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| 1 | What is your game centered on?My mouthpiece/wordplay/finesse(whatever you want to call it) combined with a good sense of humor. My game is very situational and adaptive, so usually I'll go off of something she says or something in the moment. Also, it helps to be able to switch between a low, soothing tone of voice & my regular speaking voice. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 05:18 AM |
| 4 | I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around womenYou're correct... and if I'm being honest, it's not ur fault. As children we learn to gain self-worth from outside of ourselves but as we grow older we must learn to develop it from within... | /r/seduction | 10/06/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | What works well for nighttime dates Other than bars?I would describe it to her as a special place with nice food and it starts with an m and ends with b. My crib | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | What's something you've learned along your seduction journey?Gassing myself up? Listen, I choose to deliver my messages like this in order to show these men that they need stop letting just any little thing shake them. Pls show me one example of when I was purely just "gassing myself up" and not giving any advice whatsoever. What? So you want me to talk soft to them and try to appeal to their feelings and insecurities and just act like life is a fucking fairytale. Well listen, the truth is if they choose they want to live in Disneyland and get advice hand… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 06:53 PM |
| 0 | What's something you've learned along your seduction journey?Woah woah slow down there. Pickup is not what I teach... I give men the cold hard truth and teach them to learn the game for themselves. All that pickup technical bullshit only fucks people up even more then they were before beginning seduction. Also, I've said this before... if they can't handle someone like me and the way I give them advice then they won't be able to handle the real world. So, no I am no PUA genius bcuz pickup in itself is bullshit. There's a reason the delivery of my msgs on … | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 06:28 PM |
| -3 | What's something you've learned along your seduction journey?From the YouTube PUAs, to the Game Kings, to the tiktok rizz videos, to patreon exclusive seduction vids, to here where I give out the nothing but the cold hard truth to all these men out here in their seduction journey. I highly recommend ppl who are going thru their seduction journey's on here to scroll through my comments bc you'll learn a good amount from them. Anyways, to answer your question...an important thing I've learned during my seduction journey is how to be able to make my communic… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 05:34 PM |
| 12 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?Your mistaken, many younger woman are looking to explore and have fun. Their mindset is to have fun now and get serious later. And you my friend were just another one of those "just for fun" guys to her. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Shit test about my birthday, what do?Omfg you had me laughing my ass off... a shit test?!? Talk about over analyzation. Who's tutorials have you been listening to? ToddV? RSD? Whoever it is that taught you that shit you should stop wasting your time learning from. You called it a "shit test" so im gonna assume it's from the PUA community. So, how do you deal with when a girl is really testing you? Its simple just don't fold. Whether that means entirely ignoring it and continuing the convo or addressing it in a way where you can put… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 05:02 PM |
| 4 | SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW?Oh gosh... | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:24 PM |
| 6 | If she starts acting cold, in person or over text, always mirror her behavior. A lot of guys do the opposite, and it backfiresMirror her behavior? Match her energy? Mimic the bitchy attitude? Do you hear yourself? Why not instead be blunt and call her out on it. Tell her that you dont fuck with it and if she continues to act like this around you your gonna cut her off. Why in the fuck should I be worried if "it backfires?" Cuz the truth is, the only one it's gonna "backfire" on is her because unlike 90% of other men out there I know how to get straight to the point with her about my thoughts on the way she's acting Ana… | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman?Why do men have little respect for ugly woman? I hope you see what I did there... because this a similar question that a woman would ask about us. And to be brutally honest, the answer is because we don't find them sexually attractive. "Why do women have little to no respect for men who are unable to attract woman?" It's not that they don't have respect for men who are unable to attract woman. It's that (since they are more emotional and mental beings) they don't like being around boring men. An… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | getting the number..Listen... the game is the same everywhere so I don't understand why people overcomplicate it to this extent. Go greet the fucking waitress and trust that you’ll come up with a decent fucking conversation because all this asking about how do I talk to this strip club waitress or whoever the fuck it is are just some more excuses. Truth is, your not really afraid of the literal action of talking to this girl your just afraid because of the build up and the longer you wait the worse it gets. Me pers… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | My confidence is based on how many girls have checked me out recently, how can I develop a stable self confidence?Well the first step to any of this is commitment if you treat like it's not a big deal and you don't actually want to explore yourself you might as well not waste your time. You need to look in the mirror at your reflection and notice the several different parts of yourself that you want to explore(personality traits, habits, thoughts, etc. And make the non negotiable commitment that you will explore and improve yourself every single day.) And take notes as you explore because it is through this… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 01:37 AM |
| 2 | My confidence is based on how many girls have checked me out recently, how can I develop a stable self confidence?I hope you notice what your doing wrong. You are doing the exact opposite of what you need to do build confidence. You don't gain true confidence from anything outside of yourself. What people don't understand is that you have to dive deeper within who you are in order to completely understand yourself and be confident in the person you are. Bcuz how can you be confident in yourself if you dont know yourself? The reason I'm saying that you don't know yourself is because you view yourself through… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems.Disappointing... | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 01:17 AM |
| 15 | Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems.WHY should she care about ur problems and why should u care about hers? Cuz you wouldn't give a fuck about her problems if she was an unattractive(in your opinion) stranger. Truth is, thirsty men give a fuck right when they 1st lay eyes on a "8, 9, or 10" vs women who give a fuck based on how they feel around/about you. You need to set some standards so that woman have to earn your attention so that the next time they throw on some makeup and nice clothes(or even just have a pretty face) she doe… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 12:59 AM |
| 3 | How can I stop imagining my entire life with a girl I know online? My ex girlfriend introduced her to me and we've only been interacting on social mediaWell do you want to get to know this girl irl? And if so why haven't you lead things towards that yet? You've probably already built up this simp mentality ever since highschool. From what I can tell you probably simped for your ex and fell head over heels for her before she fell head over heels for you. This girl on social media already has become a part of you now because you let her get that deep(pause). All you can do now is move on and overtime it will fade away OR you can meet up irl. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | I had a pretty awkward but successful experience todayWell you haven't made it clear what exactly your looking for from this girl. For sex? For friendship? For a relationship? For connections? For practicing your rizz? Listen figure out whatever that is and just ask yourself "how could I have done better?" You need to learn to self assess and answer your own questions. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | I had a pretty awkward but successful experience todayWhy not? 90% of these fucking men are liars and will lie about wanting to be her friend and all that shit to just get one hit. So why not? Be Blunt be brutally fucking honest be bold. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Pickup material ruins my mindFuck... the pickup artists reeled you in and made you worse than you had previously been. Now honestly I didn't even have to read this bc I know exactly what tf your talking about. Listen, "pickup" game and real game are two different things. Thos pickup artist overcomplicate shit much more than they need to. These include Toddv, RSD, coach kyle, John anothony, etc. Now please hear me out because your brain is probably so attached to those fucking techniques that you struggle to listen to what i… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 12:16 AM |
| 1 | art of flirting?Ok I'm gonna assume that your a woman... correct me if I'm wrong. But anyways I will say this. Most men if not 80% in your class are fucking simps. Ima just throw that out there. The fact that you start the fucking convo might interest them in you if...... you look good(in their eyes). I will say woman are more attracted to a man's personality and how she feels around him but a man is the exact opposite. They're intially attracted by your looks(and some may simp) and what keeps them around is yo… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | How to win the affection of the opposite sex? (Females)That right there is your problem. Why the in the fuck should I give a flying fuck about winning her affection. If you want to be a simp then go ahead and try it out. Go say good morning and good night to her everyday. Go tell her how pretty she is. And go fucking bend over backwards to "win the affection of the opposite sex." Have you won the affection of yourself first? Really, have you? People can only love you as much as you love yourself. Bc tbh this question never popped up in my head when … | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Seduction methods doesn't work hereAnswer one quick question for me then... do you spend more time scrolling through this info than the time you spend out there learning some game for yourself? Tips are great and all but even if you were to go out there with no tips at all you'd start catching on at some point. The game can't be taught you have to go out and learn the game for yourself. The way that I learned game was by gathering a couple tips and just approaching constantly. Don't ever expect one magical tip to just enhance you… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Statements or questions: what situations should one or other be used?Questions for deeper conversations, statements for playful, light, fun conversations... simple. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Am I wrong to feel bothered that a woman referred to me as "small" despite being 6 ft 1?No... you've got it all wrong this is aggressive constructive criticism and the fact that I'm being aggressive is what drags the attention to this comment and wakes them up. Think about it, if he can't handle some aggressive piece of shit on reddit then how will he handle the real world? I'm genuinely a nice person and I want to help him but babyfeeding advice to a man is not the right way to teach a man | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong to feel bothered that a woman referred to me as "small" despite being 6 ft 1?YOU ARE WRONG and the fact that you were bothered by some bullshit shows that you lack true inner confidence to begin with... why do all you fucking men let woman form YOUR self image about yourself? And why the fuck do YOU let others define YOU? Your problem is that YOU give a fuck about an opinion that really should be none of your fucking business. There's so many problems with the way youve developed your confidence up to this point that EVEN some bullshit statement like that can shake you. … | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | No answer... what do?🙄 | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:03 PM |
| 4 | No answer... what do?You fucked up the moment you started trying to get to know her through text... you couldve atleast called her even though facetime wouldve been the best option. I'd recommend text strictly for setting up dates and a bit of communication. The reason you should of called her is because that is the only way she would've been able to really experience your personality and hear your words(just like we get attracted to looks girls are attracted by what they hear). I also hope that yoru conversation wa… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 08:56 PM |
| 9 | For the first time in my life I was able to send a message on ig to a girl I find attractive and didn’t felt anxiousRemember, never become to satisfied and comfortable/proud about where your at right now and if anything push yourself harder. It's almost like a loop because if you do end up falling into that trap your right back were you were a few months ago. Congrats... | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | 4th Step of the 12 Steps of AA as an exercise in Inner GameThis allows you to see deep within your core of who you really are. A solid method, I do plan on testing it out for myself. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | The small things matter largelyVery very true indeed. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up there?So you're scared of being genuine? Pathetic. Don't you understand that most men out here are fucking lying to themselves because they also have trouble letting the woman know there true intentions and would rather just sit there chatting away when they know all they really wanna do is fuck. If your thirsty ass is wanting to fuck that bad then ask for that shit so you can get blown out already. My point is, you need to change your intent just like the other guy said... entertain yourself with the… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:17 AM |
| 2 | I asked this a few months back but how can I keep a woman’s interest?A+++ | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.Np👍 | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Quick Case Study… why not to listen to female’s dating advice (Not an inkel rant)Don't do it. As a fucking man just don't listen to their advice. First of all our brains understand things from a more logical standpoint and what these female coaches do is explain shit it in a way that is supposed to be understood through emotions and your supposed to feel the shit that their saying. I'm not saying that they're advice is wrong but you just wouldn't get the same clarity you'd get from a male coach. Similarly for females I can't say that I'd recommend a male coach to them becaus… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Advice for Single Guys Who Are StrugglingI fell into the PUA trap to but I'm glad I got out of it pretty quickly. Everything your saying on here is 1000% true I can tell that you are a man of experience. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:28 PM |
| 15 | Day game or cold approaching is advanced shit. Stop killing your self and go game at a dive bar.I DO NOT believe that someone with a mindset like you will EVER fucking EVER in a million years be good at daygame. You allow these females to form YOUR self image about yourself. Why the fuck do you view yourself through the eyes of others? Because if you didn't you'd know that that shit is none of your business. Stop spreading this bitch ass shit. Your killing yourself by doubting yourself and by rejecting yourself the opportunity to go out there in the daytime and approach those woman. You do… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Tips for cold approaching in collegeThe only place you'll ever need tips for cold approaching at is fucking work. College, school, the mall, the store, the beach... it's no different. This is your problem, you aren't focusing on the real thing you need to be focusing on which is, how am i going to interact and flirt with these woman? What am I gonna do after I get their numbers? How can i develop inner confidence within myself? | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Getting girls works best when you don't give a sh*tIt works best anywhere when you don't give a shit. If people learned how to reverse their effort when talking to these "baddies" maybe everyone would have game. Bc honestly if it was an ugly chick I know damn well nobody would overthink or even care if they fucked up with that chick. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:12 PM |
| 0 | Advice for Single Guys Who Are StrugglingI'm so glad you made that reference bc everyone here has clearly been brainwashed by the ppl who say that you NEED Looks, money, or status to get girls. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Don’t say she seems like a cool person if she hasn’t proven to be cool.This is bcuz some guys will lie in order to get the girl. Don't they realize that alone is an indicator of how high they put her on a pedestal. Me personally I am a very honest man sometimes too honest. If a bad chick is tryna play games with me ill call her out on that shit I'm not gonna lie and say I like the toxicity wtf who tf likes toxicity you realize your bring more stress into your life by associating yourself with that girl so it's a lie when men say bulsshit like that as well. Bc I can… | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | If a girl thinks that you’re attractive/cute, will being bold with her work?Ok, you just confused me. Shouldn't the girls who are interested in you(because they think you're attractive) be easier to pull? But, it seems your overthinking this side of things too. Listen, the fact that you asked the question about being bold tells me that you're not a bold individual so that is something you have to fix within yourself. You have to become bold in your everyday life not just with women. Anyways, I think there is something that is unclear to you and I will help clear this up… | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 6 | Has a girl ever lost interest in you but somewhat became interested again in the future?I wouldn't say lost interest... it's probably that she was just ignoring you. When a girl does ignores me(knowing that I'm still attempting to communicate with them) and becomes interested in me in the future I take it as disrespect. I've stabilized myself to the point where I don't play her or any girls fucking games anymore... if she wants to ignore me she gets cut off, if she wants to keep her a dominant ego around me she gets cut off, if she doesn't get w/ my fucking program she gets cut off… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Asked her to lunch and she brought a friend?Bro are you kidding me... how is this not normal to you? Almost all females would've done the same thing. They feel more secure and comfortable around there friends. So, if you wanted her to show up by herself you should've gotten her comfortable the first time you interacted with her. It wasn't her fault it was your fault.. next time you have to read the room to figure out if she would be comfortable coming to talk to you by herself. Don't assume that she had any negative intentions with bringi… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Tinder is a MASSIVE waste of timeI'm gonna be honest, I don't know much about the online dating game but he is right that it is a different game because ik some ppl who use it and get Hella matches. Yes, looks are very important because as a "PUA" they aren't able to experience your energy all they see is your looks on a screen and swipe left if your not her type. I honestly like going out and picking girls up better then online dating. However, because of my looks I'm getting a decent amount of matches on here. Just groom your… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?I'm going in depth so I know this is pretty long... The only thing you should use texting for is setting up a time and a place. So after she's told you when she gets back to town you text her "I'll be free on monday, Wednesday, and thursday so let me know which day works for you"(just an example)... that's literally all I recommend using text msgs for. But if you want to talk to her I'd recommend that you call/facetime her and get into a deeper convo with her because I feel like all you've proba… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 11:04 PM |
| 6 | Confidence isn’t necessarily attractive. It’s confidence combined with masculine/dominant energy.1000% true... I was just telling someone else this. Their question was does "being confident attract women?" I told them that indirectly it can because it makes it easier to put your energy out there and not give a fuck. However what actually attracts the woman is your energy(the way you carry yourself, the way you make her feel, the way you look into her eyes, the way you talk to her). | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 02:57 AM |
| 66 | Is confidence the key to attracting others?You should be confident in yourself before you have "rizz." Now, confidence alongside a good energy can attract others but confidence alone just makes it easier to get the job done because you believe in yourself. You can attract others with your status, but does that mean you have confidence? Hell no. I've talked to some people with sooo much "status" or "popularity"(now I'm gonna assume your talking about HS tbh because you used the word "rizz" but this applys outside of that too) and you shou… | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Why Am I Like ThisThis is exactly what to expect if you don't have experience with many women. Deep down you probably want to talk to some of these woman but would feel even more uncomfortable doing so because they're halfnaked. Truth is, it's just an excuse. If I was there because of my experience I wouldn't let any of those other factors get to me like they did you. So to sum all this up there's nothing wrong with you because 90% of guys would've acted the same. I'll tell you what, if i was there it would've be… | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 02:03 PM |
| 5 | i... i may have a date from daytime cold approach? wowWell there's your problem. If you have these expectations of a girl your attracted to right when you meet her then don't be suprised if something doesn't turn up your way. I make sure I've built a connection with her(which takes time) and that she won't try to manipulate me for my time, money, or attention. So I'm not going to tell you to stop looking for a relationship but I can't say that this is the best mentality to have until youve been with a certain girl for quite a while. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 12:12 AM |
| 13 | MasculinityYou've got it all wrong masculinity is your natural energy because you are the physical manifestation of a man. So you don't do anything to be masculine... you just be natural. Now many men have lost masculine qualities due to the comfortable society we live in today including competitiveness, dominance, leadership, logic, and assertiveness. But if you think "I gotta walk like this and talk like this and act like this" to be masculine then your mistaken. I will give you the best possible formula… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 11:48 PM |
| 11 | i... i may have a date from daytime cold approach? wowI mean listen if she gave you the number and is interested it's not unlikely that she would go on a date with you. But I hope you know what your doing and looking for. Don't invest to much attention, time and money into this stranger you cold approached without properly vetting her. Also, In my personal opinion I wouldn't even consider a relationship with this girl until we've been friends with benefits for atleast 5 months. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 11:40 PM |
| 3 | Made out with shy co-worker. She told me she's liked me for a while. Now she's avoiding me?First of all, it is work so I hope you know what your doing. Second, your a man right? Don't sit around contemplating on what she might be feeling or why she might be acting this way from afar go up to her and ask her directly. You need to value yourself... save your time, your attention, and your mind space. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | I need your guy's insight on beginning game.Hmm I see how this would benefit a beginner👍 | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Advice on girlfriendTf you tryna match her for? If you aren't feeling the same way as her why tf would you. A girl would literally do the same thing if she wasn't feeling this intense love that you felt for her she wouldn't give it too much attention. Just be normal and be honest throughout the relationship. A little tip before my phone dies when she is aggressively in love with you like this you can fall back and chill out a bit. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:52 AM |
| 4 | I’m nearly bald. I’m a Norwood 4 at age 27. I’m shaving it all tomorrow.Welp I guess you can't save everyone... | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | I need your guy's insight on beginning game.Well hey whatever works for you... my game is a little different then a lot of these PUAs though. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:33 AM |
| 9 | I’m nearly bald. I’m a Norwood 4 at age 27. I’m shaving it all tomorrow.My guy gay is a whole different spectrum diamond stud earrings are not gay search em up. You are your biggest enemy in this and your proving it right here right now. If you actually went out and cold approached, guess what? You'd make friends, you'd get some lucky opportunities, and you'd get(or start to learn) how to pick up women. To be honest, don't just do this for the women but do it for you. Shit, listen ima give you a little look inside my mind when it comes to women. My mind: I am the ex… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:30 AM |
| 7 | I’m nearly bald. I’m a Norwood 4 at age 27. I’m shaving it all tomorrow.Look at what you just said. This shit would make a women pitiful and seeing a man and his insecurities/stress is not attractive to them whatsoever. Your messing yourself up with your mentality. I told you to get fashion and earrings to help you accept yourself not for guys or even women but for YOU. Listen I can have bad hair day and still pull these girls because my mentality is so strong, firm and stable. I bet you I could go bald and yes it would fuck with my mind a lot but I'll get my mindse… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:20 AM |
| 8 | I’m nearly bald. I’m a Norwood 4 at age 27. I’m shaving it all tomorrow.Omg, Do you hate yourself this much?... if you really need to for your own confidence go get some earrings, go get some fashion, go do whatever to get you to accept yourself. Although what they will initially see is your looks trust me when I say it isn't the make it or break it when dealing with women. The way you make her feel is the make it or break... and they will make exceptions based on this. I actually happen to know a couple bald guys myself pulling left and right. One of them even beca… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approaching women on the street really toxic?Well listen this is how you should start viewing it then. Start viewing it as if you are helping to show them and open there eyes to the fact that cold approach isn't as bad and toxic as they thought. You already separate yourself from a lot of men by doing it.. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Am I imagining things?Why do you care that she's seeing another guy? Why? Cuz personally I wouldn't give a fuck because I know who the fuck I am and what the fuck I'm about. She is using you for attention and wasting your time. Now the reason this is pissing me off is because your letting her do this(she's playing game w/ you right under your nose). Now me personally I don't believe in having female friends bc let's be honest most guy's if given the opportunity would like sex with their female friend and I'm a brutal… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | everything you do should be an investment in yourselfSomeone who finally speaks my language I've been telling these weak males this shit all along. I'm tryna help these males become men that go for what they want. Society has changed us. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:55 AM |
| 11 | I’m nearly bald. I’m a Norwood 4 at age 27. I’m shaving it all tomorrow.Bro this is not true at all. Do you know the value a bald head person can bring to sex alone. Use the top of your bald head and rub her if you know what I mean. Listen my point is being bald doesn't change shit. It's about how you make her feel and how comfortable you are with yourself because she can sense that. Accept everything ab u the good and the bad because your reality revolves around you and all your doing is giving her the opportunity to take a step into your reality. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:51 AM |
| 7 | Is cold approaching women on the street really toxic?No no no no no. Don't ever say this again. Ppl just don't know how to talk nowadays so from their pov it's toxic but what you just did by asking this question is made yourself believe that it is toxic just like them. Look at it for what it really is... a man going up to a woman expressing his interest and intentions because she caught his eye. What is so toxic about that? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Stop being an empath and go after what you want. You might think that she wants some space from you, but guess what? There's probably another man out there that could keep her attached 24/7 and doesn't give a fuck if she wants space or not. Act on this matter how you want to act on it and if she hits you with a hard "no" that will be your que to replace her(and congratulations cause you've just saved your time, money, attention, and mind space). | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?No it's not. If you two are still on good terms and she still feels comfortable with you then you can easily initiate something again. Just make sure you don't fall onto the trap of spending too much money, time, and attention on her without putting your real intentions out there and seeing how she reacts. But, I would say in your current situation your definitely capable of leading her into a deeper conversation and then eventually leading her towards sexual curiosity of you which is one of the… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:20 AM |
| 6 | I need your guy's insight on beginning game.What is that supposed to do? I sorta get your point but that exercise will only fuck up your priorities. That will automatically set hot woman on a pedestal without you even realizing it. The reason it messes up your priorities is because your basically saying your willing to not talk to anyone and ignore them just so that you can only talk to the hot women. By cutting everyone else off you are showing how high you really pedestalize these woman. I would never ignore/disrespect someone just for … | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl asked for my snap for hookups sooo… What now?Don't take the bait of her leading you to sex bc that it just temporary emotional pleasure for her but once she notices your not a leader she'll get bored and ghost you. You've got to spark her curiosity of what sex would be like with you just like girls do to men all the time. It just easier for them because the moment a man sees her body his curiosity is sparked. It works differently for most women. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:59 AM |
| 1 | What if heartbreak completely killed my desire to date/cold approach?Then your a weak male... I hope you know that it's not her fault its your fault. Inevitably it's always the man's fault. You are supposed to mold her, guide her lead her, and vet her. You've failed and you've brought this on yourself. So get up... if your still a man. This energy is not just for you but anyone in a situation like this so dont think that I'm coming at you with all this I just hate to see men in these situations.. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Lost interest in chasing women, so I'm slowly trying to improve myselfYour problem is that you chase women. Lemme ask you why do you hate yourself? Bc I would never chase a woman a day in my life. These woman beg for me, they beg for me to stay. They're so emotionally attached to me that I am like their drug and without me... I don't think I have to explain this anymore you get the point | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:51 AM |
| 1 | What's the difference between a friendly and a flirty touch?High five, a hug, a light nudge vs your hands on her hips/ thighs, holding her hand after the handshake for a prolonged amount of time, or wrapping your arm around her. Very very simple. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Should I stay in touch after she said no?Please don't tell me you just asked her out without building any comfort with her or getting to know her and developing her interest in you or even before atleast sleeping w/ her once. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Need advice: I got her number, setup a date for this weekend but she doesn’t know if she can make it. So what do I do with her number now. Just ask to hmu when she’s free or what?Tell her that your free Monday, wendnesday, or Thursday and if she doesn't show up again you leave her for da streetzzzz | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop making excuses to myself not to approachMmmmm... there's only one way do you really want to know? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | She said i talk too muchI think you deleted your comment but you said that she talks too much too. So? Let her talk too much your the one who talks with reason every word that comes out of your mouth should have value. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls start playing games when you don't push for a date/numberBecause they know your a little squishy toy that they can mess with and manipulate all they want because you can't just come clean and explain your intentions. This is how women test men. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Where do you guys go to cold approach?I think going somewhere to cold approach consistently is just dumb because you can't tell me you don't see attractive girls walking by everyday. So the answer is you "cold approach" whenever and wherever you see them. Going somewhere to cold approach itself is just thirsty and putting her on a pedestal already without you even realizing it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:31 AM |
| 13 | She said i talk too muchSo stop talking so much because your wasting your words. Every word that comes out of your mouth should have purpose whether that getting to know her more(every side of her), making her curious about how sex would be with a man like u, getting her comfortable, etc. Also you might want to consider talking slower because the faster you speak the more dumb stuff that is probably gonna come out of your mouth. This is not a diss on you I have been there before too. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Feeling uninspired to cold approach now because…They don't want be approached because it's all these weirdo men that do it. In these girl's heads theyve probably never come across a man who can just be that guy. Now I have a question for you... do you view yourself as one of these thirsty weirdo males or do you view yourself as a man who can make her day and be the experience that will make her never want to leave you? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?I would've had her hooked by the first couple of times we interacted. But besides that, I can tell you weren't taking the initiative to lead her on she was the one leading you. If you wanted to hook her you needed to show her that she has to follow your lead and if she doesn't(regardless of her interest in you) your willing to let her go. By showing her this the type of man you are she would've noticed that there is something different about you. What I would've done was talked to her and got he… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Is being Indirect and Hesitation a turnoff?Broooo... now let's just get this out of the way a hesitation is an absolute turn off because it shows that you lack confidence. However, on the other hand there are times to be direct and be Indirect but I will warn you women themselves are indirect(it can vary) so just spamming the Indirect button isn't gonna get you nowhere accept in the friendzone or even possibly off of her phone. There are certain times that she will even ask you why you wanted her to come to a certain place with you? And … | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Awwww man you see that's where you messed up. You need to understand she's not gonna lead you on forever and as a man you need to take the initiative to show her your personality, show her what your about, and be brutally honest with her. Now i have another question what did you do that swayed her to initiate the sex(if anything)? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:55 AM |
| 4 | How to increase interest without being desperate?Ok so I think i see your problem... do you think she was only physically attracted to you? | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:46 AM |
| 6 | What to do when a girl reaches out after ghosting?You read my mind👍 | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | So I found out a new strategy to pick up women according to this guyDon't resort to such measures just to get a women. Come on now... why do ppl hate themselves and see such little value within them so much? If you want to get women go out in the daytime or go to a club and get some but don't you think going to a gay bar is a bit much for a woman it already shows how high on pedestal you've put her before you've even met her.... | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Stuck? Just stop focusing on womenWoman should not be part of your top 5 priorities. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:30 AM |
| 11 | What to do when a girl reaches out after ghosting?Bro tell her that you'll make an exception but she has to repay you somehow. Whether that's taking you out on a date, massaging you, cooking for you, etc. Pls value yourself. Don't suggest drinks suggest that she buys you a drink. Hope I'm not too late. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:27 AM |
| 2 | I need your guy's insight on beginning game.Np 👍 | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Think back to some of the most fun and flirty conversations you've had with women...what were you talking about?Honestly it doesn't matter and once you have a good amount ofc you won't remember the exact words. She won't remember your words but she'll always remember your energy. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:21 AM |
| 3 | How to stop putting women on a pedestal?Get some game and you'll understand that woman aren't on the pedestal when it comes to a man with game, they will literally throw the pedestal away when you have game, and if they don't you can show them how easily you'll go. A man with game is the opportunity and the experience for her. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:18 AM |
| 12 | I need your guy's insight on beginning game.What? What does a high five have to do with game? Bro, if you want a basic thing to practice I'll give you one. Go out and while your walking make strong eye contact(choose an eye it will help you hold strong eye contact better) with the people walking past you while saying hi. Youll never see these people your walking past again and even if you do whats wrong with that? Please stop the high-fives🙏 Can't believe your out here talking about high-fives. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Should I leave it alone with her having the last text here, or reaffirm that my position won't be moving and she can come to me? I really do think she genuinely wanted to hang with meOne thing that I'm very glad that you did was be honest. However, there was something wrong with the way you were interacting with her. First of all, what you could've done is expressed your intentions as soon as she got comfortable with you so that your time wasn't wasted waiting and anticipating. Next time you should really value your time. I want you to be honest with yourself when I ask, it seems as if you haven't known her for long are you sure your already trying to date her or did you jus… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | How can I make better moves when we’re both laying in bed together but she’s on the edge about sex?If she's on the edge about sex your probably too far ahead and impatient. There is mental side of sex so you have get her comfortable and make her feel like she could be vulnerable around you. This is because sex is the most vulnerable position a human can be put in and when they reach their climax that's basically them releasing and opening up. However, it has to happen within her mind first. Same would apply to you... if you weren't comfortable and felt on edge you'd probably struggle just let… | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do some women tend to post IG stories of them at a fancy place or restaurant but don’t show the guy they’re with? Just something I was curious about.She mightve taken advantage of him because he offered to bring her there. Plus, if this guy who took her to this place isn't very close to her why should she put him in the photo? The guy is obv not her boyfriend or else he probably should've been in that pic too. This is not to bash on girls because I bet if a cute girl randomly offered to take a man on a date(or anything tbh) he would do the exact same thing(human nature). | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:16 PM |
| 1 | talking to a girl againSimple... be honest with her and tell her your intentions. Do not beat around the bush. But, besides that talk to her like you normally would once you get her comfortable w/ you again assuming you were doing that nicely the 1st time. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | How to approach without giving out a thirsty vibe?Well then there you go you've just answered half of your question. You shouldn't be thinking about your looks at all when talking to a woman(tbh that's probably one of the last things I think about). If there are any things you can do to improve the way you view yourself by all means go ahead(whether that means getting a nice hairstyle, getting some fashion, or even earrings). Also, please don't confuse improving your looks for yourself with improving your looks for a woman. Anyways, another one… | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How to approach without giving out a thirsty vibe?It depends. She might just decide she's not attracted to you because she doesn't feel like your the type of man she's looking for(before she even gets to meet the real you) and if that's the case there's nothing you can do about it. But I can tell you from experience women will make exceptions based on the way you make them feel(leading to attraction). Now if they constantly think that your giving out a thirsty vibe there's something you need to fix about the energy you give out whether that's t… | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | How to approach without giving out a thirsty vibe?You are correct as well. When I say be patient there is a certain context that you must be patient in. Such as, in the beginning of the interaction with a girl or while getting to know more about each other. Patience allows you to chill out a bit and just wait until she becomes attracted to you. At that point, you don't need patience because that means she's down to do whatever w/ you whenever. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How to approach without giving out a thirsty vibe?Be patient and fix your energy most of the guys today are sooo impatient. All they want is sex sex sex. And if that is all you think about the moment you see her ofc your gonna be thirsty. Check the reply I made on this it should be the longest one in here. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 06:49 PM |
| – | How to approach without giving out a thirsty vibe?I know this is long, but if you really want to change this bear through it... You need to understand that it's all about the ENERGY even more so than what you say. This is true because... answer this, when the girl is not around you what is she gonna remember about you? Your energy/vibe or your words? Most likely your energy. How do you give off this energy you may ask... well I got you, my guy. How to give off good/authentic energy: Eye contact(now if you can't hold eye contact she will definit… | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 04:38 AM |
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