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| 18 | Are we often mistaking selfishness for sexism in women and men? | Discussion | Superb_Sea_1071 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 01:52 PM |
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| – | Are we often mistaking selfishness for sexism in women and men?Men and women are not a monolith. Not everyone requires "proof." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 12:24 AM |
| – | Are we often mistaking selfishness for sexism in women and men?You are at greater risk of life issues due to pregnancy, medical complications, loss of income, yes. This is true. Also more likely to contract an STD from a man than vice versa. Men are also at risk. They run the risk of being on the hook for paying child support for the next 18 years if she decides to keep the child. Even if custody is shared, the higher earning partner will likely have to pay support. In my case, that would probably be me, to the tune of hundreds of thousands of dollars over … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Are we often mistaking selfishness for sexism in women and men?I agree with what you're saying. It's not just an "or" and more of an "and/or" situation with overlap. A lot of selfish people will be sexist, a lot of sexist people will be selfish. A lot of selfish people may not be sexist. I'm more trying to dig into the people that are just one the "me, me, me" side. Really slicing this cheese thin. There's a definitely a problem in modern dating of selfishness, where many people now expect their partner to basically be a panacea holy water cure-all for thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Are we often mistaking selfishness for sexism in women and men?Good point. There are a surprising number of people who call themselves progressive and feminist that fall for the same doo doo, if you'll pardon my language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Are we often mistaking selfishness for sexism in women and men?Gender essentialism isn't quite the same as gender roles. Gender essentialism posits that women and men inherently gravitate towards these roles by some sort of instinct, rather than the social construct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Are we often mistaking selfishness for sexism in women and men?Yes, you should probably change your flair to red pill based on everything you said to be more honest about your position. You're engaging in a lot of the same type of genetic essentialism inherent to TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?Well, that's a double confirmation there. You chose to insult the OP instead of answer their question, which implies you are bothered by it even being asked. A hit dog hollers. The dog in question being someone carrying prejudice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:54 AM |
| – | Women have given up on dating menYes, we get it, you are mad because the men you want to date won't date you, and men you don't like won't stop trying to date you. This is a pretty sexist post, and you need to look in a mirror for a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?Good way to avoid the question. So, do you think your life is worth more than your partner's, or not? The way you avoided the questions suggests that yes, you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableWell, guess what - the majority of us are pretty average, man or woman. You're also speaking of women and men as a monolith, so you're completely off at the basis of your whole argument. Try to evaluate your prejudices. Start completely over. Imagine situations and people, switch genders around, and evaluate how you are biased in these situations. Also accept the fact that not everyone can be extraordinary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 09:21 PM |
| 17 | CMV: Men frequently lose in life if they are too empathetic towards women and female issuesLook, I don't agree with what he said either, especially the "woke mind virus" shit, but imagine if someone said this to women who complain about the manosphere, or in general the rampantness of online misogyny. "Go touch grass!" "You're just chronically online." "It's all in your head." Funny how when a man sees awful content online being sexist towards men and says it's bad, he's called fragile. But if a woman sees misogynistic content and calls it out, people actually respond appropriately an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Current cultural/gender war is partly a fight over who multi-million dollar companies should pander toYou have no idea what color the skin of the people making your games are, quit bullshitting. You can't just walk into EA and cruise around the office getting the genetic history and skin color of everyone. Man, what a ridiculous way to lie to yourself to justify yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Dance events or classes are a preferable alternative to dating appsShe’ll doing everything she can to not get paired up with you, feign sickness, or just plain leave. If she does dance with an average dude, she may just grin and bear it. Then, she will just never come back. Jesus dude, this reads like it was written by Despair herself straight out of Sandman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 03:17 PM |
| – | Dance events or classes are a preferable alternative to dating appsjfc, men aren't even allowed to go to dance classes to learn to dance anymore. You are being absolutely ridiculous and misandrist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 03:16 AM |
| 4 | Current cultural/gender war is partly a fight over who multi-million dollar companies should pander toI've heard this argument made about a plethora of industries but I have yet to see any real evidence backing it up. I'm open to the idea being possible, but there hasn't been a single example that goes beyond people just seeing some people of color and screaming "DEI!!" It always seems based on this assumption that every POC is an incompetent, unqualified DEI hire, which is frankly just fucking racist, LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 03:02 PM |
| 1 | I am so tired...women are now penalised for lesser crimes at a higher degree. I didn't say this, the evidence I can find doesn't say this either. The opposite, actually, all the data shows women are penalized less, arrested less, charged less, give lesser sentences, etc. they're treated lighter than men across the board in the criminal justice system according to all the available evidence. Women commit less violent crimes compared to men. Their incarceration rates have gone up in non-violent crimes if you look… | /r/MensRights | 05/07/25 11:42 PM |
| 29 | I am so tired...Well, yes, unless that minority is one that it's currently socially acceptable to hate. Then you get praised as a .. progressive??? somehow?? | /r/MensRights | 22/06/25 07:23 PM |
| 14 | Apparently men are *checks notes*... not allowed to move on.Weeks later, someone posted the EXACT SAME MESSAGE but switched genders: a man was complaining about a woman over the situation. But the words were exactly the same. However, this time, everyone blamed him and said she was right, etc, etc. Eventually someone caught on about the earlier thread. But most people were upset that it was obviously made up versus, of course, the hypocrisy. And no, Norm, this time the hypocrisy truly was the worst part. There have actually been a ton of these done on re… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/25 02:59 PM |
| 17 | I am so tired...TikTok is infested with content like this. They're massively sexist and think it's OK because men are the target. I once said "self-reported surveys show 50% of people lie on their dating profiles" on a post where people were frustrated with lying in online dating. Some woman tiktoker with 100k followers came in responding to me with "it's misogynist to say women lie." I didn't even say it was only women, I said PEOPLE. 50% of PEOPLE lie, ACCORDING TO THEMSELVES, and she just got mad that women … | /r/MensRights | 22/06/25 02:54 PM |
| 38 | I am so tired...What's insane is in the US, more women are getting locked up each decade, and there's a whole organization that formed to try and prevent it. Funny how men are getting locked up even MORE but they only care when it happens to women. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/25 02:46 PM |
| 52 | I am so tired...TikTok is 62% women, that's why it's like this. They have the majority there which gives them the ability to be openly sexist like this. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/25 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Democrats took the male vote for grantedIt reminds me of the dating scene. When a woman is asked. "What do you put on the table?" Then she puts her hands on her hip, starts talking all sassy like; "I am the table." That's basically the Democrat way of courting the male vote, and then they wonder why it went badly for them. This is the best summary of this issue I have seen. Men are automatically lumped in with other men, and that's somehow fine. It's prejudice, plain and simple, but being repeatedly justified by misandrist women, and … | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 03:08 PM |
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