Suroken Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	How do you deal with rejection when you have very little experience You look 18 cause you put little effort into your looks like a teenager. Physically an 18 year old doesn't look much different from a 23 year old. It's just a matter of how they present themselves.	/r/seduction	12/01/18 05:40 PM
1	Awkward ass smile Yeah this was my problem for a long time. I always looked grumpy because I was usually thinking about school or money or whatever other issues I had in life. When i saw a cute girl going from grumpy looking to smiling at her was very clunky and weird, so I didn't do it. When I started setting boundaries between work time and leisure time it become much easier to have a resting friendly face. Which made smiling at everyone a lot smoother.	/r/seduction	11/01/18 11:04 PM
5	Going from cute to hot (mentality) You don't want to put 100% of your effort into your mission. That's how you get burnt out. There will always be time for meeting new people. But you become hot when a girl is able to sense that you have bigger and better things in your life than her. And that you're talking to her because you want to, and not because you want her to like you. You also become hot when you make fucking moves. Girls get turned on by feeling desired. So many guys will say not to show interest in a girl because it ma…	/r/seduction	11/01/18 11:00 PM
1	How do you deal with rejection when you have very little experience Then what you do is distance yourself from these girls. Be aloof. Don't contact them first and take a long time to reply and be a smartass You don't need to do this. You just need to be completely ok with the prospect of rejection. Girls will pickup on this and see you as more confident, because it's true.	/r/seduction	11/01/18 10:53 PM
6	How do you deal with rejection when you have very little experience Rejection My suspicion is that the more sex you have had, the more easily you can brush off rejection. Being able to brush off rejection has nothing to do with the amount of sex you've had. And has everything to do with your investment in the girl. If you care too much about what the girl thinks of you OF COURSE you're going to feel bad when you get rejected. If you don't care then rejection won't hurt as much. And here's this kicker: If you don't care whether or not a girl will reject you, you …	/r/seduction	11/01/18 10:49 PM
1	Good sleep can make you more attractive I didn't know I needed this until now.	/r/seduction	29/09/17 10:20 PM
14	3 steps to stop giving a fuck (and stop seeking validation) "If you give a fuck you don't get a fuck." - Some redditor	/r/seduction	11/04/17 03:08 AM
2	Where do I start in pickup, in terms of resources to use? Right over there------> Use the side bar.	/r/seduction	10/04/17 01:00 AM
3	How to stop hesitating I heard this little piece of advice somewhere and really like it: Learn to follow your fears. Your fears are a roadmap to expanding your comfort zone and improving yourself. You should get excited when you get afraid and love jumping into situations that make you scared. Because that's how you become a better person.	/r/seduction	09/04/17 08:17 PM
3	How to stop hesitating I like this but I just want to add that you shouldn't take it to such an extreme that you always forgive yourself and never approach because you're ok with failing.	/r/seduction	09/04/17 08:15 PM
1	How to stop hesitating The only argument I've heard against this is that you're never actually dealing with whatever is causing the anxiety. And you're giving it power by accepting that the only way to deal with it is to not deal with it. In practice this is still exactly what I do, but I often wonder if there is a better way.	/r/seduction	09/04/17 08:11 PM
1	So I approached a few girls in the day. How do you record yourself?	/r/seduction	09/04/17 08:09 PM
1	She didnt reply. So here is what i did. You're right. But I'm still working on that part.	/r/seduction	09/04/17 08:01 PM
1	So I approached a few girls in the day. Thanks for this. I've heard all of this in fragments before. But this really helped remind me of all this great advice. I'll keep this in mind next time I approach.	/r/seduction	09/04/17 07:57 PM
1	Kino question What happens when it most likely ends? Suddenly your work life is affected because you wanted a co-worker instead of one of the thousands of women that are probably within a few miles of you. And while you might be able to remain professional after a breakup/hookup. You have no idea if she is. It's just bad risk management.	/r/seduction	09/04/17 04:03 AM
1	She didnt reply. So here is what i did. You're probably right but they have to want the prize. Doesn't seem like she wants OP very much.	/r/seduction	09/04/17 03:50 AM
1	Need a bit of advice on what to do next I'm also new, but the last first date I went on ended in a long term relationship. And I think u/sedditthrowaway87 is right. You need to be clear in your intent. And if she doesn't like it then you just move on to the next girl. As for physical escalation, some guys escalate a lot, some guys not so much. But if you never escalate she will lose interest. Some advice that I think makes a lot of sense (and has worked for me in practice): Escalate when she does something you like. Be authentic in yo…	/r/seduction	09/04/17 03:47 AM
2	So I approached a few girls in the day. You're completely right. I just like to have a little structure getting started so I can ease my nerves about what to say/do. It's like when you first learn to drive a manual. You're dad is going to tell you exactly what to do step-by-step. And you'll have to think about it. Eventually though as you get better it just comes naturally and you learn to simply enjoy the act of driving a sweet ass car down a curvy road at sunset. TLDR: You're right, I plan to ease off the structure when I get better…	/r/seduction	09/04/17 03:29 AM
–	She didnt reply. So here is what i did. Ehh I feel like you're just qualifying yourself to her by doing this. Not attractive.	/r/seduction	09/04/17 03:27 AM
–	She didnt reply. So here is what i did. Honestly the HB system isn't about describing the woman. It's about describing your feelings. Attractiveness is entirely subjective, so it's pretty useless to talk about a woman as a number. But its makes a lot of sense to describe your own feelings with numbers, as you have final authority on the subject. And I think that's what most guys are doing when they say a woman is an "HB8." The fact that hes literally calling her a number is simply an unfortunate tick of the English language. Too add t…	/r/seduction	09/04/17 03:25 AM
–	She didnt reply. So here is what i did. This is the part of game that excites me the most. The ability to get rejected/flaked on and just not give a shit cause I have 10 other girls texting me.	/r/seduction	09/04/17 03:18 AM