SuperSleuthGuy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Support based question		SuperSleuthGuy	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/24 09:15 PM

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2	Looking for advice/input Find a way for her to say that to you in texts. Its not enough in a he said she said scenario. Her words against her is always best.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/24 02:17 AM
7	Temporary Proposal & Nonsense Games I made the mistake in my mediation starting to ask for 50/50 and her initial starting point was me with every other weekend. The mediator’s job is to get you to an agreement. If your starting point is where you want your end point, there’s no grounds for you to give up. If I had to do it over again, my starting point would have been I have our child with her taking alternating Thursday-Monday AM (dropoff at daycare/school). Then you can negotiate back to somewhere near 50/50 without looking intr…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/24 01:42 AM
1	How Sauna Can Help Men Going Through Divorce I know an ad when I see one. Shame this man.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/24 04:19 PM
2	wife threatens ask 71k $ as divorce settlement, or she sue me The key is signing up before you file. You can’t have an active case running as you technically shouldn’t be insured for a known loss.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/24 09:33 PM
7	wife threatens ask 71k $ as divorce settlement, or she sue me BEFORE YOU FILE OR SHE FILES: see if you can get on legal insurance- I pay $12/month and have had it pay out $750+ per year in legal work. Covered for both the divorce and legal fees selling our home in the first year which amounted to $1500. With that out of the way- when you get your lawyer keep in mind that they are charging you for every call, email, prep work, etc. They’re happy to talk to you as long as you want. Filings and mediation starts to wrack up fast. Mine ended up costing roughly …	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/24 08:01 PM
7	I'm terrified. Text chains sunk my ex. Let her move on, set up her social life, have it conflict with her parenting time and be ready to take on all parenting responsibilities. Give her enough rope to hang herself. It may hurt emotionally, but I’d even go so far as to encourage her to get out there. Let her mess up and be that paragon of stability for your kids. Also to follow up on what that guy said- courts are stacked for mom when it comes to custody for mom due to “tender age doctrine” which is BS. Do your…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/24 04:57 PM
10	I'm terrified. This is NOT LEGAL but: While I know you’re in debt, start socking away small bits of cash where you can. Get an Amazon or cash based gift card(without fees/expiration) when checking out groceries. Over the course of the year, you can amass 100’s-1000s of dollars depending on what your normal spending would be. Don’t overdo it and raise red flags. Divorce and child support are expensive and having a jumpstart on the other end of it will go a long way. Keep in mind that alimony is calculated based…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/24 04:52 PM
1	Support based question 3k in lawyer bills trying to pusue it so far. Over the course of a few months that will be offset by her payment.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/24 04:27 PM
2	Support based question I know I started with long story short, believe me its the abridged version. Sorry for the long post!	/r/Divorce_Men	01/01/24 09:26 PM