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| 1 | When did you realize she was flirting, not just being nice and what did you learn?The next day or years after | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | What are good responses to girls saying "I have bf" or "I'm seeing someone rn" ?"I don't see them now" | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 08:56 PM |
| 3 | What is the gym equivalent for females?Certain hours at the food market. Maybe try a bookstore. Try Tyger romance section. | /r/seduction | 30/01/25 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Any guys here who can explain why they don't approach?I'm not ready. I need to work on myself first. | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Tips for going out in a long time? NightclubIf you go into it with the sole goal of hooking up, then you might come across as creepy. The first time or two just go to get yourself acculated and comfortable. Maybe make friends first and then later you can work your game. | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Picking up guys, improving/learning my/new skillsLightly touch their hands or shoulder. | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 12:45 AM |
| 0 | Hype a short king up for a date with taller girlIf she is taller, you are at or near boob height. You are also closer to looking at her butt. It is harder to get caught looking. Wonderful place to be. | /r/seduction | 23/05/24 07:14 PM |
| 36 | Any guides on what to when other dudes hit on a girl you are talking to in front of you?Put your arm around the other guy. Encourages him and warns others to stay away. The power of touch is huge. | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl is mad that I changed location of date on day of dateShe may have been trying to impress another man in that area and she would not want to be seen with you and mess that up. | /r/seduction | 12/10/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Girl is mad that I changed location of date on day of dateI think you are worried about something that might not be an issue. Just roll with it and see if there are any troubles in the future, like with another date. | /r/seduction | 09/10/22 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for going out with the intention of day gaming?Just prepare for if you do this and come off as a pick up artist you will get burned and rejected a lot. That rejection may affect your self confidence and in turn effect you getting future dates with anyone. | /r/seduction | 02/10/22 06:19 AM |
| 1 | People I find attractive are the ones that are never attracted to me... ?We as humans always seem to want what we cannot have. "The grass is always greener on the other side". I thought the same thing then I finally got one and it did not turn to be as good as I thought it was going to be. Intelligence and kindness are more important than we think. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Would European women find a 5'10 1/2" (179cm) American man wearing elevator shoes that bring him up to 6'1" (185cm) more attractive?Nothing. I am, but humans love novelty. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Would European women find a 5'10 1/2" (179cm) American man wearing elevator shoes that bring him up to 6'1" (185cm) more attractive?Hight or not I have the feeling that you not being just another white guy is what is going to help the most. Hight might make you more attractive, but part of attraction is confidence. If they notice you wearing elevating shoes then you are going to come off as super insecure, which is a huge turn off. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 07:45 PM |
| 2 | I’m only good one on one, so besides dating apps, how can I make this work for me?Find a local bar or a quiet one. | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | How to navigate dating when your look doesn’t match your personality ?Not black but a 200 lbs guy with wide shoulders, and you cannot change your physical attributes, but you can change your personality and make it appear more jovial. Smile! With a real smile like someone just told a joke. Put a joke in your profile. Have it reflect your personality like "why did the chicken cross the road..." maybe ask a question on your profile that not only reflects your personality, but only the people who answer show the same interest. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?Evolutionary speaking since women get pregnant from any man she had to make sure it was a good man who would pass on good generics to her child. Today's booty chase is left over from those days. Also men spend 5, 10, 30 minutes making the baby but women might carry it for 9 months so she has to make sure you are quality before she commits herself to that. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | How to get over lost time?Not only are you not past your prime, but whatever worries you have she has also. Your hair is thinning, but women know this happens to everyone and will not hold it against you. Just get a short cut like buzz or bald so it looks intentional. You might be correct Girls 17-19 are not interested, but Women 24+ (the ones with T&A) are and they are the ones you want. Many women wants a man who can take care of them and any offspring they may have with you or from before so focusing on study and work… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 07:14 AM |
| 2 | How do I initiate something with my boyfriend if I get nervous every time I try to?Flash him some skin or place his hand on a delicate place so you are initiating, but he still takes control so you do not become nervous | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck can I do to be less invisible to women I find attractive???Approach like you are trying to make friends. Take sex off the table. Suddenly it will be like making friends with a guy and you will not be nervous. Also try several times with less attractive women so when you get to the right woman it will not be scary. | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Can I ask a girl what her ideal type is?By asking her it will tell you how interested she is. If she describes someone like you then you are in, but if she describes someone else not like you then you know too spend your energy elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 07:43 PM |
| -6 | Man, if you don't pull that SAME night, you'll never see her again.Maybe she did at one point and realized it was a mistake so she is taking it slow now. Relationships are like flames. Ones that start off quick and progress fast (her fucking the first night) often burn out and do not last long. Not only do they burn out quick but the woman might have problems like cutting herself and/or a STD. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 07:59 AM |
| 0 | Why is everything a man does considered creepy?Approach as a friend and ask how they are is one thing, but approaching like all you want is to get between their legs is creepy. Approach and ask them how they feel and listening to the response is one thing, but going up to her and ask if she would like French toast or Waffles the next morning after spending the night with you is creepy. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 06:08 AM |
| 1 | “Fake it till you make it” and “Women can tell when you’re being fake and it puts them off”Women might be able to tell if your being fake, but if you are being that way for them then it does not matter. People say you do not really know how a woman is until she becomes comfortable around you like 5 years after marriage. She knows that people put on their best appearance to lure people into dating. She may not fart and burp around you at first but when she knows she has you she might. She knows people like that if she is not like that herself so this will not surprise or shock her. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Books on inner game?"The Game" by Neil Strauss might help with that confidence | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Sloppy toppyDragging teeth is a big no, noà | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Why can't I build the confidence to approach a woman i find attractive.Pretend enough times until it sticks | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 06:35 AM |
| 10 | How to determine if a girl is the right person to marry?Picture yourselves in 20 years. Does she have annoying habits? If she does then you are making an informed choice. If she does not then you are in the infatuation stage of the relationship and not ready to commit. | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 06:01 PM |
| 8 | How are you even cold approaching women with masks on?"You have beautiful eyes" | /r/seduction | 05/02/22 07:23 AM |
| 2 | What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count?How do you counter for people lying? | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | How to turn matches into dates?Meet in public. Good for you and them. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 07:45 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Joke about how small it is. Shows confidenceand makes her think it is huge. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | So is hitting on people while they’re at work always bad? Cause if you like a specific person and that’s the only place you know where they’re at, what then?That is how my parents met, but be prepared to get shot down fast and often. If the women are in the service industry they may just be looking for a bigger tip. Handle the rejection well! | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]One of the things was to pay attention to her and not just say, "ramble on and on". | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 05:00 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]This was her way of saying, "this is what you need to do to keep me". | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone here date women they’re not attracted to for practice?Go on the dates anyway. Not only do you get practice, but you may end up falling for their qualities and personality. Not every woman looks like Holley Berry. Qualities and personality is what you are going to be dealing with everyday. | /r/seduction | 19/01/22 06:33 PM |
| -2 | Validation from strangers pleaseHey... let's get out of here | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 05:18 AM |
| 2 | I am really scared of cold approaching womenWhen approaching pretend you are just approaching another guy to be friends with. Tell yourself that no matter what nothing is going to happen so you can just be concentrate on being friends. When you do approach make the staring a joke / come on so something like this, "I am sorry for the stare, but it has been a while since I have seen a woman who is as beautiful as you are and I might do it again." This will apologize for past transgressions and any weirdness that might come up, while keeping… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | I went on date with this girl couple times, she suddenly said we better just to be friends?Did she enjoy herself? Did she do stuff like go down on you and you failed to reciprocate? | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as a bad blowjob?Dragging teeth can be quite painful! | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 3 | How do I let him know I wanna give him head?Put your hand on his leg. Look him in the eye and say, "remember those kinks I told you about? ". Then lick your lips. Maybe throw in how you have or want to learn how to deep throat. All while touching his leg. If he does not get that then you may have to straight up tell him. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Why won’t some women accept gifts or try hard not to.Could be reprocity or it could just be confusion like, "if this man is giving me something then he must want something and if it is not straight sex then he might want something truly kinky". It could also be simple. Women love the chase and if they are given something without the chase maybe they do not feel like they deserve it. Maybe they like you and want you to pursue. Like if you value her enough you would. Those last few could be right or could be very wrong and lead to hurt feelings and/… | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Options for social life after collegeGo hang out at bars and meet people with similar interests. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Does crying in front of your girlfriend/partner destroy sexual attraction?It's not so much if you cry or not, but how much. If a guy sheds a tear during Rudy the movie is one thing, but if he crys at the end of every House Wife's of so and so there is a problem. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | How can one create conversation during a pandemic where nothing is happening?Ask her about her life. If she responds enthusiastically she is interested. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 12:59 AM |
| 2 | What would be your best tips for "Sons of single mothers"?Right now you are putting women on a pedestal. Think of them like friends and see what develops. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Should I stop being her friend?Try not talking to her for a week, 2 weeks or a month then reassess. Her feelings should become clearer by then. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response?While looking her in the eyes preferred you are touching her arm or shoulder say, "and none of them got it right". Signaling you are right and better then they are. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | If you brush off sex on the first date does that make a girl fall harder for you?She may want you more or she may wonder what is wrong with you or herself for you not to want her. Communicate with her. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?It will become easier as the pool of possible daters becomes smaller. I have also heard women like older and more mature men, but I have seen little evidence of it myself. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 07:02 AM |
| 1 | If a woman who is 46 gets with a guy who is 32 years old, does that really make her a "cougar"?Sorry if i missed again I was sort of eluding to the idea that you should not label the relationship. If someone calls you a cougar don't let it bother you so you break up with him. Just have fun. It is a very subjective question. Some will say 'yes' and some 'no'. You make each other happy and that is all that counts. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 07:30 AM |
| 0 | If a woman who is 46 gets with a guy who is 32 years old, does that really make her a "cougar"?Some of us just like older women who do not put us through the younger girl BS. You are two concenting adults so have fun! | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 09:43 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I have had this happen. You were infatuated with her for being pretty, nice and overlooked all of her faults for you thought you had a future together. Then one day you realize the faults are too great to over look so you realized you have no future together. I have come to realize it is not their looks for they probably did not change that much, but your perception (psychology class) of them. You loved her so your emotions told you she was incredibly attractive. Then you fell out of love with h… | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 09:33 PM |
| 3 | What would you do if you’re at a bar and a girl approaches you and asks if she can buy you a drink?Accept gladly and then start a conversation with her. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 04:28 PM |
| 11 | How to pick up girls in a clubBy that time she may also have a few drinks in her. Although, I do NOT recommend taking advantage of her like black out drunk! A little tipsy means you will be funnier and better looking letting her be more receptive to get to know that your a great guy. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Im new to this, i have a question: masksPeople can tell your smiling by raised cheeks and other facial cues. Try to keep the conversation light and throw in laughter. If things are going good then maybe a reassuring hand on the shoulder. | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | guys i need adviceGet her a little trinket or something that shows you care and your thinking of her. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 1 | fuck fuck fuckAll you can really do is learn from this experience like maybe next time preface the statement with something like as a friend I wanted to let you know... | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Is this an acceptable approach to women?Out in public approach is great. Human race would have been doomed if we could only approach each other in bars or on apps. Just approach differently like maybe hold off on the whole "come here often line". Start of like a friend like ask her where she is going. She may shut you down fast, but no guts no glory! | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 09:50 PM |
| 1 | What would you do if you’re dating a girl and she starts to play like a psychoanalyst on you?In psychology classes they warn us to not try to do what professionals do. We have some knowledge so we think we know enough. Just ask her to stop. If that does not work try turning the tables on her and ask her about her Electra Complex with her dad to get her to realize how annoying it is. | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | fuck fuck fuckThere are entire clubs where all the girls wear chokers | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | fuck fuck fuckIt's alright. The saying, "there are many fish in the sea" is so people do not give up, but also so people don't freak out about missing one opportunity. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Got a few questions about partying/clubbingThere are two ways of looking at it. You will not win girls with crazy moved so don't try and mess it up making yourself look like a fool. The other theory say, women equate dancing with your ability in bed so longer stamina is good and if you mess up you are confident enough to try. Humor is also huge and you might make her laugh. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | If I take a girl to hang out/for a date, how should I go about bringing her back/going to hers?Car thing might be good for it will feel less like your abducting her | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 08:57 PM |
| -2 | Was messaging a girl I met at a party, high sexual tension. Then I crossed the line a bit, which bothered her and killed tension. Interest was very high so it's salvageable, but how to bring back tension after fuckup?Make a date with her. Find an excuse to put your hand on her shoulder. Touch is powerful! Then in a few min take it away. Then put it back a little lower. Since moving your hand that many times might be weird you could leave your hand on her shoulder and just move it down a few inches. Repeat throughout the night so it is just above or on her butt. That way you will slowly rekindle sexual interest. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth pushing yourself outside your comfort zone to meet people?Maybe find one bar you are comfortable in and keep going back to that one. New people come in all the time. Also keep trying online dating. It is important to present the best version of yourself and while you have to push yourself to meet those people. Pushing yourself too far might do more harm then good when trying to meet someone. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 07:00 PM |
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