| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Attention and outright ignored? Some thoughts. | SuperDuperShibe | /r/askTRP | 01/06/15 08:20 AM | |
| 2 | Endeavors shot down; advice on dealing with feeling disheartened other than lifting and sucking it up? | SuperDuperShibe | /r/askTRP | 06/03/15 05:49 AM | |
| 2 | Girl interested after initial soft rejection. | SuperDuperShibe | /r/askTRP | 06/11/14 09:24 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Do you hide the fact you have money from women? Questions on women “liking me for me”Never mention it. If she finds out some way, continue acting the same way you did. If you notice her behavior change, gain awareness of the new dynamic. My experience...the moment I realized a change in her behavior, my attraction to her dropped to near zero. I mentally checked out. Thing is, she senses this and tries to act submissive and attached...always wanting to see me. She offers to pay for things, and she does. Typically it’s a 50/50 split. But tbh that doesn’t change anything, at least … | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 05:52 PM |
| 4 | Why is it a red flag if girl has bad relationship with her dad.I cannot agree with you more. If you don’t believe us, have a run with a girl with these traits. You will regret every moment of it. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 01:42 AM |
| 2 | If you could only give 1 piece of advice for spinning plates what would that be?Key. If you don't, you will slowly become desperate, and you will lose them all at once. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend on Tinder, brings up idea of a MMF threesome, and I'm meant to be moving in with her soon.I agree with above. OP is too blind to listen. He just wants to explain his situation and hopefully hear us agree with his justification. Wrong. Do it before you get hurt. If you don't, then you deserve what's coming. Don't learn it the hard way like I have. Similar situation to yours | /r/askTRP | 02/04/17 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Take ownership of you: One key piece of advice I have for everyone in their 20s.Seems like you're jealous of your miserable friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/16 06:10 AM |
| 9 | Plate sends pics of her and another guy she met at a bar tonight after I nexted her yesterday. Do I not answer or send pic of me and another naked plate?Exactly. No time for petty games. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/15 08:43 AM |
| 2 | [venting] I'm crushed . . . I don't want to believe AWALTBe like water, right? Adapt to what is. Yes, the realization stings, but past that, it's nothing you cannot handle. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/15 06:33 AM |
| 47 | How to deal with a bluepill white knight ("friend") constantly destroying my SMV?He's not your friend. Cut him off--it's college. You'd be surprised at how easy you lose track of even close friends given the size of the environment and the many people you meet. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/15 08:04 PM |
| 7 | The "Bitch." TestI personally don't find the need to call a women a bitch unless her actions warrant it. Not my cup of tea, I guess. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 06:52 AM |
| 6 | Why would a girl ever divulge the fact she used to be a huge slut?This girl isn't exactly a dumbass, she graduated with a pretty advanced degree in pathology or some shit. You'd be surprised at how many intellectuals, in general, can be stupid in another light. Anyway, it seems like she thinks the achievements that guys seek (e.g. number of lays) can also up her own SMV, as long as she "never talk[s] to them." But let's be real; it usually doesn't work that way. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/15 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Girls who brag about being massive whores as though they should gain respect from you because of itIt could be her belief that women demonstrate value through their ease of finding a fuck buddy. Men do that. Not so much women. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/15 06:24 PM |
| 15 | Cutting out negative people from your life no matter how "close" you are or whatever "ties" bind you.It's quite funny that I have come to this realization earlier today. I received a message from a lab colleague, and we caught up a bit. In those few minutes of catching up via text, I just remembered why I haven't spoken to him for so long. I instantly terminated our text dialogue by ignoring him. I realized how important it is to respect myself and to cover my own ass, rather than to avoid the discomfort of being forward and cold or to deceive myself into laughing off any matter to save face an… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Main plate hooked up with another guy... how to react? FR/AdviceTBH, it seems like you're hamstering a bit in your post. I got the sense that you were very insecure. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/15 09:11 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with disrespect?Keep trying man! You'll troll someone one day! I believe in you! 👍👍👍 | /r/askTRP | 13/03/15 09:49 PM |
| 23 | What are /r/asktrp's thoughts on tattoos?Pretend that tattoos are invisible to everyone else but yourself. If you still want one then, then get it. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/15 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Endeavors shot down; advice on dealing with feeling disheartened other than lifting and sucking it up?To improve in my current endeavors and undertake new ones. I will reapply for school next cycle, and hopefully I'll succeed. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/15 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Tinder is about to die; another reason online dating is a waste of your timeWhy aren't more people here happy that this is happening? I sure am, and I'm laughing as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 10:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I get her out of my head?Agreed. If you're still having trouble thinking about her, you might be hamstering about reasons why she's still on your mind. Get busy with life and your goals. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/15 09:51 AM |
| 6 | So what does a woman have to do to not be a fuck and dump?Bingo! | /r/askTRP | 27/02/15 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Breakup talk, advice needed.You're hamstering. Look at it from a third-person perspective. What is the obvious decision for you? | /r/askTRP | 23/02/15 09:45 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend being constantly hit on by guy at work and it just got worse.. What should I do?This should be the default answer for a lot of questions on here. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/15 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being the bitch in the group?Be stoic. Don't laugh when they joke around. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 05:25 AM |
| 2 | Veteran Red Piller dealing with a unique sitch. Chime in.My take on this is that depression is no small matter, regardless of whether it goes against your way of going about dating people. I would offer the help that I can (without going out of my own way) and see how the relationship pans out. Too much shit going down? I would ditch, but I would look at her as a human first (in this scenario) and then as a woman. I would see if I can handle the effects of her depression on herself, yourself, and the relationship. If not, bounce, as I have said before… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/15 05:07 AM |
| 1 | What is more alpha: to fuck her or to hold her head as she sucks you off?This is fucking stupid. I cannot believe I am seeing this. Edit: forgot to read your username | /r/askTRP | 10/02/15 07:01 AM |
| 2 | hypocritesMuh triggers. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/15 07:07 AM |
| 1 | GF/LTR thinks its ok to keep people she's had a past with in her life. what's redpills opinion?If someone else asked you this question and sought your advice what would you say to him? The only thing making you second guess about leaving could be oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/15 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to go into the anger phase twice?People jump back and forth between the stages. It's not always a linear progression. Learn from your behavior and ask yourself why you have jumped back to the "anger" phase. It usually gives you a starting point in discovering whatever knowledge or realization you have been missing at this point. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/15 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy and me (what I've learned).The way I see it is that I feel indifferent towards women, rather than intentional disfavor. If one comes along that complements the way I live life, I will give it a shot, and I'll see how things go from there. I held your belief for a time when I first discovered TRP. Things will get better. They usually do. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/15 10:02 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with shit from my LTRIf your relationship is exclusive, then I would say that the underwear picture is a red flag on your behalf. If not exclusive (who knows people could just live together without being so), then break up and move on. My 2c. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/15 06:17 AM |
| 85 | Why women shit test.Interesting anecdote. It makes their tendency to shit test more intuitive, as I would do the same if I were a woman. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 07:30 AM |
| 2 | Askreddit thread gives us an unfiltered glance into the mind of an "average" woman.Agreed as well. The post seems like an attempt to bash women...based on this particular example of a sociopath. Of course there is a spectrum of self-serving behaviors. This women just falls on the extreme end of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 05:58 AM |
| 10 | My GF says she wont take my name if we get marriedIf you cannot reach a consensus on this issue without hell breaking loose, I would suspect more serious problems down the road should you follow through with marriage. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/15 09:00 PM |
| 1 | The only thing you need to remember.I think the quotes are from a motivational video on youtube or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 09:14 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend ltr on 3 weeks group tour backpacking, telling me strange things.To be honest, you sounded like an investigator. I would just ask something to the likes of her having fun and cut it there. But the question for you: Do you really think she will admit to doing anything shady after hearing all those questions from you? Based on my past experience and observations and the way she explained things, there is trickle truth. Everything sounds so vanilla... What she doesn't tell means she doesn't have to lie. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/15 09:28 PM |
| 19 | The female perspective and some reasons why they are how they are:Often times I find myself more understanding of the way women act if I were to put myself in their shoes. I get less annoyed for their actions at face value, and I become more conscientious about the way I respond to them. Empathy goes a long way in learning how to deal with others. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Girl went crazy, do i next?"k" | /r/askTRP | 28/12/14 10:46 PM |
| 3 | It's not enough to know the red pillUntil the day comes when I can finally look back at myself and tell him..."he becometh." | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/14 01:01 AM |
| 4 | Is it RP to cheat in a LTRI hope you do not think that TRP is a scapegoat for actions that could be looked down on by society... It seems like you're in the beginning stages of hamstering away the fact that you believe cheating would satisfy the abundance mentality, and that it would fall under the category of DT. I would encourage you to have honest intentions (in this scenario) and just end the relationship before going onto other women. I don't believe there is a need to deceive your current SO, OP (regardless of whet… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | How big of a detriment are strech marks, acne etc?Take steps to minimize those imperfections, if any. Other than that, own it. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/14 07:41 AM |
| 4 | Is doing your girls laundry a bad thing?I don't think there is anything wrong with this. Seems like you're overthinking a trivial matter. I would do it when I need to wash my clothes--I just clump all of mine with hers. I have done this in the past with my ex, and it seems like we take turns doing it whenever either of us has free time. I suppose, for you, if she is constantly asking you to do laundry, it would be another matter... | /r/askTRP | 15/12/14 05:34 PM |
| 2 | I don't get shit tested.Like a hurricane. That description made my day. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | What're your workout plans and other hobbies?Working out is like a drug. It's difficult to pull away, but I always tell myself to make the gym a part of my life rather than make it my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 06:16 AM |
| 0 | She calls me bestie. How do I gain control of the situation?If I were you, I'd tell her not to call me that. "Why?" she asks--no need to give her reason. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/14 05:58 AM |
| 2 | [2 short videos] Success - Taking Life by the BallsBelongs in r/Motivation, but I have to say that these videos keep me grounded on my path. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 10:14 PM |
| 227 | How I show interest in a guyPreening Hmmm. I'm going wear a cotton sweater and cover myself in lint tomorrow. I shall find out who wants my D. | /r/seduction | 14/11/14 06:59 AM |
| 4 | Need Help to get a girl that likes me to fall for meshe loved me, but she wasn't "in love" with me she went out of her way telling me that she wanted me in her life and didn't want to lose me no matter what Orbiter in the making. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 04:48 AM |
| 4 | Pursuing a girl already in a relationship?Well said--I was going to post exactly that. TRP has no morality, as aforementioned, but think about the future implications of the girl who is willing to branch swing so readily. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/14 04:44 AM |
| 1 | The last straw... How do I flip this horrible situation?It seems like you're hamstering a bit. I understand that you said you are not RP, but look at it from a third-person perspective. Sure you guys might have reached a connection through writing, but with you mentioning about her "going pretty wild," what makes you think you are an exception to all the men she has and will manipulate? All I'm saying is to have some self-respect and don't throw yourself out there to support someone so damn readily. Think for a bit. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on wether I should try something with this girlI would like to repeat the oneitis sentiment. You tell us you'd be fine, but the way you talk about your situation says otherwise. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/14 06:56 PM |
| 3 | As I've started to apply TRP girls are starting to notice me but I'm conflicted.This hits close to home. I should have read something like this several months ago. Too bad. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 06:57 AM |
| 4 | Examples of shit tests?All women shit test to varying degrees. In my experience, it's the things that women say to get a reaction from you. Don't be so caught up on determining if things are shit tests or not--rather, take a moment or two to think about what is being said and act accordingly. I've been trying to wait 2 seconds or so before responding, if I respond at all. I sometimes lose frame if I respond immediately without thinking..still gotta work that. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/14 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Is this Alpha? Is that Alpha? If you have to ask, the answer is 'no', because you are seeking the approval of others instead of making informed decisions.Not everything is so black and white, my friend. I'm not afraid to seek help (e.g. from TRP) on the way to bettering myself, whether it be having more sexual relationships, getting a better job, becoming more social, etc. Yes--some people may think it's more "alpha" to do it alone and/or with minimal external help because fuck everyone and I should be a man, right? However, you're disregarding the different circumstances everyone is in. Are they excuses to cop out and resort to alternative ways … | /r/askTRP | 09/11/14 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Is this Alpha? Is that Alpha? If you have to ask, the answer is 'no', because you are seeking the approval of others instead of making informed decisions.Well put. Like some individuals mentioned above, people think reading this "extension" source has the same priority as other sources, say from the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/14 06:20 PM |
| 2 | Is this Alpha? Is that Alpha? If you have to ask, the answer is 'no', because you are seeking the approval of others instead of making informed decisions.Unfortunate that people are too impatient sometimes. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/14 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Is this Alpha? Is that Alpha? If you have to ask, the answer is 'no', because you are seeking the approval of others instead of making informed decisions.I agree. I'd like to think that there are no stupid questions, because there is always someone out there who will learn/benefit from the answer, regardless of how obvious it may seem to others. Yahoo Answers on the other hand... | /r/askTRP | 09/11/14 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Is this Alpha? Is that Alpha? If you have to ask, the answer is 'no', because you are seeking the approval of others instead of making informed decisions.I don't see anything wrong with support groups. Some individuals need it, some don't. Just like how some people are better at things than others--you know, people who need tutors and those who don't, for example. Can things be achieved alone? Yes, but why limit that route to everyone? People take different paths to the same destination, more or less (e.g. becoming a better man). Some people probably have went on their own way and failed but still be unable to figure out why without the input/per… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/14 09:37 AM |
| 8 | Is this Alpha? Is that Alpha? If you have to ask, the answer is 'no', because you are seeking the approval of others instead of making informed decisions.I believe that TRP and askTRP partially serve as support groups for individuals who took the pill. Even if they have read the sidebar I think they want an outlet--a group of companions, if you will, to share the progression, failures, and questions they come across in their journey to bettering themselves. I personally use TRP and askTRP to remind myself about the core behind truly living to one's full potential. At times, I might ask questions regarding my actions, but it is not necessarily to … | /r/askTRP | 09/11/14 02:11 AM |
| 8 | The Lonely Alpha PathSometimes this is true. Other times, they will be better off than you think they will ever be. The important thing is, we all should care less about them and your relation towards them and care more about where you are in life. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/14 06:59 PM |
| 5 | Alphas walk their own path and there is no shortcut to anywhere worth going. Stop looking for approval and start being the Alpha your family needs you to be.I'm thinking the OP is talking about individuals who post here and seek validation rather than individuals who are seeking opinions about their logic behind their actions. Then again, it's kind of difficult to discern between the two...at times. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/14 05:27 AM |
| 2 | Girl interested after initial soft rejection.I see. It helps to flip the scripts. Yeah, I'd probably be interested in an ugly-turned-beautiful girl. That empathy. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/14 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Girl interested after initial soft rejection.I agree. I only cold approached two different women since then. All interactions with girls have been through social circles...which I feel is a cop out. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/14 07:49 PM |
| – | Endeavors shot down; advice on dealing with feeling disheartened other than lifting and sucking it up?because you wrap your ego aound a projection, a fantasy of who you will be, and when reality happens it rips out your idenity. Hit the nail on the head. Thank you for helping me realize this. As for dating, I left my relationship after learning of TRP. It wasn't what I wanted at the time, and I'm not sure that I want one now. | /r/askTRP |
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