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| 3 | Why are women always so quick to advocate divorce?If you were part of a contract where you could opt out and be better for it, wouldn't you? It is unfortunate, but... the divorce laws financially favor women. While we might live in a society where we want equality (i.e., equal pay for equal work, etc.), the family and divorce courts are VERY unequal. Women are statistically more likely to get the kids, house, alimony, child support, etc., and no longer have to deal with the "abusive" or otherwise lacking husband. And women know, a man with fewe… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Why did you get married in the first place?Women don’t propose generally. But they do foster the environment for it. Ultimately, men have agency to say yes or no. And each decision has its own costs and consequences. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/25 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Why did you get married in the first place?You lose on every trade-in. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/25 04:44 AM |
| 11 | Why did you get married in the first place?Women generally want something more out of relationships; good sex and a fun guy are great. But without some kind of contract, the guy can trade out when a hotter younger model comes along. The clock ⏰ is always ticking even as women get older. And women judge each other for not being married adding pressure to lock someone down. Marriage is like owning a tiger. People who own one say everyone should. What we don’t see are all the mauled marks and destroyed homes just the love of the tiger. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/25 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Your wake up call.Society and the legal system are incentivizing bad behavior in women. Men act badly, too, especially if they are well-resourced and/or immature. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/02/25 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Partner of 15 years and wife of 6 filed for divorce out of nowhere without even a discussion.It is more insidious. Imagine the Matrix: give the woman a red pill and show her how the entire system is rigged in her favor. She discovers new, unknown superpowers: near impunity, almost absolute believability, near endless sympathy and support, etc. The angels of our better nature don't always win. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/25 07:22 AM |
| 4 | Partner of 15 years and wife of 6 filed for divorce out of nowhere without even a discussion.Unfortunately, this is common among those getting advanced degrees, PhD, law degree, or MD. I have personally seen it. It is not becoming more liberal as much as seeing a lot more of the world and knowledge. I remember a woman who learned how women profited from divorce during her PhD in Human Resource Management. That changed her view of marriage and commitment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/02/25 02:54 AM |
| -2 | Are unattractive men doomed to be the beta provider?Or in cuckold relationships... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/25 02:40 AM |
| 9 | Ex-wife friend reaches out to me with this belowSay thank you. Move on. Not worth the potential drama. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/25 10:36 PM |
| 2 | When to throw in the towel?It is not when you go to counseling as if you both are a) giving the counseling 100% and b) committed to the relationship. Most people go to counseling like being dragged to a beating; kicking and screaming. So no, that's rarely going to work. And if you both don't get at the resentment, it is pretty much a lost cause. Like the comment from u/zvekl, the barber is right. That being said, do you want to say you did everything to save the marriage until it was not salvageable? I think of marriage a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/25 02:08 AM |
| 5 | She PlottedNot fighting is WORSE than fighting. If your girl is not fighting, she really doesn’t care anymore. She is just going along until she finds the right time to get off this ride. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 03:04 PM |
| 9 | She PlottedAmen. Excellence for yourself is the goal, constantly improving yourself. This is why girlfriends want to lock you down. We men forget that and wife them up and stop striving for personal excellence. The wives wake up on day and don’t recognize or respect what we become. We set ourselves on fire to keep them warm. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/25 02:59 PM |
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