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| 5 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it? | SuperWriter07 | /r/RedPillWives | 07/08/21 09:54 PM | |
| 5 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it? | LTR/MARRIAGE | SuperWriter07 | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/21 09:53 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You find what you are looking for. If you are pushing the narrative that the dating landscape is skewed, women have all the advantages, their standards are too high, etc then that's what you are gonna get. | CMV | SuperWriter07 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 05:24 AM |
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| 1 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will staymisandric world Every day I see new levels of delusion. It's just hilarious at this point. Like listening to an overgrown toddler throw a tantrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why?That's the most absurd comparison I've ever heard. In what world is being conditioned to be cold/unfriendly/rude when turning down someone in the same plane as making SA threats towards women and demanding to strip away their rights? I don't think any woman would have a problem if red pill men had simply insisted that they wanna go their own way by avoiding interaction with women in an unfriendly/cold/rude way because they had been conditioned by women's supposedly poor treatment of them. We hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 08:13 AM |
| 14 | Men who think that a woman should be open to every man’s advances. Can you explain why?I'm sorry but have you ever tried letting someone down gently? Especially as a woman? I'm not a confrontational person at all. I feel uncomfortable being rude to people and am a bit of a people pleaser at times. There have been plenty of times when I have let men down gently. Do you know how these men process my letting them down gently 99% of the time? They take it as a sign that I'm not interested yet. "Oh, she didn't say yes but she was so nice to me about it. I bet she just wants me to try h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 06:11 PM |
| -5 | for the idea that a person should forgive you for cheating and stay with you to make you a better personThere is literally nothing "pussy pass" about this. I've seen the flipside version of this too where someone had tweeted "if a man has cheated on you, find out what you did wrong. Maybe you were not meeting his needs which caused him to cheat." This sub is literally filled with false narrative garbage | /r/PussyPass | 18/03/22 01:21 PM |
| 6 | Sometimes good men give bad gifts.Honestly, I don't think what she decided to do was wrong— just that she went about it in the wrong way. 6 months is enough to know what a thoughtful gift would be. His gift doesn't sound thoughtful at all. I'd have felt unimportant if a man gave me some one-size-fits-all kind of gift. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/22 07:58 PM |
| 9 | Why does a breakup hurt this much?Sister same omg!! I'm going through a terrible breakup and everything hurts so fucking much. Some troll was rude to me a couple of minutes ago and my usual badass self just burst into tears because of how emotional I'm already feeling 😭😭😭 | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/21 03:02 PM |
| 7 | Single dad & 15-year age gap....thoughts?The sub isn't against age gaps tbh. I'm dating a 9 year older guy and I've received plenty of support from the sub. However, the single parent thing is very tricky. I'm assuming you are relatively young (20s most likely). Why would you want to get tied down with the hassle of a stepchild when you can have a husband with whom you have your own kids? The living with parents thing is also a bit suspicious considering how he's a grownass man but I can still discount that since single parenting must … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/21 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Am I awful for feeling afraid to have kids when I feel like we won't be able to make it on one income 😕Pretty sure she will find another partner. Plenty of fish in the sea. Better to be late but with a good partner than early but with a terrible partner who leaves you and your child(ren) financially insecure. Regarding the income thing, neither of us have any idea how much OP earns so we really cannot judge whether her financial stability will really be in any jeopardy from leaving the boyfriend. OP claims that the boyfriend already earns a 'decent salary', that combined with the fact that she ea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/21 06:39 PM |
| 6 | Am I awful for feeling afraid to have kids when I feel like we won't be able to make it on one income 😕I think she is very much capable of providing for herself through her own income considering how she earns more than her boyfriend. Boyfriend might be the one who needs to worry if she leaves him. Obviously, leaving him AFTER the child would be a different scenario-- one that I would never recommend. In fact, I'd never recommend having a child with this guy at all. Leave the man unless he gets his act together and have a child with a man responsible enough to be trusted with raising a family. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/21 06:26 PM |
| 20 | Am I awful for feeling afraid to have kids when I feel like we won't be able to make it on one income 😕I don't think you are with the right man if you cannot feel financially safe with him. You need to have a serious talk with him about this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/10/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Advice for avoiding burnout?Okay, bro. Chill out. You could have just called me a bitch instead of calling me a blue pill feminist | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/21 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Advice for avoiding burnout?Bingo! My guess was right | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/21 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Advice for avoiding burnout?I'm guessing that you don't have any women in your life | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/21 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Advice for avoiding burnout?Since you do not listen to women, here's something my boyfriend (a man i.e. someone you can respect) says: While exercise and diet do have a significant effect on weight, there are several genetic factors as well as health conditions that can affect it too. (He's a doctor so definitely more qualified than you) | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Advice for avoiding burnout?I would never recommend anyone, man or woman, to sacrifice their dignity for the sake of 'deserving' marriage. This is not vetting. This is taking advantage of a gullible woman. | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/21 02:48 PM |
| 5 | Advice for avoiding burnout?I am very confused. WHY would you be with a man who is telling you that he will not even get engaged to you until you check off so many boxes that render you helpless if he chooses to leave you? | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/21 01:52 PM |
| 5 | Advice for avoiding burnout?Why are you staying home, giving up on your income, and looking after his complete household without marrying him? | /r/RedPillWives | 05/09/21 10:02 AM |
| 109 | I am so uninterested in relationships nowSister, NEVER EVER EVER date a man who plays video games. I have seen it with too many men around me and my friends. They ALWAYS end up toxic POS who aren't capable of mature relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Advice on "investing" in long term boyfriend's future?She just seemed like she had made up her mind already and like every other comment on this thread, it's pretty clear that investing $ 6k on the bf is a bad decision from the red pill point of view. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/21 07:35 AM |
| 4 | Advice on "investing" in long term boyfriend's future?I think you have found the wrong sub to ask for this advice 🤷♀️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/21 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?I'm really glad to hear that 😄 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/21 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?Hun, no one's gonna take you seriously when we can clearly see you are lurking around r/FemaleDatingStrategy. That's like the #1 sign that a woman is just some feminist moron who cannot think beyond using men lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/21 05:55 AM |
| 1 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?I am sorry but I don't see where I asked for your opinion :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/21 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?That sounds like an amazing idea! I think I'm gonna keep a fidget spinner handy 😂 Knitting might be overkill. I want them to like me but I don't want them to think I am putting too much effort. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?Thank you so much! | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/21 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?If families were so vastly different in different parts of the world that they do not even have any general conversation points in common then I really don't think we'd ever have any mingling between people of different cultures. But yeah, okay. It's fine if you feel that you cannot give any tips about the situation. I got some lovely inputs from other people so I'm good to go. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/21 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?I'll try to keep the conversation along those lines. He comes from an average middle class family. Not too traditional but not the super modern types either. I guess I just feel so intimidated because his dad is a doctor and it would be so bad if I said something stupid in front of him 😂 | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/21 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?My boyfriend and I are both Biharis (different castes though, yikes!) though we have grown up in metropolitan cities so that situation isn't AS bad as it could have been, haha. Thank you so much for the tips! I was wondering though about how to keep the conversation flowing? What are some 'safe' topics to discuss with my (most possible) future in-laws lol? I am hugely introverted so I don't have very good conversation skills and I don't want there to be awkward silences. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/21 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?Hi! I do understand that cultural context matters in terms of certain etiquette but I really just wanted a general perspective too. It's not like parents feel differently about their kids and the kid's partner in different parts of the world 😅 Also, I don't think I was clear enough but my focus was more on how to make the conversation go smooth. I am hugely introverted so there are high chances of there being some super awkward silences. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/21 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?I will definitely keep that in mind! I will make sure to always be honest so that there are no misunderstandings. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/21 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?Thank you so much for your feedback! I completely understand where you are coming from. I really admire and respect the loving relationship my boyfriend shares with his family. He is an only child and they absolutely adore him. I really admire his parents for the wonderful man they have raised. I just decided to get the input of the ladies on this subreddit because I do not want to mess this up. I really want to be a part of his family. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/21 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?Thank you so much for your advice! I completely agree. I value my boyfriend's relationship with his family a lot. He is an only child and his parents adore him. I admire them for the amazing man they have raised and the loving relationship they share. Which is why I decided to get some inputs from the ladies on this subreddit because I want to create a good impression. I don't want to be a part of his family instead of standing between them. | /r/RedPillWives | 08/08/21 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?Oh, yeah. That definitely might be an issue since he's an only child. His dad's reaction was pretty chill when he told them but his mom has been much more shocked about this entire situation. So there definitely might be some coldness. I'll keep in mind to be patient. Thanks for the tip! | /r/RedPillWives | 07/08/21 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Talking to boyfriend's parents for the first time. How do I handle it?Thank you so much for the pointer! I'll definitely keep that in mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/21 10:40 PM |
| 12 | Would you share him?I see we found one of those pretend 'high value' men here itself 👀 | /r/RedPillWives | 04/08/21 09:04 AM |
| 8 | Would you share him?I would stop considering him a high value the moment he makes such a request. Being high value is more than just being attractive and earning good money. If he cannot provide me emotional fulfilment in the relationship, he is NOT a high-value man for me no matter how rich or handsome or noble he might be. | /r/RedPillWives | 03/08/21 11:34 PM |
| 3 | When should I marry and how big should the age gap be?I'm sorry but I don't quite get your comment? 😅 I know it might seem that my boyfriend and I are an exception because of the advanced stage my career is at but the thing is, I achieved all this only very recently. Until a year ago, I did not have any of this. Even at that point when I was a normal newly joined college student, my boyfriend and I still were very compatible with each other. It's more about the personalities than the age gap. I would agree that a woman should definitely not go out … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/21 04:28 AM |
| 7 | When should I marry and how big should the age gap be?Naah. I call bs on that one. I am 19. My boyfriend is 28. We are together because we are compatible and love each other. My family knows about him and is okay with it. His family know about me and they are good too. We are all but practically engaged. He has treated me a thousand times better than any of my exes (who were closer to my age). A guy's personality matters thousand times more than his age. There are 20-year-old men who would not think twice about using a girl. And there are 28-year-o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/07/21 08:49 PM |
| 4 | Hoping to have a traditional relationship with my boyfriend :)Nope. I began freelancing at the age of 18 and have worked really hard to rise quite quickly in my profession. I earn as much as many people do after they complete college (even their postgraduate degree!). My boyfriend is a doctor preparing for his residency entrance exam while working at a hospital. He earns one of the highest amounts of income in his field (for his stage) which is just slightly more than what I earn. Basically, we are both adults who are earning approximately the same amount … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/21 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Hoping to have a traditional relationship with my boyfriend :)As someone who is close to your boyfriend's age group, take it from me- the chances of him being serious about the relationship are very slim. In my experience, boys in the 20-21 years age range are still too immature to actually understand the implications of a serious relationship/marriage (and I say that as a 19-year-old!). The chances of him walking out the minute he grows up are very high. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/21 06:39 AM |
| 5 | Hoping to have a traditional relationship with my boyfriend :)I'll be brutally honest and say that I agree. He might just have a fetish for older women. Even if no sex is involved, he might just look at it as an achievement that he has an older woman being with him. Those kinds of age dynamics just seem biologically incompatible IMHO. Men, in general, mature later than women. I am a 19-year-old who dated a 21-year-old back when I was 18 and he was STILL too immature for me. My current boyfriend is 27 and we are compatible as heck. The age gap just doesn't … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/21 03:45 AM |
| 41 | Alpha widowed/reformed gold digger problemsNot to be rude but I think you might have to lower your expectations considering your past | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Not sure what to think anymoreYou need to do some deep introspection before you decide how you want to handle your marriage situation. If you believe you will have no regrets or resentment by leaving work then, sure enough, go ahead and do it. However, make sure that you are only doing it when you are convinced that your husband is willing to be with you and work things out. It would be a terrible situation if you end up stopping work for him and then he leaves. If there is even a shadow of doubt in your mind that you might … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/21 12:00 PM |
| 14 | Not sure what to think anymoreI saw one of your other comments about how he had suggested you be a SAHM. I guess he wanted the traditional gender role dynamic and might have felt emasculated to a certain degree when that was denied (and furthermore when you asked him to contribute to chores). Probably a communication gap. There are some men who believe that a woman's career is only there to fill up their time, and once the kids arrive the woman is supposed to busy herself with the household chores. The cheating is inexcusabl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/21 02:00 AM |
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