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Feminism is a socio-political movement and ideologies that aim to define and establish the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. If you dont know history thats fine but our vice president of America actively wants men to vote for our households so.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:51 PM
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Got any stats or just feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:52 AM
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Socio-political movements and ideologies that aim to define and establish the political, economic, personal, and social equality of the sexes. The definition. In case you were wondering.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:25 AM
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My main ick is if a man says he isnt a feminist. A feminist is literally someone who believes in equal rights for men and women. If you dont believe in equal rights for men and women then, in my mind, you are grotesque.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 11:21 PM
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😂 imagine saying you want someone to make you a list for household chores im a home you live in. Like brother... move back in with your mommy if thats what youre looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:52 AM
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That someone will love you for nothing. People dont just fall in love for no reason. I think you need to be a mix of Attractive Funny Kind Driven Affluent Intimacy Emotionally mature Romantic Companionship Similar life goals You dont need to have a 10 in every one of those and you arrange them from most to least important (and i am sure there are different parameters for everyone). Maybe you have a 2 in attractive and an 8 in kind and a 5 in affluence - whatever the make up is. But I dont think …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 01:51 AM
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I got called a terf in here because I said sexuality is a spectrum and I think if I as a woman find a vagina sexually appealing I think that makes me not straight. So I kind of think TERF just gets thrown around for any reason. I wasnt saying anything against anyone who is Trans. I just think if youre a man and youre sucking a cock then you have to be at least a little bi 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:51 AM
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I have a cousin who is proudly red pill and consistently complains about uggos and fatties on dating apps. He finally got a date with a woman who was so cute and sweet as pie and he found out she had a baby from a previous relationship. After their date he said he could never be with a single mom. 2 months later on Christmas he sobbed hysterically about how he was going to be alone forever when he stalked her on facebook and she had found a new boyfriend. Stay lonely boys! 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:42 AM
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We are different people and thats ok 🤷 He slept with people before me and I slept with someone before him. We lived life before knowing the other person even existed. As long as he doesnt sleep with anyone but me and I dont sleep with anyone but him going forward then I, personally, dont think it matters. Being faithful matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 01:33 AM
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Maybe... maybe we just arent going to agree on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:39 PM
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I am genuinely confused right now. You are saying that I, as a woman, am straight, if I am sexually attracted to vaginas?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:25 PM
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Helping me. Youre cute. Its actually cute that youre trying to talk down to me. Youre talking in circles and thinking that makes you look smart when in reality many women in here took it to mean exactly how I did. If youre the odd one out maybe you misunderstood hun. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:23 PM
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The comment i responded to was about the person liking or not liking vaginas by the way sooooo thats why i brought it up. Iunno.... I view sexuality as a spectrum. Its not black and white. But if you are straight then you wouldnt be attracted to same sex genitals. So if you are attracted to same sex genitals then I would say bi probably works best or a little bit gay but definently not straight. Being gay isnt a bad thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 12:18 PM
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Just.... everything you said is false... wow. Just wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:50 AM
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Brother what 😂 i, as a bi woman, enjoy vagina and penis. If I enjoyed vagina then I would be gay and if I enjoyed penis I would be straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:50 AM
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Very
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:48 AM
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Even if they have a penis? Because as a woman, if I see a vagina, and it turns me on then that means I like vagina and it is in fact gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:48 AM
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Or, perhaps, I did read it and do in fact align with a boss bitch who is independent, makes my own money, and is well educated and if thst intimidating to a man I find if funny af 😂 its cute youre trying to make me feel dumb and losing spectacularly 🩷 You never answered what exactly put them in their place means.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 11:46 AM
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If you are a man and you are turned on by a penis... then thats gay. 🤷 There is nothing wrong with saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:40 AM
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If someone is trying to control me then yes. Absolutely. I will go on about it 😂 if you are gonna stick up for this guy what do you think he means by putting them in their place?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:36 AM
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Why wouldnt I want to be with a man who doesnt open the door and pays for the first dinner? Because I genuinely want a gentleman. (I'm married and found one btw) But on my first date with my husband i spent 3 hours getting ready and he took me to a Chinese place and we ate and had a great time. He pulled out my chair, opened doors, and was so considerate and kind. Afterwards I bought us ice cream while we walked around. I just knew thats how I wanted to be treated because its how I saw my mom be…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:30 AM
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Because I am an independent educated woman who makes money, cant be controlled, and he said those women needed to be put in their place?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:23 AM
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Because bits on the internet say so? Look at that Mormon wife reality chick right now. She is being DRAGGED for assaulting her boyfriend and throwing a stool at him that didnt hit him (rightfully so btw because domestic abuse is domestic abuse) but look at Chris Brown and his thriving career. He beat a woman and still has a mostly male following. So it seems like woman often get held accountable more. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:22 AM
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Me personally? No. I had only had 1 long term relationships before him and a handful of dates but i never slept with any of them. My previous partner and I waited about 7 months. 🤷 Even if I had a ton of sex before him though I dont see why that would matter or how he would know. If I am in a relationship with him then my past relationships shouldn't matter just like his shouldn't. I wouldnt care if he had slept around before me as long as he took an std panel before sleeping with me as a long t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:19 AM
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I can understand why men dont want to pay for the first date and I know a lot of women who like going dutch but I know if a man doesnt pay for the first date he wont get a second date with me 🤷 I think everyone is just different. I also wouldnt be with a man who doesnt open doors for me. To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:58 PM
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What place would you like to put me? The men crashing out here because no one wants to fuck them is genuinely hilarious. Half the workforce is women and now that men cant buy us and have to focus on their personality they turn into whiny babies 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:55 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:03 PM
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She said "most women" not "all women" and I agree with her tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:14 AM
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Gasp! Are you saying that there are bad women!?!? Women arent out here thinking that other women are perfect mythical beings my guy. That sounds like some deplorable people doing something disgusting. We just know statistically men are our natural predators. They rape and kill us and our babies en masse.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:33 PM
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My husband worked while I went to school with the goal of doing just that. 🤷 Worked out great. We have always taken turns depending on babies and schedules though since we never wanted to send our kids to daycare.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:31 PM
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If thats how you feel then sure. But lots of men are capable of interacting with a woman without expecting anything. I said this on another post. A guy asked me out at the gym and I turned him down and now we are gym buddies and talk about anime and his new girlfriend even started coming to the gym with him. I was also hit on by a guy at a gas station and when I turned him down he threatened to light me on fire. One interaction was very very normal. One wasnt. I'm happy to have made a friend thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:29 PM
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Nah if I found out my man used to be an abuser he isnt my man anymore. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:24 PM
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I have my standards and if he isnt meeting them thats on me for allowing that and staying with him. I dont really care about his past relationships. I care about how he treats me. If I found out he was different with a former woman that would make sense because I'm not that woman so of course he treats us differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:23 PM
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Imagine rage baiting yourself with your own post because youre bored on a Monday 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:19 PM
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Genuinely, if you dont understand why women fear men, please stop interacting with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 10:17 PM
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Im the same. I like bubbly and happy people whether they are men or women. I hate a grump.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:28 AM
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Some women have standards and rules. I have friends who genuinely wanted to wait for marriage to have sex and they did. I have friends who considers a quick fuck a date. I made my husband wait 6 months and we have been together for over a decade. 🤷 everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:25 AM
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Because if he wanted to he would. 17 years with the same man and he still buys me flowers.... its literally the bare minimum lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 08:21 AM
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I actually do support capital punishment for similar crimes. 🤷 Im also very liberal. I think if someone murders someone without a good reason they should probably be put to death too. If I killed someone for revenge that means I would be accepting my own death. If someone sexually assaults someone they should be castrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:21 PM
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Gone are the days of offering a girl your jacket 😂 now its fiery death or nuthin
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 05:19 PM
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Im confused.... are you... are you confused why a grown adult survives more than a literal newborn? Do.... do you know how labor and delivery work... I'm not even being sarcastic. I'm genuinely confused by this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:38 AM
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My friend was dating a guy for 4 months and suddenly in the middle of sex he slapped her and spit in her face. She started crying because what the actual fuck. He said he thought she would like it because she reads romantacy novels. She broke up with him immediately and he cried and begged her to change her mind because, "He didnt even want to do it but his friends said its what booktok girls are into."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:35 AM
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Because parents arent doing their jobs and allowing children unfettered access to the internet. As a young millennial I understood why my parents didnt have blockers. The internet was still new. Shit when I was young we had dial up connected to our home phone 😂 They barely understood the internet. My kids have friends though and I'm the mean mom who makes everyone leave their phones in the living room because their parents dont have any types of blockers on their phones. These preteens are talki…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:32 AM
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I think maybe everyone should just go the therapy. 🤷 I think for me justified killing is a means to an end but being a sexual predator isnt. Like if someone killed my child I would kill them. No hesitation. But it would partially be for revenge and partially be so they never hurt another person. I wouldnt assault them for it. That does nothing. They would still be able to hurt someone else so what would be the point? There isnt one. I dont support killing but I can understand it. Assault? Makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:27 AM
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I notice you didnt define what femininity is 😂 Do you not know either?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:22 AM
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Not at all. I only get mad at their reaction when I turn them down. A man worked up the courage to ask me out at my gym. I politely turned him down and he said, "No hard feelings. I just had to shoot my shot ya know?" And I said I liked his Bakugo shirt and we talked about anime. Then I handed him my unopened aloe Vera juice and we went back to normal people being nice to each other at a space we share. I turned a man down while I was pumping gas, very kindly but firm because my baby was with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:12 AM
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No no. No no. The men in here say they are mad because hot babes wont aleep with them. There is a difference. Do you want me to explain it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:07 AM
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Women - Treat us like people not warm holes Men - HOW DARE YOU DEPRIVE US OF SEX! (This whole thread)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:06 AM
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Maybeeeeeee that says something about you then 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:07 AM
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What kind of source would you like? Google is free. 30% of gen Z women are queer af. It rises everything year.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:30 AM
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I was agreeing with you 😂✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:28 AM
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Red pill wants to force women to fuck undesirable men... and feminists want the right to equal pay and body autonomy..... yeah... thise seem equal 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:26 AM
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..... they.... they literally are. Like scientifically they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:16 PM
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I cant speak for all feminists but I and most feminists i know are sex positive. We just support the 4B movement because we are tired of being fleshlights for men. Lots of women are still having sex butttttttt now its often with other women. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:15 PM
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They do. Men absolutely experience sexual assault but over 95% of the time its from other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:12 PM
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I'm sorry that happened to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 02:11 PM
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Find your looks match who has something in common with you and similar hobbies. If you are a 2 and she is an 8 you better have something going for you. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:45 AM
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Look..... I'm just saying for all the normal dudes out there, most red pill guys are lonely assholes who talk a big game and often go home alone. 🤷 Try being nice and genuine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:42 AM
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Maybe you just choose good guys lol just always make sure youre safe! Have an out 🩷 There ARE good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:11 AM
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🩷🩷🩷 Thats my hope. Like I said its not like a deep seated jealousy that I think about daily but its a natural part of life to feel jealousy towards others. I genuinely have loved having boys. They're wild and feral and have this beautiful protective instinct of all things small. I love watching the little men they become and I cant wait for grandkids one day (they're all preteen/teens and the attitude is killer when you have living room kids 😂 so like maybe I can realistically wait 10 more years…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:07 AM
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If you feel that way be lonely and let women live happily. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:03 AM
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Men WILL fuck anything. I stand with the monitor lizard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:02 AM
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Men's biggest fear is getting catfished by an "uggo or fatty" and we are over here trying not to die or be raped. Men just dont want to understand at this point. Our natural predator is our biological mate and it sucks dude. My friend went on a Tinder date AND HAD HER SKULL BASHED IN WITH A HAMMER in the parking lot. Why? Because she didnt want to go back to his place and hook up. She is actively relearning her fucking ABCs at 36 because she survived thanks to a group of women walking to their c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:00 AM
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Because the short, fat, and ugly guy wont date a short, fat, and ugly girl and you guys are the ones who say that. 🤷 Time and time again in here men say they "deserve" a thin, young, beautiful woman but its unfair if a woman wants a man who is fit, has a full head of hair, and tall. If you are short, fat, and ugly try swiping right on women who are your looksmatch. Learn that women arent just a fleshlight to shove your tiny peen into but complete and whole people. I promise there are men who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:54 AM
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Or look up her name and view her posts 🤷 I stopped sharing evidence because it was a waste of time. I would spend time finding documented, scientific evidence only to be met with "Those are studies ran by women scientists so they dont count." "Well men know thats not true from life experience." "You can believe all studies." It get annoying after a while
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 10:51 PM
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I came here because I wanted to know more since I have 2 teenage sons who were talking about the manosphere and red pill. 🤷 I stayed because now I farm content from here and literally make a couple hundred bucks a month sharing to hundreds of thousands of women what incel men think. I'm married 17 years to my high school sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 08:52 AM
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And then after the comment telling her she is ugly or fat they will slide into her dms flirting and asking to meet up 😂😂 Truly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:26 AM
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Honestly the lonely incel babies just want to put us in our place because we wont sleep with them. Men in the realnworld who actually talk to living, breathing women know this strategy doesnt work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:25 AM
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Except telling the truth isnt gendered. We all have the expectation that we srent being lied to, no matter the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 11:41 PM
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Yeah that would make me have a dead bedroom for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:14 PM
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In normal functioning society the truth is expected. You dont assume people sre lying to you. Well... you might.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:13 PM
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Knocked out? Huh.... I see why youre an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:12 PM
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Once upon a time mods banned incel and black pill rhetoric lol since they stopped I have now stopped being nice and started talking shit back 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:12 PM
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Do you incels not know a lot of us do this for content? I do. The more insane you guys sound the better my shit does. I made $600 off a video of men in here crying no one will sleep with them and my comments were full of women saying we are happy to end your family line. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:10 PM
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No one owes a man a date. Women. Don't. Owe. Men. Affection. However if someone uses someone under false pretenses then yeah its the person fault for using someone. We dont blame the victim. Men arent victims because they arent owed a date. Women being used, lied to, or led on are owed common human decency because everyone is owed common human deceny. How do you not understand this? Are you 5? I feel like I'm explaining emotional intelligence, accountability, and right or wrong to my 5 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:06 PM
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The find someone who will and someone you think is a looks match or better yourself. 🤷 Its all about confidence. I have a friend who is obsessed with Jack Black and thinks he is so sexy. Everyone likes what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:49 AM
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I appreciate that I am not the only one who has never heard of this as a gendered issue. The only gendered work issue i have seen is women wishing we could get day 2 of our period off and we understand thats not feasible but damn does that day 2 fucking suck. Its like a constant crime scene, lightning crotch, sick to our stomachs, horrendous cramps, the period poops, the utter exhaustion, and stigma that if we complain about it we are met with "This is why women shouldnt be president." Like fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:40 PM
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My husband is 5'9 and when I met him he worked at Walmart 😂 women just want a kind man who makes her cum. Its not hard lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:27 PM
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I think its a huge welcome flex. More men should brag about being a good sexual partner and more men should call out bad guys who do t give a fuck about pleasing their woman but then complain they never get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:25 PM
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If your girlfriend acts like this she doesnt like you. Period. First date - My husband took me to a Chinese buffet and he paid. Then we went for a walk and got ice cream and I paid. Then we made out in the car and talked for 4 hours before he dropped me off at my house and we made plans to see a movie together the next day. I bought the tickets and he got the popcorn. Valentines day - This year I made him homemade chocolates, got him a steam gift card, and a new speaker for his gym. Anniversary …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:47 AM
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I dunno the type of women you have been with but most women I know have a job. For me i wanted a man who was as obsessed with me as I am with him. I found that. I wanted a man who worshipped the ground I walked on because I would literally grovel if he wanted me to. I have a great career and I'm a feminist. My standards were high and I found a man who met every single one. I wouldnt compromise and I dont think anyone, man or woman, should. Its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:31 AM
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I enjoy sex with my husband because he doesnt cum until I do and he makes me feel desired outside of the bedroom 🤷 a lot of my friends dont enjoy sex when their partner stops wooing her oitside of the bedroom and starts flat out demanding sex only to be a 2 pump chump who doesnt make her orgasm. Also it is for sure your algorithm. My for you page is just women being absolutely feral for their men 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 08:27 AM
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Did you make a whole post to brag about sleeping with a woman? Is that... what this is? Because no one is impressed bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 01:51 AM
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Thats not what they say... its the leading cause period. It beats out heart disease, pregnancy complications, and suicide. Youre wrong. Please read anything other than red pill bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:04 AM
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Pick one <image> They all say the same things. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:06 AM
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The screenshot didnt post.... hmmmmm....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:48 PM
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You could just google. I hate providing sources in here. If I do an .org its biased, a school study is woke, and a .gov is somehow always biased. * So. Google away my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:47 PM
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This whole post gave me the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:25 AM
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Maybe if we didnt see and know good men who take their mental health serious but there are good men who do. They just get snatched up fast lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:22 AM
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And the leading cause of pregnant women is what? Because that was my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:18 AM
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Not about dating but red pill like to bring up how easy women have it and how women should have more babies and then I point out the leading cause of death for pregnant women in America is homicide. So. 🤷 Some years it might go down to the second but then jumps back up. But... we have it easy and women are more violent than men somehow 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 06:42 AM
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I genuinely dont care much about looks but I DEEPLY care about hygiene! No BO, clean finger nails, clean hair, not a bunch of acne, clean teeth, and no bad breath. I also care about personality. I want a hype man, an adventure buddy, someone who likes anime, he has to be gentle and kind. The first time he yells at me will be the last time. He needs to adore my dogs. I want him to have an open and inquisitive mind. If I want to talk about the evolution of whales or big foot I want him to be an en…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:06 PM
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They all act like this too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:16 AM
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They just dont like us 🤷 simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:14 AM
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No credible evidence except the emails and the multiple women who have came forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:08 PM
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This. I admit that association with Epstein doesnt make you guilty because he had so many connections but multiple people said they went to the island and not one of them came forward about what they saw. The emails and correspondence shows us they were being blackmailed and bribed. Look... I'm not a rich woman but I know without a shadow of a doubt that no amount of money would stop me from reporting pedos hurting children. I know that to my core. Why didnt ANY of these rich assholes come forwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:05 PM
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For me, if there is 1 accusation with no proof thats questionable. However if there are multiple people (male and female) who have made similar accusations then I think that holds more weight. Especially if it is a criminal report rather than a lawsuit for hush money. So sure, 1 mention doesnt mean they are guilty. But multiple mentions, prior accusations, and out of court settlements, prove to me that there is more to the story. Just my 2 cents. Also, our President is a pedo and Musk begging fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:01 PM
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I wonder if socioeconomics is at play. I know a lot of pretty women who marry a man who ends up being a criminal and stays with them because socially, to them, thats seen as normal. I also know some women who make bank and they wouldnt touch a felony with a 10 foot pole. Where I grew up though is a small southern Texas town where most of the population is very poor. I genuinely dont know a single woman who dates a man because they are a criminal though. I think if women were attracted to the "ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:09 PM
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No. We really really really dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:50 AM
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Because thats what I said. I love Robert Irwin so I must love all men. I hate Casey Anthony so obviously I hate all women. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 09:00 AM
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We arent cowardly we just know we dont have to. Why would I chase a guy when I can post a cute picture on my social and have 15+ guys begging to take me on a date. 🤷 I'm not a coward, I just know how wanted I am. Maybe if it wasn't this way I would be more inclined but until that day happens I will let men come to me. Plus, I want the kind of man who can woo me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:18 AM
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I think red pill usually just hate women 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 12:09 AM
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😂 my husband was helping me put on my shoes while I was 8 months pregnant and his brothers called him a simp so to me that word has lost all meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 04:25 PM
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It wasn't a gotcha just genuinely curious
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:11 PM
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So should tummy tucks after pregnancy be a thing too? Women have to pay for our period products even though we cant stop having a period. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 12:50 PM
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I'm going to be frank, if someone I thought was my friend the whole time tells me it was only to date me that friendship for sure isn't worth keeping. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 09:10 AM
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Then say no 🤷 I've never had a problem getting a date or guys wanting to date me even with the 6 month rule. I'm up front about my wants and boundaries so it's not like im tricking someone. I'm saying this is what I want to do. My husband waited 6 months happily. I dunno what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 03:32 AM
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You said I wasn't entitled and I disagree.... where is the disconnect? I never mentioned SA.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 05:42 AM
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Not at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:19 PM
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We werent best friends by any means. We just had a friend in common and hung out in group settings while getting to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:18 PM
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I am entitled to someone being my friend and not wanting to sleep with me and if they try to I am also entitled to ending that friendship immediately for being made uncomfortable. Its almost like I have rights when it comes to myself and my body. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 10:13 PM
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The schizophrenic math guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 09:41 AM
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I know some women who do that and I love that for them but if I am going to commit to someone I want them to be exclusively dating me for 6 months before we have sex. I dont do flings and pretty much only date long term though. 🤷 I'm also not forcing him to be anything. I am open about my 6 month rule very early on. Some men have decided it wouldnt work for them and thats completely ok. We just move on and recognize we want different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:59 AM
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Different people i guess. 🤷 i want to fully date and be in a relationship for 6 months before sex. Again, literally never had a problem finding men. I also dont do flings and date exclusively long term and make that abundantly clear before I date someone. Full honesty has always just worked really well for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:55 AM
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Sure. I can actually explain this very very easily from a personal perspective. I met my partner by chance (little meet cute) and then found out he was a friend of a friend. We hung out casually a handful of times and became friendly with each other. Then we exchanged numbers and pursued dating. We built to it by having common interests, senses of humor, and hobbies. Vs my best guy friend who i had a huge messy fight with. We were friends for years. When I met him he had a girlfriend. He was fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:47 AM
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Or.... its not a game and its just people finding someone they love.... yall are weird on here tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 08:37 AM
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I never, not once, have slept with a man on the first date. Especially if it is my first time meeting him. I'm not putting myself in a position to be hurt or killed. I also have a good reason though because my friend went home with a man and he bashed her head in with a hammer. She went from a vibrant beautiful working woman to someone who lives with her parents, cant be a nurse anymore, and had to drink all her meals for over a year. I got to see firsthand how dangerous it is. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:47 AM
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Because I dont want someone who is my friend to want to have sex with me and then get jealous when I dont see him in the same way. 🤷 Its not hard to understand. Friendships are different than dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:42 AM
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And yet I always wait 6 months before sex and have never once had a problem finding a man begging 🤷 i enforce the 6 month rule because I dont want someone with me just because they find me attractive. I know I'm attractive. I work hard for the body I have and its mine to gatekeep. Men can do the same thing if they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:40 AM
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I dated a guy who did stock car racing and I will never do that again. Saw him crash twice and just couldnt do it. We broke up and about 6 years he died at 25 from a crash. Probably wouldnt date someone who did rodeo for the same reason. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 04:00 AM
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Always the women's fault. But when we say we wait 6 months to have sex we are being prudes and gatekeeping sex from "good" men. There is no winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:01 AM
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Women beg men to participate with their own children so I dont know what youre on about tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 07:17 PM
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No.... thats unrealistic. Just because Henry Cavil may be handsomer that doesnt mean i would leave my husband. I love him for all his wonderful qualities. Looks are such a small part of marriage. I love waking up and seeing his face everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 07:11 PM
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Ooooof? I'm objectively not the most beautiful woman. There are loads of women out there who are better looking than me. I did t say he wasn't attractive 😂 he just isnt the most handsome man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:24 AM
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Men in here act like its the norm and I dont get it. I know maybe 2 people who dont work. 1 is currently in school and living on loans and 1 her husband makes almost 300k a year. Literally everyone else I know works. I guess maybe not the older generation but they bought homes at 30k a pop and have lifetime retirement so I dont count them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:15 AM
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Honestly every year I see more and more women dating and marrying each other so yeah I guess so 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:13 AM
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You ca t just say something is a fact be ause you say so. A lot of bi men are happily married. 🤷 Maybe thats a you problem but I promise as someone with a lot of bi guy friends they are doing pretty great in the dating department 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:11 AM
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So he was never her friend and was trying to manipulate her into having feelings for him? Im glad she doesnt have such a snake in her life anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:09 AM
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Nah. I fixed it. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:07 AM
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Fixed it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:07 AM
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And yet incels will circle jerk all day in the comments and not get called out. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:04 AM
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If you cant have deemed that your relationship will change when you add a new human being to your home then dont have kids. If you cant accept that your wifes priority is no longer you but literally keeping a baby alive theb please for the love of God dont ever have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:03 AM
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You got a point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:58 AM
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I keep saying this. My husband is a complete nerd. I was prom queen. People used to say we were an odd pairing. But he was so sweet and kind. When I first gave him a chance it was because he was sweet and attentive. Then I fell hard and fast. Now I am obsessed, happily married, and we host weekly DnD nights for all his little nerdy friends. 🩷 He didnt get me because he played games or was the most handsome man. He got me because he was sweet, kind, genuine, didnt act like I owed him, and didnt p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:55 AM
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Stop it. A man with sense in this group! The incels are gonna crawl out and get cha! 😂 This used to be a great group with real discussions but its just turned into incels red pill men with cuck fantasies spamming hate. If women fight back the mods usually come after us so most of us stopped commenting. Edited because Igor is whiny. I disagree that men dont want hairless women. Why do I disagree? Because almost every man in here loses it when a woman says she doesnt wax her vagina to resemble a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 09:46 AM
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It didn't used to be this way. Its just incels now but when you fight back mods get mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 08:14 AM
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He should be reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:11 AM
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So.... You are taking advice from a man who sexually harasses young women..... thats... thats what I read. Right? He can give them an internship if they fuck him. He should be reported considering thats illegal and a gross abuse of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:10 AM
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Me. A woman who doesnt drink hooked up and married a man who also doesnt drink 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:06 AM
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That is wild advice. Approaching doesnt mean submission 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:05 AM
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"We shouldn't listen to women." Thats all you had to say. We know men dont listen to us. 🤷 Approaching is fine but just ask yourself would I approach a man to say hello. If no then leave us alone. Its almost like treating us as people is some novel idea. I dont mind being approached in the gym if I am waiting for a protein bar at a vending machine or if I am taking a break. I mind if I am in the middle of sprinting or lifting and have to stop to focus on a guy hitting on me. I never see guys int…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 03:04 AM
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Im not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:53 PM
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They dont know that because the "men" in here hardly talk to a living breathing woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:44 AM
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You know women dont actually care about height right? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:41 AM
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You dont honestly think this right? This is a bit? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:39 AM
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Thank god there is at least 1 person in here who thinks like me. Why would I want to stay young forever and why would I want someone younger than me by decades? I like growing old WITH my spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:36 AM
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Reading this makes me sad and understand why so many men are single in their old age. I'm over here enjoying the laugh lines and eye crinkles and Grey hairs of my husband because we have lived life together. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:34 AM
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I dont put a lot of stock into looks. I focus on how I am treated. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:07 AM
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There is an entire generation between boomers and millenials...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:23 AM
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Ew. That is 100% victim blaming. What is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:11 AM
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Ew. Ok incel. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:29 AM
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Youre reading this wrong. It says lifetime. Including past relationships with men. And women who are often physically hurt by men tend to search for a female partner so they arent hurt again. You simply dont ubderstand your own study. Also, nice chatgpt answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:28 AM
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Because when I goggle it I find the exact opposite of your claim so I assume one of us is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:24 AM
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Now look up the difference in how often lesbians kill their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:24 AM
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I know a lot of people are saying its gone but I truly believe its cultural. In large cities it is basically non existent. But a Mexican man from the hood will fuck someone up if they see a woman or child being attacked. Ive experienced that. Ive also seen cowboys in Colorado inserting themselves when a woman was attacked. 🤷 those are 2 things I've seen first hand so I know it still happens. Its just weak men who are too afraid to stand up for women and children. Those men are usually the ones w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:13 PM
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Men often say this but can never back it up bh a true sorce just some random manosphere red pill article. I would love to see real stats on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 05:22 PM
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Genuinely I have never approached a man before because I dont date based on looks. I like to get to know someone and become friends so every man I have dated has been a friend, a coworker, a someone volunteering with me, or someone involved in a similar hobby. 🤷 It has nothing to do with ego or pride its just... I have my safety to worry about at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:29 AM
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They cant keep getting away with this? Is that like a threat? Just say you dont like women and leave us alone. Date a man. Its obvious you think every woman is the same. Dont like us. Thats cool. I promise. No woman wants a man like you or any man that thinks like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 02:05 AM
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Because lying is generally viewed as wrong... what were you taught in preschool. If you wanna lie then lie but don't cry when you get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 09:56 PM
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I think it depends on how you look at intelligence. My husband works with explosives everyday and I wouldnt have the first clue how to do that. I catalog old library books and have a degree. We both enjoy discussing science though and we often can butt heads. Its nice having someone who even if he isnt 100% invested or knowledgeable about something is willing to either learn or listen to me talk about advancements in cloning. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:35 AM
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I think who you are as a person matters most. 🤷 I know men hate when women say that but I had a very handsome boyfriend with a great job and a horribly grumpy personality and I dumped him for my now husband who worked at Walmart at the time. Why? Because he was so fucking kind and sweet and just had a hapoy disposition.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:32 AM
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I just think she doesn't like you and it's time to move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:27 AM
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What kind of mental gymnastics is this? 😂 Youre just justifying lying to get what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:26 AM
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Well.... where are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 02:20 AM
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Thats just... a lie. A simple google search will give you the facts. I'm not wasting my time arguing with an out right liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:25 PM
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Well what kind of criticism? I feel like that's important context you left out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:32 AM
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Stay single and leave women alone. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:25 PM
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Wait.... I'm sorry but 40 hours a week is 40 hours a week. Sure a chemical engineer might make more but if they have the same hours outside of the house what is the problem with saying men should split household duties and child rearing? Most women work full time. Also more and more women are going into STEM workfields so while that comparison might have worked 40 years ago when women were only allowed to be secretaries that isnt how the world is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:28 PM
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This. The goku shorts thing was specific because it happened to me. Guy followed me to my car and when I turned him down he called me a tease and a bitch then told me I shouldn't flirt if I didnt want the attention. I was just trying to be nice. Now I dont compliment men in public anymore. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:47 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 youre actually hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:46 PM
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Can you tell my weight from online? Neat trick 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:43 PM
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What does that have to do with unsolicited dic pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 05:41 PM
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Cool. We love being left alone. There is a male loneliness epidemic for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:31 AM
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This might make sense if everyone didnt work now. Women are 48% of the workforce. Most household require 2 incomes. Most women are co-providing and still are the primary parent and household manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:27 AM
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Nope. Most of my friends are in the 6 months club. 6 months of dating before sex. I was the same and my now husband said he would wait forever for me. After that 6 months I was feral and we were married a little over a year later. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:22 AM
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Please no one listen to this. I chose my husband based on kindness and empathy. If a man isnt genuinely nice, kind, and engaged with me then I am simply not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:18 AM
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Increased sexual partners does not inhibit pair bonding. That is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:15 AM
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Honestly this is why i stopped talking to men in the gym. It felt like anytime I would strike up a conversation they would assume that meant I was flirting with them. Even if it was as simple as, "Hey I love your Goku shorts!" To a man that obviously means I am checking him out but as a woman it is incredibly common to compliment each other on clothes and strike up conversations based on shared interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:14 AM
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The way I have started sending all unsolicited dick pics to the police. In my state it is a form of sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:10 AM
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Its as simple as I dont want to be a sex toy I want a full well rounded relationship filled with romance, friendship, empathy, and lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:07 AM
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Honestly.... 100% agree. I dont know a single pretty girl with an old man if that man isnt rich. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:05 AM
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Hey, now, you leave Fight Club outta this lol, but honestly, I wish more men focused on their social circles. Make friends, interact with their families, and stop being so bitter that they dont have a woman to should all of their emotional baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:13 AM
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Or, counter point, thats how YOU feel and normal men actually like their significant others. 🤷 This post reeks of bitterness tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:11 AM
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Thissssssss
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:09 AM
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I think jealousy is just a normal part of life. I'm jealous when my friends have daughters. I adore my sons, but part of me always wanted a girl who i could do pretty braided hair, go to cheerleaders competitions, give my wedding dress, and teach about makeup. My neighbor got a new car, and I am jealous even though I have a perfectly good car that's not as pretty. I think jealousy becomes a problem when it becomes bitterness. If I hated my neighbor because she had a better car than me, that woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:06 AM
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He hates women because he can't get them, and instead of going to therapy, he wants to turn a debate subreddit into a guy cry circle jerk. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:01 AM
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So you would rather be alone than find a looks match for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:15 AM
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I live in a decent sized city and for me and the circle of people I know 6 months is pretty normal. 🤷 I'm a young millenial though so technically maybe gen z is different or we know vastly different types of people. But I promise that is a very normal amount of time to wait to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:11 AM
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Maybe thats why men are lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:20 AM
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Most women have this rule... its super common. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:40 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:39 AM
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And uh how often have you seen that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:41 AM
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Thats what I've been saying lol these red pill cucks go on about how often women hook up with Chads, and I dont think they understand women usually dont have these crazy one night stands they imagine. Then, when she doesn't want to sleep with them, they get upset. Most of my female friends have a 2-6 month dating rule lol of all my friends I think only 1 has frequent sex but she is a female soldier who is surrounded by men in a high stress situation. Other than her, not a single woman I know is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:39 AM
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🤷 my husband did happily lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:33 AM
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When men start holding other men accountable for raping and murdering women, children, and babies then I truly believe more women will care about male loneliness. Right now we are just trying to live our day to day lives and keep our kids safe. We see rapists get let go constantly. The guy in Oklahoma recently, Diddy, and so many more. Want women to advocate for men? Give us a reason to. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:32 AM
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..... how is that a slave at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:29 AM
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A golden retriever nerd who doesnt have a mean bone in his body. Gentle, kind, and sweet. Road rage and jealousy are huge turn offs. Is a feminist. Is my hype and yes man. Not a couch potato. Loves dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:11 AM
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I think marriage is signing away autonomy but realistically with laws the way they are it makes sense for medical reasons and taxes. 🤷 And personally, most of the men in here complaining about the male loneliness epidemic arent focused on therapy, church, sports, family, or friends, and even say its because they arent having sex. There was a whole post on here about how women should be drafted to be raped like men are drafted into war to fix the male loneliness epidemic. So yeah. I think it's co…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 10:18 PM
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Things on my list - We need to have similar hobbies. Kindness Gentleness Willingness to adventure Feminist Similar political ideals Not a couch potato Treats me like a princess Loves animals Strong family values A yes and man Taller than me (I am 5 foot. Its not hard lol) Similar type of humor Be my hype man Loves affection Has a full time career If he isn't those things, then it's a deal breaker lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:42 PM
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Things on my list that I found in my husband that have 0 to do with looks - We need to have similar hobbies. Kindness Gentleness Willingness to adventure Feminist Similar political ideals Not a couch potato Treats me like a princess Loves animals Strong family values A yes and man Taller than me (I am 5 foot. Its not hard lol) Similar type of humor Be my hype man Loves affection Has a full time career
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:42 PM
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I agree with some of those and can recognize some are jokes, but sure, some of those are offensive... but no more than the red pill men I see on here with their old enough to bleed old enough to breed jokes and defending 16 year olds being "prime" breeding age. Maybe some people just sucks. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:30 PM
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Seriously?! Its so common here. I personally know dozens of women who are approached. Promised good lives and then when I talk to them I explain that a cashier at best buy isnt going to be the dream life they think. (I live in the states)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:23 PM
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Honestly thats why I think they do it. Isolation. It's scary being in a foreign country and not being able to speak the language. It purposefully makes it harder for them to leave. Especially if the men dont allow them to work and make their own money. Then they are just stuck being abused. There are quite a few organizations specifically to save women from these types of marriages, and while the government doesn't care much about abusing women, they care a lot of immigration fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:22 PM
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Uh huh... or.... counter point - I enjoy dating men who are nice to me 🤷 I know. The audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:09 AM
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And if I'm not treated like a princess I wont go on another date. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:03 AM
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And this mentality is why women have been imposing a 6 month rule before having sex when dating 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:59 AM
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Ok. Good for you, I guess lol the women will continue going on dates and being treated like princesses by the men, so if some men bow out that cool, we can date other women. If you dont want to do that, then find someone who wants less 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:57 AM
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I would support passport bros more if they would stop beating their wives. 🤷 It's super common. I am from South America and have seen these men isolate girls (because passport bros often want young teenagers) from their families. Is it all of them? No, but it's enough that it's widely known and common. It's transactional at the end of the day. She wants him for his money, and he wants her for her youth and beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:55 AM
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No really... I want you to explain what you mean because what the actual fuck are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:00 PM
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Wtf are you talking about?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 06:59 PM
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.... women arent mass raping, assaulting, and murdering people...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:22 AM
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Not all men but almost always a man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:22 AM
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But yet men dont want to stop other men and hold them accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:20 AM
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But.... a man rapeing a woman is his fault... why do men not want to accept and understand we are rightfully nervous about being raped and abused? Like its some small thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 02:13 AM
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.... A single mom is the parent who stayed and its common to gain weight and get stretch marks when you have a baby 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:41 PM
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Im always down for a good debate 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:38 PM
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Because its true?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:06 PM
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Some of the things I said were direct quotes from what I've seen men say in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 09:06 PM
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4, 3, 2, 1
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 06:36 AM
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I think if he is ok with her being with him for money and she is ok with him being with her for her beauty then who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 04:14 AM
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Iunno man... the more I see, the less safe I feel. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:53 AM
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No one is forcing you to be friends with anyone. Enjoy your male loneliness epidemic my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 11:52 AM
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Having a female friend. The horror. The absolute horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:16 AM
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..... I'm talking about consent. The fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:16 AM
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I have learned from the men in here they dont like us, just want to have sex with us, and somehow want us to pay for their lives but not work. 🤷 This sub has taught me men are a lost cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:14 AM
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Most women I know support legalizing sex work. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:13 AM
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.... sir... lots of people contend that. Wtf. Just scroll down...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:10 AM
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But we tell men we want supportive, kind, and emotionally mature men, and they crash out 🤷 yall arent listening.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:09 AM
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..... excuse me what?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:03 AM
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I think you dodged a bullet. 🤷 My husband lived with his parents and that was cool with me. Heck. We moved in with his mom after we had a baby just for the extra support. Perhaps its a cultural thing though 🤷 I am from a big Mexican family so its very normal to live with parents until you have enough to buy a home.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:13 AM
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A woman needs a job to pay for food and housing. In no way does a man NEED a woman to date him to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:08 AM
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....female consent shouldn't be male or female.... consent should just be the norm. Period. What a weird argument. Consent isn't a male or female paradigm. Its just... consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:07 AM
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I have had both unattractive and attractive men cold approach. The ONLY times it has worked is when we engaged, talked, hit it off, and made a connection. When I was looking at board games at a card shop recently, I was approached 2 times. 1 man was rude and condescending, and one was kind and sweet. Guess who I engaged with? The rude guy was way cuter, sure, but he came up and started talking about easy games for girls to understand and asking if my boyfriend dragged me along. Then he joked abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 01:03 AM
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.... just be a kind human. Why is this hard to you guys? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:50 AM
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Is that what you have to tell yourself instead of going to therapy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 08:10 PM
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Red pillers dont like women. Period. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:24 PM
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And look at South Korea and their birth rate. I hope we in the west bring it even lower 🤷 4B movement is alive and well 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:38 AM
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Most women i know have really good and solid female friendships....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:33 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:31 AM
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Kindness, gentleness, and humorous.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:29 AM
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When you have a conversation about being exclusive and the other person agrees that they want to be exclusive. That's it. It's that easy. Communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:27 AM
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Also, why would he want us to go to a nude beach if he got jealous? Wouldn't we just go to a normal beach?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:25 AM
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Considering how often men get arrested for wanking in public imma say hard pass. If that wasn't an issue, then I wouldn't care if men walked around naked if they could control themselves. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:24 AM
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If you wanna wear tight booty shirts to the gym do it bro. No one is stopping you. Believe in yourself and have confidence to wear cute clothes. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:22 AM
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Thisssss. I dont really see a lot of influencers because my timeline is - baking, cooking, cats, books, video games, news, and cryptids. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:20 AM
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Sure about some things, but I just dont let it affect my life 🤷 i know when I look at an influencer, she is "fake". Most influencers have started being transparent. They have veneers for those perfect teeth, lasers for acne, lashes professionally done every 6 weeks, and a hair stylist that costs 1k as a starting price. I'm just a regular schemgular girl. But I know I have a wonderful husband, fantastic kids, a roof over my head, food in my belly, a car that runs, and a warm bed sooooo I'm happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:18 AM
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Cause we like ourselves for more than our looks 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:12 AM
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Just say you hate women and move on. Date men and leave us alone 🤷🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:11 AM
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Brother.... get off dating apps. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 07:09 AM
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It used to be a debate forum but they shut down the red pill and black pill subreddit because too many men were talking about, planning, and exchanging tips on how to rape women. They have all moved over to here now, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:13 PM
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I truly dont care if men lust after a woman. I just want men to stop raping, assaulting, and murdering us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:11 PM
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I see what you did there 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:09 PM
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That was the point 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:09 PM
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I support sex work, but I probably wouldn't date a man who pays for sex. 🤷 mainly because I dont think men can't get laid. I think men have given uo and stopped trying, so most women I know personally have started sleeping with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 03:07 PM
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Sadly, that would mean men care about women. They dont. They prove that to us daily. They dont even like women as a whole. 4B is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:03 AM
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Thats the biggest betrayal to you? 🤣 Are you 16? Go to bed and be kind to your mother. The biggest betrayal for me would be, "I'm married." Or "I'm HIV positive."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 05:00 AM
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Then what was the point of this post? Just needed a place to cry and crash out? Im confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 04:56 AM
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So.... you're just against women being perceived as sexy if they consent to it? Take away all the fluff, and that's basically what you are saying. Sounds like you have an issue with consent my guy.....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 08:39 PM
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😭 not my music being literally everything. Today on the way to the store I went from metal, rap, 00's screamo, musical, weird sweedish band, jpop, country, to techno 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:00 PM
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I want the man who I have sex with to like me. Its as simple as that. If my husband didnt help around the house, didnt woo me, didnt care about my emotions then yeah. I wouldnt want to fuck him. That doesnt mean I dont enjoy sex but why would I have sex with someone who doesnt even like me? They want a wife, treat me like a wife. If I am dating though those household chores arent half your responsibility. Those children arent half yours and i expect nothing from a man I am dating but to woo me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:00 AM
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But if its multiple people.... maybe its a you problem and not a "women" problem. 🤷 common denominator and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:57 AM
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Personally, when I hear women saying porn creates unrealistic expectations, it's not about their bodies but the sex itself. Porn sex isn't about pleasure. it's about the shot. Most porn stars say that they fake their orgasms because a good shot will be uncomfortable af. So men watch porn and think they can jackhammer into a woman for 60 seconds, and if she isn't screaming out in pleasure and orgasming somethings wrong with her, and she is a bad lay. That's not how sex works, but porn is entertai…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 06:32 PM
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But that's according to you because women dont have an issue finding a man. 🤷 My divorced friend with kids has men literally begging her to let them take her out 🤣 if she can do better, why wouldn't she? If she doesn't need to stay in her SMV league, then why would she?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:53 PM
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Then, find someone in your looks match league and make a similar paycheck to her. 🤷 if not, she settled. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:50 PM
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So... you just dont like women? You can just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:49 PM
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And then what they offer is, "I hate feminists. I never pay for a woman on a date. Wah! I only date virgins. No single moms! My mom says I'm a catch. I'm a nice guy." All while expecting a woman to fuck them on sight. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 12:46 PM
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She was joking and including you.... why are you being combative and weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:36 AM
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It depends. Current day where I can work and provide for myself? Peasant. Ye olden times in lands of kings and peasants i would want a king simply for health reasons. They lived drastically longer and the mortality rate for children was significantly lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:35 AM
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Honestly if the men in here wanna be pigs and fuck around and find out i say let em. I saw a guy get his teeth literally kicked in by 7 guys for touching a woman without her permission lol its the very opposite of this weird online mentality of men saying its not their problem. The men there MAKE it their problem 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:40 PM
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I mean.... you didnt provide stats you just said it. Did you know that every purple starfish loves peas more than pumperknickle bread! There's stats to back it up! Believe me. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 10:42 PM
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OK little buddy. Get off the internet and talk to people in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:13 PM
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Im convinced we dont get pockets because consumerism and it makes us have to buy purses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:08 PM
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No woman is wearing heels for functionality. We have to literally train our feet to handle the pain. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:07 PM
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For me, I generally think location matters on how i view someone wearing something "sexy." If I saw someone wearing a mesh top showing full nip at Walmart around kids, I wouldn't find it sexy at all no matter how their body looks. I would find her weird and gross. At a rave, though, that is a fairly common thing to see, and it's hot af. There are lots of scantily clad women, but there is also a rave culture that men in here would call "simp/white knighting." It is very, very common for strangers…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 08:04 PM
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Except the men who are "good" at attracting women and are making pick up artist content are normally all single 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:53 PM
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No, they arent. I know maybe 2 people in real life who met on dating apps. Dating apps are great for hook ups but most of the people I know in long term relationships met through friends, work, hobbies, or a third space.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 07:38 PM
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Darn I wanna know what it said lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 01:47 PM
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I couldn't agree more! I met my husband through friends and every boyfriend prior I met in person. I HATED online dating. There are still lots of 3rd spaces to find people too. You just gotta leave your house lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:59 AM
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I guess I dont see how women get preferential treatment at all in our society. 🤷 I think men do across the board, but it's changing slowly. As time goes on, I hope to see equality. I dont blame men in general for it, though, because it is just society, and it takes decades for society to change. Women make 80 cents to a man's dollar, but it used to be 30 cents. Every year, more and more money is being spent for women's healthcare, and now men will even have their own birth control so women won't…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/25 08:56 AM
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I dunno what to tell you. I know a lot of women dating or married to men ubder 6 feet. 🤷 My husband is 5'8 and I think he is the sexiest guy in the world, so.... To me, this "tall guy" idea is pretty strictly online only.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:32 AM
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Your love and lust ebbs and flows with anyone long term. It doesn't ALWAYS have to be at a 10 because in a long term relationship, you experience life's highs and lows together. This idea seems to be online only that you have to be sexually attracted to your partner at every moment. When my husband had to have a colonoscopy, I wasn't particularly lusting after him. He chugged a gross drink, and I held the bucket while he puked. Then he shit his brains out, and i played music really loud so he wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:27 AM
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Men seem to care a lot more about height than women 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:06 AM
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Ew. It was obviously sarcasm, you weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 07:04 AM
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No, not just dishes, but even though I love and desire my husband I don't constantly want to jump on him because we are both functioning adults. If I spend the day being climbed on by our children while working full time from home and then have to cook a meal that i plan with the groceries I buy and then do the dishes and clean the kitchen and take out the trash and give everyone baths and help with homework all while my husband plays video games by the time the kids are in bed I'm not going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 10:18 PM
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But its not a reward. I cant be in the moment and having a good time if I know i have a sink full of dishes, laundry, and a million other things that need to get done on top of working full time. If a man wants a woman to work then he should take on half of the household duties. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:04 PM
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Nah. My husband realized pretty early on if im not spending all my time cooking, cleaning, and chasing after kids by myself, I initiate sex much more often. It comes down to those "chores" being on one person. If im spending all my time doing those things AND working full time, I simply won't have enough hours in the day and sex is the last thing on my mind when I have a list of shit I gotta do. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 03:01 PM
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He just... likes me. He likes spending time with me. He takes interest in everything i do. He is a full on cheerleader for me. He also makes me breakfast in bed every weekend, always drives, buys me just because gifts or treats, is just always thinking of me. He never tells me no. If I wanted to paint my living room walls pink and have yellow frilly curtains, he would support me. When I bring home a new puppy or chicken or goat, he is ready to build them homes and love on them. When other women …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 06:05 AM
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I do a lot more for him and he does a lot more for me lol but sure, if you fuck and kiss your friends you do you. I enjoy being friends with my spouse and saying he was desperate because he wanted a high maintenance woman and can afford the time, money, and emotional space to get her makes you sound super insecure. 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:10 AM
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Right 🤣 He's my best friend, and i have sex and kiss. If you aren't gonna be friends with your spouse... why get married at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 01:06 AM
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I dunno what backwards bullshit this is, but I only dated men who treat me like a princess, and the man I married treats me like one too 🤷. In return, he gets my support, love, admiration, and consideration. I understand why so many women initiate divorce, and I'm the type of girl telling them they can do better and to ditch the crusty man with the emotional intelligence of a rug. There are men out there who will treat you like you're the prize. Men in here say a good man is a "simp" while cryin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:50 PM
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Thats not true. Afghanistan in the past couple years women have in fact been committing suicide en masse ever since the Taliban took over again. Better to be dead then a sex slave. They also threw their babies over barbed wired fences before taking their lives when America pulled out. We failed the wome of Afghanistan.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:24 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:10 AM
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To you, this is a sick thought experiment. To women, we watched it play out in Afghanistan, and it's our lived experience. That's not being a smart ass. That's being cruel to your "best friend." Truthfully, if my husband wanted to play this, what if scenario with me, it would set off so many red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:07 AM
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To answer your question though this is all pretty much currently happening in Afghanistan and if you want to know how women reacted to it they threw all their babies over barbed wired fences, started committing suicide, started preforming home abortions, and have been desperately trying to escape every second. You dont have to have this thought experiment. It's literally happening you sick weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:04 AM
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No it proves that they care more about personalities than looks. Im bi. I dont choose a woman based solely on her looks but it sounds like men sure do. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 09:01 AM
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And yet youre fucking married but openly bragging g about being an asshole to her for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:59 AM
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Why would you be an ass to your wife on purpose? Gross behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:56 AM
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Yeah, we are a hive mind when all the red pill men in here spouting the same bullshit on repeat cry themselves asleep because they're alone 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:54 AM
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A lot of the women I know in real life would be considered fat in here and do great with men/are married. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:52 AM
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"Fatties" 🤣 Maybe they just have good personalities, my guy. I have a lot of curvy friends who do fantastic with men. While the dudes in here are crying, women dont want them, women of all shapes and sizes are out living their best lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 08:50 AM
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Some of the most recent studies done were from 2024... You have google. Use it before arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:24 AM
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No no. There are countless studies done on this and every time married men are happier and have better health.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:23 AM
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Ew. Because all women automatically have debt 🤣 Also... do men not think their beauty fades too?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:22 AM
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Research suggests otherwise, but sure, ok 🤷 Across the board married men commit suicide far less than single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 02:20 AM
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Where do you want them to go? A group of random guys bought me and my friends 2 bottles of wine at freakin Olive Garden lol We dont ask for it, it just happens 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:17 AM
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All the current info is here. On average men work 33 more minutes than women and women make up 47% of the entire workforce. What fantasy do you live in? Stop listening to alpha podcaster bros. https://www.bls.gov/news.release/atus.nr0.htm?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:31 AM
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Brother... I have sons. I am out there participating and volunteering my time with the other moms to boys. Where are the dads? Most moms are like, "He likes to come home and play video games." While we are teaching our sons how to hit a baseball and learn a freakin sport none of us kniw anything about but if we dont do it then it doesnt get done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:28 AM
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And I'm a librarian at a school who is also a mom. What's your point? Im literally telling you that the things I named are all ran by moms. Moms are out there. That's nice that dads go through the pick up line. Do any of them volunteer their time? If they do at your school thats awesome! My kids range from elementary to middle school, and it's been the same across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:26 AM
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Yes. Because I have a job that has downtime and I argue with random alpha bros, that means my marriage at home is obviously not happy. Wtf are you talking about? 🤣 Quite a few women who are in here have found each other in girls only groups on facebook. Also, I genuinely make an income sharing the insane things men say in here on social media. I have been open about this. I am a game streamer with an ok following. No where near 1 mil but over 100k. At this point, arguing with you guys is a side …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:13 PM
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I dont think there is a set time limit to get to know someone. I wait 6 months for sex. Period. No wiggle room. If I'm going to have sex with someone, it's because we are both interested in a long term relationship. I think science has proven time and time again that pretty people, no matter their sex, are often treated better not only by the opposite sex but also by their same sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:06 PM
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They want us to fuck them. Thats it. That's their only goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:00 PM
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I'm one of those moms who runs shit. Trust me, we welcome all dads. We try to get dads involved. On the off chance a dad brings his kid he usually sits in his air conditioned car while we do all the work. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:59 PM
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What exactly arent men getting?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:58 PM
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Well I was talking about children and lifting men up when they are boys but sure... your little leagues are run by men. Thats nice dear. Also, 47% of the workforce are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:56 PM
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The work force is almost split perfectly down the middle for full time working adults, at least in America 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:53 PM
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Lemme... lemme get this straight... you are measuring how much I care based on whether or not I read almost 200 comments? Is that.... is that your stance?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 05:51 PM
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Yes. Obviously, it's my bad for not meticulously reading almost 200 comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:45 AM
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Why dont more men step up if they are worried about this? Do you know who runs my son's baseball team at school? The moms. Track? Moms. Boy scouts? Moms and maybe 2 dads. When I take my son to volunteer? It's just moms. The library? Moms. Tutoring center? Moms again. Sure, some of the moms might be stay at home moms, but the vast majority aren't. They spend all day at work, then take their children to things. Most grown men I know work, come home, play video games, and whine if they have to leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:32 AM
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Why is body count so important to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:24 AM
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We aren't dating the ones we hate. Men told us to choose better, and now we do. A lot of women's "hate" comes from fear. And we have statistically every right to fear men due to men assaulting, raping, and murdering us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:22 AM
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Well, the post is specifically about 18 year olds 🤣 and I think passport bros are just guys finding women they can buy, aka sex slaves. It's not lost on us that it's mainly poor countries men go to and get the youngest woman they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:32 PM
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👏👏👏👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:48 AM
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All i hear is men want a sex slave who is preferably a teenager. Gross. The loneliness epidemic isn't making them lonely enough tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:46 AM
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I am convinced, and you can't change my mind that older men who want to date 18 year olds only want them because they want to date as close to children as they possibly can without legal recourse. If the age of consent was 15, they would be with a 15 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:42 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:36 AM
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I think there are real issues that men face, but I dont think there are any men's rights movements j can get behind. Circumcision - Normalized genital mutilation. It happens a lot due to religion, and medically, there is absolutely no reason for it... however... I often see feminists fighting against this and being told their woke libtards. Also, female genital mutilation is a lot more common than people think. I live in America, and it is pretty widely practiced here even if people dont talk ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:35 AM
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Ah. I see i was being nice to an alpha bro. My bad. Lemme meet your energy. You are ridiculous. 6 months is pretty normal, especially when you are looking for a long term partner and not a fling. Men like to say they only want women who arent run through but then think its ok to fuck on the first date. You are the type of man who would sleep with others. You are the type of man who wouldn't wait that long. No man has to wait 6 months, but I only sleep with a man who would. And, just so you know,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:16 AM
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I was being bratty, but apparently, you are new. So when there are questions or posts not directed to you, there is this mod comment where you can respond with anything. Even if you aren't the right flair or you agree or you just wanna say something pertaining to the post, this is where you donit at. If you make a normal post that you aren't the targeted flare, they remove it, so just make sure you put it under this mod comment thats on every post. Hope that helped! And it wasn't a joke. My rule…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:59 AM
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..... are you new? Read the mod post. You can reply with anything under it including off topic jokes, if you are a different flare, or literally anything. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:25 PM
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I wait 6 months. Never had a problem keeping a boyfriend, and my husband was happy to wait. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:43 PM
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No one is complaining when strangers don't approach us except guys lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:42 PM
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Really.... have you read any of the posts in here? You're putting down women because you obviously dont like them, please, I implore you, date men, and leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:11 PM
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Then dont and stay alone 🤷 women arent crashing out because no one wants to be with them and if women want a man, it's easy to find one on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:40 AM
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Or, maybe, they fall in love with someone else. 🤷 this idea of finding a man who will foot the bill is wild. No one forces men to be with single mothers and yet single mothers often dont have an issue finding guys who want to be dad's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 10:35 PM
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Even though men are often the ones who abandon their kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:31 PM
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I think it's person by person. I have had higher libido than some male partners and lower than others. My husband and I have compatible libido so thats pretty nice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:30 PM
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I also think men call dead bedrooms dry spells. When I give birth the last thing I want is sex. I just pushed a human out of me. Im recovering, covered in baby throw up, my nipples are hurt and cracked from breastfeeding, and I'm lucky my husband is ok having a "dead" bedroom for a few months. I think he is because he is a hands on parent. He is also exhausted lol. When I see men complaining about dead bedrooms because they havent had sex for 6 weeks because their wives gave birth all I can thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:27 PM
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Yeah, he is nowhere near them. I probably shouldn't have put him after Theon, tbf. I was just word vomiting and typing what I could remember. I always felt bad for Tyrion, though. Especially how his father treated him just for being born. Fuck his dad who's name i cant remember lol and dont get me wrong he is witty and funny. I think he has the highest kill count behind Danny, though. Jamie made me so mad. All that redemption just to throw it away. I ALMOST started liking him when he fought for …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:44 PM
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Kissing him wasn't my intention after I asked him out on a date and paid $100 bucks for some tickets to something I had absolutely no desire to see? This is what I'm talking about. We can't do anything right to you guys. Somehow, no matter what, women are at fault and its never men's personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:33 PM
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Admittedly, I do watch the news even though everything is always on fire 🤣 You and I will have to agree to disagree when it comes to great art. I dont think GoT is necessarily great art, but I do think it's entertaining. I think there are quite a lot of popular works that have no good guys. The godfather - everyone is a criminal Wuthering Heights - Everyone is awful and selfish American Psycho - A serial killer Macbeth - power, murder, insanity Breaking Bad - drug lord Just a few that come to mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:28 PM
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Honestly, I haven't watched it in a long time, but things I remember not liking about him - It was his idea to use the wildfire and killed so many people. I didn't love that he killed Shae when she was trying to survive in a political world that he thrust her into. He talks about poverty and showing compassion, but he often chooses trial by combat and then gets someone else to fight for him, which is literally him using his station. Also, he knows Cersei! He knew her better than almost anyone. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:18 PM
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I think a certain type of man believes that. <image> This seems relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:02 PM
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If she likes you, she will pursue you. I kissed my husband first. I invited him out first. I had an "extra" ticket to a dirt bike rally.... I didn't even ride. He did 🤣 I bought those tickets specifically to invite him. If he said no, I was gonna give them to my cousin. Women do a lot when they like you. If you're saying they dont do it for you, then that sounds like they aren't doing it FOR YOU. At the end of the date, we sat on my porch and had sodas. He asked if he could taste mine, made a jo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:00 PM
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Enabled women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:53 PM
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I think that GoT was popular due to the mutli perspective timeline that appealed to bpth men and women. For instance, I didn't enjoy Rob's storyline. However, I loved Arya's and Jon's. I wethered through Ramsay to watch Sansa grow. It's constantly changing and developing. Personally, I dont think the shows sex is what keeps viewers coming back. Sure, Drogo was objectively hot, but it never escaped my mind that he bought a young girl and raped her. Jon Snow is handsome but I dont remember him bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 04:51 PM
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Well, it is hard. Sure. Women can find a date easier, but women also have to be more selective due to safety concerns. So. While men are crying because no one wants to be with them, women are crying because they get raped, molested, assaulted, maimed, and murdered by men on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:25 AM
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Man I always see you hating on women for the dumbest reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:23 AM
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I can tell you very easily what's changed. Women have our own careers, bank accounts, and money. We do not have to rely on men anymore. Now we need a reason to be with men because modern men bring almost nothing to the table. A modern man makes as much as us, he is emotionally stunted, and expects gender roles without offering anything in return. Men told us they didn't want to pay for dates anymore and stay at home mom's were lazy. Now we are school and career focused, and men are crashing out …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 05:21 AM
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So you guys would rather be alone then compete? 🤣 But then men get mad at women for wanting to stay single...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 03:04 AM
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So red pills are mad because they dont want to invest in a woman because she might have not made another man do the same? Is this all just about competition?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:02 AM
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Maybe youre attracted to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:36 AM
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Same. I think I'm pretty and mid-sized at 8-10 in jeans. My husband is 5'8. We both work. We both parent our kids. We play video games together. We have a fantastic sex life. Most of my friends who are married are just normal people too. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:33 AM
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I had this same question, and often, the men in here say they dont want someone in their league. They will admit that they aren't attractive or have a good body, but they won't date a woman unless she is a 9-10. The average man in here doesn't want an average woman. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:31 AM
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I will never understand this idea of jumping through hoops as bad. If you dont want to be with her find someone with lower standards and less hoops. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:24 AM
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Yesssssss. I am convinced it's an op. Im convinced that men are telling other men to give up and that they'll never fix themselves or be desirable, so they should give up. Women are screaming into the void what we want in a partner, and time and time again, we are met with, "Women only want tall men." I also think it's a marketing ploy. Conveniently, a lot of the red pill bros will talk about how women only like muscular men, so "buy this protein!" Women don't like bald men, so, "Buy this hair g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:21 AM
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.... what? You said 1800... it hasn't even been 50 years. Wtf are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:52 PM
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I already am. It's not as uncommon as men think. I have 2 friends who escort/do porn and 2 friends who are OF workers. None of them do it because its easy money, btw. Friend A does it because she loves sex and is a single mom. She also has a full time job, and escorting is her side hustle that brings in more than her regular job. Through her regular job, though, she has healthcare for her kids and other perks since she has worked at the same company for 5 years. Friend B loves sex, is polyamorou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:18 PM
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.... Because it wasn't until 1974 that women were allowed to open their own bank accounts without a man or have a credit card in America. That was when the law passed, and many banks didn't actually put it into practice until the mid 80s when they started being fined and sued. It hasn't even been 50 years, so almost everyone's mom or grandma has experienced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:57 PM
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You're proud of being an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:48 PM
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Because everyone is entitled to niceness.... what a strange take. You owe me if im a good person and treat others kindly. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:07 AM
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I dont think you understand what the male gaze is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:06 PM
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For me, it's usually 4-6 months before I have sex with someone I'm dating. Once I am emotionally invested, though, all bets are off, and I am feral. I think everyone woman is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:23 AM
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2x a week is a pretty good sex life ..... some married hetero couples have sex twice a month 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 04:18 AM
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So do you think sending death threats and threats to rape someone is ok? Because I've never recieved that from a woman. My husband has never recieved that from a woman or a man. I have from men though. Saying something condescending in a comment is different from threats.... You have to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:51 PM
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I will be honest I didn't know what that was, but a quick search showed me that they are being mocked by other men. Actually, i scrolled and scrolled and didn't see a single woman criticizing it. I think men would widely mock them because they are categorized as "kind and gentle men who are indifferent to desires of the flesh." Tbh that sounds wonderful. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:19 PM
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I always say this when passport bros talk about how great other cultures are because they oppress women.... like cool story, bro... go there. No one is stopping you. I would donate to buy you a one way ticket tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:15 PM
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Hearing someone defend the taliban was new for me in here. Do they not realize a terror organization never has anyone's best interest in mind? There are so many videos of Afghan women tossing their baby girls over barbwire fences to American soldiers because they knew the taliban taking over was going to be absolute hell on women and girls. Soldier packed women and baby girls into planes like sardines just to help as many escape as they could.... That totally sounds like a place full of willing …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:14 PM
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Right. Please. We welcome it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:07 PM
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I have never once heard women say we are being oppressed by men not wanting to sleep with us. Paying us less? Totally. Raping women and children in record numbers? Completely. Using corpses as baby incubators? Absolutely. But I don't think I have ever once heard a woman say we are oppressed by men simply not wanting to fuck us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:06 PM
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I think women say they are abused not because of mean words, but when we get messages from men swearing, they will find us and brutally rape us in extreme detail.... you.... you see the difference in that, right? You have to. You have a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:04 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:02 PM
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I never called you a loser. So.... that sounds like self hatred and all i can do is offer you advice on how to find a therapist. Wonderful thrones reference ..... I'm confused about your argument.... I dont want to assume youre arguing FOR rape because thats a crazy take... but like... what can be excused by natural selection? Rape? Rape is never excused by anything ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:02 PM
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That's wildly untrue. We have the statistical evidence. Just because some podcast bro says it's true doesn't make it true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:58 PM
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You said taliban and thats what they support and advocate for.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:22 AM
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Panting
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:20 AM
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Or.... hear me out.... men could try this radical thing called ✨️being kind✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:17 AM
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It sounds like, "If you dont sleep with us, we will turn into the taliban and you won't like it."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:13 AM
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..... You're blaming women for men hurting them... because women chose wrong? Not that it's men fault for hurting women... Are you... Are you from one of these countries? Because Western women aren't just allowing that to happen. A lot of us have guns, and I would love some backward shithole middle east rhetoric to tell me i have to live under something as gross as the taliban. 🤣 I'm so confused by your debate. Won't be decent for them? Come try to fuck with us. There are a lot of good men who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:11 AM
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Yeah.... I like the whole if its free youre the product. I dont think dating apps are made to find partners. If it was people wouldnt be going back. I have seen a lot of social media driven dating groups lately though! There are some great ones on facebook and insta where you can find people based on your interests. 10/10!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:00 AM
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No. She met them both around the same time and didn't want to choose, so they said she didn't have to and they would both date her. And no, she doesn't have any mental issues. What a strange question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:26 AM
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..... 1 woman. 2 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:19 AM
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I mean i know someone who is in a poly relationship and they have been together for almost a decade so 🤷 1 girl lives and has kids with 2 men. So you can have commitment and multiple partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:15 AM
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Because they don't actually like us
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:11 AM
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I think you mean women dont want to have sex with YOU. I love sex. A harem? In this economy? Sign me up 🤣 Women who have good partners that make them orgasm usually love sex. Also... why are you degrading men like this? Men aren't wild animals. I think after a long time, the sex is 100x better because you get to know each other's bodies. Some men think sex is just jack hammering as fast as possible, then asking if she finished. You want women to want to have sex with you? Put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:08 AM
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Considering how many poly and swingers there are now a days I believe 100% that women also like variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 07:58 AM
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Like.... the condition that if you dont make her orgasm she doesnt want to sleep with you? I feel like that's common sense tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:37 AM
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I dont think its short at all tbh. I was just going off what he said 5'6-5'8 or basically anyone under 6 feet.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/25 01:36 AM
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Lemme guess.... you're single, but it's not your fault. Every woman is low because they dont want to be with you, and that makes them undereducated and ugly? 🤣🤣 The funny thing is, when a woman knows her worth, you can't insult them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:46 PM
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If a woman orgasms every time, she is likely to have a frequent sex life. If you arent pleasing your partner er of course she would rather fuck her battery operated boyfriend. So many dead bedrooms are blamed on vibrators and not the core issue that if a man cant make a woman orgasm she wont want to have sex with him. 🤷 What dont men get about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:31 PM
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I helped my friend move recently and she gave me a bottle of wine... obviously prostitution. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:28 PM
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Nah. It's weird as hell. We all voted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:27 PM
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So.... everything is prostitution to you, then? I got to work and give them my time for money. Prostitution. Making my elderly cancer ridden neighbor dinner after she got sick is prostitution because she gives me fresh lemons from her tree, and technically, lemons cost money soooo prostitution. College is hella prostitution. I give them money and they give me a piece of paper. My husband? I prostitute him 3 times a week because he gives me love, and in return, I give him sex. Do you.... do you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:26 PM
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I'm not gonna argue the data but real talk I find almost any man holding up a dead animal in a profile picture unattractive. I will swipe left every time. 🤷 I wonder how often women are swiping not because of their face but because of their pictures. I will also swipe left if I see someone who is in a photo with an obvious ex and has their face scribbled over. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:19 PM
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I feel that pertains to women as well. Nothing is funnier than men complimenting influencers photos about their natural beauty when they have botox, false lashes, hair extensions, water bras, veneers, and contour on. I stream, and it's only men who say I'm ugly when I look normal without makeup on. They dont know that literally, all streamers and cosplayers do it 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:16 PM
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🤣 the fact you think 99% of the women here are ugly says a lot about you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:10 PM
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Shots fired at Niceville 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:08 PM
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I keep saying this about men who claim women only want attractive men but honestly, and I mean this truly, I dont usually check out men. Not the way men in here say they check out women. Maybe I'm at a restaurant and the guy sitting at the table beside me is "handsome" and his buddy is "ugly" I am genuinely not attracted to either of them because I dont know them. My attraction just doesnt work that way. I just dont notice men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:07 PM
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If you dont like women, may I suggest being with a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:05 PM
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Well, no big deal. You don't have to chase someone and be a "romantic idiot" then. I promise there are men who happily will. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:25 AM
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Ew. Ew. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:15 AM
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.... did you even watch the trial? I did. They both hit each other. Called each other names. Threw things at each other. They are both toxic and abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:44 PM
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Ewwwww. Ew. Just... wow. I feel so bad for her. I hope one day she finds someone who loves her as a person, not as someone who couldn't get better. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:43 PM
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You dont know what I would say to a woman. If someone said they dont want to do something because a former partner of mine might or might not, I wouldn't want to date them. Comparing yourself to other people is a quick ick. So I assumed that most women wouldn't deal with that and since he is single.... I was, in fact, right. Being single isn't an insult. Asking a question isn't a personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:41 PM
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I do. I heavily advocate for women to be with women. Women are btw. Look at how many women are in a relationship vs how many men. Women have started dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:03 PM
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I cant police the world but I know as someone who works with children if a child of any sex groped another I would call the cops. I can control my actions and how I would behave and advocate for boys that no one deserves to be groped. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:02 PM
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How is a question a direct personal attack? I genuinely want to know if he is single because he knows a guy in her past didnt have to. .... do you understand what a personal attack is? Buddy I've been in this group a year. Bye. I know how to censor myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:01 PM
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Most feminist i know say that amber heard and Depp were abusive to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:59 PM
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Report what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:56 PM
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Im a hardcore feminist and I also work with children. If I found out a girl was groping a male student I would call the police. Plain and simple. No one deserves to be groped. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:54 PM
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Considering how often women and young girls are catcalled do you want us to all just stay inside?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:03 AM
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Anyone putting their hands on someone without permission is disgusting and they are bad people if they are groping someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:02 AM
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Yes. We do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:01 AM
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All because I didnt want to watch a movie? He didnt want to watch my movie either. He could have offered an alternative movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:31 AM
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He could have offered a 3rd movie. I wasn't insisting we see the movie I wanted. I just didnt want to see his movie. If he didnt want to watch that one he could have offered a 4th movie. Thats literally what compromise is.....
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:30 AM
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His personality is my first thought. I ghosted a guy over a movie. 🤷 he wanted to go to the movies. He wanted 1 movie, and I wanted a different one. Instead of a compromise, he said he was paying, so we were seeing his movie. I said I would pay for my own ticket and offered an alternative 3rd movie. He said he was taking me to the first movie. I stopped responding. He crashed out and said he couldn't believe I wouldn't date him over a movie. It had nothing to do with the movie and everything to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:21 AM
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Are you single because of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:16 AM
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Men who want to hit and quit absolutely lie, chads included.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:14 AM
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I think if he got ghosted by multiple women, he should look introspectively at the common denominator.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:12 AM
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But just because I think someone is handsome doesn't mean i would want to be physical with him. I would just think he's handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:08 AM
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He is saying how he likes being complimented by men... so i said then be with those men. If he had said, "I want women and they wont want me" and I said then dont be with women that would make more sense... but he specifically brought up how he likes when queer men complimenting him...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:03 AM
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Then. Don't. Be. With. Women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:01 AM
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But most women's attraction is tied to emotion. I think attraction is fluid. I can see an attractive man, and if he opens his mouth to spew hate, I 100% think he is less attractive. Maybe I've never been physically attracted to anyone ever then if thats your criteria. 🤷 lots of great sex though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:55 AM
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Because gentlemen pay 🤷 just like gentlemen open doors, pull out chairs, and walk on the outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:52 AM
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Its not but if you like men more than women I think you've made your choice. Iunno man. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:51 AM
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Because i know multiple women who are with heavier guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:50 AM
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Kind of. I think partially it's because men lack doing social things outside of their homes and you have to meet people. I think online dating usually doesn't work long term for anyone but is great for hookups. For example, I volunteer at a dog shelter, and most of the volunteers are all women. I volunteer with foster kids, and 90% of the volunteers are women. I'm in a book club that meets bi-weekly, and everyone gets a chance to choose a book. There are 3 men, and they are all married to someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:12 AM
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Find it yourself lol this is a public group so I dunno if I would consider myself a spy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:58 PM
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Each woman's preference is in fact unique to them. You shouldn't be with someone for any reason that you want. We arent required to be with people. I find road rage incredibly unattractive. If I'm with a guy and he has insane road rage his attractiveness level drops to n instant 2. 🤷 if he punches a wall i break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:58 PM
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Okkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:55 PM
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I make it very, very clear to men I'm friends with that if they ask me out, I won't continue being their friend, so I actually agree with you 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:39 PM
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My young teenage son was being introduced to red pill alpha bro podcasters from his friends who have unfettered internet access. He started asking me questions, and I had never heard of red pill or blue pill, so I had to start doing research. That was a year ago. Once I was in here, though, I started seeing all the horrific things men say. I am a video game streamer and run a female only facebook group, and now I share with women what men say in here. It's really shown us what men think especial…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:34 PM
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No. Because who are you comparing me to? An average woman on the street? Im a 7. 8 in the Midwest. To a celebrity who has lashes, lip fillers, botox, and hair extensions? Sure. I'm probably a 4. 🤷 Either way, though, he loves me. He chooses me. I, as a whole person, matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:24 PM
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But if they are.... then....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:22 PM
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Plenty of women are attracted to heavier men. Also. Lots of men like thicker women. You dont and thats fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:22 PM
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Then be with queer men. I dont understand the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:12 PM
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How so? I stand by what I said. I dont think you understand what a bad faith argument is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:10 PM
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Imagine leaving a good relationship because someone doesnt think youre a 10 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:09 PM
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Not if you consider yourself a 4. I know I'm pretty so when men who I reject call me ugly it doesnt faze me. My husband loves me. He loved the way I look. Is Meghan Fox sexier than me? Absolutely. Does that mean I'm not pretty? No. Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:09 PM
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Well, because abusers are liars and always at fault. We arent gonna blame the victim for someone putting their hands on them. Therapy help with so much. Especially learning to control and manage rage and rejection. It also helps you lesrn empathy and give you a person with scientific data to talk to. Do men assume that all men just fall at their feet for women? They dont. Well maybe on dating apps but most of the men on there just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:05 PM
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And I disagreed. This is good faith, and they both matter. If a baby is born, then both parents legally should have to financially contribute to taking care of that baby. It's not bad faith just because you disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:38 PM
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Yesssssss. I wish men understood that to women looks are all different. It seems that broadly most men have the same attractions. We see that in here. Skinny, big boobs, long hair, and small nose. That's often the standard for men (at least that I've seen), but for me and my female friends, we have such different attractions. My best friend has a huge crush on Dwayne Johnson, and I think he is ok. I would crawl on the floor for Jeremy Allen White, and she thinks he is ugly 🤣 another friend is dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:36 PM
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Because it's not 100% true. Yeah. I am attracted to certain men however its the whole package that matters to me. If your looks are a 4, but your kindness is a 10, and your personality is an 8, that is fine with me, vs. looks a 9, with kindness being a 2, and personality being a 5. We want the whole package. We want good men, and instead of certain men rising to the occasion, going to therapy, working on their personality, they are mad because women won't settle for them. Now that women are half…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:27 PM
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Women are just dating other women and buying cats sooooo I think women will be ok tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:06 AM
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If you willingly have sex and become a parent, the burden of providing for the child falls equally on the 2 people who had sex. If you have sex and a woman becomes pregnant, you dont get to force her to give birth. It's about body autonomy. If men carried the baby then sure, we could have a more rounded conversation. Right now though its women. So as long as it's my life on the line to give birth, I get to make that final decision. That can't be confusing to men, can it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 07:05 AM
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Do men forget that we actively have to grow the baby in us? It's our bodies that change? It's our lives on the line? Not once in the history of ever has an ectopic pregnancy killed a man... it happens to women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:37 AM
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I think men in here dont understand the difference when women say we want a kind man and think that means, "be nice to get laid."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 02:18 PM
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More women are in relationships because women have started dating other women. Men aren't adapting. We were told if we dont provide 50% of the income, we are gold diggers. So we worked hard, went to school, and got good jobs. If men wont treat us kindly and we have to pay for everything... why wouldn't we just date women? What can a man actually provide if he doesn't also cook, clean, rear children, be a gentleman, be kind, and care about our personalities? According to a lot of men in here, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 06:47 AM
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I always see men in here claiming they are good guys, but where were they when a guy posted about how young attractive women should be drafted for childbirth like able bodied men are drafted for war? I didn't see a lot of "good guys" shutting that shit down. (I can't link it because it was taken down.) I constantly see feminists saying no one, man or woman, should be drafted for war, though. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:31 PM
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Why would women have a responsibility? No matter their reason, if someone doesn't want to sleep with you, they dont want to sleep with you. If the attractive women you want dont want you, aim lower. Thats what men constantly tell us out of one side of their mouth, and out the other, they talk about how they could never be attracted to a fattie with a big nose. So. Truly, what do you want from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:22 PM
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How is it a punishment? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:53 PM
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I feel like eating some cake
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:25 AM
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I hope it goes lower. Until abortion is legal again, it will continue to decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:24 AM
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Tell us you're bad in bed without telling us you're bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:23 AM
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Sincere question, why wouldnt you WANT to be kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 04:22 AM
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Men dont seem to understand that sometimes it takes a long time for the mask to drop. Recently, my friend was beaten by her husband because she found him cheating and was leaving him. Up until that moment, she swears he has never once lifted a finger to her and never even yelled. He was masking the whole time. She didn't go into it knowing he was a bad man, but they start by slowly getting you more and more used to the mistreatment. The fbi has an entire thing about it, bread crumbs. Now, if she…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:55 AM
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Or... you took it the wrong way, and I was saying if someone isn't nice, I simply cut them out... but ok, I guess. Im happy you're so well educated and your friends are so rich? I dont really understand why you are acting like I was being combative, but this was anything but fun. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:48 AM
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I don't know what women you hang around with, but those I surround myself with are all nice women, and 80% of them are happily married 🤷 You choose your circle, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:00 PM
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And most of the women hard disagree yet men in here will keep listening to alpha podcast bros instead of us and then wonder why they are failing so hard 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:58 PM
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2 things..... Is... is anyone over 30 a senior to you? That study doesnt mention dating as in casual dating or short term relationships (under 1 year) only men not in long term relationship or married.... my point stands. Thats a misleading statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 12:32 PM
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Except red pill notoriously, never have real data 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:37 AM
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Oh, thanks!! 🩷🩷 I found this subreddit when my teenage son started talking to his dad about some of his friends finding manosphere influencers and now he and I both just kind of try to convince men here to get in therapy and go outside. I get a lot of sweet messages from dudes in this group, so I know they aren't all like this. It's so sad to see what men think about each other, though. It's like the very idea of being a kind person without being rewarded with sex is blasphemy. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:27 AM
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Buddy.... most of the women I know are with their men BECAUSE they are kind. You're using this victim mindset that everything a woman does is against men. This isn't me using talking points. This was me trying to have a conversation with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:22 AM
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Right. The way the men in here talk about other men makes me so sad. My husband is gorgeous and the kindest person I know. Imagine thinking attractive men arent kind just because youre both unattractive and unkind. Its like they are so jealous of good men they want to drag them down for being kind. 🤣 Is this a psy op?!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:19 AM
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Mods here normally side with the red pills. You get used to it eventually. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:15 AM
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It's always about sex to men. Iunno, man. I married a man who is 5'8, but I'm 5'1, so he is pretty tall to me 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:08 AM
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So... in men's minds, its just because they aren't attractive enough to get attractive women? And somehow, they are spinning it to be women's fault... for wanting the same thing they want - an attractive partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:06 AM
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Just your average reddit cryptid feeding off the tears of sad bitter men. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:04 AM
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We are honest. Be nice. 🤷 if the girls you're going after are all saying you're not a nice guy, wouldn't you start questioning if the problem is the common denominator?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:02 AM
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I promise, I know so many women who are with shorter guys. That's not the problem. Also, wasn't there a study that showed that 80% of women would date someone the same height as them. Considering the average height of a woman is 5'3-5'5, wouldn't that be considered a short man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 06:00 AM
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And I disagree. 🤷 Guess we are at an impasse. I think personality matters a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:48 AM
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So it's just jealousy? That women who some men might consider average get laid? That's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:47 AM
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It includes long term partners, people who live together, or married. Plenty of men are dating though. Thats what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:45 AM
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I'm just saying it could be both 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:43 AM
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But why can men pursue women they find attractive, but its a problem when women do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:42 AM
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Look... I dunno how to break this to you, but I have 2 girl friends who just went through divorces. 1 is early 30s and 1 is late 30s, both single moms, they are going on dates non stop and enjoying life with some super hot guys 🤷 its always men in here complaining because men that are sweet on dating apps are in fact still dating and I promise as a woman its not hard to find a man. Its just hard to find a man that you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:41 AM
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He cant imagine competing with a past relationship when he cant find the clit. The sheer audacity of a woman knowing what she likes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:38 AM
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Then, they should become a desirable man. If a man thinks they're ugly, work on your attitude. Why would anyone woman want to marry a man who they aren't attracted to, who is also perpetually grumpy with a bad attitude who thinks feminism ruined the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:35 AM
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So.... first, it's the law says women can't rape men except where there is a law for it then women just aren't prosecuted? That's your argument? The whole system that is made by men is somehow against men? The system doesnt prosecute men and we have real statistical data showing it doesnt prosecute men most of the time, and when they do its community service, being out on a list, and a couple of months in jail. If you can provide a real government or scientifically recognized study that supports…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:30 AM
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This has been disproven so many times in here. That 64% stat was about unmarried men not single men. I just did a quick google search for the info 🤷 <image> Google is free. Try it out before believing the manosphere red pill alpha bro podcasters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:19 AM
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Then why do plenty of women marry unattractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:14 AM
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Or, hear me out, they are unattractive, socially awkward, misogynistic, assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:13 AM
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Its recognized in America and yet it's still over 90% here so.... actually bro I just looked it up. Its over 90% in ever coubtry that recognizes women raping men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 04:11 AM
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Because it's a discussion group for men and women? Are you just trying to be gross and give us the ick on purpose, or did you not know this is a debate forum? Maybe you're lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:56 AM
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Right... imagine blaming the victims because men are over 90% of rapist, pedophiles, and murderers and then claiming, "But I'm a nice guy."
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:50 AM
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So.... its women's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:41 AM
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That's not the average woman, though. That's what redpill is trying to convince men that women are like. And yeah, he insisted on paying, believe it or not, I would say over 80% of men do, and depending on how they treat me, I will either accept or go dutch. If you have a problem with it, take it up with them. If a date goes well and I plan on going on a second date and he offers to pay, then sure, I let him. If I dont like him, his attitude, the way he talks about women, whatever the reason is,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:29 AM
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You're obviously looking for a fight, and lucky for you, I match energy. Everything I say you come at me with insults and like... for what? Do you feel good about yourself? Is that making you feel better? Yeah. Some guys I dated paid, some I have paid, and some we go dutch, but the one I ended up marrying paid for dates... like bro... It's not that deep. just like when his car broke down, I covered the repairs because I had a better job. Fast forward to being married, and there have been times n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 07:16 AM
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..... there is a difference between incels and men who haven't had sex. If you dont think so thats fine but the literal definition of incel counters your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:21 AM
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Except lots of guys paid and I didnt marry them and I have dated guys who we both paid our own bill.... maybe its personality, shared life goals, and compatible lifestyles?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 06:18 AM
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I guess what you call a simp I call a gentleman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 03:17 AM
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If you enter a friendship expecting your female friend to date you, then you aren't entering into a friendship genuinely, and you therefore aren't a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:40 AM
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For a first date, if we dont know each other i love to do something low key like an ice cream date or a coffee shop. Then if we want to do a second date I always pay for myself because so many men assume if they pay that means you OWE them sex and I have a strict no sex for the first 6 month rule. 🤷 I should say, though, that the man i ended up marrying paid for every date, and when I told him why I wanted to pay for myself, he said, "I would never pressure you." Then he paid. He never let me bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:33 AM
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Incel is an entire culture. It is specifically about men who have hostile views towards women who won't have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:30 AM
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Nope. Incel is a subset of red pill culture. Quick google search will tell you what an incel is defined as.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:18 PM
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Who says that? Its not the end all be all but it is incredibly important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 07:17 PM
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Based on personal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:10 AM
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Those are all subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 09:01 AM
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No. Its not. See a therapist if you arent already and good luck overcoming this. I have never hated a man before just because and I watch plenty of porn so 🤷 idk man
/r/ExRedPill23/08/25 09:00 AM
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What immutable traits?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:57 AM
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Because women were told men dont want to provide for us so we are all working on our careers and school before we turn 30. Now we provide for ourselves and men are still mad at us but if we expect a man to provide we are gold diggers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:55 AM
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Who has lied to them? Be a nice good person and you'll be fine dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:53 AM
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Yes. We blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:51 AM
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Nope. There is a difference between a shy guy who hasn't dated before and an incel. I never hear people talking bad about struggling guys. Incels, in my opinion, deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:49 AM
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There is an entire documentary about Medellín, Colombia, and passport bros coming from America and a ton of underage brothels popping up. Just google it. I think the BBC did it. The city put a strict curfew out for girls because it was happening so much. Just because you dont know about it doesn't mean it isn't true.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 02:51 AM
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A lot of passport bros specifically date 15 and 16 year olds in countries where they dont have laws against it, but in their own country, it would be illegal. I'm not accusing anyone... It's pretty common for passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 02:14 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:29 PM
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I can't imagine being so desperate that I would need to go to a poor country and marry a child because women where I live don't want me. I always feel so sad for those young girls. It's always young girls from poor countries. There is a reason for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:28 PM
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Then be a passport, bro. Bye. We dont want these men. Please, go forth. I onky see men complaining about this, and consistently, women all agree. If you have to find yourself a young woman you can control, we dont want you. Please, do us a favor. Leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:25 PM
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Eh. I see where you're coming from, I suppose, but I think, for me at least, it's the whole person who matters. Some attractive men are bad in bed and selfish lovers. If someone is a sexy 10 but is a 2 pump chump whose idea of foreplay is grabbing my boob and asking, "Can I put it in?" I will certainly not want to fuck him. However, if I have someone who is less attractive but good in bed, loves foreplay, woos me all day, multiple orgasms, etc, then I am going to be feral for him. Also the whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:13 PM
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I think it should be stricter and anyone who doesn't pay, man, or woman, should get longer. I think if we didn't have consequences, more people would abandon their kids. When men actually go to court and fight for custody, they often get 50% unless the mother can prove abuse. If men dont want to pay child support, they should be willing to step up and take care of their own child 50% of the time. If you dont want to take care of your child, that's where child support comes in. Oftentimes, men wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:20 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:08 AM
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Why is my comment being flagged because I'm not blue pill when I am actively blue pill? *
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 05:08 AM
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I agree with her when one is being talked about more than the one where women are actively dying and since the abortion ban maternal mortality has risen over 50%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:56 AM
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This has to be a rage bate post... I cant be convinced anyone would believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:32 AM
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Fair enough! But what attention are men in general not receiving? Is it just sex? As women we are conditioned that if we are too nice we are labeled a tease or a flirt. With women in can walk up to stranger and say, "Oh my god your hair is such a beautiful color! I wish my hair looked like that." And to her thats just chit chat. Girls are so supportive and openly nice to each other. Are men not like that to each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:24 PM
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Women usually divorce based on one of these reasons - Lack of emotional connection Unequal division of household labor Infidelity Abuse Addiction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:19 PM
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Im a feminist and I loudly advocate for men. The suicide rates for men are only going up. I have sons and a husband. I never want them to take their own lives. I, however, dont think a woman will help someone with mental illness. I often, and I mean consistently and constantly, tell men in here who are sad they should go to therapy and volunteer. I am often met with animosity when I say it, though. It's not a woman's job to be your only comfort because you dont like yourself. Personally I dont c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 09:05 PM
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But when we give our opinion or life experience, we are met with, "That's anecdotal." "That's based on your feelings, not facts. " "Correlation does not equal causation." "That's a false equivalency." But then we share hard statistical facts to back up our claims its, "Stats aren't real." "The system is rigged to favor women." "The government supports women because they want more babies." "Statistics are pointless." Sooo.... what exactly do men want from us? Truly, this is an honest question, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:55 PM
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Lol thats ok. It's my bad. Honestly, it kind of what I believe, though. I think men spend so much time online rather than with natural women they assume every day women are supposed to look like that. When I do a photo shoot, literally nothing is real about me, and it's not just me. It's other creators, too. We genuinely wear fake eye lashes, big uncomfy push-up bras, and extensions. I dont even look like that. My every day makeup is a lot lighter lol. I hardly ever were falsies in my day to day…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:13 PM
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I used to agree that looks didn't matter until the men in here changed my mind. I swear im not a guy, though. lol I just started agreeing with them. They will say they themselves are 2s or 3s but that they "deserve" someone they are attracted to. Then they will go on about, "No fatties. She needs to have long hair. No makeup (which to men means natural makeup 😂), she needs to have big boobs, and 19 is the ideal age. Etc." So fine. I just started agreeing with them. I used to be like, "Numbers do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 05:06 PM
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What are you talking about? In here men will say they are only attracted to 9s or 10s and then say they are admittedly a 3. Over and over again men in here say they dont want fatties or average women. They deserve women who they are attracted to because x, y, and z. Are you new here? Like... its super fucking common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:27 PM
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I mean i shared 3 different government or organization studies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:22 PM
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You say data but then link none soooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:25 PM
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Women are dating women now more than ever. Women are still dating.... they just arent dating men. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:16 PM
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..... but its true so...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:14 PM
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Im gonna answer this as someone who has been married for over a decade - sex shouldn't be the most important thing because as time goes on sex changes. My husband and I have a great sex life right now. We aim for 4-5 nights a week now. It hasn't always been that way, though. With kids, jobs, moving, illness, and life, you adapt and make it work. When I was diagnosed with a life altering disease and was in a wheelchair, we still had sex but it was different and, for sure, not the best. When we ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:55 AM
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That says a lot more about you buddy. If a man makes a woman cum and treats her right they usually have a great sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:38 AM
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A marriage is a government contract. Every assest and debt is split 50/50. If you dont want it that way, get a prenuptial.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:36 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:35 AM
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I've realized the ugliest men in here think they "deserve" the beautiful models and influencers they see online. They dont even realize that women dont look like that. When I do a photo shoot nothing sbout me is real. Im talking fake lashes, fake hair, fake boobs! 😂 they think influencers are what normal women look like when we dont even actually look that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:34 AM
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Lol average women 😂 you sound so sad that average women dont want you either.you arent entitled to sex. You dont deserve it just because youre a man. Be a good person. Don't like your looks? Look what women do for our looks. You think women all have beautiful lashes? Brother we get lash extensions. Our faces are clear because we wash them 2 times a day. We dye our grays, we lose weight, we wear makeup, some women tattoo their make up on, we use curlers, creams, gua sha, and so much more. If your…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:30 AM
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She won't get banned. We would riot if women started being banned. I have had men in here not get banned after telling me they hope I get raped and killed sooooooo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:26 AM
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Because they go to therapy and medications have to be prescribed by a dr....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:42 PM
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Or if you believe that its because you have been with a certain type of girl and thats on you. Maybe choose better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:36 PM
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Okkkkk.....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:09 AM
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Supporting women having the choice to make choices is, in fact, feminism. I dont have to agree with someone but its not my place to say if a woman should work or stay home and raise a family or who they should vote for. If you think someone should be told what to do simply because they are a woman then you arent a feminist. Good talk I guess. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:02 AM
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Put your picture in chat gpt and tell it to rate you. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:56 AM
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Wait. I did say choice. What the fuck are you not supporting here?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:55 AM
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Thats.... nice.... I guess i should have said feminists support all women having the choice. If you dont support women having choices then you arent a feminist. Its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:55 AM
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That is just untrue. Men still are in the lead of infanticide but yes, you are right, women most often kill their own babies. I will make no excuse for a woman killing her baby. I will say that of the less than 8% of murders committed by women over half are in fact their own babies. The rest of the 92% of all homicides (including infanticide) is still done by men. So.... cool story guy. Its a lie but... nice try. I have this amazing thing called google.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:53 AM
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The news? Its a thing. Also i actually speak to other women. 1 in 3 women are raped and I am 1 of 3 daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:50 AM
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True true. We agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 05:00 AM
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Why? If you are lonely wouldnt you WANT an activity to meet people? That's an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:58 AM
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Maybe because we are constantly watching men rape and murder women and children. Imagine that being detrimental to our mental well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:58 AM
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I mean it would be cool if men could stop raping and murdering women and children but... sure. Ssri are nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:41 AM
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Neat.... so why all the complaining?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 04:39 AM
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Maybe because we live in constant fight or flight about being raped by men? Maybe its because no one takes women's Healthcare seriously? Maybe its the fact that women are literally being jailed for miscarriages? Take your pick. I have more. Being a woman is depressing as fuck. Especially when you think men are generally good and you come in here and realize that men seem to just hate us. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:47 AM
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Whenever men are complaining that they are so lonely, it's debilitating, and I suggest volunteering, therapy, or calling their family they full crash out. They consistently say they won't do those things. It feels like they just want a human sex toy to emotionally rely on. Buy a toy, do some good, grow as a person, and fulfill your life in other ways. That's what women are doing. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 02:45 AM
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But we are telling you that in America it is almost unheard of. I have never once met a woman who does that. I have 1 friend who married a man from another country but he is Italian and they fell in love while she was doing a college cultural exchange thing. You have to remember the United States is where a lot of women WANT to go. We have rights here. We can get divorced here. It's illegal to beat your spouse here. Most passport bros arent getting brides from Italy, Switzerland, France, or Japa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:38 AM
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Depends on the information. Screen shots of public conversations or conversations they are a part of - totally fine. Sharing criminal history? 100% acceptable. Sharing personal experiences with someone? That's absolutely your right. I dont know anyone who messes around with guy's hopes for fun, but if I ever saw that, I would call that shit out. In my whole life, though, I have never met a woman who messes with someone's hopes for fun. Not a single time. Everyone, including men, gaslight, so tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:27 AM
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Gotcha gotcha lol Sorry, I wasn't trying to come off rude. I promise! In here, sometimes I just try to be blunt af. I think women do some messed up things, too. Women can be abusive to men, and while its normally not as violent (hospitalization/death), it's still wrong. If anyone hits you, man or woman, they dont like you. You don't hit people you love. I have seen some women use men for free dinners, and I'm the first to call that shit out. I think the first dates should be Dutch or small coffe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:30 PM
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I view men as human.... I still have seen and heard plenty of men make jokes about rape and pedophilia and other men just let them and say, "Its locker room talk."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:09 PM
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Well, if I'm in public, anyone can talk to me. Im usually super nice. But when men ask me for my number before getting to know me, I know it's just because they think I'm pretty and women dont want to just be someone's warm body 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:53 PM
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Okkkkkkk... so how would one call out women for that? Because men often make jokes and defend rapists and pedophiles with, it's just a joke. Women dont joke about or talk about the stuff you listed. Both sexes use manipulation, that's a human trait, not a female trait. Men cheat more than women. Men without a record usually get 50% custody when they want it. Sex can't be used as manipulation because no one owes anyone sex. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:50 PM
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Having kids has no benefits to women Disagree and agree. It depends on the man. I am lucky to have a man who has been obsessed with my body no matter their changes. When I gained pregnancy weight and had giant boobs he loved it. They went away when I lost weight, and he was still just as grabby as ever. I know I'm lucky, though. I have met 2 people who have weight gain in their prenuptial agreement. The woman has 3 months to return to her before baby weight. I've never seen a man have a weight g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:45 PM
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Feminists fully support all women. Women can be mothers and home makers and we support their choice. Some women dont want to be and we support their choice too. 🤷 its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:21 PM
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https://rainn.org/ Women are being raped in mass numbers and men are denying its happening. Over 90% of men are the perpetrators so while its true that men are raped too it is by and large by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:19 PM
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Or he is just nice and charming, and looks dont matter to women as much as men seem to think. Yall will do anything to bring another man down. Why not ask him what scent he is wearing to get those compliments instead of calling him a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:16 PM
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Im asking what bad behavior he is talking about that women could call each other out on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:10 PM
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I think it has to do with women growing up. We realize we were treated like shit when we were teens and now that the work force is 47% women we make our own money. We would rather foster our relationships with our friends, family, neighbors, and communities. Sex toys are cheap and get the job done in a matter of minutes. When we are older, we want different things. Not a lot of late 20 yesr olds like to go clubbing because we are all working full time. Also, the economy sucks and its cheaper for…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:40 PM
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What bad behaviors? The only thing is can think if is "gold digging" but if an ugly older man wants to date an attractive 19 year old he should know why. I promise i have never met a young woman who dates an old man unless he has money. In that sense its an exchange. He gets the status of her beauty and the ego boost of her youth and in return ahe gets monetary compensation for sleeping with an old man she finds unattractive. Its the same way passport bros realize after they get married their ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:36 PM
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Look... I think the situation matters more than attractiveness but I HATE being cold approached. Like... you don't know anything about me but you think im attractive. You dont know my hobbies, my likes, my lifestyle. You are only asking because you like how I look. If however its someone and we start chatting and find out we like the same shows or have a similar weird quirk or we meet at a concert.... thats cool. We have a similar interest to build off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:30 PM
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I think it depends less on looks and more on reaction. I married my friend. We were friends for a while, he said he liked me, I said now wasnt a good time for me because I was so busy (nothing to do with his attractiveness btw. I was just BUSY. I was in collegiate choir, went to college, worked 2 jobs, and helped my aunt with her kids. I barely had a free second to breathe, and then when I did, I was volunteering.) He was so kind about it and said he just wanted to be honest and up front. We wen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:18 PM
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What are you talking about? Rape is rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:19 AM
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"Half the rape victims and Half the domestic abuse victims are men" is an absolute bold faced bad faith lie. https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics/statistics-depth? https://rainn.org/statistics/victims-sexual-violence? https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/publications_nsvrc_factsheet_media-packet_statistics-about-sexual-violence_0.pdf?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:33 AM
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Do you not understand statistics? Is that it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:05 AM
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Foreplay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 10:59 PM
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Married men are the least likely per the CDC... the fuck are you talking about? Just out here making shit up for no reason. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6505054/ Married men are the least likely demographic to commit suicide ya donut. Per 100,000 suicides is goes - Married - 11.9 Single - 20.9 Widowed - 23.8 Divorced - 39.8 Soooooooo...... why you out here lying??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:58 PM
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Sorry you dont understand stats. I know it can be hard. Want me to break it down for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:53 PM
1

But more and more women are dating other women and every year that percentage just keeps rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:53 PM
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😂 Imagine listening to alpha bronpick up artists instead of women. I cant with you men. Yall deserve to be lonely dear God.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:51 PM
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So die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:50 PM
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Ohhhhhh noooooo. A random internet atranger thinks I'm lying. Whatever will I do 😂😂 Also, I'm not ashamed of my size and brought it up because of the comments right about you. 2 of which called me fat. Stay lonely 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:48 PM
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Okkkkkk.... thats just not true. None of what you said is true. Why would my male Dr take his female patients aside to warn them? Why are there support groups for women in almost every hospital? Studies say its true. Time and time again. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4857885/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/202503
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:19 AM
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Oh for sure. When I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease my primary care dr and my rhuem had a meeting with me to prepare me that my husband might leave me. Its that common. There are entire groups in most hospitals for women who's husbands leave them to find comfort in each other. Its almost 80% of men who leave. No one talks about it but its that common. Over half of the women in the hospital support group with me ended up having their husbands leave. When I started chemo and was in a whee…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:39 AM
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Brother...you're angry at the wrong person. I am bi. I've dated women before. If anything yall should be asking the women in here for tips instead of getting mad at us 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:32 AM
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Have you seen any comments in here ever? I recently made a comment and multiple men rushed to tell me I'm fat and ugly 😂 It wasn't even about them and they were so pressed I disagreed they resorted to insulting me (which is funny to me because i know I'm fit and married so like, stay mad ya weirdos). Yeah. You all seem emotionally intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:00 PM
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This <image> Seems relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:57 PM
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We hurt their little fweelings
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:56 PM
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I was speaking statistically because I'm married and more women are dating other women. That's part of the study you are referring too. Women are walking away from men in mass numbers and choosing to date other women or be single. Look at these comments. Men rushed to tell me how fat and lonely I am while im sitting at home happily married and a healthy size 8 😂 These men are the men who cry about being lonely but when a woman speaks resort to insults lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:56 PM
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Always about weight with men in here 😂 We see you. We, as in women, know that you guys think thats the best insult ever and its so funny thats what you all turn too. I said "we" as in all of women. More and more women are choosing to be single. That's a statistical fact, plain and simple. More and more women are dating other women. Also, a hard statistical fact. The birth rate is down by record numbers but... you're right. Must just be all the fatties. 😂 You feel good about yourself? <image> Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:51 PM
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It's interesting to me that everyone mentioning "Stacy" dont seem to realize the difference. If a woman doesn't want to sleep with someone, that's usually it. We are still nice and friendly. When a man doesn't like a woman, his idea of treating her as less "stacy" tends to be cruel, putting her down, calling her names, and generally treating her as subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:16 PM
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Not a single time, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:12 PM
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That's not at all what she said 😂😂 how did you miss the point so spectacularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:10 PM
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That's some hoops you had to jump through 😂 we want emotional intelligence. Its not a secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:08 PM
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If a woman says something on a public forum, then by all means, screenshot and share it 🤷😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:06 PM
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What does that even mean? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:39 AM
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I made a comment about an old man who said I had a pretty mouth and a bunch of dudes in here started defending him saying he wasn't being weird and that it was a compliment. They said they wished a woman would compliment them like that... 😂 the first time I was catcalled by a grown man I was 10 years old and its never stopped since.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:36 AM
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Nooooo the women you know dont. Im in a female only discord with over 100k women in it. I'm in a facebook group that is even bigger. 😂 Women play video games. We just dont play with men. We like to play with other women, so we aren't harassed, cussed out, and team killed. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:23 AM
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Reading men's comments about how you all really view us is hilarious. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:19 AM
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Yeah.... death threats and rape jokes are hilarious. I also love when I speak, and men start yelling, "YOU HAVE NO RIGHTS!" So welcoming. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:17 AM
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Men treat us horribly in gaming and thats why women all tend to play with other women. If you ever want to find out how badly use a voice changer and try it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:16 AM
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I have a full gamer group of 6 women. We game 2 nights a week for the past 5 years. We are currently playing Killing Floor 3. We each take turns picking out a game and playing it as a group.... you obviously just dont know women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:14 AM
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Okay. Cool. We still aren't dating men until they act better. Yall told us to choose better, and we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:11 AM
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I have never felt that for a man i just think is handsome. I only ever feel that for men that I like. I can see men as being handsome or sexy, dont get me wrong. But even my husband, the better man he is, the more and more I want to devour him. My desire grows over time as my feelings do. I've never once had a crush on someone and just thought, "I desperately want him!" My attraction and sexual tendencies grow the better I am treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 04:05 AM
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What rights do men not have? Also men will say confiding in a friend is "emotional cheating" and then literally fuck someone else. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 11:01 PM
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I'm here because I mod for a large group of women on facebook and like to take screenshots to show them what is being said by single men. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 10:57 PM
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Bro said, "Women won’t date me, so trickle-down economics is the obvious choice."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:11 AM
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For me, it's kindness. Like I genuinely am attracted to men who are gentle and kind. I would rather watch a man bottle feed a baby pig than watch him fist fight or box. I get the biggest ick in the world from road rage and groan men screaming and cussing because someone is driving slow in the fast lane, so they are gonna be 2 minutes late to wherever you are going. To me, you could be a literal Greek god, and if you aren't kind and gentle, I'm gonna nope out. 🤷 I dont care as much about being sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:24 AM
1

But how often are these cold approaches actually working for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 07:32 PM
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So.... your friend is neglecting his baby? If that's all he does, that's all he is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:42 AM
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That is what's going on....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:29 PM
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The difference in us right now is that I am giving firsthand real information that I gathered with my own eyes. You are using secondhand knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 02:28 PM
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I dont know where you live then, but I was just looking at it, and no one is talking about dick sizes or looks. The main thing women are talking about is behavior and safety. Just a quick scroll showed me - A screenshot from a man demanding sex because he paid for dinner A screenshot of a man defending Hitler A screenshot of a man saying all feminists should be shot A police report from last night where the man was arrested for HOLDING HIS DATE HOSTAGE A registry alert for child pornography I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:39 AM
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Gossiping by telling each other about men who are violent or try to threaten us into having sex with them? That's gossip to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 07:35 AM
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That is incredibly untrue and WILDLY misleading. 47% of the workforce is women. I know a handful of moms who stay home but almost everyone needs 2 incomes to survive in this economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:40 PM
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Men told us to choose better and now we are trying and thats making the "good" men angry? Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:39 PM
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Yes. Blame women for self reflection and ignore that we now have a database to connect men to sexual crimes, registries, and assaults.... Obviously, it's women's lack of self reflection that causes men to rape and beat us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:38 PM
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Interesting take since im actively on it and can see how women are using it instead of believing 3rd party alpha podcast bros crashing out about it 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 09:37 PM
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Tea App rage just proves even "good men" dont want women to be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 06:22 AM
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Is this just a black pill incel group now? I love shitting on women and talking about how awful they are. Everything is women's fault. I have no clue why women won't touch me with a 10 foot pole! It couldn't be because I obviously dont like them. Wah. Male loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:36 AM
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8 inches? Thems rookie numbers. 13 inches into my guts or nuthin 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:31 AM
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Are you a fan or something? <image> I'm flooded by notifications from you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:08 PM
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Why are you commenting on everything I say?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:06 PM
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I also worked at a school and that has been what I have seen and experienced. Maybe they learn your name be ause you are a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 02:51 PM
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Remembering your children's birthday is kind of the absolute bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:24 AM
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Birth rates are at an all time record low with no upward projections but.... ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:20 AM
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In general, women arent. Men crash out over it here daily 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:19 AM
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😂 I worked at a school you little weirdo. First hand knowledge. Unless you work at a school and see it yourself then you obviously dont know what the actual fuck you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:18 AM
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Maybe because I worked at a school.... but go off i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 08:16 AM
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Is this an op... are you giving men awful advice so you can get all the girls for yourself? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 11:58 PM
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Ask anyone who works in a school. It is actually sad that men never know their children's teachers names or their friends names, yet their mom's who also work full time ALWAYS do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 11:56 PM
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This. Its a waste of our time. Red pillers dont live in reality. They live in this sad world where everyone hates them so they're anger towards women is righteous. My favorite is when they say women assault men more than men assault women but every single study world wide disproves that. When I show the studies I'm called a liar. Why even bother anymore. They dont care about facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 11:53 PM
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Look.... to be honest, most of my friends whose husbands or partners are bad lovers dont enjoy sex. If your go to move is cupping a boob and asking, "Can I put it in?" Then pumping a dozen times before coming and flopping over like a fish... no wonder a woman doesn't want to bang you. However, the women i know who enjoy sex make time for it. If she comes and doesn't fake it, she will want it more. Most women I know HAVE to fake it, though. Because if you don't, then your significant other turns …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 07:53 PM
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I wish men were more aware that insta models dont even look like that. Ever been on a photo set? Everything is fake. Fake veneers for that perfect white smile, lip injections/lip plumper for the pouty lips, contacts for big blue eyes, lash extensions, hair pieces/hair extensions, soooooo much makeup to cover acne blemishes/scars, nose prosthetics, mini botox injections to get rid of all wrinkles for a few hours, contour, tattooed eyebrows, etc. The models men lust after aren't real. When I strea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:04 PM
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If you only care about looks and want a hot woman, then it makes sense that she wants a hot man, too. If that's not you and you only want a hot woman, there are ways to "become" hot. If you want a woman who has a wonderful heart and personality, then that's what will be important to you, not the packaging. Some extremely hot women date not so hot guys, and I think they are dating based on personality/kindness/lifestyle. If you are miserable, have no personality, and you're ugly, then how are you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:51 PM
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Anytime I bring up that, I think personality and kindness are most important, the men here fully crash out about how everything is about looks. So, I just kinda gave in. If you think everything is about looks, then to you, it's all about looks. I pick men by their kindness/gentleness, ability to have fun and not be grumpy, and similar lifestyle. Looks are so far down on the list for me, but if I say that, I get downvoted to hell, cussed out, and called names. So. Fine. I gave in. Men here are ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:47 PM
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I was so naive thinking that looks didn't matter. I thought shared values, respect, admiration, and hobbies were good indicators that people should be together... but now? Nah. They're right. If you want a hot woman, be a hot man. You can't be an overweight, rude, have a bad attitude, be grumpy, be ugly, be whiny, and expect the hottest women to fall at your feet. 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:55 PM
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I used to think looks dont matter because so many people i know in real life are with people other men would consider "ugly." I used to think it was all based on emotion. But now... after listening to all the men in here.... yeah. I think just date in your league. If you want a hot woman, then become a hot man. If you are OK with how you look, date someone who looks like you. I was giving men too much credit. Are you balding? Get hair transplants or extensions just like women do. Don't like your…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 03:32 PM
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Trump won so no sex. Makes sense 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:47 PM
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Metoo isnt about repressing men... its about women not being raped or sexually assaulted by men... Also, only certain types of men think like this on here and by all means, with hold sex from your partners. If that will make you happy, be the change you wanna see. While you do that, lots of men will be happy to continue plowing their wives and girlfriends lol 🤷😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 08:16 AM
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Bad mothers but not absent fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 11:25 PM
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I think the mods do a good job of catching the bad guys, but they for sure are here. Just today, someone said he wishes that a man would kill and rape me. His comment was up for less than 2 minutes, though. A few days ago some gross guy was talking about how men seeing their daughters as sexual beings was normal and he was surprised more men dont rape them and how "incest is normal because its been around since biblical times". It was also removed in less than 5 minutes. 10/10 mod team lately. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:53 PM
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It might not have ANYTHING to do with you or any other man specifically. There are a lot, and i mean a metric fuck ton, of American women who have sworn off men until abortion is legal again. Too many women are being arrested for miscarriages, dying in parking lots, or being forced to give birth to babies who drs know will not live. No one wants to chance it. Men act like this doesn't matter, but I promise, it does. There are movements with millions of women active in them who have all banned to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 09:37 PM
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Not if it was about safety and if they had a criminal record. Also. There have been apps like that. They usually fail because men dont want to talk to each other 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:51 PM
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You aren't exposing hypocrisy by writing out a glorified ted talk. You sound mad that women have choices, autonomy, and standards. Don't want to pay for dinner? Don't. No one owes you sex. Period. Your argument boils down to "Men should be allowed to hate women" because, "wElL wOmEn StArTeD iT!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:49 PM
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How is it doxxing someone if its sharing how they treat you? What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:40 PM
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They dont like us. They dont care about our safety. They care that no one wants to fuck them. I used to believe in good men until I joined this subreddit. I have since learned that men like this seem to be common and normal and the men i know in real life are the exception. The birth rate is at an all time low ladies! Keep it up!! 6 months of exclusive dating before sex and no babies until women's Healthcare is legalized. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:40 PM
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Dude. They hate us. I mentioned the tea app helps women find out about criminal records, and some guy crashed out on me and then wished harm on me. All because I said you can't just google someone's name to find someone's criminal record, but you need the county they were processed in. Smh. More and more men in here prove they hate us. It's up to us to listen. <image> Men like this is why women aren't dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 07:35 PM
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I mean... I think the idea of "nice guy" is more why was her friend expecting more from her than friendship 🤷 You're scenario is absurd so I cant defend kicking someone in the balls but I can defend simply telling your "friend" no and when they change from being kind to a dick pointing out they they weren't really your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:32 AM
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Hi. You posted "its gotta be hard for a dad to control himself" on a subreddiet about incest where people are openly talking about coercing their daughters into fucking them. You. Are. Sick. Thats. Rape. Thats. Sexualizing. Children. Deny it all you want wanna be mother fucker. That's 1 documentary. There have been dozens in the past few years. So, all of those women are lying? Of course, the Afghanistan subreddit is full of lying men. You're disgusting. You should be on a list. I'm not lying ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:43 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:38 PM
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Shut up nasty incest man <image> Why would anyone care what you say when you want to fuck your family 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:37 PM
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Ew. Ew. Ew. Ew. Ew. Ew. This. This is why women are moving away from men. You're defending incest. Ew. You're disgusting. Ew. Ew. Ew. Ew. Also, because it seems women are open to talk about bachi bazi but men like to lie - there is an entire documentary on it from 2024. There are numerous documentaries about it. Its disgusting. You pretending it doesnt exist is on par with the men who do. I'm an idiot but at least I'm not so pathetic that I want to fuck my own family. Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:36 PM
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It does exist you disgusting pedophile incest lover. You aren't masculine because you cant even get a girl. Youre too busy writing incest posts about dad's controlling themselves around their daughters and how normal it is in middle eastern countries to fuck your cousins. By the way, its not normal. Its not cultural. I have friends who are from Afghanistan and escaped when it fell. Her husband was a translator. She and her husband also said Bachi Bazi are common but men dont like to admit it. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:00 PM
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You're a disgusting piece of trash who has incest fantasies and defends dad's raping their own little girls. Imagine being so bad with women you have to resort to fucking your own family. Actually, hilariously, your family doesnt want to fuck you either. No one does. If a pedophile incest lover wanna be mother fucker wants to call a real man weak then by all means, I'm glad he seems weak to you. He saw the Bachi Bazi markets in the middle east. Not only are men like you fucking little boys appar…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 04:54 PM
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How the heck is saying if you dont like women, but love men means you might be gay, homophobic?!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 08:27 PM
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Its a cesspool. I mainly use it as content material at this point 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:37 PM
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Or, counterpoint, it stems from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:36 PM
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I mean, the entirety of what you said is untrue, but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:35 PM
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A man is kind for once in a post, and the "men" are seething from their keyboards calling him a simp 😂😂 This is why women won't date half of you. A man is saying reasons he likes women and yall are pressed. You obviously dont like women, in which case, be gay and leave us alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:34 PM
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Why is sharing his opinion considered white knighting? Just because bitter red pill men who have such heinous attitudes they can't get a woman are on here doesn't mean kind normal men can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:32 PM
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My husband has an aggression driven male dominated career, and every single day, he comes home, lays his head in my lap, wraps his arms around me, and takes 5 minutes to just decompress. All day, he has to be assertive, dominating, commanding, loud, and hard. He loves his job, but when he comes home, every single day, he lays in my lap for head scratches and kisses. I tell him about my day. Maybe it's work, or kids, or a cool science article I read. I just talk to him, tell him how amazing he is…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 07:28 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 06:09 PM
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I mean.... Do the women work too? I think house work is 50/50 unless she is a stay at home wife. Most women work. Half the workforce is women (ok, technically 48%). But its not fair for a woman to work all week too and not get to take time off. Working women usually still do the bulk of heavy lifting running the home. Why should a woman who works full time have to cook, plan holidays, manage everyone schedule, clean, and work? Men can do chores and help too. 🤷 Honestly the dudes in here make it …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:50 PM
1

But I dont think that those are feminism ideals. Most "alternative" schools based around play, like Montessori schools, are generally ran by women, and traditional men talk down about them. Work as hard as you want, just dont take your burnt out bad mood on your wife/partner. I do, however, agree that feminism is rooted in equality, so the idea of a hierarchical society structure goes against it. But I support equal balance. I dont think the world works without men or women. I think we balance e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 11:34 PM
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Ok.... thats Gloria Watkins writing under a pen name. She talks about knowledge being a liberation for the common man (human), feminism is for men too, and how community driven compassion could be a sign of political rebellion. I'm so confused why that is offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 06:01 PM
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Can we have examples now orrrrrrr
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:57 PM
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Feminists all agree that men and women should be equal. That's it. That's the whole idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:56 PM
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But you won't even give us examples so.....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:55 PM
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Right?! My elderly neighbor just started playing Animal Crossing 😂 She is in her 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:54 PM
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Can you give examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:20 PM
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Your ideas of healthy masculinity are not what I am teaching my sons. I'm a woman who - makes an decent income streaming video games, I drink beer, I lift weights at the gym with my husband, and I WISH I could drive a Bugatti but I have children and and suv so 🤷 If you think not crying over things makes you a big, strong man, I dont think you've experienced that much in life. When my husband was deployed and saw young boys being sold in Afghanistan to be Bachi Bazi (probably spelled wrong), he w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:14 PM
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.... I've never heard a single feminist say those are healthy masculine traits. Maybe that's the disconnect. Is there evidence or a video or post you are referring to or did someone say that to you? If someone told you that they dont sound like a good person. They may be a feminist and just a jerk. But none of those things are things I or my feminist husband teach our sons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:05 PM
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Im so curious why the men in here specifically think feminism is somehow bad 😂 I know so many healthy, successful male feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:03 PM
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But... you didn't say that. No where in your post did you say what you are for or against except, "feminists bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:01 PM
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Maybe I am confused. Can you explain what masculine traits you support and what healthy masculine traits feminism supports that you dont agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 05:00 PM
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Why is it that men are allowed to want their partners to be attractive, but when a woman wants someone they are attracted to, they are the bad guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 04:32 AM
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Men from 4chan are already being caught for doxing them. Let's not blame the women or the company for the actions of bitter men. The sex offender registry is hard to find people on if you dont know the county they were tried in Most of the claims aren't fake, and lots of women are sharing screenshots of their conversations or pictures with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:49 PM
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I loved that episode! With the lady that out ran a t-rex in heels! The thing is, I can tell a lot of the men on here dont know what the app looks like or what it's for. It really focuses on safety. i have seen maybe 1 or 2 being "reviewed," but most of them are about safety. "This guy locked me in his car and molested me." "This man raped me." "This man followed me home and wouldn't leave my porch." I personally haven't seen a single person "rating dick sizes". Not a single one. But that's where…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:46 PM
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It is, but now its localized and has their picture along with arrest history. Normally, to find someone you can't just google their name, you have to look on their county website, and its not always easy to know what county they were tried in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:41 PM
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.... brother, you're lying to the wrong person. I was a dispatcher. You can try that lie with someone else but me? I know how frequently the police in a large city are called for rape/sexual assault. I also worked closely with officers. Less than 2% of rape cases are false accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:39 PM
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OK, so, its very clear you hate women. I realize that now. You seem offended that women dont want to be raped and murdered. That tells me exactly the kind of man you are. That tells me everything about you I need to know. I'm not playing this game because no matter what I say, you think you know better than a woman giving you her experience. Women have the right to have casual sex with whoever they want. Its that simple. Less than 2% of reported rapes are found to be lies or false reports. And t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:37 PM
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...... so our safety to not be raped or murdered is a joke to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:31 PM
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..... or.... ya know.... the data. But men in here only care about hard data when it supports their narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:31 PM
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..... you dont know what you're talking about, and I dont think you care to learn. I could tell you about how I was raped but you wouldn't care. Talk to the women in your life. Ask them. I could provide links to horrendous stories in the past 24 hours, but I dont think you would care. You would call us liars. We are always liars or silly... smh men truly dont care about us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:27 PM
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You think its silly women are afraid of being raped? That's silly to you? This is an app built on safety. It compiles pictures of men with their arrest records and if they are on a sex offender registry. Why would good, decent men be offended by that? Truly. Do you all think rape isn't as common as it is? Is it ignorance in women's safety? Why are "good" men making this seem vile when it is built for safety and around safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:45 PM
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It's not the guise of safety... It's for safety. It concerning the amount of men who are upset by it. If you dont have a record and aren't on a registry, why would this be offensive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:42 PM
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That's not a lie you little weirdo 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:27 PM
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But now men with their pictures have it right there for us to see. Sometimes, those registries are hard to navigate eapecially if you dont know what county they are from. It also has arrest records for things like domestic violence. These things are important to women. This is about safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:26 PM
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Because now we have a database of registered sex offenders. Men can't hide their crimes anymore. Men tell us to choose better, so we are trying. The only people this is scary for are bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:24 PM
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Have you been on it? I have. It has things like local sex offender registry. No more men hiding their crimes from us. Most of the men in see have good or ok reviews, but if multiple women who dont know each other are saying the same thing about one man, I think that's worth listening to 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:23 PM
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Except I've been on it. Its not. There is a lot to do with keeping women safe. Like a local sex offender registry and pictures for starters. With this men can hide their crimes from us anymore. You got arrested for sexual assault and child porn? No date for you. It focuses on safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 02:21 PM
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Most of these all just seem like normal ways to respect women...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:26 PM
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Men are so upset over this app and its so funny 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:23 PM
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😂😂😂😂 this is the best response. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:21 PM
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Can I ask why you don't think it's a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:07 PM
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Why are so many men in here upset about an app that focuses on women's safety?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 01:05 PM
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First off, angry pants, calm down. Second, false accusations are less than 2% of all rapes.... sooooo no. Would you like to talk about the rapists and pedophiles who often walk free? Bet I can find more names than you can. Do false accusations happen? Yes. I believe a teeny tiny amount do. Is it prevalent? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:58 AM
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Its really really not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:19 AM
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Less than 2% of rape cases are proven to be false, and that's why you want men to be segregated?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:18 AM
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So.... because you can't get a woman, that means no one else should?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:13 AM
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If HR is breathing down his neck, that tells me a lot about him tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 07:09 AM
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That being attracted to women is misogynistic? That's so.... honestly, I dunno. You tried to hit like 4 different points, and none of them made sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:41 PM
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Well, thank you for being honest how you feel about women. There are lots of times I disagree with women, but maybe that's because I'm allowed to have my own opinions. Most women simply agree with what's logical 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 12:38 PM
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I still dont get your post tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:21 AM
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I think a lot of men are good, decent, and kind men who truly believe women are equal to men. I think a lot of men are misogynistic and feel we are lesser beings. I know that the justice system we have is misogynistic because look at how lenient the sentences are for rape/sexual assault. I think men benefit from the system even if they don't realize it. I think the 4B movement makes misogynistic men mad. I think the man or bear showed us how secretly dangerous some "good" men are. Honestly... It…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:15 AM
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Thats... a take, I suppose. I disagree, but ok, I guess 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:07 AM
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It was fixed lol I said, "Hey dude, youre gonna get splashed with oil. Not the best time." And he said, "Hey. That's true. Thanks for the concern." end scene its that easy to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 06:06 AM
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If men dont like us worrying about our own safety and taking it into our hands they can actively do something about it. Be the change you want to see. We are tired of being abused, raped, and murdered. How do "good" men not get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:39 PM
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Its is always the woman's fault. If we pick below average men we should have known better. If we pick above average men we think too highly of ourselves. If we sneeze wrong it offends a man. I genuinely dont know what they want from us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:37 PM
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..... that doesnt make it not rude 🤷 Men in here jumped on my ass when I said telling a stranger they had a pretty mouth was weird and on and on about how I should be grateful.... But a woman compliments a jacket and "men dont owe you gratitude." This subreddit makes no fucking sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 11:32 PM
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What an asshole response to someone complimenting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:03 PM
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Maybe just talk to your partner like they are actually people and communicate about what you want. I told my husband i dont like when he gropes me when I'm cooking because its easy to hurt myself or him. So he stopped. He still does everywhere else, but I simply had a concern, and we fixed it together. He has times he doesn't want to be messed with either. We just talk about it 🤷 Its not that big of a deal if you respect your partner and communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:01 PM
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..... what does that mean? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 09:36 PM
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Imagine how much better off the men in here would be if they realized that women are just normal individual people with their own individual likes and dislikes 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:14 PM
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Imagine your partner being so insecure and jealous of a fantasy they turn basic bare minimum relationship standards into "too much." 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 08:11 PM
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It's also just a shameless way to feel good about yourself. I know that I dont have the money to invite a bunch of random kids home and take care of them but I do have an extra $40 sometimes and can buy them pencils, some burger bags from braums, some candy or notebooks from the dollar store, etc. It makes me feel good, and it makes them feel good. Same with the dogs! They dont care why I'm there. I'm going to walk them? They get to leave their cages? I might give them treats?!? They get so exci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:33 AM
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By pointing out the truth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:36 AM
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Women in this sub are saying we dont like cold approaches. Men in this sub, "WE WILL DO IT AND YOU WILL LIKE IT!" ...... then they complain it never works 🙄😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 10:54 PM
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Honestly, it's so normalized. My first time I was groped was when I was 12 and was cornered by some roofers. They were in their 20s and 2 older neighborhood boys who i didn't even know, ran over and pretended to be my brothers. Every girl i know, has an instance. But it seems to upset the "good men" when we talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:53 PM
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Mine was sarcasm but 😂🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:50 PM
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How is speaking the truth misandry? Do you not know what that word means?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:35 AM
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Think rationally, but when we debate using science, statistics, and hard data, red pill men crash out in a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:32 AM
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That's how it seems men think now a days 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:29 AM
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Iunno man.... Men could stop raping and killing women and children en masse. I bet that would help with misandry quite a bit. That would be a great start.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:28 AM
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Women shouldn't fear men just because they are men. Women are overly fearful of male strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:25 AM
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A woman's behavior is trash only when she doesnt want to fuck a stranger 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 07:08 AM
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Interesting. We both work full time and have kids, so 3x-4x a week is pretty great lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 03:43 AM
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.... Ok.... So first, it was men cant volunteer because they are too busy and women dont work, and I showed government evidence we do. Then it was we dont work enough and I showed most women work full time. I love how the goal posts keep moving. Are you reading anything I send, or are you just arguing to argue and going to convince yourself I'm wrong no matter what hard statistical data is saying? And sure. A study on kindness. A quick google search showed me there are a lot of studies on kindne…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:38 AM
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...... Of employed people, 85% of men worked full time, and 75.1% of women worked full time. This is tracked information that is easy to find with a google search. Red Pillers dont seem to like facts, though. Women are also half the workforce. We work just as much as men. We just dont have the luxury to focus on ourselves. Women are the primary care providers for children, family, and household planners, we take care of our eldery parents and grandparents, we join clubs, and we volunteer. We jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:00 PM
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Sounds like he is just a shit human being. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:36 PM
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Yes. Im sure my husband feels the same way. We only have sex 3x-4x a week. 🙄 Must be because he hates it so much 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:34 PM
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..... It's not. It's not good for your wallet. It's good for your soul. It teaches you empathy, humility, and kindness. It helps the community. Women are half the workforce. How do women balance it all if men can only focus on their careers? Some women I volunteer with are moms who work full time and have hobbies. What do you do on your days off that you couldn't take an hour out of your day to help others?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:21 PM
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Interesting. I wonder if it's region specific. I live in Colorado, and there are so many people who volunteer at the shelter. Some people come in to cuddle cats, some walk dogs, some help train, and some clean kennels. Same with hiking clubs. I've never been in a guided nature tour though tbh. There is a long wait list for volunteering at the wolf and fox sanctuary, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:17 PM
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You sound like a child. I am against circumcision but it doesn't only happen to males. It happens to females as well. I am not going to argue who has it worse - rape victims or male babies who endure circumcision. That is not an equivalent and is just using reflection in place of an argument. Childbirth often has long term effects. Also... why are you comparing circumcision to all of these wild things when female genital mutilation/female circumcision is very prominent in the world? I dont know …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 08:11 PM
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....... yes.... because 48% of the work force isnt women. Obviously, because I spend my days off by volunteering an hour or 2 that must mean I'm privileged and can afford to volunteer.... Yall will use any excuse not to be a good person. I work full time. Have children. Go to school. Have an autoimmune disease. Have dogs...... and yet, on my days off, I manage to volunteer along with the majority of volunteers being women. Women are just built different I guess. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 07:52 PM
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Volunteering doesn't bring in any money, but I think you make time for what's important to you. Being part of my community and helping others is important to me. I volunteer at my local shelter every Saturday and Wednesday evening. I also volunteer at the boy and girls club and a womens domestic violence shelter kind of sporadically when I can, but I aim for once a week on Sunday.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:41 PM
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But there are social things, and men dont seem to want to join. I volunteer at a dog shelter and the boys and girls club. We have a few men, but most are married and volunteering with their wives. We hardly ever see men volunteers. I'm in a book club for fantasy readers. Every 2 weeks, a different person picks a book. I never would have read On The Shoulders of Titans by Andrew Rowe if a guy in the group hadn't picked it. Libraries often have writing groups/author readings/other random events. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:56 PM
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Also, what do you want women to sympathize with men over? The male suicide rates? Women beg men to go to therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:20 PM
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..... well, there isn't any specific government data on assaults that happen in gyms. I can send 10 more if you'd like. So good talk, i guess. I see you are just mad to be mad. I wasn't asking for your sympathy but rather disproving your point. If you're single, I understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 11:27 AM
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It makes the majority of men out to be the threat... which statistically is true. Over 90% of violent crimes are perpetrated by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 06:42 AM
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That I love when men realize this. If you dont like women, leave us alone. Simple as that. Can... can you not read or....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 05:34 AM
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I think Lavender marriages are a thing, so in that case sure. But, I personally wouldn't unless I was already with them and something happened. But... iunno... sex toys are super advanced, so... maybe I guess. 😂 If my husband became paralyzed tomorrow, I'm sticking with him, but I wouldn't date someone who is asexual because, frankly, I like sex and think it's part of a good foundation for a relationship with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:23 AM
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I mean... its a public forum for blue pill vs red pill. If you just want to hear your same ideas in a vacuum go to a redpill forum. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 02:09 AM
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Yeah... it's totally safe for women to go to the gym. We are just being babies because we dont want to be sexually assaulted/raped. Imagine if men stood up for us against bad men instead of sympathizing with the men who attack us and all we want is a safe space. Women Are Making A Big Deal Out Of Nothing Those are all direct links to women being abused inside of gyms. But.... ya know... we are probably just whining over nothing. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:43 AM
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I love when men realize this. If you dont like women, leave us alone. Simple as that. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:21 AM
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Can he pay his bills? If yes, it's not my problem. If no, it's not my problem. Is he considerate? I dated a guy who made great money, and he thought a nice date was taking me to Burger King and cruising in his fancy car, then asking me for a blowjob. My husband was broke and working as a Walmart cashier and would take me on picnics in the park, plan out hikes, we would go star gazing, and go to the drive in. I dont care how much money a man has. I care how he takes care of himself and if he puts…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:16 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:07 AM
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Did.... did you ask me my opinion? Did I give my opinion? I'm so confused by your comment 😂😂 What point are you trying to make?.... If you are having luck dating, then by all means, continue doing what you're doing. Why you guys always gotta be weird in here 😊😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 04:00 PM
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Okkkkkkk.... my inbox being flooded with death and rape threats must just be boys being boys. 🙄 Is that how men flirt now because it doesn't feel particularly welcoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:57 PM
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I can't imagine saying you're better than someone because you lived longer.... That's a new one. Also, why is this guy comparing himself to Chopin? Like off all the people to crash out over 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 03:55 PM
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... I was making a joke. He said, "Women are welcome." Then followed it by an insult.... but... ok... go off, I guess 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:58 PM
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So loser has a different definition between men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:55 PM
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Yeah! They should have met her retroactively before she had children! Like what 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:50 AM
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Oh. I'm sorry. I didn't realize you were a girl in the game industry. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:47 AM
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..... Chopin was a loser? The piano prodigy? The world acclaimed composer? The guy with tuberculosis who'smusic is still played today? Do you have any fucking idea what youre talking about? What the fuck have you done with your life? Because I am going to bet you weren't a renowned musical genius by the time you were 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:46 AM
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Honestly... any man who buys into alpha/beta bullshit screams insecurity to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:41 AM
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Babe.... your husband sounds abusive, and we are here if you need to talk. If he isn't nice to you, that's a red flag. You can say I dont understand, but my husband is the nicest guy on the planet and is in the military. He is literally trained to kill people, and yet he is kind to every man, woman, or child he meets.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:39 AM
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This is a weird post. I hate the be a man thing at the end because why is anyone telling someone how to be a man?... honestly, this whole post is confusing to me. Lots of women love nice guys. We want guys to be nice. Is your fiance not nice to you? Is he deflecting saying men shouldn't be nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 07:36 AM
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This! This! This!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:09 AM
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I think it is totally reasonable to not want to date someone if you dont want kids or dont have kids. I think it's weird when men demonize single mothers, though. Most single moms I know can get a date the second they want one. It seems red pill men use this as an excuse why THEY dont want to be with them. Like... you aren't required to be with anyone. The second a man shows me he doesn't have a handle on his anger, I nope out. Extreme road rage, punching walls, constantly cussing people out - t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 02:09 AM
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.... so if a woman is your friend, you deserve sex? Im so confused. I have a lot of guy friends. If they cross the line with our friendship, I wouldn't feel comfortable around them anymore. They give me nothing but friendship, and I give them nothing but friendship. I think you have a pretty warped view on friendship in general, buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:36 AM
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.... because they dont want to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 11:23 PM
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Super creepy. I would ghost someone so hard if we were friends and he said this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 09:38 PM
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Not from insta itself. But for me, I funnel to platforms that do pay, and companies want people with engagement, and you can leverage your insta views. I stream gaming, so game developers want me to promote their games to as many people as possible. Men usually aren't very friendly to female gamers, so I leverage my face/body to get invited to the boys club. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:03 PM
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No you said you had more female friends.... maybe they just were looking for friendship 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:27 PM
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Maybe... they just wanted to be your friend?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:05 PM
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Lots of women in here have said multiple times if guys want advice or for us to look over their Tinder profiles, we would. Almost none take us up on it, or when we do, they crash out if we aren't just stroking their ego and giving real advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 06:02 PM
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They want women to be their therapists/mommy/punching bag apparently 🤷 these comments are wild 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:59 PM
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2 things can be true at the same time. Men who seek wives in other countries want a woman who can't leave no matter how they are treated. The DV rate for passport bros is wild. Also Women see these fat, ugly, balding men as a means to a better life. It's a win/win and a lose/lose for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:52 PM
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Because men tell us so 🤷 Have you seen the men in here? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:49 PM
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From a monetary standpoint, I have less than 20k followers on Insta, and I know that pictures of my face and body trend more than a picture of my food. 🤷 So I post pictures of me not for the validation, the girls, or myself. I do it for the coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:48 PM
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Thats.... an argument. How about answering what I said? A lot of women who are abused by a male partners turn to dating women. Its pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 10:36 PM
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What a way to distort that. That is specifically in their lifetime, and the study doesnt say by other women. It is specifically women who report abuse in their lifetime. Lots of women date men before coming out just like men date women before coming out. It is pretty common. You're taking partial data and twisting it to fit your narrative. Domestic violence is overwhelmingly committed by men and is more lethal when they do so. 🤷 96% of domestic violence convictions are male. So even if lesbians …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 09:18 PM
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Ya know, I hear this a lot from men in here, but no one has been able to cite their source that isn't a blog. Is there any statistical backing to this claim? Any government sites or scientific back stats? That's not a random youtuber lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 06:07 PM
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And men be abusive 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 04:51 PM
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I got my first grey hair at 22 while I was partying on a yacht, snorting coke, and having men line up to motoboat me, then give me $700. I was put to pasture the moment they saw it. They slapped a large E on my chest for Elderly. Couldn't chance me infecting someone with my oldness! No longer was I a cute party girl. In that moment, I knew my time was up. No more coke daddy's. Just a sad life of bengay and a vagina full of cobwebs. The horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:15 AM
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Some men are normal and stable and like/want children 🤷 outside of reddit its not uncommon, and it is very easy to find someone as a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:54 AM
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Makes you sound bitter af
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:53 AM
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..... because fat chick's(anyone over 120lbs), single mom's(ewwwww a non-virgin!!), and older women (anyone over 22 in this group) are gross dregs of society and should put out to pasture to make way for the fit young women!!! Here here. While we are at it, we would like to put the old men, blading men, skinny men, and short men with them. 🤷 I like this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:50 AM
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So.... you're insecure? Are you insecure about your manhood? Like... I'm so confused by the point of this post other than, "we want virgins so they have nothing to compare us too!" But when I told men I wait 6 months to have sex they overwhelmingly said I was a prude, thought I was special, or "no man would wait that long!". 😂😂 Then when men actually have sex with a virgin and she doesnt immediately orgasm from being jackhammered, like the women in porn, they are frigid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 03:41 PM
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I just said how he treated me, not what made him a bad boy lol. He was a bad boy because he was - in a fight club, partied, did drugs, was a "dom", rode a motorcycle, bought beer for underage teens, and did drag racing. I dated him because I was young and stupid and thought it was soooooooo cool he would buy my friends beer 😂 this is why I dont think teens should date older guys lol because they (and me) are idiots who dont think things through.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 08:14 PM
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I can say that I dated 1 "bad boy" when I was a teen, and it was awful. Even though we both worked, bro made me pay for everything! He bullied me like crazy and then would say, "It's just how I joke." I weighed maybe 120lbs, and I HATED when we went to get food, and he changed my order. We would go to Chipotle, and I would ask for cheese, and he would tell them, nah, she doesn't need that. Then ask me to pay 😂 He loved to party too. I was young and dumb. He was also older and able to buy beer. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 11:40 PM
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Hi. No. I didnt saybi screenshot and post every single thing men say. I do, however, share the more heinous, insane, and disgusting things men say in here. I also share when red pills are talking about their "tricks" they use 😂 You all said to choose better, and we are actively trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:42 PM
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I particularly love it when they pull "facts" from the void and then when I present them with hard data, government stats, and recognized scientific theories I am met with, "Its all lies because everyone hates men." Like... brother... do you not realize that women are not the majority in those things? That's other men usually compiling it. If a man disagrees with you, that means they hate themselves, and if a woman disagrees with you, that means they hate you... you sound like you WANT to be a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:33 PM
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I get a lot of men sending me threats, begging for me to show them my tits, and mass spamming me red pill alpha bro podcasters as proof that women suck 😂 I do like it when blue and purple guys send me their tinders and ask me what I would do to fix them or asking me advice on women. Those are great, but sometimes they too get lost in a sea of random dms 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:26 PM
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Yeah I've only seen that in a parody. If you can link it by all means do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:07 PM
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I have seen multiple men say that 16 is when women are most fertile, so it's only biologically logical that men want to procreate with them young... That's rape and pedophilia right there, and it's a pretty common sentiment we see in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:02 PM
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Better than a 2 planker wanker! (I actually started skiing first though 😂 then transitioned lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:46 AM
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It's not fear, but it is digust. I had never heard, "old enough to bleed, old enough to breed." Until I came in here. Men saying that, "16 is when a woman is most fertile." A 16 year old isnt a woman, that's a literal child. Thankfully, reddit doesn't play when it's sexualizing minors, and I report that shit so fast. I dont fear for myself, but I fear for any underage girls around these types of men in real life. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 04:41 AM
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They crash out when you do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:48 AM
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I would agree.... except its not just 1 or 2.... it is multiple, all day, every day. When I joined 6 months ago I thought this was going to be about dating. Now I see red and black pill just like to be sexist and vile. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:47 AM
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Because in here we get to see the other side. We get to see what red pill, black pill, and incels say. Those men are in the dating market too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:40 AM
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Oh, I dont think there is anything wrong with wanting a healthy partner. I live in Colorado, and I hike, snowboard, and rock climb. One of the criteria for me when it came to dating was they needed to have a similar lifestyle as me. I wanted an adventure buddy. That said, I'm thin and strong and weigh 140 lbs. Instead of lifting weights, I'm riding horses and doing the incline lol. But I also like pasta. The idea that I would be considered gross because I dont weigh as much as I did in middle sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:36 AM
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🤷 I've learned a lot in here and I want other women to know the truth too. One of the facebook groups I mod for has 300k women in it. I want them to know what men are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:27 AM
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I used to use my main and had the same issue. If I showed kindness, I was flooded with messages from begging to see my tits to insane rage insults/threats 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:21 AM
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I used to truly believe that men were misunderstood, but after being in here, I have seen so many men defending rape, sexual assault, and pedophilia that I dont think I want to date men anymore. 🤷 Not only do we notice the black pill, incels, and red pills talking, but we also notice blue and purple pill men who sit quietly and dont call them out for saying such wild things. After being in here, I understand why so many women are choosing to be alone. I wouldn't want to be with a man who simply …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 02:18 AM
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Except we have these stats and men rape, abuse, murder, and sexually assault women, children, and other men over 90% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:19 AM
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Women dont rape or sexually assault men, women, or children more than men do. That's probably the dumbest thing men say in here. We have very hard evidence, government stats that are similar in every country, and if any man thinks that they are simply idiots who dont believe in science, hard data, or statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:15 AM
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I am bi and I prefer bi men. I feel bi men are usually not so, "alpha podcast bro" bull shit. 🤷 I also think men are hot... but so are women.... but so are men and women... so yeah. For me its all about openness. I've been shamed for being bi so I know how it feels. Sex is just fun, have it in anyways you want with consenting adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:13 AM
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They never actually read it smh they just want to crash out about how shitthey think women are. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:38 AM
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I also think men in here dont recognize the reality of our safety. Guys in this subreddit have asked me if I'm a nun because my rule was to wait 6 months to have sex. That is somehow me being manipulative when the reality is I dont have the privilege to just safely have casual sex. I need to KNOW a person before I am comfortable enough to enjoy sex. Not every woman is like that, but I know that's why I wait. If I'm going to be the most vunerable I can be with someone I want them to wait that 6 m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 07:36 AM
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Why is being a mom negative? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:46 PM
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I thought i blocked you a while ago..... Yes, he is a simp, and I'm a simp for him. No, I didn't propose to him every month because he wouldn't have liked it. I know because one month I tried, and he said absolutely not 😂 I however have woken up at 4am almost every single day to make him lunch since we were dating so 🤷 maybe just be nice to your partner and they will be nice back. Iunno, man. As for our marriage, we follow the 100%/100% rule. We always try to give 100%, but we know that's not al…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:41 PM
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Sooooooo.... in media for men are women not skinny, with big boobs and long hair? OP can make a generalization, but I can't?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:36 PM
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Psssstttttt I dont believe it either but bro is talking about generalizations. Most women in media built for men's view are skinny, with big boobs, and long hair. Am I wrong? Why can I not call out generalizations if he can? My husband is neighter tall or dark. He is handsome. He is a kind, fluffy, cowboy with golden retriever energy. (I do not have cat energy to match. More like.... husky energy lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:34 PM
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..... what a fun generalization statement. It should tell you nothing more than some men just want to propose. You dont and guess what! You dont have to. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 12:30 PM
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Yup. Every month until we got married. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:19 AM
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He proposed. Multiple times. I kept saying yes. Everytime. It was sweet. Some men want to get on their knee. Its not that big of a deal. If you dont like marriage, dont get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:08 AM
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If you dont like marriage, then dont get married. My husband proposed to me multiple times. The first was Christmas morning in bed, so no kneeling. The second was at a beach, and he kissed my feet and swore he would never let me go through life alone. Third was at a fancy dinner, he kneeled. Fourth was in front of my family, and he kneeled. Fifth was in bed. Sixth was after he helped me off a horse, he kneeled. Seventh was when we got matching tattoos. Eighth was in a cave, and he kneeled. On an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:56 AM
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And men's would be - skinny, big boobs, and long hair. Your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:27 AM
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Men want women. Its the way of the world since forever. Red Pill and Black Pill can walk away and women are still going to have suitors. 🤷 want a woman? Be a kind man with a good personality. Its that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:13 AM
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I too was existing in public. Met him as my Walmart cashier, flirted, then found out one of my friends knew him and he set up a hangout per my husbands request. 🩷 Fell hard. Fell fast. Got married. 10/10 meet cutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:44 AM
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🤷 I started dating my husband while he drove a 1990s Ford Bronco and worked at Walmart. I promise. It is personality that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:09 AM
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Cool. Dr Francesco Gargano. When do you wanna deliver it? He is well known, high end, and does lots of TCS patients. 🤷 I live in Colorado if you wanna ship it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:07 AM
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No one should be judged by their appearance, but I have to ask.... if this is all true, and that's how much you make why havent you gotten surgery? I know someone with something similar, TCS or Treachers, and he makes a decent 60k a yesr and was able to get facial surgery, including cheek implants, maxilla repositioning, jaw reconstruction, the whole works. He got a payment plan for it. I do want to note he had a fantastic woman who has something similar, and after he had his surgery, she had on…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:03 AM
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I think its the idea of having something dead as a profile picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:43 PM
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Hey! A redpill i agree with. Honest question... dont you think it's telling that the men who have commented to me are all focused on looks and if they have a kid? They are also insinuating a man who would be with a woman like that isn't a quality man... but some men care about lifestyle, hobbies, personalities, and life goals. I'm seeing in real time why so many guys are single in here if they only care about young models.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:05 PM
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That might be true.... if I wasn't seeing some of them settle down with wonderful and nice men. The same men who want us to feel bad about ourselves are usually overweight men with neckbeards and a weird hate for pets. We dont want to be with men who judge us so harshly when there are men so ecstatic to be with a woman who has the same lifestyle, hobbies, interests, and life goals. I know that is never important to the red pill guys, but I promise in the real world away from the computer it is. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 08:01 PM
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Ya know.... guys on here say that a lot, and yet the dating market is still ✨️thriving✨️. I think a certain type of man is walking away and the rest of the men are happy as fuck to fill in their gaps. My evidence? They are all going on dates and having fun being pampered. You of course went to extreme about morbidly obese with 9 kids... Most women aren't like that. You know that right. On average, women have 2 kids. To the men in here morbidly obese means 170lbs (which is the average weight for …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:42 PM
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Watching my friends in their 30s and 40s get divorced and start dating again has been eye opening. All of them, no matter their weight or how they look or dress, they are never without dates. I'm not exaggerating either. Their husbands tried to convince them they were used up and no one would want them and they ALWAYS have a man begging to take them out 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:46 AM
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Dude.... I gave you reasons. Multiple. 1 is an entire theory.... I'll take that to mean you can't read and are so incredibly misogynistic and close minded that you can't even have a conversation with a woman. I dont think I'm wrong. I think there is someone for everyone. Even someone as rude and nasty as you. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 11:38 AM
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Good response to everything else i said. Truly. Good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 06:04 AM
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Wow. Your pseudo intellectual cynicism is so hot 🥵🥵 I'm going to meet your energy since you aren't even disguising your condescension. Has every person in human history gotten married? That isn't my point, but nice try. I didn't say that. In a world where arraigned marriages are still a thing obviously, I dont think marriage means love, so this isn't proof against what I said. Has anyone ever died alone? Duh. Of course. What are you talking about? My cousin drowned at 7. He never met his love. P…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 01:02 AM
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You think it's a lie, and I think it's a truth..... here we are I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 12:08 AM
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I dated my husband when he worked at Walmart and drove a crap hand me down truck. 🤷 He was just so sweet though 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 09:28 PM
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Maybe it has more to do with when you're young you do reckless things. Did I have a hot takeout session with a guy in a bar a decade ago? Yeah. When I was 21. Would i do it now? Nope. Now I think about consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:59 AM
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I consistently get called a liar in here when I say that looks aren't the end all be all. I dont think they dont matter. You have to have some kind of attraction but I look at it in a point system. You have 10 total points. 2 points for hot 1 point for same hobbies 3 point for kindness 2 points for good sex Etc etc whatever your list has. So for me, I chose my husband not based on his looks or height but because we both wanted kids young and have similarities in religion/upbringing, we have simi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:52 AM
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Okkkkkkkk. Are you happy you said that? Did you win?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:29 AM
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Do you.... not have friends? Because normally girls just take cute pics of our friends because we like them. 🤷 Its not that serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:26 AM
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I fully agree with you. I would actively avoid gym bros when I was dating. A cute action shot is 100% the way to go, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:23 AM
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She answered the question and shared information. Why are you trying to start a fight over nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:14 AM
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I think it has a lot to do with editing. You can pay someone 2 dollars on fivver to edit your picture for you. Also, a lot of women just take pictures of each other. My husband informed me that men basically never do that. I have a ton of just random snaps of my friends in cute moments, and then I text them to them. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:10 AM
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..... I know you think that, but I'm a woman with female friends in female spaces... we really dont complain about how men dont like us and then put them down. I know everyone here thinks we do, and there isn't a way I can change that, but it looks matter more to men. I've learned that here. The same men who say its unfair women dont like short, balding, ugly men are usually the same in the next breath saying they dont like unattractive fatties with wrinkles. 🤷😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:52 PM
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See.... if a cis woman dares to speak our minds, even if we fully support Trans people but have 1 difference of opinion, we are TERFS..... I dont understand my own party. I hate that it is 100% or you're a transphobe. I know I'm not. But as a woman, if I eat out a vagina, to me, that is gay or bi. If it is a masc transman with a beard who i call "Papi" and I am eating him out, it is still a gay or bi act, IN MY OPINION. Bare in mind. Im not just shouting this at random people. This was a discuss…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:22 PM
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Can I ask what the female nature means?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:06 PM
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Im just trying to raise a kind kid 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:05 PM
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"Usually by unattractive women" .... Why do men make everything about looks but then insult women? Its weird af.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:04 PM
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Why be mean? What do you gain from it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:02 PM
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You dont have to share your face. Maybe just your bio. I know if I saw a man who tells me what he doesnt want I would scroll. A few guys who have shared in here have - NO FATTIES. NO LIBTARDS. NO FEMINISTS. As their openers and honestly even women who dont consider themselves feminists find men being aggressively against feminism a red flag. Also, the negativity is a big turn off. Have your likes, hobbies, lifestyle, and a silly joke as a bio. I once matched with a guy who's whole profile was wr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:00 PM
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Are you open to help? Maybe you can share your dating profile, and the women in here can offer suggestions? I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:53 PM
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Youre probably right. Maybe i am misusing sex and gender. I didnt consider it straight... I considered it bi. Because I'm bi. Also I explained above when it comes to XX and XY and why i mentioned it. I dont think being trans is bad so I dont think acknowledging genetic differences is bad but my main reason for that is because I have a disease that is treated very differently between sexes. The main reason is because medications i take are different for genetic males and genetic females. Maybe I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 05:14 AM
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Im sorry. I didnt knownit was a direct question. I thought it was a conversation. Im already being called a terf here, and all I wanted to do was be open and honest. I think if I was straight and only liked men that dating a trans man and them not having bottom surgery, that would be bi or a lesbian. I can't imagine being straight and eating someone out. Again, personally, I'm bi, so maybe it's hard for me to wrap my head around completely. I've also dated a wonderful and beautiful trans woman w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:58 AM
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I said I have been called a terf or transphobe, but I certainly dont think i am one. I truly think that trans women and men belong in any space they want to be comfortable in. I think that if you dont feel right in your body, you have the full right and will to be however you want to be. If you aren't hurting someone else, then for me, I think it's perfectly OK and right and valid. Because I disagree with something in an entire movement that means I'm a terf? This is what I hate about my own par…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:54 AM
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Who my husband or the embodiment of the Greek god 😂 Greek God man - I worked with him. He was always in a good mood and ready for adventure. If I saw a festival 3 hours away he would be like, "Let's go!" I liked his non grumpy attitude and found it refreshing that he liked trying new food. He was just chill. He was a nice guy just.... selfish as a lover and a boyfriend. We started dating and he was so selfish when it came to being intimate. Always demanding blow jobs and sex turned into a chore …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:29 AM
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We disagree, and that's ok. For me, I look at it in the simplest terms. I have dated a trans woman (we are still friends), but I am in fact bi, so it didn't matter to me. I can understand how it would matter to someone who is straight, though, and I think that's ok too. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 03:15 AM
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That's you, and I support that. I dont think I'm reducing anyone just saying the truth. I also think because I have an autoimmune disease snd some of my meds, including a chemo protocol, is tailored by sees that maybe sometimes biological sex matters. One of my meds that slowly down my spine fusing together also affects hormones a lot. A biological woman is put on a different dose than a biological man. Also, biological males have to take an added drug to decrease prolactin while I, as a woman, …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:56 AM
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I'm a feminist through and through, and I think of it like this - If you like dick and you have a dick youre gay. If you like vagina and you have a dick youre straight. If you like both, you're bi. If you have a vagina and like vagina youre gay. If you have a vagina and like dick youre straight. If you have a vagina and like both, you're bi. I know political correctness might state otherwise, but that's how I view it in my head. I think a transwoman is a trans woman. I think a trans man is a tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:29 PM
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I sure was. I also think he WAS being indoctrinated, but go off and be weird, I guess 🤷😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:49 PM
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Oh damn. My bad. I forgot you were there. I'm so sorry. I should have went through every single conversation we hat we had as a family in detail. That's on me for forgetting you were there. 🩷 Thanks for keeping me honest random man on the internet. Hey, since your obviously helping me parent, when are you gonna pitch in financially? Because back to school is expensive. In case you aren't bright enough that was ✨️sarcasm✨️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:47 PM
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I think it's interesting that most red pill men seem to be right wing. Why is that, do you think? Also... As a feminist i actually support men's rights. I think suicide rates are higher for men, but I believe that is because men often dont go to therapy or get help. I am raising my son far away from toxic masculinity. Boys are allowed to cry. When my husband gets thrown from a horse, he might cry, and then he gets right back on. Boys are allowed to do self care like pedicures and massages. Anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:00 AM
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What exactly are they doing? Because I didnt know what it was so started watching red pill/manosphere content and it feels like middle age average looking men telling other men and young boys that they aren't good enough but "Buy this protein powder/this will make your haur grow/GET TESTICLE INJECTIONS to make them smoother (that one was wild to me)" and you too can be a chad... its just a sales gimmick. I learned in here that red pill men call me a liar when I say you just need to be kind. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:57 AM
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I also like my height or taller.... but I'm 5'1 so almost everyone is taller 😂😂
/r/ExRedPill09/07/25 05:09 AM
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I'm married to a man who is 5'8. My sister is married to a man who is shorter than my husband but I dont know his exact height. I dont think it's as big of a deal as guys make it on the internet tbh.
/r/ExRedPill09/07/25 05:08 AM
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You're disgusting. You deserve to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:15 AM
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.... he wasn't asking us how to get laid you fucking weirdo. His friend was talking about red pill and the matrix, the manosphere, and pick up artists. Yeah. He has supportive loving parents, so over dinner he asked his dad what the manosphere was and what Red Pill meant. Why are you sexualizing a child? Did I one single time talk about him getting laid you fucking creep? No. Whybis that where your mind goes when I am talking about a literal child? I didnt bring sex into this one single fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:03 AM
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I think there is a difference between friendship and dating though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:35 PM
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...... I said excuse me and I'm the bad guy. Boy math! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:27 PM
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Because he is my life partner and I'm not with him for some weird archaic validation status. 🤷 Also I think my kids might be a bit upset tbh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:17 AM
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Women are wonderful 🤷 Thank you! 🩷 I think I'm pretty intelligent. I have 2 STEM degrees, speak 2 languages fluently and 1 broken but enough to get by, and have 2 published books.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:15 AM
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...... what, and i mean this kindly, the fuck are you talking about? Honesty and equality? What world do you live in? What equality do men need? Women want equality and we fight tooth and nail for it. What double standards? The hypocrisy... the gaslighting... my guy.... you obviously dont like women. Just date men. I promise. We'll survive without you dating us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:13 AM
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Obviously. But I am viewing it from a similar lense. If the OP wanted only males response i assume he would flair it under men only.... he didnt. So I gave my lived thoughts. 🤷😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:09 AM
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I understood the point i just can see it from a similar stance. I wouldn't have much in common with a woman 10 years younger than me so why would I want to be with one. Looks? That's it? That's the only criteria? 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:07 AM
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And most the time there men who do it have money that those young attractive women want. Its ok for men to want a young woman for her beauty but yall flip out over gold diggers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:06 AM
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😂 Completely different worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:03 AM
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Yes. Because all women are obviously just asexual lesbians 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:02 AM
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I'm a feminist and I think sex work is real work 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:11 AM
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I am a bi woman, and I wouldn't date a 20 year old girl... I would have nothing in common with her. This feels like a weird post, and it makes me happy to see men calling you out and saying we dont need to normalize this. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 07:09 AM
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So.... men aren't lonely and the loneliness epidemic is fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:45 AM
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..... sooooo...... you want to date us.... and we are supposed to just be thankful a man wants us.... but the men who want us shouldn't have to care about equal rights because we think women shouldn't be the end all be all of a man's social circle... are you sure you like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:24 AM
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And you clearly cant comprehend my point so 🤷 here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:20 AM
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I had a man tell me I had a pretty mouth the other day at the gas station and I said, "Excuse me." And he said, "Bitch cant take a compliment." 😂😂 The male validation we recieve is obviously top tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:19 AM
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So it's about validation not companionship? Shit download chatgpt. It will tell you anything you want. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:11 AM
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But the loneliness epidemic isnt affecting women nearly as much and research shows its because women foster and nurture non romantic relationships be that social clubs, hobbies, neighbors, sports, therapy, family, friends, or pets. Why cant men choose to do the same thing? If i even suggest therapy to a man he devolves into an emotional mess spouting "therapy doesnt work."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 05:07 AM
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Huh. Never met one of those here. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 04:44 AM
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Hi. No. So many assumptions. He came to me and his dad to talk about it because a friend of his was talking about pick up artists and getting out of the matrix. We, as parents, looked into it because we thought he was talking about the movie. My husband explained that sad pathetic men think like that because no one wants them, and they prey on weak minded men or vulnerable young impressionable boys so they aren't miserable alone and have less competition. That those men are sad, and we should fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 02:00 AM
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Because I love women who stand their ground and speak their mind. I also think anyone can be slutty and as long as they are happy I support their adult choices. 🩷 Is that what you meant by bitchy slutty women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 01:44 AM
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This is what men dont realize. When i was first with my man I wasn't a soft girly. He gave me the safety and support to fully embrace being vunerable. In past relationships if a man insisted on paying for dinner it felt weird because so many times I was shamed for not putting out. I became hyper independent. I would buy my own dinner 😂 Now I'm spoiled haha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:58 PM
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Maybe I'm confused. I thought NEET meant not working or having a job. I didn't think it had anything to do with dating. If a man is happy being single I dont know anyone who is against that aside from maybe his own parents. 🤷 If a man (or woman) doesnt work i think thats weird because how are you surviving? It doesnt affect me ultimately though so I dont really think about it either way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:20 PM
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I dunno where you live but I watched a documentary about legal brothels in Nevada that seem pretty legit. 🤷 I still personally think that personality matters more but I know everyone is different. I've dated a beautiful Greek god model and he was insufferable. Truly, the worst in bed. He was a minute man and his idea of foreplay was, "Hey, can I put it in?". 0/10. My husband is sweet and kind and perfect and we have sex multiple times a week. I cant get enough of him. He is a nerd who plays d&d …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:37 PM
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I think the men in here only have the women they follow on social media as their references to real life. There have been times I've outearned my husband and times where he has outearned me. It goes to the same bank account at the end of the day lol also I fucking love to wear make up and sundresses like a girly girl and there is nothing hotter than watching my man on a horse moving cattle and after snuggling on the couch with his son's watching anime while I make dinner. They have this narrow i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:28 PM
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Never leave. I'm married and here for the same reason. I joined because my teenage son was being indoctrinated and now I just meet people's energy. Half the time I troll back the black pill incels and the other half of the time i have dudes genuinely asking advice because they dont want to be red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:21 PM
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You seem to have it in your head that high earning equates to being a manly man... I work in tech. Our highest earners are often smaller dudes with receding hairlines 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:18 PM
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So its ok for men to base everything off of looks but when a woman does it its "unfair"?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:15 PM
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So.... looks matter most to you? But if a woman says that looks matter to her its unfair and women's standards are too high?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:14 PM
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What's up with you guys and these tiers? If you think youre a 3 then date 3s. If you think youre a 10 then date 10s. If you think youre a 3 why would a 10 want to date you when you wouldnt want to date another 3? BTW I think this tier system is a gross shield for men to hide bad personalities behind. Maybe, instead of assigning human beings scores, just, iunno, talk to a woman and find someone who has the same interests and hobbies as you. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:29 AM
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Personally, I think sex is just a part of it, but I also wasn't racing to get married. I knew I wanted to take time to have sex. There is currently a whole movement for women to abstain for 6 months. My plan was to wait 6 months, and by month 5, I ended up ✨️begging✨️ for it. lol He was just so sweet and never pressured me but still loved to kiss and make out and be incredibly affectionate and flirty. He slept next to me, fully clothed, and we had sleepovers, and I just felt comfort around him. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 07:21 AM
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Not you editing it after I replied 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:15 PM
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Cut the crap..... Like its not something we always have to think about lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:13 PM
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Why are men setting all these weird ass rules? 😂 Have any of you ever turned a man down before? I have. If I'm outright with my no he turns aggressive. If I'm polite and placate, I'm leading him on. There is literally no winning tbh. Also what's up with this idea that men are just inherently owed sex..... Yall sound wild in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:11 PM
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What a weird view. I dont think i have ever met a man and wanted to rip his clothes off him after the first time meeting him. Dated plenty and even married now 😂 Is this what men think the standard is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 05:06 PM
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Yes. We do care about personalities. My life and safety matter, and I judge how a man acts and how he treats me/others before I am alone with him. It's not delulu because our lives literally depend on a man's personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:36 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:33 PM
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No one owes anyone sex ever and anyone, man or woman, who thinks they are owed sex is a fucking weirdo. 🩷🩷 Also. There are lots of women who enjoy sex. There are lots of men who enjoy sex. Are women more choosey? Yessssss. We have a lot more to think about considering how often we are raped and murdered by the people (men) we are attracted to. 🤷 If you want to be chosen, be a good person, have good hygiene, and dont expect physical affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:32 PM
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That is a fun fact made up in your head I suppose. Realistically, it is a wildly untruthful fact that isn't backed up by a single piece of data. Is that what makes it fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:22 PM
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To be fair a lot of our break ups are caused by physical trauma but red pill men dont wanna talk about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:28 AM
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Because the "trauma" men cry about in this group is usually just women not being interested in them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:24 AM
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I'm not reading that. You're just screaming into the void. You already said Healthcare workers and teachers dont matter. That's all I needed to hear to know this is ragebait.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:28 PM
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Youre rage baiting and not interested in a genuine good faith debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:08 PM
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OK but the man vs bear scenario is specifically - Would you want your daughter (or wife, mom, etc) alone in the woods with a bear or a man? Statistically bears kill between 0-5 people a year in America. Thousands of men kill women every year. It might not be the most constructive way to bring up the point to you but... every year violent crimes against women are rising, not falling. We aren't getting any safer. But when we bring that up men say, "Not all men." Over 90% of all violent crimes are …
/r/ExRedPill29/06/25 11:50 PM
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This gets left up but when a woman makes a post about how men should use sex dolls since they dont like women that gets taken down by mods. 😂😂 yeah. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:36 PM
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When men have their interests and hobbies. Find someone who is into the same things as you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:20 PM
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Pew research says that women still do 70% of unpaid household jobs and child rearing. So now we work the same as men but men think watching their own children is "babysitting". I've worked in a school. The amount of men who dont know their own children's teachers names, their kids best friends names, or the name of the friend parents they let watch their child, is staggering. It used to be comical but now its just sad. Men expect women to provide 50% of the household income but also provide 100%…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:03 PM
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I dont doubt that men would instantly put their own children to work in the mines instead of teaching them how to read. We know because they did.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:51 PM
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I wish i could respond but I dont wanna get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 04:01 PM
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Can you give more context on what the videos say? A "friend" yelled at me for commenting I would choose the bear and said it was hateful towards men and I was able to explain the premise of the man vs bear scenario because he truly didnt know the origins or why we are choosing the bear. Context matters though.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/25 08:42 AM
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Oh. My bad. I guess it was a woman. Dehumanizing women and calling them parasites isnt considered black pill but rather just a normal opinion for men to have. But when I reported the man the other day who said it was normal to fuck 16 year olds the mods did nothing about it and after 24 hours I just reported it to reddit who deleted the guys entire account. But. Yeah. This is a safe understanding place with female mods. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:20 AM
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The fact that you're a woman and getting onto me for sticking up for myself is actually wild. He said women are parasites. How is that not black pill/incel behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:15 AM
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So.... you see women as parasites?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 07:02 AM
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Im seeing the mods allowing more and more black pill incel rhetoric lately smh
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:56 AM
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Where do you live? Almost half the workforce is women. Do you live in a country where women aren't allowed to work? Im so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:55 AM
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47% of the workforce is women. No one wants your 40k a year salary, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 06:52 AM
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Except men normally want sex and women want rights to our own bodies.... but ya know... totally the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 06:48 AM
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Stop. Talking. To. Me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 05:16 PM
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Stop talking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:43 PM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:46 AM
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Your flare says red pill, but this is weird predatory black pill rhetoric. I genuinely think you are a scary human being, and I worry about any patient you have. I hope you dont treat women or young girls if you can't control yourself. I think it's sick to label all men the same as you. It is not normal to just after teenagers. If my dad did, I would be ashamed. I would tell him he is being a creep. If my husband did, I would worry about him being around my teenage son's girlfriends. Most women …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 01:24 AM
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How dare you be a teenager and wear a dress. What?! You expect grown men to not attack you? You expect fully functioning grown men to not sexualize children? But women won't sleep with them because they are such nice guys!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:07 AM
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Every time i talk about my husband, i get told I'm lying buuutttttt I am borderline feral for my husband. We have a very healthy sex life of 3 to 4 times a week. He does it by - Being an equal partner so I never have to "mother" him. I dont have to remind him to help with chores, take a shower, or anything else that a normal adult should just know to do. He is a good father, and that gives me a chance to tap into my sexual energy because I'm not constantly thinking about what needs to get done o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:26 AM
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I only want to add in how insane it is that men bitch and moan about how women dont like the same things as them but everytime a woman tries to enter anything male dominated we get FLOODED with rape and death threats. ...... What the actual fuck do men have against Cynthia Erivo?? What? She is too good of a vocalist? I agree. That bitch and her magic pipes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:52 AM
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How did I resort to personal attacks? You lost the privilege to a proper discussion by actively sexualizing children. You said my mentality was stupid when I very clearly said I dont think its pedophilia to date someone in their 20s and YOU brought up bedding 16 year olds as normal. Please, tell me, when are women allowed to be emotional? Is it maybe when men, like you, are defending pedophilia?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:33 AM
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Men cant express their emotions and I hate that for them. I think constantly being told to man up or be a man makes men weary of crying, showing emotions, or therapy. Suicide rates are rising rapidly for men especially young men and I think its because boys and men dont have a support system. When you mention therapy to men they act like its an insult when all it really is is self care. Its someone unbiased to talk to. I'm trying really really hard to make sure my boys know that as their mom I m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:18 AM
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Every single woman I know has a story. Every single one. I remember getting cornered by 2 roofers in my neighborhood when I was riding my bike. I was 12 years old. Must have been my supple acne skin and athletic body 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:04 AM
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The way some men in here are defending pedophilia because it happens around the world is gross as fuck and I'm reporting every single one of you. 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:00 AM
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How very pedo of you. Thank you for showing us all exactly what kind of predatory man you are. I'm very sure I said its my personal opinion so I dont know why you think its a stupid mentality that I think pedophilia is wrong and now I know you aren't interested in a real debate but rather you want to exchange insults and defend pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:58 AM
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I dont think men attracted to someone in their 20s is a pedo... but I do judge 40 year olds dating teenagers (18 and 19). I think, and this is just what I think, that its predatory. Its the idea of going as young as you legally can. If the legal age was 15 I bet those same men would be ready to date a 15 year old. Sure, some men only care about looks. Some men only want young, fit, beautiful women. Those same men get angry when those girls just want their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 06:14 PM
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How is it a flex? You called me out for posting on here so it means my relationship is bad and I countered that my husband posts in here too 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:08 PM
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Why are you so mad? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:34 PM
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Some of us have different reasons for being in here you donut. Im happily married and joined to learn about red pill propaganda to actively parent my teen sons away from it. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:30 PM
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He is one of the incels we always see crying in here. I used to feel bad for him but honestly he is always like this. 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:28 PM
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Why are you the way you are? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:27 PM
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These incels think it's the same thing. Smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:57 AM
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But women raping anyone is super rare.... It's incredibly rare.... over 90% or all sexual assaults are perpetrated by men. That includes raping women, other men, and children. The stats are out there and readily available. Not a weird paper from the 90s or a manosphere website. Like.... the FBI released stats as of 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:55 AM
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With his logic girls who he deems pretty just starfish and reenact A Little Piece of Heaven 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:52 AM
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Oh shittttt. You caught me. I better go tell my hubby we can't be freaks together anymore or some little man on reddit won't find me attractive! 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:50 AM
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🩷 Of course it's ok. Personally, I think l might be the wrong person to ask, though. I have no problem with porn or toys for men. In fact, for my hubby's birthday, I bought him some fun toys lol. For LLM, I assume you mean a language model? So, like chat gpt? But for me, I use Chat GPT as a pseudo mom because im an orphan, so im not about to judge anyone for what they use ai for. 🤣 In general, though... brutal honesty? I've seen some women say Ai is a turn off. I know some girls who acfively "da…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:47 AM
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🤣 because the general consensus of all the women answering the question OP asked say the say thing. The way you aren't getting that makes me think you mist be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:24 PM
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Sure, but the way op asked it mattered. Also, if you take a second to read through the comments, the general consensus of the women who answered all said the same thing. Approaching a woman working out in the gym isn't generally the best time. You got all snarky for no reason other than.... what exactly? You could have worded it different than, "dont speak for me." Then she obviously wasn't talking to you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 08:18 AM
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Counterpoint - Almost everyone likes porn. 🤷 The only people i know who dont consume some form of porn are because religion tells them they aren't allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:49 AM
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Obviously not if she is so thirsty she gets upset at another woman for answering a question in a freakin debate subreddit 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:47 AM
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You do realize op asked for women to answer.... an youre upset that she answered? I guess I missed the part where she said EVERY SINGLE WOMAN especially you.... or.... perhaps.... OP asked a question and she, iunno, answered it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:46 AM
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Aw dont cry. I'll debate you. I will meet your troll energy with troll energy. Wanna talk about pathetic? Let's talk about your cute little crash out because you couldnt even get a rise out of a woman. You are so big and strong and smart Troll-senpai! UWU! Wow. Look at your brain. I bet youre so hot in real life. I belt you sleep with SOOOOOOOOO many women. Uwu.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:44 AM
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I asked every single woman on the whole planet and Mars, including the mermaids in the sea trenches, and we all voted her our spokesperson. How embarrassing for you. Imagine OP asking a question and multiple women all answering it the same saying - dont approach us at the gym and somehow you rode in on your high horse "WELL ACTUALLY". 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:40 AM
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Personally, I have never liked a cold open asking me out on a date. Talk to me, tell me your name, get to know me, if we havent talked before and you are asking me out then it feels like its just because you think I'm hot and not who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:36 AM
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It just means he made her orgasm well. That thoroughly spent, toe curling orgasm and he gave the good d to get her there.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:28 AM
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If women dont enjoy having sex with you, just say that. 🤷 Not everything is transactional. Some women enjoy sex and like their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:26 AM
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This. I think it's such a red flag when guys in this group talk about teenagers dating 40 yesr olds. That's weird, predatory, grooming behavior. But if a 40 year old dates a 50 yesr old, i dont care at all. I think it matters. But also, why do so many guys in this subreddit WANT to date literal teenagers. It's so weirdly alarming.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:24 AM
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What a load 🤣 women are 47% of the workforce.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:21 AM
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Men in here really are jumping through every mental hoop they possibly can to normalize dating teenagers smh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:18 AM
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Sooooo.... youre single i take it.... And giving really bad advice. I only date kind men and ended up marrying the kindest and nicest man I've ever met. Women like nice guys. If you think otherwise maybe you aren't as nice as you think 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:23 PM
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In my culture (Mexican) we hyphenated when we get married so legally I have 2 last names but I have familial last names too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 11:46 PM
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...... What even is the point of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 07:24 AM
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My reason for starting here was because my teenage son was introduced to red pill shit and I didn't know what it was, so I went on a search to find out. He was talking about look maxing, and his friends were talking about how girls should be virgins. Im lucky he is comfortable enough to talk to me and his dad about it. He shared some podcasts his friends listen to. I'll admit I am very in his business and try my best to monitor what he consumes. I pointed out that a lot of the podcasters and red…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 11:00 PM
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Look... im gonna be honest... most of my friends didnt meet their significant others through dating apps. I know everyone in here says its super common but people still meet and date coworkers, people they volunteer with, and people in social clubs. Those who stay home and play video games and watch porn aren't going to meet people. How do you expect someone to just magically fall for you if they dont know you. 🤷 Honestly... a lot of women i know have opted to just live with their friends instea…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 08:49 PM
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Cool. From your other comments I hope you specifically date an ai. 🩷 Ride into the sun my guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:44 PM
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..... why are you so mad? 🤣😂 Im gonna explain this as simply as possible so your big man brain can understand it. Ok? That good? Yes. Those things are natural and are considered human waste and have appropriate places to go like a ✨️toilet✨️. Porn IS a job. I believe that sex work is work. There are a lot of women porn stars who are very popular who are not clean shaven. Also. Again. Because you read about as well as the last guy, I said if you expect your non porn stars girlfriend to be clean s…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:42 PM
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Yeah. I agree. But op said is there anything else women have to offer... Women offer the same thing anyone does in a relationship. Support, love, intimacy, humor, consideration, partnership, etc. Sex is important but its not all women have to offer. If you think its all women have to offer most women encourage that type of man to date an ai 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 03:01 PM
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No it's not. Hair is natural. I said if its specifically because your favorite teenage porn stars dont have hair and you expect all women not to thats weird af.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:56 PM
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Most posts by men in this subreddit seem to center around sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:50 PM
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I hear obsessed I think of Joe from You.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:48 PM
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This has to be a hardcover black pill incel, a ragebaiter, or a literal child.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:33 PM
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Also. Comparing books to real life humans is weird. To you those porn stars might not seem human but they are living breathing people. Having a fantasy with a fictional book tok character from words on a page is leaps and bounds away from the exploitation of young girls in the porn industry. Its not lost on women that the most successful porn stars are often teenagers. When men try to tell us we need to be clean shaven because their favorite teenage porn stars have vaginas that look like babies …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:32 PM
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Why is there so much generalization? Im a woman. I believe sex work is real work. 🤷 Its not my business what other people do with their genitals. Most women I know watch porn or dont care if their partners watch porn. A lot of women I know watch porn with their partners. Why is everything about sex to the men in here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 02:24 PM
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You took all this time and wrote a whole paragraph about subpar vaginas.... What were you trying to get out of an almost month old conversation? Everyone's bodies are different. That's ok. If you went back and read my comment I very very clearly said that size doesnt matter nearly as much as how you use it. It feels like you just wanted to complain about "subpar" vaginas. If you dont like vaginas... sleep with dudes. 🤷 iunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:10 AM
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I mean isnt it though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:18 PM
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☝️☝️☝️☝️ this!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:13 PM
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Not gonna just say what you mean i see. 🤣 Say it with your chest buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:10 PM
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Maybe make your point instead of talking in circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 02:56 PM
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Your question made no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:38 AM
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Those were all certainly words
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 09:33 AM
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I wouldnt make a big deal out of flowers but to me this really embodies, "If he wanted to, he would." Simple as that. He doesnt want to buy flowers for her. That's ok that he feels like that and its on her if she is ok being with a man who doesnt want to buy her flowers. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:38 AM
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Do men think we have any issue finding someone? If you dont think that you are hot and successful then change it. Or stay single. Plenty of men are out here going to therapy. I never see incels volunteering at the dog shelter. For some reason its often the "hot successful" men volunteering... I wonder why that is. We, collectively women, want a man who isnt a jerk and we like spending time with. Thats it. The bar is in hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:23 AM
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Ooof. I was so close to agreeing with you. If you cant see the differences between - 90% of the time men are the perpetrators of violence towards women and children so we need to be cautious because our lives depend on it and "girls won't sleep with me and I deserve sex wah!" Then I dont know how to talk to you 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:10 PM
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Iunno. I think sleeping with women and dating them make me bi but 🤷 maybe im wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:05 PM
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I mean i start out very clear that I'm married so 🤷 Maybe some guys just want real advice? My number one advice is to be specific on your dating profile. If it says what's your favorite movie and you answer with one word that doesnt tell a woman much. What's your favorite movie when youre relaxing, do you have a go to sad movie when you need a good cry, what is a movie you consistently introduc people to... those are things that create a conversation based on likes and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:16 PM
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Your kind... like we are a different species. Stay classy bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:13 PM
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Through a friend. He knew we both had a lot of the same interests. We both are giant nerds and like anine, video games, and scifi. Our favorite author was Patrick Rothfuss. We went on a 1 date and I loved how kind he was the restraunt staff and held a door open for an old man. He pulled my chair out. He offered to pay for dinner and I accepted then we went to an impromptu drag race because neither of us wanted the date to end and I paid for the seats/drinks. What started as 1 dinner date turned …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:17 PM
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The dm me, and I've never thought it was weird or creepy. 🤷 if they dm me and are rude, I meet them with the same energy. Simple as that. I married a man who is kind and sweet, and it was my number 1 criteria when choosing the father to my children. I didn't want a man who yelled, screamed, or punched walls. I knew I was going to be working, so I wanted a partner who would want to help, not just be willing. I saw what a man was like with my own dad doing the bare minimum. I didn't just choose a …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:46 PM
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Noooo I said I, me, myself hasn't had issues in the past..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:52 AM
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How am I weird and not bright? Because I have a different opinion than you? 🥵🥵oh black pill senpai🥵🥵 please tell me more about how my little dumb brain cant comprehend your big manly words. OH GOD! Senpai incel! Please! Make me pant with your big brain. Uwu. Uwu. ..... is that what you wanted? Is that the attention you were looking for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:14 AM
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Youre not wrong at all. I think thats why the 4B movement is happening and a lot of women are waiting longer to have sex, commit to relationships, and get married. 🤷 personally, seeing my friends get divorced and enter the dating world again... most women are having a great time and never have an issue finding a date even if the are plus size and have kids from a pervious relatuonship. They just want to wait longer for marriage and sex because they make their own money and dont have to rely on g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:01 AM
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Are you comparing the actual hate for women that the men in here have because they cant get laid to a woman who fears being raped or murdered by a man when over 90% of all physical violent crimes are perpetrated by men?.... Is... Is that the point youre trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:32 AM
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Honestly? The way a lot of men talk in here about how much they hate women... I truly think they are gay and suppressing it. Every single year the number of gay and bi men rises and I think thats awesome. Maybe if they are happy with a man they won't turn into raging black pill incels. 🩷
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 07:31 AM
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.... me. Im bi.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 05:12 AM
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I was joking. I have no intention on charging. I like helping dudes out in here. I've met some sweet purple and blue pill guys. I even play video games with a couple now. 🤷 I wish men would stop looking at all women as the enemy or like we are weirdly combatants in something. Take our advice or dont. I just get annoyed when men ask for advice so we give them advice and they respond with, "bUt YoUr a GiRl!" Like duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 02:01 AM
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Rule 1 of being bi.... men are always crying that girls don't want to date them yet I've never had a problem dating women sooooo maybe its the men that are the problem? Maybe. Iunno. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 01:58 AM
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I've helped guys in here with their dating profiles free of charge lol should I start charging? 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 12:30 AM
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Your response to a woman - "That’s easy to say when you don’t stand to lose half your net worth." Sooooo I replied that she, like most women, probably work too. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:28 AM
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🤣🤣 You aren't held hostage. You can leave at any moment. A hostage is someone who cant leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:27 AM
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Nooooo this is a debate in a debate forum where you open yourself up for people to disagree with you. If youre wife isnt banging you try remembering her birthday and actually giving her orgasms. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:26 AM
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Its a big deal because it keeps happening. We have a prime example right now with Diddy and Cassie. A 40 year old man groomed a literal teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:25 AM
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Because no women are the bread winners.... Another man in here who seems to forget that 47% of the labor force is women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:20 AM
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Its not like youre held hostage. Just leave if youre unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:18 AM
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Its never okay ever to cheat. If you are unhappy leave. Cheating is one of the lowest nonviolent things you can do to a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 05:17 AM
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I guess I just assumed they were the same tbh. They both seem to spout the same nonsense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:29 AM
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I know people in here love to put down women who weigh over 130lbs but just to throw a wrench in, I weigh 170lbs and I've never had a problem attracting men or women. Soooooo.... maybe weight doesnt matter and red pill guys should stop bringing it up so much 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:25 AM
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bi women/men lying in wait like bridge trolls apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:21 AM
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I noticed that it's always the incels talking about the code and turning dating into a game instead of just... being a normal fucking person 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:19 AM
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I see a lot of red pillers use the men peaking at 40-50 as a way to justify dating as young as they legally possibly can. The same guys who say, "its gross is women have pubes," are the men paying for the countdown for Bhad Baby to turn 18. If a man believes that I just assume they are a pedophile and if the legal age was 15, they would want that. 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 02:18 AM
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Its the same in America so I honestly dont understand what this posters about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:13 PM
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Youre saying that like its already not a thing. At least in America it for sure is. If a man has been paying child support and finds out the child isnt his whoever he sent the money to has to pay him back. He has to go to court but its not that uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 08:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:31 PM
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I think if you think that about this song, it must hit close to home for you because this is talking about a certain type of man. Manchild Oh, boy You said your phone was broken Just forgot to charge it Men are notorious for using this line about their phones and think women are all so stupid we believe them. When you say your phone is dead, but we can actively see you online through Facebook, Snapchat, tiktok, insta, we know your phone isn't dead. You just dont want to talk to your girl and act…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 07:30 PM
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Men like sex. Women also like sex. Sex is fun. What we have a problem with is men making EVERYTHING about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 06:03 AM
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I dont like gym culture but I love hiking. I dont care if I have a little pudge to my tummy 🤷 I like group things though like kick boxing and dance classes. I also throw bales of hay a lot, ride horses, and love to go out dancing with friends. All great work outs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:32 AM
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Im actively offering to help you. 🤷 and I did read that book.... not because i wanted to for some light summer reading but for college 🤣 Sooooo youre gaurentee is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 03:06 AM
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Women arent pickier we just arent forced to settle anymore like our Moms and Grandmas. Sweetie... if this is your attitude i dont think you are rejected because youre too human. I think you might be rejected because of your cynicism. Personally I would never date a grumpy guy. 🤷 The problem is the world changed and some men havent yet. Put in your picture to ChatGPT, ask it to show you who it thinks you should go after. Shit my guy, post your dating bio here and maybe we can help you with it. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 01:14 AM
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..... they do.
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