Superiority-Qomplex Archive

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1	How do you stop putting women on pedestal for their beauty ? Just date the women that you find are your 9's or 10s. If you just focus on the ones you find most attractive and date a number of them, even though you are physically attracted to them, you start to see personality differences in them that you prefer over the others. If you're dating women you find as 6's or 7's (or the odd moogle, well below your preferred ideal), you will still fantasize about the 10s and just worship them for their beauty. But if they are the common women you date and hang o…	/r/seduction	24/07/26 04:14 PM
1	What do you usually do on first or second dates that actually lead to a second date? I think DeCarlo used to sell it eons back when he first came up with it. So he wanted it to look more professional than just a paragraph or two. And yes, tons of dudes figure this stuff out on their own. Our Dad's and Grandfathers and Great Grandfathers never went to Bootcamps led by floundering magicians wearing Bee Costumes in order to learn how to get their prospective mates. But tons of guys have no idea and it's good to have a blueprint for them to figure this stuff out. If it helps, great.…	/r/seduction	31/03/26 09:48 PM
1	What do you usually do on first or second dates that actually lead to a second date? This is the model for seduction that seems relatively consistent for success. Open-> Attraction -> Comfort -> Seduction. Open is just starting a conversation. Attraction is the fun/ flirty/ mysterious/ teasing/ playful part. Comfort it where you have more of a real conversation where you get to know each other. Seduction is pretty obvious. Most guys tend to make them mistake of doing Comfort before Attraction. They share the deeper conversations of life stories, goals, friends and family, employ…	/r/seduction	31/03/26 05:03 PM
6	How do you escalate physically on a date when she’s passive? You want to start kino stuff early on when meeting a woman. You want to keep it platonic though when starting. A hand shake or touching a shoulder or moving hair from eyes or whatever. There are different stages that you can start from, but you basically want to have some form of touch withing the first few minutes when starting something. A good classic guide is the DeCarlo Escalations Ladder: DeCarlo Escalation Ladder This goes over the different stages of escalation from initial meeting to be…	/r/seduction	28/03/26 05:10 PM
2	How do you get the ACTUAL 10s? Women don't need guys for most things now a days. They work, they can get a credit card, they can vote, they can figure out solutions to their problems. The only thing that they need men for is to Celebrate Life with. So the 'trick' to getting women is, and has always been, learning how to trigger emotions. When you trigger emotions in people, they will automatically become attracted to you. Even if you logically do not make sense for them from an 'ideal list'. You may have noticed how so many '…	/r/seduction	10/05/25 03:13 PM
0	How do you guys cope? Hot girls tend to have hot friends. Keep things platonic with her but find a way of getting invited to get togethers where she has friends to play with..	/r/seduction	27/06/24 06:31 PM
0	Can an average man have chances with a higher-status woman? Of course he can. Traditionally, women with a higher status (even if it's just looks) would date dudes who were working their way up the ladder. I mean if you're in Uni or Trade School or just got your first job as an intern for an Investment Company, your status can be low at the time. But if you're invested in yourself to succeed, you can get the girls of higher value. If it doesn't look like you have ambition or a path in life, don't expect much though. I mean, if you're just living in mom's …	/r/seduction	08/02/24 04:38 AM
-2	This is how I make getting rejected extremely easy 'The title isnt how to get rejected easily.' The title is 'This is how I make getting rejected extremely easy'. Which sounds like you're trying to figure out solutions for failure, rather than focusing on how to be far more successful. Gotta understand that we get what we focus on the most. And if you're trying to give failure a soft landing, you're going to keep failing. Focus all your attention on success. You'll find that it becomes inevitable if that's what you're driving towards...	/r/seduction	16/12/23 08:42 PM
1	This is how I make getting rejected extremely easy Ya, I have no problem with asking questions, but yes/no questions aren't ideal if you're trying to ask her out. 'Would you like to go grab some coffee with me?' is a yes/no question and often, 'no' will feel like the politer answer for her. However, something like, 'Hey, I'm heading over to Starbucks for coffee. You should come...' That's not asking her. It's making a statement of what you have planned and you're inviting her. Very low risk. And frankly, if she does try to give a 'no' to it or j…	/r/seduction	16/12/23 08:19 PM
-1	This is how I make getting rejected extremely easy Fair enough. But even your OP Title is about how to get rejected easily. Why would you be focused on that instead of focusing on being successful with women?	/r/seduction	16/12/23 07:37 PM
27	This is how I make getting rejected extremely easy 'Girls love it when you're direct.' Sure. But when you say, "Hey, you look tired. I'd love to sleep with you", she's going to take it as a joke to break the ice and start a conversation our of it. She knows that you do have some intention of wanting to sleep with her at one point, and that' good. But she's not expecting you guys to sleep together immediately. Like after you've said that from a cold approach, I'm going to wager that her immediate response isn't taking her clothes off and banging …	/r/seduction	16/12/23 05:43 PM
55	This is how I make getting rejected extremely easy I think it's a good mindset if you're expecting to fail. But why not work a little more on your intro so that you start succeeding? "Hey you look cute. Would you like to have a drink sometime? That's way too direct and way to fast. Get a real conversation with her first. Get some innocent touches in, get some flirty back and forths, skip the yes/no questions, etc. I get it that you want to have a parachute so that you can safely survive if the plane is going to crash. But why not focus more on l…	/r/seduction	16/12/23 04:37 PM