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I met my boyfriend on Hinge. We are moving in together and marriage is down the line in the near future. I think it was a combo of dumb luck and we both knew what we were looking for in a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:30 PM
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I'm in my late 20s and just lost my father a few weeks ago to a heart attack at 65. It's been really hard even though I kind of knew this would probably happen sooner rather than later just due to his age and poor health.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 04:47 PM
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I have no clue honestly. My most recent ex and I did not break up amicably. I wanted to break up and he didn't. It was kinda messy. He probably doesn't want to date anyone like me again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 09:41 PM
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These are similar boundaries I have. I let a guy friend stay overnight at my place on my couch when I was single, now I double check with my bf before offering. Especially since Iive in a 1 bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:59 PM
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Yes, men and women can be friends. My best friend of 10 years is a man. At least half of my friends are men. My boyfriend has friends that are women. I'm currently friends with an ex (however, it was a highschool relationship and we never had sex. So I understand that's pretty different). I've dated people who are friends with ex's and it never bothered me because they were open and upfront about it. I'm not sure how I feel about FWBs. It would depend on if the the friendship they had was genuin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:53 PM
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I don't see a reason not to be honest. It really does happen. I just have no clue on what to actually do about it. I guess the old adage of "first you have to admit you have a problem" would be a good start lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:01 PM
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That sounds about right. I personally don't think that way, but I've met quite a few women who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 09:29 PM
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As a straight woman, I would personally have no problem dating a bi man. The only thing I care about it an agreement on monogamy (I know being bi doesn't mean you are not monogamous) and everyone gets an STD test. Edit to add: There are women I know who are supposedly "tolerant" who wouldn't date bi men. I think there is a stigma that they are more likely to cheat, have STDs or want to be in a poly relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:07 PM
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Honestly, IUDs in the US are very expensive without insurance. A lot of people are underinsured or don't have it. Just the device itself can cost over $1,000. This doesn't include the price of the procedure to insert it itself. A lot of women are also terrified of the insertion process. It is not standard medical practice to offer pain medication during the procedure. You usually have to doctor shop to find someone who actually takes insertion pain seriously, and that can put off a lot of people…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 09:13 PM
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Well, I am in a relationship, so I just say thank you. If I was single, I would entertain the idea in the right circumstance. I'm also super oblivious, so I usually just think they are being nice and realize they were flirting days later.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:50 AM
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Occasionally. I will get compliments on my tattoos or a band Tshirt, but never asked out on a date or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:46 AM
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For me it's 20% that I see it as gesture of commitment to me and our relationship. It's 80% legal. I don't want to merge finances and buy property with someone I'm not married to. Also, I want to be legal next of kin, especially for medical issues. My partner and I have talked hypothetically about moving to a different country one day and I have the most likely chance of getting a work visa. If he's my husband, then it's a lot easier for him to get a visa as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 04:15 AM
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Yeah, I exclusivity play with friends now. I tried going to FNM at my local card shop and it did not go well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:10 AM
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I extrapolated that they were being shitty because you mentioned that the guys were invited just so they could drive. I'm sorry that I interpreted that incorrectly. I think that everyone "gets something" out of friendship regardless of gender, and I guess I'm just one of those people who can make opposite sex friendships and maintain them pretty well. I've always had hobbies that are more male centric (think Dungeons and Dragons, Magic the Gathering) and I've always been very good at establishin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 06:04 AM
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I have male friends because we have similar interests and I like them as people. I'm sorry you had the experience of witnessing other women be shitty to their friend, but that's not typically why people make opposite sex friends. I have never had an issue with physical attraction between friends and I've never dealt with jealousy from a partner, either mine or a male friend's.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 05:41 AM
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I don't know if it's "feminine" per se, but I love a guy who isn't afraid to be a little gay with the boys. It's absolutely hilarious to me when my boyfriend makes jokes about being gay with his friends. In the same vein, I adore a man who has emotionally deep friendships with his male friends and isn't afraid to show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:51 PM
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I work in a male dominated field and have hobbies that are also male dominated. If I refused to have male friends, I would have almost none. Also, if I think a person is cool, I become friends with them. I've never had an issue with a friend of the opposite sex having a "thing" for me. If they did, they were smart enough to keep it themselves. Hell, I'm going to be a groomswoman in my best friends wedding next year. His fiancee, whom I am also friends with, is totally ok with it. In fact, they f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:35 PM
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I'm 26. Definitely 5 years older. 5 years younger feels way too young. If we're talking relationship, I want to be with someone who's stable and knows what they want. That's much more likely to happen with someone in their early 30s than with a fresh grad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 11:40 PM
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A man's job has never been something I cared about. I always outearn my partners due to the field I work in and him trying to get with me because of money has never been something I've thought about. As long as he has his own job, can pay his own bills, doesn't expect to be a trophy boyfriend and doesn't have a complex about me outearing him, I'm good. My current partner makes about half as much as I do. He does not have "very little" to offer. I genuinely enjoy him as a person and I'm with him …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:13 PM
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One of my close guy friends is an ex. The biggest reasons it's never been an issue is because we dated in highschool, we've been platonic friends 5x longer than we were together and we never had a sexual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:09 PM
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Same. My guy best friend is getting married next year. He and his gf had to fight over which wedding party I'm in because I'm friends with both of them separately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 09:04 PM
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As a secular person, part of it for me is loving my partner and seeing marriage as the ultimate commitment. A lot of it is legal protections. I'm not going to merge my finances and buy property with someone I'm not married to. There is also the fact that your spouse is your legal next of kin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 09:03 PM
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Maybe I have horrible bias, but I work as a software engineer for a military contractor and it's just as bad, especially with my older colleagues. All my coworkers, regardless of gender, over the age of 40 gossip like they never left high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:32 PM
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I don't want kids, but if I did, definitely have them in my 30s. I want to make sure I find a good man who is in it for the long haul and would be a good father. If that meant I never found someone, so be it. Also, anecdotally, my parents got married and had kids in their mid-late 30s. I am the only one of my friends who still has married parents and who has a good relationship with their parents. Take that information for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:58 AM
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"I'll do the dishes" I love cooking and cooking for others, but I absolutely HATE doing the dishes. You want to do the dishes for me, I'll do an elaborate meal any time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:37 AM
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I'm familiar with the type. I figured it was easier to just not engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:04 AM
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I don't have a solution for you dude. These are my personal preferences and reasons why I don't date friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:57 AM
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I have a significant amount of male friends. Once we have an established platonic friendship, you will never be more than a friend to me. 3 biggest reasons: 1) I don't want to ruin a friendship by dating and possibly breaking up. I'd hate to lose that friendship and make dynamics between mutual friends weird 2) I just can't see platonic friends in a sexual way. It kind of gives me the creeps to think of friends that way. 3) Probably the biggest, is I don't want a boyfriend to think I will date a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 11:23 PM
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I know this is 2 days old, but I don't care. It's not true. Queen Victoria wore white for her wedding and it became all the rage. It was fashionable for so long, it just kind of stuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 11:25 PM
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I have a bachelor's and I'm going back for my master's. My bf has a highschool diploma and went to community college. I honestly do not care. He's intelligent, we have a lot in common and I enjoy his company. That's what I care about. Also, I don't consider it "settling" because I genuinely enjoy him as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:04 PM
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This is either a troll, or projection that requires many hours of therapy to resolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:51 PM
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Yep. My grandmother had her finances completely separate before my grandfather passed. He could not be trusted with the investments anymore. On top of the fact she worked after the kids grew up and had her own career for 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:11 PM
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Pill. I need it to control periods anyway and I don't have any side effects. If we decide to get married, my boyfriend has agreed to a vasectomy as we don't want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:57 AM
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I prefer to go dutch. Hell, I still split things with my BF and we've been dating for 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 03:57 AM
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I never hooked with random strangers. I went to house parties, bars and clubs. Pre-rona I had plans every weekend. I'd bring my bf with me, or a friend he knew if he didn't want to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 02:49 AM
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I'm child free and so is my boyfriend. It's made our relationship much easier. The biggest thing is we don't have a time limit on certain things because we don't want kids. We love traveling, and now we don't have to put that on hold or try dragging a 3 year old to Europe with us down the line. We both want to live in the downtown area of Dallas for a few years. Since we don't want kids, we can do it whenever we want since there isn't a time limit on buying a house in the suburbs. It has made ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 09:41 PM
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Hello, nice to meet you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 11:11 PM
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Oh for sure. I enjoy intelligent men who are also down to earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 01:10 AM
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I don't date stupid men. However, IQ isn't everything. I dated a guy who was very intelligent, but was super pretensious. It was very annoying to date someone who felt they had to always be right and like to debate "for fun" about everything. I'm now dating someone who, in my opinion, is equally as smart, but is much more down to earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 11:09 PM
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Either get on some sort of birth control, or use a condom if you can't take birth control. Vasectomies should be considered permanent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 02:44 AM
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Sure. I don't plan on having kids, so may as well give them to someone who wants them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 04:24 AM
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I'm a woman who most likely doesn't want kids and definitely doesn't want to be a SAHM. If we had a family structure that allowed extended family members to help take care of children instead of daycare, I would be much more inclined to have children. I would go absolutely fucking nuts of I had to stay home all day every day with a baby. So, I picked my career as an engineer over kids. I don't have time for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 06:45 PM
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The pressure to have kids way more than marriage. I think that's mostly from the fact that I'm not opposed to marriage, but I don't want kids, so everyone hassles me about when I'm going to change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 01:29 AM
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I cannot tell you how true the CS thing is. I got my degree in CS and currently work as a software developer. Some of these guys are so creepy and/or just plain awful people. College could be pretty awful sometimes. Working is a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 12:40 AM
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Yeah, it really sucks because I'm really good at my job. Unfortunately, it'll never be good enough for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 08:29 PM
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I don't know about "mansplained" in the buzzfeed version of the term. But, I am a woman that works as a software developer for a defense contractor (very male dominated). I definitely get talked down to more often than my male colleagues. I don't know if that's a man problem or an asshole problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 04:44 PM
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I'm only 23 and I'm 90% sure I don't ever want my own kids. Having kids is an automatic disqualification. Thankfully I'm in a relationship with someone who doesn't want or have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:21 PM
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I don't have any mental disorders and my relationships in the past, and my current one have been fine. My current relationship is going very well and might end in a marriage. You know why I don't want kids? Pregnancy is fucking awful. All of the women in my family have had awful pregnancies and just as bad deliveries. I do not want to go through that. I also don't want to give up a large part of my life. As a woman, I'm the one that will give up more of my time and career to raise a child. I'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 07:41 PM
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Split the check. Easiest way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 02:49 AM
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Condoms are 100% mandatory until a committed relationship is established and STD screens have been passed. I take my BC religiously, but if I ever miss a pill (which is rare) I make my BF wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 08:43 PM
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The n-count itself doesn't put me off. If they were a person who was genuinely interested in a monogamous relationship, I would consider dating them. I would make them take an STD test, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 11:12 PM
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I don't give my passwords to anyone. On top of the fact I'm very security conscience, I don't see the need for anyone to have access to my privacy with no questions asked. If you want to rifle through my computer or phone, you need to ask and have a reason. Finances depend on the nature of my relationship. If I'm not married (which I am not), then you don't get anything. When I get married, they will have access to any joint accounts and can request access to personal accounts with a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 01:27 AM
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I just got lucky. My body happens to handle hormonal birth control very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:38 AM
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I know this is an old thread, but damn. I got super lucky, because I've been on the pill for years and it's hasn't affected me at all. I didn't gain weight or have my libido drop. I've been on and off the pill (depending on relationship status), and I can honestly say I feel the exact same on and off the pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 08:26 PM
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For me it's financial and logistical. If I want to spend the rest of my life with someone, marriage is easier for my goals. Buying a house with another person is easier if you're married. Also, if I'm married, my Husband is my next of kin automatically. If he's just my boyfriend, it's much more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:29 PM
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How about everybody puts both seats down all the time. I don't want to stare at a toilet bowl or have toilet water spray everywhere.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/05/20 04:29 AM
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I don't want to give up my ability to do things on my own terms. It would be pretty irresponsible of me to have children if I'm not willing to sacrifice the time and energy to raise a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 04:40 AM
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I agree with you. I'm about to graduate with my CS degree this December. I got a job on campus as a security analyst (I want to go into security). The second I got a job relevant to my field, full-time job opportunities opened up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 01:01 AM
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