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Hmm, I've got mixed feelings. As I said, it definitely makes sense in certain places, like Japan's women's only subway cars. I largely don't think it's needed in the US and is a bit sexist, but it also wouldn't affect my air travel at all. If women want to sit next to women, who cares? So long as there's no priority seating or forced accommodation, I'd be OK with it. I also don't think minors are typically sat next to men anyway. Flight attendants are trained to be aware of those kinds of situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 04:26 AM
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It makes sense in certain parts of the world, but are you saying that they should institute this policy everywhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 03:45 AM
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Oh, for sure. I'll definitely keep on mentioning it, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:50 AM
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Nope. He posted the conversations he had with these men, too. The men were respectful the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 05:35 AM
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Anyone remember that post here where some guy got 7 potential dates from 7 decent men while posing as an average woman within hours of looking? Then it was deleted because it didn't fit the narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:24 AM
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Or while playing DOOM.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:24 PM
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I’ve only heard of my friends doing it when the cum tastes like actual battery acid "What are you, a Xenomorph?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:20 PM
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That's a whole lot of words to say absolutely nothing. I'm talking about your original statement, that women have these characteristics innately, and that men are more innately driven to violence. That's sexist bullshit. Through you're talking about Jordan Peterson, so I shouldn't expect more than psychobable from you anyway. I regret talking to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:39 AM
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Which has nothing to do with women's "innate goodness". You're just perpetuating patriarchal ideals by saying women are just "better at it".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:00 AM
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Oh, please. Being a nurse or a teacher doesn't qualify you as a good person any more than being "religious" does. Quit with the sexist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:00 PM
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Yeah, I've said some shit too because I'm bitter and need to work on my self-esteem. I suspect I'm not the only one in here. Trying to change that and find some peace in this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:58 PM
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Women are human beings who are just as capable of being terrible people as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 08:52 PM
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The original comment is deleted. I think we're talking about different things. If a man or woman says they're exclusive, and they still have a rotation, yes, that's wrong. What I was talking about is assumed exclusivity. A lot of these women don't know that they're in a rotation because they don't want to know. They found a man who is out of their league but is willing to sleep with them, and talk of exclusivity might scare him off. the girlfriend dating others and having fwb before being offici…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 07:54 PM
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I've seen tons of posts on Reddit where the guy is disappointed to find out that while he was dating his (now) GF, she was still hooking up with dates and her FWBs. Nearly every comment said that he should "get over it and be happy that she chose you" or that "unless you brought up exclusivity, she doesn't owe you anything". How is this any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:00 PM
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What a dumb take.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 06:31 AM
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It's because society in general props up those beliefs. Modern women have placed all of their dating woes at the feet of men. Not only that, but the large amount of toxic positivity inherent in women's spaces leads them to believe that they all deserve the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 07:55 PM
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He also says this during an unprecedented power grab by the right. Hey OP, if conservatives are so "oppressed", why are teachers in Louisiana being forced to put the Ten Commandments on their classroom walls?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:50 PM
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the left has successful wiped out every ounce of social and cultural power conservatives used to hold, and made wokeness the dominant religion of America. This is where you lost me. Have you not heard of the Supreme Court?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:45 PM
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"Dog Mom" T-shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:46 PM
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It's already been proven that women have it easier on the apps. The mods deleted post for "some reason".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 07:57 AM
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Fair point.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 07:28 PM
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I usually browse a bit, make my purchase, and leave. I asked about events once, and they they don't organize any. They just rent out table space. Im not just going to approach some random woman in the store either. Women have stated time and time again how much they hate being bothered in public, and I'm assuming doubly so in the gaming community. In any case, I have serious doubts that these events would be a good place to meet women anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:53 PM
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Just go to nerdy places? Oh yeah! Why don't I strap on my nerd helmet and squeeze down into a nerd cannon and fire off into nerd land, where nerds grow on nerdies?!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:18 PM
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doesn't do anything sexual with them for several months. She has two kids Haha, good luck with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 06:38 PM
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Yes. She then proceeded to get the whole class in on the "joke". So I had about 15 people laughing at me for asking her out. Edit: to all the women high jacking this post, I don't believe you. I believe you think you've never been cruel to men that were interested, but we all know how much women virtue signal. Eventually, it becomes your "truth".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:02 PM
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Case in point: the "man vs bear" debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 04:40 PM
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Nah, I'll take the nice girl who seems to give a shit about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/24 06:39 PM
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Sounds like you're doing men a favor by staying out of the dating world. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:58 AM
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Yeah, this whole post makes me feel like I'm being gaslit. Of course a self reporting study came out this way, women love to virtue signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:14 PM
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Yep. Happened to me. I had a friend of a friend that I had always thought was very cute. I was invited to our mutual friends birthday party, and the stars somehow aligned. I was witty and charming and had the perfect level of liquid courage to be completely myself. She and I really hit it off, and we had a lot of fun hanging out. So when the night was ending, I asked for her number so I could take her out sometime. She told me, "Let's skip all that and go back to my place." I was like a deer in …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 07:50 PM
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Get therapy, lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:49 PM
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You know what? Good for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:14 PM
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Exactly. Women are much more transactional in their relationships than they'd ever admit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:21 PM
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Truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:17 PM
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Way to prove OPs point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:12 PM
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I have all those qualities, and I still struggle with dating. But you almost got it right. It's not that women "ask too much", it's that women over here just assume you're trash. I just don't care to put in the extra effort to be viewed as a normal human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 05:18 PM
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Why do you need to feel validation from strangers?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 09:25 PM
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So you're not in that 20%.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:54 AM
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Doesn't change the fact that this is the time in your life with the most social interaction. If you think school is lonely, just wait til you hit real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 07:07 PM
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I like how your examples are generally accepted male activities. I know you're gonna judge a man for liking video games or anime, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 12:32 PM
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I think the expectations for men have changed. Women don't want a partner to work towards goals and building a life. They want a man who already has those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 10:18 PM
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The title literally says "many women", not "all women".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:48 PM
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Because your anecdote doesn't match with our lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:32 PM
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You may not actively seek them out, but it doesn't change the fact that women love douchebags.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:28 PM
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I love how gendered criticism is only for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:06 PM
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Oh please. This isn't some sort of "both sides" issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:03 PM
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Well, there aren't a lot of alternatives around...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:32 PM
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It depends on a few factors. If she's just fat, then no, I'm not attracted. But, if she's curvy everywhere, I'll give a second look. Presentation has a lot to do with it, too. Bigger girls that still look like they take care of themselves and have a very feminine look have a much better chance. Dresses are great for this, especially if there's some good cleavage. I gave a chance to a couple bigger girls, but I ended things when one moved to fast into the physical side of things when I was still …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:28 PM
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Oh, just pick a different time to approach the woman you'll probably never see again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 05:07 AM
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If you were in a gay club and a man who was clearly into you approached you, and let’s say he’s twice your size, and he’s got you in a corner with no one around, and you feel like you can’t quite read him…your fight or flight instincts would be kicking in, too. No, I'd probably ask him to leave me alone. It's in the middle of a crowded room, the fuck is he gonna do without consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:53 PM
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Ahh so it's reading comprehension then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:08 AM
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Bullshit. I can hold a conversation, I just can't get anything going when all they respond is "LOL" and "yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:24 PM
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More and more, it feels like I'm not convincing them to date me, I'm convincing them to date at all. That's far too much effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:19 PM
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Yeah, but there's a good chance you'll hear laughter as you walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:17 PM
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☝️ this is it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:14 PM
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Because you can only get beaten down so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:12 PM
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Bless your heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:30 AM
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"Seven hamburgers isn't a lot imo" she said to the starving man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:03 PM
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Also girls are often objectified and used for a quick sex, hence why whe probably only has 2 relationships is bc a lot of guys just arent interested in a long term with a fat girl. Oh no! A ton of sex and only two relationships! Men must really be as picky as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 10:30 AM
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I'd say I was a late bloomer. Middle school was hell for me. I was just a naive kid whose sisters and mother had instilled in me the ultimate "nice guy" training, which just made me confused and hurt when the girls my age would be straight up be cruel to me when all I did was show interest or talk to them. I know that boys can also be cruel, but in the case of late bloomers, I'd say girls have it easier. At least people will eventually start giving you attention. Everyone loves having hot girls …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:08 PM
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Personally, I think it has more to do with the importance women put on "game". They gravitate towards men who have more experience and confidence, men who have canned responses and conversation topics they know will work. Women want men who have been with a lot of women, and then get confused and blame the rest of us when they leave or cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:56 PM
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When I was cheated on, it absolutely was my fault for ignoring the glaring red flags she was exhibiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:33 PM
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There was an askreddit a couple weeks back written by this woman who didn't know what to do when she found out the guy she had an "intense connection to" had been in prison for murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:30 PM
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The problem is that men aren't taught that it's OK to flip over to aggressive and demanding if they know it's right to. Like when other people or themselves are being mistreated. In fact, many are told that it's wrong to do so, that words and kindness will open every door.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:38 PM
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Being "sweet, confident and a good listener" do him a lot of good - it's what makes him good to his friends, it makes him thoughtful of strangers and people who are having a hard time. It can make you a much more enjoyable teammate and co-worker that people look forward to working with. It makes you enjoyable company at parties. It makes you a good pet-owner and it's excellent for taking care of children and the elderly. Those aren't things that do him a lot of good, those are the things that ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 06:25 PM
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I don't believe people are judging you for being tall and fit. I also sincerely doubt short men are "repelled" by those features.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:49 AM
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I don't believe you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:07 PM
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I think it's because men view the world through a competitive lens, which makes sense biologically. Our relationships are earned and based on mutual respect, so you worry far too much about being a burden. Being vulnerable is something reserved for your closest friends and in small doses. It usually will just make your normal friends uncomfortable at best or invite ridicule at worst. That's not to say that these relationships aren't fulfilling. You always know where you stand with other men, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:27 AM
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Nope, all you have to do is be upfront about just wanting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:35 AM
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I’d argue most men would be able to get laid if they abandonded their standards as well But that's not an apt comparison. Women don't need to lower their standards for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:44 PM
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Yeah, but think of the kind of men (and women) that this sub attracts. There are definitely some level headed people that just want to debate in good faith, but I wouldn't say this sub is representative of what the average person thinks. Basically, take everything here with a huge grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:21 PM
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No, those are not normal men's sentiments. (I am a man) Men that have such a strong feeling about their GF or wife working are the same type that talks about "purity and submission". Basically a douchebag, so just discard their opinion. The vast majority of men don't care. You probably just hear this opinion because you're on this sub. There are people in here (of both genders) that have some pretty strange ideas of what a relationship should look like. Probably because they're trying to emulate…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 09:14 PM
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Nope. Women are out for themselves. Either they like you as an orbiter or an option B.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:23 AM
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Yeah, but if you try and make a move on someone in your social group and she rejects you, you might as well start over with new friends because you're not going to be dating anyone else in the group either. Women make sure and poison that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:53 PM
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Christ, you're an awful human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:47 PM
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That's not it at all. Men just prefer friendships with other men. It's less complicated, everything can be taken at face value, and you know where you stand. If I feel fulfilled in my friendships, why is it so offensive to women that I'd rather not spend more of my time and energy in a friendship I have no interest in? I'm interested in meeting a romantic partner. It has nothing to do with your value as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 12:44 AM
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Absolutely not. In fact, if he was a good friend, I'd respect that he was doing something for himself. Like, if he told me that it's hard to be around me because he knew there wouldn't ever be anything more than a friendship, I'd get it and wish him the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 11:51 PM
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Yeah, I mean, are women dehumanizing men because they only see them as friendship material?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:43 PM
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Because OP is right, men prefer to have friendships with other men. There's little to no expectations or complications from your male friends. You see each other, enjoy their company, and maybe don't speak for a couple of weeks until you want to hang out again.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:39 PM
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You have the privilege of hindsight. Do you think you'd feel the same if you hadn't already "been there done that?".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 09:07 PM
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You know, saying stupid shit like this won't get you a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:29 PM
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Nah, it's more "we think every man is a piece of shit until proven otherwise." Which is a pretty common viewpoint these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:45 PM
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He's not the only one. The way I figure it is, if she enjoys herself more during sex, then it's probably going to happen more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:18 PM
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This is a great example of that dense, entitled viewpoint the men here are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:55 PM
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I've always thought the "women are just as horny as men" comments are just to gaslight men into feeling bad or unnatural for their wants and desires. As if women have the same desires but are too clear-headed, kind, and smart to avoid the pitfalls of an oversexed mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:48 PM
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But then why are they still like that after a normal conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:04 AM
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So I'm supposed to be OK with my girlfriend hanging out with men whose only objective is to undermine our relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:32 PM
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I didn't say that, I'd just wait for the other shoe to drop. Here's what will happen. She'll start to get new male "friends" while she gaslights you about their intentions (what, I can't have friends?!?), when eventually one of those friends makes a move, she'll act all surprised with a "I didn't plan on this!" and then move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:43 PM
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Depending on how much I liked her, I'd either start working out too or get ready to be single again. If a woman thinks she can do better, she will. Doesn't matter if you're a great guy otherwise. She'll think she can just find a hotter version of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 04:29 PM
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Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:11 PM
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Those feelings had to be there in the first place, though. If she doesn't find you attractive at first, even just a little, there's no way to move forward. She already has everything she wants from you through your friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:06 PM
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Hell, they'll poison the well after they reject you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 05:33 PM
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I've done it. It's exhausting and just multiplies the frustration. It's like buying 5 lottery tickets instead of one. Sure, your chances are marginally better, but you're still playing a game that just wants your money and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 03:47 PM
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Sounds like proximity is the deciding factor, not men looking for education or earning potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:37 PM
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Yeah, I feel this. I'm in my mid thirties, and I still have self-esteem and confidence issues stemming from the overwhelming cruelty and disdain from the girls in school when I first started to be interested in them. I know intellectually that kids can be cruel, but those are formative years, and I can't help but still think about them so many years later. The shame they made me feel. I wish I felt like I could talk about these things with someone, particularly a therapist, but it all feels so p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:14 PM
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It's the size of a 2 liter Coca-Cola bottle. That sounds like a disability more than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:34 PM
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Yep. Women say they don't want games, but they can't function without them. I worked hard to be a better man and ignored dating to work on myself. When I finally got to that place I wanted to be at, I started trying to pursue dating seriously. I'm good-looking and kind, and I've never even thought about cheating in past relationships. If you'd look at my success rate, though, you'd think i had the plague. The women that do respond seem to want their perfect man dropped on their porch, while they…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 06:00 AM
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Uhh...good for you? Sounds...great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:46 AM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:30 PM
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Yep. That's been my experience entirely. I'm mid thirties, getting back into dating after a 7 year hiatus. I wasn't in a good place, and didn't want to meet the woman who would take me as I was. Long story short, I'm two years sober this month. Anyway, I'm absolutely lost. I don't know when everyone started making these snap judgements about people, but it's awful. I'm a good-looking guy, with great hair, 6 feet, kind/considerate, and I've never cheated in my life. I have my own hobbies (oil pai…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 02:48 AM
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Men don't do the picking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:59 PM
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Oh they notice it, I'm a really good friend. Edit: I'm not trying to be antagonistic, you've been nice here, it just definitely isnt my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:23 AM
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The human race is doomed. This shit is so fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:17 AM
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And what about all the women that will think you're just some fuckboi for trying something on the first date? The cliche is true, women expect men to be mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:14 AM
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Yeah, women have no idea what a fucking minefield escalation is for men. Women expect us to know what tone to set, while the consequences can be dire for getting it wrong. So many men err on the side of caution, waiting for direct signs that will never come. I wish instead of insulting her husband, she had the kind of self awareness to think "maybe I should have gone in for a kiss and made it easier for the guy". The thing is, if you're on a date with a guy, he 100% wants to kiss you. Women, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:06 AM
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Wait. Isnt asking for a kiss a turn off? I've heard so many times "I just want him to be a man, and kiss me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:52 AM
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Here's the problem though. Being courteous and kind is all well and good when you're in a relationship, but its definitely not something that catches women's attention. How do you demonstrate those values when they wont give you a chance to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:48 AM
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Oh I recognize her from other threads, she just oozes bitterness, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:15 AM
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My God. Is that what that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:57 AM
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Think about it like this: Cheating abroad comes with much less risk of being caught, you dont have to worry about running into them when you go out. Also, a lot of people disconnect from reality when they vacation, they dont think about their jobs or obligations. So they might justify uncharacteristic behavior because they'll tell themselves they wont bring it home. I'm not saying it always happens, but if my GF wanted to take a solo trip through Europe, I'd give a lot of thought to where I saw …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:59 AM
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Nope, I'm definitely trying to set up dates. Could it be possible that I'm not doing anything wrong? That it really is just difficult for men out there?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:48 PM
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Either you're an outlier or virtue signaling. I meet those requirements, I'm also not ugly, 6' tall, I've got hobbies, friends, never cheated...etc. Just getting a date is like pulling teeth for me. Tedious and painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:14 PM
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I like how you judge men so harshly, when you, yourself sound awful. Like, you couldn't pay me to to spend any amount time with you, just some narccisitic hateful douchebag. Edit: Unhinged is the word I was looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:43 PM
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I dont know what you're talking about, bullies get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 07:20 PM
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"Also, men can keep the icky jobs"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 08:57 AM
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Mmhmmm yep, she cheats on me and somehow it's all my fault. And you're right, maybe all women arent awful. But you sure are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:43 PM
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Notice how I said "ASK her to"? How is it controlling if she's free to do whatever the fuck she wants? Did you even read my original post where I mentioned that she was cheating on me emotionally with this dude? Now I've got to defend myself? Jesus, women are awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:17 PM
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What? Haha, so I guess you didn't understand what I said then. I was using the "beard hair" as an example as a small irratation that should be discussed with your partner rather than some male "friend" that has ulterior motives. And yeah, I'm going to ask my partner not to hang out with people that dont respect our relationship. If another man is actively trying to undermine our relationship, that's a problem to me. If she wants to continue hanging out with the dude, fine. But I dont need to sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 06:22 AM
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Oh dude, I signed up for Hinge, the "relationship app". Its exactly as you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:14 PM
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For me it's always been women emotionally cheating on me with men that are interested in them. They dont know or want to admit that all the "friendly advice" that their "friend" is giving them is just an echo chamber for their frustration, designed to push their partner away so that "friend" can swoop in. So something like "he doesnt clean up his beard hair before work" turns into "you dont respect me". Most often the guy is blindsided because she didn't even talk to him about the problem in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:01 PM
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Most average men are in romantic relationships, yes, around the western world, and the women they are with range from being slim and pretty to being hot. And these men are broke and still live at home or with roomates, in their 30s and 40s+ . Hahaha, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:42 PM
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For sure, like they dont see you as a partner but a means to a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:22 PM
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I live in a city in which the single men outnumber the women in the thousands, I dont drink but every other IRL social interaction before the pandemic has now been relagated to the internet. I've got a good looks, 6 ft, steady income and high emotional intelligence, yet sometimes I wonder if I'm going to die alone. Nothing ever seems good enough for the women in this city.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:09 PM
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Yep, just like everything in your life, its mens fault. What does it feel like to be a constant victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:59 PM
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From your side, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:58 PM
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Hahaha what does that even mean? "Men are such assholes, they wont even let me shit on them!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 06:11 PM
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Uh huh, so you chose your partners based on looks, and you're surprised you had a bad time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:59 PM
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My guess is, you're no looker either. Unless you specifically sought out ugly, short and poor men, which would be stupid AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:50 AM
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Hahahahahahahaha, that's such bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:40 AM
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Honestly, I dont know why any young people would want to be in this sub. It doesnt sound like you have enough real world experience to understand the context of most of the topics here. You're getting the fringes of conversations that most people would be afraid to bring up in polite company. I think with a little experience you'd realize you've got to take this sub with a handful of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:33 AM
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I cant agree more. I make a great partner, I'm just awful at these games that women like to play. I'm not great at text banter because its fucking tedious, and I never know what will set them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:02 AM
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For lasting change, ideas need to be reinforced. You can think something logically, but knowing something takes time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:30 AM
3

Awwww
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:24 AM
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Hello I'm a 23F religious virgin You might have just written "discard my opinion".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:50 PM
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...and the rest of us get judged by a metric of their bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:42 AM
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You're delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:02 AM
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Like men dont have to do that shit too? Your effort is basically "gracing us with your presence". Fuck that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:57 AM
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Because she's a sexist piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 10:58 PM
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I can find someone to fuck me within an hour, a man willing to be in a relationship is going to take time Lol as opposed to what? Both those time frames are significantly shorter than what men have to deal with. Do you really think it's easier for men to find women for a relationship? I put myself out there for one, and because of OLD women have a severely skewed view of their "dateability". So even when looking for a relationship, I'm only really matching with women way below my league. My bar …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:33 PM
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Oh for sure, there's a ton of low effort men out there too. I think theres just a difference in how we handle dating low effort women. A lot of men will just get out, or just meet them at their level. It really just depends on their intentions going in. I dont think I've ever heard of a man sticking around to "fix" a woman though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:22 AM
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Its baffling to us men too. I have good hygiene, have never hit or cheated on a partner, and am fairly good looking (6' 180 lbs). The dates that I do get are so low effort its ridiculous. One date I dressed up (nice-casual) and cooked for her. She wore sweatpants and ate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 04:08 AM
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This one
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:27 PM
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Especially the post about the threesome. Imagine if they found out their rich boyfriend had treated some rando girl (they had a passing interest in), to a shopping spree and a meal at a Michelin star restaurant, when it took him a month to take you to Starbucks and three months to take you to Applebees. All because he really likes you, and that was just some fun he had one night with someone he really didn't care about. They'd be pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:05 PM
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Haha so true. Finding a mildly attractive woman who is nice, and makes an effort is like winning the lottery.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:37 PM
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Also, an ugly guy has a lot more to lose. Chances are, he's worked hard to attract his partner and would probably not want to risk it. Good looking guys and mildly attractive women dont usually have to care about that. Not saying ugly guys dont cheat, but they're definitely a safer bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:29 PM
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If true, that's fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:28 AM
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No. Framing your new relationship based on her old relationships is dumb, and a cheap ticket to dumpsville my guy. You've got what you've got, knowing about who she's been with isnt going to change that. Best you can do is be confident that you've got something to offer, and try your best to be that man. It's all just self sabotage, so when your neurotic ass gets left you can point at her exes and say "well of course!" and feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 06:05 AM
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I think you need to stop letting their exes live rent free in your mind. They left them for a reason. You'll never have the biggest dick, you'll never have the most money. Someone will always have more. Further, you have no idea why their relationship ended, so why worry about it? She's with you, and the best way to change that is to start getting neurotic. It's not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:03 AM
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You did. You're providing YouTube comments as proof to validate your thoughts on men. It's a small subsection of men, commenting on a situation that's even more uncommon, and you're using it to make a comment on men in general. Its disingenuous. You know that it's an extreme example, so you put "I dont think its all men" to strengthen your argument, but it still implies that you think most men feel sympathy for Bezos. Which is ridiculous. Who's angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:15 PM
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It's that you're trying to make a point based off a small subsection of men. Sure, you said "Do I think it’s all men who side with Jeff Bezos? No." But that still implies that the majority of men do, which is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 06:20 PM
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Nah, they hit the wall and found all the good men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:00 AM
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But was that a huge factor in pursuing her? I don't think anybody here is saying men want dumb women for dating, but those factors are significantly less important to men when choosing a partner. I'm sure you'd love your wife just as much if she was a barista or something, and barring the circumstances of the way you met, would have still pursued her. That cant be said for a lot of women if the shoe is on the other foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:09 AM
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She also lists her personal accomplishments in school and her career as desirable attributes. Like, who the shit cares? Not men looking for partners, that's for sure. Not to say that men want lazy or dumb women, but if she's kind and puts in work to show me that she cares about me, well, everything else I can work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 07:00 AM
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I'd be nice if any of them gave me a chance to show it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:12 AM
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That's why I think so many men are frustrated with dating these days. They changed the rules, but men are required to stay right where we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 05:55 AM
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Oh yeah I've felt that. She told me there were things wrong, so I tried to fix them and be more attentive. It just drove her away more (she'd get pissed at me when I did nice things) for months until she ended it. Turned out she was on the fence because she met someone else and had been cheating on me, she just didn't want to leave 3 months after stong-arming me to move in together.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:03 AM
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I like how you point out that "if he has money he is most likely hard working". Yet also mention how you have money and yet you didn't work a day in your life for it. Like, what was the point about your boyfriend? He seems like he's hard working, yet if he cant compete with the big silver spoon shoved up your ass, you dont see a future with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 11:36 AM
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Exactly, I'm all for protesting. But why are they protesting normal people? Most cities refuse to update public transportation due to lobbying, so a lot of people have to use cars for work and a thousand other reasons. Who's fault is that? Certainly not the people they are impeeding.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/10/19 08:57 PM
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Nice strawman argument there buddy.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/01/19 01:44 AM
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Did you see that bit on weekend update about how she was done with sex? Then she finds out that the elderly can have robust sex lives, and a heightened libido? It was gross.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/19 12:57 PM
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A bit off topic, but did anyone else notice when the father dragged his kid into the gang of teenagers to break up that fight? What a crock of shit. For one, you're endangering your son. And secondly, have the writers ever met a teenager, or a group of them? They don't yell "scram! There's an adult!" They'll tell you to fuck off at best, at worst you'll get your ass kicked by a gang of teenagers. Best of all, you can't hit them cause they're minors.
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