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| 2 | How to deal with muscle dysmorphia?This is a mental health issue, and is dealt with by getting therapy. This kind of compulsion cannot be satisfied by changing your appearance because it's about how you perceive yourself and what you think women want, not reality. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/03/23 08:43 PM |
| 11 | Survivorship biasSo you're dismissing the evidence all around you that you want is possible...Because there's a small chance it might not be, which you have no evidence of? Do you hear yourself? I get it, failure is a scary prospect. But you will never know unless you try. You can be miserable and alone and missing your chance, or you can be doing something about it. One of those has the possibility of getting you what you want. The other guarantees that it will never happen. Which path would you rather be on? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | I'd highly recomend CinemaTherapy on youtube to everyone here (especially if youre now or still leaving redpill)Therapists are guides, their job is highlighting the stepping stones on the paths that lead us to the destination we're aiming for. But we're the ones who have to walk there, and we have to pick the path. You're right about some people being unable to let go of structure. The red pill is so alluring to those types because it markets itself as formula, a game with winning and losing moves. The truth is that the idea that there is no right way to be a man or a woman or a person is an alien concept… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 09:32 AM |
| 2 | I'd highly recomend CinemaTherapy on youtube to everyone here (especially if youre now or still leaving redpill)So, your problem is that you think of this sort of thing as prescriptive. "Healthy Masculinity" is not a set of rules, or standards, or anything like that. There's no code or whatever, no one is going to give you shit if you don't cry when you're sad. The idea is actually to do what works for you and not sweat it if it isn't what works for other people. The crux is recognizing that you're a human being with human emotions and you're allowed to feel them and express or not express them as you cho… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 05:17 AM |
| 3 | I'd highly recomend CinemaTherapy on youtube to everyone here (especially if youre now or still leaving redpill)You're...Not a big fan of being healthy? I'm not sure what the issue is here. What exactly do you not agree with? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Trying to understand what is so appealing about RP to men and if some men are more susceptible to itA lot of men believe their worth comes from how many women have slept with them. When you see women not as autonomous people with their own wants and needs, but instead as arbiters of worthiness not doing their "job" it makes a lot more sense. They think women are denying them personhood and bestowing it upon less worthy men. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/22 04:10 AM |
| 16 | Unpopular opinion(?Relationships are not a cure to soul sickness, which is ultimately the problem. New relationship energy might burn away low self-esteem for a while, but sooner or later those thoughts are going to creep back in. If Anxiety and Depression could be cured by being loved and reassured of ones worth on a regular basis, very few people would have either disorder. Moreover, placing the burden of your mental health on your partner is not only unfair to them, it's extremely unhealthy for you as well, and… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Women of this sub,ADHD comes with a serotonin deficit, which is why the things that give us a serotonin boost become our favorite thing for a while. It's like finding water in the desert, and when that well runs dry, we either toss it or put it on the back burner until it starts giving us the feel good chemical again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be inOkay, in this example, steak and tacos are hobbies and goals and all the other things in life that make it good. Somewhere comfortable to live, good friends, a well paying job you enjoy. Your inability to think of anything but "sexy sex sex" is the very point I'm trying to make. You could have all these other wonderful things, but you're focused on the least fulfilling one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be inYou can buy things that taste much better than the cookie for the same price, you just think the cookie is the most important thing in the store. You think that because a woman can get something you value easily, she should value it as much as you do. Well we don't. And men finger wagging at us about how "you think you can be happy single but it's only the option of having sex that keeps you that way!" just makes us roll our eyes. It reeks of male solipsism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 12:12 AM |
| 3 | Questions for the women here: What do you consider the perfect relationship and are you with someone who fits this mould?What is your idea of the perfect or near perfect relationship? We love each other for who we are, our lifestyles, love languages, and sexual proclivities match up, and we're able to communicate our needs and concerns with each other and be heard. There's a lot more, but I'd be here forever if I had to list everything. What is it that initially drew you to your partner? We met in a twitch chat, so really it was the way that he spoke. He was witty and intelligent. He didn't speak often but when he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 09:17 AM |
| 7 | Being alone is better than being in a relstionship we are not excited to be inThere really is no way to explain it to someone with a male sex drive, but I'll try. I could go to the store right now and get those shitty, dry as hell sugar cookies they sell. But why on earth would I? I have never had the urge to do so. And there are so many things that taste so much better I could buy for the same price, why would I waste my money on that? And then men come in saying "You'd regret it if they stopped selling them! You act like you'd never buy them, but if they disappeared off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | I really think that most women are attracted to strength and fighting ability and turned off by a lack of either.I'm sexually attracted to a guy who has never been in a fight and probably never will be. If he ever is, it will be because someone tried to start shit with him. I can guarantee that even if he were to lose that hypothetical fight, it would be his side I'd be standing by. No one endears themselves to me by going after my loved ones, and they certainly wouldn't turn me on by doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | How do women meet guys in 2022?I met my SO in a twitch chat. He added me on discord, I messaged him first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 04:51 AM |
| 2 | Is Love even fckin real?Love is definitely real. I don't love my SO for what he provides, he isn't the only one working to pay for our lifestyle. I fell in love with him when he was words on a screen, a voice over a phone. I left a perfectly comfortable single life in a state much more friendly to my politics and lifestyle to be with him. I still get butterflies when he laughs, I still smile when I hear him singing in the shower, I still want to jump his bones when I get a good look at him. If love doesn't exist, I wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Is being alone really better than a mediocre partner?Tell me something, would you rather live on your own, and be able to do what you please with your time and money, or go back to living with your parents and having to abide by their rules and sensibilities with none of the benefits, i.e. you still have to cook and clean up after yourself and pay rent but you're essentially a teenager with no control over your life again? Or instead, would you rather be a single parent to a bratty teenager that isn't even related to you? You have to deal with the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 11:33 PM |
| 15 | Why are women so much more content to be forever alone than men?Men make getting women the only thing that motivates them to do anything, and then wonder why women are the ones who are happy to remain single if the right guy doesn't come along. It's not women's fault that men don't care about cultivating a life worth living on their own. Women put effort into their lives because they want to have a good life. If that's not enough motivation for men, that's their problem to sort out, not women's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 07:26 AM |
| 12 | Why are women so much more content to be forever alone than men?No, it really isn't. You're just so focused on what you don't have because you think it'll cure your soul sickness. A relationship isn't going to magically fix your insecurity or inability to like yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 06:43 AM |
| 28 | Why are women so much more content to be forever alone than men?Allow me to put it another way. Women don't see sex being bestowed upon them as the mark of personhood that men do. It's not a magical blessing that marks us as good and worthy. We tend to think of personhood as inherent, and prefer to be lauded for accomplishing our goals and building an enviable life. Women think of relationships as a piece of what makes a good life. Men think of it as the whole pie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 06:23 AM |
| 124 | Why are women so much more content to be forever alone than men?We don't think of sex with men as the measure of our worthiness. Sex is enjoyable, but its meaning is derived from the context it's in. It isn't valuable in and of itself to us. Much more important is the person we're doing it with and what they mean to us. So without a man we give a damn about to make it all special and meaningful, it's just mechanics. Enjoyable mechanics, but still unremarkable in the greater scheme of things. Many other things have higher priority and are much more enjoyable … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 04:25 AM |
| 6 | Dworkin nailed itMany men make the mistake of seeing sex as the barometer of worthiness, and women as the arbiters of it's blessing. They resent all the women who aren't sleeping with them because they see their totally normal focus on their own wants and needs as denying men personhood. They see women becoming romantically and sexually involved with other men and grow angry that "shitty men" are being "rewarded" and they are not. Basically, they think of women as "not doing their job", that is, "rewarding" good… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Q4W How would you react to your SO losing a fight in a really pathetic way?Yeah, this would never happen with anyone I would date. And, if by some weird fucking twist of fate it did, I'd be calling him a dumbass the minute he decided he was into MMA. What self respecting man would be into that shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Men and Women. Do you too notice that dating advice on internet makes men think women hate them for nothing?We're not demons and we don't hate you or want you to stop existing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Women of this sub,I don't have a disgust for unsuccessful men, I have a disgust for the men who spend their days on incel sites stewing in their own hate, wishing every terrible thing they can imagine on people who aren't them. Society does not tell you you need pussy to be a man, other men do. It's men calling each other gay over innocuous things, hyping each other up over their conquests and calling each other little bitches and pussies for not getting laid. Sex has never made anyone a "full person" and the fac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Women of this sub,I don't blame all men for the actions of the crabs in a bucket who worship a murderer and celebrate every time one of their own kills more people, no. But that sense of entitlement is pervasive. There are just as many women lamenting their lack of a fulfilling worthwhile life. I don't see them in the news murdering people and blaming it on men not fucking them. I have zero sympathy for these men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Women of this sub,Oh yeah, because that totally makes us sympathetic and want to help you. That you see murder over lack of sex as a reasonable response tells me all I need to know about what kind of incel you are. I hope, for women's sake, you remain alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Women of this sub,It isn't about me, one death is one too many. Lives are being lost over men not getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 09:02 AM |
| 1 | Women of this sub,Hasn't stopped the ones who aren't from taking lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 08:57 AM |
| 1 | What do you genuinely think is the reason men are averse LTRs with women with extensive sexual relationships?Insecurity. They can't conceive of someone having had multiple partners and not having a mental hierarchy of who did the best at sex, and are afraid of it not being them. This of course being the male solipsism of centering sex as the whole point of a relationship and if the sex isn't the best you've ever had then why are you even with this person? Obviously women must be constantly fantasizing about the guy she had the best sex with, which couldn't possibly be him because he wasn't the very fir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Why are "pick mes" so reviled?Because not only are they being pathetic, they're throwing the rest of their gender under the bus. Doormats who will take any abuse if it will get them positive attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you could change one thing about make sexuality, what would it be?I'd probably make them much less attracted to looks and much more attracted to personality. Basically, a romantic attraction with sexual interest following after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you dance and sing along to misogynistic rap lyrics?I don't listen to a lot of rap these days, mostly because I like clever wordplay and the newer set sounds like they're trying to talk through a vape cloud. But I do make fun of the misogynistic shit from my teen years that middle class white boys would blast in their cars as they drove out of the high school parking lot. Hell, I listened to a comedy swing version of Get Low just this morning and laughed myself to tears. Does that count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Women of this sub,It started when Elliot Rodger decided to kill women for not having sex with him, and from there my ADHD urge to seek out the serotonin of learning and discovery led me here, where I fruitlessly argue with people being wrong on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 02:14 AM |
| 2 | What right or privilege do men possess that women don’t in 2022?In that same vein, we've done a lot of our testing for safety with male parameters, such as crash dummies, and as a result, women tend to get injured more simply because something that is vetted as safe for a 6 foot tall, 190 pound man is going to have a different effect on a 5'4" 130 pound woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?And give up my legal protections as his partner so his family can take over and potentially cut me out of decisions regarding him if something happens to him? I think not. Being legally recognized as family has more benefit than drawback, in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Which traits in a potential partner would you be willing to sacrifice?Toss Muscles, Height and Dick, potentially toss money as long as he still makes enough to be independent, i.e. gets paid enough to comfortably pay his rent, utilities, buy a fridge full of food, and still have some left over for miscellaneous use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 03:21 PM |
| 2 | It is not my "job" to make my partner happyI think I agree. A relationship should add to your happiness, not create it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 03:04 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What’s your favourite Sidebar article?"fulfilling requirements" would be considered exerting effort, by definition. But semantics aside, whether it's "bullshit" or not, it's still clearly a disconnect they should be having a conversation about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What’s your favourite Sidebar article?Which is exactly how you framed it. "He doesn't have the urge to fulfill her requirements" You're the one who said "he was putting up with bullshit" which is a judgement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What’s your favourite Sidebar article?Did I say that? Or did you just assume it? Whether "he was putting up with bullshit" depends entirely on what she was asking him to do. Maybe she was being unreasonable. Maybe he was. I don't know. But I do know that a conversation needs to be had about it because I highly doubt that everything is just okay now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Women who are attracted to men, what makes you want/desire a man rather than just enjoying being wanted/desired by him?In my case, it's usually just who he is. We'll be in a group conversation with other people and he'll say something with a certain tone or phrase something in a certain way that is a quirk of his and I'll feel a rush of affection and interest. Or we'll be talking one on one about a hobby we share like music, and he'll show enthusiasm for a certain song or band and practically sparkle with personality and again I'll feel that rush, that sense of This One. It makes me think "If this is what he's l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What’s your favourite Sidebar article?No, it's not that it requires "effort" to love men for who they are. We don't have to actively focus on liking a man's inherent personality traits. Effort refers to going out of your way to show your affection, which is something everyone does. It's choosing to actively make your feelings clear, which takes effort for everyone, however minimal. How much depends on the individual and how they personally default to showing love. And your friend being relieved he doesn't feel the need to put any ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What’s your favourite Sidebar article?I'm not really sure how a lowered libido results in that. And experience changes the way everyone interacts with other people. If you never encounter a person with an allergy, for example, it's reasonable not to realize just how careful you have to be about what they're allergic to. Assuming men have different emotional needs when you don't have any experience with them is reasonable the first time around. Teenagers are stupid. Lazy people on the other hand, know what they should be doing and do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What’s your favourite Sidebar article?I'm asking an honest question. I don't think I understood how you phrased the last bit. My best guess is getting her in the mood or foreplay, but how would his lowered libido reduce that for her? Surely she'd need just as much of a lead up regardless of how often he's in the mood? Or maybe he feels like he matches her libido better, and doesn't feel the need to pressure her so they're both happier? I'm very confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What’s your favourite Sidebar article?So you dated one inexperienced girl, one lazy girl, and...I'm not entirely sure what your anecdote about your friend means? What requirements? Requirements for himself? Requirements for her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What’s your favourite Sidebar article?If by "the same way" you mean "Do women actually love and care for their men as people with thoughts and feelings who break down sometimes and not just for their money, status, and utility?" then yes, that's exactly what I'm saying. That anyone can claim we don't with a straight face is just proof of how badly they need to get out of the red pill's grift. We're not a different species, my god. Now, do shitty women exist? Yes. In a world of 8 billion people, you're going to get a certain number o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How can you know if the man you are dating is into redpill stuff?Then you should have gotten therapy instead of diving head-first into a toxic form of self-defense that's just going to leave you empty and no better off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 01:56 AM |
| -1 | [Q4RP] What’s your favourite Sidebar article?For the many posters who have been asking some version of "Why don't you like/believe/want to date someone who is into the redpill?" lately, this is your answer. Because it's complete bullshit, and any man willing to believe it needs therapy more than they need to be in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Would you date, marry or even consider a relationship with a single father?No, but I'm childfree. Even being pregnant with my own would be a nightmare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:27 PM |
| 21 | Question For Women that’s related to the RP posts I make, your answers to them noted and considered, what is your concern about dating or being in a relationship with a Red Pill Man?Their entire ideology is about treating women like children and relationships like a game they have to win. Being with one is a recipe for a toxic relationship full of manipulation and paranoia and mind games. Their mindset is twisted and skewed, and I want nothing to do with their bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Women who think men don’t look at them as “people” misunderstand male sexual attractionThat doesn't make it better, that makes it worse. "I like your body parts" does not make a woman feel good. It has nothing to do with the mind piloting the flesh mech you're Oogling. All we ever hear about is our bodies. Good or bad, that's all anyone seems to talk about. You want us to believe you think we're more than our appearance? Fucking show it. Compliment us on literally anything else, for the love of all that is good. Preferably something that is an indication of our agency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 12:53 AM |
| 16 | Red Piller Here - Why Should I Quit?Because you're buying into the equivalent of a Pyramid Scheme. Right now, you're the guy claiming that essential oils cure cancer because the youtube guy who sold it to you said so. This is the kind of thinking that gets people into conspiracy theories. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 04:20 AM |
| 3 | How many people here have had their heart broken?Yes. I moved on eventually, spent several years thinking about what was important to me and what I wanted in a partner. And then, when I decided to put myself out there and make some new friends, I found what I was looking for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated someone or shown attraction towards someone you weren't physically attracted to?No. Life is too short to waste on people I'm not overjoyed to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/22 03:05 AM |
| 14 | How can single women be happier than married women?Easy, single women need only worry about themselves and what they need and desire. They may sleep with who they choose, given the opportunity, or enjoy a toy and a night in if they're not the type. Furnish and keep up their homes however they like them. Enjoy time with their friends and family without the worry that their partner might not like them or feel neglected. Buy what they like with their money and do what they like with their free time. Essentially, they may be without a partner, but t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/22 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Women of PPD what group or identity do you belong to?Definitely a nerd. Books and games and small get togethers rather than parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 02:58 AM |
| 0 | Men are upset about being "boyfriend material" because it offers the same amount of validation that seeing a prostitute doesSo, you think wanting to spend time with someone, being in their physical presence, doing things together, getting to know them, and then having years of wild monkey sex while building your lives together means that they don't really care for you and view the relationship as transactional. But you think fucking a stranger as soon as you meet them means that they see you as worthy of love. Yeah, this is why no one takes TRP seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men put more emotional labor into relationships than womenThe men who need professional help is absolutely equal to women. Most of the men in this sub alone need therapy of one sort or another. Women in general have an easier time expressing their emotions. Certainly it takes some introspection to learn to identify what you're feeling and why, but that's true for anyone. But women on the whole are more likely to express sadness as sadness, fear as fear, embarrassment as embarrassment, and call it such with words. Men are more likely to not recognize wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men put more emotional labor into relationships than womenSure pal, whatever you say. When the number of men seeking out professional therapy and working on their mental health is equal to women, then I'll believe it. When it becomes common place for men to use their words to articulate exactly how they're feeling and identify their emotions instead expressing every bad feeling as anger, then I'll believe it. When women don't have to beg the men in their lives to make time for them or show them affection, then I'll believe it. Men like to believe they'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 04:10 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend would've slept with me on first date, if i wasnt boyfriend materialAnd I would have slept with my current SO on the first "date" if we had lived in the same state when our interest in each other became clear, because he was boyfriend material and I fucking wanted to. Women are individuals and do different things for different reasons. Some still hold with the idea of not appearing easy so the men don't think of it as a casual thing. Some sleep with who they want and hang the opinions of anyone else. Pick the type you want and accept the consequences of your cho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 08:19 PM |
| 7 | Are people who never had a partner or kids actually happy?Many people have strong support networks, even without a romantic partner. Their friends and family get the time they would have spent on a partner, and when they wish for alone time, they simple go home and enjoy having their house to themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/22 01:57 AM |
| 5 | [Q4M] Will you be checking out of your relationships at a certain age?No one cares about your weird kink lifestyle, Gimp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:31 PM |
| 3 | If you propose to your partner and they say no is the relationship over? Why or why not?Generally, when you want different things in a relationship, particularly when it's something as important as this, there isn't a lot of recourse when you don't agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/22 12:36 AM |
| 2 | For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families?I couldn't be more relieved not to be a parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Is crying a turnoff for you?Shitty people are always going to be shitty. It would be nice if they all made it obvious from the get go, but unfortunately some assholes learn to hide it because they manage to realize being blatantly shit keeps people away from them. Somehow they fail to realize that the shit drives people away whenever they start acting that way, not just initially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 10:10 AM |
| 2 | Is crying a turnoff for you?So what you're saying is you're incapable of seeing women as anything but a monolith intent on cruelly ruining men's lives. I will not argue with someone who is not available to be persuaded. My attraction and respect is unchanged by men showing emotion. That remains true, regardless of your ability to believe it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Is crying a turnoff for you?Then you break it off if and when they treat you poorly for it. You help no one by shoving down your own emotions, least of all yourself. You're more likely to miss out on acceptance than avoid losing someone you wouldn't want to be with anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/22 05:08 AM |
| 41 | Is crying a turnoff for you?This sort of thing gets posted a lot. The answer is always the same. No, having the full range of emotions for a human being is not a turn off in a romantic partner. And you should consider it a red flag if a woman does find a man weak for showing emotions other than anger, because it means she in particular is toxic bitch who shouldn't be dating anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 04:03 PM |
| 15 | What are opinions you hold that would get you shamed or lambasted by The Red Pill or Blue Pill or FDS?People who can't find someone who meets their requirements or can't meet the requirements of the ones they want should put relationships aside and focus on enjoying their single life to its fullest extent. Enjoy buying whatever you want with your money, cleaning when you feel like, and doing whatever the hell you please on your days off. Build a life on your personal desires and tell anyone who gives you flac to go to hell. There's so much more to life than the script handed down by the boomers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 04:58 AM |
| 2 | What are opinions you hold that would get you shamed or lambasted by The Red Pill or Blue Pill or FDS?I am lucky enough to be very close with two such men, and sometimes they're the only thing keeping this place from turning me sour on men entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Is it fair to say that the evidence shows that women find it difficult to feel attraction for a man with less money than her?I don't know if attraction is the right word. I certainly worry about it causing problems later down the line, life comes at you fast and everything is so expensive these days. Money troubles are also one of the major causes of divorce. Without two people holding up the household, living together can be very difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise?I was willing to move across the country for my relationship, but my bond with my family is a loose one because I've always been more independant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of young women sexualizing themselves on social media?Whatever makes them happy, I guess. I don't really think about the choices other people make unless they affect me in some real way. Not my circus, not my monkeys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What are the physical traits of men you find the most important inorder for the men to qualify as your partner?Agreed! My addition would glasses, I have a thing for for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Feminism isn't helping women overcome the need for a providerLiving on your own requires less money than living with another person, it's that simple. Women want a man with a reliable way to hold up his half of their collective lifestyle, a person who won't drag them down financially and make the trade off worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 09:04 PM |
| 0 | It is NOT INSECURITY to want to be the best sex your partner has ever had. Period.You want to be the best? Ask her what you need to be doing to get her there consistently and as many times as possible. Sex is a skill, it's improved with knowledge and practice and should be tailored to fit the person you're doing it with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 06:15 PM |
| 15 | If the women on here are right and they love all kinds of men and there are loving rrlationships everywhere....why are you here? And why do you think men are here?I have ADHD, and arguing with assholes on the internet gives me that sweet sweet dopamine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 01:12 PM |
| 4 | My final goodbye to trp. The chord has been cut. Read this to unplug from the fake unpluggingYou managed some few others do though, you realized it was the good feeling keeping you there and not anything of substance. Part of getting along in this world is learning to accept and deal with uncertainty. Many guys cling to the red pill out of a fear of being adrift. On some level, they might even realize they're in it because it's the only game in town, or at least, the only game in town that's speaking their language. To them, it's this or nothing, and at least a placebo gives them the se… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 05:23 PM |
| 9 | My final goodbye to trp. The chord has been cut. Read this to unplug from the fake unpluggingThat's the grift. The poison is the draw, marketed as a secret to get sex that women don't want you to know. It's the same sort of thing that gets people into conspiracy theories. People like feeling like they're in the know, privy to knowledge that makes them superior. Especially if that knowledge allows them to feel like they're in control in a world of uncertainty. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP?Literally anything? Okay dude. Anyone with half a brain knows what being your best self means. But since apparently you need everything spelled out for you, it means being the best you personally can be. Working to improve yourself in the places you know you struggle with, be that social skills, mental health, getting and keeping a job, becoming a healthier person, ect. It covers a wide variety of things because, shocker, human beings are individuals and each of us struggles with different thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP?You have reading comprehension problems. I said be the best version of yourself which includes working on everything you just mentioned. Moreover, that advice can't even be claimed by the red pill. People have been saying that long before the red pill started up it's con game. Don't act like the basic advice is why you defend the red pill. There are far less toxic ideologies that offer the same advice without the pseudo-science and hateful rhetoric. The red pill has nothing unique or more effect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 02:55 AM |
| 3 | Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP?Advice that has been spoken many times by many people, long before their con game started. They cannot take credit for it anymore than you or I could. But that is not all they say. Women cannot love a man for who he is, says the red pill. Try to take her down a peg so she'll attempt to win your approval, they say. Women only want one type of man and only settle for the rest, they tell you. Women are always looking for something better, they whisper. Toxic, twisted lies they pour into your ear. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 10:21 AM |
| 7 | Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP?Yes, I do really think that RP ideas have no value. They're selling you "the secret truth that women don't want you to know!" like a mlm hun telling a story about curing cancer with essential oils. If it worked, it would be common place and no one would be opposing it. The men who succeed in finding a partner simply found women they appealed to. Luck, being in the right place at the right time with the right person to appreciate them. The only advice I have is to be the best version of yourself,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Outliers, the people who supposedly don’t exist or are in the minority according to TRP, what are YOUR personal views on TRP?It's a grift at best and a danger to men's mental health at worst. I feel terribly sorry for the men drawn in by it, desperately searching for a set of instructions, an equation, a "right way" to get someone to want them, only to find what amounts to a heart killing drug and misery on the other side. The way they continue to peddle it, blowing past anything that doesn't fit their world view as lies, is the worst part. It has to be right, because it's the only direct instruction they have, and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | PPD: When did you lose your Virginity?A little of both. It was one of those "everyone knows they fucking like each other, just date already!" situations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/21 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Comparison is the thief of joy... Now what?How? In what way? Competition is between people going after the same thing. Men seem to view this as a nebulous "all the women" when really there are women the next town over you will never meet just because circumstance lined it up that way. It's ridiculous to consider yourself in competition with every man you meet, when you know fuck all about who he's pursuing and if you'd even want her in the first place. In fact, the odds are higher that he isn't going after someone you'd ever know about. … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/21 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Comparison is the thief of joy... Now what?Then tell me, why are you here? If you don't want to try, why even bother coming here? Everything requires work in this world, including finding a partner. But you just seem to want to be miserable, because if it's impossible, you don't have to try, right? There are average people with average dicks in happy relationships that have lasted for years, perfectly content with what they have. You can deny it, you can try to disqualify it, but it's true, and it's real, and the only thing standing in y… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/12/21 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Comparison is the thief of joy... Now what?And will hating them and making yourself even more miserable get you there? You asked what to do about your mindset. The answer is, occupy your mind with what you can do. To pay no mind to the people in the store and on the street and focus on yourself and what you are doing. To say to yourself, "Why am I thinking about this? This is stupid" and choose a new topic. It will take work, at first. You might have to wrench your mind away from those thoughts multiple times. But over time, the more you… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Comparison is the thief of joy... Now what?The argument is that their lives have nothing to do with yours, that what they have takes nothing away from you. What do the lives of strangers matter to you? Do you care this much about what they ate that morning? What side of the bed they sleep on? Their relationship with their parents? Their lives affect you exactly as much as they did before you ever laid eyes upon them, but now you waste energy hating them, to your detriment. I ask again, do you actually want to be free of the redpill? Beca… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 10:37 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: if you see a guy with another woman, does it make him more attractive?No, why would it? It just means he's taken and off the market, a non-entity for interest. For all I know, her taste could be shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Comparison is the thief of joy... Now what?Oh? So you know these men? And the women? You know their names? You've met them in person, interacted with them, and they've actively chosen the men and not you? You know for a fact that they're not gay, or asexual, or simply focusing on themselves and not actively looking for any entanglements? Didn't you say you simply hated any attractive man you saw? you cannot possibly know them all. Tell me, do you want to be free of the red pill and it's poison, or do you want to wallow in your own misery… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Comparison is the thief of joy... Now what?I mean that you don't know what you don't know. You see these other men for a brief moment in time, a tiny sliver of a fraction of their lives. In that moment you speculate about the women that may or may not be attracted to them, women you do not know exist, and will likely never meet if they do. And you hate the man for attracting these hypothetical women, and you hate the women who might not even exist for being attracted to him and not you. And now you are angry about a story you have made u… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 07:03 AM |
| 17 | Comparison is the thief of joy... Now what?You keep in mind that these men are not in competition with you. It isn't a zero sum game, their looks do not make you ugly, their win is not your loss. You are dedicating energy to hating people who have done you no wrong and bear you no ill will. Energy that can be better spent elsewhere, improving your own life where you can. Think less about others and more about yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/12/21 05:14 AM |
| 2 | [Q4M] Why do manosphere men have such an aversion to being a stepfather?Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 04:46 AM |
| 0 | [Q4M] Why do manosphere men have such an aversion to being a stepfather?Who's mad? I'm just pointing out that, by your logic, both of these scenarios are an equally bad deal, and an unconvincing argument over all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | [Q4M] Why do manosphere men have such an aversion to being a stepfather?Putting aside that genetic legacy is like calling dirt valuable because it used to be a mountain once, Your whole argument was that men wanted to be first in his woman's heart. You don't see the disconnect there? It doesn't matter if the kid is yours or not, she isn't going to put you first regardless. Might as well not have kids at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 02:29 AM |
| 0 | [Q4M] Why do manosphere men have such an aversion to being a stepfather?You say that like parents aren't like this with bio kids. Marriages with children have a habit of becoming all about the kids, to the point that parents don't know how to relate to each other after 18 years of putting all their energy toward their children. And there are no guarantees a bio child is going to love you any more than a step child. Blood means nothing, all children are strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Do women consider how good a father a man will be?Only the ones who have any interest in being mothers. For childfree women, the men who get all soft-eyed thinking about Kodak moments are walking red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 07:21 AM |
| 2 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileI never said that a woman cannot be at fault, I made it clear that the conversations she starts about the subject would be the time and place for him to explain his feelings and state his needs too, that's what a conversation is. And when you have this "conversation" enough times where you ask every question in the book "Am I doing something wrong? Are your needs not being met somewhere? Did I miss something?" And their response is a blank look and "no" or silence, whether she is the one who off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 09:47 PM |
| 4 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileBecause it's her fault of course, why didn't I think of that! The woman who has started many a conversation about why she isn't getting what she needs and what could been done to change that, where the man often offers no solutions and a non-committal vow to "do better" rather than a word of explanation when now would be the time to do so because that's what the conversation is about, it's her who is failing to communicate her affection and feelings, not him! Never him! Men love to say they're m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 08:38 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileAh yes, because every woman being neglected by her man is volatile and demanding and emotionally abusive, right? We do voice our discontent. Women are the first to resort to communication. The ones who sit down and have a conversation about what they need instead of distancing themselves every time they're going through something. The blow up happens when, after telling them time and time again what they need, the man still can't muster up so much as a gentle touch or an affectionate word for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 07:51 PM |
| 4 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileOr, Men could show their appreciation for their Significant Others on a regular basis, like a normal person, and their girl would be much more amenable. It doesn't take much really, and honestly, that's the problem. Given the choice between your big surprise gesture we have to sit back and hope for in between you acting like we don't exist, or little daily gestures that are consistent, most women will take the little gestures everytime. "Trust" and "Patience" are great, when we're talking about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | How much SEXUAL attractiveness does losing weight and putting on muscle add to a guys SEXUAL appeal?Losing weight, quite a lot. Adding muscle? Meh to even ew depending how extreme it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL] What kind of environment did you grow up in - and how did it affect your view of dating?30, no pill, I was a foster kid, I have been a part of all types of families and my friends are a mixed bag. If my upbringing influenced anything about my understanding of relationships, it's that blood is meaningless, and any relationship that causes you more harm than good should be left behind. Doesn't matter if it's family, friend, or lover. Life is too short to let another person's toxic nature kill you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 09:45 PM |
| 1 | PPD: When did you lose your Virginity?F30, lost it at 15 to my serious boyfriend at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 04:25 AM |
| 5 | Do you have male friends and if so why?Number one, what proof do you have of the motivations of my male friends, whom you have never met and know nothing about? Of the two of us, who knows these people? Who has spoken to them? Spent time with them, observed them both alone and in a group setting? Not you. And you think you know anything at all about what they do or don't want, feel or don't feel? How arrogant. Tell me more about the people in my life, strange man on the internet. Secondly, your inability to think about anything but g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 04:17 AM |
| 8 | Do you have male friends and if so why?A biased r/offmychest post from a guy bitter that the people he personally chose to surround himself with are assholes, and then solipsistically extrapolated outwards to paint the rest of his gender as all exactly the same? What is this supposed to be proof of exactly? Where is this guy's authority on the subject that I should believe what he says over the ten years of experience I have with my mostly male friend group? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 04:01 AM |
| 8 | Do you have male friends and if so why?It's like someone introduced an alien to an incel forum as a way of explaining human social interaction... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Do you have male friends and if so why?No, where the fuck are you getting this shit? You make it very clear you've never interacted with a mixed friend group in real life. Women feel betrayed when their male friends reveal they just wanted sex all along. They often stop talking to him all together. Does that sound like a winning strategy to you? Moreover, your idea of what male-female friendships look like is incredibly skewed. There's no hinting at more going on on my end, and no trying to win my favor going on on theirs. No special… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:51 AM |
| 7 | Do you have male friends and if so why?No. That is not the reason people socialize. Human beings are not solitary creatures, we like being in groups, like being an "us." Socialization gives our brains the happy chemical, it keeps us mentally healthy. If it were all about sex, we wouldn't feel the need to spend time with groups of our own gender away from the other and bond with them apart from our significant others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Do you have male friends and if so why?There's no orbiting or leading on going on here. I'm just a nerdy introvert with a dumbass sense of humor which they share. We like the same video games, we like the same tv shows, we make references to stupid youtube videos while other people look on in confusion. You know, friend shit. Ribbing, jokes, conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/21 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, what is your max age gap and why?F30. 7 years in either direction. I prefer partner I have things in common with, and I feel that anything beyond a seven year gap is not going to have us be on the same page. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women who prefer younger guys: What is it about younger guys that you feel works best for you? Would you prefer casual or serious or some kind of mixture of both where you date younger guys with the intention of seeing if you can build a relationship? Or does it matter?I don't really have a preference for younger men, just a range of dating age I'm willing to consider. My current SO is 5 years younger than I am, which neither enticed nor deterred me, clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Women, would you or have you ever competed for a man?No, absolutely not. If a man has trouble deciding between two women, he doesn't care about either one of them enough to be worth their time. The things you prioritize are the things you care about, whatever you might tell yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 11:39 PM |
| 14 | Do men value “sexual intimacy” over all other forms of intimacy?Personally, I don't have a problem with sex being a core component of how men experience romantic love. My issue comes from the ones that seem to think that sex is the only component of romantic intimacy that matters. The men who think of their women as "clingy" when they want any sort of physical affection or quality time that isn't sexual, and get annoyed when she asks him to spend some of his free time with her rather than on his hobbies and friends. Basically, they treat their partners like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Sex is Love vs Sex isn't Love ?I personally do not see sex as love. It's an act that can have meaning behind it, but does not require it. You can do the dishes because they need to be cleaned. You can do the dishes because you want to lighten your partner's load and you know it will make them happy. You can do the dishes for both of those reasons, but doing the dishes is not inherently a romantic act of service, just as sex is not inherently an act of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | The "You did this with prior exes but won't do it with me" is not about the acts done or not done. It's about the attitude toward the current man.No, you are missing the point. You don't unlock levels of sexy-time based on how hot you are when you're dating someone. That's not how it works. It all ties back to that whole "rewarding men with the pussy of worthiness" thing, doesn't it. "Oh she loves getting railed in the ass, but she's purposefully denying herself just to spite me for not being the hottest man she ever fucked!" It's like you think we operate on some weird toddler logic where instead of eating the candy, we throw it away so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Gave you ever pulled the "fake date" joke on a girl? How familiar are you with this trend? It seeks to have happened to a lot of us women based on the thread earlier...Ooh, I remember that joke. What is with middle school boys and mocking their female peers with obvious fake interest? The "Hey, can I have your number?" or "Will you go out with me?" in that sarcastic, mocking voice, before turning to their friends and laughing. You didn't even have to be awkward or bad looking, just shy enough to become immediately embarrassed when they said it purposefully loud enough for anyone nearby to hear. You could ignore them, in which case they would keep it up, even o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What's Your Reason For Coming On This Subreddit, And Why Did You Stay?I'm here because my inability not to say something when "someone is being wrong on the internet" won't let me leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 12:46 AM |
| 3 | People can be "looking for" more than one thing at the same time.What you're talking about is "seeing where things go" which is pure time wasting for people who know what they want. In my experience, the only people who are okay with that sort of thing are very young people who aren't situated in life yet, not established adults. Or people who get itchy when the word "commitment" is mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do women keep tabs on their exes after breaking up?I don't know if "keep tabs on" is the right word. I don't keep in contact with my exes, but I am still friends with people who know them, and ask after them if they bring them up. I don't have any romantic interest in them anymore, but just because we're no longer together, it doesn't mean I wish them ill. I like knowing they're doing well with their lives too. It's a bit like asking after in-laws or family you don't get to see often, mild curiosity about what they've been up to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 04:46 AM |
| 2 | If you are lousy boyfriend, lover, husband that should not concern you. Focus on being a good Father because that is the true measure of a Man.A service is still performance. Your love and care and affection for your child means little if you fail in your actions. But that aside, you see no value in being a worthwhile partner regardless of children. Still a terrible take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 06:12 AM |
| 3 | If you are lousy boyfriend, lover, husband that should not concern you. Focus on being a good Father because that is the true measure of a Man.Gross. And What of men who have no interest in procreation? What should they strive to be? I hate people who reduce the core of being a gender to how they perform as a parent. As if who you are before you bang out a child is meaningless or incomplete. Terrible take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:11 AM |
| 2 | "Just look at all the average couples in walmart" - What, the couples who are not attracted to eachother?"Strangers I've never spoken to in my life and don't know from Adam aren't attracted to their spouses because I said so!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Can women be as desperate as men are ? Why is it men who are perceived as so?Men are perceived as desperate because they place a lot more value on sexual encounters than women do. They tie up their worth and status as a person in their experiences with women, to the point that in extreme cases(Incels, MGTOW) they grow to hate women for not deeming them "worthy". Women's desperation tends to come more from having a time-frame, wanting to be married or have children by a certain point in their lives. For women who have no interest in being mothers or who are open to option… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/11/21 08:17 AM |
| 0 | How is a relationship different when your partner is your best friend?Well, for one thing you actually like them as a person and not just because they look good without clothes on. You're more likely to work through the hardships of life with someone whose company you enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/21 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Another question for women: Would you consider a relationship with someone who considered themselves Red Pill or outright identifies as Red Pill?Never. Their paranoid bullshit would make them terrible partners, it would be a total waste of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?Sure, buddy. You think you're paying a scalper for a new video card, but really, you're that guy being sold essential oils as a cure for cancer and swears they work, but keep kidding yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/21 01:16 AM |
| 6 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?No, you haven't. A snake-oil salesman is still a liar, and his product is still fake, even when others are selling fake cures too. And if you want to compare it to Onlyfans so badly, well, at least they're actually selling what they advertise, even at a mark-up. The redpill is true snake-oil, a predatory money scheme that not only takes vulnerable men's money, but completely screws over their understanding of women and leaves them even more hurt, paranoid, and miserable than they were before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:39 PM |
| 6 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?My opinion is hardly unique. Everyone hates grifters, and the people that don't are either taken in by the grift or grifting themselves. Don't sit here and act like you've pointed out some glaring flaw in my logic when your argument is "Well everyone does it, even Onlyfans, so Redpill isn't bad for being a money making scheme!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 11:25 PM |
| 2 | What birth control method do you use?Well, if getting my tubes removed were easier, I'd have done that already, but as it stands, I have an IUD and we use condoms just in case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 09:13 PM |
| 9 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?I never said it was unique, I said it was a grift, which it is. Everybody doing something doesn't make it good or acceptable, it's shitty practice regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Women - at what point in life did you have the most sex?15-20 when I was in my first long term relationship. Now would probably be first runner up only because we haven't been together quite as long yet. 21-27 would be when I had the most varied partners, but the least sex over all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 08:59 PM |
| 9 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?Who said anything about Onlyfans, and what does that have to do with RedPill being a grift exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | [Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do?Physical appearance is no longer a factor in attraction. I imagine there will still be a lot of people doing stupid horny stuff, but they'll be doing it for people they actually like instead of just because boobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Women who DON'T wait for sex with prospective partners, what's your motivation to go against the rule?I don't do rules. If I want to have sex with someone who is willing, it happens. My SO and I might have started sooner had he not lived across the country from me, so it took two months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Q4All, Do you prefer honesty over kindness (ie. comforting lies) or the other way around?I know that the truth is going to hurt, and yeah, I'm going to take some time to feel that hurt. But in the end, I'm going to adjust what I'm doing and learn from it. If he doesn't tell me, how can I fix it? You mistake the nursing of wounds for the consequences of the wrong action, when pain is an inevitable result of not measuring up to expectations. Lying doesn't help them or you, it just kicks the can down the road to be encountered again at a later date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 07:49 PM |
| 20 | Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill?I think it's a failed attempt to understand female motivation through a male lense at best, and a grift being pulled on vulnerable men at worst. Either way, it gets pretty much everything wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Does seeing a guy receiving interest from other women change your perception of him?If I don't have the motivation to talk to a guy, other people's opinion of him isn't going to change anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/21 12:24 AM |
| 1 | What do Red Pill people get wrong about you?You misunderstand, I don't mean that women don't respond to physical attractiveness, I mean that they don't drown in physical desire for a man they've just seen. It catches their attention, but it doesn't immediately wet their panties with need like men seem to think it does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you feel if you saw your male love interest/boyfriend/husband cryingYour fear is just going to make you miserable in the end. Women who react poorly to emotion from men are shitty women. Might as well be irrationally afraid of getting hit by a falling airplane part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 01:28 PM |
| 4 | What do Red Pill people get wrong about you?"Oh you can't get these types of men, that must be why you say you don't want them!" Yes, of course, your ridiculous ideology couldn't be wrong, it's just women are lying about what they want! Because that helps us get it...How exactly? Women are not a hive mind, there's no magical formula that will get us all into bed. We all have different tastes in men and in lifestyle. Not every woman wants a breadwinner husband or a super manly man. I like skinny nerds with glasses. Other women prefer femin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you feel if you saw your male love interest/boyfriend/husband cryingGood for you, most women aren't like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 11:36 AM |
| 8 | What do Red Pill people get wrong about you?"Evolutionary psychology" is pseudoscience bunk. There is no "irrefutable evidence" as it's be refuted multiple times in this very subreddit. You're wrong, cry me a river. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 07:39 AM |
| 5 | What do Red Pill people get wrong about you?Except that they do, all the time, I've seen it. And moreover, the majority of women don't want the things RP says they do, and don't have the motivations RP says they have. The Redpill gets pretty much everything wrong because they're projecting their male mindset onto women and trying to figure out what they'd want if they were women. They don't get it. They think they do, which is not the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 06:57 AM |
| 7 | Why ex redpill is copeRedpill is a bunch of men pulling grift on the insecure, pretending to have the formula to get women. Redpill is the real cope, there is no formula, women aren't a math equation. Take your BS somewhere else, your ideology has done enough already. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/10/21 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: How would you feel if you saw your male love interest/boyfriend/husband cryingI would be immediately concerned for him and would ask what's wrong, and then try to help if I could, or comfort him if I couldn't. It wouldn't be the first time with him, or the last. My SO is a person, he has feelings, why on earth would I respect him less for expressing them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 12:52 AM |
| 11 | What do Red Pill people get wrong about you?That they have any idea at all what motivates or attracts me. No, I'm not after a guy that makes CEO money, no I don't find muscles attractive, no, I don't rule out guys shorter than 6ft, just no. The redpill is men trying and failing to understand female motivation and attraction through a male lense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 12:42 AM |
| 8 | Do you ever hit on guys on the internet solely based on their posts and comments, without seeing their photos?That's how I met my SO. It's hard to say what it was that caught my attention. I just liked the way he "spoke" I guess you could say. He was funny and creative and smart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 11:51 PM |
| 2 | What characters are you attracted to and why?Spencer Reid from Criminal Minds, Alucard from the animated Netflix Castlevania series, Solas from Dragon Age Inquisition, and to my own embarrassment, Sasuke Uchiha from Naruto. I might have a thing for skinny nerd boys and pretty-boy tortured souls. THE ANGST. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 11:00 PM |
| 1 | What characters are you attracted to and why?Gabriel! I do so love that golden Archangel! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 10:53 PM |
| 3 | What characters are you attracted to and why?I couldn't agree with you more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/21 10:48 PM |
| 4 | The men who want to have casual sex, and the men who shame women for having casual sex: are they usually the same men? If yes, how does it make sense to do both?This is where my flair comes from. Sex with men who are not them is gross, slutty behavior and makes them low value. Sex with them is good and wonderful. These men like women who are slutty only for them. They dream of the good girl who actually "never does this kind of thing" but breaks because he's just so hot and manly and makes her weak at the knees just by looking at her that she has to have him right now. And then never does that for any other man ever again, because as /u/GridReXX said, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 05:00 AM |
| 3 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?I have, it completely fucked up his life though, because his type was mentally ill, unsatisfied women who worked at his job and who's husbands were his friends...Yeah, the guy had no loyalty at all and upon watching him implode two of his friendships this way, I decided he was a friend I didn't need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 01:34 AM |
| 0 | What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different thingsIt's not the rule, and anyone who lives in the real world recognizes that. Only men who immerse themselves in poison like the redpill or incel sites are biased enough to take such things as truth. For the rest of us, it's just bitter exaggeration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 12:17 PM |
| -4 | What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different thingsAh yes, I must've imagined all those stereotypical nerds I dated. Should I tell my SO he's a figment of my imagination? Wait, does this make me a virgin? Would you look at that, my value just went up! Seriously though, this reads like low effort trash at best and trolling at worst. Could it get anymore stereotypically incel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 04:04 AM |
| 0 | What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different thingsWhat is this blackpill bullshit? Don't we have a rule about this shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 03:04 AM |
| -1 | What women say they want in a partner and what they actually want are two different thingsReally? Am I virgin then? I could have sworn I only dated stereotypical nerdy men...I suppose I should tell my SO of three years he isn't real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/21 03:01 AM |
| 2 | What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?I also find muscle men to be very uncanny valley. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Where does the line between "in shape/takes care of himself" and "gym bro/rat/etc" stand?I mean, me personally, I don't like muscles at all, I prefer a guy on the skinny side. Soft, but lean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 10:23 PM |
| 4 | In your opinion what is the perfect male height?5'9 guys are pretty nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?We don't see those things as "rewards" for being good girls, no. Women have more going on in their lives than men, we don't need you to tell us we're worthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?Because they don't see women as autonomous beings living their own lives, but arbiters of who is "Worthy." I guarantee you there's going to be at least one comment in here about who women "reward" with sex and what that says about her. We are not people, but the prize for winning life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Does being not like the other girls (nlog) gives you an advantage in the dating market?I wouldn't call myself "not like other girls" because there are plenty of other girls like me. But as far as being a tomboyish introvert who has nerdy hobbies goes, it has definitely put me into the same spaces with the kind of guys I'm interested in and given me something to talk to them about. I wouldn't have an SO, for example, if I hadn't gotten involved in a twitch streamer's chat community and started making friends there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work?Okay, so, much like men, women get into "horny moods" where it's been a while and they're looking to satisfy a need rather than make a connection. Some women forgo casual sex in favor of a night in with a toy, but for those who prefer to be out and about and don't mind casual sex, the same rules apply. Your mistake is assuming that it takes more than an evening to form attraction, or break it. To break it down further, men see a physically attractive woman and think "she's hot, I want to have se… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 09:15 PM |
| 4 | Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work?Not necessarily. Plenty of women have no intention of ever having children. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/10/21 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work?No, what you need to do is find a way to socialize with new people while keeping what you personally enjoy. Your problem is not what you're into, but that you aren't meeting new people otherwise. You can have loner hobbies and still socialize, I met my SO in a twitch chat of all things. Find a community, whether online or in person. Part of finding a partner is talking to strangers. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 11:59 PM |
| 8 | Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work?Physically attracted, yes. That was my point, that finding someone good looking isn't enough to make a woman want to have sex with them. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 11:34 PM |
| 12 | Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work?The difference is, this is how women feel about even particularly attractive men. They might get a little more leeway if they happen to be a woman's physical type, but hard turn-offs will dispel the magic instantly, regardless of a man's appearance. Sexual interest in a man is very much tied to how women feel about the person they're considering letting into their bodies. Like seeing something disgusting and losing your appetite, even the most attractive man can lose his chances with a woman if … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 11:05 PM |
| 13 | Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work?It's that sort of thinking that gets guys misunderstanding things. "handsome" is very subjective, as is "an amazing personality." There is no secret formula for attracting women, we all have different tastes. Men should focus on cultivating a look they like and hobbies that interest them, and women who like the person they present to the world will take interest. Of course, part of that does require some sort of socialization with strangers, but that also can take many forms, and it's up to the … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 10:52 PM |
| 54 | Confused. How does a woman's attraction to men work?I can only speak for myself, but from conversations with other women, our consensus is that seeing an attractive man sparks our interest, but it doesn't light our fire. Female attraction isn't like the instant inferno that testosterone fueled lust is, it's a slow burn. Attraction puts the spotlight on a man, so that we observe him more closely. As his personality and quirks are revealed to us we grow more or less interested in him depending on what appeals to us. Should we like the person he com… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Women’s interests and Hobbies.My hobbies are reading, video games, and creative writing, usually poetry but occasionally short stories and I have a fanfiction guilty pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 10:31 AM |
| 1 | So what's the reason male prostitutes for women are still FAR more uncommon than female prostitutes for men?I've never met a woman who thought getting off with another person was worth her hard earned cash. That's what toys and a night in with some quality erotica are for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 02:32 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has had a good experience with a bigger dick in the past, will she be able to enjoy smaller sizes?Dude, size queens will tell you they're size queens. It really is about how you use it rather than what you have, making an effort to do what makes her feel good is gonna be what gets her there, not the size of your dick. Any size dick is useless if you're not using it right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?Yep, several. One went looking for love in all the wrong places, the other barely went looking at all. I explained to the first that fishing in the company pond is a terrible idea and will just cause drama. Also, your married friend's wife is a bomb waiting to detonate your life, do not go there. He didn't listen to either piece of advice and continued on a merry path of destruction that left him homeless, without a job, and very single. He found a new job on the other side of the state and star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:25 AM |
| 4 | Can men actually achieve the required standards or are they a little unrealistic?More like don't be fat, have a job that allows you to pay all your bills by yourself and on time, and have a care for your appearance and personal hygiene. And the most important part, get in the habit of being social and meeting new people. It's kind of hard to meet someone if you don't talk to strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:09 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The intractable problem of women as reward.Making the divine out of humans and being angry that they don't bestow blessings. Looking at it from that perspective, it's easy to see where all the talk of "rewarding chad with instant sex" comes from, and why they argue with us when we tell them that's not what we're doing. When you see someone only as the arbiter of who is "worthy" everything has to be about you, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 07:24 PM |
| 2 | How would average women react, if one day men were to start treating them the same way they treat average men?So women who spend their free time relaxing at home, never use tinder and don't plan to start, and would prefer to be unaccosted when they are out of the house can just go about their day? No cat calling or anything? Sweet! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Men can conceive of creating their perfect women for themselves - a stepford wife for example - but women struggle to create their own perfect men. There are no "stepford husbands."Respect is earned. Civility is what you speak of. Respect is something you pay to an authority who is above you somehow, not an equal, it is deference. However perfect a robot might be, my ideal partner is a human being who's choices I have no say in. Only then can I say he has truly chosen me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Men can conceive of creating their perfect women for themselves - a stepford wife for example - but women struggle to create their own perfect men. There are no "stepford husbands."My ideal partner actually has a personality, and might even disagree with me on occasion. Imagine that, loving a person who has opinions and the ability to make choices that aren't yours! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 11:45 AM |
| -1 | Men can conceive of creating their perfect women for themselves - a stepford wife for example - but women struggle to create their own perfect men. There are no "stepford husbands."What is unearned respect and obedience but mindless affection? You want a woman who won't question you, won't ask anything of you, a woman with no mind of her own and no capability of being disappointed. You don't want a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Men can conceive of creating their perfect women for themselves - a stepford wife for example - but women struggle to create their own perfect men. There are no "stepford husbands."Respect is earned. Obedience is the quality of a child, not a partner. Mindless affection can be nothing but hollow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/21 12:20 AM |
| 11 | Men can conceive of creating their perfect women for themselves - a stepford wife for example - but women struggle to create their own perfect men. There are no "stepford husbands."Because that is a pornstar mindset. "obedient" "respectful" a personality of mindless devotion and sexual acquiescence. Women want a person. Someone with thoughts and feelings and opinions and likes and dislikes and fears and dreams and habits both cute and annoying. Men want an anime waifu. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 08:16 PM |
| 0 | Men can conceive of creating their perfect women for themselves - a stepford wife for example - but women struggle to create their own perfect men. There are no "stepford husbands."Sure dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 07:15 PM |
| 26 | Men can conceive of creating their perfect women for themselves - a stepford wife for example - but women struggle to create their own perfect men. There are no "stepford husbands."A decent number of those men conceptualizing of their perfect women are lovingly imagining the details of her appearance and the sex acts she'll perform for him, and little else. Men have a much simpler view of what makes a woman "perfect" and it has very little to do with her mind. Women also conceptualize of their ideal man, and certainly they want them to be attractive to her tastes, but it's the things that can't be carved into stone that make him perfect. Loving a man is as much about lovin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Is creepy behavior tolerated if you’re good looking, charismatic, and rich?This question seems to imply that behavior is objective rather than contextual. Might as well ask everyone if they'd rather get a hug from their mother upon returning home or a stranger who broke into their house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 07:47 AM |
| 1 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?Well then they can hardly complain about it, can they? People aren't mind readers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?If you have feelings for someone, just ask them out. If they say no, you have your answer, and you can decide where to go from there. Better to know than to build up all this resentment hoping for them to notice you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 09:08 PM |
| 4 | is it important for men and women to share political beliefs while dating?It's absolutely important to me, I could never share my life with someone I am diametrically opposed to. That's a recipe for conflict of the highest order, particularly for someone like me who is Childfree. There's no compromising on kids, and I wouldn't be able to sleep with a man who would protest if I needed an abortion or chose to get sterilized. I am on the left, if that wasn't obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Which man would woman rather date? (look below)No thanks, I'll pass on both. I don't do muscles, politically right leaning people, sports, or church. I would be fine with A if he weren't interested in sports or religion, and maybe liked books, though as long as he doesn't hate to read, that might be okay too. I don't care if he's balding and dad bod could mean any number of things, we all lose our looks in the end. I also play video games, so that's a plus. Don't particularly care about how much money he makes, it's not like we'd be starting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Do you grab and/or slap your man’s butt during sex?No. It's all mine. None for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Do you grab and/or slap your man’s butt during sex?He does, indeed, have a lovely ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 06:57 PM |
| 1 | To All My Childfree Queens Out There!"If you knew anything about the healthcare system" I know plenty. I also know that children are not a solution, and that my option allows me to rely on people who have made the choice to care for others rather than leech off of family. And No, they don't owe you a thing. When someone asks you for a favor, and you do something for them, that is when debt is incurred. You don't get to demand compensation for a task you took it upon yourself to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | To All My Childfree Queens Out There!Children should be raised in a loving environment and then allowed to live their lives. They owe you nothing for bringing them into the world out of your own selfish desire to have them. The care you give them is your responsibility, not a debt to be repaid. Life is a gift, not a loan. Conservatorship exists precisely for this purpose. Adult Guardianship is also an option. You can give me your "knowledge" if you like, but unless you have proof, I'm just going to assume you're pushing your own ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:07 AM |
| 2 | To All My Childfree Queens Out There!Children are not a retirement plan. They're their own people with their own lives, and they don't owe their parents anything. Plenty of seniors that don't have anybody are that way because they've alienated their entire family or their children simply don't give a shit about them. I think that by the time my retirement fund starts being used to pay for my caretaking, I'll have already made plans to have someone trustworthy looking after my interests once I'm no longer lucid. You're not critiquin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 09:28 AM |
| 2 | To All My Childfree Queens Out There!What exactly do you think retirement funds are for? Either way, "hate on me hater, now or later, 'cuz I'm gonna do me, you be mad baby!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 08:56 AM |
| 6 | To All My Childfree Queens Out There!This is going into my folder of "Sad revenge fantasies men use to sleep at night." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:58 AM |
| 1 | To what extent can a man become more attractive by working out?Gaining muscle is only going to detract from his score for me, as I prefer skinny guys, but losing weight can change your face shape enough to jump you up a few points. Say going from about a 4 to an 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Who does PPD attract?People who can't help but shout into the void despite knowing it's pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to prefer long term relationships and commitment instead of just being best friends with sex? Do you genuinely desire a man to devote and commit himself to you for the rest of his life or is this just a social pressure? Is this something that you genuinely want for yourselves?Because I have no interest in being a passing phase for someone I care about. Nor would anyone I would consider any sort of relationship with. You speak as though men as a whole are these non-monogamous creatures, but I've seen plenty in just this sub that are looking to commit to a woman that fits their standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Keep talking about people you don't know and spouting bs, being wrong suits you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 03:30 AM |
| 2 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Their response would be "You're taken, also what the fuck?" because we've been friends for years, and that sounds like something a dude who watches too much porn would say. In order for me to explain it to you, I'd have to explain things in depth that you don't care about and are frankly none of your business. Maybe you can't hold a conversation of substance with women, but they don't have that problem. It's amazing what shared interests can do for a friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 09:21 AM |
| 3 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Rollo-Tamassi is not someone anyone should be listening to. But more-over, our back-lash against the redpillers is not about "women are wonderful and infallible." It is because they look at women through the lense of men and assume their motivations based on what they themselves would want if they were in their position. Women are human-beings in that sense because men don't seem to appreciate anything they try to do. What they accomplish, who they are, what they care about, all meaningless to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 05:56 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Women want alpha/beta in the SAME man. Men want alpha/beta in DIFFERENT women.Yeah, I don't believe a woman wrote that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 10:12 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?I am not a misandrist. As I've said, I have good men in my life who truly are my friends. I know it's possible for men to be this way. My anger is directed at those who refuse to try. My anger is directed at the realization that there are more men who would rather sleep with a woman once and never see her again than have a conversation with her. That we are bodies first and people second, and sometimes not at all. I cling to not all men with an iron grip, but it certainly isn't getting any easie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 09:47 PM |
| 3 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Most women do want friends. Actual friends. In this day and age, you don't need to go out of your way to know someone in person to get attention. If someone spends physical time in your presence on a regular basis without you having to ask, chances are that they actually like being around you. Surprising, I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Of course you're focusing on the sex angle of the equation. Putting aside the fact that I've had this conversation with my male friends, I've repeatedly said that it isn't about whether you're attracted to your friends or not, but whether you value their companionship otherwise. I know my friends value me for who I am, not what's between my legs. In that regard, they're true friends. My issue is when that isn't the case. When friendship is a front for sexual interest and only sexual interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 09:26 PM |
| 5 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Aw shucks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 03:13 AM |
| 8 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Sure dude, you just keep living in whatever dimension you're floating in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 03:11 AM |
| 21 | Why is being considered “Husband material” better than being fwb materialWhich is ridiculous because, I don't know about the rest of you, but I wouldn't want to marry someone I don't want to fuck on a regular basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 03:04 AM |
| 11 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Unrealistic to not be an asshole and take up the valuable time of someone who wants a friend who actually likes her as a person? All I'm hearing out of you is "me me me" you really don't give a damn do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 02:45 AM |
| 11 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Again, this isn't about being attracted to your friends, this is about knowing that, if this person had a dick, you wouldn't be friends with them at all. There's a big difference between not knowing how to bring up something delicately and "yeah she's annoying and I honestly don't care about a word that comes out of her mouth but she's got a great ass and I want to keep looking at it." Like, imagine you thought someone was your friend, but in reality they were only hanging out with you because y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 02:23 AM |
| 13 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?First of all, the fact that he's bringing this up in this subreddit makes it obvious he still thinks this way, you're the one giving him the benefit of the doubt when the way he talks makes it obvious what he thinks of her. Secondly, again, he makes it clear that he thinks all men think this way and is only asking how many of them are honest about it. And this isn't about "oh, I fantasized about you once" this is "yeah, if you didn't have a vagina I wanted to smash, I wouldn't have anything to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 12:01 AM |
| 24 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?Did you read all that you wrote there? that her shittier behavior has only tolerated because she was female, or barring that her main asset was the fact that she was a woman and that if she was a man they wouldn't have liked her...he's not gonna say it out loud presumably because he's still friends with her and probably does have some minimal respect for her by having the basic decency not embarrass her by pointing out that she was only tolerated because of her sex. That. That right there is wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 10:50 PM |
| 27 | What percentage of men are truly open and honest with the women in their lives?It's hard to get words around the way I feel when I come across men who think like you. Like, why bother? If your female "friends" are just potential fucks, why mislead them into thinking that you respect them or give a damn at all? Why not shoot your shot and move on, what are you hanging around for if you don't actually like them for who they are? I see posts like this, and damn. I'm a big proponent of not all men, the men in my life are good people, but fuck if I don't see them a little more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Women, how would your perfect partner act in a relationship?Gentle, kind, affectionate, respectful. He may present whatever front he likes to the rest of the world, but with me he is softness and warmth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating?Yes. I don't really gel with extroverts enough for me to spend more than an hour or two around them and I have almost nothing to talk about with someone that doesn't have even a little bit of nerdy interest. I have never not been a bookworm or a gamer, and everyone I've ever dated has been someone I connected with through those interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Do you put your money where your mouth is when dating?Yes. I say I want quiet, introverted nerds, and I am indeed in a relationship with a quiet, introverted nerd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Can some of you describe your social lives?Well, before the current end times, I would regularly hang out and have dinner with the few local friends I have. Most are scattered across the states these days. We'd go see movies, grab desert, hang out at each others houses, it was a good time. once or twice a week on days off. Now we do all our socialising online because of the plague. Most of the in-person friends are men. My SO was met through online friends though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: I think we need to address the elephant in the room - Why are introverted men largely unattractive to women?Aw, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: I think we need to address the elephant in the room - Why are introverted men largely unattractive to women?"Women largely do not" because women are socialised differently than men are, and are more pressured to perform social niceties from a younger age. Put simply, we learn how to be social early on, so doing it under pressure is less of a struggle, even when we would rather be doing anything else. This is why it's harder to diagnose high functioning ASD in girls, they mask a lot better than boys do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 03:36 PM |
| 10 | Q4ALL: I think we need to address the elephant in the room - Why are introverted men largely unattractive to women?In order to form a connection with a new person, you have to be willing and able to initiate and hold a conversation. You have to go to places with strangers, whether online or in person. Introverts are drained by these actions and find them taxing. They are unlikely to do them when not in the correct mindset or without the urging of more social minded friends. Thus, they make fewer new connections and have a harder time finding romantic partners as the process is similar. Women don't hate intro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Do women just want men that are difficult to obtain?Oh really? Because every time someone comes in here with a crackpot theory about why women only want bad boys and don't want to fuck their boyfriends and husbands, most of the female responses are that they do want to fuck their partners and that's part of why they're with them. But because you lot can't conceive of a value system that doesn't lift one over the other, you dismiss them as liars. "watch what they say, not what they do" Well what most of us are doing is happily banging our partners… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Do women just want men that are difficult to obtain?That you see sexual and romantic attraction as a mutually exclusive, zero-sum game is your own failing. Sex is not a chore, that's the point. The men we love, we love in addition to our sexual attraction, not in spite of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Do women just want men that are difficult to obtain?Imagine for a moment that we're not talking about sexual partners, but food. Casual sex is junk food, candy bars, cheap and easy. They taste good, but they're not filling. A good relationship, a life partner, is a full course meal, filling and tasty and balanced. The "ho phase" if it happens at all, and for a good number of women, it doesn't, is snacking to tide you over for dinner. No one talks about how great the candy bar they had last night was. But they absolutely remember the best dinner t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How come it’s unacceptable to complement a woman’s tits?Because we spend most of our lives, from puberty onwards, being leered at by men for our bodies. You know how people who are really tall hate being asked their height or jokes about "how's the weather up there?" Or how Grocery store cashiers hate the "if it doesn't scan it must be free!" joke? That's how women feel about comments on their bodies. It's old and tired and we would loved to be complimented for any of our better qualities first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/21 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever had a long period where you couldn't meet a guy you liked? How long did it last?5 years. Funny thing about all those friendships you mention, most women actually see their friends as, you know, friends, not potential romance options. I spent a good long time after my last long term relationship not really looking for anything, and not really meeting many new people until I started hanging out in online communities a few years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 01:21 AM |
| 5 | Is body count a part of modern dating culture?I have never asked, nor been asked, outside of this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 12:07 PM |
| 4 | What's the end goal of life?The end goal of life is to enjoy it, to find happiness where we can in the way that works best for us as individuals. Throwing everything you have into the singular pursuit of one goal and hinging all your hopes for being happy on it is how you end up disappointed. There is nothing wrong with wanting something, it's the neglecting of everything else for it, denying the other things that bring you joy for it, that makes it unhealthy. Balance is key. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/09/21 08:38 AM |
| 1 | Ugly - hot peopleThat would be my taste in a nutshell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/21 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Why do women want to get married?Marriage in this day and age tells everyone that you're serious about each other. It doesn't really get more committed than being legally recognized as a family unit. This is important, especially when it comes to health and hospitalization. In the case of someone who doesn't want their blood relatives interfering in their business, it allows their spouse to be next of kin. People are shitty. Marriage is one of the few ways you can make sure someone you trust is the first person they call. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 08:36 AM |
| 4 | Observations on Male socialization vs Female socializationIt's kind of hard not to know what the average man wants in a woman when it's plastered on every billboard, every advertisement, in every piece of entertainment geared toward men. I can't enjoy a video game without male gamers complaining that modern female characters are ugly and waxing poetic about the days "when women were allowed to be sexy." We live in a world where what men want to see is everywhere, how could we not know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | How much do you value the n-count of your partner?I'll take number two. Somehow I don't think number one is interested in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/21 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?No, I said that physical attraction sparks initial interest, and what a man does after that interest is sparked determines where things go from that point on. That is literally being attracted to what a man does. A physically attractive man could fail completely by saying or doing something that's a complete turn off. I mocked the redpill's insistence that they understood female sexuality, as they're incapable of escaping their own solipsism and bias. As made clear by you, insisting that you kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?Well if they're the same thing, then I guess my description of female sexuality is correct! After all, I did specifically mention that it was a man's actions upon getting a woman's attention that determine her interest. Good to hear you agree! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?Sure, I totally believe you have enough objectivity to interpret things correctly rather than seeing what you want to see because you have a bias against women. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?"Watch what they do, not what they say" only works if you can correctly interpret the motivations behind what someone is doing. They think they get it, which is not the same as actually getting it, and refuse to believe otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 01:27 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] What is your opinion on monogamy?I think that what works best for an individual person is what they should pursue. Society isn't going to collapse if the non-monogamous people date each other. I don't think that "natural" applies to human beings anymore. We live in a world of our own creation, nothing is really natural about our lives. I personally am strictly monogamous, as is my SO. Neither he nor I have any interest in opening up the relationship, and that works for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?In my case, physical attraction sparks my interest, but it doesn't light my fire. It's not going to make me approach a stranger or offer sex on the spot. There is no threshold where that happens. The men here seem to think that, at a high enough level of physical attraction, women will respond like men. That isn't the case. Attraction puts the spotlight on a man, what he does with that attention determines what happens between us. But to answer your question, yes I find my partner physically att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 12:12 AM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.What I do doesn't upset my partner. Just because you don't have a trusting bone in your body doesn't mean other people don't. You claim to know people, but every word just speaks to insecurity. Don't push your fears on the rest of us. This is a you problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:45 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Codependency doesn't help foster a healthy relationship, it creates a toxic one where you both drag each other down. You are meant to be part of each other's lives, not the center of it. There is no selfishness here, the opposite in fact. Trust builds a healthy relationship, not control. What you're suggesting won't prevent someone from cheating if that's who they are, it just cuts off loyal partners from their friends. You act as though you can somehow prevent cheating from happening, as though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 01:47 PM |
| 1 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.My best friend is of the opposite sex. Never been tempted. In fact, most of my friends are of the opposite sex. Never been tempted by them either. My SO has friends of the opposite sex. I trust that I don't have to worry about disloyalty. You know why? Because I'm secure in my relationship. Because I know my partner, and and I know his word means something. I also know that he's an adult and he's responsible for his own choices. We're hardly unique. This is the modern world, the past is meaningl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 12:20 PM |
| 2 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.And that is fine. For you. But You cannot force that on other people, including your partner. Most people aren't worried about rivals and competition, despite both themselves and their partner having opposite sex friends. This is because they trust their partner to have boundaries and remain loyal without interference on their part. Attempting to normalise an abuse tactic, and that's exactly what it is regardless of how you want to view it, is just an excuse to put societal pressure on people. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 11:20 AM |
| 4 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.It absolutely is about controlling your partner. It's about keeping your partner away from potential rivals to soothe the fear of comparison and temptation. That's called isolation, it's an abuse tactic, and no, we should not, as a collective, normalise an abusive behavior because some people are not secure enough in their relationship to trust their partners. You cannot stop other people from making choices, and that's what cheating is, a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:58 AM |
| 4 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.It isn't irrelevant when the result is "My partner should change their behavior because I have issues." Your solution is to normalize a controlling behavior out of paranoia and anxiety. This is the least healthy solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:20 AM |
| 4 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.How is it invalid? If your reasoning for not wanting your partner to have opposite sex friends is fear of cheating, that is insecurity, plain and simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 10:05 AM |
| 20 | People in monogamous relationships or marriages should not have friends of the opposite gender.Insecurity is not an excuse to control your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:59 AM |
| 4 | Would you date a woman you met at work?I personally think it's a good thing purely because "fishing in the company pond" as they say can make things awkward and uncomfortable if things go south. I've known guys who had a habit of picking up co-workers. Not only did it not work out well for him, ever, it also turned his work life into endless drama. Getting by in this world is hard enough without blurring the boundaries between personal and professional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Why is the premise that women's standards are unreasonably high, do you think? I've yet to hear a single reference to high standards that didn't mention dusting knick knacks or arranging pillows or something to the effect of "she wants me to clean things she bought, every day!" The response to this is always "that's not what we're asking you to do and you know it" and then the argument becomes about being micromanaged, a clear moving of goalposts. And the micromanaging argument is also not very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.I didn't insinuate all men without a girlfriend were like this, I said plainly that I had seen just how far some men were willing to go to not have to clean. My point was that I didn't trust the standards of men who think an hour of cleaning once a week is too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 02:42 AM |
| 1 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.The men in here do argue in bad faith, constantly. That was my point. Every time this topic comes up, we start with the premise that female standards are unreasonable and compromise is needed. It's always "unnecessary work" with the example being dusting for some reason. Women say it isn't, men argue about being nagged and told how to clean things, women mention that doing things thoroughly and in a timely manner tends to avoid that, and men complain women are never satisfied. Unless the men in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 02:37 AM |
| 2 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.No, but we also have an extermination service that comes out once a month to make sure the ants stay gone. It took about a day after we moved in for them to realize there was now food in the house, and they didn't hesitate to invite themselves in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 09:43 AM |
| 3 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Never ever cleaned? No, I'm sure they have at some point, at great inconvenience or threat of consequences by an adult or authority figure. But on their own? Cans covering every surface, trash everywhere, bowls of half eaten food so moldy and disgusting they had to be thrown away, disgusting toilet, bathroom so moldy it had spread to the ceiling and the house needed renovations...Ants! In the fucking soda cans! I've seen some nasty shit from guys I was thankful I wasn't dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 09:38 AM |
| 2 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Give me an example. Go on. Prove it's meaningless. And ants don't make homes in areas lacking food, if you find more than one ant in your house, it's because they've found a food source. Usually crumbs and sugar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 08:15 AM |
| 3 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Well guess what? It happens, I've seen it. You want so badly to pretend that women are being unreasonable, but the truly unreasonable thing is avoiding taking 30 minutes out of your day to do a chore you won't have to bother with again for another month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 08:11 AM |
| 3 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Funny you should mention that, you see, we pay people to take care of our yard work and fix the house. That's the thing about the modern world, a lot of the "heavy lifting" jobs men point out when this comes up aren't actually done by husbands anymore. Unless the man is in a trade or has a very traditional father who taught him these things, most people who can afford to own a home call professionals when they need a fix. And for people who rent, if they even have a yard, the most they're requir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 08:00 AM |
| 2 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Objective? No, but that's kind of the thing about mold and and creepy crawlies, they don't really stick to a schedule. But in my experience, unless you get rid of all the mold, it just shows right back up after a couple showers. And ants are even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 07:34 AM |
| 5 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.So...She should just wait forever AND just do it anyway, therefore doing all the work while he sits on his lazy ass. You really are just proving my point, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 07:32 AM |
| 5 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.We pay people to handle the yard work, but even if we didn't, I've cleaned out gutters and mowed the lawn for extra money as a teenager. It would simply be a matter of deciding which of us wants to do which. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 07:30 AM |
| 2 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.And yet...I've already explained that chores are time sensitive, so it's not an exaggeration at all! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 05:56 AM |
| 3 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.At what point is it reasonable to assume something is never going to get done then? How long should she wait? Should she just pretend she never asked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 05:52 AM |
| 2 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.And what if "when and how they clean" is "when their house becomes a rat's nest" and "half-assed"? You don't like that a man should be forced to conform to a woman's standards, but the other option is that a woman conform to a man's or be saddled with all the work. Here's an idea, how about she stops paying her half of the bills? I mean, if this is how it works, he's the one who cares right? Why not let him pay them if it bothers him so much that they're unpaid? Who cares if the power goes out r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 05:47 AM |
| 2 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.No, but I do think they're reasonable, and probably not too different from anyone else's. The big takeaway is that the work is split about even between two people, and I don't have to beg him to do his share. He just gets it done, no nagging, no putting it off. That's all I ask of him. That's all most of us ask of our SO's. And yet still this sub seems to believe we're asking our men to dust knick knacks and arrange pillows every day, the moment they get home and not a moment later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 05:32 AM |
| 3 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Because you're being just as extreme. Most men don't live in a rat's nest and most women don't start in on the nagging after 20 minutes. But it shouldn't take someone days to do a task that takes half an hour, especially when their housemate is over and done with their share. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 05:24 AM |
| 2 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Oh no, but it is about you. See, you're the one who's sure my standards are ridiculous. And I'm so glad you asked! The sink is almost never full, we make a habit of putting dishes in the dishwasher after using them or washing them by hand if they're small and putting them away. As soon as the dishwasher is full, it's run. He puts them away when they're done. The kitchen and counters are cleaned and swept once a week. Mopped once a month. He does the counters because he likes to bake and makes th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 05:13 AM |
| 3 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Do you really only put things off for 20 minutes? Be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.You love to act like "Oh women just have ridiculous standards!" Well how do you clean your house then? When should you clean the toilet? How? When should you clean the shower? How? How often should you sweep the kitchen? Wipe down the counters? Vacuum? How bad does it have to get before it makes you uncomfortable? Put up or shut up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:47 AM |
| 7 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment."I just want her to do all the work while I sit on my ass." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:40 AM |
| 9 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.How often do you clean your bathroom? Your toilet specifically? How full does your sink get on a regular basis and how long does it stay that way? When was the last time you swept your kitchen or wiped down your countertops? Come on, prove you're not a slob. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:40 AM |
| 3 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Who has a problem with it isn't relevant, if you say you're going to do something, you do it, and you do it in a timely manner. Why? Putting aside the fact that it's rude to drag your feet on responsibilities that affect the household as a whole, certain cleaning duties are, infact, time sensitive. An unswept floor means food bits that attract ants and other bugs, even rodents if it gets really bad. Mold is easy to grow and hard to get rid of, and yes, it will grow on the poo spatter in your toi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:34 AM |
| 9 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.The fact that I've met more than I can count on one hand indicates that it's too many. I've also met plenty who do care for their spaces, and I commend them. There's nothing quite like finishing up the kitchen, secure in the knowledge that the bathroom is being taken care of without having to ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:12 AM |
| 2 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Ah yes, putting something that is your responsibility off for so long that someone else gets fed up and does it for you. How very convenient that your standards allow you to not have to lift a finger... And, of course, if she asks you to do something you agreed to handle more than once, she's nagging, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 04:00 AM |
| 8 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Their share according to the fact that they are one of two people living in a house together, and therefore responsible for half it's care and maintenance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 03:50 AM |
| 8 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Haven't I? And no, just the ones who put it off and put it off and put it off and oh my, 300$ for an exterminator to stop the ants from eating everything they can get into, gee that sure became a bigger problem didn't it? I wonder how that could have been avoided... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 03:44 AM |
| 16 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.And when exactly should men clean? How long should we be patient and wait for them without "nagging"? How convenient that if men aren't doing their share, their SO's should do it if it bothers them so much, making it so the men never actually have to pull their own weight! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 02:41 AM |
| 10 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.I was under the impression that people generally wanted a happy, non-resentful relationship. Pulling your weight isn't optional if want your significant other to like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 02:20 AM |
| 19 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Not cleaning the house he lives in is not pulling his weight. I'm not talking about dusting or fluffing pillows. I'm talking about cleaning toilets, showers and bathtubs, washing dishes, keeping floors clear of laundry which goes in the hamper and actually doing that laundry, sweeping kitchen floors to keep ants and other bugs from moving in. You know, the kind of cleaning you do to keep stuff from growing in places you don't want things to grow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 02:18 AM |
| 12 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Ah yes, thank you strange man on the internet for telling me about my own experiences! What other things have I not seen with my own two eyes? It's never just "overnight." It's "It's been three days, we've had multiple meals and used multiple dishes to eat them since then, the sink is full, the dishwasher is empty, and the bottom dishes weren't rinsed off and the food still on them is starting to smell." It's "you have a hamper for a reason and your clothes smell like a boys locker room." It's "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 02:09 AM |
| 14 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Yes, because no man ever really lets it get that bad, does he? I am speaking from experience. Some men will live in absolute filth just to avoid having to do any sort of house work. What do you think happens when you don't clean and she doesn't pick up after you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 01:37 AM |
| 12 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.I don't, because I'm with a responsible adult who doesn't expect someone else to do everything for him. But he should be the rule, not the exception. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 01:17 AM |
| 19 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Good for you, too bad that pulling your weight isn't optional like a luxury car is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 01:14 AM |
| 13 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.I'm childfree, so I have even less inclination to pick up after a big baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 01:10 AM |
| 49 | The "household chores distribution" (specifically the cleaning part) debate between men and women boils down to men and women on average having different standards for what constitutes a clean/tidy environment and what constitutes a mess/dirty environment.Everytime this topic comes up, the men in here act like "clean" is the most subjective thing in the world. Who's to say that the bedroom covered in dirty clothes and trash isn't clean by his standards? Who's to say that the shower covered in mold and mildew isn't clean? It gets covered in soap and water daily, doesn't it? The fact that the kitchen counters are sticky and disgusting and the trash is overflowing and the dishes haven't been done in a week and the kitchen floor hasn't been swept sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What are you not willing to change about yourself that would otherwise improve your RMV or SMV?My style. I will never be the make-up and sundresses woman, it isn't me and to present myself as such would be a facade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Which category do you guys fall into when it comes to thoughts on casual sex?2 and 8, female, 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 02:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you define as a good marriage, and why do you believe many women are in miserable marriages?Just a note, the reasons given are vague because what exactly those needs entail depends entirely on the woman and her partner. Generally, when the woman you're married to asks you to do more of this or less of that, you should do what she's asking and actively stick to it. We live in a world where "The Nagging Wife" is so well known in pop culture that men just assume their wife is supposed to be unhappy. They think that a little disagreement here and there is normal and that they're doing thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What do you think is involved in being a husband?A good husband pulls his weight in the relationship. He pays his half of the bills, does his half of the housework, keeps track of important dates such as appointments and birthdays on his own or with the help of a calendar, and when he sees something that needs doing, he does it, just as his wife does. He looks after his half, his wife looks after hers, together they get things done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's such a thing as a female power fantasy in fiction?Yes, there is, it's called being a Mary-sue. We too would like to save the world with our awesome abilities, have everyone praise and respect us, and have that one person we have a crush on realize how amazing and wonderful we are and fall madly in love with us. Though maybe with less skimpy outfits. Honestly, I'd be Captain Marvel with slightly longer hair, if I could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | What happens to women and go their own way?It's a matter of priority. People prioritize what matters to them. For these women, their happiness is the priority, and if they can't find a relationship they'd be happy in, then a relationship is not worth their time. Men seem to prioritize sex and then children. A relationship is the best way to get both of those things at once, so they prioritize those aspects of a relationship, and therefore a relationship itself, even if it otherwise wouldn't make them the happiest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 01:23 AM |
| 3 | What happens to women and go their own way?Men mistake the eroding of gender roles for their obsoletion, as though women don't want men they aren't required to rely on. This is not the case. The women content to hold out until someone they actually desire comes along do not want a relationship any less, they simply know that being alone is better than being tied to someone who makes your life worse. The ones who want kids may very well decide to do it alone if they don't find a suitable partner and father in time. The ones who don't will… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Why are you personally against being in a polygamous relationship/marriage?None of that sounds appealing to me. What good is a man you have to share? Never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Women in favour of vasectomy. Are you willing to do tubal ligation? Why?Yes, absolutely. In fact I'd go even farther and get a bi-salpingectomy(removal of the entire tube on each side) tomorrow if I could find a damn doctor willing to do it, but between their personal beliefs getting in the way and their fear of getting sued, no dice so far. I don't want kids because I don't like them, but I'm also tokophobic. Pregnancy is horrifying, and the fact that other women willingly go through it baffles me. A vasectomy just isn't reliable enough in my eyes, they can fail, r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/21 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Would you be supportive of your boyfriend getting a hair transplant or would you tell him to shave it off?Whatever he feels the most comfortable with, it's his body. I'm not with him for his hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 03:36 PM |
| 3 | One of the reasons the manosphere shouldn't lambast childfree women is that it openly discusses how "kids will wreck their bodies."Boohoo, If they wanna play with babies they can adopt, foster, or have more of their own, and everything that comes with it. Your children do not owe it to you to give you grandkids. They themselves are your reward for having them, nothing more, nothing less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieThe "stages of life" argument is always going to be mine, because I cannot fathom how someone can look at someone more than a decade older or younger than themselves and not see them as being from a different era. The gap seems to close a bit as people get older, at a certain point most people have all the major experiences under their belt. But the world changes so fast, a 20 year old grew up in an entirely different one than I knew in the 90's, and that's just ten years. I cannot relate to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you view women who raise another women's child?I view it as neutrally as I can, for someone who has no interest in raising children at all. The idea of "caring for a child that doesn't share my blood is a waste of my time and money and abhorrent" is a mindset I don't understand, as our bloodlines are ultimately meaningless in this day and age, and all children are strangers, fully capable of deciding they want nothing to do with their family of origin for whatever reason they choose. The real legacy is the impression you make on the child yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 09:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you view women who raise another women's child?It's not a zero-sum game, dude. Not dating a single parent is neutral, when done without malice and contempt. It's when you look down on the practice and call men who do so "cucks" that it becomes a shitty choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | What should be a man's purpose in a world of equality?The lifescript sure has done a number on men like you. So certain that you have to "serve a purpose" and "fill a role" to be of value. It's all made up BS, you know. You can just live your life for yourself, and in fact, you should, because you only get one. There's far more merit in being involved with someone who wants to be with you rather than someone who needs you to survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe a woman must birth children to be sufficiently feminine for a masculine-of-center man?No. Whether or not a man wants kids is an entirely separate thing from how masculine he is. In fact, I'd say a lot of masculine childfree men are masculine because they're childfree. They have the time and energy to work on themselves and be the person they want to be. They search for a partner they truly love and desire because they're not looking for a future mother for their children, but for someone they'll still adore 60 years from now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 03:18 PM |
| 8 | Do the majority of women account for the existence of terrible women?What part of "I acknowledge that there are shitty women in the world" do you not understand? I'm well aware that neither men nor women are a monolith and I don't treat the men in my life with contempt. You're taking aim at the wrong person. Or should I stop challenging red pill types when they say AWALT because only men are right when they paint all women as manipulative cheaters? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:29 AM |
| 5 | Do the majority of women account for the existence of terrible women?You don't believe women not being able to work and own property was a thing? I feel like you need to read some history books. Or look at the wider internet. I don't know if I can take your inquiry seriously if you honestly believe that women weren't held down and controlled for a very long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 01:33 AM |
| 5 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitYou called my SO a beta, I simply used the language you did. After all, he'd always be one in your eyes anyway, because he treats me like a person instead of something to masterbate into. Such a shame you'll never have someone who loves you as purely as I love my "beta." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 01:29 AM |
| 4 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitWho needs Chad when your Beta fucks like a champion? Chad only wishes he could measure up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:33 PM |
| 5 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitGood riddance, then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 10:57 PM |
| 7 | Do the majority of women account for the existence of terrible women?The reason women band so closely together has to do with our history. It's only in the more modern eras we've been able to live our lives mostly under our own power, and even still, there are threads holding us back. I cannot help but feel defensive when I hear men painting all women with the same brush, particularly when he's using the colors of someone I would neither like nor respect were I to meet her. That's just it, I know there are women who do terrible things in the world, I know I'm not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 10:54 PM |
| – | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?Because I don't find them ugly, obviously, you do. I date people I find attractive, and if other people don't agree, good for them, they're not the ones fucking him, I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?Because some men are actually worth it and do pull their weight, and we're looking to marry one of those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 10:11 PM |
| – | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?I'm not entirely sure what you're trying to say here. I would prefer to be relatively certain the man in my bed doesn't have any interest in killing me or bears me any ill will, as that would not only be an unhealthy relationship, but I also like being alive. Likewise, generally, if I'm romantically involved with someone, it would be preferable if they cared about me, as that's a core component of any relationship. How is this hard to understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 10:06 PM |
| – | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?Real love is different from the initial rush of emotion, the honeymoon phase as it's called. You build the foundation of the relationship during the honeymoon phase by deeply getting to know each other. When the rosy, new relationship glow wears off, the experiences you've had together and what you've come to know about your partner forms the base upon which your relationship sits. In a good, loving relationship, you come out the other side with a new appreciation for your partner as an individu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 09:50 PM |
| – | Instead of theorizing, what is something you genuinely don't understand about women?Have you ever been enjoying a meal while watching something, and then suddenly something horrifically gross happens and you immediately lose your appetite if you don't lose your lunch first? It's like that. Maybe you said or did something that gave us a window into how you view certain people or certain topics, maybe you just did something gross, doesn't matter, the magic is gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 09:18 PM |
| 5 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitBoohoo, you had to get to know a woman with her clothes on before she let you inside her body. The absolute horror. You poor, traumatized thing, she actually wanted to get to know you! As a person! Such abuse! Such cruelty! So unwanted and abandoned! I weep for you. On the inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 09:06 PM |
| 10 | It’s a terrible practice for women to fuck one dude quickly and make the guy she actually “likes” waitAh yes, "provider," because why else would a woman want to share her life and home with a man? Certainly not because she enjoys his company just as much when his dick is in his pants, no, never that. My god, you must have some low opinions of yourselves if you think all you have to offer is dick or money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Does the red pill truism that "women would rather share a Chad than have a beta to herself" have any actual evidence supporting it?My eyes are open, thank you. And what part of "Doesn't work with other people, has a small social circle that doesn't expand for years at a time, and isn't on dating apps" didn't you understand? Because I know so many women like this, including myself, who have never so much as casually chatted with a guy like that. We're nerdy people who aren't social with our co-workers if we interact with them at all, ignore event invites because free time is for relaxing at home, and when we do get together … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Does the red pill truism that "women would rather share a Chad than have a beta to herself" have any actual evidence supporting it?Really? You believe every woman has met a chad? In person? A six foot tall, generic ken doll faced, The Bachelor candidate-looking man who sleeps with seven different girls on a weekly basis? The supposed "20%"? Where do you imagine this guy works? Hangs out? What does he do in his free time? Sure, he might run in the same circles as certain women do, with similar interests. But what about women who don't work closely with other people? Women who aren't big on going out in the evenings, or have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Does the red pill truism that "women would rather share a Chad than have a beta to herself" have any actual evidence supporting it?There are not enough chads in existence for every woman you've met to have even met one, much less slept with one. And, surprisingly enough, there are different types of women out there, some of which have never touched a dating app or would never be found in the places chads frequent. It's actually pretty easy to go through life without becoming part of a soft harem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Does the red pill truism that "women would rather share a Chad than have a beta to herself" have any actual evidence supporting it?"A player" he says, as though every town has a resident one that has slept with every girl first. "Most Women" have never met a chad, a real player who spins plates is exceedingly rare in the real world. You overestimate how much this shit happens with the average woman. They're not out there "sharing" anyone. They're just dating people that aren't you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Does the red pill truism that "women would rather share a Chad than have a beta to herself" have any actual evidence supporting it?Sure. These nerdy guys who've had all of two girlfriends in their entire lives, they're totally out there spinning plates when I'm not looking... My point is the saying is "Women would rather share chad than date an average guy" which paints a totally different picture than "This dude has dated more than one woman in his lifetime." By that logic, you're "sharing" your home with everyone who has ever lived in it, give a new house a chance! Ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 03:22 PM |
| 3 | Does the red pill truism that "women would rather share a Chad than have a beta to herself" have any actual evidence supporting it?That is assuming casual sex with someone you're not exclusive with, which is something I would never agree to. Nor would I be going after anyone who resembles the type of guy you'd find on the cover of a video game or the bachelor. I don't think I've even met a chad, the world of him and stacey is so far removed from mine, hearing people talk about them like they're on every corner is alien to me. Who spends this much time thinking about what college kids do at parties? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Does the red pill truism that "women would rather share a Chad than have a beta to herself" have any actual evidence supporting it?Well, number one, you all act as though we prefer it that way, which none of us do. And number two, most women aren't players on his roster. The women he's going through are women who also go through their own roster. The stacies and chads of the world are playing this game with each other, not us lowly normies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, how would you feel about a great looking guy that was very shy and timid?My SO is one of those, and I adore how reserved he is. It can make it hard for him to express himself in time of stress, but with patience and a willingness to let him choose his words, we get through it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 10:19 AM |
| 6 | Does the red pill truism that "women would rather share a Chad than have a beta to herself" have any actual evidence supporting it?They make it sound like we all knowingly crowd around one generic video game protagonist looking dude, and he takes us back to his cool bachelor pad to bang us all at once. It's a silly, ridiculous image, and I honestly cannot believe men take it seriously. I'm so monogamous I'd spend the rest of my life alone before sharing with another woman. Or anyone, for that matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Is the male ego bigger, or the female ego?Buddy, you don't know me. I did pursue my SO, and he's hardly what Red Pill types would call an Alpha. I never cared, I wanted him. We both pay the bills, that's teamwork. I walk the walk, don't get high and mighty with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 10:40 AM |
| 6 | Is the male ego bigger, or the female ego?There are men who won't wash their own assholes because touching your own butt is gay, apparently. Men who think dating a woman who is anything but the most submissive feminine flower isn't manly. Men who are totally convinced that they can turn a lesbian straight with a good dicking, or that wearing a pink shirt makes you less of a man. Hell, the red pill and it's adjacent pills are full of this crap. "Men need to lead, Men are more logical, Men can't show emotion or they won't be respected." T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 05:19 AM |
| 2 | “He’s not emotionally available”. But is she?I can only speak for myself, but I am. My SO is not the best at putting words to his feelings, probably never learned to stop and identify his complex emotions, but he does his best. He knows, just like I know, that we can't make decisions and navigate our lives together if we don't have a good understanding of where the other is at emotionally. His fears and doubts might change how I view the situation at hand, but never him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 08:24 AM |
| 3 | Which romantic trope would you most like to experience in real life?The quiet guy who only ever speaks when he has something worth saying falls in love with me and only ever shows me his soft affectionate gooey side while to the rest of our friends he is admirable, but unreadable. Oh wait, that actually happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 03:18 AM |
| 1 | The communication gap between men and womenPeople with healthy mindsets about women don't get asked "who hurt you." It's as simple as that. If it's obvious enough for someone to point it out, you're definitely not "merely making observations." You can deny it all you like, but no one says that to healthy people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 09:46 AM |
| 1 | The communication gap between men and womenI'm sure that's all you were doing. Merely making observations, not biased, hateful, misogynistic observations about women that make it clear you have hang-ups you're not dealing with and instead taking them out on other people, oh no, never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 02:54 AM |
| 2 | The communication gap between men and womenWhat bullshit would that be exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 04:47 PM |
| 2 | The communication gap between men and womenBut that isn't vulnerability, it's toxicity. It's spreading your own pain like sickness and expecting people to treat you the opposite of how you're treating them. "Who hurt you" is saying "Point this geyser of toxic vitriol at the person you're actually mad at and stop taking it out on the rest of the world." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 0 | The communication gap between men and women"Who Hurt You?" is pretty much always pointed at men who are spewing their bottled up, hateful emotions all over other people. It's hard to have sympathy and the urge to comfort a stranger who comes at you with aggression and toxicity from the outset, as though their pain is your fault and your problem. When your cry for help looks like an attack, you should be unsurprised when people respond in kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Do women appreciate the avarage "blue pilled beta" provider?Depends on what you mean by a "Blue pilled Beta Provider." Is he just average in looks? Is any man who is the sole breadwinner a beta? My SO looks like what most would consider a beta, but we both work, and he is loved and cherished for who he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 03:34 PM |
| 9 | Why are men ridiculed for women's sexual dissatisfaction when Evolution did not select for women's sexual pleasure?Because if you want more than Starfish Sex you have to be willing to put in the work to get her off too. Sex is a two person game, and if one isn't getting anything out of it, there's no reason for them to play, is there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Why all the hate for TRP?No, you think you get it, which is not the same as actually getting it. TRP likes to believe it understands women, but it's just a bunch of men extrapolating out from what they would want if they were women while having no actual idea of what motivates them. That's where chad comes from, only a man could dream up a guy who walks into a room and instantly dapens the panties of every woman in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 01:41 PM |
| – | Monkey Branching/Branch SwingingNope. When relationships end for me, I have to take a break and be single for a while. Reestablishing who I am as an individual is important, only then can I go into something new with a clear mind and a strong sense of where my boundaries are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 06:45 PM |
| – | Men don't care about a women's status nearly as much as women care about men'sSee, here's the part I don't get about all this. Men act like their not giving a shit about what their girlfriend makes in a year is a virtue. As though women are these stuck up bitches who only want the richest of rich men, and should really be giving the broke dudes who can't pay their rent without a loan from their mom a chance. But we also hear all the time about how men would live in a cardboard box if they could still get laid. So what I'm hearing is "Women not wanting to be homeless and/o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 06:31 PM |
| 3 | The biggest issue with male cheating is the lying, not the sexYeah, sure, okay. I know a good number of men, and of them one is non-monogamous. One. The rest find the idea of sleeping with multiple people to be uncomfortable and just not worth the effort. Moreover, you can blatantly tell your partner that you're going to go fuck someone else, and their response is going to be the same, because monogamous people want to be exclusive with their partners. It's the disregard for their feelings and the selfishness of the choice, the knowing that it will hurt th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 06:03 PM |
| 5 | The biggest issue with male cheating is the lying, not the sexWell good for you, but most people are monogamous and find the idea of sharing their partner with other people to be painful. So in a relationship where two people have agreed to be exclusive, sleeping with other people is a blatant disregard for the relationship and their partners feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 05:35 PM |
| 9 | The biggest issue with male cheating is the lying, not the sexThe biggest issue with the cheating is the emotional disregard for your committed partner. You show your love through action, and if the action you take is sleeping with someone else, an act that is meant to be exclusive to your spouse, you are saying your word and your spouse's feelings are meaningless. It is an act of cruelty and selfishness, that is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 05:08 PM |
| 6 | Opening windows to infidelityBut it isn't, and neither is social media the one thing that enables cheating, not by a long shot. Social media is just that, a means to be social, which includes your friends and relatives. By your logic, the only way to keep your significant other from cheating is to cut them off from all social interaction with anyone but you, which is an abuse tactic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | If a sense of masculinity in society is to be maintained, some sense of "toxic" masculinity will always be presentWe know this, the difference is not letting it slip by without pointing it out and making it known that it won't be tolerated by society at large. Assholes gonna Asshole, but if they don't get away with it, there'll be a lot fewer of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 04:44 PM |
| – | Women are sexually attracted to Masculine Men only. The Red Pill is true because it explains this dynamic."I can find no instances otherwise(besides outliers)" - Translation: "The balant proof that I'm wrong doesn't count because I say it doesn't and I've already made up mind and don't actually want it changed." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/21 02:00 PM |
| 4 | I’ve never seen an ugly man before. Show me a photo of an ugly man.A prime example of the disparity in taste between individual women, if you think those guys are ugly, anyone I would date you'd probably call an ogre. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/21 08:26 AM |
| 2 | What’s your dating strategy?Flirt with them for a month until they're madly in love with me and then fuck them until their ding dong begs for mercy and we settle into domestic bliss. Works every time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/21 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How many women actually have more than 5 sexual partners?I have 6 including my current long term partner. None of them were one night stands with strange bad boys I met at a club, though. I didn't just flop into bed with whoever a few hours after meeting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Let's discuss the fundamental issues at hand: Do women have unreasonable and unrealistic standards/expectations? Or are men just impotent, underperforming and/or checking out? If the former, do you believe men have a right to be bitter and angry over the situation?Men expect the life script boomers had. It no longer applies. We live in a far different world in so many ways. They can complain about women's standards all they like, but women have adapted to the times and are looking for men who have done the same. If they don't want to work for what they want, then they can get used to being single. The world will not collapse without them, there will always be people willing to take the spaces they leave behind. And it's all gonna be moot when automation s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Dressing Nice for Yourself and Each OtherI could never date a man who requires make-up. What you see is what you get with me. That's not to say I don't take care of myself, but if I keep myself clean and healthy and blemish free and my clothes are clean and appropriate for the situation at hand, then I feel no one has a leg to stand on to give me grief about what I choose not to put on my face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Who here is generally happy with their life?My life is good. I have a regular routine and someone I love to share it with. We made it through last year pretty much unscaithed. Looking forward to the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:10 AM |
| – | Seduction fantasies and relationship narrativesAbout sex, correct. About Relationships, no. Women are the same way about relationships, the problem is that reality butts its ugly head in a lot more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 01:05 AM |
| 40 | People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z.Hell, plenty of Millenials don't want children either. People are slowly starting to realize that the lifescript is not a contract you signed when you were born. You don't have to have a spouse, a white picket fence, two kids, and a dog. You can just have the spouse, you can just have the picket fence and a dog, you can have any combination thereof or none of those things if you want. If Gen Z has no interest in children, it's because they're the generation who finally said "all this tradition s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | “If he really wanted me, he would approach me” Do y’all really believe this ?I mean, I've been the one to make the first move in most of my relationships. Someone has to break the ice, and while I may have anxiety, sometimes the one with the most confidence is just me by default. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 12:42 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What are your views concerning the “long game?”Personally I think most relationships should start this way, not just romantic ones. Really taking time to feel out a person before you put labels on anything keeps you from getting enmeshed with someone you don't actually like. Human beings are complex and not always forthcoming with every aspect of themselves. Giving everyone time to show their true colors before you make any decisions means you'll know beyond reasonable doubt if you're compatible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 11:57 PM |
| 0 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?Precisely. If you can't find a reason to better yourself that doesn't involve being rewarded with pussy, that's your problem, not women's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: Women’s careers are overrated compared to men’s.That...Isn't how it works. The women who want children at a young age make that their priority because that's what they care about. The women who aren't doing that are the ones who don't want to. Moreover, the women who care about their careers don't really give a damn if men think they're wasting their time. It's not about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 10:05 AM |
| 0 | Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it?Looking at all these replies, all I have to say is, if getting laid is the only thing that motivates you then that has more to do with how you sort your priorities than it does with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/21 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Why does it seem that men appreciate/respect a muscular or fit man more than women ?In my case, it's simply because muscles do nothing for me. You might as well be asking why wearing a certain color doesn't get you more compliments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/21 11:43 PM |
| 5 | What does a woman have to work on in order to attract a man?No need. I'm in a long term relationship already with someone who doesn't need me to change my personality or the way I dress in order to love me for who I am. Men are no more a monolith than women. They don't all want the same things. Men who see attractiveness only in dresses and make-up and subservient "warm, feminine energy" that allows no room for snark are not men I would wish to attract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 01:15 AM |
| 3 | What does a woman have to work on in order to attract a man?Well there's all the proof that I need not to listen to a word you say. Anyone who would recommend that sub is suspect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Been thinking lately and have come to a conclusion that generally speaking, a man wants his woman to be his home, while a woman wants her man to be an exotic vacation. Do you agree with this?More like he never vacuums, or does the dishes, doesn't know how to clean a toilet, and wouldn't know where to start with cleaning a kitchen or a bathroom. The type of guy who never changed his sheets and let mold grow in his shower because he was too lazy to turn on the bathroom fan when he was single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 04:18 PM |
| 8 | Been thinking lately and have come to a conclusion that generally speaking, a man wants his woman to be his home, while a woman wants her man to be an exotic vacation. Do you agree with this?That's the "wanting a mommy" that everyone is talking about. Men who want their wives to do everything. Those types are the ones we have a problem with. It's not a strawman if it's true, and there are plenty of men that do exactly that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 03:53 PM |
| 9 | Been thinking lately and have come to a conclusion that generally speaking, a man wants his woman to be his home, while a woman wants her man to be an exotic vacation. Do you agree with this?Because "Supportive" doesn't mean "She does all the cooking and cleaning while I sit on my ass playing video games all day and then get handsy in bed later while she's trying to sleep." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 03:39 PM |
| 0 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.I have to ask, why are you guys so adamantly against the idea of accepting that some women, even if it's just a small minority, have a preference for average men? Why all the mental gymnastics to justify believing it's a lie when you can just chalk it up to a number so small it doesn't make a difference? Does it hurt that much to believe you have a chance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 11:27 AM |
| 0 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.No one works quite so hard to exclude themselves from being attractive as a man trying to explain why a woman is lying about being attracted to average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men."Anyone that can serve as a source of external validation" So you don't know, but you're sure we're pandering to...Someone. Nice. And you assume that every woman has female friends or cares specifically what they think of her man's appearance. Because people never choose break with those who insult their significant other, of course. And the only ad hominem here came from you. There's no validity to a judgement based on such little information, and yet you conclude that only an insecure woman go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.Virtue signaling to who exactly? Making the general male populace feel better about themselves is pretty low on most women's list of priorities, at least where sacrificing their personal happiness is concerned. Other women certainly don't care, and if the red pill is to be believed they're more likely to scorn a woman who doesn't score a chad, right? So who are these women supposed to be desperately trying to score points with that they would trade their lifelong happiness away for it? "Unhealth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 09:15 AM |
| 21 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.And then we end up with what we don't want, which helps no one. "the simplest solution is probably the correct one" You're doing mental gymnastics here to justify all women being the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:29 PM |
| 110 | Women aren't attracted to dad-bods. Women are unattracted to the expectations of fit men.You know, there are plenty of women who happily spout that they find conventionally attractive men to be what they're looking for. It's not a secret that there are mainstream tastes in the world. What benefit is there to lying about what we find attractive? How would that go? We say we're attracted to men who aren't runners or swimmers or lifters, dad bod men date us, we sleep with them and marry them, and spend the rest of our lives unhappy? Where is the benefit to women here? Isn't it more lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do men factor a woman’s body into her overall attractiveness more than women factor in a man’s body ?Because that's the part we spend the most time looking at. Something something socialization something something facial expressions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it really that common for women to be turned off by seeing a man they are in a relationship with crying? Can this one thing destroy relationships?Emotions are a part of being human. My SO has cried in front of me multiple times, and the only reaction to it I had was an urge to comfort him. I don't respect him any less, I don't find him any less attractive. He's a person, he has feelings, sometimes those feelings become too much. It would be like resenting him for needing to eat or sleep. I'm thoroughly convinced every man who claims he's been dumped by a woman who saw him cry was either dating a shallow, callous person or is overlooking a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 01:24 AM |
| 5 | Why do successful, independent, women even want husbands?I think you've been here a bit too long. Contrary to popular belief in this sub, you tend to get into romantic relationships with people you enjoy spending time with. That's kind of a core component of a healthy relationship, liking your partner as a person, enjoying their company, wanting to be around them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/21 01:03 AM |
| 8 | Most moderm women seem to think that the bar is set extremely low for men. What do you guys think?I think women are talking about treatment rather than attraction. You'd be surprised how many men don't realize that you have to keep showing affection and setting aside time for your girlfriend after she becomes your girlfriend, or just not touching her unless they want sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | AskMen post discussionThings have been this way from the very start. You find time for the people that matter to you, and in doing so you show them that they matter. Men who detour through the kitchen to kiss their wife between overwatch matches get more ass, that's all I'm saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 04:45 AM |
| 1 | AskMen post discussionSo many men believe that when we ask for romance we want cards and flowers and expensive dates, when truly so many women would be content with time set aside for them and regular affection that isn't sexual. I do love my SO for who he is, and I show it. But he also does the same. He finds the time to remind me that I am wanted and loved, and that is all I ask of him. I practice what I preach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/21 04:20 AM |
| 3 | An Heir and a Spare: how many men does the average woman have waiting in the wings?My SO is not replaceable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 11:32 PM |
| 6 | AskMen post discussionIn my experience, the men who "want to be loved for who they are and not what they do" are the ones who take their girlfriends and wives for granted. They make no time for them and when they do show interest it's because they're putting on the moves in order to get some. If you treat your girl like a vacuum cleaner, ignored until you have a use for her, she's definitely not going to go out of her way to bring the romance to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?I'll admit to that being shitty. But acting like what few hoops you had to jump through are at all comparable to being denied completely is ridiculous. Was that the first doctor you went to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 01:11 AM |
| 0 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?But they did the procedure, didn't they? They didn't turn you away completely. They gave you the chance to prove that it was what you actually wanted and then allowed you to go through with it. I have not been granted even that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 01:02 AM |
| 1 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?Aren't they? Vasectomies are "technically" reversible, but there is still the chance you may never have kids. But this isn't about that. This is about being an adult making choices about your body and being told that you don't know your own mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/21 12:59 AM |
| 5 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?Ooh! Three whole times! And yet, you got it done! I have been trying to find a gynecologist willing to remove my tubes for a year. I have offered to sign a form saying this was what I wanted. I have given my reasons. I have been willing even to have my significant other sign things saying he is okay with it. No dice. "come back when you have a child/older than 35." This on top of them pushing alternatives and telling me i'll change my mind and, my favorite, "every woman wants a child." And mine … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 03:41 PM |
| 3 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?It absolutely is. These are questions asked of single and married women. Women over 30, women with conditions that would cause pregnancy to be a death sentence, it doesn't matter. There's an entire subreddit full of stories from women like me who have been trying and failing to find someone within a reasonable travel distance who will treat us like the adults we are and sterilize us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 03:30 PM |
| 6 | What's an advantage that the opposite sex takes for granted?Men can go to a doctor and say "I never want to have kids, please schedule a vasectomy." and 9 times out of 10, the next question out of that doctor's mouth will be "What day works for you?" Women, on the other hand, are treated like children who don't know their own minds. They ask to have their tubes tied, and doctors ask them questions like "what if your future husband wants kids? What if you change your mind? Aren't you a bit young to make this decision? Come back when you have at least one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Ladies build your perfect guyI don't want kids, period. I'm tokophobic and have no maternal instincts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/21 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Ladies build your perfect guyI am. There's nothing wrong with being a nerd so long as you can function otherwise. It's when you have nothing else to talk about that it becomes a problem. Still, having a spouse that gets your references is a plus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 12:01 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about redheaded men?I love redheads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 11:23 PM |
| 7 | Ladies build your perfect guy5'9, skinny to skinny-fat, glasses, quiet, nerdy gamer type, has his own style that suits him, works in IT, doesn't want children and is happy to help put away money for my eventual sterilization, Sings 80's love songs in the shower, Sweet, gentle and kind, unafraid to baby talk cute animals, enjoys baking and cooking, likes to go on long, cross country road trips and driving in general, appreciates and regularly uses cute personalized pet names, can remember important dates and appointments wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel pressure from society/family/friends to give "good guys" a chance?No, the people in my life are polite respectful people who mind their own business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Do you dislike men with too few previous partners, similar to how some men dislike women with too many?I honestly don't care how many people a guy has slept with so much as the circumstances. There's getting some and then there's counting notches. Inexperience doesn't bother me at all, raw talent is a thing even where sex is concerned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/21 11:40 AM |
| 7 | Do you regret not living the life script?The life script is for people who can't think for themselves. Never assume that things should or have to happen a certain way in order for you to have the best life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 11:43 AM |
| 4 | Why does the red pill receive so much hate on PPD?I have zero respect for an ideology created out of a man's idea of what's going on in a woman's head. Everything the redpill preaches about how women work is just dripping with male motivation and values, it's all just what a man would want in a woman's position. Not to mention how often those who subscribe to the redpill tell any woman who says otherwise to "stop lying" everytime she expresses a preference the redpill says she can't have... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.Keep running, little hamster, Don't let the big scary truth bother you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: There is nothing natural or normal about women not wanting to be mothers or have children.Fine, you don't have to believe I don't want children. Your belief is entirely irrelevant to my childfree lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Attractiveness Has Nothing To Do With Love; Only LustOh yeah, I'm huge. Just so, so fat. You wanna see? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the push to get people to be "happy on their own" and is it a good thing for the individual and society as a whole?Do you have hobbies? Do you have an interest in learning something new? Cooking classes, book clubs, hiking clubs, horse riding, gun clubs, you name it, it exists. Go up into that browser of yours and start typing things in, search for a class you can sign up for that will teach you that fun skill you've been interested in learning. Look for a group activities program of your choice. Don't sit here and blubber and whine at me about it if you won't give it a try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 01:51 AM |
| 5 | BluePillers, what makes you still believe the bluepill? Have you gone from red/purple pill to blue pilled?Hard to subscribe to an ideology that says I don't love my SO for exactly who he is when I would live out of a car with him if I had to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 01:46 AM |
| 0 | What do you think of the push to get people to be "happy on their own" and is it a good thing for the individual and society as a whole?People act like there's no way to meet people as an adult when there are so many hobbies that involve social interaction. Groups for everything you can think of with in person meet ups. Go out and meet people to make friends with, my god. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Attractiveness Has Nothing To Do With Love; Only LustAh yes, because if I think you're a shitty person for having double standards for people based on their appearance, it can only be because I share their traits. Great logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 01:12 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the push to get people to be "happy on their own" and is it a good thing for the individual and society as a whole?The truth is, many people can barely handle caring for themselves, much less factoring in how their mental and emotional state will affect a potential partner. "Being happy by yourself" is about being able to care for your mental and emotional health in a self sufficient way. It means maintaining friend and family relationships so your social needs are met and you have an emotional support network outside of your partner. It means looking after your mental health and finding the tools to keep yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the push to get people to be "happy on their own" and is it a good thing for the individual and society as a whole?It's not about isolating yourself, it's about being self sufficient. You have to know how to care for your mental and emotional health while single. Things like maintaining friend and/or family relationships so that your social needs are being met, working on your issues and finding the tools to deal with them. Finding happiness outside of a relationship isn't about coping with being alone, it's about building yourself into the type of person who will be willing and able to walk away from a rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Attractiveness Has Nothing To Do With Love; Only LustThat says more about you than it does her, and not good things either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Why?Fear is not respect. Respect in the way you're using it comes from someone demonstrating qualities worth admiring. "Any man who must say "I am the king" is no true king." | /r/ExRedPill | 02/04/21 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Redpill is too hard to swallow. But I did it, and it sucks.So "I got cheated on therefore all women can't be trusted and don't value love and devotion like men do." Really? Don't get me wrong, being cheated on hurts terribly, I have been there. But I didn't condemn every man who came afterward as untrustworthy and lacking in love and devotion. Is this how you judge people normally? Every individual is the mascot of the category you placed them in? "A Man stole my wallet so all men are thieves"? "An old lady shouted at me and called me useless so all eld… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | The men most women interact with and the men on this subreddit are completely different.Agreed. I surround myself with nerdy people everyone around here would call below average, and even the ones who aren't married or dating someone manage not to blame others for their single status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Do you use instagram as a dating app?No, but I did accidentally meet my SO on Twitch, so sites that aren't dating sites can work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All]Whats your thoughts on the common Advice of joining clubs/activities with people of the opposite sex?I don't normally agree with Atlas, but she is correct. You go out and do something you enjoy, not with the intent of seducing the women you meet, but with the mindset of meeting new people and making connections. People ask all the time how you meet people outside of school, this is it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Ideal Fictional Spouse?The glasses were just the cherry on top. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 07:16 AM |
| 2 | Ideal Fictional Spouse?I'm more of a Hero of Time girl myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Saying "Men aren't getting the sex they want" is a form entitlement. Too many lonely guys are picky beggars.There's always some excuse, isn't there? Men aren't getting any, and if they are, it's with women they have to date(ew gross), and if they're happy to date those women, it's only temporary because all women are just using you while they fuck chad, and if they aren't, then you're lying to yourself. Anything to disqualify their options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Is there a difference between being attracted to someone and settling?There are just as many in the real world who don't think 20 pounds are the end of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Is there a difference between being attracted to someone and settling?No, he really isn't. See that's the thing about time, looks will fade regardless. By choosing someone who is a good fit for you as a partner, you commit yourself to someone you'll still want to be with even if their appearance changes. People are not as fickle as you make them out to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 03:27 AM |
| 0 | Q4ALL: Is there a difference between being attracted to someone and settling?Perfect isn't an option, that's the point. People hear "settling is common" and assume it means that most women aren't attracted to their husbands because they think "settling" means forgoing attraction for a decent relationship. But "settling" in that context just means that most people don't marry their dream partner, they find someone with the most important traits they're looking for whom they're still attracted to. The people who do trade attraction for other traits usually value those trai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of successful career men such as Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Mark Zuckerberg etc?Meh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Is there a difference between being attracted to someone and settling?That is not what settling is. No one gets the perfect partner, but it's men who seem to assume that if he isn't the hottest fucking thing she's ever seen, she'd rather be fucking someone else. Settling is choosing reality over fantasy, a real person you still find attractive and are still compatible with, but with their own flaws and ideas and maybe a few traits you weren't expecting but make them who they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: Is there a difference between being attracted to someone and settling?People talk about Settling as though it specifically means dating someone you're not attracted to for their other qualities, which is not the case. Settling just means that you're compromising on some things for others, there's no such thing as the perfect lover. Literally everyone settles, but that doesn't mean attraction is what they compromised on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Almost all relationship and dating problems are solved by being childfreeNo, What we're criticizing is this idea that you can only be happy by handing your life over to a stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Almost all relationship and dating problems are solved by being childfreeChildfree people don't want to date the ones who want kids anyway, that's the whole point. We want to date other childfree people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Almost all relationship and dating problems are solved by being childfreeFor you, it would. You don't seem to understand that not everyone finds children to be bundles of joy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Almost all relationship and dating problems are solved by being childfreeI don't know if it fixes everything, but it certainly makes things easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Women feeling "chemistry" or "spark" with men is not real.And the men in here call us the solipsistic ones...So much "My experience is the only experience there is and if I haven't experienced it, it doesn't exist" in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble reconciling views from this sub and TRP/PPDBullshit. Men aim just as high and settle just as hard. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble reconciling views from this sub and TRP/PPD"Hypergamy" is just people, both men and women having fucking standards. Everyone wants someone they're attracted to, everyone wants someone compatible with them. And everyone settles, not a lot, but they do settle somewhat. Mostly because the perfect lover doesn't exist for anyone. The people whining about "these women will only be happy with chad!" are looking at the dregs of internet dating who are living in cloud cuckoo land. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/21 12:02 AM |
| 3 | Having trouble reconciling views from this sub and TRP/PPDGood to hear. Most people, when they think of "settling" imagine marrying someone they aren't attracted to. Really, settling is about letting go of the imagined "perfect one" that we fantasize about and choosing a real person who we are still attracted to and might still have many of the traits we dreamed of, but also has flaws and a mind of their own. It's often the things you didn't wish for that become your favorite thing about them, that is what love for a specific person does. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/21 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Having trouble reconciling views from this sub and TRP/PPDUnderstandable, everyone has a threshold for what they find attractive, and some people just won't cross it for you. It's more about not weighting appearance so heavily that you miss out on someone who suits you because they aren't the hottest person you've ever slept with. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/21 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble reconciling views from this sub and TRP/PPDWhich is fine, it's okay not to be attracted to someone. But this Most of my matches and the ones who show the most interest are obese girls. Is that not in itself an example of hypergamy? I might not be a 10, but are they really my equal in terms of looks, like that post suggests? is clearly looking down on them for thinking they might be worthy of someone who looks like you. What I'm saying is, put away all thoughts of "being on someone's hotness level" or what you "deserve" regarding appearan… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/21 06:13 AM |
| 3 | Having trouble reconciling views from this sub and TRP/PPDThe fact that you're using sex as a metric to judge your placement in some imagined tier is where you're steering wrong. You can find someone attractive or unattractive, but their attractiveness relative to how you perceive your own should not be a factor. "Can I do better?" is a question that should be reserved for what kind of partner a person is, how they treat you, how they navigate troubles you face together, not how hot they are. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/21 05:38 AM |
| 8 | Having trouble reconciling views from this sub and TRP/PPDSo you think you deserve better than the women who are into you, but you think there's something to this whole "women are hypergamous" thing? Do you realize how hypocritical and backwards that sounds? No, there is no "dual mating strategy" we're not monkeys in the jungle anymore. Both women and men seek out the best match they can find. There are always going to be people who are unrealistic about their standards, but most people end up with someone they actually give a damn about and find attra… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/03/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadOf course not, but you have it nonetheless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadYou are a sad, strange little man, and you have my pity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 10:46 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadLol, sure. Because the type of woman who goes for Mr. Model is going to settle for fucking his average friend just because he asked them to. If the idea is to get validation through sex, isn't that the most pathetic, embarrassing nookie you can get? A woman who doesn't want to fuck you but does anyway because the guy she actually wants to fuck told her she should and she thinks he might like her more if she does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | If you don't have kids, why did you choose this path? Do you get much judgment from other people?Animals trigger the "So cute and adorable I want to hold it and love it and protect it forever" Whereas children do not. Sometimes they even trigger the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:32 PM |
| 2 | If you don't have kids, why did you choose this path? Do you get much judgment from other people?At the age of 15, I realized nothing about having children appealed to me. Giving birth is a dangerous, painful process that can leave you with issues for the rest of your life if you're unlucky, and I find children themselves to be unpleasant. Being a mother is someone else's happiness, not mine. As for the stigma, yes, there are people who cannot fathom that someone wouldn't eventually want babies. They push and prod and harass because they couldn't imagine not finding a child cute, or seeing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | A bunch of men "checking out of society" will not cause collapse, if anything, it's better for everyone in the long run.Japan has a population of 126.3 million people stuffed onto an island the side of california. They have so little space, one of the ways they find space for new structures and farming is by building up and drying out parts of the ocean. If anything, the men there checking out of society are doing the sardine can a favor by not reproducing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What really is the "spark"?The Spark is the effortlessness of compatibility. A raw connection with another person that is the closest you can get to truly understanding them. Physical attraction is important, and may be part of it, but it can easily overrule it. It's hard to explain if you've never felt it, but it's the kind of connection that will keep you circling back to someone you feel like you have no reason to be interested in but cannot stay away from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 01:54 PM |
| 1 | What is your ideal body type for a potential partner?Skinnyfat and average height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 01:46 PM |
| 2 | How often do childfree women/DINK couples change their mind and have a baby?People without children tend to age more gracefully, I've noticed. Kids are stressful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How often do childfree women/DINK couples change their mind and have a baby?Truly childfree people usually don't, but there are a lot of people who will say they're okay with not having kids because they want to keep the relationship going. These people either suppress their want for kids for as long as they can, or simply don't believe that their partner is actually childfree and assume if they wait long enough, they'll change their mind. Either way, the truth comes out and divorce or break up happens, because you can't have half a baby. And if the childfree does agree… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Is your current boyfriend in the top 20% of men looks wise?What she said, only mine has 70's hair. Actually, his whole style is kinda 70's-80's nerd, and I, in my strangeness, find that incredibly attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 01:52 PM |
| 6 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.Well done Sherlock! You've discovered that when a woman is in the mood to have sex, she'll willingly have sex! Congratulations! Men are so sure that it's all about them, they're the stud who got the girl into bed or the loser too unattractive to sleep with on the first date. Or maybe the woman is stressed and tired and just wants to fucking sleep. Maybe it's not about how hot a guy is or how attractive he is, maybe it's about her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 02:24 AM |
| 3 | "I know ugly guys who get laid all the time" How true do you think this is?I have a male friend who has a habit of sleeping with women in relationships. He looks like an emaciated weasel and is incredibly annoying. My best friend looks like Justin Trudeau and is one of the kindest, smartest, most interesting people I know. He hasn't had a girlfriend since High School. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I was content with being single, and I'm content now in my relationship. My SO's attraction to me does bring me some measure of happiness, and I would rather have it than not have it, but it is not the sole thing that determines how I feel about myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:00 PM |
| 11 | What's the point in marriage?Making someone you love into your family. Your spouse is your partner in life, and through marriage you say socially and legally, "We are a unit, a package deal. This person is my family and should be recognized as such, do not discount them when it comes to matters regarding me, and vice versa." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 11:24 PM |
| 8 | Why 'body count' is so important in TRP culture?Fear of Comparison. A woman with fewer partners is inexperienced and may not realize he doesn't measure up. Many believe that most women have been with a ridiculously high number of men, and will spend all her time comparing him to other's she's been with before running off with someone she deems better. They think a woman who doesn't know any better won't leave them. It's pure insecurity. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/21 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you want to be the “ pretty “one in your relationships ?I honestly don't care one way or the other. Even if people do find us mismatched in some way, I've never met a single person rude enough to bring it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:58 PM |
| 2 | What age gaps actually are alright ?My rule is no more than seven years in either direction if you're 25 or older. Younger than that your lower end range is going to be smaller, for good reason. This is because I believe seven years is around where you start to lose that sense of being on the same page with someone. A decade is a long time, so many things can change and happen to a person in ten years. You want to be in a similar life stage to the person you're with, to have similar priorities and a compatible idea of not just the… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Epitome of fulfilment for womenThat is what the OP implies, that women can only be at their happiest by putting the other people in their lives before themselves. Certainly, the happiness of those you love can add to your own, but it is not the "Epitome of Fulfillment" for them any more than it would be for a man. Living your life for other people leads only to disappointment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Epitome of fulfilment for womenCompromise certainly, not sacrifice. It is not my job to make his happiness my priority, only to accentuate it as he does mine. We all walk our own paths, and while we can be helped along the way, it is not others' job to carry us there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Epitome of fulfilment for womenTheir happiness makes us happy so long as it doesn't infringe on our own. We are still our own people with wants and needs, and their happiness can only be a fraction of what fulfills us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | How much do women actually care about money?Can you pay your current bills all by your lonesome? No extra help? If Yes, congrats! You qualify. You need to be able to handle your own shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/21 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship with true love and freedom for both - Your Opinion?And die she might, Pregnancy can kill you in so many ways and regularly does. Good thing I don't have any interest in letting a parasite rip it's way out of me. I'll be sure to think of you when I get my tubes removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 06:04 AM |
| 1 | How much does clothing influence your attraction to a man?You know, I didn't think it mattered much to me until I met my SO. He has a style that suits him extremely well, a natural extension of his personality and taste. It enhances what's already there, what attracted me in the first place. Clothing is the packaging that advertises what you're selling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship with true love and freedom for both - Your Opinion?Ooh! I wanna play too! "Any man who wants his wife to go through childbirth just so he can have a child he's blood related to cannot possibly love her." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship with true love and freedom for both - Your Opinion?Children aren't the only adversity a relationship can face, come on now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Only a childfree relationship can be a relationship with true love and freedom for both - Your Opinion?No argument here. I'd rather focus on the person I chose rather than little strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Which would you prefer, a talkative yet passionately distant man, or a non-talkative but passionate man?Definitely the latter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you date a single dad/become a stepmom?Fuck no, I'm childfree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you?Nope. I enjoy sex, but it doesn't control my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 09:34 PM |
| 9 | Females have nothing to complain about, ever"Why won't anyone comfort me with their vagina?! My problems are the worst problems in the world!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 09:18 AM |
| 2 | When will women understand that us men don’t care about how much money you make. We would rather date that hot girl from Starbucks than an average girl that has an online 6 figure business.Oh gee, how silly of me! I forgot to think of the Menz when I decided what I wanted to do with my life! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 09:12 AM |
| 0 | Do you agree with this meme?Ah yes, I'm totally going to listen to pebble drop, the blatant nazi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/21 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Which body do you prefer?Aaron Paul! But I would be okay with a bit more pudge than he has there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/20 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is it about a “dad bod” that you find attractive?I'm more of a skinny-fat person myself. Average dudes that don't work out but have enough of a metabolism that it doesn't matter. I just don't like muscle. If I can see your chest or biceps straining your T-shirt, it's a flat no from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Women of PPD: Does the n-count of your partner matter do you or do you bring the topic up?I honestly do not care. As long as he doesn't have an STD or a possible child somewhere out there in the world, it's not something I'm going to waste energy thinking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/20 10:08 AM |
| 1 | is it a dealbreaker is a man watches pornI mean, I know people who use reddit on the can, turning off the wifi would shorten a lot of people's bathroom time, not just the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 03:46 AM |
| 1 | The real reason they hate MGTOWI don't care what they do with their time, but I do wish they would actually go. Please, MGTOW, go off to your dude ranch, go train a dog, go hike a famous mountain trail. Succeed. Live your lives! Just please, for the love of creation, SHUT UP. Stop harassing people and ruining youtube comment sections with your insistence that "this is why you should never get married." Leave, go, get gone. We don't want you and we're tired of you butting into everything to talk about how great your lives are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Other than the bible there is no way to justify being anti choice/pro lifeThe bible mentions how to perform one, so not even the bible is a good excuse. Even so, I do not owe my body to anyone, not even a clump of cells I helped create. People can wail and cry about someone who doesn't even really exist yet's right to life, but it's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on PornHub recently removing most of it's content ?I mostly see it for what it is, an empty gesture to get Mastercard and the like to deal with them again. They don't actually care, if they did they'd have put in the work to actually screen the videos, but instead they simply dumped anything unverified just so they could say "look at all these bad bad videos we got rid of! We're upstanding! Please work with us again!" It's all about the money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 01:49 AM |
| 1 | How would a hypothetical world work, where everyone had to make a certain income in order to be eligible to date/ have childrenI would be okay with that. The fewer people popping out children they can't afford to care for, the better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Did you have high standards of physical attraction for a mate and then "settle" for someone you're not attracted to?Nope, I pretty much got exactly what I wanted, "tingles" and all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 04:03 AM |
| 8 | What percentage of millennial men compared to boomer men will be childless?Some of us millennials are actively choosing not to have kids because we discovered that the Lifescript is choice and the not fun bits aren't a requirement. So far the effect seems to be Boomers angry about a lack of grandkids and people our age who do have children being very angry that we still get to sleep and have free time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 03:32 AM |
| 2 | What non physical aspects do you value in men?There are lots of good comments here that I agree with, but I'd like to add Passion! A man who is passionate about his hobbies and the things that make him happy. A man who wants to share those things with me, like showing off something he finds interesting in a game or lyrics from a song he loves or lore from a book or show. One of my favorite things my SO does is pulling me aside to tell me about a new game he's playing and what about it he thinks I'd like. I could listen to him talk for hours… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Suit yourself. I hope it works out the way you planned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Not all of them. It's a drive you can ignore, even find contempt for. A goal you set for yourself is far more meaningful than mindlessly following some impulse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?It absolutely is. There's nothing special about your genes or mine, or anyone's. The world would actually be much better off if human beings as a whole stopped reproducing for a while, but selfish people who think the world couldn't possibly go on without their junk DNA create more mouths to feed that no one gives a damn about except them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Penis-size-manifesto: bigger is better up until the point of inconvenience?I honestly don't think about size enough to prefer anything. I've never been dissatisfied with a dick, only the person it was attached to and what they were doing with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | "Men cheat for sexual reasons, women cheat for emotional reasons"If you care more about satisfying your dick than you do about how much your actions hurt the person you claim to love, then you don't love them. There's no "compartmentalizing" a selfish act that hurts someone. You don't get to decide you didn't do anything wrong just because you made your peepee happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 11:11 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of marriage?If you want to believe that marrying someone is akin to switching lanes without checking your mirrors, then whatever I say won't matter. But to me, it's like getting into a car. Could we crash and come away horribly scarred? Sure. But more than likely we'll end up at our destination just fine. Doesn't mean we shouldn't be careful on our way there, but if you don't get in the car, you'll never get there at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 10:56 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of marriage?Agoraphobic people would say the same about leaving the house. Just because it scares you doesn't mean you're right to be afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Question to women: Would you give your eggs in exchange of a large sum of money?You couldn't pay me to allow someone to create a person with my DNA. Kids have a habit of seeking out their genetic relatives out of curiosity, and I want nothing to do with that. The easiest way to never be responsible for a child is to never reproduce, so no, no egg donation for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?"Genetic Legacy" Sure, okay. Your genes matter about as much as the dirt under your feet. It might've been part of a mountain once, but you don't see anyone exclaiming with awe now, do you? So self-important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 09:56 AM |
| 5 | Why are RPillers so negative towards men who choose to become stepfathers?Ha! Your child or someone else's, they're all going to scream and cry and throw tantrums. The person supplying the genes is meaningless, it's what you put into raising that child that matters. And even then, a child with your genes who you put everything into teaching can still grow up to be a horrible, thankless person who cares nothing for you. All children might as well be strangers, regardless of who's blood runs through their veins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | What is the point of marriage?For me, the point of marriage is to make my favorite person my family. Life is full of risks, you take one every time you leave the house, get in a car, take a bite of food. I'd rather risk failure than miss out on something worthwhile over fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Marriage can be an acceptable risk for some but for the overwhelming majority of men, it's an arrangement that leads to bad outcomes.I disagree, one of the worst things you can do to a marriage is have a kid. Say goodbye to sex and free time spent together, you get to be tired and disgusting for the next 18 years. And that's if you only have one! No thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/20 04:04 AM |
| 27 | CMV: Women’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from makeup and their bodyweight, men’s physical attractiveness comes mostly from their geneticsPersonally I think the only reason most men think women are ugly without makeup is because they're so used to seeing women with makeup on they've forgotten what a freshed faced woman looks like. Women without makeup aren't ugly, they just aren't touched up. In the same way a magazine ad still works off the base of the model in it. She may not be as perfectly flawless as her touched up picture, but she's still more attractive without makeup than the men looking at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 04:10 AM |
| 8 | Not only have I internalised redpill stuff but stuff like this always makes me think it's true. What do you guys think about thisI think that there are shitty people in the world and that you shouldn't let them decide how you're going to view people you haven't even met yet. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/20 05:01 AM |
| 6 | What's your opinion on a man's body when it's in good shape?Uh-huh, okay. Except that my experience, and her experience, and many other peoples experience say otherwise. Anecdotal evidence is only evidence when it's yours I suppose. Enjoy your ball, little hamster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 10:23 PM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on a man's body when it's in good shape?And your experiences are the only truth there is, right? The only one hamstering here is you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Is dating actually worth it nowadays after seeing a lot of demoralizing posts?This is not the place to ask this question. The people here are collectively bitter, they are pessimists. They will tell you that the worst will happen no matter what you do because their mindsets are not healthy. They cannot tell you the truth because their sight is colored by bias. Do not ask for advice from this crowd they have their own interests at heart, not yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Would you become a war bride?No, I would not jump into bed with the people who murdered my loved ones. Not by choice, anyway. Whether I could escape them taking me by force is another matter entirely. But I certainly wouldn't be willing, that's for damn sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/20 01:58 PM |
| 2 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.Or okay with being alone because they can find happiness elsewhere. My point is, men can either get on women's level, or get lost. Being with someone who doesn't make you happy is worse than being alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 10:36 PM |
| 0 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.So asking her to spend the rest of her life with him means he isn't crazy about her? Fucking her and only her for the rest of his life means he doesn't find her attractive? He's either not attracted enough that it's noticeable, in which case he wouldn't have gotten this far, or it's a 5% increase in attractiveness, and she'd be losing more giving up her career to change for him. She does care that he's crazy about her. And generally you only propose to people you're crazy about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 10:33 PM |
| 1 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.We'll have to disagree on whether it's "average" for men to see a woman who cares about her career achievement as unattractive, but even so, aiming at those exceptions doesn't mean she's doomed to fail. If an exception exists, it can be found. And for those willing to look, it's worth the price of failure. Life is too short to be unhappy with the person sleeping in your bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 06:37 AM |
| 1 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.If she was attractive enough for him to marry her, then she is attractive enough, period. Clearly the fact that she's a career woman doesn't deter him, and that's what matters. The men who see such a thing as a deterrent are irrelevant. They are not options. A woman who sticks to her guns knows she doesn't have numbers on her side. She's a "don't tell me the odds" type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 06:31 AM |
| 2 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.Not necessarily. Assuming everyone is a monolith is an unfortunate trait of this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 04:40 AM |
| 2 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.But it's not about maximizing her attractiveness. Being who she is and getting the type of man she wants is what matters to her. Whether she would be more or less attractive is meaningless if she can get what she wants without compromising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 04:32 AM |
| 2 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.The men who find it unattractive make themselves the men she doesn't want. They self-select out, she meets them, finds out they can't appreciate what matters to her, and she moves on. What she's looking for includes him being attracted to her. They may be few(according to the op and you) but they do exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.Women achieve for themselves, not to attract a man. It's a decision independent of their desire for a spouse. Generally women who care about their careers are also looking for someone who either shares their ambition or at least is content to watch them achieve with a proud encouraging look on their face. Because of this, the men who either don't want to meet that standard or find this type of women unattractive are self-selecting out, and she isn't looking at them anyway. So basically "we're do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 01:04 AM |
| 4 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.No, you aren't getting it. It's not about you. They aren't achieving to be attractive to men, they're being the best they can be according to their own criteria. They want a good career, they want to be financially secure, they want a job they enjoy, and how attractive that makes them to a man, particularly men who think they need to be above a woman in order to be attractive to her, doesn't factor into the decision. "Why are you doing this thing that makes you unattractive and expecting me to d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 12:50 AM |
| 3 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.No one said women are winning overall, only that the men who can't keep up are complaining that the women won't let them close the gap. The reason women run a race that "makes them unattractive" (bullshit) is that they aren't doing it for anyone but themselves. They want to be the best they can be, and don't care how it looks to the men who can't rise above them. If being above a woman is so attractive to a man, and so important to him, well then he should truly relish being able to rise above h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 12:17 AM |
| 4 | The polarity of gender desire. Men are working to create and sustain it, while women's actions continually reduce it.A valid complaint of what? By the logic of this post, men are wondering why the women aren't slowing themselves down so men can win the race. What she's saying is that a staged win isn't a win. Not letting men pretend to be better than the women they want to attract isn't a valid thing to complain about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How much does money matter to women?"Can you pay your own bills" is the only money related question I personally care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Would you date man who "cheated" his way to good looks?But I don't want children at all, and even if I did, the last thing I would care about would be what they look like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/20 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Would you date man who "cheated" his way to good looks?Why would I care how a man came by his appearance? It's entirely irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/20 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Women's concerns around dating and relationships w men?Or I could get permanently sterilized, which I plan to do. But the fact that I'm willing to go under the knife to rectify this problem is testament to the fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Women's concerns around dating and relationships w men?Because some of us never want to have children at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Why are there seemingly more women who don't get along with other women than men with men?For me, it's a mixture of having not lived in the same place for many years and the ease with which male friendships are formed vs female. In my experience, the women I get to know have very strong opinions on subjects that I am more neutral on, and this extreme push to one side or another results in a lot of disagreements and me simply pulling away. My male friends are more relaxed and don't feel the need to press the issue if I have opinions that don't match up with their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/20 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Would you rather be given a PS5 or be taken out on an expensive dinner?I'm not a sushi person. And even if I was, I would want something that lasts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 06:06 AM |
| 8 | Would you rather be given a PS5 or be taken out on an expensive dinner?No dinner is worth the amount of money that could buy a PS5. I'd rather order mcdonalds and stay home playing video games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women's standards for men have become too high and their hypergamy has got out of control?I think that, much the way instagram models and "influencers" and Onlyfans and social media in general have become a way for those desperate to have a spotlight on them to get attention, online dating has become a place where a certain type of woman can get her attention fix. Extrapolating outward and applying that to all women is where they go wrong. Some women are entirely unrealistic about what they want. Just as many have perfectly reasonable standards, but they're taken off the market quick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/20 03:44 PM |
| 1 | On average, women will see men as less attractive, comparatively to how attractive men see women. Men will complain about this fact, but blissfully forget that women actually take care of themselves.Good for you, but that doesn't mean you know what she finds attractive better than she does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 04:31 PM |
| 2 | On average, women will see men as less attractive, comparatively to how attractive men see women. Men will complain about this fact, but blissfully forget that women actually take care of themselves.Ah yes, because your experiences are the only ones that are real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 04:23 PM |
| 6 | On average, women will see men as less attractive, comparatively to how attractive men see women. Men will complain about this fact, but blissfully forget that women actually take care of themselves.I love how there's a line of guys beneath this comment telling you what you actually mean as though you don't know what the fuck you're picturing in your own head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do you come to PurplePillDebate?This place allows me to appreciate the men in my life a lot more. Namely, that the idea of trying to get the upper hand on someone they're dating would be a foreign and distasteful idea to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 01:03 PM |
| 6 | Question for Women: Would You Be OK With Being A Sister Wife Of An Extraordinarily Wealthy Man?Absolutely not. If I am giving my love and affection exclusively to one person, then they'd better damn well be doing the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Be honest: Males and females with no kids do you automatically disqualify someone if you find out they have a kid?Yes, but I'm childfree. I don't even want children of my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 07:55 AM |
| 1 | What do women really think about MGTOW? Should society care?Every MGTOW I've ever come across did nothing but complain about women. A good MGTOW is one you don't know is a MGTOW, because he doesn't talk about women at all. He's too busy enjoying his money and hobbies to waste his time and breath talking about how evil they are. Sadly, the sub, and every other onlines space dedicated to such things, is just a cesspool of anger and hate and whining. Is it any wonder they have a bad reputation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Fidelity in Long Term RelationshipsWhat keeps me from cheating is simple, I'm not looking for anything else. Being happy and content with your choice of partner is a great way to not give a damn about other options, even were they to present themselves on a silver platter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Physically, what is your type and how easily have you been able to get into STR/LTR with those men?Quiet nerdy guys. Like actual, skinny-fat with glasses, gets excited about a new video game release and works in IT nerdy guys. I don't really care about height. They're the only type I've ever dated, or even slept with. I'm a sucker for the bespectacled nerd in the group who doesn't say much, but when he does, it's always worthwhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/20 03:00 PM |
| 5 | There is NO reason for your LTR to refuse to perform a sexual act with you that she performed on another man beforeYou speak of yourself so loudly, here. "I care more about my sexual pleasure than the pain my partner is in, I am a selfish ass." Unlike you, people in long term relationships generally love and care for their partners and find the idea of making them do things that hurt them or make them uncomfortable distasteful. Not that you would understand such things, I get the feeling you're a use them and leave them type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL - Do you care what your close friends think about your man/woman?I care as far as personality goes. A second set of eyes is always good. I don't tolerate shallow dislike, though. If I find someone attractive, their opinion on my partner's appearance is to be kept to themselves. I still reserve final verdict. Not all criticism is valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Women have baby fever. Myth or reality?Female, 29, I've been childfree since 15. I was used as free babysitting from the age of 9, and as soon as I learned the gory truth and the risks of childbirth, I knew I never wanted to be pregnant. I don't want children. I don't really care to be around them. All I want for my 30th birthday is to be sterilized. I'd rather have surgery than destroy my body to bring another person into this shitty, overcrowded world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How do you reconcile the following opinions?Easy, no matter how good looking someone is, if I find out there's more than seven years between us in age in either direction, they automatically go in the "not a romantic or sexual match" pile. Any more, and I feel there is too much of a gap in life experience and expectation. I want someone I'm on the same page with, not several ahead or behind. I view men in their mid to late 30's and above chasing women in their 20's the same way. He's creepy because he wants a bangmaid he can control, not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to act closed off or be open in relationships?Don't ask for advice here, kid. Run far away from these subs and never look back. Treating your significant other like a creature to need to outsmart in order to keep is only going to ruin your relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/20 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Starfish sexSometimes a girl can have a hard time focusing on the sensations that get her there while moving and being active. Sex is kind of a sensory overload for some people, there's a lot going on and a lot of things to balance. It's possible she knows that if she puts on a show, she's giving up her orgasm to please you. If you get her there first, she might become more active now that it's not an either or situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/20 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about the dad-bod.I've never really cared for guys with muscles, honestly. Dad bod is fine, though I prefer skinny fat which is just a bit leaner. Soft guys all the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How much do you personally want to keep private from a spouse/LTR?He doesn't care to look and neither do I. We have nothing to hide from each other, but we're not really interested in each others things. We trust each other and have no need to snoop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What would you think if you found out that your husband or your partner chose you because he considers you as a nice breeding specimen?Well that's the end of that relationship. I don't want children, at all, ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Why are many women still so interested in marriage?Marriage is taken much more seriously than simple dating. Your spouse is legally your family, and as such you both gain privileges you wouldn't otherwise have access to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 05:29 AM |
| 1 | How many partners have you had?Female, 29. 6 including my current SO. 2 long term relationships, 1 short term relationship, and 3 FWBs I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | What's the most fulfilling thing for you guys outside of all this human relation shenanigans?Music, video games, and enjoying both with good friends. I look forward to things getting back to normal so concerts won't be out of the question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What Do Women Want Men ForI mean, I'm not asexual, but beyond just the act of sex I enjoy being romantically close with my SO. A romantic relationship is more than just friendship with sex, it's a different kind of love. There's a level of trust and intimacy that is missing from simple friendships or family relationships. It's hard to explain, but while my friends may have their own lives that I cannot entirely share in, however close I may be, I share a life with my SO. We see each other without frills, without facade, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 9 | Do you lie about or downplay your sexual histories, and if so, why?...And how exactly are you able to tell the difference between someone lying and someone telling the truth? Do you just assume someone with a high number is being honest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 12:39 AM |
| 8 | Do you lie about or downplay your sexual histories, and if so, why?If you think women lie, why are you even asking? You won't believe what we say no matter what it is, so why bother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/20 12:19 AM |
| 3 | What exactly is the “cock-carousel”The men you think they fucked for sport in their 20's, you mean. You see a woman with a man you think she's settling for, and make up stories in your head about who she is and who she fucked and how she felt about fucking them. Nevermind what she says or what's true. All that matters is that you feel your twisted, paranoid little world view is validated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 12:26 PM |
| -4 | What exactly is the “cock-carousel”"He doesn't sound physically attractive to me, a straight male, so clearly no woman would ever find him sexually attractive in any way and any woman who says so must be lying because I don't think he's attractive!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is degrading about the male gaze?I made a claim that a decent number of men exist that think this way, not specifically those that I have met personally, get your facts straight please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is degrading about the male gaze?Do I have to know that every individual man that has leered at me was specifically the type of person who sees women as objects in order for it to be okay with you, person on the internet, for me to feel uncomfortable with them doing so? I claimed that such men exist, and that that is why I find the male gaze degrading, it is not a stretch to understand why, yet you're stuck on the idea that in order for me to be uncomfortable, I must know the minds of specifically the men who have leered at me … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/20 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is degrading about the male gaze?Ah yes, I should absolutely confirm, with 100% certainty, that every man who sits next to me on the bus and asks me if I'm single is thinking with his dick. I don't need to read the mind of every man to know that this is how some of them think and to be annoyed and uncomfortable because of it. Don't give me this disingenuous argument like you don't know what subreddit you're in. I say that, because I know that there are men who see a relationship as a price to pay for sex, because I live in a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is degrading about the male gaze?In a world where tits are used to sell everything, in a subreddit where men regularly admit that they see no reason to spend time with women they aren't fucking, and you're telling me "Not ALL men only see you as something to fuck!" yeah, just a decent percentage. I know there are good men out there. I've met them. Some are my friends. One is my SO. But that doesn't change the fact that there are just as many if not more who do see a woman's body as the only thing worthwhile about her. I'll stop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is degrading about the male gaze?It's made clear in the way the men here talk about how they understand women's motives for relationships. The way they frame it as "Chad got for free what I have to pay for." As though engaging with the actual person is a fee for access to her body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/20 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is degrading about the male gaze?Being reduced to a means to an end. The understanding that they're not interested in the fact that I'm a person, with a mind and thoughts as complex and nuanced as their own, but only see me as a body. An object, just a thing they can use to acheive orgasm and nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 2 | The welfare state causes degeneracy and the collapse of family values"Waaaah! Waaaaah! I can't shackle a woman to me with marriage and children! Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/20 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Women: "I want a man who is honest, confident with who he is and secure with himself"What the fuck is padded underwear... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 03:09 AM |
| 0 | For those who think that PPD men are all just fat slobsTelling of what? Clearly someone wanted to humble brag about their gym results, like any girl in here gives half a damn what the guys look like. Good for him and his lumpy legs, I guess. I'm sure someone is impressed somewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 03:01 AM |
| 0 | For those who think that PPD men are all just fat slobsI'm not entirely sure how to do the "admire chad's muscles" thing, can someone in here who likes this physique explain what words I'm supposed to use? Is Veiny good or bad? And Are his legs supposed to look like they have tumorous growths? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | PPD womenWell ain't that cute...BUT IT'S WROOOOONG! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/20 05:37 AM |
| 9 | Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”?No. I'd want to be legally recognized as his family and him as mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Why Do People So Fundamentally Misunderstand the Point of Love/SexBecause ensuring your genes are passed on is no longer the sole imperative of our modern world. Nothing about our lives is "natural" anymore. Happiness is the goal, it's what makes life meaningful for people, and love is one of the biggest contributors to happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/20 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Women don't understand why promiscuity is undesirable because men who are able to cheat are high-value, whereas all women can cheat and those who do are low-valueSo what you're saying is that women's logic is "I think guys who have a lot of options are hot so he should too?" Because that's incorrect on a lot of levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/20 01:50 PM |
| 25 | Why is nagging considered an issue?All the guys in here saying "Just leave him" are the same ones who complain about divorce and her leaving being so "sudden" and how "These days women don't know how to stay together and work things out". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a single dad if not why not?My partner is also childfree and you're right, life is pretty good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a single dad if not why not?Hell no, I don't even want to have my own kids, much less play second fiddle to someone else's. I am childfree, and so is anyone I'd considering getting involved with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Is porn and online nudity in general giving YOUNG women wrong ideas about the male body?I can only speak from experience, but even when I first stumbled across porn as a teenager, I didn't really care about the bodies pictured so much as what they were doing. So no, it had exactly zero effect on my standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/20 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Why is single motherhood so prevalent, when women know the consequences of it, and when it seems so easy to avoid in this day and age?There are a lot of places where abortions are difficult to get or illegal and sex education is deeply lacking. Birth control methods that are known to these people are either expensive(implants cost a pretty penny if you don't have insurance and good luck getting sterilized as a woman before the age of 30 if you don't already have a child) or not very effective (condoms break, the pull out method is no prevention at all). And then there are people who think it's wrong to abort, or simply decide … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/20 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: are you having more or less sex than you were pre-quarantine?Pretty much the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | What do you bring to a relationship besides looks?How many times has this exact question been asked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why don't older women find younger men attractive?I mean, I'm not opposed to dating men younger than me, within reason of course. Reason being no more than seven years difference in age and the type of mental maturity that makes me forget the age difference most of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe Red Pillers over-exaggerate the effects of lifting on female attraction, or do you think it actually makes the massive difference that they claim?For me personally? I don't really care for visible muscle. But it can't hurt to be, at the very least, in shape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/20 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to maintain attraction in a LTR after moving in together?Over time you'll cool off a bit, and it won't happen as often because you're always available to each other, but the real key is to not get lazy about it. She's not always going to be ready to go the minute you want some, and that has nothing to do with how attractive you are and everything to do with needing to be warmed up first. Don't neglect the lead up, the lingering touches and kisses that start way before you get to the bedroom that get her thinking in that direction. That, I feel, is the… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/20 11:07 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: What is it that shocks you the most about TRP and male nature?What shocks me the most about the redpill is that they seem to view the person as a punishment and the body as a reward. The idea that "the ONS got for free what I have to pay for" is just horrifying the more you think about it. The idea that the person you want to spend the rest of your life with would rather have been the guy you fucked once and never thought about again, just, wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: Why Is There Such A Negative Attitude Towards Childless Married Couples?Those would be Childfree couples, childless people are simply those who haven't had children yet and are planning to or haven't thought about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/20 11:59 PM |
| 0 | The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiatedYou really are just proving my point. You're incapable of seeing anything but extremes, and going to ridiculous lengths to make the world fit into your view. But go ahead, I knew I wasn't going to change your mind. Cling to your need for women to be evil liars who only want Chad, if it makes you feel better. Meanwhile, the rest of us will be happy in our relationships with average men that you pretend not to see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/20 06:37 AM |
| 0 | The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiatedWho was it who lied to you? What movie? What person? When did anyone ever say that women don't care at all about looks? When was that ever a thing? And how does certain women finding certain men attractive disprove anything I've said? Do you not know what "subject to taste" means? Because the fact that there are women who find these men hot is not contradictory to that in the least. Finding Jason Momoa attractive does not lock a woman out of finding Joe Shmoe down the street attractive. Nor does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 07:50 AM |
| -2 | The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiatedThere we are, missing the second half because it just doesn't compute. 'Hot' is required, BUT IT'S ALSO SUBJECT TO TASTE. You make my point for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 09:34 AM |
| 1 | The reason why men feel “lied to” by society about what women want is because, what women want, and what emotionally/sexually arouses them, are two different questions that we never differentiatedWhat I'm getting from most of these men is an inability to believe anything half-way. Women either don't care about looks or they only want to sleep with underwear models and those marriages where the woman is sexually attracted to her seemingly average looking husband are actually her just using him for his money and she's unhappy, doesn't have sex with him at all, and lying to save face. They can't seem to comprehend "'Hot' is a given requirement for sexual and romantic interest, and 'Hot' is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | "It's only sexual harassment if he's ugly"They miss the point. They have this black and white view that if you don't like what is happening, that thing must be wrong and no one should be able to do it. It's as if they don't understand the nature of context. "this thing I like" done by "this person I have feelings for and find attractive" is a good context, and thus accepted. It's a yes. Conversely, "this thing I like" done by "My much older co-worker" at "my place of work where I have to go every day and am forced to interact with this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Do women want to be treated as children?Not even remotely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | When you're dating a guy, how important is it that the guy is "worth showing off" to your friends/social media. I strongly believe this plays a big factor in women choosing the guy they date."Worth showing off" is entirely subjective in my opinion, any man I'm with is worth showing off by virtue of being the one I chose. Clearly I think he's the shit, or I wouldn't have agreed to be in a relationship with him. If you mean "does he have to look a certain way or meet a certain standard for the other people in your life to coo over him" no. I date a man because I personally find that man attractive and interesting and have romantic feelings for him, and to hell with what anyone else th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Are you turned off by guys looking for relationships?...No? Why would that be the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/20 02:46 AM |
| 3 | What do women mean when they suggest men to get a better haircut to increase their SMV?They mean get a haircut that actually looks good on you, something that suits your face and head shape. You know, style? In the same way you'd buy clothes that fit you right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Why can’t women just genuinely enjoy sex? Why must there always be a deeper reason according to this sub?Basically, because men are generally driven by their sexual desire and women are generally in the driver's seat of theirs, they assume women have an agenda because they'll say no to sex with some people and yes to sex with others. Because if you really enjoyed sex for sex's sake you'd be willing to fuck someone you don't even like or are attracted to just for that sweet release, or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:53 AM |
| 7 | Women with less ambitious partnersAh yes, because there are only two types of love, Sex-crazed banshee or familial... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/20 08:22 AM |
| 5 | Why would anybody want marriage?Well you see, marriage minded people see those things as a positive. The idea of spending the rest of our lives with the same person makes us happy. That's the whole point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How much do you care about your significant other's income?Can he pay his bills? Yes? His income is acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 08:43 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Feminism freed WOMEN from the security they had and MEN from the chains they didn't know they had.Have fun, I suppose. There are just as many men who want a traditional family. And some who, while they may not be interested in kids, are truly monogamous and uninterested in this game of catch and release. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/20 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Discussion. I often see comments that porn style sex is unrealistic or not enjoyable for women. Then what is?The kind where you focus on getting her off too. You want one size fits all, that's not how it works. At best I could tell you to focus on the clit, but not all women enjoy that either. That's why you ask the woman you are currently interested in sleeping with what they're into and tailor to fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you regret not dating/marrying the guy who really wanted you when you were younger?Nope. He had his own idea of who I was, and I wasn't going to spend years trying to fit into that mould just to make his idealized vision of our future a reality for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL Why are you on this sub?Morbid curiosity. It's a bit like rubbernecking at a car crash, I just can't resist finding out what people think about these things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Why is it so common for men to belittle women after rejection?Sour grapes. They took a risk, felt vulnerable, and got shot down. They are embarrassed and hurt, and seek to regain their pride by lashing out and trying to minimise their failure by cutting you down to size and making you seem less than worthy of their attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 03:16 AM |
| 8 | What do women bring to the table in relationships?"My experience is the only experience there is and all men think like me and my interpretation of things is the correct one and I say women don't add anything to a man's life because I had a bad experience once!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/20 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Can women feel strong sexual attraction to a beta partner?I certainly do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually want marriage, or do they just want the wedding and special occasion?I'm not big on social events that require formal clothing in general, much less ones where I'm the center of attention and have to be very careful of what I'm doing the whole time so people don't catch me being myself. A courthouse wedding and a little backyard barbecue in casual clothes for the families is my ideal. Hell, I'd even skip the barbecue if I didn't think my family would give me crap about not having some way to celebrate. It's about forming my own family with the person I love, not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 02:11 PM |
| 3 | (For women) What is it that men don't get about women's sexual selection?But that's the thing, it isn't about you. How we feel about ourselves is the deciding factor, and nothing anyone else says is going to register if we aren't in the right mindset to receive it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Society’s preoccupation with and hatred for incels: just an excuse to bash male virgins in a socially acceptable way or well-earned contempt for a toxic “community?”Only the latter. People hate incels because incels do nothing but spew hate at everyone who isn't them. They promote rape, encourage each other to give up on life and happiness, and look up to mass killers because they find a sick sense of joy in the death of women and anyone who has sex. They tell themselves people hate them because they're virgins, because they're ugly, because they don't have the right bone structure, anything but the truth; we hate them because they're whiney, bitter, misogy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 09:46 AM |
| 1 | What made you happy in 2019?SO, friends, good video games. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/20 05:44 AM |
| 1 | DealbreakersNone needed, I'm already spoken for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 05:47 AM |
| 1 | DealbreakersI'm pretty sure most people prefer monogamy when it comes to LTRs, it's not a right wing exclusive thing, despite their constant whining about everything being a threat to the classic american nuclear family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/19 04:54 AM |
| 1 | DealbreakersKids, Polyamory, religious, military man, addiction, right wing, criminal past or present. Mostly I prefer someone who shares my views and values. I don't want children and I'm terrified of being pregnant, I'm an atheist, and thoroughly possessive. I'm incompatible with the military lifestyle, and sit a bit left of center when it comes to politics. And no sane person wants to be involved with addicts or criminals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What’s your age range?28, within 7 years of my own age in either direction. It started as my age and up to 3 years older when I started dating as a teenager and expanded as I became an adult and more people were of the legal age to date. Most of the people I socialize with are within that range, with a few outliers here and there. The largest age discrepancy has been between myself and my current SO, I am 5 years older than he is. I find him physically attractive and I love who he is as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/19 08:19 AM |
| -1 | Do you find the rugby player physique sexually attractive?Skinnyfat, no muscles. This is my preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4women: do you ever turn down sex with your SO?Very rarely, and even then I don't mind helping him take care of himself. It usually only happens when I'm very tired, sick, or in pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/19 05:03 AM |
| 2 | 30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share.It's not just about weight, pregnancy physically changes the body in a lot of ways, shifting things around to make space and changing how it reacts to certain things. You're never 100% the same afterwards and no two people experience it the same way. I personally would rather leave it to someone who considers the end result 1000% worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 11:02 PM |
| 11 | 30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share.The childfree lifestyle definitely has it's perks compared to the lifescript. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 09:37 PM |
| 14 | 30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share.I can imagine. Our bodies seem to hold up better when they aren't put through the strain of pregnancy and childbirth. Not to mention less baggage and more money and free time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Women, do you like it when your man mate guards you against other guys?Yes, but then we both get off on how possessive we are of each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 09:18 PM |
| 10 | 30's male here. Been reading TRP for years. I recently had a revelation about "The Wall" and would like to share.So it doesn't matter for people with no interest in having children then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/19 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Do visible muscles get girl’s aroused the way that showing skin/cleavage does for men?Nope. I prefer softer men, skinnyfat, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Men Often Exaggerate the Expenses of Everything in Dating or MarriageIt can cloud over in the later years, Moissanite is a better diamond alternative and much sturdier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 10:15 AM |
| 1 | With designer babies on the horizon, will parental sex selection shift heavily to pro-female?I think it'll mean people with a serious preference for the gender of their children will have fewer kids trying to get their gender balance right, which is a good thing and the only part I care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/19 02:10 AM |
| 4 | Why is a woman seen as worthless if she is ugly?Most of the people in here are missing the point. The point is, Men who accomplish things are lauded for their accomplishments, and women who accomplish things have their appearance picked apart first and foremost. Sure, a man may also get a "and he's hot too!" tacked on there if he happens to be particularly attractive, but mostly people will praise him for what he's done. With a woman, her accomplishments seem to fall by the wayside for what she's wearing or how she did her hair. Has anyone se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/19 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Does /r/FemaleDatingStrategy confirm TRP beliefs? How can you champion "empowerment" whilst still subscribing to traditional gender roles?From what I've seen, I'm not entirely convinced it's not a front for an incel subreddit. It just doesn't sound like anyone posting there is actually female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 06:33 AM |
| 3 | What is the "real" N count for women these days?I don't know why this topic keeps coming up. Unless you spy on a large group of women for most of their lives, there's no unequivocal proof of what the average is. You can either ask and be satisfied with the answer, or make something up in your head that will more than likely make you unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Are women really collectivist thinkers?Why would I care what other women think of him? I'm picking him out for me, not them. Unless they're warning me that he's a notorious serial killer/rapist, or something. There's preferences and then there's red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 05:41 PM |
| 2 | What love language are you least able to express OR receive?Manipulative how? I mean, the idea is to show your love for someone in a way that gets through to them the best, because you love them and want them to feel loved...I don't see what's manipulative about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | What love language are you least able to express OR receive?Gifts and acts of service. Receiving either makes me feel like I owe something, though I'll happily do acts of service for my significant other. I'm never sure about the gifts I give, so i generally have them pick it out themselves.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women, without exceptions, found muscular, "ripped" men most attractive; although in social contexts they lie to avoid hurting men around them.No, I don't lie about what I find attractive, despite everyone on here assuming I do. I don't care for any sort of visible muscle on a man, that includes abs or anything you would call "toned". While I tend to prefer a slimmer silhouette when I care at all, I prefer my guy on the softer side when I hug him. So, skinnyfat, I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/19 02:16 AM |
| 2 | What is your take on the idea of your partner expressing interest in bisexuality?I don't care if he's Bi, as long as he's monogamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 04:40 PM |
| 4 | Why don't more older women date and have sex with younger men?I tend to stay within seven years of my own age in either direction as a rule of thumb. Any more than that, and I feel like we wouldn't have much in common. But as it stands, my boyfriend is 5 years younger than I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Would you be offended if your bf or husband expressed interest in a threesome?Considering his stance from the outset was "I don't share" I don't think he ever would. And yes, I would absolutely be offended if he changed his tune, because I don't share either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/19 12:22 PM |
| 1 | [Q4A] If a Dude Likes Chick Flicks is That a Good Thing or a Bad Thing?I don't really care what he likes to watch as long as I don't have to watch it with him when it's not to my taste. My boyfriend and I have shows we watch separately and shows we watch together. He has brought up watching romcoms together before, but we've never gotten around to it because there are so many other things we're interested in watching. To answer the question, it's a neutral thing, neither good nor bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/19 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Would you ever consider a child-free or marriage free lifestyle or BOTH? (Would be interested in hearing how guys and girls differ)A childfree life is the goal for me, actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Why can't girls just enjoy sex for sex's sake?I never said I don't enjoy it, only that it's not going to satiate a hungry stomach. Just like sex alone will never satisfy someone who wants more, and acting like it should and they're being unreasonable about it is disingenuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/19 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Why can't girls just enjoy sex for sex's sake?Well there's an assumption if I've ever heard one. As though chocolate is the only delicious thing in the world. If a relationship doesn't appeal to you, it doesn't appeal to you, but don't assume I'm not having any fun just because you wouldn't enjoy it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Why can't girls just enjoy sex for sex's sake?Oh yay, I had a sweet taste in my mouth for a few seconds. It does nothing for my rumbling stomach, but sure, totally worth it. Not. You clearly don't get the point, so I think we're done here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 11:29 PM |
| 2 | A contradiction: The more I seem to think 'like a woman', the less friendzone makes sense.You don't, but sex is a door opening. It invites one or both to look at each other in a light other than friendship, and people can get attached and possessive. And if one person decides they don't want to sleep with the other anymore, that can cause a rift and you've just lost your friend. Better not to set a precedent for that at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Why can't girls just enjoy sex for sex's sake?That is my point, it'll never satisfy you on it's own. He's basically asking why people are complaining about being hungry when he gave us a piece of chocolate, why can't you just enjoy the chocolate? Why do you have to want substantial food to be satisfied? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 11:00 PM |
| 30 | A contradiction: The more I seem to think 'like a woman', the less friendzone makes sense.Just because you make good friends doesn't mean you'd make a good couple. My longest running friendship of 14 years is a clear example of this. We want very different things from our significant others and would clash terribly were we to date each other. Conversely, my SO of a year matches what I need perfectly. If she spends that much time with you, she probably already knows whether you line up correctly or not with what she's looking for in a partner, and for her there's no reason to go there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 08:58 AM |
| 13 | Why can't girls just enjoy sex for sex's sake?Because, at the most optimal, I'd be spending 20 to 30 minutes naked and sweaty with some dude who doesn't give a shit about me as an individual for 10 seconds worth of endorphins. As an intimate experience with someone I love and respect and want to build a future with? Time well spent. With some rando just because? So many more enjoyable things I could be doing with my time. It's like eating a small piece of chocolate. Worth it as a snack when you know you'll have a real meal later, but entire… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 08:29 AM |
| 1 | People have to distinguish between "sexy body" and "practical body"No thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 12:32 AM |
| 1 | "Stop focusing on women, follow your mission and women will come to you" Does this Red Pill tactic actually work in reality when it comes to getting women?The idea is to not make finding a girlfriend your one goal in life. Look after yourself, better yourself, make your life worth living on your own, and then you can start narrowing down the search for someone worth spending it with. Odds are, you'll run into someone you want to be with on the way. It's the difference between "I need someone to make my life worth living" and "I could be happy on my own, but I'm choosing to spend my time with you" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 12:26 AM |
| 3 | (Q4W) Ladies, why did you get married? Why do you want to get married?For the same reason a step parent wants to adopt their step kids. It's really just a formality, a public affirmation of what we already know, that we plan to spend the rest of our lives together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/19 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you know men who have seriously dated single mothers?Just an average dude. He thought she was hot and had a step dad himself, so the idea wasn't a foreign one to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women: Who do you find sexier, physically attractive men who suck at physical activities, or physically unattractive men who are amazing at physical activities?I don't really care about either of these things, honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: you find out your bf/husband would eat out his more attractive ex for hours nonstop but he tells you he wont go down on you because hes not into eating pussy anymore and didnt really like it at the timeI don't really care, I prefer dick anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Do you really don't understand why men don't wanna be the "great guy" who ends up with you after you go through all the "assholes"?I can see how a man would perceive it the way he does, but that doesn't mean his perception is reality. The so-called "beta" makes a lot of assumptions about his situation that more often than not aren't true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/19 07:39 AM |
| 1 | If your partner was going to die in a year, would you want to have a child with them to preserve their memory?Absolutely not. Putting aside my personal stance on having children in general, a child is not something you have on a whim like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/19 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Has PPD ever changed your opinion on anything?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 05:31 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, do you connect the kind of alcohol a man drinks to his inherent masculinity and/or sexuality?Generally alcohol is something you drink for fun, I don't really understand the mindset of judging someone for enjoying something that tastes good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 04:44 PM |
| 3 | The Childfree Lifestyle was caused by Helicopter parentingYeah, no. I'd rather eat hot coals than get pregnant. Thanks anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 07:30 PM |
| 4 | The Childfree Lifestyle was caused by Helicopter parentingOn the contrary, I just don't like kids and have no interest in raising them. I'm also Tokophobic. This is true for a good number of the people on that subreddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | People in relationships, who does the housework?Usually me because he works nights. Granted, we're pretty laid back about cleaning, so it's mostly just dishes, trash, and cleaning out the shower drain once a week. We do our laundry separately as we have preferences for how they're cleaned and folded. We don't have set in stone responsibilities though, sometimes he'll get to something before I do and take care of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Do women even like sex with men?Yes, I do enjoy a good dicking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/19 11:15 AM |
| 5 | What type of people are attracted to Red Pill ideologies?I saw a lot of words there and not a lot of explanation on how the ideal love a man wants differs from what women give. No "This is how a man loves and wants to be loved" just "Women can't love men" repeated over an over in both. So very enlightening. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/07/19 09:26 AM |
| 9 | CMV: For men, worthwhile relationships exist but they are so rare that actively looking for one is NOT worth the effort.I sit in the same room doing fuck all with my boyfriend all the time, and it is indeed enjoyable. That's what happens when you love someone, just their presence makes things better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/19 11:04 PM |
| 5 | Woman gets let down by husband in a dangerous situation, feels zero sexual attraction towards him afterwardsI would rather die than simply stand by and let someone hurt the people I love. To condemn someone who trusts and loves you to a terrible fate just to save your own skin is the lowest of the low, an absolute shit person. Not sleeping with him would be the very least of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | People in LTR/marriages, do you envy single people? Single people, do you envy people in LTR/marriages? Why?In a LTR, no kids. I don't envy single people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/19 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What elevates a man from mediocre at sex to amazing?PIV are the best for me, so That'll do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/19 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Q4W. Are there partners you are emotionally attracted to and then others who you are physically attracted? (self.AskWomen)Asking a question and then arguing with everyone who tells you what you don't want to hear. Yes, I feel sexual lust for my boyfriend and have an emotional attachment to him. He is an average height, skinny, introverted nerd, and he often drives me to distraction with how much I want him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/19 05:29 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Follow-up to the height thread, what do you consider “tall enough”?I second this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/19 05:12 AM |
| 0 | Discussion: might mechanical vibrators/sex toys have had a similar impact on female sexuality as 21st century porn has had on male sexuality (I.e., artifically elevated sexual expectations)?If by "elevated sexual expectations" you mean being able to actually orgasm, and consistently, then yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/19 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Would you date for a LTR a man with no college education?As long as the guy has a job, I don't really see the problem. I'm not the type to look down on someone because they decided secondary education wasn't for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 01:45 AM |
| 4 | Should a man tell his gf that he struggles with depression?This is one of the worst places to ask this question. This place is full of the type of people who will tell you the same things your depression does, that you're weak and unworthy and you should never let anyone know because they'll abandon you. The only way to know for sure what kind of person you're dating is to be honest with her about what you're going through. If you cannot confide in the person you care about most, then they are not worth of being that person, they don't know you. If she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menBecause you forced that bad choice to continue to exist. You don't want them to be able to fix it, and you don't want to deal with the consequences of not being able to fix it, you just want them to suffer because...Sex for fun is a no no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menReally? You would? Wish I lived in that world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:24 AM |
| 2 | To one-sided pro-choice women: what would you do if you got pregnant?No one is really sure, but the lowest estimate says anywhere from 2.5 to 14% and possibly as high as 22%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Question for pro life/anti abortion "red pill" menWhite Nationalism! The best reason! /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:10 AM |
| 2 | To one-sided pro-choice women: what would you do if you got pregnant?Not as rare as you'd think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:05 AM |
| 2 | To one-sided pro-choice women: what would you do if you got pregnant?Tokophobia is a pathological fear of pregnancy. Basically, the idea of being pregnant makes me want to tear the damn thing out of my uterus with my bare hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 09:03 AM |
| 3 | To one-sided pro-choice women: what would you do if you got pregnant?I would abort in every situation, ASAP, as I am both childfree and Tokophobic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Piggyback question: to what degree doees a man's vehicle in general affect his attractiveness?For me, as long as the vehicle isn't a death trap and I feel safe riding in it, I really don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | What's up with the obsession with (wasted) youth?The thing that confuses me the most are the people who never thought about it until after they've been married to or been dating the same person for a good number of years and decide now that they suddenly want to go out and party. Like, the time for that has come and gone, you skipped to the end goal most people strive for. A few extra bangs and a night on drugs is like a sugar rush, eventually you're gonna come down and go looking for some actual food, only to find that that seemingly boring d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | If I understand it correctly there are three ways to be SEXUALLY attractive to a womanEvery time somebody tries to put down a list for what makes a guy sexually attractive I feel like an alien. None of this rings true for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What women mean when they say things like "sex would ruin our friendship"? Why friendship and sex are mutually exclusive?The thing about sex is that it can change the dynamic between people. Sex is a door opening, one that can be hard to close depending on the people involved. People are emotional beings, they get attached, get possessive, and end up getting their feelings hurt. If a girl agrees to have sex with her friend with the understanding that it's "just sex" and he becomes emotionally involved, that's a friendship ruined. If she decides she doesn't feel like sleeping with him anymore and he gets angry abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4Fems(in relationships), do you feel like your man fits the TRP/RPW descriptor of an alpha male? Do you think that it matters if they are alpha or beta?No to all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/19 04:36 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Is your attraction for a man based on what you can get from it, or from your attraction to who he is as a person?It's absolutely about who he is as a person. I could go on and on about the little details, the things that are purely him that send a little thrill of love and affection through me when I think about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/19 12:14 AM |
| 3 | What’s a typically unattractive physical trait you find really appealing in men?Skinny nerd boys with glasses and soft hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/19 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to have a placeholder GF?Yes, you're wasting her time and yours. Don't date people you don't see a future with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Q4W & ,M : Do you think it would be fair on a man to end a serious relationship if he found out he was beta bucks i.e safety reliable kinda a guyExcept you are sexually compatible. The only reason you're leaving is because you can't handle the fact that you weren't the very first person she dated. That's pure insecurity. It's not that she's not fucking you and she fucked other people. It's not that she isn't enjoyable to be with. It's that she had the gall to date people with the hope that they might be the person she marries before she knew you. I can't repeat it enough You cannot take into account the feelings of a person you don't kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/19 10:26 PM |
| 5 | Q4W & ,M : Do you think it would be fair on a man to end a serious relationship if he found out he was beta bucks i.e safety reliable kinda a guyYour mistake is assuming that you aren't. Just because there was someone before you doesn't mean that they were the best at anything they did. You can't choose someone you don't know exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Q4W & ,M : Do you think it would be fair on a man to end a serious relationship if he found out he was beta bucks i.e safety reliable kinda a guy"Gee, my girlfriend sure is great! She's fun to be around and she fucks me good and we've been happy for so long! Too bad she couldn't tell the future and know I existed so she could only ever date and fuck me! Now she's a tainted whore because she tried to make it work with other people before she knew I existed! I'm going to ruin this perfectly good relationship over my own insecurities! Such a shame!" - This dude. It's absolute in his right to end the relationship, but I dub him an insecure a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Because we haven't talked about sexbots enoughFrankly I'd rather lose all of my money than my sensitives bits, but that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Would you leave your partner if they were infertileNo to all. Infact, we'd both be happy because we have no interest in having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/19 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Do you have sex with other men whilst making the guy you like wait?This isn't a situation I've ever been in. I don't get romantically involved with the type of guys who bang and run, so there's no reason to wait at all. So, No? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In general, women want to date guys who don't follow the rules. That's partly why you shouldn't listen to their dating advice.I haven't, but others would probably disagree about what I find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/19 04:22 AM |
| 1 | If you man is overly affectionate towards you does it become a turn off?On the contrary, the more affectionate he is, the happier I am. My main love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/19 06:35 AM |
| 2 | What is "commitment"?Commitment in terms of romantic and sexual relationships is the agreement to exclusivity. Two people choosing to have a romantic and/or sexual relationship only with each other. Depending on the needs and wants of the two, the terms and conditions of this relationship may be slightly different or flexible on what is or is not permissible, but for the most part it just means that they both agree to to these things exclusively with each other and not pursue other similar relationships with other p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Did your preferences for men change as you got older?Yeah, I realized I had a thing for glasses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Women, Girls, and "Agreeableness"I'm agreeable because when given a choice of "where do you want to eat" Or "what do you want to do" my immediate thought is my favorite thing...Which we did last time. Yeah, better pick something else that I like, but they will also like...What do they like? Shit I'm taking too long to answer... "Whatever you want is fine!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/19 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Do you regret how you lost your v card?Moving in together right out of highschool, for one. Living in his father's house where his dad could set the rent specifically to punish him, for another. The stress of not really being ready to fend for ourselves with the added pressure of someone actively trying to make our lives hell was what broke us. He and I are still friendly in a 'smile and catch up if we run into each other' sort of way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Do you regret how you lost your v card?We went to high school together, and found that we had quite a bit in common. Namely that our home lives were far from ideal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Do you regret how you lost your v card?Nope. I was 15 and he was my first love. It was a long lasting relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/19 04:17 AM |
| 1 | What are your Valentine’s Day plansWe're gonna bake a cake together. Should be fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/19 01:29 PM |
| 3 | For all the women who say men are insecure about their wife's sexual past, how would you react to the following scenarioYour wants, your needs, your concerns, they can't be taken into account before you are a part of someone's life. You want so badly to be this special, chosen individual, like the protagonist of a story. But life isn't a book or a movie where you are guaranteed a girl at the end, and other people are not NPCs or side characters who exist solely for your benefit. Resenting someone for living their life before they met you is an exercise in futility. She didn't "choose someone else over you" She di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/19 09:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4WOMEN: what's more important: Face vs HeightI'm a face person, height doesn't really matter to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/19 02:42 AM |
| 1 | What are your love languages and how does it affect your attractions/dating life?Physical touch and words of affirmation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Do women realize men don't naturally get a "moderate" amount of muscle?Yeah, I realized that a long time ago. But seeing as I don't give a damn about any sort of defined muscle, I still don't care if my guy goes to the gym or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/19 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why are younger guys a turn off?They aren't, not for me anyway. I try to stay within 7 years of my own age in either direction though, just so the maturity gap isn't an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/19 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: If you found the perfect guy for you, but he didn't want to get married, would you stay with him?Eh, I don't give a shit. As long as there's still monogamy going on. Who needs a paper? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/18 12:43 AM |
| 12 | Why do so many women not want kids?I don't want children because I have no interest in them. I don't find them cute, I find them annoying. And that's all the reason I need. I don't want to. And I don't have to. So I won't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 07:04 AM |
| 12 | Why do so many women not want kids?Peace and fucking quiet after a life well lived that doesn't involve crying, screaming, individual humans who may very well decide they don't care about you at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/18 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, an acceptable or average looking guy you’ve been seeing tells you/admits he had plastic surgery?It's his body, he can do what he likes. If I'm already seeing the guy, clearly whatever it is hasn't put me off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: do you support opt-in, incentivized sterilization programs?How about a general gift card, some chicks don't care about make-up. Yes, I support it. And I'll be first in line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/18 07:33 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Do you think a guy becomes more attractive if you find out he is taken?Finding out a dude is taken results in disappointment, nothing more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you find deadpan snarker attractive in men?Yes, I love snarky people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you wish you were born as the opposite sex?Nope, I like who I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/18 02:16 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of men/women gaining weight after marriage.I wouldn't care that much as long as they were still the person I married and it wasn't a ridiculously huge amount. If it was, I would be worried for them, and ask them to get some help because that kind of weight gain can kill you and I don't want the person I love to die. If they refused, I would leave them, but only because I couldn't handle the stress of knowing they could drop dead any minute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do women date assholes and then complain about male assholishness being a systemic issue?I couldn't tell you, the only asshole I ever dated was way back in high school and I never made that mistake again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: what is your opinion of men who hire prostitutes?I don't care, as long as they wear a condom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] What is your mission?To enjoy my life as much as possible. It's tied to my career in a sense, I do need money to be able to enjoy many things. However any job could earn me money, my career is something I enjoy, and thus contributes to my goal much more than just the money it brings in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Is it ever valid to leave a marriage or lifelong LTR due to lack of attraction?Yes, as long as you actually break the relationship off rather than cheat. You have the right to only date those you are attracted to, and they have the right to find someone else who finds them attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How many times have you asked someone out? How many times have you've been asked out?Been asked out about 15 times, asked out someone five times. Of those five, two said yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Q2W: Have you ever felt enough physical attraction with someone to the point of starting a relationship with him only after a few days you first met him?Nope. I always get to know guys first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How do you feel about The Wall and aging?I don't really care. I'm not interested in children, so the ticking clock means little to me in that regard. Any relationship that lasts into the later years will be based on far more than looks, so that doesn't matter either, And if I end up alone? Eh, I'm an introvert anyway, and no one will be around to complain about my wrinkles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How do you feel about your impending sexual decline as you age?I don't really care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 01:30 PM |
| 1 | What is your love language?My love language is touch, with quality time coming second. Female, no pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Girls, how do you feel when you catch a guy staring at you or your body?I don't care as long as they aren't leering and and playing with their junk while doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/18 01:17 PM |
| 4 | [q4w] ladies why don’t you approach men first?I'm an introvert, and I don't like talking to strangers in public unless I have good reason to. "I like his face" is not a good reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/18 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you date a man who has seen multiple prostitutes?As long as he wrapped his dick every time, I don't give a damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/18 10:49 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Have you ever had sex with men shorter than you?Right there with you. I dated a guy who was the same height as me once, but I don't think that counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/17 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4 Women: Why Do Women Have One Night Stands?He was an old friend from high school, we both had recently broken up with people we'd been with for years, and we figured we'd drown our sorrows. It was nice, but obviously we weren't ready for a relationship, we just wanted to feel better for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 08:49 PM |
| 5 | "Nice Guys", Entitlement, and RadicalizationTo suppress your emotions is to actively try not to feel them. Not calling someone a slutty cunt-faced whore for rejecting you isn't suppressing your emotions. You still feel angry and hurt and sad, you just express it without attacking the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 04:55 PM |
| 3 | "Nice Guys", Entitlement, and RadicalizationIt's not suppressing your emotions to not be an asshole, so no, don't suppress your emotions. Express them in a way that doesn't harm or disrupt the people around you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 04:31 PM |
| 3 | "Nice Guys", Entitlement, and RadicalizationAnd there it is, the same bullshit question that comes out every time this comes up. Like you haven't been privy to a screaming toddler who didn't get their way before. Is it suppression of a child's feelings to teach them to accept the answer no without a fit? Should we allow them to continue their tirade until they're spent, no matter how grating their screeching is? Should we react with sympathy to their punches and kicks at their parent? Or should we teach them that they can't always get wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 04:13 PM |
| 5 | "Nice Guys", Entitlement, and RadicalizationThey are allowed to do so, but they have to accept the consequences of their actions like any adult. If I flop to the ground and scream and cry in a grocery store because they're out of my favorite flavor of ice cream, I'll get dirty looks and people will judge me. Same thing happens when you throw a fit over being rejected. Act like a child, be treated like one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 11:17 AM |
| 1 | What real and fixable gender issues do you think exist today?I open all my jars by myself, even the wide mouth ones! So there! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What do you think about high N men?I don't particularly care. It's neither attractive nor unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 06:03 AM |
| 1 | PPD and Kids! Are they an extension of their parent? Are kids sacrificed for or are they a continuation of the self? Why have them at all?I am a woman who doesn't want kids or like them very much. I believe that once a child is born, they are their own person. Their parents may influence them for better or worse, they may carry the same DNA, but parents have no ownership of their kids. Parents choose to create another person with the understanding(and hopefully goal) that they will become autonomous beings with their own lives at some point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 06:01 AM |
| 1 | What about you breaks gender stereotypes?Everything you listed except the last two. I also seem to prefer average looking guys to traditionally attractive ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Do women find this (Putin) sexy?I certainly don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: Do women flirt differently than men? If so, how? (Anecdotes encouraged)I have never seen a woman bat her eyelashes in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Why are people so mad at fat girls?They seem to think that every overweight woman believes in HAES and has male model level standards for for sex and dating. This makes them angry, because "I don't want to fuck them! How dare they get above themselves! They should be begging to sleep with me so I can reject them, not pass me over!" I actually find that most overweight chicks are well aware of the difference between fantasy and reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/17 07:50 PM |
| 1 | What is your intention in coming to this sub?I'm giving my input. I exist, and I like what I like. Whether I'm an exception or the rule, I don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/17 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: How has your level of sociability affected your over QoL and/or love life?This is how I met every guy I've had a relationship with. It's so much easier to get to know people in a group, there's less pressure and things tend to evolve more naturally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 06:22 PM |
| 7 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Yeah, "data" isn't what I'd call it. But sure, if you want to pretend I'm lying so you can be miserable and paranoid, that's on you. Doesn't disprove reality for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:28 AM |
| 4 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Because I've been friends with them as individuals for years and they over share a lot. Because the flirting and occasional grope I see when I go over to their houses is obvious. I also walked in on a conversation about the physics of reverse cow girl in relation to the shape of my friend's dick that he was having with his wife the other day. If I had any doubts about how into each other they are, that pretty much dispelled them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 10:09 AM |
| 15 | Is the world of dating and hookups as bleak as many "pill" communities make it out to be?Going back to the real world after reading this subreddit is like jumping into a swimming pool after working in the sun all day. Men and women go back to being individual people instead of monoliths with a hidden agenda. Yeah, there are terrible people out there, but Chad is not hiding in every shadow, waiting to pounce the moment you turn your back. Not every woman is ready to bolt at the first pretty face or sign of weakness. I'm surrounded by happily married couples in my friend group, one of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Men, how often have women asked your count? Women, how often have asked a man his?I've never asked because I don't give a damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/17 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Can persons of different pills explain what the phrase "i love you, but i'm not in love with you" means?It means that the love they feel for the person somewhere along the line became platonic love. Maybe it never was romantic love in the first place, maybe it was lust at first and then became platonic over time and they never stopped to think about it. Either way, while they still care about the person and want them to be happy, they no longer have any romantic feelings for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/17 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What do you think about this TRP hypergamy story?I too would buy this man sugary baked goods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/17 07:16 AM |
| 7 | Q4women re: the importance of physical attractiveness/penis sizeYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 01:12 AM |
| 3 | Q4women re: the importance of physical attractiveness/penis sizeContestant B sounds like the perfect one to me. What is an inch and a half of length going to do for Contestant A? The only thing back there is the cervix, and in my experience it likes to be left alone. I'd rather have the one that knows how to play with the important bits, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 01:10 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] What do you think of choosing to settle down later in life?Better to settle down later in life when you have yourself situated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Where do you draw the line with your SO and the opposite sex?My policy is, if it would be weird/uncomfortable/gross to do with a full blooded sibling by the standards of my society, it's crossing the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How do you deal with insecurity and the question of what your value is in this world?I don't see the point in worrying about such things. I don't need to be special or perfect to be happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: "Emotional Connection," "Presence," ..what does it all mean?I have to like the guy as a person or no dice. Basically, we have to be on our way to becoming friends at the very least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: How much of a dealbreaker is height?I don't care, I'd date a little person if I liked them enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/17 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4RPmen: do you prefer basic bitches?Try it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/17 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen your parents intimate with each other?I saw plenty and heard far too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/17 07:20 AM |
| 3 | Describe the people in your life who are unsuccessful in dating/relationships and why you believe that to be the caseDon't even get me started on how many times I've heard "It's different this time!" No, buddy, it isn't. She has two kids and her last boyfriend dumped her because she spent her child support money on hair accessories for herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/17 08:54 PM |
| 5 | Describe the people in your life who are unsuccessful in dating/relationships and why you believe that to be the caseHe's lonely, so he gets clingy really fast. He also has a habit of jumping into a relationship with the first acceptable looking girl who shows interesting in him, no matter how insane or terrible a person she is. He doesn't listen to reason because He's "in love" and thinking with a combination of his dick and lonely heart, and then when she fucks him over he swears off dating entirely until the next one comes along. No self-control, no ability to look at the situation and and realize "Maybe I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/17 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: What do feminists mean when they speak about objectification?Yes, I've also slipped down them because I placed my foot wrong. You still have to monitor what you're doing and where you're going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/17 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What do feminists mean when they speak about objectification?You have to think things to do them. If your magical sex drive is so powerful as to overwhelm your ability to think of a woman as a person and not a walking sex object, you'd have to actively remind yourself that running up and fucking her there in the street is a bad idea. So what is It? Are you capable of thinking before you act or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/17 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: What do feminists mean when they speak about objectification?There would be, if people didn't stop themselves with a "What the fuck brain?" after thinking such things. It's not about getting to know every girl individually if you don't give a shit beyond the sex, It's about remembering that sex is a two person game and making sure you aren't being a selfish prick about the whole affair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/17 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: What do feminists mean when they speak about objectification?Thoughts have a habit of turning into actions though, so after the initial "I wanna fuck that" try to remember the thing you wanna fuck is actually a person who's wants may not match up with yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, how often do you see a male FACE that stuns you? And what for you is the male equivalent of boobs?I see them all the time. Guys have some great faces. And as far as the boob thing, for me it's eyes. Blue eyes are like a perfect set of DD's to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/17 11:33 AM |
| 3 | Q4RP: What do feminists mean when they speak about objectification?It's okay to want to fuck the hot chick. What's not okay is treating the hot chick like your fleshlight. You want to stick your dick in that. She might not want that. Respect her disinterest in your dick and take it elsewhere if that is the case. If she does show interest interest in your dick, remember that said sticking of dick is supposed to be fun for both of you and try to get her off too. Ask her what she wants you to do and such. Remember the golden rule boys, treat others the way you wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/17 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Are we forgetting Rule 1 & Rule 2?What they mean when they say it isn't real is that most of the people we see in movies, magazines, tv shows and commercials are made to look perfect. Lighting, make-up, touch-up and airbrushing, stylists who choose their hairstyles and clothing, and directors and photographers telling them how to pose and where to stand to get the best effect. Sure, they're probably still relatively attractive without all of that, but not the golden gods and goddesses we see on screen. Put them in a normal perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/17 06:37 PM |
| 1 | If your physical features changed overnight, would your dating habits and standards?I don't think who I'd go after would change, I'd probably just have a higher chance of attracting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/17 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: How do you respond to the logic that women have more abundant options than men and therefore do not commit to a relationship in the same way that a man does?Not true for me. If I choose to date someone, they are the one that I want to be with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/17 05:40 PM |
| 1 | What most people want in a partner is just someone who's decent looking, shares some interests, can hold a conversation and won't make them feel embarrassed in public. Agree or disagree?Pretty much. If I like his face, like his humor, and share interests with him, he goes in the attractive category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/17 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Women, what's your opinion on male bodybuildersNo thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/17 02:49 PM |
| 1 | The reason why many women find it hard to sympathize with rpers/any guys who are angry with women is because women refuse to understand their hatred.And in the mean time we should just accept the torrent of hate spewed in our direction. No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | The reason why many women find it hard to sympathize with rpers/any guys who are angry with women is because women refuse to understand their hatred.Except that is exactly what misogyny is. Hating women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/17 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, do you like to when (ripped, attractive) men are very physically dominant and playful with you in a way that relegates you to a child-like status?None of the things you just said are attractive to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | What is sexual objectification?Sex is a mutual act. Both people are supposed to get pleasure out of fucking. But a guy who is objectifying his partner isn't thinking about trying to make her feel good too, he only cares about the pleasure she can bring him. She might as well be a fleshlight for all he cares about her feelings or needs. That is objectification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Do women value personality less because female socialisation places less value on personality?Please, continue to tell me what I find attractive in a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what do you make of this Tinder experiment where the guy set up an account using pics of a male model? And how would YOU respond in this situation?I don't use tinder, but even if I did I wouldn't be interested in this guy anyway. I don't like the way he looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 02:55 AM |
| 2 | I would not vote for someone if they were RPI think the word you're looking for is Egalitarian. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/17 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you agree with red pill reasons for wanting to devalue women?When heated words become a way of life, it isn't hyperbole anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/17 07:35 PM |
| 7 | Do you agree with red pill reasons for wanting to devalue women?Did you just NARPALT? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/17 07:01 PM |
| 1 | There is no female conspiracy against ugly guysAnd people do nothing but make fun of her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 07:42 PM |
| 5 | There is no female conspiracy against ugly guysYou are not being shamed for having feelings, you are being shamed for expressing those feelings is a way that is disruptive and harmful to others. Treating people like shit because you feel bad isn't acceptable behavior for an adult of either gender in our society. It isn't even acceptable behavior for a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 07:08 AM |
| 2 | There is no female conspiracy against ugly guysWell, he's "expressing his frustrations" like a child screaming at his mother for not buying him candy, and will be treated as such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 06:43 AM |
| 4 | There is no female conspiracy against ugly guysBut this is not what we are talking about. We are speaking of strangers who cold approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 05:47 AM |
| 6 | There is no female conspiracy against ugly guysOh no, go ahead and make a scene and whine and cry about it like a four year old if that's what floats your boat. But don't be surprised if people think less of you for it. That's the trade off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 05:40 AM |
| 4 | There is no female conspiracy against ugly guysIf someone offers me a piece of pie, and I'm not hungry for pie right now, I will say no. I'm not saying the pie is horrible or gross and the person who made it makes terrible pie, I'm simply saying that I do not wish to eat pie. A rejection is not an insult, it isn't malicious. You are reading into it to make it malicious. You are taking offense. It's your problem, not hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/17 05:37 AM |
| 3 | Why is it considered less shallow to judge someone for intelligence as opposed to looks?Because an intelligent person tends to be more enjoyable to talk to and spend time with. I would rather have a conversation with an ugly smart person than a beautiful person who thinks you can catch "the gay" or that the earth is flat for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/17 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Q2Women: who would you pick as sperm donor for your children: a short but attractive guy or a tall but ugly one?Do I have to have their babies? Can I just bang them or date them or something? I'd happily go for a shorter guy, I just have zero interest in kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/17 03:24 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Friends with benefits pretty much always ends up with fractured friendships, relationships, and generally negative consequences.Not in my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is there such a thing as a case-specific Chad, or a Chad who is only a Chad for you, or a certain demographic of women?On the contrary, my confusion comes from the fact that everyone seems to find hands attractive. That would suggest it would be a cliché Chad trait, the same way muscles are which is something else i don't understand the appeal of. As for me, I have a fondness for guys who make me laugh and guys that can carry a tune. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/17 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is there such a thing as a case-specific Chad, or a Chad who is only a Chad for you, or a certain demographic of women?Why is everyone obsessed with hands? Did I miss the memo as a girl that hands are important? Is it stored in the same file as muscles? Because I'm not interested in those either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/17 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Signs a Guy Is Bad NewsAs for the video games part, you could say the same thing about reading books or watching movies. What's so all consuming about video games? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/17 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4W : Does watching your partner enjoy sex give you sexual pleasure?Absolutely. It's one of the hottest things there is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/17 05:20 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP: What do you guys think about Jordan Peterson's comments on aggressiveness and female sexual fantasies?I am so tired of hearing about 50 shades of Grey. It doesn't help that this is what I think of when the name is mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/17 05:00 AM |
| 1 | A "nice guy's" desire is often mistaken for entitlement.Yes, it's reasonable to be unhappy that you didn't get what you wanted. Calling someone a cunt or a whore because they exercised their right to say no, however, is unreasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/17 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't Christian men masculine?Speaking for myself, I don't find men who believe in an invisible sky daddy attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/17 04:21 AM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Does this guy look too gay to pick up women?Gay, no. Terrifyingly overly muscled, yes. No thank you, mister body builder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/17 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Scarcity of hot males and other questions.Because nature isn't a sentient thing with a plan. There is no point to all this but to make more people. Not perfect people, just people. We're here to exist, not be happy. The end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/17 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Do feminists have a soul?Does this unit have a soul? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/17 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: What opinions expressed on this subreddit contrast with your experience in the real world?There are plenty of guys that meet my minimum requirements for physical attraction. I see them every day. Also, I don't like muscles. Stop telling me what I find attractive, redpill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | When girls say they like guys to be "toned" or "athletic".Ooh! That is a good way of describing overly muscled guys, I'm gonna use that from now on. And no, I don't like cloud men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Post a Pic of Chad, An Average Guy, and moreTIL I'm attracted to average men almost exclusively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/17 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Post a Pic of Chad, An Average Guy, and moreEd Sheeran is the best kind of average guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Post a Pic of Chad, An Average Guy, and moreI like your average guy. Wish I could see his eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/17 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Would you prefer to have a job making $200k a year, or a boyfriend with said job?I'm with you on this one. Boyfriends come and go, but a good paying job means independence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Redpillers would really like Swedish dating cultureMore and more I feel like I was born in the wrong country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/17 12:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you think the other gender doesn't understand about your gender?No, I'm arguing that a male underwear model can be just as clueless about where the clitoris is as Joe Shmoe. Hot Guy does not automatically equal orgasms. Is any of this getting through to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/17 06:11 AM |
| 1 | What do you think the other gender doesn't understand about your gender?Yes, exactly, and you are still missing the point. You are applying a male perspective on sex onto women. Hot guys are not automatically better in bed. Imagine Starfish sex with a chick who checks her watch every two minutes, sighs, and rolls her eyes. Someone who is obviously only fucking you out of pity and refuses to do anything but lie there. Quality sex is hard to come by, no pun intended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/17 05:42 AM |
| 1 | What do you think the other gender doesn't understand about your gender?What she said was that whoever took her up on the offer probably wouldn't be that great in bed. She said nothing about what they looked like or how much money they made, only that they were a random guy off the street. If there was a 85% chance that any girl you slept with was gonna gnaw on your dick like she was trying to get the gum out of a blow pop while giving you a blowjob, how willing would you be to let one you didn't know near your dangly bits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | What are your top five deal breakers in a relationship?You've pretty much covered everything I'd have said with yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/17 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Are you a believer of the "Men shouldn't hit women" mentality?I feel like the answer to this question is obvious. If you are being attacked by someone, their gender should not have any bearing on whether you defend yourself from them or not. You should, however, aim only to stop them from hurting you. Minimize damage done, incapacitate them if you must, but do no more harm than necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/17 11:23 PM |
| 1 | BP's hyperfocus and fixation on the spergs, FAs, and neckbeards of RP shows that they (BP) are not serious about having a debate about the merits of RP strategies but rather just want to mock and abuse low-SMV men.If you don't want to be treated like a stereotype, don't act like one. The so called "low value men" made their bed when they decided to spew shit at people on the internet. Don't complain and shit all over people, and then expect them to treat you with respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/17 06:04 AM |
| 9 | Question for American WomenNope. Everyone I've ever dated or slept with was either skinny or average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 10:08 AM |
| 6 | Women, how often do you seriously date/have long term relationships with guys purely because of their looks?I'd rather be single than date someone I don't actually like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | When women say they don't want kids?I don't want kids. I don't care if the man of my dreams steps fully formed from my imagination into the real world and begs them from me, it's not happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 10:41 AM |
| 3 | What are everyone's sex/relationship new years resolutions?Right there with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/17 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Question for everyone: Would you have sex with someone you knew was married?I have zero interest in cheaters, but someone who is in an open relationship and can prove it would be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/16 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: How often do you lie about your number? In what situations do you usually lie about it and why?I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/16 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Have you ever said your N was higher than it was?Well, my affection cannot be bought, nor am I a super slut to begin with, so I guess most of that question is irrelevant to me anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/16 04:18 PM |
| 8 | Q4Women: Have you ever said your N was higher than it was?Yes, I would be honest because I don't think lying is a good way to start off any sort of relationship. Also, 40 men? $80,000 a year? What is this, a desperate housewives episode? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/16 03:12 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: Have you ever said your N was higher than it was?I really don't see the point in lying about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/16 02:00 PM |
| 1 | What is your ideal partner like - both in personality and appearance?Dark haired, light eyed, closer to bean-pole than beef-cake, and about 5 inches taller than me with a decent face for looks. I like dorky guys, nerdy guys, guys who have a passion for something that makes their face light up when they talk about it. Similar hobbies are a must. We absolutely need to have a similar sense of humor. if we can't laugh together we can't even be friends. It would also help if he got the numerous references I make, but I can't expect him to have read, watched, and liste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/16 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Would you get an abortion?I am pro-choice and I would abort in all these scenarios as I don't want children. No changes in views so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: you start a new RPG. Which class do you choose?Timmy/Vorthos Thief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/16 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What exactly are you trying to achieve in your romantic/sexual life?I just want to date someone who makes me happy. I want seeing their face and receiving a text or call from them to put a smile on mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/16 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Do you lose attraction for a man if he's with an unattractive woman?Why would I care what his current/ex girlfriend looks like? If anything, it's the personality of those he spends time with that reflects on him, not their appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/16 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Question For All: In a perfect world, how often would you have sex?two or three times a day, maybe more depending on my mood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Which male celebrity would you rate most handsome?I came across him in his Denny Duquette/John Winchester days. What a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/16 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Debate Is Misha Collins a Dominant, Alpha man?Of all the places to find him mentioned, I never would have guessed this subreddit. He's good looking, certainly, but I like him because he's a dork. The guy is hilarious and also incredibly kind. He's as far from redpill as you can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/16 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do redpillers seem to have such a big problem with androgyny/ masculine women/ feminine men ?That third one though...Wow. Would do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/16 05:54 AM |
| 1 | What exactly would a sexbot be like?Sounds good to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/16 06:55 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women do not like "swole" men.Permanent duckface and overly muscled? No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Do men and women even have common mutual interests?Every guy I've dated has shared several of my interests. Usually video games, books, and music. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Do women really have 'baby fever'?There are 7.4 Billion of us world wide. I think we're good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 04:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women do not like "swole" men.No. I don't like defined muscles, particularly abs, and he looks like a moron. Seriously, does he make that stupid face in every picture too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/16 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Q4 Women/BP: What do you think the average day is like for most men?I don't often laugh audibly while on this subreddit, but this got a good one out of me. Thanks for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/16 11:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women do not like "swole" men.Acceptable. though I'm not a fan of abs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/16 10:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women do not like "swole" men.Ew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/16 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Women claim to like sex as much as men, but still expect men to "earn" it. Do they also like the same aspects of sex that men do just as much?Sex goggles. When a guy finds a woman attractive, everything but the fact that she's hot and has a vagina is filtered out. Women don't have that level of tunnel vision. I can't stop hearing that stupid laugh or noticing he acts like a 4-year-old, no matter how physically attractive he might be. It's what he does and says in addition to his physical traits that make me want to jump a guy's bones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/16 07:10 PM |
| 2 | I'd like to hear your thoughts about ISFJ relationships. (12% of the population)Lol, I will in fact rub your back while you sleep and read you poetry. Also my bed is really comfy. I've never cried at a McDonald's commercial though, maybe I'm defective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/16 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Technically, don't women care more about personality than looks?I agree with this. Good looks definitely help, but personality is key in my opinion. For example, I've found that I sometimes am attracted to an actor's character in a movie or show, but have no interest in the actor themselves or vice versa. They are the same person, and thus are physically identical, but one is more attractive than the other simply because I like their personality better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/16 05:52 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Sex/Love bots would actually make the world a better place for everyone.I hate people. Bring on the sexy male robots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/16 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Women, do you actually like when your man flirts with another woman?That's a one way ticket to sleeping alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/16 09:28 AM |
| 1 | If your SO allowed you to bang other people on the side, would you?I don't sleep with people I don't have some sort of emotional connection with, so what would be the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/16 06:47 AM |
| 1 | What would be your reaction if 90% of men in society absolutely refused to get married?I don't give a damn. I'm not planning on getting married either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about people who don't want kids?I am such a one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/16 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Question to all: Women shaming small penis menI have never cared about dick size. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/16 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Question for BP: Do you agree with the sentiments expressed in this thread?Sweeping generalizations are bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Can a couple have a good relationship without sex?Sure, why not? Asexuals are a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/16 03:34 AM |
| 3 | To BP: How do you explain this situation without the AF/BB paradigm of the red pill? How can you explain this common mating strategy among women noted in the comment section?Anal sex, when done right, can be a wonderful thing. However, it requires knowledge, preparation, and a lot of fucking trust. It's a hassle, basically. She shouldn't have lied, obviously, but doing something like that with a new partner can be daunting, especially if said new partner is new to anal. Not to mention guiding someone through it can be a turn-off. It's messy, the aftermath sucks...The sex itself can be wonderful, but everything that comes with it just isn't worth it for the girl some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/16 06:14 PM |
| 2 | are women repulsed by the idea that their man has been with prostitutes?As long as there were condoms involved and you didn't catch anything who gives a damn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/16 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Question 4 All: Do you believe that physical looks matter in a potential partner?Looks matter, but not as much as you'd think. The only physical attribute that matters to me is a guy's face. And they don't even have to be amazing there really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/16 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What did you all do as kids for fun? What was cool about it?I caught spiders to keep as pets and climbed trees, played smash bros with my cousins and Pokemon by myself. When I hit middle school I did the same things, just less spiders and more boys. Same with high school. Now I own a Tarantula, work as a vet tech, and play video games in my free time. I'm an animal nerd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/16 07:17 AM |
| 1 | I'm newly single and going to follow a red pill sexual strategy and ignore everything else.Have fun. Don't get herpes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/16 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Is a man with a high n-count inherently attractive, merely by virtue of him being to get laid (usually) whenever he wants?Not to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/16 10:39 AM |
| 3 | Sense of humor.The most important thing there is for me. If we can't laugh together, we can't even be friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/16 07:50 PM |
| 1 | what does equal mean to you?"In every sense"? I wasn't aware we were trying to compare two different species. If this was the case, no one would every agree with the opposite sex about anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/16 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Women: Would you ever pay for sex?No. I just don't desire sex enough to spend my money on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/16 12:21 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are more entitled than menI don't believe I am entitled to anything other than my actual rights as a human being. I am well aware that I don't deserve a SO just because I'm me, and that no one is required to find me as attractive as I find them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/16 09:57 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Most women are incapable of loving their boyfriend/husband; most women love the way their boyfriend/husband makes them feelLove is looking at all the aspects of a person, their greatest strengths and deepest flaws and saying "I want this person in my life. They make me happy, and I want to make them happy too." Love is about who someone is, not what they have. Maybe other people see it differently, but the loss of a job would never turn me away from someone I truly loved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/16 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What kind of people do you find usually interested in you, and how does that make you feel?Female, 24. I attract nerds, because I am one. Nothing quite like bonding over shared interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 04:23 PM |
| 1 | One Thing Red-Pillers Lack:- LOVEThat's how I feel too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | What's your favorite body type?E3, not a muscle in sight. Perfect. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Is marriage a bad choice for a young woman?I don't really see the point of it myself. And I'm not the type to move in together either. Space and alone time is good for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/16 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Attraction is all there is...Agreed. I'm very tired of being told what I find attractive by people who think they have women all figured out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/16 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Ass or Titties?But they're both so fun to squeeze...Both! Also, purple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 12:38 PM |
| 1 | How Men View Love - Crosspost from AskMenCorrect me if I'm wrong, but the female fantasy seems to be the start of a relationship and the male fantasy appears to be what happens after the relationship is established. Love and support, standing beside your significant other when they need you or when times are tough. Loving them even when they aren't at their best, isn't that how a healthy relationship is supposed to be? Hell, isn't that what a healthy friendship should be? I see comments here saying the two are incompatible, but unless … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 11:58 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Question for RP and BP: How did you reach your chosen 'pill'?I looked at feminism and what it had become and thought "This is ridiculous." And then I found out about MGTOW and the Manosphere and thought "These guys are insane. Talk about the other end of the horseshoe." I found myself in the troubled middle, so I chose my pill accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4 all pills: What does your perfect relationship look like?It looks like best friends who also have sex with each other. Laughter, bullshitting, teasing, shared interests, media references, wrestling, cuddling, paying for each other's meals and then stealing a few bites in repayment, Fencing, fighting, torture, revenge, giants, monsters, chases, escapes, true love, miracles... Crap that's the Princess Bride. Nevermind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 10:41 AM |
| 1 | How many of you want kids and do you think that affects which pill you are?I'm not interested in children. They just don't appeal to me, I don't understand why people find them cute. This is why I don't hold with the Red Pill belief that I should want a high status man with money "to provide for me and my children." Keep your money. Buy shiny things. I know I will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Would you name your son Chad? Or has this name been ruined forever?Chad was a douchey name before I ever heard of this gender war. Sounds a bit too much like chode. Also, no kids for me thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 10:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men who only pay attention to hot women are just as bad as women who chase chadI agree with you completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Would you treat this FTM as a man or a woman? Redpill and Bluepill answerI would treat him as a man. Not that I would know without being told, but even if it was obvious that he was formerly a woman I would treat him as the gender he identifies as. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 09:52 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Women would rather a bunch of men die than have to deal with a world where women get emotionalOn the contrary, the moment a guy opens up and shows his emotional side to me is the moment I know they value our bond enough to trust me. My affection for them sky-rockets after that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 09:43 AM |
| 1 | What was the best PPD comment you have ever read?Those were the first ones I thought of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 09:32 AM |
| 2 | A device for men that controls fertilityThat's pretty cool actually. Heh, "Turn your balls on and let's get this baby made!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on #wastehistime2016This is a thing? Really? Ugh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/16 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Is it unattractive if a woman handles problems like a man? Do you feel more at home with emotional outbursts?Sounds like something I would have said. On a different note, your flair is just the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/16 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Blue pill for the wrong reasons?You're interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/16 06:21 PM |
| 1 | RP Before and After post proves embracing gender roles driven by masculinity/femininity is the key"Not a good enough reason to use the word penetrate..." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/16 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Have you seen evidence of the 80/20 principle in your life?Not really. But I don't really hang out with people who talk about or make it obvious how much sex they're having. I get the feeling it's not really a priority for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/16 05:51 PM |
| 1 | [Question for all pills] How would you feel is someone had a crush on you?I find crushes to be flattering, yet bewildering in most cases, regardless of how physically attractive the person crushing on me is. It's a bit like being singled out in a crowd. "Me? Why me? What did I do?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Richard Fletcher: "Why the Pickup Community Has Messed You Up (and what to do about it)"That...Actually kind of makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/16 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Men's heightsI have dated guys my height (5'3) and shorter. I don't mind it. Marshmallow hell is a thing. :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: What are your "must haves" for a partner's appearance?I don't think I have any mandatory preferences. I have things I like and things I would be hard pressed to accept, but no deal breakers if they aren't present. I'm not much of a hardliner in the physical feature department I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 10:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Equal relationships don't exist.Why do these guys keep posting the same CMV over and over? You aren't going to believe anything we say anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 10:05 AM |
| 1 | What's worse?Cheating, 24 year old female, purple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Evaluate your social intelligence!33 out of 36, 24 year old female, native English speaker. I get the feeling my score would have been different with actual people standing in front of me, but whether it would be lower or higher I honestly don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Beautiful BPLadies, what you would that you found I was a terper?You see this doesn't work for me. I would need to know how we got to this point to answer this question. Straight out of the box my answer is end it, because right here and now I don't know you, I have no emotional attachment to you, and see only your red flair, not the face of someone I care for. I can try to picture the one person I did love in the past, but he doesn't fit into TRP's mold of what I would and should be attracted to. It's like asking someone what they would do if they saw a ghos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Is selecting our ltr partners based on their sexual partners count useless in real life?I don't really see the point. The only time I give a damn about someone's sexual history is when they're informing me for health reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 09:15 AM |
| 1 | What's your opinion or thoughts on BodyBuilders?NOPE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Can women understand the male sex drive?Maybe if you explain to me what sex means to you and why it's so important. What does it represent for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 12:46 PM |
| 1 | On TRP, idea systems, and the regrettable lack of support for young men struggling to adapt to change.I know this is a month old, but I just wanted to thank you for giving me a better understanding for why red pillers might think the way they do. I had a general idea, but being a woman I'd never really be able to fully grasp it without an in-depth explanation from someone who sees all this from a male perspective. Most explanations came from a place of anger and resentment, and focused on what they wanted without explaining how exactly they felt or why they felt that way. You did an excellent jo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 12:19 PM |
| 1 | If women rarely orgasm from PIV without clit/g spot stimulation, why does penis size matter?It doesn't. Not for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Why is it you almost never see stories like this but with the genders reversed?Nobody ever asks what purples think... Honestly, I don't know. I've stepped in to help people before, but I've never been involved in something like this. Personally, I would only risk my life for strangers if it were multiple people in danger and I knew that doing so was the only way the majority would survive. One for many causes less pain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Why is it that TRP has a double standard with sex?Don't bother, there is no justification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 07:44 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Facial Aesthetics are the easiest way to ensure success with women.I'll admit to this. I care very little for body type, with the exception of muscles which I dislike. When I say "Ooh, he's hot" it's because I like his face. Sometimes just the right facial expression is what catches my attention. Some guys can go from "average" to "Wow" just by smiling or smirking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Woman perfectly describes why men should not get marriedShe's insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Question for All Pills: How would you feel about a government composed solely of women?What does it matter what gender they are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 06:56 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It's better to be born a woman than a man in a first world country.Sadly, Frosty passed 3 years ago. But She wasn't the evil one. Her sister would shit in front of the bedroom doors of people that pissed her off in the middle of the night so they would step in it the next morning. Only times she ever shat indoors. You didn't fuck with Scooter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 04:11 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It's better to be born a woman than a man in a first world country.To be fair, I once owned a cat who would fetch pine cones. And if you refused to throw them for her, she would fling them into the air or across the ground and catch them. NACALT! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 04:00 AM |
| 1 | If the Red Pill is wrong, where is the Blue Pills counter dating guide?Keep the confidence and self-improvement, drop the pseudo-science and the AWALT mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Post a picture of someone over 40 who you think is attractive.Well...Tennant out of ten! He is 44. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 03:21 AM |
| 0 | Regarding accusations of "misogyny" and appeals to emotion"Fuckoff snowflakes, nobody cares you think you're different." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Survey: How many of you have sisters?I have a half-sister. Purple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 09:57 AM |
| 1 | How would women react to a man like this?NOPE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What would it take to change your mind?I would have to become the definition of AWALT in order to accept TRP and a feminist to accept TBP. Basically my entire view of the opposite sex would have to change for the worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 05:15 AM |
| 1 | [Question for Red Pill] Do you reject or filter some of the common Red Pill ideologies?This gives me hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 04:54 AM |
| 1 | What would it take to change your mind?TRP would have to drop all of their pseudo-science about how women think and act and focus entirely on self-improvement, and TBP would have to drop feminism entirely and adopt and promote the self-improvement side of TRP as an alternative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 04:38 AM |
| 0 | Why feminists are threatened by Nice Guys (and why he'll never go away)No. You see, this is why I can't take TRP seriously, because someone will make a good point, and then someone like you will come up behind them and say something to the effect of "Or maybe everything TRP says is right and women are all evil bitches who turn their noses up at imperfect males and that's why..." You're undermining his point. He gets it. You do not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 03:31 AM |
| 2 | So what have we learned?I've learned that it doesn't matter what the truth is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 02:55 AM |
| 2 | CMV: TRP dating strategies only work for well endowed guysSize Queens exist, yes, but not all women care that much. In fact, the only person I've ever actually heard remark about their preference in dick size was a gay man. Also consider the fact that there are just as many shapes and sizes of vagina as there are dicks. Some women can't handle super-size dick because their anatomy isn't made for it. Some just find it uncomfortable and prefer a little less. Most don't give a damn as long as it isn't microscopic. Preferences dude, girls have them too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/15 07:46 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP dating strategies only work for well endowed guysDespite what he may believe, a Man's penis is the least important thing about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/15 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Are Women as visual as men? (Experiment for women)He's much more acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Are Women as visual as men? (Experiment for women)Pic 1: Too much muscle, looks like a moron. Definite no. Pic 2: Liking the implied sense of humor, curious about what he looks like when he smiles. Possibly, if he really has that sense of humor. Pic 3: Appreciative of the beard and tattoos. A little less muscle would be appreciated though. His abdomen just looks weird and kinda gross. Yes, if he laid off the gym a little. Pic 4: I have a personal issue with this one. He looks like an ex of mine's younger brother, which makes it a little too wei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/15 04:56 AM |
| 1 | This is what women find attractive in a man.This is accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/15 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Fellow women of PPD, what have you done lately to remind your man/the men in your life that you love them?I bought my best friend $150 worth of groceries because his check doesn't come in until Monday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/15 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are women allowed to have standards, but not men?You can have standards. I don't really care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/15 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Obama considering assigning women selective service numbers, making women eligible for the draftAgreed. On another note, your name is very purple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/15 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Sandwiches, ReduxIf physical attractiveness is bread, then Chad Thundercock is generic white. I prefer wheat, lightly toasted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/15 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Do all women want dominant alpha males?I just don't like the way it looks. I'll assume you're the type who finds fat disgusting, as I have no idea what your preferences are and it's a safe bet. You know that disgust you feel when you see fat rolls on a person? That's how I feel about chiseled muscles on a man. It looks lumpy and wrong to me, like tied off sandbags. To put it plainly, I have no interest in what The Rock is cookin'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/15 08:31 AM |
| 1 | Do all women want dominant alpha males?Hi, I'm one of those women who think muscles are gross. Why would I want anything to do with a guy who has biceps bigger than my head? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/15 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Do men or women deal better without having a sex life?I love sex, but I don't need it. It's something fun to do with someone you like/love/are attracted to, but in the absence of such a person? I'm not going to seek it out. The relationship leads to sex, not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/15 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Which clothing style do you prefer for men?Based on this list, I'd go with 2005. A biased opinion as the Bye Bye Bye dance moves influenced my decision. :p | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/15 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Have any former bluepillers who came here to debate been effectively red-pilled from coming to this sub?I will remain purple. Because everyone is wrong and right at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/15 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Do men place too much weight on the importance of a woman's appearance?Shallow bastards... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/15 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Both pills: Explain your flairI think TRP, MGTOW, MRAs, and modern feminism are two ends of the same horseshoe. Neither side is entirely right or wrong, and they both have good points. I just wish they would stop trying to speak for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/15 04:32 AM |
| 1 | I Met a Red Piller; Not What I Expected. Crosspost from TBP. Mods Deleted it There; Not Sure Why.This is why I can't ignore TRP. They're color-coded for our convenience here, but in the real world they could be anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/15 04:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women, say something nice about men. Tell us the things you really like and admire about men. Tell us something that you really like doing for a man.Most of the guys I know are funny, intelligent people with great passion for the things they are interested in. They're always telling jokes, making references and puns, and when they start talking about engineering or history their eyes light up. They're always introducing me to something new, whether it's a song I've never heard, a show that's awesome, or a good book. My favorite thing about guys is that they make amazing friends and great parents. Absolutely they make great romantic partners,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't TBP have their own 'truths' to denounce those of TRP?What's true for me may not be true for another. TRP paints all with the same brush and calls it truth. I speak for myself and only me. What I know about what I find attractive rarely ever adds up with TRP. This is why I disagree with their views so often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that if society matched partners up by SMV the incel problem would exist?You can lead a horse to water but you can't make them drink. Just because someone is the same level of attractiveness as you doesn't mean you have anything in common or any interest in each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Do women get validation from men they don't find attractive?A compliment is a compliment, regardless of whether that person is attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 09:37 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of Donald Trump? He is the embodiment of Redpill behavior. Is he a man you respect or would seek to emulate?I second that statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 09:26 PM |
| 1 | The Chad of my world (TRP need not apply)I will never for the life of me understand TRP's obsession with muscles. I find defined muscles on a guy kind of gross. Nothing wrong with a bit of a beer gut if you can hug like a pro! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Thought experiment for BP: If Elliot Rogers and that Oregon guy got unlimited access to pussy, do you honestly believe they'd still shoot up places?Yes. Because there is never just one answer to your problems. And there will always be other problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/15 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Personality types (mtbi) at PPD.I'm an INFP, a rarity it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/15 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Post pictures of what you think a 4, 6 and 8 look like of the gender you are attracted to.Your six is my 8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Recently stumbled upon TRP community while trying to get a better idea of the male perspective.You articulated how I feel more accurately than I ever could. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 07:31 PM |
| 1 | What does your body look like in Body Visualizer? (fun ease-the-tension thread)Mine was accurate, but the ankles looked kind of odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Both pills: What do you think about women who don't wear makeup?Waste of time and money in my opinion. Why add time to getting ready for the day? Someone will see you without it at some point anyway, unless you get it tattooed on which is weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 06:58 PM |
| 1 | If women are as sexual and rational as men, why can't you ask them for sex directly?I can only speak for myself, but I wouldn't be bothered by that. At the very least there's no misconceptions about what is desired on either side. I might still say no if I wasn't actively looking to get laid that night, but I wouldn't be offended. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 05:41 PM |
| 1 | To turn a PPD question around: Women, if your fiance told you that you **cannot** have his name when you marry; how would you feel about that?"Ooookay...Why are you all worked up exactly?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/15 12:39 PM |
| 0 | What's wrong with Dread Game?You're right, you can't negotiate sexual attraction. You can't force it either. So I guess you'll just have to settle for shallow and possessive huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/15 01:54 PM |
| 0 | What's wrong with Dread Game?Sexual attraction...Really? That's what you're trying to get out of that strategy? Wow, it's even worse than I thought. That just screams of desperation. "All these women want my dick! I could have any of them! Aren't I sexy?! You want me don't you?! Don't you?!" No. Enjoy your harem. I'm gonna go date someone who doesn't act like a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/15 01:51 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with Dread Game?Who said anything about "Asking"? Saying flat out "This shit needs to change" Or "I want this shit to start happening more and this shit to start happening less or I'm done with this relationship" is not asking. You can demand what you want, you can say it however the fuck you like, AS LONG AS YOU USE YOUR WORDS LIKE A BIG BOY. Because that's what this is. Dreadgame is a little boy pouting because he isn't getting his way, and there's nothing sexy about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/15 02:31 AM |
| 1 | BPillers : Do you think TRPillers have the wrong idea about how your relationships are like?Sign me up for bondage wednesday! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/15 05:13 PM |
| 0 | What's wrong with Dread Game?I would just like to add that never has a guy made me want to fuck him by showing off the hoards of other women that do. It's actually a turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/15 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with Dread Game?Dude, look at what you just wrote. Do you see that list right there of things you are trying to accomplish? Wouldn't it just be easier to say that to her? Just like that? DO YOU SEE HOW EASY THAT IS? And even if you're one of those "My way or the highway" Redpillers, all she has to do is say no or try to weasel around it and you have your answer! It's fast, it's simple, and you don't have to fuck with someone's head for a week or more to find out how it all ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/15 03:57 PM |
| 5 | What's wrong with Dread Game?Because I know now that if someone actually wants to leave a relationship, if there really is nothing to keep them there, they'll leave, and no amount of begging or pleading on my part will make them stay. You have two choices when you're unhappy in a relationship. 1. Bring your problems to your SO's attention by saying something and try to work things out, or 2. If you or your partner are unwilling to work things out, end it. Don't cheat, don't play games, just fucking go. Rip off the bandaid a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/15 03:24 PM |
| 16 | What's wrong with Dread Game?They are basically saying "I could leave if I really wanted to." If you're trying to get me to fall at your feet, begging you not to go, you're better off dating one of those many other girls who you apparently have on standby. We'll both be happier for it. That shit might have worked when I was 18 and stupid, but I don't have the patience for games anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/15 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Question for both pills: Do women ignore nice guys in favor of jerks and bad boys?I prefer the nice guys honestly. But that's just me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/15 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Is it our "duty" to have children ?I just don't like kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/15 01:54 PM |
| 1 | something better than sex?Cuddling with the person you love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/15 01:38 PM |
| 1 | For all pills: What does anyone get from coming here?I'm here trying to understand both sides and to give my own opinion where I have one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/15 01:29 PM |
| 1 | how many people have you had sex with?5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/15 01:08 PM |
| 1 | If you over heard a young woman whisper to the following message to her friend, what would be the first thought that comes to your head?"Well that was more than I needed to know about you ever...Well at least I have an amusing story to tell my best friend now." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/15 12:59 PM |
| 1 | Women: Would you rather have a broke very attractive man, or an average man with an income of $100KI'm not shallow enough to answer this question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/15 12:10 PM |
| 1 | What do both pills think of this story and girls kissing for attention in general?As someone who is actually Bisexual, it annoys me simply because girls like that are the reason people don't believe me when I tell them I'm Bi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/15 12:05 PM |
| 1 | How much do women care about prestige?Whatever keeps a roof over his head is good enough for me. A job is just a way to pay bills. And if he happens to really like his job or has the career he's always wanted, well that's just a bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/15 11:37 AM |
| 1 | NSFW: How do you feel about your genitals?I may be alone in this, but I don't think I've ever met a fellow woman who spent any significant amount of time trying to figure out if her vagina measured up to that of other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 06:01 PM |
| 6 | She isn't your equal until she washes the crap off her face.I don't don't care for it myself. Your SO is going to see you without it eventually, why hide your natural face? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/15 12:10 PM |
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