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| 1 | Men's aversion to be seen as husband material is same as women's aversion to being seen as a sex object.BUT For me if I were to describe a man as husband material that would be me saying “he’s everything I’m looking for in a man and would love to be with him over any other man in the world ” so at face value it would be confusing for me to see a man complain about being called that. This only flattering though if you are saying this when you are 18, not when you are 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe leftist solution to men struggling with dating is basically like this "We will create a massive government which will cover free therapy sessions for everyone where you can go and get convinced that you can be happy without a romantic relationships and that there are other ways to be fullfilled such as going out and doing volunteer work in your community". And they are wondering why these men are not voting for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe would be a virgin, just like her. Or do women prefer men with high n counts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo in conclusion he's better off going playing around with 30 something year old women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy question was really, which of those two women is he more compatible with? Not which is easier for him to score. Unless you think the woman you are the most compatible with is the one thats the easiest for you to pull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadjust be completely immoral and string women along So this is his best strategy. Lie and try to keep it up for like 6-12 months? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou dont think a 19 year old chick would be interested in a monogamous relationship with no pressure to get married and have children, where you just go with the flow and have fun together? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo then it doesnt really matter which he goes for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDating without the pressure to settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOk, do you think it would work if the guy never talked about mortgages, taxes and dated a chick who doesnt drink and party? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQuestion specifically said the guy has dating FOMO and the 30 something woman is looking to settle down. Do you think the guy would be more compatible with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat'd be an issue too, of course his interests at thirty are unlikely to be anything a teenager would care about. How would you say these interests would align to that of a 19 year old chick: traveling, sex, video games, netflix, fitness, cooking, hiking, dogs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo his best bet is to stick to 30 something year old woman right to the point where she asks for marriage and kids then bail? Repeat then repeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo then it makes no difference who he dates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo from your answer I take it he's more compatible with the 30 something woman who's tired of playing games, wants marriage and children in the next few years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMeaning he's not more compatible with a 30 something year old women because he's not hot and the older woman has lower standards? Nothing to do with how well their interests align? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCan someone explain this to me. If a guy is 30 and still a virgin with dating FOMO, how is he more compatible with a 30 something woman who has dated for over 15 years, tired of playing game and just wants to settle down over a 19 year old virgin woman who just wants to explore and have fun? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?So he had a normal experience with women and doesnt hold bitterness. Who cares. Its a whole nother story getting rejected by literally every single person you like. It takes such a mental toll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?How am I supposed to have “given my peak beauty years” to the right guy if I just didn’t know him ? If every girl single girl rejected him at the time, would you have gone against the current and been the one girl to have accepted him? As guys that were ignored and pushed aside, we have our doubts about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:51 PM |
| – | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Yeah did your man go through his entire youth getting rejected, ignored, cold shouldered by women? If he has been given validation by women then him having a positive attitude towards them is not something to applaud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:31 PM |
| – | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Actually its not a dealbreaker. I wish it could be but right now Im not nearly desirable enough to have such a dealbreaker. I would still date a 30 year old woman who was not a virgin, I just wouldnt treat her as a queen. She just wouldnt get any traditional male role duties from me such as providing and protecting. We would split the bills and all the other labor in the relationship evenly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn the future, do you think it will be harder or easier than it is now for a man to score younger women? One argument for harder is that fewer people are having children, so there will be a smaller pool of hot, 20 year old women most men will compete before. Argument for easier is that tech will render more and more young men socially stunted, so if you're a 40 something man with your shit together you will be able to compete against 20 year old guys, even though they look better than you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 01:27 PM |
| – | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Only speaking for myself here but I definately value a woman for more than her looks and I would date a 30 year old woman, provided that she was a virgin and spent her 20s working on herself and not dating at all. Its the whole giving your peak beauty years to other men but not me thats hurtful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 12:30 PM |
| – | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?Why is this a bad thing? Because woman are at peak value as a partner when they are 20. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 12:12 PM |
| – | Is it true that a lot of guys are bitter about dating being better in their 30s?I think a lot of it comes down to the woman. Am I dating a 30 year old woman who had her fun, been dating since she was a teenager and all through her 20s while I struggled. Then yes absolutely. I would be bitter and angry, and with time start to resent her and take it out on her unfortunately. Am I dating a 30 year old woman who struggled equally as much as me (not sure if this is even possible if shes an average looking woman but I'll entertain the idea) then thats no longer an issue. We're on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHonestly, I dont feel like I could ever love a woman I start dating when shes 30+ years old as much as I would if she was 18. The thought of my girlfriend or wife giving her peak beauty years to another man just sucks. I would just turn into a complete egiliterian relationship where I excempt myself from all traditional duties as a man such as providing and protection. We split household duties and bills evenly and take turns staying at home with the kids. We are basically business partners who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 07:06 PM |
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