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| 2 | She slept with another guy quickly, but is taking things slower with me. How should I interpret that?Get laid. Please. Too much mind. ( Google last samurai) | /r/seduction | 18/06/26 03:21 PM |
| 1 | What’s it like flying women out to your city to see you?I agree with the Maui point. Any woman worth of a ticket to Maui is worth that you fly to her for a platonic meet and greet. I put this level of spending as something only ladies rated 10/10 with good personality and zero red flags. PS: all Men are suckers one way or another. | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 10:50 PM |
| 10 | What’s it like flying women out to your city to see you?Greetings. When a lady trust me enough to give me her personal data so that i can book her a flight to visit my town, odds are she has already set her mind into having intimacy with me. This observation applies to vanilla dating, sugar dating and scorting deals. Women are scared of giving personal data and even more scared to fly to another town to meet a man for the First time. If you managed to break these walls If safety, assume she desires you as much as you desire her. About money : value i… | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Stop type-casting women!Wise words indeed . A friend went to bed with a girl full of piercings and tatoos. Turns out she was sweet , enjoyed looking into his eyes after the deed while using her fingers over his head. His next mark was a 10/10 blond, one inch higher than my friend. He was expecting an arrogant lady that behave in bed like a dead piece of Stone. Turned out was a friendly, opening girl capable of casually ask for services one would be afraid to perform on a corn star . | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Getting ditched by girls at barsYou sound Very sucessful for your age. Eye contact ( Very important!!), talking, touching, dancing, making out. All of it suggests that you perceived by girls as a potential partner. But remember she has 100+ messages to respond on the dating app. You are a 7-8 and she is looking for a 9-10 among the myriad of males orbiting her. Up your game. Hit the gym more, earn more money. Do your best to be funny and do not make her see How desperate you are for intimacy. I look back at my pictures in my 2… | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 09:45 AM |
| -2 | He said he would wingman but he fucked her instead?Bros before hoes. No betrayal here. She seduced your friend leaving no alternative to him but to stay yes when she asked him to Go to the bathroom for some Backdoor activity. We know you would do the same If roles were reversed. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 10:44 AM |
| -2 | The #1 Red Flag That Turns a Pretty Girl Into a NightmareHow i handle my sugar baby. Complete PSE?! Full agreement payment plus bonus Anything below top services?! I tip her something and say things are hard in my work. Then i disappear for 3 weeks saying i am busy working. I am having full PSE everytime now. Men are simple beings. So are women. This strategy works on other type of relationships. I give my best always; be It money or intimacy, there is no desire from my female partner that i do not do my upmost to deliver. I expect the same level of t… | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal going on dates with women who want to settle down when I dont?This is golden advice rarely seen here. | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 11:35 AM |
| 1 | I wanna dieThis is the best post on those sub since i joined. I will try my best. Forget about chics. Take a deep breath and look at the big picture, guide to Galaxy style. If you look at your existence, can you imagine yourself at the height of your existence. In money, health and self awareness?! I was at the peake of my depression at 25y. Then my father passed away and i became the family provider. At 28y i was at the Golden age of my dick. Money, handsome.ane confident. | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 12:41 AM |
| 3 | I'm not sure if I'm just a pussyI regret every girl i wanted to kiss and didnt kissed. I do regret any girl i did not wanted to kiss. Trust your make instincts on the subject. | /r/seduction | 19/09/25 12:05 AM |
| 5 | I sent a message, but the girl just liked it and didn't respond, what should I do?Its Just a message on Instagram. Unless you somehow managed to turn the "thank you for coming" into "i would like to get to know you better", she doesnt have Much to reply anyway. Either do nothing (99%) or go for the "i found you an interesting person and look foward to meet you again" | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 06:59 PM |
| 8 | Why some men are "romantically invisible" to women?Men below 6 are considered "not people" by women. There is an infographic by Hoemath picturing how sexual partners are selected in western societies. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 12:35 PM |
| 11 | At what age did you find yourself pulling the most women?28 with a medical degree in a small town | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Can you pull 9s and 10s while you are 6 or 7?The woman i loved most of time i spent on this planet was a 10. And she wasnt Crazy. But she only wanted me when i was not available for her. And the bed action was 3/10. We treated each other like just another person in our lives. Like someone Said above, treat a 10 like she is a 6 and her ego will react. This insecure behavior hurted us both in the end. I was at the peak of my game at the time And she was beyond beautiful. But we never opened our hearts to each other and feared being used by t… | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 10:25 PM |
| 8 | Single men, what drastically improved your sex life?Nothing too special about it. I was 28y. Fit. Wealthy. Single. And had a high social status as the new single doctor. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 07:57 PM |
| 9 | Single men, what drastically improved your sex life?Moving to a small town with a medical degree. Best time of my life ever. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | I match with apparently every Ukrainian/Russian girl in the North East, is it because my profile gives sucker energy?Dating is a game with objectives. Maybe you are dating looking for one thing and the girls are looking for another thing. Not so sure about Russians, but Ukrainians in my continent are looking for husbands. They are so hot they can get sex anytime they want without need to look for. They have 1000s of matches. And pick up the potencial long term partners among the dick buffet dating app offers them. My advice is to reign in your desire to lay with a beauty and be open and honest about your inten… | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What women actually swipe on (the truth from 1,000+ matches)Wise advice here. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 08/05/25 12:04 PM |
| 2 | She's a "10" but she doesn't suck D and hard to satisfy in bed. | She's a "6" easy to please, but prefers pleasing you. Which one you keeping?Nothing beats having a girl that feels pleasure by your side and enjoys giving you pleasure | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Those who slept with married or taken women, what patterns did you recognise?The Pattern was that they Saw me as a finantial upgrade over their husbands. | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 12:49 AM |
| 0 | liberal vs conservative states for day game, which do you prefer?I like Randian Heroines. Women that work and do not blame Men. If they follow the Ayn Rand's novels to the letter being slim, blond and high libido, all the better. | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 10:57 AM |
| 2 | 3 Texting methods that consistently get me laidBest post i have seen here in a long while. Please share more wisdom. | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 05:21 PM |
| 4 | A girl I banged in LATAM just asked me to buy her shoes as a giftEverything is normal behavior. Just try to set things up so that It leads to more sex. Ideally she comesse to your place first, you have sex then Go to find the gift she wants. | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you “seduce” women when you’re an obese autistic virgin in your thirties?You dont. You get in shape or try to find some drunk 3s | /r/seduction | 01/02/25 11:01 PM |
| 0 | How do i approach girls at the gym ?You dont. At least here in Brazil is not viewed as a positive behavior. The " correct" approach is to locate her Instagram and send a DM . And only do that to those that showed interest in You. | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameIt means that unless you manage eye contact with good reaction, your chances in cold approaching a 10/10 alone by choice are smaller than slim to none. Words are violence, break the silence. Value your time and learn how to read a good reaction on eye contact. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameI friend of Mine that married indo his late forties teached me that If you see a stunning woman Aline i a big city, she is Aline by choice. Big red flag a stunning woman that says she is not single and gives you her number. Good luck and good fk. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 08:46 PM |
| 11 | Why will women suddenly turn their backs on you?Pay attention to body language. Always. And dont waste your time on woman 'whose body language isnt signaling they are interested. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 08:36 PM |
| 7 | Have you ever regretted going for the kissGo for the kiss. Worst you can get us a sexual assault charge. So bê sure to make proper signaling before moving in. Left eye, lips , right eye, lips, slightly open your lips then Bite then. Then back to hear eyes and move in. I have a long list of regrets ftr not going for the kiss. Never have i regreted not trying. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house?I am Willing to help your case If you explaim It better. Kissing is intimacy. Inviting someone you had intimacy with to your house will increase this intimacy to " we got to have sex" levels of Desire. Which is good and healthy for your brains. Ideally sex goes better with both partners relaxed and horny. If you are afraid you will get nervous instead of relaxed, better to try something else, like an outdoor activity. You will both relax, get confortable with each other , maybe even Kiss and tou… | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 11:39 AM |
| 1 | How many dates you should wait before sleeping with a guy?People that feel attracted to each other and emotional connection usually improve their relationship after having sex 3-5 times. People that are meant to each other, so called soul mates experience transcendental orgasms during these outings. Its OK to bem nervous and have a not a so good sex at the first time together, that IS why i Said after having sex 3-5 times. People really mutually attracted and that feel mutual connection do not ghost after sex. If you are afraid of being ghosted after s… | /r/seduction | 26/04/24 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Are b*tch shields and sh*t tests really a thing?Wise words. I whole agree with your text. Females select. Males are selected. Despite is evident on he first instances of interaction. No chemistry, move along, look elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 02:05 PM |
| 5 | How do you escalate and stay out of the friendzone.At 30, tall and paying your bills you should be at the Golden age of your Dick. Female select, males are selected. In all species, most females pick males from their genetic pool. So even a top male will find limited results If he looks for females of another race. So forget about " If i do this, i will get laid" mindset. There is no such thing. No move you do can make a girl not attracted to you to change her mind. What you can and should do ia learn How to detect the subtle signs of interest o… | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 11:38 AM |
| 23 | A confident guy shows all the signs that he likes me, but he doesn't call me out on a dateIf he is male and you are female co worker there quite a good chance he will never ask you out for fear. In Brazil we say : " this boy is too slow" meaning he is more afraid of a harassement case than of being without a girl to sleep with. So ask yourself what your intentions are and set a trap for him at your place , like ask him to move help move furniture around at Friday night. Sorry, woman made the rules , some guys Just follow. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 12:15 AM |
| 8 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzoneIt takes two to play this game of atraction. If A woman does not signal interest in the first 48h, move ahead. Always kiss her (If you can get away with It) Always confess your feelings. Always move away after rejection. Friendzone is worst than death. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 12:07 AM |
| 81 | Some uncomfortable truths about the friendzoneLived 50 years. Every woman i managed to sleep with showed her desire/interest for me over the first 48h of contact. Friendzone is a fate worst than death. A woman must respect you. If she doesnt, she has no place in your life, at all. Move along, Go to gym , work hard and earn money. All.of these are better dating advice than trying to seduce a girl that has friendzoned you. | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Where to find high value queer women?I will stop It when facts change. https://mainweb-v.musc.edu/vawprevention/lesbianrx/factsheet.shtml About 17-45% of lesbians report having been the victim of a least one act of physical violence perpetrated by a lesbian partner (1,5,6,13). Types of physical abuse named by more than 10% of participants in one study included: Disrupting other�s eating or sleeping habits Pushing or shoving, driving recklessly to punish, and slapping, kicking, hitting, or biting (11). Sexual abuse by a woman partne… | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 05:08 PM |
| -4 | Where to find high value queer women?Lesbian woman face pretty much the same issues as man, but dealing with even crazier woman. Domestic violence and divorce rates are higher among lesbian than among straight couples or gay men . So i will give you the same dating advice i give to my male friends. Make a list of things you want from your partner and you will not settle for less. The list goes like this: Is she crazy? Now do the list of things you must offer to your partner: Am I crazy? You wont believe me How much pain and stress … | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Crush On My Best FriendThis is gold advice. Get away from this girl, forever, as soon as possible and without any notice and explanation. If she , and only she asks why, be sucint about it: because i dont like you as friend and its not right for you to be around a Guy that Only thinks about sleeping with you Just as its not right for me to pretend i am just a friend to a woman i actually dream and night of f her brains out. | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 10:58 PM |
| 4 | I made out with a girl at the disco, but discovered she’s 21At 21 she is close the upper limit of the golden age in girls . A few more months and she will either get married or have such a high body that she becomes broken . No matter the age of the Man, having the chance to date a 21y woman is a golden opportunity. Treat her well emotionally and sexually. In the best case scenario, love of your life, on the worst, one of the finest asses you will enjoy and remember. | /r/seduction | 14/09/23 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudesBrazil | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 12:12 AM |
| 27 | Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudesIn my country 100 dollars is one hour in heaven with a 9. Do not feel sad about her. Do not pity her. You can not change her. You can not help her. You deserve better. PS: next time escalate things toward sex instead of getting drunk. | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 07:29 PM |
| 23 | "Work on yourself bro" is actually bad advice for young dudesNot sure If logic works on this subject. When i was a young man i had strong emotions from the head from above and raw desires from the head from below. If anything, i blame my father for not guiding me along that road of suffering. I promise myself to be present when my kids get there | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 11:13 AM |
| 4 | Normal eye contact vs a eye contact from a girl that’s interested?If you can gauge pupils , you are either too close or dating only women with light colorado big eyes. ( Lucky you!) Good luck gauging pupils from dark eyed women in general, or worst, with asian ancestors. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | When to say you don’t want a relationship with her?I say fuck her. There is non zero chance you both will enjoy it. There is also a non zero chance you both want more sex afterwards. Let us drop this facade that you must be in a long term relationship to enjoy sex. Let us also drop this facade that we are not subject to passion and love at any moment of our lifes, from the most unlikely partners | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 01:34 PM |
| – | I can't fathom a women being attracted to meI AM sorry to break your delusions. There is one thing girls rate lower than ugly short man: Guys that cant give them orgasms. Be a good laid and you will find your place in the world. Of course being rich, fit, smart and funny also helps. Better yet If this comes with a properly sized dick. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | drug abuse gets you laid. Has anyone noticed this?Its easy when you are Big in Japan. This music aged quite well. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | what would you say after a hookup to ensure she'll let you sleep the night at her place?Even at 48y i can totally imagine myself handling 2h between foreplay, oral , vaginal, anal foreplay and anal. The trick is to give her some breathing room between her orgasms . Having a sex chair to move her while you are seating or laying low helps save stamina . That and changing positions can make things last enough for her to pass out. When i hire a scort i have to rush things or be ready to pay for 2h instead of just one hour. Sex is too important to be done quickly. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | what would you say after a hookup to ensure she'll let you sleep the night at her place?I kindly ask you to share this tale on r/gonewildstories | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 12:31 AM |
| 6 | how to get over oneitis?The problem with imaginary people is that they are perfect. So one must actively forget them. Delete everything, even the music you enjoyed together. Never go back to the places you shared. Only way to forget an old love IS to get a New love. That or scorts/sugar babies/ hookers. Trust me on this, professionals have more muscles in their vaginas and they know How to use them better than any imaginary girl. And certainly do not watch porn with actress that resemble her. Been there done that. Hint… | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 09:20 PM |
| 110 | what would you say after a hookup to ensure she'll let you sleep the night at her place?You are supposed to dick her down on the first time. Like, display so much stamina and passion that you both collapse and make the sleeping at her place question moot. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Face and body dysmorphiaMost of your advice is golden. But i do not believe people can overcome low self steem without understanding How they become what they are and forgiving themselfs. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | [Field report ] Girl told me she’d call me if she wanted to be eaten outJust remember to take medicine to prevent chlaMidia and gonorhea. Maybe aciclovir to prevent herpes as well. | /r/seduction | 23/09/22 05:47 PM |
| 7 | [Vegas Clubbing Guide] How to get in for free part 2I thinks most redditors would care greatly about getting any girl anywhere. And most certainly at Vegas clubs | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 05:47 PM |
| 4 | What’s your strategy when you’re trying to arrange a date but your schedule just doesn’t align with someone’s else’s?4k 120hz is the sweet spot for gaming. Because often you can play at 1080p 120hz on the titles your gpu cant handle 4k. 1440p 120hz is probably better than 4k 60hz for most games. Anything above 120hz is mostly marketing gimmick, unless we are talking professional e-sports, but then again these guys play ultra low settings 720p vsync off. If you really wanna brag about refresh rate, 1440 240hz IS the only upgrade i would consider for a 1440120hz monitor. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Using touch to say helloWhat is expected behaviour in some cultures is sexual innuendo in others. Both sides should be aware of the cultural gaps when It comes to personal space and social touching. My 8y son kisses everyone he meets on the cheeks, my 14y girl doesnt extend her hand to cumpliment. Both are socially accepted behaviours in my culture, since both have autism. When in doubt, ask locals. My culture is (in)famous for over sexuality. But as a Brazilian i do not touch to say hello. At all. But i do long hugs t… | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Getting the contacts over a third personI think Instagram tagging without messaging isnt weird If done properly. A common friend posts the photo and tags her and you. Voilà, she will know your name and you will know hers. No private messages, instead, drop a comment that you looking forward to meet everyone again. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 10:52 PM |
| 33 | Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghostedI will add the magical mantra: You are not special. She is not special. Whatever pain you are feeling right now will mean less than nothing to you 10 years from now. Only one type of woman matters: the ones that want your dick inside them. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Women of seduction, what’s wrong with just saying no?Good luck juggling a girl after you dicked her down properly 3 times. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Women of seduction, what’s wrong with just saying no?In my country we even have a rule for this: Comeu três vezes tá fudido. If you fucked her 3 times, either you marry her or deal with a woman that has fallen in love. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Psychological Tricks To Get A Girl You Fucked Up WithNo means no. Life is too short to lose time with girls that dont wanna your dick inside them. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 03:54 PM |
| -1 | Date fails because of bad small talk (field report + question)I am sorry tô be the bringer of bad news, but we do not have unlimited hability to love. We do not have even the hability to feel attraction and desire for everyone. Sometimes a boy and girl go on a date, but despite the rational part of their brains telling them to swipe right, the gene selection did not matched. One or both of them will not feel attracted, and no amount of game can save the date. Sometimes the earth doesnt move. And we instinctively recognize this scenario and the date goes so… | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 08:02 PM |
| 2 | You’re scared to approach the woman you like because you think she’s better than youYou are right on the diagnostic. Not sure about the cure. All one need to do is like whom you become. And for that all you need is to forgive yourself. I spent my teens being bullied and diving into self loathing. At 18y i had the highest grades among all high School kids in my state, i was the Second best chess player in country below 18y , in my pictures i was fit with sumo legs from running. My mile time was below 6 minutes. I was literally an Adonis, but with the mindset of a bullied kid. I … | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Not sure how to shoot my shot at this girl in my gymI would add a suggestion a lady shared here on reddit: at the gym, any approach must be careful not to feel creepy. If you go for a cumpliment, do not praise the body, but something else, like nails glasses purses etc. She will get you are praising something else . | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | 21 yo virgin w/bpdTherapy will help you more than medication then. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:36 PM |
| 1 | 5 days later she hits me up after I let her go but...As long as you sure you dont wanna fuck her, she can be your friend. Having a network greatly increases your chances of getting laid. Friendzone is a fate worst than death. Never allow girls you wanna fuck to become your friends. It will waste your time and hers. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | 21 yo virgin w/bpdI think the most important thing is being aware of the mental issues and then deal with it accordingly. You will not learn how to have a good sex life without learning How to have a good relationship. Bipolars are one of the few mental conditions were medication truly improves quality of life. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:00 PM |
| 30 | Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention.Simply amazing statement. Works both ways. In mye 20s i was cornered into bed twice by regular girls that i didnt felt attraction and the earth didnt move. They were not ugly, fat ir smelled bad. They just were not my type but were so clueless that decided that going full kabedon would change things. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned.I understand your point, maybe i should clarify mine: when i said "our brains are not wired like that" , i was not talking about men's brains only. I was talking about female brains as well. Of course any given individual is free to decide to delay the timing of sex with a given new partner. My point is that the chemical rules of desire, passion and love on our species may not work that way, at all. If arousal stimulus that are born with partner interaction are not given a venue for release, not… | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:45 PM |
| -3 | Unpopular opinion: most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex. We just feel immense amount of pressure to make moves on dates because we don't want to be friendzoned.I do not think our brains are wired to that behaviour. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:30 AM |
| 2 | I pretty much only get a chance at fat women online. How do I upgrade?OLD should not be your primary source of pussy. Social networking is a safer bet. Invest in yourself. You are dealing with better looks. Do not forgot to deal with work and social standings. | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | People I find attractive are the ones that are never attracted to me... ?Invest in yourself first and foremost. That will make you more attractive. Even If you are fishing outside your genetic pool. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | How to not make my virginity a negative?Actually there might be pain and bleeding If he is uncut. But back to subject. If things escalate, and you should make things escalate, eventually you will tell her. Like: please let me eat you more. I am a virgin and you are so hot i will not last as long as i wish to. Meaning, yes, you got to give her a few orgasms before doing the deed. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | How to pick up enviromental activist chicksJust Don't! | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 07:19 PM |
| 1 | 7 tips on how you can confidently approach group of girls!I agree. But at least concede that OP has a point in 6 and 7. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | eye contact using winking for a flirty vibe?I agree with the lady. Actually, checking out then smile is universal. Winking just adds to the ritual. Its not required and can prompt blushing and run away reactions. Be quick at it. She is checking you out. You notice. You blink at her . She smiles and breaks eye contact. Do not keep staring. Stay cool, stay casual, approach and introduce yourself like its the most normal thing in the world. That pussy is already yours, do not scare her away. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop imagining my entire life with a girl I know online? My ex girlfriend introduced her to me and we've only been interacting on social mediaPeople that live inside our heads are perfect. That IS why we should kill them there asap. Dont tell her about what is happening. Its not her fault and there is nothing she can do about it. Stay away from Facebook and only deal with real people. Do not watch porn with actress that resemble her. She will live inside your head until you find another love. travelling there and meet her in person will not cure you , Unless you managed to actually live close to her for many hours everyday until the r… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:49 PM |
| 5 | Why are women so confusing?I sense that at least one heart will end up broken on this tale. Maybe she realized you are not what she wants. Maybe there is a misunderstanding of your feelings for each other. In any case you have an impossible mission ahead of you: you must expose your heart to a woman that does not want to see you. There is a non zero chance that she is or soon will be fucking another dick and living the things you primed her to enjoy having in a relationship. When a girl asks for a break, things are alread… | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Going clubbing with a really fat guy? Will it hurt my chances?Please live. And get yourself a friend. Go out together and live your life. I will tell you a secret: Friends are few and far between. Never miss the chance to make one. Of all the pussies i enjoyed, only my wife will sing Shining on you Crazy diamonds on my funeral. But most of my friends will be there and carry me to my grave remembering the times we Go to the club together. I Don't remember the name of at least half the ladies i kissed before i got married. But every one of my friends remembe… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 01:59 PM |
| 3 | [REQUEST] Signs a girl likes you?The important thing to understand is that doing something about it is always better than doing nothing. People are perfect when they only live inside our heads. They dont age, they dont show us their imperfections. But people that live inside our heads are not real. Usually kissing, grabbing and fucking real people is more rewarding than let people live in our minds. That's how you avoid friendzone: you act at the very moment someone ia living inside your mind. They either become real, or you re… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 01:45 PM |
| 5 | [REQUEST] Signs a girl likes you?Greetings. Things are usually quite chaotic at that age. Usually talk about it its the best solution for adults. At your age, created a moment of laught and cheerness and drop the bomb. Telle her you like her and wanna know her better . She either runs ir stay. If she stays, dont ask, kiss her. If she runs, she will cê back with after a bath and make up and kabedon you into nirvana. There is a slim chance that you haver mistaken signs and she will act neutral and tell you so. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 01:28 PM |
| 0 | How to hook up with girls on vacation?I think you are on better grounds than me. 3-5 seconds, because sometimes girls are also clueless. Anyway, Its 5s tops. Any lock stare longer than that triggers instinct reactions. | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | How to hook up with girls on vacation?I understand english isnt you mother language. Its not mine either. When i said stare, what i really meant is that quick look at, then move your eyes away. This is the stare smile game. Never, ever, look at a girl for more than a couple of seconds. That will trigger predator-prey instinct reactions. Try to Google about capuchin monkeys predador prey stare. Your may find better sources than my next mansplaining. When a monkey is up a tree and a predator moves around, the monkey will stay quiet. B… | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 04:57 PM |
| 5 | How to hook up with girls on vacation?A girl tells you are hot. Smile. Look at her assets. Then tell with your best smile: YOU are hot. Then drop the line: when you feel like leaving this place, be sure to pick me up on your way out. I would really like to get to know you better somewhere more quiet. Have fun, enjoy the party and dont forget to get me on your way out. Trust me, this works on my country. But this kind of girl has DSTs more often than not. Telling you are hot to a guy is at least a "i wanna fuck you ". Girls looks at … | /r/seduction | 14/09/22 02:58 PM |
| 7 | Girl who used to like me way back in highschoolPeople that live in our Heads are perfect. People that we meet in our lives are not. You both are experiencing this. But you are grow ups. Get your shit fixed together. Call her to a lunch talk and say what is in your heart/ dick. Things left unsaid, issues left unresolved will just keep growing. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How to pull the guy I [21F] want without seeming desperate?Your got to walk before you can run. I think 21F is not too old to start It. And people dont start having a long relationship. They start by experimenting their sexuality in five minutes in heaven - a game my culture doesnt have b- ir in truth or dare, a game my culture has. All you have to do is be a female. Select a male, look at him. When he notices you looking, smile back. That works on any culture. I have seen it at work among south American natives, at korean dorama novels and at German ni… | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 02:11 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with very hot girls in online dating sites? 8.5+/10I would just add that anything too good to be true may not be true after all. Some of these girls aree bots or scams. And the OP might actually be rated higher than he thinks. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:39 PM |
| -1 | How to deal with very hot girls in online dating sites? 8.5+/10Golden advice that i had the chance to apply AFTER fucking a 9.5/10 yesterday. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | She forgot our date : should I reschedule ?Golden advice | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 12:41 PM |
| 17 | If the first text you sent to a girl was "nice meeting you, (her name)!" shortly after getting her number, and she didn't respond, would you send another text or just give up?Here we Go again. One funny and casual message every day for 3 days. Then I eat ass. Never fails | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Things I've learned about hooking up as an Indian guy in the US.Wise and hard words. I think anyone who let himself be defined by race, sexual orientation or gender is missing out on the chance to reach the best version of themselfs. I would love Ayn Rand's novels no matter her sex or race. Its the way she falls about ego, sex and freedom that turns me on. I am sure OP can have an indian girlfriend, as long as she does not reduce her self definition to her race/place If birth. OP: try black girls sometime. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 10:49 PM |
| 0 | How to get past the age problemGolden advice here. Its not about numbers, but frame of mind | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 09:09 AM |
| 6 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexNot every woman is up to every game every day. But you have to always offer your A game. And after you drained her of fluids, last as long as you manage during intercourse. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 09:23 PM |
| 0 | Is it worth having a girlfriend like this?I say you should have her as a girlfriend. A- you think she is hot. B- She has a lot of experience in giving and receiving pleasure. C- since she gets validation online, you can focus on improving your tongue/dick skills. D- best case you get a hot girlfriend, worst case, you learn not to Go only for looks. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 03:58 AM |
| 5 | What is your personal end goal when approaching women ?I want sex. That can take hours or weeks, but my end goal is not getting a friend. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Are some people missing a gene for this?You correct. In the past girls body counts were lower. But i said 21 century. After Tinder, the roles were reversed. Girls are deeply aware of the sexual side of their existence and boys are more emotional beings. Just take a look at reddit. Boys in existential Crysis and emotional suffering about the dating game are way more common than girls here. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Are some people missing a gene for this?Its called emotional inteligence. Pick up a 2y old boy and a 2 y old girl and show them photos of people. Ask them what emotions the faces are expressing. You will realize on average little girls at 2y are almost as effective as boys at 8y. Boys are born clueless about non verbal language signs. Later some boys will learn it faster than others. But even these lucky fellows have another problem: Girls body count grows much faster than boys. A 19f shared last month her tinder stats: 10+ body after… | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 06:33 PM |
| 5 | How to go from zero to hero in dating womenThat kind of money can get you a dozen of high quality prostitutes If you know were to look for in my country. Being honest can get you empathy. But also leaves you wide open to be abused by girls with personality disorders. Rule one of the dating game: Do not stick you d inside crazy. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 06:09 PM |
| 4 | Me: "Can I see you again?" Her: "You can come to my volleyball game"I think you should check her game. Worst case she introduces you to her friends. Volley girls have the most delicious booty | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 10:29 AM |
| 6 | Feeling defeatedSorry for not being specific. Males do not become fully functional socially until mid 20s. Its ok, normal and expected to have social issues at 19y. I know it hurts. I know it feels unfair. But that IS life. You are still growing into the man you will be. And the only way to be happy is that you like The man you will become. For that you must learn to forgive yourself. Including the mistakes you believe you made with the 2 chances you had to get laid. In the grand scheme of things those chances … | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 12:03 AM |
| 12 | Feeling defeatedGreetings. These rules i will tell will help you on all aspects of your life, not just losing virginity. Control your demons. Anger, sarcasm and vitriol will not get you anywhere. Never hold back on your feelings and desires. You like someone, tell her. Never hold anyone in your mind. Friendzone is a fate worst than death. You got a rejection, move on. Act. Do not plan. Do not overthink. Go for the kiss, dont ask for a kiss. Being safe is better than being insecure. This works for money, driving… | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 10:48 PM |
| 4 | Handle protective sidekickI would totally ignoree the fugly and proceed to fuck the cutie. Afterwards i would tell her the fugly told you she was married. But why did you fuck me anyway? Because unlike your Bff, i AM not jeaulous. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 01:06 PM |
| 5 | Handle protective sidekickOnly works If the ugly decoys are not lesbo stuck on the friendzone. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 01:03 PM |
| 4 | Handle protective sidekickA true Bff wont cockblock her friend's hookup by making up lies like she is married. Now a lesbo on the friendzone would do anything to keep her crush cockless. I have seen this happen way too many times. Cockblocking is not friends behaviour. Its friendzone behaviour. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Quick guide to hookeup with a girl at a clubStep 1 is golden advice. Eye contact is a brain wired ritual. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Holding a convo with this type of womanI think online chat is a rigged game on their own. You are expected to show that you are funny , smart and sexy. But you will be rejected at your attemps to write funny, smart ir sexy things, or ignored. Ignored is the best situation. The reddit solution is keep sending one short message every day for 3 days, and then use the last shot: I eat ass. Never fails. Personally i would go directly to the date . Hi, i am very happy that we matched. Feel free to ask me anything you wanna know about me. M… | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Always some girl has her eyes fixated on me, even when I look at her. When I approach her or say anything to her she start acting weird out and being rude.This is something my father and mother didnt teached me. I had to learn it at the late 20s. And i only found the animal behaviour model of this when i was 40. | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Girls are attracted to me but I’m not in the mood for flirting/hooking up. How should be my response?Tell her you have to focus one work, studies or sports. Promise that when you get back to her you makes sure her wait was worth it. Or something like that. The idea is to give out the impression that you are a man with a purpose in life, not a fuckboy. And when you get back to her, fuck her brains out. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 09:11 PM |
| 9 | 1st day of approaching ended in romantic make out at parkEven 10s get rejected. Especially when they type walls of text | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Can a short man be top 10%?Anyone can be 10%. Just have way above average social skills, way above average economic status and a way above average dick stamina and tongue skills. That's how you compensate being short. Way easier than getting laid while being fat. Now time to share a real life scenario. I have a couple of very close friends. He is 4 inches higher than me and she is 2 inches higher. My son is one year older than their daugther. My son is handsome, kind, funny and smart. His looks areso off the charts that w… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:15 PM |
| 8 | How do I stop taking it personally? (M21)No one is taking advantage of anyone. This is early 20s life. You are trying to understand yourself and your place in the universe, and so are the ladies you date. . Grow into whom you would like to become. There you will find your friends and place. And keep improving your sex expertise. A Man's best assets in bed are stamina and tongue skills. One day the woman of your dreams will be enjoying everything the ladies that are "taking advantage of you" helped you learn. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Am I too picky?Please understand that women select and men are selected. Maybe, just maybe, you are not nearly as Attractive to truly smart women than you think you are. Personality compatibility is more relevant than physical and mental attraction for sucessful long term relationships. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Learning from my failure(s)What a nice tale. My points: She picked you. You just was paying attention to the moment and act accordingly. You avoided goofy creepy lines and that kept her interest going. Part of your sucess is also due to yourself: you are trying to stay fit and have confidence. PS: now i AM jeaulous and i wanna "know better" an asian girl as well. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Always some girl has her eyes fixated on me, even when I look at her. When I approach her or say anything to her she start acting weird out and being rude.You noticed you are being stared at, short stare back , smile, she smiles back, move in with casual talk. Hi, i AM xxx and you are? Never enter long stare games. That triggers instinct responses that prey have when they realize the predator has found them. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 10:17 AM |
| 0 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.I think you have a point.i only used this stuff when i was in love with a girl one inch higher than me. She never noticed until we were in the shower after sex. Just Go to the Beach, and If She says anything, be honest: i really liked you and deep in my heart i was afraid my feelings wouldnt be reciprocated If i didnt resorted to that stuff. My darling, you know how a Man's brain behaves when he has strong feelings for a woman. Says this while eating her alive with your eyes. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | I had a few one night stands this year and realized I am a relationship guyAM i the only one who finds It weird OP gets blocked after "good sex"? If your being blocked after sex despite having a big dick, odds are you are not nearly as good as you think you are. Beware my fellow, in.my country we call these guys gigantes bobões. Dumb giants. A Quick point based rating for a male performance: Giving oral: - she doesnt asked, i dont need to give oral. -1 points -she had one orgasm 1 point -she 2+ orgasms and i kept going on and she had to push me away from her clit 2 poi… | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 10:11 AM |
| 14 | hair flick behind the ear.Eye contact, Smile: she wants you. Approach and say hi i am xxxx. Be casual. Eye contact, fidgets hair, she wants you a lot and she wants you to allow her to be shy about it . Approach, say hi AM i xxxx and act like you know whate you want. And you wante her. Eye contact, smiles, hair fidgets, Bite lips. She wants you, inside her, now. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 11:41 PM |
| 2 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...It means loser males that stay around the hottest girls despite knowing they have no chance to score. Never orbit, never stay in friendzone. If you wanna approach a girl, do it. If things do not Go as planned, forget her and move on . | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 11:29 PM |
| 0 | Are you attracted to most women?Sometimes we have preferences that are a bit askew from the genetic pool we are fishing. I like taller woman with hair that is not black. In some regions of my country that's less than 3% of the single ladies available. In others its more than half of the available pussies. | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 12:35 PM |
| 2 | How can i seduce a girl who only wants to have sex if we are in a relationship?. But, in fact, a man’s sexual choice is the result and the sum of his fundamental convictions. Tell me what a man finds sexually attractive and I will tell you his entire philosophy of life. Show me the woman he sleeps with and I will tell you his valuation of himself. No matter what corruption he’s taught about the virtue of selflessness, sex is the most profoundly selfish of all acts, an act which he cannot perform for any motive but his own enjoyment—just try to think of performing it in a s… | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | I'm not used to this level of interest from hotter girlsRewiring the brain can be hard. We are social animals and we are self conscious of our standings on the pack. But those standings change faster than we perceive. You went from taken to single. But now you have been validated by your ex , so you gained ranks from being fit but also from being a stable partner. There is no Shame in going 404 on a 10. But once you fuck a 10, nothing the world can send your way will caught you flat footed. One of my highest achievements at work was when i took a lea… | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 04:19 PM |
| 5 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?Doctor: no dating live during School years. First months after graduation were slow, i had no social networking and online dating only got uglies and single moms. About 4 months into It i had a social life and was fucking cuties non stop. Then i fell in love and got married. Never once banged a nurse or another med student. But i confess i managed to score a handful of dentist. What i gather from my friends is that doctors have a short time Window on the dating market: the college is brutal and … | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 08:04 PM |
| 419 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...How about a field report of your weekly schedule? You are literally the textbook of r/Tinder. Be attractive, Don't be unattractive. Yada yada. You nailed It when you said that once a girl shows desire, not need to oversell yourself. Also quite correct on beta male orbiting top females | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:53 PM |
| 0 | (20m) Couldn’t get girl to hook up with me?OP asked for help, not a diagnostic. Sometimes earth does not move. Sometimes a Man tries to make the earth move and gets sexual harassement charges. Lets take It easy and try not to be judgmental. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:43 PM |
| 0 | (20m) Couldn’t get girl to hook up with me?Not sure what is going on. I guess you 2 wanna sex. And both are 2 afraid to start action. Next date try the hug priming. Start like us: I am feeling special today? -why? -because i noticed you prepared yourself for me Tonight. I like how you look tonight, i like how you smell tonight. . Thank you for make me feel special. - then hug her . Let her feel your boner. Look her in yes, then her mouth and start kissing. Do base 2 and 3 and give her your A game. Non verbal language is the sex language | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Should you lie about some of your political stance if you wanna get laid or during a date in general?My wife is catholic. I am atheist. We have been fucking ever after for the last 19 years and will continue to do. Now i have seen a lot of people with personality disorders on both sides of the political spectrum. Do not put your Dick inside crazy. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Sharing a bed with acquaintance - was she down to fuck?You are assuming the girl on this scenario isnt dtf. If the girl is dtfing enough to share his bed, showing or telling will achieve the same results. If the girl isnt dtfing, showing instead of telling will have terrible results. Boys are slow not only because they are clueless. They are slow also because they fear rape charges more than they fear friendzone . The truth is both are worst than death | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 08:56 PM |
| -5 | Sharing a bed with acquaintance - was she down to fuck?Just tell her the truth: that you finally realized you have "romantic feelings" toward her. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | [Field Report] -- Online Dating Tinder -- matched with a Hot latina Lawyer during my time in Argentina. Probably one of my best one night stand from online dating.There hug test is amazing. You primed her with words, feelings and touching. | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 08:12 PM |
| -3 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success.The conclusions are correct. The assumptions are not. A man who accepts friendzone is an immature and weak man. Immature because he doesnt understand that women select and men are selected. If a woman does not select a Man over the first days of their interaction, there is little chance things will change on the long term. Weak because somewhere around the start of the interaction he should make It clear to her that his "romantic feelings" for her forbid him to be her friend. Its completely norm… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 07:34 PM |
| 0 | "Come back to my place" optimization - The deep history and lore behind "Netflix and Chill" - and what works in 2022.I once had a carnival date at a saturday night with a girl and she was a sniper at the shooting stand. We collected a dozen teddy bears and i convinced her to drop by my place the next Sunday morning so we could go together to the hospital donate the toys to the children there. The kids were happy and so were us. She had never tried to make out on a hammock, and after 30 minutes of Scorpions sound track, i was covered on scratches. At the hospital while distributing the Teddy bears a nurse asked… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | In a world where most are bound by rules and restrictions, there is nothing more attractive than a person who retains the ability to act freely with unapologetic authenticity.You are a Randian. You just Don't know it yet. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Trying to Smash Good Friend of a RelativeYou are her plan B. What i dont get is what do you want with her. Casual sex with a relative's bff? You already proposed this. In my culture It feels weird to propose a FWB relation before having sex. Usually It goes more like we get drunk, fuck and then decide how to deal with the mess later. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Being bold and asking a girl out in my situation?That was lovely. I would have nailed so many chics back in my day If i had a friend like you around to give me pointers . A game indeed | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Seeking validation?Textbook existential Crysis. To be happy you must like what you have become. To like whom you are today you must forgive yourself from your past mistakes. Even bad sex is good. That is why you date them and call them for a 2nd round. Do not blame yourself for it. At your age its quite possible you have learned to detect signs of female interest. When a 9 look in your direction you may already a pretty acuratte estimation of How much she is considering having your dick inside her. But there are 3… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 04:51 PM |
| 2 | What’s your guys processes for being a good wingman?Many good advices. Contrast. Your twin can be your wing, but It will be weird. I am not exactly short, but my best wingmen were taller black guys. Girls get to choose BBC or BWC. We could approach girls from any race and still find game. Body reading. This is the hardest aspect. It doesnt matter which girl you wanna dig. It totally matters that we pick signs of which girl wants whom. Not to get in the way of each other and quickly realize which ones ia receiving stronger signs of female desire. … | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 04:09 PM |
| -4 | Me (27M) going on my first date with a friend (25F)Light has a better chance to escape a black hole than a male to escape friendzone. The only right way to deal with this is If you set your mind in the obvious: It is not right for a man to think about fucking his female friend. Once you develop romantic feelings towards a female, she, almost by definition, can not became your your friend until those feelings are dead. So you have set yourself into a torture chamber. Hope you enjoy it. What you should do: Make It clear from the start that you des… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Today, I am very busy. Also, have allergy and feel tired. Still I want to meet someone.Tired is bad. I suggest gym and sleep. When hunting, the predator must be on top form and ready to give his A game. Imagine meeting the woman of your dreams and leaving a bad First impression because you are tired and with allergy. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 11:49 AM |
| 334 | By far the weirdest cold approach experience I’ve ever hadI sincerely Hope the universe is conspiring to make you break the Golden rule of seduction for males: Do not get you Dick inside crazy. I wish you both the best, keep us informed. I smell wedding cake already. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 11:46 AM |
| 4 | he’s always staring at me, but unfollowed me.First. I thinks he likes you. Male here . Please trust me in this. Second , whatever It is you 2 do with it, odds are you 2 will make a mess out of it. That's been 17. If you 2 do not leave behind the opinions of 3rd parties, meet up and put your shit together you will regret It for the rest of your life. I strongly suggest you to approach him and inform/ demand/ state that you 2 are going to meet this weekend at whatever safe place you choose. You are not asking for date, you are scheduling a m… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth dropping your standards if a girl treats you nicely?I assume by standards he means religion, race, looks and average income. I say that If there is good personality compatibility, It is totally worthy. There is no bad sex. But there is good sex and great sex. But nothing worst than a break up or a divorce with a person with incompatible personality that you kept around longer than you should just because It was a great fuck. A Brazilian singer, Lulu Santos, has a song about this: E eu experimentei uma sensação que até então não conhecia. De se qu… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 10:38 AM |
| 3 | What to do about jaded girls?If all else fails, reverse roles. Go on a date, kiss at the right moment, stop, look her in the eyes and say : i enjoyed a lot being with you , but i will not proceed until i am sure your feelings for me are as strong as my feelings for you. Repeat that on the next dates. In 2022 somewhere around 3rd date the lady will rape you. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 02:29 AM |
| 3 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.Thanks. It validates the idea that cumpliments should target non physical qualities of the praised person. Shoes, tatoo, glasses. Any negative examples you wanna share? | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 10:29 PM |
| 29 | 36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner.Would you mind telling us what cold approaches you enjoyed and which ones felt creepy. Do not forget to add (apparent) age and looks of the guy. There is this myth going on reddit that good looking guys can get away with any cheeky cold approach, while almost everything an average looking guy tries is creepy. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 2 | In spain, arrives the "only yes is yes" lawhttps://www.euronews.com/2022/07/19/only-yes-means-yes-spains-senate-approves-new-law-on-sexual-consent#:~:text=Spain's%20Senate%20approved%20a%20new,incidents%20of%20violence%20or%20intimidation. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 07:13 PM |
| 6 | “I’m not available like that”Assuming she exists, you should forget her. I Don't think she is a real person. Next time escalate things faster -vídeo calls- and fish around your dating pool, not on international waters. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Please help me understand this situation?I am afraid cultural bias will make most answers wrong. So i will try to be objective. You are her plan B, or more likely plan Z. And you had her as plan A but then you started valuing yourself more. Probably the correct solution in your culture would be a council of the Elders of both families to decide the matter. In our culture you should meet up and put your shit together. Life is too short to lose time wondering what could have been. I think no one should be allowed to get married without 4… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Could this be the reason women say they want nice guys?Reddit needs more Randians. I will sing the Gospel of individual freedom where It is needed most. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:54 PM |
| 3 | Buying Toronto downtown condo for pickupsYou have amazing writing skills . Better than most webnovels i follow. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Could this be the reason women say they want nice guys?Love is blind, they say; sex is impervious to reason and mocks the power of all philosophers. But, in fact, a person's sexual choice is the result and sum of their fundamental convictions. Tell me what a person finds sexually attractive and I will tell you their entire philosophy of life. Show me the person they sleep with and I will tell you their valuation of themselves. No matter what corruption they're taught about the virtue of selflessness, sex is the most profoundly selfish of all acts, a… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:34 PM |
| 13 | we need to become like our male ancestors use to be like cavemanI was about to downvote you until the last sentence. Then i decided to ask you to keep us informed on your results using that charming pick line. And they say romance is dead. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:23 PM |
| 5 | I started cold approaching women. Had no idea this is so easy!Keep us informed. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Cannot find any girls on OLD that I am attracted toI assume you are talking about one of the many BS apple does. Android treat its users like costumers not i-diots | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Cannot find any girls on OLD that I am attracted toNothing that a proper factory reset cant handle | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Cannot find any girls on OLD that I am attracted toJust delete accounts and start new one on another sim card number. Put your age at 28-29 and have a go. If you really wanna see How It is, say in profile you are not looking for hook ups but long term relationships. Few things turn on ladies more than a 29y male looking for marriage . | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 10:01 AM |
| 7 | Ladies: Asking for consent before a kiss or just by reading non verbal cues? Rule or preference?Male here. Both sides have good arguments. Based on my past experience, Go for the kiss when you believe the mood or moment is right. Never postpone a kiss out of fear of being rejected. There are no bad outcomes of trying to kiss the girl you want to kiss, without asking for permission. A- She 100% rejects you. You just say: guess i can no longer hide my feelings from you. She will try to friendzone you. You inform her that your feelings forbid you from being just a friend to her. Congratulatio… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 08:34 AM |
| 163 | What’s her motive? Validation, revenge or she just likes me?This has all the looks of a trap. And rarely It is wise for a married man to give any hint of interest to a female that sends him nude pictures out of the blue. I am no Saint and God knows i have sinned a lot , but even the head of my dick knows that unsolicited nudes to a married man is a huge red flag. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach is ineffectiveCold approach works If you Don't broke both rules. Much the same way cheesy pick lines work If you are handsome Man and result in harassement charges If you are not. You correct that If a male is respected and loved among friends and peers his value increases for the females. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 07:26 AM |
| 5 | 48 Approaches on The Wall, Pass One Down.. 49 Approaches...Keep it up. Thanks for sharing. Forget internacional online dating, unless Its ucranians , those are wife material. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 10:30 PM |
| 27 | Big guy advice250 here, and just 1,74m tall . First of all, your goal is not someone above average.your goal is someone whose company makes you feel like a better man than you felt before. Confidence and strong social connections can improve your chances in real life. Being respected. and loved by your peers will make you more attractive than you think . | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | 27M Feeling very sexually frustrated and bummed from lack of connectionA male BIO looking for long term relationships targets other audience than a male Bio looking for hook ups. Worst case scenario he will get some hot single moms. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:42 PM |
| 16 | Is this cleaning lady into me or am I reading way too much into this?Never touch a cleaning lady. They know where the cameras are and are ready to sue . | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:40 PM |
| 5 | College freshman helpALL the girls are attractive? That IS a good scenario. First you will never get in love or be friendzoned because you decided to like one cute girl and didnt pay attention to the uglies. If ALL girls are cute, your selection becomes one based on personality affinity, not looks. Second this will feel like boot camp for social anxiety. If you can behave naturally and cold approach 9s and 10s on a regular basis, odds are you will finish college with a high confidence. Be yourself, focus on doing yo… | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Am I wrong to feel bothered that a woman referred to me as "small" despite being 6 ft 1?Yes you are wrong. You are a man. What others think about your height should not bother you. Take a look of a post on r/tinder about a 5ft4 man about to rabbit climb a 6ft1 lady. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 06:55 PM |
| 3 | At the end of the day physical attractiveness will be the one thing that, universally, all girls will look for in a guyHow to say i AM a incell without saying i am a incell | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 03:39 PM |
| 24 | Field Report - one night stand after some rejectionsI really liked how the script went from "an that was how i met your mother" to "and that was how i got crabs". Thanks for sharing. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 11:59 AM |
| 7 | Holding her by the hand on the 1st date is totally OK.I would give you an award If i had one. It takes blue balls to leave a 8.5 unfucked. I bet she masturbated while you were flying. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 09:24 AM |
| 2 | The only women I can get online are women I would have never approached IRLYou guys are getting 10s? | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 08:25 AM |
| -4 | 27M Feeling very sexually frustrated and bummed from lack of connectionTime to up your game online. Delete profiles, stay off the grip for 1 month. Comeback with another sim card number. And start the : i wanna get married game. On this game you swipe left on anything below a 7 on hinge and tinder. On both apps your BIO says that you are looking for a long term relationship and you dont do hook ups. You will say that you value personality compatibility above looks and that you believe that when souls connect the sex experience improves dramatically. Do not fuck the… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I am 28M, and seriously thinking to tell a girl I like her for the first time in my life. Is this a disaster waiting to happen?You friendzoned her so hard she probably thinks you find her ugly or gay. Forget her. Totally. Delete all photos and chat. She is a lesson you should have learned at 13y old. You pressing issues. You need to give yours best on your Studies and work. Forget Tinder. Try hinge and be honest about your situation. Hi i AM a virgin with social anxiety. I am looking for a nice girl and i promised to be nice to you in return. Some of your behavior sounds like autism. If that IS the case, there are profe… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I had my heart broken and I want revenge. I'm asking for help on how to do thatYou really wanna broke her? Forget her. Be Nice and polite. Stay in touch and never block her again. Follow her on Facebook and wait until her life turns into shit with a divorce , single mom with 2 kids etc. Then you out of the blue message her and say thank you. Thank her for your personal sucess at work, for your happy marriage of 20 years. Say that If wasnt for her you would not have become the man that you are now. Been there, done that. Twice. Be like me, play the long game. One of them i … | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 04:48 PM |
| -1 | how do you compliment someone on their appearance without coming across as insincereDont compliment people on looks, but on personality traits. This is basic social skills. If you really wanna cumpliment someone on appearance for flirting purposes, quickly check out the assets and act shy followed by casual when the person eyes caught you on the act. Please do not turn It into a "raping stare". You are not really checking assets out, juste bom verbally telling them that you like the lips boobs or butts of the person. I Don't need to tell a lady i liked her boobs after she caugh… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | I seriously threw the bag into the fire after working hours for it.Sorry, you lost me there. Research Topic : When i girl i am fucking say its fine If i date her sister, It is really fine? That on itself deserves another tread. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Welcome to 2022 when people marry whomever they want without given a fuck about online randoms calling It disgusting. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | I seriously threw the bag into the fire after working hours for it.I think you should be honest with the girl you fucked. And forget both of them. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 01:52 PM |
| 2 | "Just lift bro" is a losing proposition. Rules 1 and 2 matter, but rule 2 is king.You are mostly correct. Failing rule 1 makes you be left swiped on Tinder, but not necessarily in real life. But failing rule 2 destroys your chances online and irl. But when you pass rule 1 irl, you only have to behave like a remotely decent human being, while a guy that fails rule 1 irl must be funny, perceptive, patient and interesting. Passing rule 1 even allows you to pull out moves that would get an unattractive guy in harassement charges. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 01:49 PM |
| 1 | I Hate Parasite Chodes they are the lowest of the low.Get yourself a white chad wingman. That way you solve two problems: you get a friend to put out the race card instead of you and you give chics pairs the choice of selecting BBC or BWC. Besides Chodes will think twice before picking up a fight with 2 dudes instead of a stag running solo. Plot twist: i have seen white stags facing the same Chodes situation. So maybe it is not all racial bias, part of it maybe how a duo of Chodes operate . | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.I am not sure How to reply to it. Part of my wants to say: This is the way! While tiny voice says: Get mental health care asap. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 09:59 AM |
| 15 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.I finished med school at 28y. I fucked more beautiful ladies during the first 6 months of being a single MD looking for a wife than during all the previous years, combined. And that was before tinder. I wasnt fit and had a terrible personality. But age and confidence were on my side . In the end i married a girl with great personality compatibility, not the best looking nor the best sex machine. Late 20s are great, but Man only really start losing dating pool size when hair becomes gray. Quite c… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:18 AM |
| 22 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Up your game! Good thing about being a Man is that time is your ally. Increase your social network in real life. Stay fit and wealthy and your value only increases. When you get tired of fucking uglies, start the i wanna get married game. Few things are impossible for a fit and wei single male whose profile says he ia looking for a bride. You can swipe left even 7s , and select 8s for personality, not looks. Every alternative is better than remembering a drug addicted that dumped you ( for your … | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:05 AM |
| 125 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Actively forget her. Delete all photos messages and contacts. Do not watch porn with actress that resemble her. Improve yourself. Stat fit, earn and save your money. Get yourself a hobby make yourself a reputation at your work. You will build your own social network of friends from your job and hobby. Soon enough you will start attracting better matches in real life. Also delete all your dating apps. Come back later when you are more handsome from gym. New profile, New pics, new BIO. New pussies… | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 11:40 PM |
| 8 | Why do girls say one thing but seem to want something else?Because life doesnt come with a manual. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 04:29 PM |
| -1 | What does it tell about a girl who was determined to have casual relationship after divorce?South asian are the small folk with black hair dark brown eyes and a skin that can take a tan. East asian are the same, but they run away from the sun like vampires, because they think being as white as ghosts from japanese legends is sexy. Did i get that right? | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 03:40 PM |
| 2 | What does it tell about a girl who was determined to have casual relationship after divorce?Most women cant handle that kind of BSC | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 12:59 PM |
| 6 | If a girl thinks that you’re attractive/cute, will being bold with her work?If a girl feels attracted to you, you just passed rule number 1. The only thing you can achieve being bold is breaking rule number 2. Its not rocket science. She looks at you, you look back and smile. She smiles back at you. You approach, say hi my name is Chad and you are...? In Portuguese we say: Olhou, sorriu, mandioca no Bombril. From there on all you have to do is behave like a remotely decent human being and keep sending the non verbal signs of your interest. Eventually you will get laid. … | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 12:34 PM |
| 2 | What does it tell about a girl who was determined to have casual relationship after divorce?Can be spanish, scandinavian etc. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | What does it tell about a girl who was determined to have casual relationship after divorce?It Tells that she is normal. Imagine being in a terrible wedding with a tiny dick asian male and all of a sudden have acess to a dick buffet. BBC , BWC, BSC, you name It. Let the girl be happy. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Any help with dancing?You dont enjoy dancing. That's Guardians of the Galaxy material. Now If you wanna learn how to dance, there are a few ways to learn it. Waltzing is not hard and will help you at least 3 times in your life after prom: at your wedding, when your daugther reaches 15 and when you celebrate 30/40/50 years married. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 10:05 PM |
| 3 | In a matter of 7 weeks I’ve asked 8 girls her phone numberApproach, say hi my name is xxx and you are...?? Worst scenario is a gentle dismissal. But believe me, girls only look at a guys eyes and smile back when they liked what they saw. Besides they most certainly know we are checking out their eyes lips tits and asses. And If a girl caughts you checking her assets and smiles back at you, have confidence that she didnt took It as harassement. If she doesnt welcome your stare she will use her disgusted or resting bitch face to comunicate her displeasur… | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | I Tried to kiss her, now what?We would need level 5 acoustic isolation on our love room . Girls like when the guy can sustain intercourse for a long time, but If takes too long not only It becames unconfortable, but the girl might start wondering If the guy doesnt feel excited with her. I confess her screams made me full of myself during the First 20 minutes and kind of scared for the next 20 minutes. The closest image i can relate was of a famous dark elf sleeping with copper dragon sisters. Jarlaxle and Temiskella, or some… | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | In a matter of 7 weeks I’ve asked 8 girls her phone numberBeware of the lone stag scenario: Man alone, 2 females friends, one hot AF other not so hot. The not so hot girl hits on you and the hot one got jeaulous, bitchy or hits on you out of spite. Best solution is to keep your eyes on the not so hot one and promised the hot one tô hook her up with a imaginary friend of yours, a better catch, like a single sucessful lawyer or MD. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 04:19 PM |
| 18 | In a matter of 7 weeks I’ve asked 8 girls her phone numberI think most of the comments are about right. One way to avoid the high rejection rate is follow the 2 rules. Which is kind of hard since asking number increases the chance of breaking rule 2. Start eye contact. Smile. If she smiles back you are getting laid. Move in for the kill. If she moves eyes away, maybe shy maybe pretending to play the long game. Approach and do as previous posts. If she looks disgusted , Don't bother. A more sucessful rate is keeping looking for signs that girls are look… | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 03:25 PM |
| -1 | How can I (M22) ask her (F21) to shave down there?Proceed with caution If its a virgin. A hair trimming machine can cut down pubic hair without pain or infections at the hair roots, unlike shaving or waxing. Well, start oral play, improve your oral game, then playfully propose trimming her soshe can get more pleasure. After a few tries, ass eating should be on menu, which basically puts waxing at the top of priorities. Not many girls stay virgin after tasting the pleasures of a well trained tongue. Lucky girl found the best kind of partner. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | My friends fat female roommate hooking up with good looking guysFat girls are like scooters, they are fun to ride, but you dont want your friends watching you driving one. Sexually a fat vagina feels great, they are soft and feel tight in all positions. Thin girls vagina's only truly embrace you on doggy or spoon with legs closed. I meant overweight girls, not morbidily obese, those stink big time and only the largest dicks can properly reach their depths. Conversely, a fat chick asshole doesnt feel as tight when compressing your dick like the muscles of the… | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:50 PM |
| 7 | I just realised how shit I am at this.You was doing fine until you googled it. Eye contact, smile. She smiles back, move in and say your name. She looks disgusted, look elsewhere. She hides her face or moves eyes away from you, she is shy or playing the long game. Do not approach. When i was Young i was led to believe i should do something. Turns out all a boy needs to do is be handsome , say his own name and tell jokes that do not offend the lady. Good luck and keep looking for females that look at you and smile. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 01:52 AM |
| 1 | I Tried to kiss her, now what?Because she screamed and cursed like a dragon. Her pussy was more tight than most assholes i have fucked and after 40+ minutes of pumping the only way i could focus enough to finish was by covering her mouth with my hand , afterwards we Fell down into bed and kept looking into each other eyes like heroes after slaying a dragon. She married other guy months later . Her birthday is 31th Dec, so every New year fireworks i remember her screams. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 09:54 PM |
| 9 | If women don’t have sex with random people, need an emotional connection…how are these dating coaches sleeping with 100’s of women ?Take a look at tinder sub reddit. Girls receive 1000s of likes every day on big cities. They do not sleep with random. They select among the 1000s dicks the ones they will use . Usually the most handsome guys that are good at online chat and dont behave like creeps on dates. Its not random. It is one of the most extensive selections on Nature. 1000s were swiped left, 100s were dismissed during chat, half a dozens were rejected during the date. Very few were kept as sex toys or boyfriends. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Mental purgatory going out soloExcellent advice. Read the room is the best social skill a man can get. Coupled with the 2 rules of Tinder, he is bound to get laid. Stay fit. Whomever said women are not visual never watchdog a room for long hours. Do not be an asshole while small talking. Also, be 6ft height. Helps more than being rich. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Bumble convo tell me if you think I did something wrongYou failed the rule number 1. And a little bit of rule number 2. Doesnt matter If the girl is ugly. In big cities, even uglies get a ton of matches and have a dick buffet to select. Age didnt invested in your convo because she had better dicks around. Voluntary work can be a red flag. People should take care of themselfs and their loves Inês before starting giving back to society. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | I Tried to kiss her, now what?One of the best fucks of my life was i kissed a girl after a date and she acted all surprised. Turma out she mas into me and had not realized i wanted to fuck her. She went home and 2 data later she asked me tô stop by her place. I felt like entering the lair of a dragon goddess. She was Brazilian waxed on both holes and i felt like I was receiving her best gifts. In short, Just because a girl runs away after you try to kiss , doesnt mean you will not get away with kissing her. 3 holes later. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | As a girl, how do I hit on a girl?Girl on girl is the long game. First captivate a friend than get intimate and Hope she enjoys licking carpet as much as she likes having her carpet licked. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | In Mark Manson's "Models" he explains one way to attract the women you want is to become a leader in your interests/demographic. Who here has done something along those lines?A wannabee fotograph looking to get laid. I wish you good luck. Many years ago i found a group in LA that rented houses to organize photo parties. Amateur photographs, and professional and amateur models during photo sessions, including naked essays até the rooms. Not sure If It still exists, but the website had a database of models for age, ethnical group and breast size for members to select. Cant say i have not considered leaving my job and becoming a photograph back them | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 07:53 PM |
| 1 | did I fucked up or still there hopes?Women select, men are selected. There is nothing you can do to make a girl that you want to want you. It is always the other way around. What you can do is follow the 2 rules of tinder. Which will greatly improve your chances of being selected. Stay fit, be wealthy, have a great personality. That will make you be selected. On the scenario in discussion, you destroyed rule number 2 even before rule number 1 gave you a chance to be selected. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | one specific girlSounds like she is just a nice girl and you are misreading signs. Please do not fall in love for a girl juste because she treats you like a decent human being. If youe cant help falling in love, say It to her: i AM sorry, i used to think i liked you as a friend, but i realized that i love you, só i can no longer bê your friend. She will be devastated for losing a friend. Reading your report i do not think she is friendzoning you. All looks like she is just being nice. But there are cultural bias… | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this boy likes me?The last 2 frames on the very first page.: http://www.sandraandwoo.com/2000/01/01/welcome-to-sandra-and-woo/ | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think this boy likes me?Greetings. Boys are clueless. Like really clueless. I am sorry but you must take matters into your hands. I suggest reading the First page of Sandra and Woo Webcomic for examples. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 11:40 AM |
| 5 | Girl at GymMan are clueless for body language. When in doubt, assume its a NO or she is playing the long game. The eye ritual is more common at clubs, parties and places wereflirting is socially accepted or expected. Anywhere double check your conclusion. And remember, girl's select, boys are selected, hence the 2 rules of tinder. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 09:18 AM |
| 73 | Girl at GymBoth previous posts are correct. But both miss out on the gaming aspect of flirting. Wait for her to look at you. Smile. She looks disgusted. You have been dismissed. She looks away. She is either shy or playing the long game. Repeat next day. She smiles back. Move in for the kill. Curious thing is that this dance is printed on our DNA. I have seen It at work among south america Native people, in Europe and Asia. It most likely predates human speech. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | In a small, multicultural city (60kish people) I feel like a ghost. I'm good looking, introverted, but get no women. Annoyed. Thinking about moving somewhere else.You must aim for the newcomers to the dating pool. 18y old girls mostly. Hit them before they found out that life in 2022 ia dick buffet for those with a vagina. A post here showed a 19y girls with tinder stats showing 10+ dicks. And many ladies on comments It was low numbers for tinder. Keep a close tab of all 17y that you wanna date and move for the kill before their Dick feast starts. Or move to a bigger town. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Does mutual grief bring girls to bed?This is repopulate after war, famine ir plague behaviour. We are hardwired to make babies when overcome by grief. Do not blame OP. It is just how evolution made our brains work. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Started Seeing Girl I Really Like. When Do We Talk About Relationship?Someone must start The Talk. The sooner the better. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Dating for 30+ men who want to get married and have a family.A 30+ single male looking for marriage is gold. You can literally propose any girl you meet at any legal age group and get away with it. Do not be shy. Hit the proposal at all 9-10 girls you meet everywhere. Anyone aged 18-29 is fair game. You will get engaged sometimes. Select among your hot fiancees the ones with the best personality. Avoid all personality disorders. You or may not want to test her sex skills. But already being 9+ its more important to remove her Bat shit crazy ladies from the… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 0 | I feel like I am broken inside, and when I try to fix it, it gets worseTry fatal models site, select Goiânia as city and check the verification video dates. You are welcome. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | I feel like I am broken inside, and when I try to fix it, it gets worseIt took me 47y to start paying for sex. Now i recommend It to everyone. Bottom line: even bad sex is good. Rates on my city: a girl hotter than 90% of my dates charges USD 75/h. A girl hotter than any girl any of my friends has ever nailed charges USD 150/h. Add USD 20-50 for anal. True, not all are half as good at sex as they think they are, and some are almost as unhinged as online single moms. But anyway, i never repeated meals unless the food is gratifying. And boy, some of them give Head li… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Juggling two girls at once—what would you do?Whatever we did, OP deleted and is gone. Guess i will not be invited to be his best man at the wedding with the ice Queen | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Juggling two girls at once—what would you do?Then you are fooling yourself. What part of " obsessed with her for years " makes you believe that you can escape this unharmed? If It was just a sex fantasy thing, well, you slept with her. She is icy. Do your math and find a way out of this maze. Many woman are worthy to be fucked once even If It means betraying your partner. Few are worthy to be fucked twice If you have a girlfriend. I assume you consider Ice Queen worthy to be fucked for as long as you can pull the stunt. Which is quite a go… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:34 AM |
| 4 | I feel like I am broken inside, and when I try to fix it, it gets worseYou are doing OK. Forget her. Actively forget her. Delete everything. Stay fit, make money, get a hobby, make friends. Online dating is not a good game for average males. Unless you decide to get a wife online, in which case you can be picky as hell and puch way above your ratings. Love is rare. Sexual compatibility is common. Being single, without kids, fit and wealthy will only increase your value as times goes by. Get mental therapy If you feel the need. If i was your age again, i would live … | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Girl holding eye contact for over 3 seconds is better or worse than a girl who looks at you and then looks down??These signs are universal. Both means the same: you have been selected. In other words, rule number 1 of Tinder: she considers you attractive. Time to approach and try not to blew rule number 2 of tinder: Don't be unattractive. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Juggling two girls at once—what would you do?Way too old for such games. I warn you: whatever you do, you will have to leave with de consequences for the rest of your life. You love her. You have been loving her for years. You either burn all bridges and live that love or you move along and will likely dream about her over the next decades. It would be nice for you to hear what she has to say about it. My experience is that in the moment you propose her she will dump you and you will cry until your troat is sore and that pain will haunt yo… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Juggling two girls at once—what would you do?I apologize for the confusion. In my defense, this is not my mother language. I didnt meant psychopath. I meant personality disorders. Like narcisism, borderline etc | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Bad social skills ruined my life 😞You are correct. BOTOX is expensive. So are mental health professionals and sex professionals. Prices in my country: Autism professional guidance, 2h/week. USD 500/month. Botox treatment. Around USD 450 every 6 months. A scort hotter than 90% of the women i have dated: usd 75/h (yes, Brazil is the best country) So we come to the 2 rules of tinder: 1- be attractive . Stay fit, dress well and have money. 2 - dont be unattractive. Do not say things that girls think are gross. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Juggling two girls at once—what would you do?Quite common if the girl is a manipulative psycho. Which i fear is the case in discussion. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Bad social skills ruined my life 😞Just BOTOX it. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Bad social skills ruined my life 😞Well. I think you can either get a real female friend or hire a mental health professional. Some of them know how to deal with autism. No offense but some things you say sound like spectrum disorder. In any case,. You need to go tô a place where the flirting happens and have someone help you detect signs. Seduction signs até easier to detect in other couples than on our own interactions | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 8 | Bad social skills ruined my life 😞Can we stop being so insensitive to male pain? I have a dick, and i have a heart. Both keep trying their best to put me in all kinds of trouble. Sex is good. Even bad sex is good. Get a professional. Make a video call before meeting. Make it in a place that IS legal. make it as long as doesnt hurt your bankroll. Eventually you will find some scorts that will help you improve your skill. The first woman i fucked probably does not remember me. But the last ones, they keep asking me out. Get some p… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Juggling two girls at once—what would you do?It will be tougher If you lose her without trying. We are talking about a feeling growing inside you for years. I am afraid she is a psycho. Girls do not sleep with guys they have friendzoned. At least not until she is a single mom with 2+ kids looking for a replacement husband. You two are either living an epic level romance or a psychological drama. How old is your crush? | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Girl in my collegeI think your should act as soon as reasonable just as my previous post stated. Friendzone is the worst. Its not fair to the girl, who must deal with a friend that wanna fuck her, and is not fair to the guy, who should be focusing on finding another girl to fuck. I will warn you: i estimate you have at least 99% chance of being rejected. Be ready to forget her and remove her from your life , mind,heart and soul as soon as possible. There is no such thing as conquering a girl. They select us, neve… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:18 PM |
| 7 | Juggling two girls at once—what would you do?"one of my closest friends whom i have been obsessed with for years". AM i sorry, but this is friendzone crush. It only ends well in other dimensions, not on ours. And this is serious. Your whole life depends on how you deal with it. You love your friend. A lot. For years. You must tell her your true feelings. And in no uncertain ways make It clear that If she just want to be your friend, that IS no longer an option. I never seen such stories end well, but hey, she is giving you an opening. I Ho… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Girl in my collegeI am sorry tô inform you, but someone has to: You can not lose what was never yours. You are in friendzone and will stay there until she becomes a single mom with 2+ kids looking for a replacement husband. Respect her feelings and respect yourself. Kindly inform her that you used to think that you liked her as a friend,but now you know you love her. And because of that being her friend is no longer an option. She will most likely say she sees you as a friend. In this case you are commited to act… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 3 | I rejected a girl and now she tries to disrespect me in front of other womenThis is not a no reaction situation. This requires Venom and Malice. Next time she attacks you just say : thank you very much for pointing that out and correcting me. I am really Grateful to have you as a friend to make me a better guy. Bem like this every time she attacks you in public. And never ever be alone with her. If she somehow manages to corner you, run away to the lights , get in front of others. Eventually this will add up until you have criminal charges against her. Beware, she will … | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:44 PM |
| 5 | I operate stag so how do you deal with girl pairs?Always go for the most receptive, but also have in mind that a pair may not be exactly looking to score on a given night. So your chances to get laid will increase If you show you are able to be nice to her friend without stoping showing to the receptive girl that you want her , not her gorgeous and jeaulous friend. Pairs of women do not work like pairs of men. They have their internal laws: the hot one attracts lots of dicks and the wingwoman collects the leftovers. Been there done that back in… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 5 | Don’t stress about the perfect opener. If she’s chill or has any decent social skills at all, then it doesn’t matter.Even in Brazil, a line like How are you doing is quite clear : hi, wanna fuck? | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:22 PM |
| -4 | Cold approachingNever cold approach. Only approach If she has looked at you and smiled. When in doubt, keep looking at her until she notices and smile. If she smiles back, jackpot. Beware that males never get to select or choose. A really sucessful male ia constantly on the lookout, trying to detect If any female hás looked at him ir smiled at him. If the male starts looking and one female hoping to be noticed and smiled back, odds are all the females around will notice this behavior and act accordingly. Which … | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:20 PM |
| 11 | CougarI apologize if there is cultural misunderstandings. Older woman (30+y) do not behave like girls. So ask yourself: do you desire her? If you do not desire her, do nothing. She will notice it. Or she will kidnap and rape you. If you do desire her, you should find the way to say so. A man should never be in doubt about how a woman he desires feels about him. Friendzone is worst than death and one of the most disloyal things a woman can do to a man. At the right place and time, be direct : i think y… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 06:13 PM |
| 4 | My crazy “fuckup”The pick line you used first was perfect. Too bad you broke rule number 2. Women select, men are selected. You come over, say hi my name is...and you are...then the ball is on her court and there is nothing more you need to do to make things work. She will either be curious about you or not. Men should not bother If a perfect 10 woman is around. Man should give their best when any woman selects him. Man do not choose. They are choosed. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How the f do you turn this seduction thing off?Get a boyfriend. Get a girlfriend. Date one of them and do a 1-2 pump monkey. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Thailand a bad idea?Greetings. Please fellow males. This is a soul asking for help. Let us to help him. I have seen this situation too much. People change country but they cant run away from their internal demons. PTSD is a serious desease. Get medical help from veterans affairs. Read. I overcame my mid age Crysis reading Ayn Rand's books. When Nietzsche cried ( not sure How the title goes in english) also helped. The First goal is to like what you have become. For that you must forgive yourself from your mistakes.… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 11:32 PM |
| 3 | why is online game stacked against men?1-Be attractive. Have good looks and an attractive profile. 2- Don't be unattractive. Do not be a jackass during online chat. Just behave like a remotely decent human being and pray that your dick is select by the lady because of your wits and humor during chat. If you score a date, odds are you will get laid If you keep being a remotely decent human being. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | why is online game stacked against men?I have plowed more woman irl during my 1st year after becoming a MD than during the 6 years online being a med student. Online only works for men If they follow the 2 rules of tinder. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:44 PM |
| 3 | why is online game stacked against men?That's rule 2 of Tinder. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | How can I learn to talk to women?You are overthinking this. Female select. Males are selected. Unless you are a tera-scale Chad, odds are you have no say in choosing what you want. At most you can say no to a female that selects you. Rules of being a seductive male: 1-Be attractive. This means keep your best health, clothes and to a lesser degree wealth. Good clothes and a fit body will get you more girls than any book seduction skill. 2-Don't be unattractive. This means dont say things you should not say. Do not say anything a… | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:48 PM |
| 8 | Newly single-how do I flirt and attract menMen are clueless. They do not understand body language. If you wanna know a guy better, just ask If he has a girlfriend, and then inform him that you would like to know him better. Girls understand body language, and call tell a guy wants her from miles away. Do not be nice to such guys, be honest. If you want him, enjoy the ride. If you dont want him, at the first opportunity, tell him so in direct terms. When i was 21y old a girl kind of liked me. She had many chances to tell me so and never d… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Why do guy friends stop talking to you after you reject them?He loved you so much that he endured 2 years before coming out. Ghosting you was the brave thing to do. I really hope he can really forget you and move on. I do not blame you for not loving him back. I am a guy and i know guys are clueless about this stuff. They fail to notice when a girl shows interest and keep going after girls that clearly do not want them. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 12:07 AM |
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