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fat acceptance stops with my dick
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 10:33 PM
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casual sex never found me and i never found casual sex so obviously id like to find someone who'll go the distance with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 05:24 PM
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another thing is, if dudes are used to "wham-bam thank you mam" 2 mins deathgrip habit. it might lead to premature ejaculation because they are so used to reaching orgasm so quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 11:15 PM
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i make video games, at work and off work. i guess im fucked ​ at the end of the day it's about being productive and balancing it with relaxation. yeah back when i subbed to WOW i was a completely unproductive asshole. if you're RP you should know time management is what separates the winners from the losers. it's not that someone's born so good at everything, it's just that they managed their time so they can get good at many things. though people need entertainment, in moderation. ​ sometimes i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:14 PM
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with unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:06 PM
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for long term i think partners who are similar to you will have a higher chance of being together because of shared values. i understand sometimes you need to compliment each other but you cant have two different people with opposing values trying to tolerate each other. even if they are together, they might end up distant and resentful. like your typical grandpa and grandma sleeping in separate beds kinda deal. ​ while you may not be able to find someone who goes as far as 80% like you, or even…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 10:03 PM
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do you want to know stroke patterns as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 09:57 PM
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hah. well, first off, she will not be the first woman i have to block off. she's my step mother. though she treated me like i am from her womb, but she's not related to me at all. the first woman i had to block off was my biological mother who gave me up in custody and abandoned me. so i am not a stranger to women behaving emotionally and not think about the long term consequences of their actions. as i grow older i begin to understand and come to terns with the idea that i will not understand s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 07:49 AM
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Reminder that you’re aging daily so there’ll come a time when you’re finally free from this special layer of hell. You’ve got that to look forward to, so smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 01:25 AM
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I definitely see AWALT behaviors in my female relatives after reading about RP and they are spot on. The thing is, once you get over it and realize it’s their nature. There isn’t much to be upset about. It’s like being upset at lions eating zebras. It’s just nature, stupid. It does help me find ways to deflect/navigate some of our conversations. It’s very helpful for me to untangle some of their messy trains of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 01:22 AM
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Well, a child isn’t cheap. It is an extra mouth to feed and often makes my step brother look like he is hemorrhaging money. Just out of curiosity, do you folks split up things in marriage 50/50 or you are mostly in charge of on area while your man handles the other in a more asymmetrical way?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 05:11 PM
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The reality is men needs to be the provider and make more money because men can’t get pregnant. Say a woman who is in UMC meets a man who’s in WC. Things may be fine even if she managed to convince herself that she doesn’t care if he makes shit money. After all, it’s true love™️, right? Next thing you know, she may want to have babies. And what happens after the kid is born? There is a period where she can’t work. The man has to bring in money to support her and the child. How is a working class…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 05:07 PM
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God doing his job.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 04:35 PM
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Hit the gym hard, don’t take what women say too seriously, don’t drink too much and don’t play World of Warcraft
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 10:21 AM
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I live in Seattle working in tech and sometimes it drives me crazy seeing how snobby the woman in my field act. They make MC to UMC money (in our bubble it’s considered MC but compared to what the working class make, it’s still a lot of money) and they are unwilling to settle for a man who makes JUST a little bit more than they do. Or in most the cases, those women don’t even know what they want. Often what they chase after is a mathematical improbrobility. A lot of them are leftists who don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 10:07 AM
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i dont care who you are, if you dont exercise, you're not going to age gracefully i have a friend, just a month older than me, we're both 32 now. he doesnt exercise as much as i do, lives a pretty sedentary lifestyle. he gained weight, doesn't look his best, testosterone level is probably not as high as when he was in his 20s. you want to age well? exercise, drink less, get enough sleep, and watch what you eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 11:25 PM
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Green flag: she puts others before her, even the men she's not attracted to, not just special treatment for chad Red flag: everything she does revolves around her, that's a selfish, self absorbed cunt ​ Green flag: she has a solid long term plan and is working toward that goal steadily Red flag: she missed her opportunity and is now trying to play catch up by shotgunning our relationship ​ Green flag: she doesnt try to compete with men or do things that would emasculate them, knows how to yield …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 11:18 PM
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there's an asymmetry between youth/beauty and power/wealth. once you lost your youth and beauty, you are not gonna get it back. power and wealth on the other hand, can always be regained even if you may not be as powerful or wealthy as you once were. one is depreciating and another is appreciating. ​ I think the flip for women is a guy who used to offer commitment first in order to get sex to very attractive girls and never bothers to give the unattractive girls a shot. after being burn over and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:37 PM
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The “keeping him around as BB” part is basically woman’s nature revealed. When my biological mother had an affair she was so delusional to the point where she believed she can have 2 men in her life. The man she fucks and have fun with, and the man that’s there to pay bills and raise her kids. If fucking every juicy 19 year old poon is the fantasy of men, then having the AFBB setup is the fantasy of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:29 PM
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Uh, you think men want to get tied down to fucking one pussy for the rest of his life either? Here’s a reality check: everybody settles. Not because “that’s the best dick/pussy I can get”. Rather, “he/she makes a good parent and partner and I know that’s someone I can trust to start a family with”. It’s not for the “greater good” of society. It’s for your kids. If you want children, then monogamy will provide them a good home to grow up in. If you don’t care about having kids, you can be a goat …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:06 PM
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The only reason we choose monogamy is because it produces a stable society where we can squeeze the maximum amount of productivity out of everyone and the children will be raised in a stable household so this tradition continues on. I believe that’s why the family unit is so important and is considered he building block of society. Destroy the family, then you destroy monogamy. Notice polyarmory, single parenthood are on the rise? And the world we live in has never been more fractured and chaoti…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:55 AM
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M/Red/32 Attractive and boring. I do my hobby stuff with my guy friends so I don't really care if my girlfriend doesn't do everything with me. I can't fuck someone I'm not attracted to or want to be tied down with that person. You can't bargain attraction, not with your superior personality and artistic energy. Dating means we're fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:37 AM
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none of her god damn business secondly, if you both have friction burn on your genitals, yeah, you're having an unhealthy amount of sex, otherwise, fuck away. and make sure to be extra loud and passionate next time you visit your girlfriend's sister.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:24 AM
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Bye Felicia
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 01:16 AM
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look, you're still a misogynistic bastard by following women's advice for dating if you are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 12:50 AM
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keep in mind marriage is the merger of two tribes, if her family likes you, you are basically in. and even if it goes nowhere, you will still appear white as lily when her family speaks fondly of you "Oh he was such a good guy with so much potentials."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 09:38 PM
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when i was younger and didnt have much life experience, women make or break my day. and i would think there's something really, really wrong with me when women reject me. ​ eventually you grow old to see those women fail, then you realize the problem is not you, in fact, THEY are the ones with bigger problems than you do. especially when you get your shit together, you'll begin to realize a lot of women just suck at being women just like a lot of guys suck at being guys. (i say this as in, being…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 04:46 AM
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with toxic masculinity women wont be affected directly by the said terms. however, like someone else points out, men will counter it by being bolder, and purposely stepping out of line just to spite women and so on. and women will collective suffer the consequences of a few deranged feminists shaming an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 04:38 AM
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You do realize that not many men are borned to not care about external validations like other posters have mentioned before me. We are social animals so we value external input. The only reason why a man can be so “internally focuses” is due to: 1. Training, lots and lots of it 2. Poor socialization which leads to isolation 3. Born psychopath A man who is completely in his own world, doesn’t give a single fuck about what’s outside of his mind is dangerous. You’re lucky if he is a peaceful person…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 10:45 PM
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“Clever girl.” My response.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 11:01 PM
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At the end of the day, you as a man, should be ready and get comfortable with the idea of living alone. Don’t hope to get married or have a woman who’s loyal by your side. Make money and plan for your retirement so you won’t have to worry. It’s the most you can do for yourself that’s somewhat in your control. Funny enough. Once you’re in a secured spot. Marriage becomes less and less appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 12:44 AM
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if you're shooting way out of your league, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 11:12 PM
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Reality and statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 07:14 AM
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I was told many moons ago: “With the wrong girl, you can’t do anything right. With the right girl, you can’t do anything wrong.” The chase can be exciting for us guys if she likes you but keeps you running after her. Mad props for girls with a good game like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 03:50 AM
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Okay, let me retake this the test so I won’t have to go to detention. The positive trait most women share are their ability to get in touch with their emotions. It’s healthy and it compliments us guys. Please don’t have my Mom come pick me up, Principal GoingTheDistance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 05:30 PM
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Less violent. you're in for a rude awakening buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 04:53 PM
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the trick to being super good at super bad is to never claim you were super good to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 04:52 PM
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One guy I used to work with got hit with a false harassment claim at work. It was pretty ugly because the girl who works under him didn’t like him for some reason and decided to go to HR and claim that he was making derogatory comments and harassing her. Luckily other guys on the team jumped in to defend him because they were present at the scene when the “harassment” was supposed to have taken place. Still it took a while to resolve. And when it was finally over he went to HR to retaliate becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:41 PM
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They have vaginas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 03:35 PM
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it's so damn sad that all the pro life answers got downvoted, so much for tolerance
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:19 AM
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RP, male " The first duty of government is the protection of life, not its destruction. Abandon that, and you have abandoned all. " -Thomas Jefferson I used to be for abortion when I was younger, but as I get older and I thought about the principles of what the government's role is in our lives, it became clear that it is the government's role to defend life. You may have heard of the "government and gun" analogy. It breaks down to, if we swap out the word "government" with the word "gun", would…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:14 AM
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Oh, ho ho ho. If you think it’s gonna be over soon, think again. When those millennial feminists turn 40, they will be hell bent on making everyone’s lives as miserable as they possibly could. If only you knew how bad things are...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 09:23 PM
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Avoiding responsibility is not exclusive to women. Difference is culturally we held men’s feet to the fire so they can’t weasle out of things easily. Go read some blogs written by conservative women, they do tend to talk more about owning their shit. But then again, talk is cheap.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 09:16 PM
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The Great Depression was both caused and prolonged entirely by the federal government - specifically the Federal Reserve System. The New Deal was more government damage control for its own recklessness. https://youtu.be/2Ce6z-u_Wk0 Stephan Molyneux did a video on this. Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:32 PM
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Marriage is a thing that the man offers a woman, traditionally you’re asking the man to be able to split half his shit with her so when a woman is marriage material, it means she’s commitment worthy. Any men, with resource, is marriage material, because that just means he can make that offer. But that doesn’t necessarily mean he’s attractive or is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 08:42 PM
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The five years living in Honolulu made me really miss the food there. Poke is becoming like a fad on the west coast but most of them are terrible. Yeah tbh the general population have terrible diet. Couple with sedentary lifestyle, no wonder obesity is on the rise. My friend always laughs at the idea that in America, the rich people are skinny and the fat peolle are usually poor people. Which is kind of the reverse elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 03:41 PM
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They are bullies through and through. Thing is, if you bully someone in real life, you’ll have a chance to get them to submit to you through force and intimidation. But when you engage in bullying tactics with just words in online settings, you’re only upping the amount of people who will openly oppose you because there are no imminent threat. The funny thing is I believe RP will take action more than BP if you put the two in the same room physically. Words don’t hurt as much as a fist. I highly…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:49 AM
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The three letter word that guarnatees to solve all the pointless shit we argue here daily: W A R
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:33 AM
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Lowering men’s sex drive: I thought MGTOW has already achieved that partially. Also the driving force behind men working and competing is sex. If men don’t want sex as much, nothing gets done and you can kiss civilization goodbye. Increasing women’s sex drive: women risk more when it comes to sex. men can be indiscriminate because they don’t have to worry about pregnancy. Even if there is birth control readily available, heightened sex drive for women comparable to men’s level expose them to a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:28 AM
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WAW in full force
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:07 AM
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Careful what you wish for. Native Hawaiians are about to go extinct because of bad lifestyle and diet. There aren’t that many pure blooded Hawaiians left. Many don’t survive past the age of 45 due to heart attack, stroke and other poor lifestyle related diseases. The cause? Terrible high sodium diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:03 AM
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Yeah that’s a relationship ender. Unless you know you have no problem scoring, in which case you should proceed with the open relationship only to watch her reaction. I remember reading an article about a guy whose wife asked for an open relationship thinking she can trade up. He begrudgingly agreed. She ended up sleeping around with couple guys throughout the year and he found himself a young hottie to replace her. When she realize what she had done, it was already too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 09:57 AM
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Once again. The empathetic blue rears its ugly head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 03:40 AM
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She’s not that high on my list of priorities when I have better offer now. If you’re asking for a simple explanation that doesn’t hurt your fee fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 02:25 AM
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I’ve written about this in another thread so let me reiterate: Male. It happened to me. I was scrawny so she chose the fun tall hunk over me. That was when we were in our mid 20s. I warned her that he has a bad character and there’s no future with him (lazy, has no ambition, a loser weeaboo). Didn’t listen to me. Fast forward I spent 5 years fixing my life, got fit, bought my own place, completely updated and changed myself down to the way how I carry myself everyday. Never had she even bothered…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 09:25 PM
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Well. The whole “for love” only benefit guys who aren’t motivated to work. If you’re a normal, conscientious guy who knows he has what it takes to make money and work to support a family, he doesn’t care if she has a good job. Cuz he’s the main source of income. On the other hand, if you’re a loser who can’t wait to shed that responsibility or don’t believe that you need to go grind that 9 to 5 career, women picking up the slack is of course very welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 05:06 PM
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Because the really misleading part is the word “that” “That” can be anything. Lying? cheating? Always upbeat? Innocent? The list goes on. So without any context as to what “that” means, the only neutral way for me to interpret AWALT is to accept that men and women are different. Logically it doesn’t make any sense to attribute HUMAN traits to just one specific gender. Both men and women lie, both men and women have outbursts, both men and women can be manipulative. However, it’s safe for me to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:58 PM
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From Warren Ferrell: Men's greatest weakness is their facade of strength, and women's greatest strength is their facade of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:50 PM
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The women I know that bought into those “FOR LOVE” bullshit pick guys who are absolute losers and sometimes abusive. And then they wonder why they always end up with guys like that. Though if you’re a woman and you buy that crap, you’re a loser as well so I guess water does seek its own level.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:38 PM
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When she demands marriage or gives me an ultimatum, there’s the door honey. Marriage is MY assessment of the woman. Only I will determine whether she is good enough and trustworthy enough, they are in no place to negotiate that with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:35 PM
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We all know women are emotional creatures. AWALT is just simply a short hand telling men “women are different than men”. The “are like that” part is highlighting that women don’t think the way men think and our approach to problem solving and conflict resolution are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:32 PM
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A man who wants to reap the benefit but none of the responsibility. Part of growing up as a man is you own your shit and take responsibility for your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:29 PM
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The other day I was listening to Stephan Moleneux on race and IQ. He brought up the notion that “it’s not racism if you have the data to back it up. I think the same can be applied. Stereotypes are there for a reason. I can’t remember how many times I’ve seen women engage in “feeling = thinking”. I’ve also seen men do this but women engage this almost routinely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:24 PM
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Okay, whatever floats your boat. Regarding the AWALT. Sometimes I do mentally add a P in front of the W. Which stands for “Pretty” so it reads as “All Pretty Women Are Like That”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:15 PM
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I took the redpill many moons ago to help me understand what women desire. But I never used it to plate women or engage in a lot of casual sex. The way I look at it: I’m a 5’7 dude, realistically speaking I’m out of the casual sex market While sex with multiple women sounds exciting. My background and upbringing would not make me feel comfortable to do what a lot of RPers do. I believe in monogamy and bonding with the other person. RP helped me understand boundaries and what a guy should do to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 04:05 PM
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Right. It’s basically agreeing on the ‘game’ we play collectively. But by no means demanding the scores to be the same. Like JP mentioned. If you play a different game (polygamy), you’re gonna get ultraviolence. And somewhere along the way we figured out that we want a more stable society where everyone gets a fair shot to get married by the standards we’ve set ourselves (woman marry competent provider/protector and men marry a loving and caring woman capable of child rearing) opposed to a highl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 04:46 PM
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I think Joe was incorrect when it comes to comparing enforced monogamy with demanding for equal outcome. Now if you DEMAND that every marriage to be just the same configuration and yields the same amount of happiness, then that would be the demand of equal outcome. Enforced monogamy is just the recognition of a positive and optimal way how a stable society handles men and women. And it’s not something you can compare when it’s the government demanding the outcomes to be the same. Culturally enfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 04:32 PM
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But within that too 10% there will be a top 10%. If there is an agreed upon threshold that you can hit like a sign that says “you must be this tall to ride”. Then attraction, sex, women, and romance will be very straight forward. However, if you round up the top 20% of men in the room, there will still be a percentage of men that’s gonna fall out of the top 20% amongst themselves. That’s just how women filter men and if that’s the bar they go with for casual sex, then the amount of men who fall …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 04:25 PM
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When I took the red pill and gained a little insight about women’s nature. I did thought about just enjoying the collapse and watching the world burn. But I disagree with that resolution because I see myself as part of the bigger problem we face collectively if I give into it and become the collapse as well. To me, the red pill is merely a map to help me navigate difficult water. It’s better to have a map that tells you where the storms are than to believe the sea is calm and smooth. I never bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 04:18 PM
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For all the men who choose to engage in casual sex, there will always be losers at the bottom of that hierarchy. And the problem is there are just some men who won’t be able to have casual sex because they are at the absolute bottom. It’s similar to the legitimate critiques of “work hard and you’ll succeed” because there is just a population of people who will not benefit from that advice due to shit dice roll on life. Telling men “just go for casual sex” puts the emphasis on “getting sex”, whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 04:00 PM
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The first step to heal is to feel. We’ve all been there. Been hurt, been lied to, been not chosen, been cheated on. Our ego defends itself by acting like a clam and shutting ourselves in. These are all genuine emotions, at least you know you have some capacity to feel, which was what got you hurt in the first place. Yeah, I can understand where you’re coming from. Everybody’s heart is inside a lockbox. You can open up that box to unleash all the fun when you stick in the right key. Problem for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 03:23 PM
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i wouldnt recommend it for everyone since each configurations are gonna be dealing with a bunch of different variables. there are things i thought was risky to attempt but it worked out for him. the two of them do have pretty similar personalities so who am i to judge if they're enjoying each other. at the end of the day no one can tell you who to marry, but i do see how the table is flipped when people are in their 30s and the woman's dumb/unfortunate enough to not lock someone down in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 06:38 AM
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i have a friend/ex-coworker who got married a couple years back, they bought a place in Cali and from what i can tell he's pretty happy. he's an average dude with bad teeth and lazy eyes. pretty tall but definitely not a chad. plus working in tech puts him in the BB category. i never heard he had a girlfriend when we were working together. his wife is a bit older. below average in looks. she's doing what a lot of career women ended up doing, work and work and work til late 20s, gets married then…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 02:28 AM
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i hope i made some sense there, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 02:00 AM
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40 - 50% marriages end in divorce and 75% of the divorces were filed by women. and what did i say about how much women are worth marrying? im not denying the reality that women initiate divorces and therefore i said a lot of them need to be avoided. you have already made up your mind and there isnt much i can do to convince you that there is a small portion of women out there who's worth the risk. in my opinion if you dont want kids, you dont have to get married. but if you DO want what's best f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/18 12:23 AM
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Why is it so common then? if you take what i said about the number of women worth marrying, you'd realize a lot of people shouldnt be marrying. i have friends who decided to get marry ONLY because they wanted to have children. marriage is for the kids, if you in the back of your head have even the slightest feeling that she cant handle the responsibility or she isnt mature enough to understand that it's not something she can just "quit" willy nilly, she can be your girlfriend forever, but you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 11:54 PM
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i dont deny that divorce rape is real. it's scary and that's why i put it in writing that you dont want a woman who can fuck you over. but you also cant be so intellectually dishonest to say that ALL women have a plan to divorce rape all the men who's seen as a beta bux provider. there are good women out there, the numbers are just really small, that's all there is to it. that's like saying yeah, there are fatal car crashes. no denying that it's real. but if you drive with your eyes closed, gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 11:25 PM
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real relationship define "real"? like what, netflix and chill? going to concerts together? being BFF? liking the same music? how many more sophomoric shit can you conjure up that you perceive as "real"? is that why people nowadays just give up before they even consider fixing a marriage because what's real really is just some skin deep shit that you shed with time? how about some timeless love like a sense of responsibility, the love for the children you produced, the love for the family - a 'ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 11:10 PM
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If you are a beta bux, you need to look for different kind of women instead of using wealth to attractive the pretty girls. If you aren’t born with an alpha face or genetics, your best shot of attracting a mate is through provision. But the beta bux have to work really really hard to vet women. Because they’ve spent their whole life working on the alternative route, they need to know that they just can’t commit to any woman that will fancy them. I still do believe that there are plenty of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 08:47 PM
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Women like you give me hope that not all have been infected with the feminism brain virus! 👍 Spread some common sense!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 08:15 PM
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Modern women can’t cook, can’t clean, spend all their money without any solid plans, drink too much, care too much about what’s on social media, the list goes on and on and on. I too can play this game. Except I did in without a wall of text.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 08:18 PM
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I’ll tell you a story about my cousin, He’s a decent guy. Met 3 girls at work who are all into him. Two are pretty cute and one seemed average. They were all at his house and none of them refuse to leave. My cousin picked the average looking one. He told me she’s hard working, nice, easy going. Cleans his shit, cares about him. Clearly shows support for him. By now we all have some sort of mental image of an alpha male. Guy who isn’t afraid to go after what he wants. High performance (if he’s a …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 08:03 PM
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unreciprocated love of the women of his past, who are probably not the same women of his present most people dont change, their circumstances change. i changed radically so i knew the amount of pain and struggle required to change. not only there is pain when you pay for during transition, there's also a significant amount of mental work that comes afterward to make sure you dont regress. if you assume the old way is ground zero, then any upward direction you go will require you to put in some a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 07:01 PM
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it depends on what kind of relationships you have with other men. if you're in a nerdy circle full of other nerds and all y'all do is watch anime and enjoy otaku shit, good luck buddy. but if you are with guys who want to be like you, then you are now the leader of a pack. this no doubt will raise your stock. women desire a man's man, not another sheep in the herd.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 06:01 PM
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when i was in my mid 20s i thought marriage would be a good idea "down the road", but then as i get older,i feel less and less positive about marriage and im able to detect and identify more pitfalls that comes with marriage. especially after seeing my friends get divorced and hearing stories about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:54 PM
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first of all, there's nothing to be angry about. in fact, i felt validated when it happened to me knowing that the hard work didnt go to waste and something came out of it. secondly, i came to my own conclusion based on the idea that she doesn't want to help me build something together. ive seen past the rejection and the crying on the shoulder shit. ultimately i can only distill my assessment of her character to be "unable to think long term and not wanting to build something with me". i was al…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:43 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip9tIwYd-8M it's all i have to say about old guys telling young bucks "get your shit together, you have plenty of time".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:22 PM
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it's difficult because when i look at women my age, they are either fat, or undesirable (with a kid), or i knew they would have rejected me in my 20s. the young ones arent great either because they are dumb and immature and think the world is all rainbow and sunshine. but as a man, once you found the right way to live, the right mode of being, you're not at all worried about being alone. because that's the mentality anyways, after all i have endured, being alone is the least painful thing that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:19 PM
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can confirm. i had a lead who joined the company in his mid 20s, one time we saw his badge with his old photos and he looked like a kid, fast forward he's in his mid 30s and he looks like a MMA fighter (helps he took up kickboxing too)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:13 PM
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I submit that if teens to young adults (ages 18-22 or so) are so immature, have no life-experience, and statistics indicate more marriage failure than successes then hold off on "adult activities" that include having sex, cohabitation, and not participate in said activities until mid-20s, maybe after college, or later years. Why does society encourage and approve adult behavior, yet constantly contradict the idea that folks are too young? I see this differently – if you’re not ready for adult li…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:04 PM
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I did. It was during that transition period when she starts hanging out with him but haven’t made it clear she wants to be with him. She would use me to talk about how he stinks and why he won’t get a job. But it was comical that she then goes to fuck him and put up with his shit. I warned her about how his lack of income and drive reflect bad character. Ultimately she decided on him instead. At the time I already had a great job that pays 80ish k a year. She put me on that back burner. One time…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 04:51 PM
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Happened to me. Not as dramatic as you suggested with the early 20s, but let’s say, given the span of about 5ish years. I had a crush on a girl. She broke up with her man and I thought she was available. Turns out she went and chase after some tall hunk who refuses to get a job and complains about not being able to find one all the time. That was when she’s 25, young and beautiful. Fast forward, I got in the best shape of my life after building 30 something lbs of muscles. Made the biggest purch…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 04:27 PM
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She was a waitress. At the time she just turns 21 and I was 30. She had a habit of just spending most of her money when she gets paid and has no concept of paying herself first. Looking back, I think she knows the concept but just doesn’t enforce it strictly. Eventually I realize it wasn’t gonna work out cuz she wanted to be a bartender and I wanted someone more mature. A lot of people I’ve met don’t have a 5 year plan, men and women alike. Then again I guess when you are in your 20s you’d feel …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 04:17 PM
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there are shit problems that you are not supposed to solve like complaining about shitty coworkers and there are problems where you can give advice because you've been through it before, like budgeting and how to have money left at the end of the month.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 01:30 AM
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other factors come into play as you interact with more women too, for starter, you'll realize they're all crazy in some sort. this can also have a negative effect on their physical attractiveness. all it takes is one hot girlfriend who decides to dump all your shit on the street and BAM, next time you see a hottie you will wonder how batshit crazy she really is. also the better you look, the more you'll realize how unattractive a big portion of the population is. this goes for both men and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 01:24 AM
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ive worked with straight guys who look like a character from GoT but act all feely and emotional. and ive seen other not so tall dudes who are pretty hairless on their body but are super alpha. shit dude, the guys i see in mexican gang beheading videos are pretty short, and they're definitely not your dudes who love to talk about "muh feels" height is like tits. it'd be erroneous for you to believe that height correlates with personality since there're plenty of tall insecure dudes. just like ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 01:12 AM
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i think you already know about physical standards, but in terms of standard for seeking a life long mate: 40 years ago it'd be the said man is lacking accomplishment, drive, and the proper work ethics in today's climate, you're just born unattractive. 5'5 is an incredible uphill battle for a lot of men, some would say it's the kiss of death. it all changed when women make their own money and dont have to put emphasis on a man's competence and instead, focus more on a man's physique and appearanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 01:04 AM
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Come to me with a problem, actually listens to me when I explain how to solve the problem an apply the knowledge and get the problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 11:52 PM
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That’s what I value in a person I consider worthy of a relationship. Finding that person though, can be really really tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 07:56 PM
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There are no good short term fixes for men. If you are a man and you want to fix things, you need to put in the time, but hey you have a longer window to attract a mate than women so women sometimes needs the short term fix to attract a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 07:00 PM
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root of all evil is unable to put others above you why is marriage work? why are relationships work? what does it mean to put work into a relationship? what does it mean to love someone if it means to hurt your own interest? what is sacrifice? how do you draw boundaries? these are the questions you ask when it comes to relationships. and if you dont have an answer to these questions, you shouldn't be in one. to love someone is to understand that you are willing to put aside your own self interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 06:50 PM
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we're on the internet and nobody knows who you really are IRL, you can admit that being objectified is validating and on some level, feels good. unless you had some childhood trauma or you were sexually molested, otherwise for almost everyone, certain degree of objectification is needed for the mating game. fat people, short, people, tall people, beautiful people, brown people, black people. whatever it is, it feels good to know you're a sexy piece of meat. unless, you're NOT a sexy piece of mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 04:52 PM
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you're looking at this from a very rational perspective. but i seriously doubt this is what goes on in most women's head when they meet an incredibly masculine and attractive tall man. ive seen women who purposely say no to the good, clean, and willing to commit guys who have nothing wrong save for a bit of awkwardness. those women fly straight into the laps of a bigger, more musclar guy who has a questionable character and doesnt work for a living. by every comparison except for physicality tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 04:25 PM
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a lot of guys i know are withdrawing, either from relationship or from society. they've decided playing video games and working a bare minimum to bring food to the table is the best way to go, little did they know they're only fucking themselves in the end. you're supposed to get money regardless whether you get women or not, but for a lot of men, many dont feel the need to live a better life, and instead, are just content with video games, porn, and weed. there are still quite a bit of men who'…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:21 AM
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yep, if i don't have to work with those "feminist men" i would never befriend them especially those feminist men who complain about how their 4/10 plain-jane wives are "constantly" getting "harassed" on the street. ive seen their pictures and even i wouldnt rape them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 01:56 AM
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Water seeks its own level.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 10:29 PM
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#MAGA!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 06:15 PM
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muh economy has shifted so blue collar are scarce and jobs all require a college degree muh college degrees are worthless pick one or, perhaps REAL college degrees that teach REAL skills and REAL knowledge are still valuable and just a bunch of dumbasses picked what they thought would get them a cushy job and woke up to reality the hard way. so did they not hire ANY doctors, ANY engineers, ANY lawyers, ANY pharmacists, ANY technicians, ANY artists, ANY songwriters back when shit crashed in 08? N…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 04:49 PM
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im not here to talk politics with you but the stats dont lie, unemployment rate is at all time low, so how can you say it's hard to look for work when the numbers dont reflect what you claim? "Not to mention millenials have epic levels of student debt to pay before you can even think about recreational activities." i missed you with my "conservative nonsense" just like you missed what i wrote about getting a garbage degree with a shit ton of debt. why is med school so expensive? because doctors …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 04:30 PM
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Last I checked unemployment rate is at all time low. (Thanks Trump!) Don’t give me that crap about hard to find a job, you’re young, you’re able, apply yourself and stop blaming society for your failures. Don’t you tell incels that too? “Stop blaming women for their lack of sex and attraction!” And if you have a steady income and some cash to spend, then you can make your life more “different” than other people who are trying to get by with the bare minimum. That’s why it makes you “interesting”…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:57 PM
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Once again, people project what they want to see from a partner when it comes to dating. Men act nice and women think they need an “interesting life” As a man, I don’t need a woman to live the most amazing life nor do I need her to make a shit ton of cash, I need my woman to be: Youthful and attractive Nice, easy going Willing to fuck me Now want? Sure, I would want her to tell me something cool or show me some cool stuff she does for work. But that’s a want, not a need. If you believe you need …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 03:37 PM
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These are beta women. Many women I see are confusing being the female version of beta with being the alpha woman. They think taking on masculine expectations and characteristics make them alpha. That’s the similar mentality like guys trying to act girly and sensitive “because women can relate”. If you want to go the “career, strong womyn” route, keep in mind that to a regular guy, you are just like those “sensitive” men playing the wrong game: nobody is impressed “Buuuuuut, how come a lot of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:31 PM
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A-fucking-men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 08:21 PM
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Didn’t like you as a kitten? Don’t take them in as a cat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 08:15 PM
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hah, oh well, attraction cannot be bargained when i combine what i read about PUA and redpill, i finally understood why PUA advices men to mimic certain qualities in order to "fool" people into believing that you are high value. the difference is i tell guys to make it real. dont fake it, make it real. take for instance, if you bombard her phone with text, of course it makes you look desperate. if you just tell guys "hey, dont text her so much.", they wont see the point. but if you tell guys "he…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 12:20 AM
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as a man you can ALWAYS lower your standards, but if you dont want to lower your standards, then you better make sure you bring what you ask for. oh you want a hot chick? go lift and come back with some muscles. you cant just expect her to just like your personality or your income when there are other guys who are both hot and rich. you cant fuck a personality, but you can fall in love with one. stop fixating so much on women. the more you care about them the less they care about you. when you a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 04:22 PM
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i went through a really radical transformation, so much that most people would not recognize me. prior to that i was weak, frail, and awkward. but i did not believe at the time in lying about my virginity because you're supposed to tell the truth. sometimes they can come up in conversations as simple as "hey man what you got going on this weekend?" and when they found out i wasnt going out, socializing, and didnt have a girlfriend at the time, one thing leads to another. in a way, that was kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 04:09 PM
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build, not destroy lift, not put down has clear boundaries set driven to do what is right keeps his word loyalty above all lead by example would rather get everyone to the mountain top than to have everyone carry him to the mountain top back when i was a virgin adult, i met many men who claim to be "badasses". when they found out about my virginity, instead of offering solutions, they mocked and ridiculed me. only a handful of men were kind enough to talk to me like a regular adult and not brag …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 04:06 AM
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Lol of course I can already guess your position on JP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:14 PM
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She is a god damn prophet. She called it like what, 20 some years ago? The fact that what she said sounded like insults of 90s feminists and how much parallel we can draw with 3rd wave means that those harpies didn’t learn and evolve. Instead, it’s the same old victimization and man-hating bullshit repackaged and pushed by MSM. I’ve seen her recent videos with Jordan Peterson, really like hearing her talk about feminism and telling women to own their shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:43 PM
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But it's like some guys don't know when enough is enough. that's just how men are. you cant really fault the guys knowing that if the situation is switched, you would chase after all the girls you can get too. power changes people and warps how they see the world. ultimately it's all pretty pointless to get upset over losing the competition to chads since you have your own life to live, own interest to pursue and other shits to deal with. i will always remember the wisdom "pussy is never free, y…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:05 AM
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Oh, thanks. Shortly after typing that I listened to Andrew Klavan’s show and he talked about the epic of Gilgamesh. Look up the story about Enkidu, that’s basically he story of how civilization is built on the concept of giving incentives to turn a beast man into a civilized man. Enkidu was a man who lived with the beast, until he met Shamhat and they fucked nonstop. Shamhat then introduced Enkidu to other people and slowly Enkidu learns to be a civilized man. That’s some ancient wisdom on how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 12:25 AM
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We have no choice but to go that route. Oh you wanna complain? There goes ALL your sexual capita. Hearing/seeing a man complain would make a woman’s vagina drier than the Sahara desert. And why would we embrace the world with “much love” when the world doesn’t give a shit about us and can’t afford to give a shit? Hence the middle finger. That’s why it’s so important that men have to have a stake in society. Because once a man realizes this red pill truth, he needs an anchor to care about the col…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 11:01 PM
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So the fuck what? I’m disposable, other guys sperms are higher quality than mine. That’s Mother Nature right there. What are you gonna do, shake fist at cloud? Being disposable has its own perks. Since we’re on our own, we don’t fear walking home late at night alone. We don’t have people blowing up our phones all the time trying to split our attention. We don’t have to worry about unattractive people approaching us. We don’t have to worry about front loading our life and having to make important…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:53 PM
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http://www.cw.ua.edu/article/2017/04/feminism-benefits-men-too https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.flightandscarlet.com/feminism-helps-men/amp/ https://quartzy.qz.com/1183600/men-the-metoo-movement-is-good-for-you-too/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.newstatesman.com/politics/2014/11/feminism-benefits-men-too-and-it-s-vital-we-bring-our-boys-be-more-victims-gender%3famp https://everydayfeminism.com/2012/08/why-men-need-feminism-3/ https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/voices/male-suic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:43 PM
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First redpill: As a man you will be alone and you better learn how to deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:17 PM
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once i understood AF/BB, i never want to marry, especially to marry an older woman. saying a woman will love you for who you are is what they want you to think. because then it would mean both the man and woman sacrifice their chances to see other people, which is a fair trade. ASSUMING if the man can literally bring nothing to the table and just be who he is. often times that is not at all the case for many men. deep down they all know that if tomorrow they wake up paralyzed, or they wake up wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:03 AM
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I don’t need women or feminism to save me. No, I need to be a man myself to save me. Women don’t know a thing about being a man just like a man cannot truly comprehend the horror of walking home at night as a woman. I don’t blame either sex for not being able to see the blindspots but don’t try to sell me shits that’s not in my best interest. Acting soft, being womanly, “being sensitive”, that’s how you get cucked, that’s how she’ll tell you she wants an “open relationship” and you’ll watch as y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:24 PM
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Don’t be sorry, that’s how you women are: attracted to strong men. I mean, it makes sense for me when I flip it around. I’m turned off when a woman is incredibly bossy and loud and boarish. That’s my role, you be your feminine self and I be my masculine self.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:48 PM
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That’s why i believe in a matriarchy, lives of unattractive, weak, and low status men are absolute shit. They are incredibly disposable, they have no chance for reproduction, and they are expected to work and suffer to keep the lights on while the more attractive and higher status men are just as disposable, but are kept around for fucking and pleasures. Though as soon as he ejaculates or they are done with him, he’ll walk free and be denied of most parental rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 11:16 PM
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oh, thanks, hope you got something out of it. i think the short answer is that "reality" will win out and mother nature has her way of beating us even though as kids, we'll always think we can outsmart and outdo mother nature. you are seeing it in action anyways. if acting girly and sensitive and feminine can get any guys laid, no men will be masculine. for all those guys who think they can bend nature like that, they either will encounter RP and grow up, or they'll never breed and pass on their…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:03 AM
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if you ask different groups, they'll give you a different answer to "solve" the problem. obviously a lot of them will be self-serving, depends on who you ask. but you don't solve a problem in society by making 1 gender work harder than the other, so let me lay it up front first. bottom line is, people have it too good. resources are too abundant, our lives are a helluva lot better than in the past. read pinker's book "enlightenment now" and you'll see. if i have to take a pick, id rather be in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:14 PM
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Women pick men and thus this act shape many men’s behavior. Most men are willing to do what is necessary to get laid. Unless you’re the true MGTOW who’ve left the market. Traditional value puts the focus on male performance. Get a job, have an income, own a place, be the protector, be the provider, etc. That means the nurturing aspect is placed on the woman to complete each other. If women don’t pick men who can protect and provide and just go with the tingles, men won’t go the protect and provi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 03:19 PM
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safest choice for men in today's climate, pretty much assumed for any men who's single cant get STD if you dont have sex cant get divorce raped if you dont get married just make sure you keep that to yourself and be happy with your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 02:26 AM
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it's so funny we've all become prudes again is this what happens when fucking robots and autistic fucks get in power, they just make our lives miserable just like theirs? the only way to de-sexualize the work place is to segregate men and women. period. my original answer was "enforced monogamy", but the 2 factors that actively work against the system are: 1. female hypergamy 2. people with no moral compass so if enforced monogamy cannot de-sexualize the workplace (or if we dont practice it), th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 05:04 AM
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if he doesnt call you back or offer any sort of commitment, that means he's probably above your league, which means sleeping with him doesnt make you higher in SMV, it just means you were convenient or somewhere along that line look at the betas orbiting around you, that's probably close to your league how many failed relationships have you had in the past? and did they all fail the same way? as in, he's always a douchebag and you're always "attracted to the wrong person"? that means you have lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 04:44 AM
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The biggest challenge for women: having a REALISTIC assessment of her SMV and RMV The biggest challenge for men: how much are you willing to sacrifice to build yourself into a good catch
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 09:51 PM
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Lots of “guy friends”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 09:17 PM
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and they take it out on men with lower SMV http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-3081480/Hell-hath-no-fury-like-woman-scorned-rejected-attractive-man-makes-women-cruel-men.html
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 12:27 PM
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by paragraph you meant "reddit spacing" ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 12:22 PM
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because if you as a guy dont ask, women are gonna assume you're not interested. rejection sucks, but hey, guys don't have feelings anyways! women don't handle rejection nearly as well as guys, in fact, most women dont have any game at all when they approach men. simply saying hi doesnt cut it. and you just watch how they react when you turn them down, the amount of salt is hilarious. women should at least approach a guy once and get rejected just so they know how it feels to be on the other side…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 02:21 AM
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As long as you’re not flat like a little boy because that kills my boner. B cup C cup, don’t matter that much. D? Awesome, you get the D.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 12:48 AM
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Lol. All of the sudden America is as scary as Congo! Bull, fucking shit. Show me the statistics of stranger rape on a date. I bet you it won’t be closed to “every other” But if you broaden what’s rape, then yeah there are a lot more “rape” and “inappropriateness” happening. But that’s like saying if I broaden the definition of “getting hurt” to include words too, then you calling me names would mean me being hurt too as opposed to me being physically hurt. I’m convinced that all those women who …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:35 AM
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Lol, so basically a giant shit test. If you don’t take the initiative, you won’t get the girl. But of course. If you date like the whole fucking world is watching, you’ll not take risks. Then again I would never date a toxic waste of air uggo like her so I suppose she doesn’t have to worry about me. But I bet you if you’re over 6ft with a chiseled jawline and a handsome smile, she’d be singing another tune. What a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 09:55 PM
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Collect stories of women who slept around/partied/planned life poorly which led to her unable to get commitment from the men of her dreams. Show her those stories and let her decide. Teach her about the wall, not in a sense of “you’re gonna turn turbo ugly when you hit 30”, rather explain to her about her diminishing attraction. Try to show her what a good man, an ideal marriage prospect is, first by being that man yourself. And be there for her when she fucks up the first time. I fully expect h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 01:00 AM
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Society, drug dealers slay society. And the pussies they slay will push out a fatherless child, and they too will slay society. Yeah, you go! YAS! SLAY! Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 12:03 AM
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Sure. You don’t want to sound autistic when you approach a woman. But a lot of the PUA stuffs I’ve seen don’t come off as genuine and I dislike them. If you lift, get cleaned, can crack jokes, don’t sell drugs for a living, and have the balls to talk to women. You don’t need the snakeoil the PUA community tries to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 10:32 PM
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When it’s all over, when the “spark” and all those bullshit fade away. You’re still the same man that you are. Why not work on bettering yourself so you let your hard work do the talking instead of trying to learn “tricks” to fool women into believing you are that high value? Unless you just want to fuck around and sleep with a shit ton of women, but that’ll inevitably get old one day. Then what would you do? Water seeks its level, if you’re a low value man, you can pull tricks to make you look …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 08:56 PM
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