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SupermarketStraight9/r/RedPillWomen24/09/23 04:58 AM
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ADVICESupermarketStraight9/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 03:53 PM
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You cant say you want women with low body counts and then go and create women with high body counts. Plus he already knew what my body count was and i knew what his was, he said it was over 50 but hes lost count. He wasnt an unattractive guy and was very tall so i doubt he had a hard to having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 07:58 PM
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they are. i’ve literally met a guy who told me that he wants a girl with a low body count and seen him liking posts relating to this. but as soon as things didn’t work out between us, he said he wants to hook up. and before me all he did was hook up. also i think a lot of men today claim they want a girl who isn’t promiscuous and who doesn’t hook up but those arent the women they approach or the women they keep around, cause the women they claim they want won’t have sex with them easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:40 PM
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then why do they only pursue those women ? it gives mixed signals to women leading to believe what the op is talking about, that men say they want one thing but their actions show different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:33 PM
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everything else was fine and helpful, maybe not all of it can be used by me and maybe for some other girl with a similar situation. but telling me what i meant or said and what my intentions are, wasn’t helpful. but the advice got out either way, so thanks for that.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 10:29 PM
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Thanks for your comment, really. Like i believe you made some really good point but i also think i have a lot of work to do on my mindset since i have a hard time believing that a guy would want to commit to me, to the point where even changing my mindset to believe that is scary. But maybe one day I’ll get there. Thanks again !! :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 08:53 PM
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You literally compared the two in your previous comment: i didnt compare the two. I literally never said that I should keep having sex with them cause it’s like buying them things or cooking for them. I said “ This also just sounds like I should do more of what I was doing before INSTEAD of giving them sex, like they asked for, i should just cook for them or buy them things.” YOU interpreted it like i compared the two. It’s coming from your repeated use of “but what if’s”. it just seems like you…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 08:45 PM
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Giving sex is not the same thing as giving your time, effort, and care. never said this. Never once did i say this. I didnt even mean that second comment as anything so i dont know why you seem to be taking that personally. I literally just said it to say it. never said there was anything wrong with the suggestions of what i should do, just an observation. If you are unwilling to change your behavior, then I’m not sure how we can be of much help to you. And theres been so many times where I said…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 04:37 AM
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Plus my question of how do i find men that actually like me is still valid If youre going to bring up my previous posts about categories, since again, i am clearly going after guys who dont actually like me (cat 2) so how do i find guys who actually will like me (cat 3 and 4). So im really not sure why you brought up me thinking theres something wrong with every man i meet, somethig i never said, but you guys have been the ones telling me that they’re LV and that i basically shouldn’t have given…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 04:27 AM
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I would say addressing your anxiety issues would be something to work on. If you are not enjoying the dating process because your anxiety is getting in the way Part of the internal work that Ive been doing since like 2020 is working on my anxiety, Ive been to therapy and done reflection. The dating process is annoying and anxiety inducing cause theres nothing a guy has done that doesnt cause me to question their feelings for me at the very beginning. Which i addressed. The frutherest I’ve gotten…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 04:16 AM
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Just pull back. If they really are interested, they won’t let you disappear that easily. And if they aren’t, they’ll just leave it there. Okay but then how do i find guys that are really interest? I feel like the more i hear this, the more i just feel like i wont find it. Ive clearly never met a guy who’s interested in me. I feel like im just being told to leave them alone, which i get why and all, trust me, but then what? Does it make guys like me? Does it make the guys who would be interested …
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 01:32 AM
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You are afraid to do the things that will create an emotional bond between you and the men you date, and the things that will make him start to care for you and want to invest in you himself, because you fear you will look too eager. What happen to not being able to negotiate attraction? This also just sounds like I should do more of what I was doing before but instead of giving them sex, like they asked for, i should just cook for them or buy them things.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 01:23 AM
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takes away the magic of the early days where things are SUPPOSED to be kind of ambiguous and nerve-wracking. would hardly call it magic, more so just anxiety. why would you choose to invest if they have done something that is unsatisfactory to you? I have anxiety, i tend to think worse case scenario in the first place. So instead of just going with that since I am aware that it may just be my anxiety, I decide to actually talk about it and get there answer, instead of running with whatever my mi…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 01:15 AM
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i usually do try to assume they’re just quirks that’s why i would like to find out why they do it and talk to them about it, but it does raise some questions for me of whether it’s just a quirk or something else (like they don’t like me! lol). but i do understand your point of it seeming accusatory. i’ll try my best to find a way to communicate what i’m thinking without accusing them anything, cause things like pushing time back isn’t a total deal breaker but i believe it might be something that…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 08:33 PM
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again i am here for a reason…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 08:04 PM
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i’ve tried talking it over with friends, they say nothing is wrong with me. so i’m here. i’ve been working on my self internally for years, just don’t know everything.
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 07:58 PM
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well he told me it was going to take some time for him to heal from a previous relationship he was in for two years, said it was toxic. that was a few months into our first year at college and he wasn’t from the state, so it must’ve been back home for him. found that he dated some girl at the beginning of the school year, through a friend of a friend, that he supposedly cheated on. didn’t know who to believe cause his ex wasn’t the most sane person (even my friends thought so). he probably would…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 07:53 PM
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i mean i did say this in another comment but i’ve had a guy hide things from me, maybe they’ll tell me something’s but not everything even though it would actually be important. i’ve had a guy push back the time they were supposed to meet me, a few times to where i finally addressed it. there was a guy who would stand me up, not all the time and was pretty good at showing up when he said would at first so when he did it the first time i didn’t say anything but then he texted the next day like no…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 04:24 PM
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thank you for your comment it was really helpful, i’ll definitely start trying to practice!
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 03:21 PM
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i don’t think you’re really getting it. none of them know each other or my friends, i meet them first and they meet me first. I don’t volunteer any information so there is no way for them to know anything about my “reputation” unless they just ask. i never thought that lying would be the right thing so i just never did it. i really don’t like how people on this sub just attack my character, who i am and what i do with out any information. everything you’ve said is simply and assumption that is j…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 03:14 PM
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i honestly don’t know why you’re being so rude. I do address what is actually going wrong. I only address my boundaries once they’ve been crossed. it seems you didn’t read any of my other comments cause if you had then you’d see that i will do this after they’ve done something. the thing is that i try to not take it personally and will ask if there’s some other reason they’ve done this, i just tell them how what they’re doing is making me feel and what it looks like to me. I don’t think it has t…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 03:05 PM
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Also I feel like my way of showing that I am willing to invest something is that im actually willing to talk about things and communicate, instead of just up and leaving the first time they do something that I dont think. Which is what I believed I was doing when I would talk to them and tell them that I feel like they dont like me because they do xyz. basically my goal is to let them know that i don’t necessarily want to stop talking to them and that im willing to let it go if it whatever they …
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 11:02 AM
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You make a small and relatively risk-free investment in a man you have been seeing for a few dates, and that signals to him that you are interested, willing to invest in him, and have all the good RMV traits like a nurturing spirit, generosity, femininity, etc. But what actions would give them this impression? Cause I’ve read the post about incremental reciprocation, but the only example given was cooking. I find this one to be hard for me to do since I still live with my mom and most of the tim…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 10:48 AM
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Well, I’ve tried this before as well actually. the issue is once they find out that I’ve had sex with other men before a relationship, they just dont want to wait at all. I have had a guy tell me thats it’s basically unfair to make them wait now or ask me why they should and I’ve heard almost the same thing happen to another one of my friends (but she was actually a virgin and he did wait). And a post that one of the endorsed contributors suggested to me (since i do read them) basically highligh…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 10:25 AM
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I’ve looked at the post you linked and thank you for taking the time to write a comment. But again, I just dont see any of these as being things that I’m not doing. I focus on my SMV and being attractive, I have a nice style, I style my hair everyday (to match the outfit if necessary), I wear little makeup everyday, make sure I smell good. And these are all specific things that they’ve complimented me on. Usually theres a conversation where i bring up that I feel they don’t really like me and us…
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/23 01:48 PM
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What if they do both, the guy who stood me up would still take me out on dates. The guys who didnt really get to know me before sex would still try to some extent to get to know me even if it wasnt long (asking me about my hobbies, interests, goals, etc). So would they still be considered category 2 despite this? If not then also, reading you first post, i still believe that i do all of these things and can think of specific times where i can answer yes to all of those questions (a majority of t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 12:19 AM
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This still isnt answer my question of what i might be doing wrong that no guy wants a commitment. Ive checked the wiki and all the posts about RMV, there doesnt seem to be one of the tings on those lists that im not doing.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 10:24 PM
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Okay but if any girl can be supportive, or show admiration for their hard work, or give them words on encouragement or advice when their struggling (which is what I’ve done and i know other girls can do as well), what else can i do? Cause the way i see it is that any girl can still do all of thing people who have a high RMV can do, so how exactly do i or how possible is it stand out if thats the case?
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 10:10 PM
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I do believe i got the catorgories mixed up and have been probably dealing with mainly category 3 then. But if you claim there are signs that the men I’ve dealt with are category 2 then my issue with that is what is putting them in that category? Because if it is physical attraction then that wouldnt be the case, most have either been below me, on the same level or slightly above if i am being honest. If its not physical attraction then i guess they would still be considered category 2 for what …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 10:03 PM
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Ive read the wiki and those posts, but i dont have hope that much will change even after reading them because i dont seem to offer more than just sex based on my results and not being sure where im going wrong. Also, as i was reading the how/when to become intimate post, i noticed that im attracted to category 3 men and sometimes category 2 but after reading the post linked in this one about sluts, I realize that i am one. Because im about to be 20 soon so this has all been within the last year …
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 05:56 PM
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You say its because they were never interested in that and were only looking for sex, which is sort of what my question was about, whether a guy has to actually want a LTR or if its only up to me to show that im LTR material. Cause if it depends on if they actually want a LTR then i am aware that issue might be that im just not vetting for the guys who want a LTR. I just want to make that clear, because the tone was coming off as condescending and almost rude as though I couldn’t understand this…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/23 05:03 PM
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