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If you can't afford a 50$ box of plan b, or it's a make-or-break debate, fuck, I mean, don't fuck, really don't fuck, because you can't afford to fuck period.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:58 PM
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Thanks for the strawman party. Thanks for assuming that, because I'm male, I'm part of a hive mind. I haven't received any instructions from the central patriarchy of late, do you think I have bad firmware? Also thanks for lumping all statistics into either "stats good" or "stats bad", as if it's not a complicated and nuanced field. "More women are breaking their legs" is a statistic worth exploring, because women breaking their legs is something we don't want, and the next step is "we think a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:34 PM
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That is accurate, but any direct medical opinion is going to be better than "well only 14% of people who fell the way you do broke their foot, so as an internet stranger with no idea if you even have two legs, I'm going to diagnose your leg not broken". My point is specifically that you should never advise someone medically off a population statistic, and even worse over the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:05 PM
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You aren't in a position to say if those risks apply to them specifically. For instance, salt intake increases blood pressure, but only when high cholesterol is a factor. Otherwise, it osmotically balances out and is easily filtered by the kidneys. But so much of America has cholesterol issues, and so many of those with blood pressure issues have cholesterol issues, that low salt has been a common thing discussed with blood pressure. Many medical risks require comorbidities to express themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:55 PM
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While I agree with your comments about infidelity, the fact that you glossed over the doctor’s word to hand wave your opinion about the health of those involved was ridiculous. A licensed medical professional who knew the individual health of those involved cleared the situation. Large population stats rarely apply well to an individual. You really shouldn’t be telling individuals to ignore their doctor and do things your way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:48 PM
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Post nut clarity is also very real. There are men who will glorify a woman they are pursuing in their head out of desperation. They will charge through red flag after red flag because technically their safety isn’t at risk and they really want to get laid. Then they have sex, the sex isn’t great, the wave of post nut clarity hits, and they go “wait a minute. I put myself through all those bullshit hoops for that? For THAT? That was mediocre at best! Am I gonna have to keep putting up with all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:11 AM
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Hey that’s cool, feel free to vent. If you want a good laugh, follow the thread further to where they sit around sucking each other off about “we are so wise, if only those others would listen to our wisdom, alas! So sad! Poor lost wretches!” I have gotten few hummers as good as liberals give each other intellectually, does make me a little jealous. If you really want to work on confidence, physical masculine spaces are best. Get into a fighting gym, do some shooting sports, join a local adult s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:23 AM
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Don’t listen to the blue pills. Bullies get girls using techniques you don’t want to use. Generally, they bully the girls they get. Young women who have a poor home life and low self esteem can be bullied into a relationship. It is what it is. But if you get a girl who can be mistreated into a relationship, it will all be low self worth toxicity anyways. You will never see how miserable that relationship is from the inside. So instead of worrying that bad boys can bully weak girls into thinking …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:04 AM
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Did you read my other response? Chaos.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:28 PM
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Notice when he said he “created a bullshit premise”? Which statement do you feel he was calling a “bullshit premise”? Take your time. Maybe ask a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:26 PM
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Honestly, it was a bit cringey and mass media conspiry. It may make sense to you, but that’s because building the model you came up with requires the right to be a monolith. Is the left a monolith? Does it have factions? Disagreements? I have been deep into both spaces, and there is one, overwhelmingly common opine both have. “The other side is so stupid. If only we weren’t shackled with so much in fighting we could crush them easily”. Both sides say that shit just about verbatim. It’s true! The…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:14 PM
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He was creating an intentionally over the top illustrative example. He chose homosexuality because on Reddit it is a clear cardinal sin to treat homosexuality as lesser. By using something he knew was morally abhorrent, he was showing how his “question” wasn’t really a question, but a thinly veiled attack without a response. That’s why he himself called it “bullshit”. Then OP responds with… another series of leading questions that leave no room for real answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:06 PM
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Honestly I didn’t read the whole thing. Was a tad much of a manefesto, and I have had a really shit day so I’m using Reddit as social media fight club. I absolutely, 100% accept I’m being a total ass hole. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:02 PM
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I agree with you whole heartedly. I believe my realists come in two flavors. Those who believe theirs is the true path and are honestly trying to help other people do what they feel is just the natural way of things (the guy in this thread talking about how to frame and couch your views to be palatable). Those who are terminally online and addicted to the social validation. Who refresh their own profile page watching their upvote count and are desperate for the virtual points. I 100% agree with …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:41 PM
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I’m a different guy, I saw an opening and took it. But if you want an answer, painting a person into a corner of “either feel the way I do or you are a problem” is a false choice and you know it. People don’t have to be comfortable being hit on in any context, same sex or no, it doesn’t make them lesser. Implying they are phobic or closeted because of their feelings makes you look like an ass. Their comment was an ass hole comment, and you chose to be on that level. Worse, you doubled down on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:36 PM
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I think we can both agree you are definitely on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:43 PM
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Don’t worry about him, you’re just a dude playing a dude disguised as another dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:42 PM
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A bunch of dudes stole a podium you guys, that was almost the end of America! Don’t you know whomever controls to podium, controls the government? Also they stole, and presumably sniffed, AOCs shoes, and that is fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:41 PM
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“The right has perfect mental manipulation that entraps millions of men into a system designed too… do all this shit we call them stupid for and totally doesn’t work or make sense hahaha funny Republican am I right?” The competence duality of this fragile world view is hilarious. Always simultaneously all effective and completely incompetent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 05:39 PM
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Maybe it's my own jadedness, but I feel those who are willing to seek real truth today to be entirely idealist, because to openly discuss the truth in a world of layers of building conflict is to openly tip your hand and make you vulnerable. The truth only ever productively matters if all at the table are willing to trade in it. The one truthful person at the table of liars damns themself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 03:39 PM
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I 100% agree with you that when judging people "don't watch their mouth, watch their feet". Aka, pay attention to where they go and what they do, and not what they say. It is getting harder and harder for most people to do that though. Because of the death of the community in the US, most people date people who aren't well connected in a community they know, and so it's very hard to reach for a history of their behavior to properly vet. I think this "lack of social networking" is the greatest pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:15 PM
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I don’t have it on hand, but research paints a grim picture of some one’s ability to sniff out lies. It’s how so many affairs can last as long as they do. Plenty of people can fake and repackage until they have what they want. For instance, this sub keeps going around in circles because the real divide here isn’t man vs woman, it’s idealists vs realists. There are plenty of men and women here who are realists and mostly preach saying the right thing to get what you want. They assume they are in …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 02:05 PM
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I gave up and swore once you replied with a dismissive, childish YouTube link to my honest attempt at conversation. Your projection is hilarious. You claim my behavior is the non starter when you are the one who engaged with dismissive disrespect. Get over yourself. I’m not responding to discuss with some one like that, I’m responding to let you know your behavior is gross. No wonder people don’t respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 09:07 PM
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Yes, I can’t be fucked to invest 20 seconds in being gaslit about why “bro’s are all ass holes am I right?” Is actually a perfectly acceptable term. The fact you can’t get that the word itself is inherently insulting and a non starter means you can absolutely, completely, fuck all the way off, past the moon, and deep into the darkness of off all the way fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:35 PM
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Cool, then fuck off. If your goal here is to divide, then you are all the worst stereotypes of modern feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:24 PM
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You can't tell me gendered language exists, and how we use terms matter, and then invent "dudesuck" as your catch all term for poor behavior. Unless you think men saying "don't be a pussy" isn't gendered, it just means don't be a coward, and actually being a woman isn't what the term means. I really don't care what you define those terms with, inherently male gendering them will lose most men, and they will have no interest in being your ally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 06:25 PM
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Mind you, I don't have a lot of dog in this race, but you clearly haven't said a single thing. "Things are complex" is not an answer, it's a non-answer. If you don't want to respond to him because it's not clear, just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:39 PM
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He is absolutely tired of the weasel words and wants women to admit they have a power imbalance in dating that makes him feel bad. That's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 02:36 PM
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It's easy to remain single, no one can claim you need a man with so many wonderful strawmen in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:13 PM
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Nothing against her, but absolutely not and in no circumstances would I let her anywhere near my place, or know my address. But I’m also a hunter with the tools of that pursuit, so I have some strict requirements about who is let into my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 06:11 PM
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It's all of us. I'm going to be brutally honest here, people in the past were far more motivated to work at making things work together because they were just more attractive. We went from a society where you could tell your friends openly "you really should take better care of yourself, get a better haircut, lose weight, brush your teeth and work on your personality". Now we live in a society where anything that can be considered an insult is an attack, even if it's a critique that could help s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:32 PM
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Seriously, that was a rare case of “umm that’s wro-… actually never mind that word feels so pleasantly whimsical”.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 03:19 PM
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Men will fuck a lot of things they wouldn’t date. Most women want more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 11:43 AM
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Most men want nothing to do with dating an influencer girl. For almost all men I know it would be a huge negative the guys would bring up that way, and they would have to make an argument why they see past it. Actually the more a woman is getting attention on social media, the more it drops her worth to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:10 PM
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Japan’s slow collapse refutes your position. You aren’t really thinking like an economist, or a political scientist. Shifts in group behavior change the overall spread of resources that are available. One or two people leaving doesn’t matter, but a population wide trend is disastrous. It is naive to think society is a giving tree that can’t run dry if enough people stop participating.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:50 PM
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Yah frankly I would rather both men and women be happy. Women’s dip in happiness is a sign for concern, and something this forum should discus more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:07 PM
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Something else to consider: the leaving statistics are based on marriage, which is a heavily biased sample. What we know is: men who go all the way to marrying a woman are less likely to leave. The largest problem with this is since men are the gate keepers of commitment, men are more likely to propose in situations where they feel their needs are met. It’s likely women out of desire for commitment will accept even if their needs are not fully met. The statistics for dating breakups are likely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:06 PM
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Yes. As much as men complain about dating, their life satisfaction has actually been improving. As of 2016, for the first time since we have started trying to measure such things, men are overall happier than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:32 PM
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High end count men often come with behaviors that are undesirable such as plate spinning. The overwhelming majority of polygamy threads involve one partner, and as often the woman as the man, feeling like a “bad polygamist” for their perfectly normal pain and discomfort with it. In order to have a high N count you have to be comfortable balancing multiple partners at a time, usually by restricting their knowledge of each other. Those skill sets, how to elegantly manage multiple people’s time so …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:30 PM
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Do you believe women want high N count husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 03:19 PM
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High N-count people will never be desirable for either, because you won’t feel as special and you will always wonder if you are good enough. Women don’t really want a player for a husband. Men don’t really want a party girl for a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:47 PM
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Maybe I should have rephrased, their reported life satisfaction keeps dropping. This is less a continual “their situation has always been hard so they are never happy” and more “as best as we can measure, they are more miserable every year”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:12 PM
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Women keep posting historically low life satisfaction whenever it’s attempted to be measured.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 01:49 PM
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Your takes consistently sit in the middle, being relatively balanced. Have disagreed with you in the past, but overall you take reasonable positions. Just want to point that out because this community needs more people reaching across the gender isle to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:14 PM
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Emotionally. A lot of men could really use spaces to talk about their pains, their fears, their worries. For your average man, anger is the only socially acceptable display of negative emotion. A lot of times when a man is angry or frustrated he is afraid or worried about something, but has suppressed that. Most of us push past our fears and get the job done anyways. There are times in my life where, as long as no one was around, I broke down on my knees and openly wept for a couple minutes befo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 11:34 PM
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/theproblemisn'tallwomen,butitcertainlyisyouspecificallyinthissub Also, your some men heavily implied those some men are the ones getting divorced, and responsible for all the divorces. Which you are aware of, you use your language deliberately and you have issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:03 PM
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Translation: "Let's look at your argument: Women bad, men good However, Totally one hundred percent reality: Men Bad, Women Good. Also might as well sneak in a personal attack while I'm at it. Check. Mate. I sure am clever."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 02:18 PM
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If you don't date women, you should be open to listening to men's experience with it. You would like men to listen to what your experience with men is, and most men, despite not feeling remotely afraid when meeting a woman for the first time, will suggest activities that give her some feeling of safety, like being in the open in public. This is because we listen to what women describe as their concerns with men. Your response only emphasizes what a lot of men are feeling about modern women. Wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:46 PM
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Definitely a low empathy take. I have seen both men and women in my life completely destroyed by cheaters, just dealt emotional blows that clearly alter their personal life trajectory for years. It's definitely horrific for both.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:01 PM
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I think the largest problem with the dating gap is that it is fundamentally making people incompatible. The advice I would like to give, because it has worked for myself and people I know who have been successful, is be yourself, put forward your best personal energy and it will attract the women who match. However, I have kept up enough that there are women who will match my energy and vibe with me. The disastrous part of soft harems is that it creates two groups of people who with time lose al…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:43 PM
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You are stretching the definition of prostitute when it suits you, while opening with the implication of a more narrow definition. And asking him to put hard numbers to something people certainly don’t know, probably hoping you can do a little googling and prove his numbers wrong. Whole thing is worst possible faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:27 PM
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All people get blind to their problems sometimes. The way men and women react to their environment is very different. Men are more individualistic; women are more communal. So for a woman, when her group tells her she is fat, she internalizes it as a judgment of fact and hates herself for it. Her response is likely to punish herself and mistreat herself to carry out the will of the group. For a man, when his group tells him he is fat, his first reaction is to take a step back and evaluate if the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 03:24 PM
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You just straw manned something you don’t understand either, and invented a claim against you no one is making. I don’t think anyone listens to an “ALL” statement. And if we want balance in that, just take a gander at FDS for a bunch of equally crazy AAALLLL men, or scrotes, or whatever pejorative the borderline club is spouting today. Just let the radicals on both sides focus on each other, and don’t use it as a justification to try to gain a rhetorical upper hand on the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:14 PM
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I’m confused, maybe I missed something, or there is more context. You claim to have a high drive, but men say you are creating a dead bedroom? I’m not following at all. Nothing in your comment at all would indicate you aren’t sexually available in your relationship, far from it. My issue is with the notion of having it both ways, being beyond critique but having an imperative to critique others. It feels like an excuse to have your cake and eat it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 04:07 PM
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You won’t let men have a response for your behavior, but you will use your anecdote to explain theirs. Doesn’t feel like you are being fair here, you just framed the contradiction sympathetically by making you being beyond critique a moral imperative, but your critique of them justified by your anecdote to the point of being a mandate.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:51 PM
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Because the overwhelming majority of people are gendered, and across cultures each gender has behavior traits that end up relatively common. It didn’t take some Machiavellian scheme to cause a difference in behavior overall between young boys and young girls that persists cross culturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:44 PM
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I have some of the same kind of friends. "Lighthearted" for sure, capable of looking at life with a relaxed outlook and not overly dwelling on serious concepts to the inability to have fun. "bubbly" no, but that is a feminine flavored word that expresses the notion of a woman who is happy and energetic while still being cute about it. A masculine flavored alternative would be "goofball", upbeat, high energy, jokester.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:30 PM
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No, just honestly a different perspective, and a less emotional one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:47 PM
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Sorry you have had that experience. I find most people really need to be open to better communication once sex is on the table. A couple of girls have told me they outright don't give BJs, and after talking about it, turns out they just felt they give really bad ones and don't want to be embarrassed. Gentle encouragement, talking it out, and taking it slowly changed both situations into ones that changed their minds, and ended with me thoroughly enjoying myself. I think most people stumble their…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 06:19 PM
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Men can have an erection without desiring sex. Forced to penetrate means a man having sex against his will. That’s outright rape. I know people it has happened to, and separating the two directly draws a line between a woman forcing herself on a man and rape. If a source does that, it gives off strong “women can’t rape men” vibes, and if I get that impression, I roll my eyes and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:16 PM
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Not that crazy. Porn has nothing to do with feeling good, but making something look like it feels good. Which if your target audience and most avid consumer are those having the least sex, will be very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:14 PM
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I’m going to be honest with you, any source that deliberately separates “forced to penetrate” from “rape” is one I will completely disregard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 09:02 PM
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Have you honestly let some one fruitlessly rub on you for 5 minutes straight without any gentle guidance to actually help you have fun? That seems like an awful time for all involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:05 PM
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As a conservative who grew up surrounded by liberals, I can say neither of us should allow the best response to what is obviously shit data and assumptions to be more shit data and assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:25 PM
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Their pile of assumptions and what might be an explanation? They are about as right as religious explanations for the sun and the sky, a good story being used to fill a gap where no data exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:53 PM
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Your bastardized ideas around relationships will leave you a miserable genetic dead end.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:52 PM
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If we are going with this analogy, it's more of a poorly equip tribal militia civil war where both sides are disorganized, increasingly poorly groomed and somehow less educated by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:12 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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