forcing a man to penetrate them is not rape, because the victim isn't being penetrated. Men can only be raped by other men. Only men can be rapists. I'm going to shower now, because I feel dirty even typing that, but apparently that's what feminists think.
/r/MensRights24/08/15 05:55 PM
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I can get on board with that.
/r/MensRights24/08/15 12:30 PM
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Haha I'm right with you on that one...
/r/MensRights24/08/15 03:23 AM
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Dude don't worry about it. I'm a psych student who has focused mainly on developmental psychology. These are probably 16-24 year olds themselves who are trying to justify sleeping with young girls. In reality, 16 and 17 years olds MAY actually have the ability to be mature enough to make these decisions...but this has to be looked at culturally. If we just looked at girls and said 'oh, she's menstruating, she must be old enough for sex,' then it would be ok to screw 10 year olds sometimes. That'…
/r/MensRights23/08/15 11:45 PM
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That's assuming that I think 17 year olds are suddenly mature enough to consider all the possible consequences of having sex with a 30 year old. I was having sex at 16 and 17. I damn sure wasn't mature enough to. I'm sure some are, but if the guy was going around bragging to his friends about it at the expense of his own reputation and the teachers careers and probably freedom, I'd say he's probably not mature enough either. If you're not mature enough to consider the damage engaging in sex acts…
/r/MensRights23/08/15 07:39 PM
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Do you have kids? If you did you would be thinking about them and their maturity level instead of yourself and yours at 16. What if he had gotten one of them pregnant? What if he had contracted an STD that he would have to deal with for the rest of his life? The maturity level of a 16 year old is not comparable to the maturity level of a 30 year old... I'm sure there are exceptions, but as a rule I think it should be illegal for 30 year olds to use 16 year olds under their authority as a sex toy…
/r/MensRights23/08/15 06:06 PM
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Do you remember being 16? If you're like me, you were completely different person at 26th than you were at 16. In fact if anybody got to 26 and they were not a different person than they were when they were 16, I would be concerned. These were two grown adults having a threesome with a 16 year old. I'm sure 16 year old me would have consented... but I would have done so as practically a child without being able to properly foresee the possible consequences, especially if I was dealing with two p…
/r/MensRights23/08/15 06:00 PM
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Nobody seems to be mentioning that one of them is the daughter of a judge. Of course women get off more lightly for stuff like this, but when your daddy's a judge you get off really light...
/r/MensRights23/08/15 05:53 PM
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I'm just curious what you're basing your statement on. You're a student at the college...how on Earth did you get the data that supports than men have an advantage, and that any discrepancy can't be explained by grades, extracurriculars, etc? It just seems like you're making an assumption.
/r/MensRights17/08/15 11:49 AM
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That's because women are the only one who can really use the children against their partner, in most situations. Women get to go into court knowing that they are going to be considered the superior parent no matter what. Knowing that they could do pretty much anything and only get a slap on the wrist because we don't want to ruin the children by taking their mother away. Fathers are the complete opposite. We have to be thankful for any time we have with our children, because we have friends who …
/r/MensRights03/08/15 08:17 PM
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You know, I'm a single dad, so I HAVE to do all that stuff and know all that stuff. People assume, though, that married dads or dads that live with mothers just get to forget about all that, and that they just leave it to the moms. And while I'm sure there are dads that do that, I hate that the almost institutionalized assumption seems to be that most men are this way.
/r/MensRights02/08/15 05:53 PM
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Sorry, but I can't agree with that. Men are raised to be workers, that doesn't mean that nature dictates that for them. Women are just as capable at working as men, the only difference being that women may not be physically able to lift as much. It's also not NATURE that kids who raised by two parents don't have as many issues. That is a nurture thing. If it were nature, it would be consistent...however, when looking at single parent families, you can find well adjusted, successful, happy kids. …
/r/MensRights02/08/15 04:30 PM
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Nature isn't the only thing that contributes to gender roles. I'd be interested in further explanation, because I can't tell if you're saying that men are wired to be workers and women are wired to be parents or not. I CAN say that in my case, as well as many of my friends, it seems to be the opposite.
/r/MensRights02/08/15 02:37 PM
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Complete horseshit. Sorry, but my ex was basically an incubator for 9 months, milk farm for a month, and then voluntarily stopped being involved. And women do this ALL the time. It's assumptions like the ones you posted above that make it hard for men like me, because the mother ALWAYS has parental superiority attributed to her, even if in reality she has no maternal instincts whatsoever. The "I've got boobs, I carried the child, so I'm the best parent" argument is tired, and it's completely poi…
/r/MensRights02/08/15 02:35 PM
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I tried to mark this as 'Misleading Title' but I couldn't find the flair for it. Article points out some serious issues concerning workplace practices vs. fatherhood. Title implies something different, possibly shock value, but for the NYTimes I would hope that this would at least draw in some people who have no concept of these issues.
/r/MensRights01/08/15 08:16 PM
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I think it is. I have a few obervations: 1: It's not like single-parenthood is a rare thing in movies, there are plenty that bring light to the issues faced by single parents, but with the current focus in the world being on gender rights, feminism, eqality, etc, I think it's a great thing to see something like this being addressed in one of the top grossing franchises today. That being said, I think the message here was that for dad to be involved, he needs to be worthy. I guess there's SOME me…
/r/MensRights19/07/15 01:46 PM
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You know, what really sucks for the guy is that the lawyers, judges, etc are probably completely ignorant of this fact.
/r/MensRights19/07/15 01:07 PM
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I feel like getting this engraved somewhere...
/r/MensRights19/07/15 03:41 AM
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Perhaps the reason that so many women think that all men are rapists is because they are rapists at heart themselves, but do not possess the physical strength to carry out their desires...
/r/MensRights19/07/15 03:38 AM
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Absolutely. Not only is it ridiculous to need an app like this to begin with, but honestly for a rapist, is it easier to forcibly rape someone or to convince them to give consent on an app? This just looks like a rapists best friend to me... maybe not a violent, attacks you in the woods rapist, but definitely a manipulative, pressuring rapist.
/r/MensRights14/07/15 12:23 PM
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Fems: why do men always have to fix everything? Why can't they just sympathize with us?
/r/MensRights14/07/15 12:17 PM
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You really can't be serious. If you are, you're totally ignorant and out of touch.
/r/MensRights11/07/15 04:03 PM
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Depends on where they live these days.
/r/MensRights07/07/15 12:49 AM
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I always hear arguments like that. "More ___ are raped than __, more __ undergo abuse than ___." I don't think there's a proper way to measure any of this, unless you just go by officially reported instances...which says more about what population is more likely to REPORT abuse. In reality, it doesn't REALLY matter which gender gets abused more, and which does the abusing more... ALL genders should go through some sort of anti-abuse education, from both the abuser and abused standpoint, and lear…
/r/MensRights06/07/15 04:59 PM
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My daugher has been raised solely by a single dad, and she has a younger brother, and she just gets this. She doesn't want to be treated like a fragile little flower who has no control over her feelings, and she gets pissed when her little brother get made fun of because he's more emotional than her. She's watched my struggles just trying to be involved as a dad because I'm her only parent. She is truly a gender-equalist, and I couldn't be prouder, and it makes me happy to see other females see …
/r/MensRights06/07/15 04:53 PM
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That's kind of a strange comment. Of course people begin to notice when it starts actually affecting them. You know now that I'm in my thirties I pay much more attention to legislation... And there is a lot of stuff that's already in effect that has to do with men's rights that needs to be addressed. And the only people we're going to make a difference are the people who weren't there when the legislation was passed... I just really hope that in my goal to be a champion for Mens rights that peop…
/r/MensRights02/07/15 09:51 PM
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It was completely inappropriate for him to be in the office with her alone and he should be severely punished. Oh nothing happened? Well he should still be severely punished.
/r/MensRights02/07/15 06:40 PM
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Haha ok, you pretty much laid it out for me, I just didn't see it. Thanks!
/r/MensRights17/06/15 01:45 AM
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Right, you said that I was about to get banned from /r/Feminism, and directed me to ask the question in /r/askfeminists. Not sure how I was supposed to do that if they banned me from both immediately for breaking one of their endless list of rules that can be interpreted freely.
/r/MensRights16/06/15 11:31 PM
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Oh well, at least it got one good response...
/r/MensRights16/06/15 10:18 PM
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Well damn. I guess I just can't figure out if they banned me because of the content or because I asked a question in the wrong place.
/r/MensRights16/06/15 10:13 PM
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Funny enough, I'm banned from there, I think. When I try to post there, it says "you aren't allowed to post there." I'm not really sure why...
/r/MensRights16/06/15 09:52 PM
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Why would I be banned for simply asking a question? Shouldn't books be published based on the merit of the work? Isn't that the fundamental idea behind feminism, that things should be based on merit instead of sex?
/r/MensRights16/06/15 07:39 PM
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I'm not trying to troll I love this sub... I just think it gets a little petty sometimes.
/r/MensRights14/06/15 06:04 PM
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OMG! MY MEN'S RIGHTS! I CAN FEEL THEM CRUMBLING! Seriously...this is from a set of cards that is designed to be 'naughty' for a woman's bachelorette party or something similar. Hen Party Cards And to answer your initial inquiry, there is a deck for men, too. Stag Party Cards How's about we stop getting offended over every little thing? You know, there are people in the world who just want to go out and have fun with their friends WITHOUT having to think about offending a bunch of little man-whin…
/r/MensRights14/06/15 01:12 PM
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From a rights standpoint, I think both sexes should have options that are covered. Personally, I just wouldn't use it either way, but who knows? If I suddenly become promiscuous I imagine that would change.
/r/MensRights18/05/15 11:21 AM
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Yeah that's a good point
/r/MensRights18/05/15 11:18 AM
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Wellll....the reason OP is upset about this is because 'feminism' has over the years managed to equate 'gender equality' with simply providing more rights to women, without any thought for protecting or advancing the rights of men in certain categories so that things are truly equal. Personally, I don't really want to be sterilized, and if I did I would pay for it. I also believe that since women literally have to bear the child, that she should have access to affordable ways to avoid that. But …
/r/MensRights18/05/15 02:20 AM
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I don't think I saw anything about that. I can say that apparently when a girl signs up for Lulu, it instantly makes a profile for every man in her contacts list...regardless of whether it's her father or 12 year old son or brother, whatever. I know men do it too, I mean, locker room talk is to be expected from both sexes...and I think that's pretty normal. But it's one thing to talk about it with your friends, and another to literally tag a man based on your (possibly incorrect) perceptions for…
/r/MensRights10/05/15 12:49 AM
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Yeah it's weird, when I went to post this I noticed the link had been posted once a year ago...but I found out about it while sitting on the john with this month's Men's Health, they did an article on it, so who knows.
/r/MensRights09/05/15 02:41 PM
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No this is more than that. The women mark men with things like #scary, #mommasboy, #lame, #goodinbed, etc.
/r/MensRights09/05/15 02:26 PM
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That's great, but people who truly want equality are not the majority of 'feminists', or, should I say, not the VOCAL majority. In reality, most women who identify as 'feminists' want to be equal with men in every way except the areas where they already benefit from being a woman. In those areas, they want to keep the advantage they have.
/r/MensRights07/05/15 09:36 PM
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Sounds like freakin heaven to me.
/r/MensRights07/05/15 07:24 PM
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Yeah, I get that. The video isn't really the problem, it's more the attitude of the text surrounding it that is the issue.
/r/MensRights07/05/15 05:01 PM
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I don't really consider it the right direction when people think that it's the exception instead of the norm that a dad is a good parent, to the point that a time-lapse video of dad taking care of the baby goes viral. I know a LOT of dads, and the ones who DON'T act like this with their children are very few and far between. If they had made a time-lapse video of a mom taking care of her child and then acted like it's SO out of the norm to see, moms would be offended. Edit: Even worse, the idea …
/r/MensRights07/05/15 03:08 PM
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Thank you, I really didn't want to respond to that, and yours was the perfect response.
/r/MensRights07/05/15 03:06 PM
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I think you mean "woman"
/r/MensRights06/05/15 07:38 PM
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That's just beautiful.
/r/MensRights01/05/15 08:04 PM
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Here is my problem with this: when I send my 16 year old to school I am sending him/her into an atmosphere where she is surrounded by figures of authority who I trust to make adult decisions, including not putting my child into a position where the outcome could possibly be impregnating someone or getting pregnant, undertaking actions that they will feel shame or regret for later, etc. Even so, my child might find the opportunity to put themselves in this situation, happens all the time, but whe…
/r/MensRights29/04/15 03:55 PM
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Yeah that's where a lot of men's rights activists miss the point. I have a son and a daughter. I don't want to see my daughter discriminated against because she's a woman. I don't want to see her paid less for the same job, etc. I don't want my son to experience the unfairness of family court the way it is today. I want my son to be able to take paternity leave if he needs to. I want him to be comfortable walking onto his kids school campus to volunteer. Gender equality is not just for men or fo…
/r/MensRights14/04/15 03:28 PM
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I've been saying this for a long time and I've actually made this comment on several threads that I thought were a little petty. I always get downvoted to oblivion. My main point is that when it comes to men's rights, you have ignorant assholes out there who are completely oblivious, who either don't care about men's rights or see men as an enemy, etc... You are not going to change those people. So when I see something petty posted I just roll my eyes...whoop de shit, some hairdresser in some ra…
/r/MensRights14/04/15 01:39 PM
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...because that's what most men here have experienced. One of the biggest men's rights issues is the fact that you marry a woman, and then when you divorce, regardless of the reason or whose fault it is, the man generally gets the short end of the stick or ends up supporting the female for a long time. Men get shafted in the family department and are just considered money makers. Now that being said that's not always the case and hopefully we are moving away from that to a more gender equal soci…
/r/MensRights14/04/15 01:28 PM
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I'm not really sure that's true. To me, the TINY battles feminists constantly fight make them annoying and their message convoluted. Even more so, feminists tend to make EVERYTHING about discrimination, sometimes even skewing the facts to make sure it looks like discrimination. That's what I'd like for us, as men, to avoid. That being said, the right to vote was no tiny battle.
/r/MensRights01/04/15 08:57 PM
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I think my response would have been exactly that. I just don't really think there's a legal issue or a 'let's sue the business' case here.
/r/MensRights01/04/15 08:54 PM
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Nah. I would boycott the business and take my friends and family with me, which in the town I live in would have a serious effect on the business.
/r/MensRights01/04/15 04:00 PM
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I agree that it's discrimination and should be taken seriously, don't get me wrong. I would picture total fit and then I would boycott the business, taking my close friends and family with me which would seriously affect a business in my small town. I would talk to management about it (assuming that the lady is not the shop owner) and make a huge deal out of it hoping that it didn't happen to someone else. Maybe I shouldn't have been so dismissive about the fact that it is a discrimination issue…
/r/MensRights01/04/15 03:58 PM
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I agree with you there. To me it's just that in the grand scheme of things this really doesn't matter, it's just one, likely jaded woman. I handle all of the doctors appointments for my son and once I had an issue getting my sons medical records from the Ent. I raised holy hell to the point that I was threatening to sue them. To me that is a men's rights issue... An established doctors office refusing to release records to the custodial parent because they are not female. I just think it's reall…
/r/MensRights01/04/15 02:59 PM
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Perhaps, but there's no law saying he can't get the kids hair cut. It's just one ignorant person refusing service. What are we going to do about it? She has a right to not cut the kids hair. I handle all of my son's haircuts without any issue. The fact that one lady at one stylist shop refuses to cut one kids hair doesn't make this a rights issue. It's just a one person being ignorant issue. If there was actually some policy saying that men could not decide on their children's haircut across the…
/r/MensRights01/04/15 02:55 PM
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Who cares? I'm a huge supporter of men's rights, but if we keep getting our panties in a wad every time that some individual is ignorant about something then we are not going to be taken seriously at all. What do we want to do here? Create a law saying that it is illegal for hair stylists to refuse to do a specific type of haircut unless the mom is there? I mean, it's completely absurd. Let's focus on the issues that actually matter. If he had been denied getting medical treatment for his child …
/r/MensRights01/04/15 02:45 PM
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What you have to understand here is that this is a prime example of sexism in parenting. It's not about all the little ways it manifests itself, it's about the basic (incorrect) assumption that a mother is always, or even usually, the primary caregiver, and how this assumption perpetuates itself. For example, and this is just one very small example: I'm my son's primary caregiver by far. I've scheduled my work so that I can be available for my son at school. However, all the classes have a 'clas…
/r/MensRights17/01/15 03:24 PM
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That's just not accurate. Men had always been considered the primary parent until a shift in about the mid-1800s to early 1900's.
/r/MensRights17/01/15 03:14 PM
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I don't know the whole situation, I don't know how you actually feel about her, and perhaps this isn't a decision to be made in the heat of the moment...but when I was 4 years into my last relationship, she started flying off the handle, hitting me, she grabbed my glasses off my face and threw them down and broke them once. She made comments like that to my kids. I tried and tried to fix things only to find out about 8 months after this behavior started that she had been cheating on me for quite…
/r/MensRights11/11/14 05:36 PM
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Maybe it's because of the idea that lot of women are forced into prostitution... That's certainly the case in some parts of the world. Or maybe it's because if politicians outlawed prostitution, there would be fewer prostitutes for them to personally patronize (the politicians themselves likely being above the law)
/r/MensRights10/11/14 01:50 PM
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Wah. And I mean that. Somebody call the damn Wambulance. The reality is, there were only two tables around me, both with kids, and I informed them of what I was about to do. And they were fine with it. I'm not a complete asshole, if someone had an issue with it, I would have found another place to do it. Like I said, they completely understood. The reason I specified that is because I knew some jerkoff would say I was being selfish by subjecting my fellow diners to a dirty diaper. That being sai…
/r/MensRights09/11/14 05:05 PM
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Absolutely. I'm a single dad and I remember a few years ago, I went to a chain restaurant and there were no changing tables in the men's bathroom. I changed a really, really stinky diaper right at the table, but I asked for the manager first so that he walked up right at the worst part. He asked me what he could help me with, with this look on his face like what I was doing was completely appalling. And I told him "Hey man, this is a chain restaurant, you guys need to get with the picture. This …
/r/MensRights09/11/14 02:03 PM
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Which is what I'm trying to do. But I have a hard time blaming other men who may not have as flexible a schedule as I do. I've specifically scheduled my life so that I'm able to be available for my kids as much as possible. Most dads can't do that. However, most dads try to be involved in their kids sports, boy scouts, etc...if they're involved with their kids, it doesn't really matter what it is...their kids will benefit. They don't have to be involved specifically with the PTA to be involved i…
/r/MensRights01/10/14 08:59 PM
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As a father, I don't feel welcome in my child's class (at this school). Even though that's true, I have requested the teacher allow me to be involved on several occasions. However, moms are invited in weekly to do crafts, projects, read books, there's even a class mom. When there IS a specific dad event in school, we get literature like this to sink our teeth into, which is degrading. My daughter's school is different. They welcome dads with open arms, I've been invited there numerous times, and…
/r/MensRights01/10/14 02:00 PM
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"Traditionally"...Women are traditionally paid less than men. Women are traditionally expected to be stay at home moms. Women are traditionally expected to submit to sex whenever the husband wants it. There has actually been a major shift in gender roles in parenting in the last 10 years. More and more fathers stay home with their kids, or like me, work FROM home for a huge pay cut just to be available for them. More and more dads get custody of their kids, or at least 50/50 and there's no woman…
/r/MensRights01/10/14 01:54 PM
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I laughed at this. I am the OP and when I put this on my Facebook, mine read: Some moms leave everything to do with school up to dad. They make dad drop the kids off to school on the way to work so they can stay home and sleep in. They ask dad to take care of picking a child up when he's sick and bringing them home. They don't use their extra time to volunteer in class, they're too busy napping at home and eating bon bons and watching soap operas all day, and then cleaning for a half hour before…
/r/MensRights01/10/14 04:06 AM
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I'm the OP, and there was really no point. This pamphlet was put out by the "Initiative for Fatherhood" and the only people at this event were cafeteria workers serving food.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 03:59 AM
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Thank you so much for this. The amount of stress here is unbearable...I've worked my ass off to make sure my son and his sister get as much time together as possible, and I've made myself available at my expense to do all the transportation and to work weekends/early mornings when I don't have my son so she can work a regular schedule and still have time with him. The idea of losing him into her world of constantly running around, no home time, no empathy, the world revolves around her is terrif…
/r/MensRights20/07/13 05:46 PM
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I do appreciate your input :)
/r/MensRights20/07/13 04:59 PM
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Phukka, CREATING situations to attack me on has been her MO. I feel like she's throwing crap at a wall constantly just to see what sticks. She's claimed that I let my son play with guns, that I let him wear 'dangerous' flip flops, she has criticized the fact that on the nights I have him, I lay down with him and tell him a story or read a book until he's about to nod off (because she just wants to throw him in the room and walk away and go have a glass of wine and he asks for me when she puts hi…
/r/MensRights20/07/13 04:44 PM
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He's right, it was an email conversation, I pasted other than changing names.
/r/MensRights20/07/13 04:41 PM
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