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Did you even watch the movie?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:26 AM
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You're mixing up two different concepts. The OP isn’t arguing for sameness between men and women or saying all calls for equality are equally justified. They're pointing out that many dating frustrations come from expecting women to behave like men. Equality in rights and opportunities doesn’t mean identical preferences, behaviour or outcomes. The mNBA vs WNBA analogy doesn’t apply here, because that’s about market forces and pay structures, not interpersonal dynamics or attraction patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:20 AM
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Why are you allowing your wife to lie to you???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:09 PM
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You’re trying to debate something completely stupid. Not sure what the logical fallacy is for that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 10:02 AM
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Yeah ok mate, take your ad hominems elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 09:09 AM
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Your post is not made in good faith though. You’re inviting debate when what you really want is for a bunch of men to tell you how tough it is to be a man when women are constantly threatening you with “forced fatherhood”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 08:36 AM
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I’m all over the place? I have no idea what you’re even talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:46 AM
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What? Do you think abortion is only ever needed when a woman stealthily got pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:44 AM
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How am I gaslighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:36 AM
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How will she do that if he takes the condom with him? You’re arguing with yourself here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:30 AM
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And you live in a fantasy world. You think one of the worst things that could happen to you is a woman getting pregnant without your knowledge. What about being a woman who gets pregnant and can’t get an abortion because some old guy in the government says it’s not allowed in her state? Or being a woman who gets raped by a man she trusted? Do you know how hard it is to raise a kid? Let alone as a single mother. Why are you so sure there are women all over the place seeking this out just to get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:24 AM
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What? My advice is take the condom with you. How is that going to cause someone to be “cooked”? Other than the woman thinking he’s a lunatic, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:19 AM
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Did you actually read the study? I did (at least that section). It also says the following: “Approximately 8.6% (or an estimated 10.3 million) of women in the United States reported ever having an intimate partner who tried to get them pregnant when they did not want to, or refused to use a condom, with 4.8% having had an intimate partner who tried to get them pregnant when they did not want to, and 6.7% having had an intimate partner who refused to wear a condom (data not shown).” So seems like…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:16 AM
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“Never mind his stats” yes that’s right, no need for legit statistics. We just make it up as we go now! If you’re a man and you don’t trust a woman, it’s really not hard to avoid pregnancy. Firstly, maybe don’t have sex with her to begin with. But if you can’t help yourself, wear a condom that you brought yourself and dispose of it yourself (although the idea that women are getting jizz out of used condoms is truly cooked).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 07:07 AM
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So in support of your nuanced argument you went to Wikipedia, then cited the two “studies” they included (5000 women in a trashy doctors’ office magazine 21 years ago). No wonder people fall for the garbage politicians spout these days. You couldn’t tell fact from fiction if it slapped you across the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/25 06:04 AM
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Exactly. So let’s shut the sub down because all the problems can be solved with this one simple hack.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 12:01 PM
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Babe, wake up! The PPD folks are whining about paternity tests again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 02:45 AM
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That’s such a BS response. You made claims and couldn’t back them up, so your response is to say what? I’m too stupid to understand the sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:08 PM
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When asked for sources you respond with “just read some stuff online and also Jordan Peterson”. Your troubles have nothing to do with feminism and everything to do with not being very smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:03 PM
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Have you, a man, ever used a cervical cap, sponge or diaphragm? Who are you to say what's 'easy' or not for a woman? And a vasectomy is cheap. A few hundred dollars. Much cheaper than a lifetime of contraception, or a lifetime with a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:38 AM
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Thank you for your anecdata. One example doesn’t prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 08:19 AM
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Two things can be true at once. Caring about this woman's situation doesn't mean you don't care about men. But seeing this and thinking "people don't care about men like mEeEe!!" is certainly a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:29 AM
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Right? I’ve never once paid attention to the voices…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:55 AM
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100% this. OP telling on himself pretty blatantly with that charming addition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:23 AM
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Oh it’s the paternity testing brigade, back at it again. I’ve missed these posts!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:09 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/RedPillWives23/12/24 12:29 PM
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Is there some red pill think tank that churns out these diatribes? Who has the time to write all this? You can’t actually believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 10:38 AM
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Men in this sub will literally do anything other than just wear a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 03:58 AM
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You come here trying to bamboozle us with data and then just…provide no evidence of said data.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 10:25 PM
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You can’t even be civil towards women trying to have a reasonable discussion with you. You keep insulting our intelligence as though that’s going to help your argument. And then you wonder why we support each other instead of being nice to you. When men had the upper hand in everything, did you see them reaching down to help women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:45 AM
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Have you ever wondered why women behave the way they do towards men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 03:42 AM
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Thanks - you proved my point. You can’t be supportive of anyone. Thanks for the insults, they were super clever. What’s your solution? Sounds like you want everyone to stop being supportive of women. Is that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:03 PM
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“Mainly raised by single mothers” yeah right mate. Got a source for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:40 PM
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So women support each other and that’s supposed to be…bad? Why don’t men try supporting each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 10:37 PM
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You're dead right about the being good in bed part. You went off the rails with the penis size part though. It really doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:50 AM
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And again, that's not gaslighting. Giving someone advice is not gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 10:17 PM
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Why do you interpret my reasonable comments as lack of empathy for "involuntary male virgins"? I truly don't understand what you expect women to do. We're not going to have sex with you just because we feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:49 PM
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People say all sorts of absolute garbage on the internet. You don't have to read it. I could spend all my time in subs full of men who say awful things about women (and you know they exist and are far worse than what you're talking about), but I don't. Get off the feminist content if it bothers you so much. You can't stop people from thinking the way they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:47 PM
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What comments about height? I’ve never mentioned height here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:44 PM
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That’s not what gaslit means. Also that’s not what “the bar for men is low” is about. I don’t believe that it’s easy for men to get dates. I also don’t believe it’s easy for women to get dates. You’re all fighting about the same thing. Just let it go and focus on finding someone who likes you and wants to have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:34 PM
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I dunno where you find these people. They’re also completely misunderstanding the trope. The whole “bar for men is so low it’s a tavern in hades” thing is not about that. It’s specifically about men who are in relationships who are shit partners eg, “I feel so lucky that my husband takes out the trash when it’s overflowing and changed a diaper one time #blessed” I’m sure dating is hard for men sometimes. It’s also hard for women too. You’re all fighting about the same stupid things. Just get off…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:31 PM
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I think you’re misinterpreting it, TBH.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:32 AM
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When do they do this? Can you explain it in context? Like are you meeting women in OLD apps who straight up tell you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 11:14 AM
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Guys cancel everything, the redpills are obsessing about paternity testing again!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 10:01 AM
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Oh it’s you again. Still no comment in response to my last takedown of your garbage “evidence”, I see. Thanks for coming though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:37 AM
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I don't know where you live or who you associate with, but I'm sorry the women you've encountered are so horrible. This has not been my experience or the experience of the men in my life. They're told these things by other men, sure, but not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 02:01 AM
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What "shit" do women say here that makes you think this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:35 AM
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What women are telling you this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 01:35 AM
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Ooh aren't you clever. You really bamboozled us all with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:06 AM
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Stupid women who are looking for a husband to pay for them? I'm certainly not saying these women don't exist. Why would you, a smart, educated and financially secure man want to be with a woman like this? Who cares if someone thinks you're being shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:04 AM
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Why on earth would I not think that was ok? Why wouldn't you care about a career-oriented woman? I don't understand your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:44 PM
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Yeah, the only place I hear about this is on Reddit. I'm university educated and all the couples in my main friend group are the same. People I know through my kid's school etc who work service/retail jobs are all partnered up with people who work similar jobs. Also if I look around at the 20+ families in my kid's class, all the mothers have jobs. I can't think of any who are "tradwives" who don't have some form of income of their own. The idea that women want to just sit around at home while me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:38 PM
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This is the stupidest thing I've read here in a while. If you don't like women then stop sticking your dick into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:19 PM
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Wah wah wah all she did was birth children and take care of them and the house and make all the meals and organise all the holidays and make Christmas magical! She shouldn't get a single penny of the money that I worked hard to earn!! So fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:17 PM
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FFS maybe consider why she doesn't want to have sex with you instead of arguing with her about her valid reasons. I'll give you a tip - women don't like having sex with their children. If you make more work for her then you may as well be another child. And yes, this goes for childless couples too. Men her will do literally anything to avoid taking any responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:51 PM
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Obviously a gross generalisation, but many women are looking for a long term relationship and someone to have a kid with. Many men (especially the ones who seem to post here) are just looking for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:41 PM
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I'm not saying that's the only cause of a dead bedroom. But it's a huge one. Go to any "mums with kids" space online, or speak to any new mothers IRL and they'll overwhelming report feeling touched out and not interested in sex. Especially when their male partners do the bare minimum to contribute to child care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:39 PM
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Because our definitions of "quality" vary drastically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:28 PM
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Equally, say I just had a baby, and I'm bleeding and have stitches. I'm barely getting any sleep. Completely exhausted. Sex is the last thing I feel like. Would you still say I'm depriving you of sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:34 PM
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u/BCRE8TVE that wasn't a rhetorical question. Show me the data that proves that 50% of rape victims are male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:45 PM
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That's so weird, but also, what was your experience? You met a man and fell in love and got married?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:36 PM
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Women also experience nasty divorces, men who want sex and then cheat on them when they've just had babies and are sleeping 2 hours a night max, men who say they want a relationship and then just expect sex at the end of a date etc etc. Men in this sub are so consumed with how hard it is to be a man, that you've completely lost sight of the fact that maybe, just maybe, it can be hard to be a woman too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:35 PM
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FFS mate, where do you get these ideas about how women think? Completely disconnected from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:32 PM
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Lol ask any woman who has ever been on a dating app about her experience. I think you'll find it's not quite like the little fairy tale you've made up in your head and described here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:31 PM
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Please tell us more about the woke mind virus we've been infected with to make us not want to fuck men like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:26 PM
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We can say this until we're blue in the face but somehow it still won't get through. WE DON'T JUST WANT CASUAL SEX. 40 matches with guys who just want to fuck is worth nothing to a woman who is looking for a long term relationship. Or even just someone to respect her and have a decent conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:24 PM
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Oh it's a fact! Thank you u/separate-sector2696 for explaining that for us. I will ignore all my challenging life experiences and those of my fellow women and defer to you u/separate-sector2696 to explain my life to me going forward. Thank you for your service to womankind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:22 PM
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I really despair for the future of civilisation when I read this absolute brain rot. Have you ever actually met a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:19 PM
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You guys really like to romanticise what it's like to be a woman, don't you? But you have it all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:02 PM
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Quality over quantity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:00 PM
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Where do they say that 50% of rape victims are males? You're misrepresenting the data.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:15 AM
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Why do you think women are exclusively selecting men for their finances? That has never been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:55 AM
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“Except men are half the rape victims and half the domestic abuse victims too, its just feminism has spent decades erasing and I validating male victims to prop up the narrative that rape and DV is a woman's issue.” Oh come off it mate. You know as well as I do that men aren't walking the streets at night scared that they'll be attacked by a woman. When was the last time a man was raped and murdered by a gang of women? I'm sympathetic to your cause, but not if you're going to just make up stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 07:54 AM
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I don’t think hypergamy and “unrealistic standards” are the same thing. Sure, if someone constantly pursues partners far out of their league without offering similar qualities in return, that could be seen as unrealistic. But why shouldn’t women look for partners who have decent incomes, shared values, and physical attraction? Smart women are practical. We’re not just thinking about having sex tonight (though of course that can happen). We’re often focused on building a long-term partnership. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:23 AM
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You’re right that men can face serious injustices in these situations, and it's important to acknowledge those experiences. At the same time, it’s also true that women overwhelmingly experience higher rates of sexual assault, domestic violence, and rape. Both realities can coexist, and addressing one doesn’t mean dismissing the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:31 AM
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You realise that kids don’t go to school for at least 5 years, right? And that 5 years is looong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 10:31 AM
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No need to patronise me. Is that how you always speak to women? To answer your question, let's unpack the original post. First, small penis jokes are incredibly common and are often framed as lighthearted humour. They’re frequently used in mainstream culture, even by people who probably don’t think twice about the implications. That doesn’t make it okay—it just reflects how ingrained these jokes are in our collective consciousness. By contrast, mean-spirited comments about vulvas tend to come fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:11 AM
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What would you consider to be a “reasonable time”?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:21 AM
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Do you have evidence to support this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:15 AM
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You can structure things as though they’re a valid argument. Doesn’t automatically make it one. But attack me and suggest I’m writing buzz-phrases to disqualify me, classic man in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:14 AM
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Did you drive somewhere on a road today? Walk on a footpath? Take public transport? What do you think paid for those things? The magic government fairies? You're clearly just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:30 PM
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What a helpful comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:28 PM
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Oh FFS why do you suppose that is? So sick of this sub full of men thinking that women who stay home and look after children are contributing nothing to society. If your female partner works then it's not fair because she won't keep the house clean and do everything with the kids. If she stays home she's a gold digger. What is it, exactly, that you would like women to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:26 PM
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The mental gymnastics you go through to write these posts is incredible. If the result was anything other than this complete garbage I might actually be impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:53 PM
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Lucky this sub exists to provide balance with a healthy dose of misogyny. 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:20 PM
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most of the changes would have happened anyway Are you sure about that? Feminism actively opposes equal rights for men, infantilizes women, denies them agency, and divides society with hate. Do you have real evidence to support these claims? Other than a few radical articles you've found in the corners of the internet? Ask any woman (or man) who calls themself a feminist and they won't say anything about hating men. Sure, there will always be radicals, but they're not the norm. It's like saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:41 PM
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Mate, you be civil. You completely ignored the premise of my original comment and looked for something to attack me about. I'll ask you again - what would you prefer? Do you think we should all stay home with no right to vote, no right to own property, no ability to have a career? Without feminist action we wouldn't have these things. Throw stones at feminism if you want, but it's disingenuous to suggest that it's been a net negative for society. For men maybe, but why is that now our problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:28 PM
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Women bitch about housework if they live with men who don't lift a finger at home while they both work full time. If we both got home from work and I had to cook dinner, do washing, vacuum, make beds etc etc while he sat on the couch on his phone, then yeah, I'd bitch about it. In many cases women are doing this while also caring for kids - helping with homework, baths, stories, multiple back and forths with kids over bedtime. And I refuse to believe that you have jobs like fixing a toilet and c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:18 PM
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Oh, so what is sexual assault if not "woman hating"? And controlling womens' bodies? What's that - something you do for love? You live in a literal echo chamber and you're suffering from brain rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 11:14 AM
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What would you prefer? That women had stayed under the thumb of men, unable to vote, earn money, own property, have agency over what happened in their own lives etc etc? No progress without struggle. And perhaps you've noticed in the US that "women hating" is pretty popular right now. Want an abortion? Let's make it difficult. Want a political leader who isn't known for sexually assaulting women? Oops, none of those available.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:20 AM
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My father never gave me any advice about men. All of that came from my mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 12:01 PM
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No. It takes time for people to reveal their true selves sometimes. Assholes aren’t generally assholes the first time you meet them. I don’t get why this sub finds this so hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 10:16 PM
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Women in general don't just want sex. They want relationships. So the unattractive woman in this scenario is still not happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:09 AM
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the ladder lol. r/boneappletea
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:19 AM
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What did I say that was misleading? Be specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:16 PM
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What are you trying to say? Your comment makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:05 PM
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OP: sees some influencers making up stories about their ridiculous lifestyles on tiktok. Also OP: ALL WOMEN ARE GOLD DIGGING PROSTITUTES I SAW IT ON THE TIKTOKSSS
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 12:02 PM
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I love how the response to every "that's not how the world works" comment in this sub is "but I've trained tiktok, YouTube and Reddit to only show me content that reinforces my existing unrealistic world view." Try starting fresh online. Make new accounts. Try different platforms. Or better yet, try meeting people IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:59 AM
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What do you base all this on? I'm not "repulsed" by any of the things you've mentioned. I'm also not a financial parasite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:29 AM
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And those who don't take care of kids are usually working in paid employment. Do you really think there are huge numbers of women just hanging about at home all day while their husbands toil away on their hands and knees in the coal mines?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 05:01 AM
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Ah yes of course, because caring for children isn't actually work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 04:10 AM
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So again, what's your point? What do you think women should do? Should we write an open letter to all men saying that we recognise we're so privileged and our lives are super easy and we should give them all daily blow jobs in thanks? This whole argument is meaningless and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:45 AM
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Do you have actual statistics to back up your claims? Or are these just based on your feelings? Also, what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:13 AM
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You're the one who said the majority of women are dating up. I was (obviously sarcastically) countering your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 02:04 AM
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Try not calling women prostitutes and you might have more luck with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:50 AM
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Men are welcome to try "dating up" too. Oh wait, women don't make as much money? huh, couldn't possibly be because of the mythical gender pay gap, could it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:34 AM
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Based on the way you write, I doubt you'll ever be paying for anyone, let alone yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:21 AM
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It sounds like you're frustrated by the idea that earning less money can be seen as an "advantage" in some contexts, while other dynamics (like traditional dating norms or financial support from a partner) aren't scrutinised in the same way. I can understand why that might feel contradictory. However, the gender pay gap isn’t just about who earns more or less—it’s about systemic barriers that disproportionately hold women back in the workplace, such as access to promotions, career advancement, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 01:05 AM
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Lol defending the truth ok. And I'm evil too? Why? Because I don't like it when men take advantage of women? You're deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:49 PM
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What is wrong with you? Why are you so invested in this? Your entire Reddit presence seems to be about hating women. What's that about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:43 PM
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I didn't make up the name, mate. In fact, I hadn't even heard it until your stupid post showed up. I've always heard it referred to as the second shift. Which is more realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:37 PM
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So you like to cook and you once lived with a woman who wasn't good at cooking. This doesn't prove that all women are shit at cooking and all men are good at it. Back to my earlier point, if men are so good at it, they can just take over. We're not all so stupid that we want to make our lives more difficult. Stop trying to prove something that is inherently false.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:33 PM
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You can interpret the names however you like. That's not what they mean though. Nobody is suggesting that women do double the work of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:30 PM
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Where does it say that the second shift or double burden are about women working 200% more than men? That's not what it means. You've completely misunderstood how this works, but carry on digging your hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 09:28 PM
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If men are so much better at cooking and cleaning up afterwards, why don't they just do it? If she's making meals that are too complex and unhealthy, what's stopping you from taking over?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:51 PM
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How about, instead of trying to find ways to refute the data that's staring you in the face, you just believed what women are saying? Your example of single men is stupid. Have you seen how most young single men live? They do the bare minimum so of course it takes less time. When they move in with a women they do even less because she picks up the slack. Also, what this sub always fails to understand is that this type of data is far more relevant to couples with kids. Once kids come along, the "…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:47 PM
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Ooohhhh of course you're right. We women are just too slow at cleaning because of our weak little female bodies. Far out, now I've seen it all in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:15 PM
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Then why is it that even when women earn more money, they still do more unpaid labour around the house? Riddle me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 12:13 PM
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You've started out suggesting that the "double burden" and "second shift" is a "hoax". Yet your post doesn't provide any evidence to support your claim. You must be exhausted from the mental gymnastics it took to completely misunderstand and misrepresent the data. The Eurostat data you cited does show that women, on average, perform more unpaid work (contrary to the title of your post). However, you've claimed this is a reflection of personal choice, especially for single women with no dependent…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:43 AM
2

And why does the public know them by these names? Because as a whole, we don't respect women the way we respect men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 11:53 PM
1

Why do you refer to Trump by his last name, but Kamala and Hillary by their first names? You can’t even show them the respect of treating them as professionals, yet you’re suggesting women and men are treated the same way in professional settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:32 AM
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If I was casually sleeping with a bunch of different guys, then I wouldn't be offended if the one I thought was the father wanted a paternity test. I'd probably offer. However, if my partner of 12 years had asked for a paternity test when I got pregnant, after we'd planned to have a kid, then of course I'd be mad. He would have been accusing me of cheating. Why wouldn't I be offended by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:35 AM
1

This is a nice example of the logical fallacy of false equivalence. These two things are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 09:38 AM
0

You're taking things too literally. Of course women (in general, can't speak for everyone) don't "hate all men". But it makes for a good headline and lots of clicks, so people keep printing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:54 PM
2

Mate, the things you've mentioned aren't unique to women. You could rewrite this whole thing replacing women with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:27 AM
1

If your somehow offended by this exercise in empathy I’m trying to put you through What on earth are you talking about? Are you exhausted from the mental gymnastics you must have gone through to come up with this post? Made up stats. Made up scenarios. Why don't you just say what you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 06:06 AM
11

"And in conclusion, what I really want is for all the women to sign an open letter to all the men, acknowledging their sexual power and apologising for it. Only then will we have true egalitarianism." OP, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 11:27 AM
16

Do you not understand what submissive means? It isn't the same as agreeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:18 AM
12

Lol I'm married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 07:17 AM
64

"All a woman needs to do is just be sUbMissIvE and then I'll agree to wife her!" Yeah right mate, we're so desperate to get married that we'll completely change our bodies, values, personalities, and world views just so we can become your tradwives.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 03:27 AM
5

You seem to have surrounded yourself with stupid people. So they're right, it would be best if they didn't vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:46 PM
2

What reason do these women give for women not being allowed to vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 09:46 AM
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I can't think of anything worse, so I guess it's a regional thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:48 AM
5

RIGHT?! I truly never cared about height that much. It's far down a long list of things I'd consider important. I'm not tall, so I'd prefer not to be with a really tall guy who towers over me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 02:26 AM
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Do you think that a “significant enough percentage of men can’t get into relationships”? And if so, that women should be forced to be in relationships with them to help the “macro level” (whatever you mean by that)?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:45 PM
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Try telling that to the republicans…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:11 AM
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Exactly this. It’s not women who are SAHMs who are complaining about men not pulling their weight. It’s women who work full time who have husbands who also work full time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:26 PM
2

Ok… my partner of almost 20 years is a vegetarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:15 PM
2

Well for starters, we’re not all the same. But I personally don’t want a man who behaves that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:10 PM
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This is all so stupid. The fact that you think women want body builder men who take steroids and can deadlift their own body weight (why would we care about this?) just goes to show how little you understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 06:59 AM
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Why do people in this sub always choose a billionaire or celebrity to hold up as an example for their ridiculous claims? Not everyone is Jeff Bezos.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 07:28 AM
2

You can pay attention to someone without wanting to have sex with them. Or do you want to fuck every man you have a beer with too?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:16 PM
7

I think people in general are less likely to help each other. We're always glued to our phones and hardly notice what's going on around us. But to answer your question, yeah I think men are less willing to help women. I remember once when I was walking with my baby in a pram. The footpath was uneven and on a slope, and the pram started to tip over. I was panicking and trying to get it back up. A young guy walked right past me without so much as an acknowledgement that I was there. I also travell…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 01:19 PM
4

We had a kid when I was 34 and he was 40. I'm happy we waited, but very glad we didn't wait any longer. There's a reason why our bodies are ready to have babies when we're teenagers.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:55 PM
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Men can physically father children for longer, but the quality of their sperm drastically decreases once they hit 40. Also who wants to be looking after a newborn in their late 40s or early 50s?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:41 PM
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Look mate, I don't know them, so I really can't say, but I'll refer you to my earlier comment: As much as we can look after ourselves, many of us still crave and seek out a partnership. I don't think women having their own money means we don't want to be with men. It just makes us more picky about the men we'll put up with, since it's much easier to leave now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:21 AM
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Have you ever tried to adopt a kid? It's not like you just rock up at the adoption store and pick one up. It takes years and it's extra difficult to do it as a single parent. Also, do you have kids? The idea of raising one alone isn't attractive to most people. Babies in particular suck your soul dry, so ideally you want another person to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:17 AM
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What do you mean? Of course they have jobs and money. You can't just buy a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:14 AM
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Are you talking about my last point? If so, the pool of single women who are desperate to find someone to have a baby with is ripe for a single man to tap into. I've seen many perpetually single friends meet a guy, get married and have a kid in the space of 2 years in their 30s. The men are often well below what I'd expect for the women in these scenarios, but the women are so keen to have kids that they lower their standards to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:11 AM
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Yes of course, men get so little out of marriage compared with women. /s This is such a baseless argument and overdone in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:05 AM
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Because we’ve been sold from birth the idea that we’re nobody without a husband. What happens to a single old woman? She’s a dried up old spinster who ends up alone with cats. So sad. What happens to a single old man? He’s a bachelor living large and screwing 22 year olds every night. As much as we can look after ourselves, many of us still crave and seek out a partnership. I don’t think women having their own money means we don’t want to be with men. It just makes us more picky about the men we…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 11:04 AM
0

What? Do you think the church appreciates jokes about sex in the workplace?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 09:55 AM
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Aren’t you clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 08:17 AM
0

That’s just wrong. Regardless of gender, jokes that are sexual in nature are inappropriate at work. Women would be pulled up on this, if they were stupid enough to make these jokes. They’re usually not making them though, since women are generally more sensitive to these things than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 07:50 AM
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A social circle of nice normal people = +1 A social circle of idiots = -10
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:54 AM
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How did they get to be bad people in the first place though? It generally starts in childhood. They see their dad hit their mum, for example. How do women get to thinking that they're worth so little that the best they can expect is a man who hits them? Also starts in childhood. They see their dad hit their mum and think that's normal, for example. They're both coming at this with deep-seated historical views based on their upbringing and experience. So why is it only the women who can change he…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:52 AM
0

How many women do you know who have been in three or more abusive relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:38 AM
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I didn't say you did say that. You seem to hold those types of views though. Nobody chooses to be raped, nor do they choose to be abused. Sure, we can help women to understand these traits etc, but why is it all on them? Why isn't it on the men to understand that it's not ok to hit women (or anyone, for that matter)?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:29 AM
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What in the victim blaming bullshit is this? Do you also think that women who are raped deserved it for dressing provocatively and walking in the dark? Sure, some women seem to be attracted to terrible men. However the men don’t have to abuse them. Nobody seeks out a man who will hit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 11:11 PM
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wtf? If a random man sends me a DM I never respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:26 AM
25

Yes and then he befriends their exes and finds out they never loved them anyway! What is this, some kind of purple pill fanfic?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 07:26 AM
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There's a big difference between Elon Musk and a regular guy on 100k a year. Your post proves nothing. But also, why should women settle for go-nowhere men? We're practical. We plan ahead. I'm not saying we're looking for a man to support us, but we certainly don't want to end up supporting him while he plays video games all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 08:24 AM
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Also do you really think that you doing "other chores" (yet to be specified) and being her "protector" (what does that even mean in this case?) are a fair trade for her doing all cooking and cleaning? I'm just imagining you both getting home from a long day at work. You sit down to watch YouTube or play games or something, while she prepares a meal, does a load of washing, changes the sheets on the bed etc etc. I guess you just being in the house means you're protecting her and therefore don't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:11 PM
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I think you're going to end up living alone forever then. I don't know any women who would accept these terms. This reads like you're looking for a bangmaid roommate. However it sounds like you're ok with that, so carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 01:05 PM
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You expect her to earn as much as you, split costs with you, but still cook and clean? I hope you meant "do her fair share of the cooking and cleaning" and not "do all the cooking and cleaning"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 10:49 AM
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WTF kind of friend group has all the women sleeping with one guy? #neverhappened
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:25 AM
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Show your sources. That quote has been attributed to many authors. Just because the first time you saw it was from some dopey MRA doesn't mean they coined it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:03 PM
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I think it's fair to say this sub is predominantly white.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:23 PM
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Oh right yes, and the people who help elevate men to the point where they're on a ballot on the first place? Overwhelmingly men. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 11:10 AM
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Yes, in context. I used female as an adjective ie, female leader. The person I responded to used men as a noun for men, but female as the noun for women. A female what? Animal? It's unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:33 AM
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You're clearly a seasoned "men's rights activist", well done you. I'm not going to argue with you on every point, since you're not going to believe anything I say anyway. So I'll ask you this. What's your goal? How do you think things should work? Should women go back to staying at home and looking after kids? Should we assume every rape victim is a liar? Should my husband have full control of all our money? Genuinely interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:30 AM
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Oh cool. You think women have been the privileged ones all along? How old are you? 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:16 AM
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Ok, show me your evidence. I'm not going to spend ages looking for perfect data for you, since you clearly won't believe anything I share with you. But here you go. The first result on Google includes links to a bunch of studies. https://www.apa.org/topics/women-girls/female-leaders-make-work-better#:~:text=Decades%20of%20studies%20show%20women,companies%20are%20led%20by%20women. And women work fewer hours at the office because they're more efficient in the time they're working. They have to be,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 09:07 AM
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Are you just trolling now? There is a mountain of research showing that organisations with female leaders are highly successful, and that diverse leadership teams are more successful than those made up of only men. The list of features you seem to think make men successful leaders are the kinds of things men thought were desirable traits 50 years ago. The world has moved on. You'd understand that if you actually worked in any kind of corporate role. Also, this is just semantics sure, but conside…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:39 AM
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Where did you get the idea that I said men were walking around body shaming other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 05:36 AM
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Do you think women would achieve anything close to equality if we'd all just sat back and said "everything is fine!"? Why can't we advocate for ourselves? And if someone is putting "women owned" on packaging, all that suggests is that some people see that as a positive thing. Nobody puts a label on packaging without considering the potential for profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:07 AM
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Seriously? Someone slapping a women owned tag on a product is your evidence that women have "supremacy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:56 AM
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Where do you see women getting "supremacy and preferential/deferential treatment in every regard."? You're making my point for me. Men had these things, and now women want a piece of the pie. Men like you are sad about it. However, politicians are still overwhelmingly men. CEOs are still overwhelmingly men. In the US, women can't even get an abortion or access birth control without a fight in some states. I'm not sure why you think women are taking over the world - perhaps you can enlighten us. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 12:03 AM
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Do you have any idea how many women struggle with low self esteem and imposter syndrome? Maybe you've seen some tiktoks of women talking about how they're 10s and perfect the way they are etc, but this isn't the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:51 PM
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Why is it bad that women have started to be nice to one another? Men should try it sometime. It wasn't men telling women it's ok to be plus sized or "BBW". It was women. Men are more than welcome to start their own body positivity movements.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:50 PM
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Are you insane? Anytime a woman posts anything on social media the comments are full of men putting her down. If she's working out at the gym, she's doing it wrong. If she's happy with her body, no she's too fat and should get over herself. If she's single and happy about it, no way, she will die alone with her cats. You honestly must live on another planet, I truly don't understand how you can think the way you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:47 PM
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When you've always been privileged, equality feels like oppression. Men in this sub would do well to internalise this thought. Maybe print it out and stick it on your wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:45 PM
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I think you have that the wrong way around mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 11:41 PM
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Why would this be an issue? They want something, you don't feel like giving it to them (which is obviously fine) so they find another (perfectly fine) way to get it. What are you trying to get at here? Did this happen to you and did it bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 03:14 AM
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She's just a selfish person. That doesn't mean every woman is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 11:18 PM
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So where do these men who do these things live? Alone, or with friends, right? Once they move in with a woman, they assume she'll take the place of their mother and they leave it all to her. And yeah yeah, not all men. But enough men that every woman I know has experienced this with a man at some point in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 01:23 AM
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People who don't have a firm grasp of the English language?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:36 PM
4

Have you considered that the common denominator in these relationships...is you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:32 PM
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Ugh you've missed the point entirely. If you're in a relationship with a man who thinks being expected to do "teenage chores" is a problem, then it has everything to do with attraction. Women generally aren't sexually attracted to the children in their homes, so as a man, don't behave like a child or you'll be treated like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:20 PM
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Submissive is not the same as agreeable. Got it. Why is this worthy of a post?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 11:16 PM
5

How would you define a hobby?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 01:30 PM
2

I've been with my partner for 19 years. We have a kid and a dog and a house. We're not religious and not married. We preferred to take that money and put it towards amazing holidays and a house that's now paid off. No regrets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:17 PM
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They don't want an "independent" woman because she can leave when she realises what a no-hoper he is. Why would a woman want to be with a man like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:15 PM
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I feel like the answer to every post on this sub is the same: "IT DEPENDS". Women are not a hivemind. Men are not a hivemind. Some women like to stay home and raise kids. Some women want to have careers and hate children. Some men want to be providers with stay at home wives. Some men want to contribute equally with their wives. And a million other options. These things can change during your lives/relationships too. Stop trying to make us all the same!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 11:11 PM
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This is not a healthy relationship. You say you met her at your lowest point, when you had no one else? You’re basically trauma bonded to her. You think she’s the only person who is right for you, and there’s nobody else in your life to take over if she leaves. She doesn’t sound like a great person. You sound like you need to find some other friends and try being single for a while. You’re too codependent on someone who doesn’t love you the way you want to be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 09:58 PM
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Yea, I get that. I just live in the real world where sexual market value isn't a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 01:38 AM
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I wouldn't consider a man 'high value' if he cheats on me. I wouldn't care how much money he earns because I can earn my own money. Red pill men with this attitude shouldn't bother with trying to find one woman to marry etc, since they just want to fuck random women forever and seem to have zero respect for women altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 12:00 AM
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Not all guys only want sex. Just the ones who post on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 07:55 AM
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Oh great suggestion. I hope you're going to stay healthy forever, since there will be no nurses. And never have kids, since there will be no childcare workers or teachers (btw, the last one is already happening).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 01:17 PM
4

Except they don't get all the money, do they? And congratulations on having a job that required paperwork. You must be very high IQ and capable of solid arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 12:11 PM
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Jesus Christ, penniless is a figure of speech here. Clearly I mean women are left with far less money and future job prospects if they have been at home with kids, allowing a man to have a career while her career is non-existent. And he's not dead. He just left.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 11:30 AM
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Yes, women who have been out of the workforce, supporting a man's career for years, tend to be at a disadvantage when that man leaves her for a younger model. But according to you, most divorces are initiated by women. I wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 10:05 AM
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You say women were replaced by phones, and then turn around and say you need us to make babies. Why are you even here if you don't like women and don't need one in your life? I assume you don't want kids, since you think they can be parented by phones and nameless teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:35 AM
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What good argument? Lesbians getting divorced at higher rates doesn't have anything to do with being spoilt princesses. Consider, for a moment, how you'd feel if you weren't lead around by your dick all day. You'd probably be much quicker to leave a relationship that wasn't working. Is that hard to understand? Why is it a bad thing for women to leave relationships that aren't working?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:31 AM
3

Lol what? I have a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:28 AM
3

Ooh ding ding, bringing out the PPD greatest hits, I see. Do you even like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:16 AM
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And you don't care to know the teachers' names? You'd be a shit parent. I'm not sure how a woman would fit into your perfect life, which seems to be entirely fulfilled by a phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:08 AM
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Clearly a woman did something bad to you. I'm sorry that happened to you. We're not all like that. And I'm not sure how you think the phone is getting all this information, and then taking action like purchasing the gifts, actually making the appointments and attending them, cooking the meals and serving them up on whatever colour plate the toddler likes that day. Is your phone from the future, and actually a robot?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 09:07 AM
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It doesn't take long to find evidence of this. Here and here. It's covered in the media in a variety of sources including here and here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 07:20 AM
2

So you've met dozens of horrible people who told you they were feminists. Apparently. Do you give them a survey or something? Have you ever met a woman you actually liked?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 06:58 AM
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Aah the catch cry of this sub “most divorces are initiated by women”. You do realise that this is because someone has to file some paperwork, right? Of course this gets left to the woman. And if men were such great providers to these women who love sitting around and spending their money, why would the women want to get divorced in the first place? You seem to have a very low opinion of women. Where does that come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:48 AM
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Can be replaced with a phone? Wtf are you talking about? Do you think all women do is make lists or something? The fact that you don’t notice all the things that just happen because of womens’ unpaid labour just goes to show why we are where we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:46 AM
3

Oh cool, mental load is just shoe sizes. I see why women spend so much time on it if that's your understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:35 AM
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THAT'S NOT HOW FEMINISM WORKS. Seriously, this sub thinks feminism is man hating lesbians on tiktok. Learn what feminism is before you shit all over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:34 AM
3

And how would 90% of guys feel if she then left him with no money and no career?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:32 AM
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One woman on reddit with this view = all women are power and money mad. Yeah ok. Women are wising up to the fact that our mothers and grandmothers were left penniless and alone by their so called "providers", so we're finding ways to protect ourselves. Not sure why that's an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:31 AM
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Do you think that men who leave their wives and children shouldn't have to continue contributing to the upkeep of those children? And potentially to the wife too, if he expected her to stay home and neglect any potential career opportunities while she was looking after children?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:27 AM
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"women pick lower-earning careers" Or perhaps those careers are low-earning because they've traditionally been filled by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:24 AM
4

Have you ever spent 24/7 with a small child? It's so boring. Sure, some people like it, but why do you think women fought to get out of the house and be able to have jobs of their own? (obviously not the only reason). Kids are great, but like everything, better in moderation. IMO, the ideal situation is for both parents to work part-time so the kid goes to daycare 3 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 03:22 AM
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Why do you assume everyone who identifies as a feminist is getting it from podcasts and tiktok?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:36 PM
4

Why would we date someone who doesn't understand what feminism is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:35 PM
7

Yes, influencers on the internet tell lies. It's not that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 10:44 PM
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I would absolutely never consider dating you, or a man like you. Those views demonstrate that you're both not a nice person, and also an idiot who can't accept hard evidence and scientific research.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:35 PM
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Yes you're right - as I also said - NOT ALWAYS.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:17 AM
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Did I say this is the only way men and women ever interact? Of course not. I simply suggested some situations where I see this happening. Perhaps you can share examples of your own. I'd be interested to delve deeper into the so called "unprovoked mood swings" you speak of. Ultimately, some women are terrible. Some men are terrible. Not sure why that's so hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 06:09 AM
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Perhaps you could tell us which part of what I we wrote is unrealistic. Instead of just throwing stones.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:45 AM
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You mean reality? Just because you don't like it, doesn't mean it isn't true. I'll bet you're one of those charmers who would shame a man for talking about anything other than sports and boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 05:43 AM
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You're equating all women with a woman who is, according to you, mentally ill. We're not all BPD or narcissistic personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:25 AM
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In my experience, men are more likely to be "rude and moody" because they're unhappy about something and they don't know how to deal with it/talk about it eg, he's having a hard time at work, they just had another baby and they're down to one income so he's worried about money, he's exhausted and he just wants to come home and mindlessly scroll on his phone, not wash dishes. He knows he's being a shit partner but he doesn't know how to fix it. When she gets annoyed at him for not contributing ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:21 AM
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I'll be shouted down by all the rubbish men in this sub, but honestly, learn how to talk to your friends about your feelings. Be open to other men sharing their feelings with you - instead of shaming them for it. Don't expect to go from having your mother look after your emotions, to having your partner/wife do it for you. You need a circle of people you can talk to. Had a fight with your girlfriend? You need friends to discuss this with. Having a hard time with being a parent? You need to talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:10 AM
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I'm certainly not saying this is always the case. There will be individual, cultural, generational etc differences everywhere. However to your point that women are the ones who "make life difficult by being rude and moody", I'm not suggesting women are immune from this at all. They just do it for different reasons. I find women more likely to do this as a passive agressive reaction to their needs not being met eg, she looks after the kids all day, cooks dinner and puts the kids to bed. When she …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:01 AM
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Women say they're doing too much to support mens' emotional needs because men typically don't get the help they need from anywhere else. If a woman has an emotional issue, she talks to other women about it, or will tell her male partner and have an ongoing conversation about it. She'll recognise that she might need to see a therapist and she'll organise that herself. If a man has emotional issues he'll typically do nothing. Won't tell anyone, definitely won't talk to his male friends. Won't make…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 10:43 PM
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What are those sources meant to demonstrate? The last two charts, with no context, are completely meaningless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 09:25 AM
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Oh thanks for bringing this up. It's never been discussed here before. Such an important topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/24 08:25 AM
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Do the men in this sub not have jobs/homes/kids/hobbies/friends? Of the hundreds of men I've met as friends, acquaintances and colleagues, I truly don't think more than a handful of them are constantly thinking of how to get new women to have sex with them. I'd be surprised if more than a couple have ever visited a sex worker, other than a lap dance at a bachelor party or similar. Most people have lives that revolve around more than just looking for someone new to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:50 AM
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Not sexually assaulting people isn't a green flag. It's the bare minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:09 PM
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Are you deliberately misunderstanding? You don't get to be an 'ally' by doing the bare fucking minimum. Why would you think this would be the case?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:07 PM
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“Chooses better”? How? Men who turn out to be deadbeat dads don't generally broadcast their intentions when you first meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:44 PM
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What? So she gets blamed for him being a hopeless father? Can women do anything right in this stupid sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:30 PM
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But how did they get to be single mothers? Must be because they are horrible mean women who are keeping the kids from their loving dads! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 01:24 PM
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Oh sorry, must have been my weak insecure mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:01 PM
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So you think women all have "weak insecure minds". That's nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:23 AM
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Why do you care? Honestly - why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 04:37 AM
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Also not American, I didn’t assume you were. However, if you live in a country where men are being conscripted and women are not, then I doubt women have achieved equality there, so you’re arguing about something that doesn’t even apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:38 AM
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Wtf are you talking about? Who is being conscripted? And what makes you think women wouldn’t be included if conscription was suddenly a thing now? Also, if I was going to make an argument about conscription (I wasn’t) all your points would be relevant. You saying they aren’t doesn’t make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:20 AM
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But isn’t that what men are doing? Continuing to hoard resources and power as much as possible, while now whining that you’re being oppressed by the mean fEmAleS?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 09:40 AM
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Men in this sub always say that. So then why are there so few stay at home dads? Could it be because any man who cares for a child solo for more than 24 hours realises that it’s both exhausting and boring, and it’s easier to let a woman do it? It’s easy to say you want to do something. It’s another thing to actually do it b
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:40 PM
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It shows that women are pragmatic and realistic. Why is that a problem? Men in this sub will truly find anything to whine about when it comes to women. If you hate us so much, why are you so desperate to find one of us to stick your dick into?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:38 PM
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“There are more differences in the male population than there are in the female population” WTF are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:21 PM
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“When you grow up with privilege, equality feels like oppression.” Perfect description of OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:19 PM
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Where are these women? TikTok? I’ve never met a woman IRL who spoke like this. Do the other lawyers at your firm raise these ridiculous arguments with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:05 PM
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What do you expect? Do you want women to think about mens’ needs every time they do something? Men carried on for centuries without giving women a second thought. Now that things have changed a bit, why should women behave any differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 10:03 PM
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“When women speak about traditional gender roles they don’t like, they use phrasing like ‘That’s just an outdated societal construct’. When they talk about traditional gender roles they do like, ‘that’s just always how it’s always been done in nature.’” Women who say the first line absolutely do not also say the second line.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:36 PM
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Could you use any more words to state the bleeding obvious? I swear this sub gets stupider by the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 05:25 AM
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FFS, what is wrong with you? Women have to be perfect and young and fertile, but as soon as they actually have a kid and their body changes / they don't have time to be at the gym 7 days a week, you think they should be thrown on the scrap heap? And who cares if they think they're attractive or not? What's wrong with having decent self esteem? Could it be because you know, deep down, that the only way you'll get a woman to come near you is if her self esteem is in the basement because it's been …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:46 AM
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But if we did all disappear, they'd be whining that there was nobody to look after the kids, cook the meals, care for the elderly, work as nurses and on and on. You know, all the jobs that aren't important and are super easy and fun! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 06:35 AM
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What is it that you want from women over 35? Should we all go and hide in caves so you don't have to see us? I don't understand why you're so troubled by our very existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:38 AM
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What is wrong with women being confident? How does it hurt you? What is it that you think they feel entitled to that is a problem for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:13 AM
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Are you worried that a woman who hits you is going to kill you? I’m guessing the answer is no. There’s the difference. Generally, a man is not at risk of death when a woman hits him. The same can’t be said of a woman being hit by a man. And regardless, it’s childish to suggest that if someone hits you, you should hit them back. What’s stopping you from just walking away? Finally, got a source for your comment that woman perpetrate DV more than men? Regardless of whether this is true or not, it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 11:05 PM
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Man hating ≠ feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:30 AM
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Yes, that's what they said. The 'lumpenproletariat' includes poor people who still have kids while the 'educated middle class' does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 11:27 AM
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Usually this is related to men in relationships who do the bare minimum, and are congratulated for it by their partners and society in general. Like “so grateful to Jeremy for babysitting the kids for an hour so I can go to the doctors appointment I’ve been putting off for two years“ ✨ “he’ll load them up with sugar and hype them up before bedtime but he’s SUCH A GOOD DAD and I’m SO LUCKY!”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:39 AM
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Not as upset as she’d be if you told your friends she was bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:13 AM
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Was that meant to be funny?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 11:13 PM
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Why do you assume that women don’t want to be single over 40? Plenty of women have been partnered up/married, realised it’s not worth the trouble, and have left.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 12:24 AM
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This reads like you’ve never actually encountered a baby or small child. I can see how in your head this seems like a good idea, but in reality it would be terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 06:19 PM
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Do you even understand what that 70% stat is? You seem to think it means 70% of women are unhappy in their marriages. That's not what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:39 AM
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You're contradicting your original point. Women have standards (pretty low standards if you consider what many of them put up with) and men don't meet them. Why should they stay with men who are terrible partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 05:20 AM
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Why do you think people split up then? Since you seem so sure that men couldn't possibly be at fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:53 AM
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Sale? Did you read my initial comment? I think marriage is a waste of time for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:32 AM
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Fewer and fewer benefits and more and more responsibility. That is what a *woman* has to look forward. Oh and add to this the ever present threat that if *he* wakes up one day and feels some way *he* can literally blow up the life you have built. See how these are interchangeable? What you said is in no way limited to mens' experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 03:01 AM
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No, none of this. I'd never "surrender" to a man. That's stupid. I'm my own person and would never feel comfortable being completely reliant on someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 12:29 AM
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This is so stupid. You think women aren’t providing for men in marriages? There’s a lot more to provide than just a pay cheque. If men were such great “providers”, why are women divorcing them so frequently? Marriage is unnecessary in general. It’s terrible for women. Maybe slightly less terrible for men. Still terrible overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 09:51 PM
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One of the most common gripes women in long term relationships have, is that they feel like they’re constantly showing love to their partners, while he rarely reciprocates. For example - she plans elaborate and thoughtful gifts for him (and his family members), but when her birthday or Mother’s Day rolls around, he does nothing, or almost nothing (wilting flowers from the grocery store and a cheap bath bomb etc). Women are socialised from birth to do these things. Maybe you don’t see it in early…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:26 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:04 AM
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Oh look, men say it too! https://www.tiktok.com/search?q=chance%20ugly%20girl&t=1708472864301
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:48 PM
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I don't disagree with you. But that still doesn't make Taylor Swift an average woman. In case you missed it, we're not just talking about looks here...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:51 PM
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It's one of the primary arguments on this sub. Apparently if a man is short then he will be single forever. Weird though, how evolution hasn't bred short people out, since none of them are able to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:55 AM
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Being committed to a partner is not a conservative value. That’s just being a decent person. Also sharing evidence from The American Spectator and a single TikTok isn't exactly a watertight argument. The Spectator references a 2012 paper written for an undergraduate honours degree. They surveyed 57 people at a Christian University. Hardly representative of the general population. https://digitalcommons.olivet.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1019&context=honr_proj#:~:text=According%20to%20Turner%…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:53 AM
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Did you mean not "valued"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 08:43 AM
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Why do you think women need to be penalised for simply aging?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:24 AM
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Ah yes, Taylor Swift. The perfect example of an average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:21 AM
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Are you suggesting that men don't pick the most "fit" women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:37 AM
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Research shows this is the case. It's not just my idea, it's been demonstrated by science.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:33 AM
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You're deliberately misunderstanding me. Yes, women pursue men. But not always in the same way men do. Do you truly think that every woman has a line of men waiting to marry her? That's nonsensical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:30 AM
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Your little theory would work the same way for women too. Unhealthy, poor, homeless, diseases, obese, drug addicted scumbag women are just as unlikely to be married. And Clooney and DiCaprio are clearly outliers. Completely unreasonable to cite them as sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:23 AM
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Where do you get this idea that only healthy, fit men are getting married? And that only women have choices in relationships? Just because nobody wants to be with you doesn't mean this is the case for everyone. Women are constantly pursuing men, waiting for them to ask them out or ask them to get married. Your comments make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:21 AM
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Do you have a source for your anecdata?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:01 AM
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The same reason people play the lottery, or go to casinos. Everyone thinks they will be the special one who it works out for.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:46 AM
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Why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:06 AM
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Because we're trained from birth to think it's desirable and that if we don't do it we risk winding up a crazy old cat lady. But plenty of women are waking up to the scam and just avoiding it altogether. More and more of us were raised on the idea that we can do anything - we don't have to just be someone's wife. Which is bad news for all the redpill men who grew up on a diet of "there's a woman waiting to marry you and wash your undies and have your kids and have sex with you all the time!"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:06 AM
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Women are brought up on a diet of rom coms and "don't become a lonely old woman surrounded by cats!!!" We're taught we have to catch a man who will pick us to be his wife. Even if he's a bit of a dick who contributes little to our lives, we're supposed to be grateful he chose us - we're so lucky to be saved from a sad and lonely life with cats. Now we can have a wedding! How fun! This sets relationships up for failure. Women get married expecting a fairy tale ending. Then they realise they have …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:30 AM
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Rubbish. Women aren't better off married. We're sold the idea that we have to do it, so women continue to seek it. But we benefit far less than men do. Study after study shows this. Married men are healthier, earn more, have more free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:22 AM
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I don't care about marriage, but if you want a LTR you need to be clear with each other about your plans. If one of you wants kids and one doesn't, you're asking for trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 06:18 AM
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I don't think older women and feminists are "confused" by this. Unimpressed, sure. But confused? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 10:01 PM
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What about this is sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:15 PM
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So you would trust the men in MGTOW subs over actual science? Think about that for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:34 PM
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Why do you think marriage counsellors are "biased against male relationship needs"?
/r/RedPillWives02/02/24 06:25 AM
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And BTW, it is totally possible for a man to be a high earner but still be a decent and contributing partner. My husband is a partner in a law firm and earns an obscene amount of money. I work part time in tech and we have a 5 year old. Up until a year ago I also worked full time and earned a significant amount too. He comes home at a reasonable time every day. He is involved in the bedtime routine with our daughter every night. He never had an issue with me having a career. In fact I think he'd…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/24 06:22 AM
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These thoughts and feelings keep coming up because you're starting to realise that you've been manipulated and mistreated by him for years. You don't want to address these things because you know, deep down, that if you do, you'll have to leave him. You're worth more than this.
/r/RedPillWives02/02/24 06:14 AM
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It sounds like he wants a red pill wife, but you don't want to be one (nor should you). He is manipulating you into thinking he's so "high value" that you should give up on your own hopes and dreams to be with him. Don't do it! A man is not a financial plan. You'll end up alone with no money and kids to support when he gets bored of you and finds someone younger/more willing to put up with his neverending list of demands. If you're already feeling like he wants sex too much, imagine how you'll f…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/24 06:07 AM
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Not sure where you got "shaming" from. I think it's pretty common knowledge that a doctor would earn more than a person collecting garbage. I also put garbage man in quotes since I wasn't sure they meant a literal rubbish collector, or if they were referring to the men who behave like garbage (and seem to frequent this sub).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:11 AM
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they def would prefer saying ' I'm dating a doctor ' instead of dating a garbage man. Do you really think that any woman would prefer dating a "garbage man" over a doctor? Why is it bad for woman (or men) to seek a partner who they don't have to prop up financially?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 11:35 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 02:36 AM
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This reads like “I was smacked as a child and I turned out ok, so I’ll smack my kids as much as I like”. You can still be a man while experiencing and showing these emotions. If everyone taught their sons that, then it would be normal and not an issue. And as an added benefit, perhaps it would be safer for women to walk alone at night too. See how that works? And BTW, anger is also an emotion. We don’t seem to have a problem teaching men to express that whenever they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:02 AM
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Could you try any harder to misunderstand my point? If boys are taught that it’s not masculine or manly or whatever stupid term you like to show that they’re scared etc, they’ll bottle it up and not show it. Of course they’ll still ‘experience’ it. They just won’t show it and won’t get support from anyone to handle it. Then when they’re older and a woman asks them why they’re such an asshole/offers him the opportunity to talk about his emotions, he’ll finally spill them all. And then, according …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:40 AM
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It all starts in childhood. If you have a son, teach him that it’s ok to feel sad/anxious/scared etc. That way he can experience those things as a child instead of releasing them on a woman when he’s 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 01:02 AM
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Ah yes, it’s good to be a SAHM, where your single difficult task once a week is to sweep the floor. And TBH, I thought men were meant to be smart and masters of efficiency. Why wouldn’t you just buy a vacuum?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:13 PM
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Then why don’t they do them? If they truly care about their spouses, they’d take on more of these basic and simple tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:04 PM
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People love to be nickel and dimed in their relationships. I can just imagine them sitting down on a Sunday night, planning out how he has to do 63% of the work around the house that week. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 10:02 PM
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You don't seem to have any grasp on the amount of effort involved in having a child. Two things can be true at once. He can work hard to make money for the family. She can work hard to look after kids (and also have a paid job, ideally). Neither of these is less valuable to the family. Men in this sub seem hell bent on the idea that a man with a pay cheque provides far more value to a family than a woman looking after kids. This is wrong. Her work is just as valuable as his. The sooner you reali…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:13 PM
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Maybe men should step up and not be such lazy, hopeless assholes, who see relationships as entirely transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:49 PM
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Not crazy at all. Unless every mum I've ever met or encountered in an online mums group is making it up. When they first get together a lot of couples fall into traditional gender roles. He takes out the rubbish, mows the lawn, cooks a BBQ once in a while. She cooks and cleans and irons his shirts because she wants him to know what great wife material she is. They're playing house and it's all great. They both have plenty of time to do all this so this is all fine until... A baby comes along! Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:47 PM
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This happens all the time. Men always think they want kids, until they realise just what having kids actually entails. Also, women have been trained from birth to believe that their goal in life is to be "picked" by a man and chosen to be a wife and mother. They're so desperate for this happy ending that they'll put up with a fair amount of rubbish to achieve it. But once they have kids they start to realise just how terrible their so called "partners" are and they either try to get him to step …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:30 PM
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Ah of course, she can get a full time job! And he will obviously help by picking up the slack at home. /s Professional women end up working part time or leaving the workforce altogether everyday because they realise nobody else is going to take care of things at home. Most men never even think twice about this - they just assume they can carry on working full time while she carries the load of the kids and the house and everything that comes with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:20 PM
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Weirdly enough, men don't tend to broadcast this before they have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:25 AM
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20 hours PAID work per week. They also have 3 kids in this scenario. But let's assume she loves every minute of the time she spends looking after kids, cooking and cleaning, organising play dates, paying bills, buying gifts for family members etc etc etc. I can't imagine why women might want the opportunity to work outside the home when the alternative is staying home and dealing with all this crap on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:59 AM
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Exactly. It's super common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:57 AM
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"looking up the child"? Where? On Facebook where you'll see updates from your ex since she left you years ago? Wtf are you talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:51 AM
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Lol ok mate, tell me what you'd do in the first five years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:46 AM
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You think just because a guy earns money that women should bow down to him and be grateful. But for what? We can earn money on our own now. We don't have to put up with the pathetic scraps men like you seem to think we should be grateful for. It's time for you to realise that women can and do see men as more than just cash registers. We expect a partnership where we discuss how much we each contribute to paid and unpaid work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:08 AM
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More likely he never asked her if that's what she wanted. He probably works 70 hours a week because he wants to be out of the house since she's always "nagging" him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:15 AM
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The OP didn't say she left for another man. Why are you so sure she left for someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:30 AM
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You've clearly never spent any time around small children. Or women. You're deluded if you seriously think you could have a child with someone and then ignore the child for FIVE WHOLE YEARS without the two of them packing up and leaving you. But since this is just one of the reasons why you're against men raising infants between 0 and 5 years, I'd love to hear the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:27 AM
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If there's a better option out there for her, why wouldn't she take it? (and I'm not just talking about another man). Women are realising that they can expect more from a man. They can get a job and support themselves - they don't need to put up with a hopeless man who does nothing to help them other than provide a salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:23 AM
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You're just telling/hearing his side of the story. Her side goes: We had three kids because he wanted more, but he never helped much. Wanted a medal if he changed a dirty diaper. Wouldn't even know the names of the kids' school teachers and needed reminders on their birthdays. He was always there at the birthday parties though - smiling and accepting congratulations from everyone about what a great dad he was, while I slaved away in the kitchen to organise everything and make the day special. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:27 AM
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Yes, that's why I replied to him, not you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:40 AM
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That's a terrible comparison. Of course we'd have a problem with people tattooing babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 08:12 AM
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You realise she isn't the only one who can take care of birth control, right? Ever heard of a condom? If she says she doesn't want you to wear one, then you don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:11 AM
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Well yeah, obviously. But the question was specifically aimed at men avoiding child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:10 AM
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Don't want to get "baby trapped"? Don't have sex. Seriously. If you're so terrified that a woman will have a baby and come after you for child support, then you shouldn't be having sex. If that's too difficult for you, at the very least you should be making sure you're taking responsibility for birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:11 AM
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I wouldn't ask, because marriage isn't in my best interests either. Men benefit more from marriage than women. They're healthier, earn more, have more success in their careers... I'm not sure why they're so keen to avoid it, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 12:33 AM
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I think when women are young they may think this would be a good arrangement. Especially if they don't have a 'career' type job. But I know very few women who've had kids and then want to stay at home with them full time. I love my kid, but there's no way I want to be with her 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 12:59 AM
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Nothing about this video is impressive. It's boring. I assume he's trying to get internet points for doing housework and being nice to his partner, ie, doing the absolute bare minimum she should expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:12 AM
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I think a man who does all this stuff is attractive. But a man who does all this stuff and posts a tiktok about it to get internet points? Not attractive at all. I don't need my relationship to be performed for people to gawk at online. If a woman posted this video like this everyone would be like "so what? That's a normal day for you".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:07 AM
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You (and the OP) are confusing two different things. Real life women who expect men to pay. Online women who say they expect men to pay for dinner because they got dressed up and put make up on. How do you know 2 is the reason for 1? I’d hazard a guess that the women who are letting you pay aren’t really giving it that much thought. They’re benefitting from a societal norm and you’re letting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:57 PM
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“Better, stronger men” - describe to me how they’re different? In my experience, the men who are worst at this are the ones who are more “red pilled”.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:32 PM
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Another non-sensical post. Women don’t expect men to pay for a date because she got dressed up and wore makeup. These two things are unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:54 AM
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That’s a great plan - I wish more men could do this. So many just take a week or two after the birth, when the baby is super cute and everyone is telling you how great they are and bringing you gifts and food. Unfortunately it doesn’t usually stay that way!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:13 AM
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Obviously when a woman is pregnant and breastfeeding she’s doing more of the work. But when kids are a bit older there’s no reason things can’t be shared more equally. However, I don’t think anyone expects it to be exactly equal. Just that each person does their fair share of work (both paid and unpaid) and gets their fair share of leisure time. This isn’t difficult to understand. I think part of how things go awry when people have kids is because women typically stay home with babies for a whil…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 06:58 AM
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You’re completely missing the point. Since you apparently need everything explained to you like you’re a 6 year old, I’ll spell it out. If someone takes a task off my list and says they’ll do it, then they need to DO IT. Not behave like an intern who I need to micromanage. Don’t ask me questions at every step of the way, especially not things you can work out yourself (like what’s the phone number). The Tuesday middle of the day time suggests he gave up and chose the easiest option without consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:27 PM
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How did you get “women don’t communicate” from my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:00 PM
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We’re talking about coding jobs. Not nursing. But if you’d like to get into whataboutisms, go right ahead. I’ll start. How is it that jobs dominated by men (like software development) are highly compensated, when jobs dominated by women (like nursing and childcare) are so poorly compensated?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:15 PM
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Did I say somewhere that men shouldn’t be in coding jobs? And where did I (or any woman for that matter) blame men for every problem in my life? You’re projecting pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:12 PM
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I’m not suggesting this can’t be done. Plenty of families have this worked out. But even in the most egalitarian relationships, I know a lot of women who still carry the bulk of the mental load. Especially when it comes to the kids. If we try asking the men in our lives to take this stuff on, it goes one of two ways: It just doesn’t get done (“oh little Susie doesn’t actually need ballet classes does she?” Meanwhile little Susie is crying to Mum about how everyone else does ballet and it’s too l…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:55 AM
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Out of all this, the weaponised incompetence is the thing you’re going to take issue with? If she didn’t work this stuff out, it would never happen. The clothes would all be a lovely shade of greige. The kids would be treating the cockroaches as pets.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 10:32 AM
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“Women hate coding” is the kind of stupid BS that this sub is filled with. Maybe some women hate it, but you can’t just tar us all with the same brush. Plenty of men hate it too. Per another comment in this thread, more than 20% of software developers are now women, and this number continues to grow. We don’t hate coding.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:15 AM
2

Sounds super welcoming for women. I can’t imagine why they don’t stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:05 AM
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<image> And when he’s the sole earner, she’s doing nearly 5 times more caregiving and housework than he is! I’m all for using data to support your statements. But not if you’re just going to make it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:08 AM
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When she is the primary earner she is still doing more caregiving and housework! The only time he does more is if she’s the sole earner, and even then, not much. Yet he’s getting almost double the amount of leisure time she is. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:06 AM
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The first one, which is about “egalitarian” marriages shows women doing 11.5 hours per week on caregiving and housework. Her husband does 7. The difference between those two numbers is… NOT 2. And BTW, it’s not generally the women in egalitarian relationships who are complaining about this stuff. They already feel that the load is shared (even if they’re doing more). <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:03 AM
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I can’t see anything in there that suggests only 2 hours more. Everything suggests women do more than that in every scenario. Even the one where the woman is the primary or sole earner! She still does more 🙄 Perhaps you can highlight where it actually says women only do 2 hours more per week.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:48 AM
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Can you show us the study you referenced that says women do only 2 hours extra per week?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:23 AM
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To be honest, it’s not the housework side of things that most women complain about. In my experience it’s two things: Not being appreciated for this work. Women often find themselves thanking men for “helping” with housework, but men rarely thank their partners for this. It’s just assumed she’ll do it. The mental load around running a household and caring for kids. Who notices you’re out of toilet paper and adds it to the list? Who researches the five different ballet classes your kid could go t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 04:20 AM
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What, exactly, is your point? I don’t recall saying that the women were doing 100% of the work. You’re just arguing for the sake of arguing, which is stupid when you’re clearly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:23 AM
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But they do accept this scenario. To the tune of 54% of families surveyed in the research YOU shared. Why do you think they don’t? And it’s not bait. It’s completely realistic. I’m in numerous online mums groups positively overflowing with women complaining about this exact scenario. Do you think they’re all making it up?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:13 AM
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So when men care for children, that’s somehow going against nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 03:04 AM
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Why do you think being a woman makes someone more “naturally geared to caring”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:54 AM
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They’re not stuck in these relationships. They’ve just been conditioned to accept them. But if you wonder why women are angry, maybe consider that this is part of the reason. And yes, 54% is a majority. I don’t see a majority of men (6%) stepping up. Plus, my initial statement was that many women accept the scenario in the original post every day. Which was correct based on the research you kindly provided. The point of the post was about whether men would be willing to accept this scenario, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 02:01 AM
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Mate, you just made my point for me. More than half of families surveyed where both parents work full time (in 2015, not exactly recent) said women are doing more. That’s not to say that the men are doing more in 46% of families. No, men only do more in 6% of these families. Nice work completely misunderstanding the first result from google though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:27 AM
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How is this any more ragebaity than the mountains of posts from men about sex being mandatory and women being mean to men all the time? All she’s asking is whether or not you’d be willing to accept a situation that women accept every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:28 PM
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So the thing that nothing would make you more depressed to do is what your wife does every day. I hope you thank her regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:27 PM
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You’re deliberately misunderstanding the post. Don’t be that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:50 PM
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You’re writing like this never happens. In fact this happens ALL THE TIME. In households everywhere. It’s just that the genders are reversed. And of course, men think that’s totally fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:49 PM
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She didn’t say most married women are the breadwinners. She did say they usually work outside the home while also doing the majority of the childcare/home/mental load work. This is absolutely the case and arguing about it doesn’t make it any less true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:44 PM
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Hahahaha laundry once a week with kids. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:38 PM
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I don’t think Breaking Bad was made “for men”. It appealed to both genders IMO. That’s part of why it was so successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:10 AM
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Plenty of women do what? Let the house fall apart? Not sure not doing that would be considered a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:54 PM
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Men: I just want a beautiful woman who takes care of herself. Fit, healthy, active (no fatties!). She also needs to be able to support herself (no gold diggers!). She should be able to cook and clean and take pride in her home and appearance (no slobs!). Also men: Why are these active, smart, house proud women unwilling to just let the house fall apart and have sex with me whenever I want? 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:51 PM
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Why do you think only men pay for porn? Also, I’m sure there are plenty of people who sign up for an account to look around, and then never go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:45 AM
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“There’s so much money to be made by people experiencing trauma” you didn’t say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:32 AM
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Interesting. Thank you for sharing. I’m not sure I’d consider the majority of items in this small survey as “abusive as fuck” though. The breakdown of the actual questions is available here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:31 AM
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This whole post is about women being abused by men. So yes, obviously I assumed you meant women. But ok. Let me rephrase. You honestly think people knowingly put themselves into abusive relationships to get money?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 04:03 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:54 AM
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You really think women knowingly put themselves into abusive relationships to get money? That’s the dumbest thing I’ve read on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:35 AM
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a) no birth control or limited access means more babies b) limited health care means fewer babies survive to adulthood, so you have to have more c) people live longer, and in many developed countries (especially the US) there’s a very limited social safety net for old people. Better to have a paid off house and a million in the bank than live on the streets with a crowd of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:35 AM
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Why don’t you think they’d be on there to look at porn? And I don’t think it’s unreasonable for people to create an account to check it out. I think you’re reaching if you’re trying to suggest that 28% of women in that age bracket are keen to start having sex for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:14 AM
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These articles say there are only around 2 million creators though. Across the whole OF platform. Users ≠ creators.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:18 PM
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No. I mean I guess some women may like this, but if this were the case there wouldn't be many couples, would there?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:27 AM
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Dan is clearly terrible in bed. Probably spends the whole time trying to reenact his favourite porn scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:38 AM
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Why should she let you make the final decisions on everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:03 AM
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I didn't say they all do all those things. But women in general do the bulk of those tasks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:42 AM
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Why would any self-respecting woman go for this? If the only thing he provides is money, why would anyone think this is a good deal for her? Maybe you haven't heard, but women can get jobs now!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:38 AM
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Because we'd prefer you don't treat a date like a job interview
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:34 AM
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We wouldn't be washing clothes for a man who didn't exist. Or buying Christmas gifts for his mother. Of course women do these things regardless of whether a man is there. But why do you suppose women suddenly pick up a pile of extra household tasks as soon as a man moves in?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 09:48 PM
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Do you have any data to back up your stupid comments? You keep scolding us for "sharing anecdotes" (so sorry for speaking about personal experience 🙄) yet you've not shared one shred of actual data to support your claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:08 AM
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Wow, I guess I (and all the other women piling on) am a bot posting about my fake experiences. /S You're just trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 08:06 AM
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Do you know the vast majority of women? Do you know any women? I don't actually know a single woman who wants to be a full time, stay at home parent. And are you deluded when you suggest that women "select" to stay at home with kids? Perhaps you don't remember a time not that long ago when women weren't allowed to continue working after getting married, because it was assumed they would stay home with kids. When it was totally normal for women to get paid less than men (still is in some cases, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:59 AM
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Do these things not benefit others? how is looking after children not the most selfless thing you can do? And are you suggesting that looking after children is easier than the "hard work" men do? Do you think that by lifting a few bricks for 8 hours a day you're somehow better than a woman who looks after a baby 24 hours a day? Why do you always have to belittle the work that women do? I've looked after a baby, and I've worked full time (right now I have a child AND I have a job - shocking as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 04:16 AM
1

So what do you call it when people get older and split up, if neither of them is cheating? And many people's core values change in their 20s. That's when most people start paying attention to politics, moving away from religious upbringings etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 01:07 AM
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Of course people grow apart. If you meet someone when you're 20, you're going to do a lot of growing up by the time you're 30. I'm a completely different person at 40 than I was at 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:20 PM
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Women are incapable of seeing a life where they aren't constantly doing something for their own benefit Weird how women do most of the child raising, laundry, house cleaning, life admin for men etc etc. All super self-centred activities. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:10 PM
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I've managed to find a man to live with who doesn't do these things. But all you have to do is scroll through any mums group on social media to see the vast numbers of men who behave this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:53 PM
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Please tell me more about how men do things differently. Takes the kids to Maccas instead of cooking? Leave the broken object in the middle of the living room for six weeks until his partner fixes it herself? Teaches his sons to treat women like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:00 PM
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Based on your list, yeah, men are pretty useless. I can provide food, fix my own broken objects and provide wise guidance to my children, thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:12 AM
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If you want a woman to think you're "good" at sex, you don't need loads of practice. You just need to focus on getting her off. Ask her what she likes and go from there. Be generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:13 AM
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Well yeah. Why shouldn't they? If a woman stays home to raise kids so a man can go out and work, then of course she's entitled to compensation when he leaves her for a younger model. I don't understand why you have a problem with that. Was she supposed to be working on her career from midnight to 3am when she had free time?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:12 AM
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How does initiating divorce mean that the women are not "marriage worthy" (whatever that is supposed to mean)? Wouldn't it indicate that the problem was with the men, and the women just woke up to how shit it was being married to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:06 AM
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Why would his wife be ok with that? Have you ever met a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:38 PM
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Is it a partner he wants? Or a prostitute. I'm not sure these are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:36 PM
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That makes no sense. You're saying that if he contributes around the house the way a normal, decent person would, that's enough for him to have unlimited access to his partner's body? Even if she's not interested? Why would any woman want this delightful arrangement?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 11:16 PM
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Oh and the things men allegedly promise women have no strings attached? What was that you said about "sex on demand"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:51 PM
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Also here's how "diversity hiring" actually works in a lot of situations: "Hey we noticed our leadership team is made up of 90% white men. Maybe we've been unconsciously hiring people just like us. Next time we have a vacancy we should make more of an effort to find someone different." Then when it comes time to hire... "Oh weirdly no women or black people applied. Actually one woman did, but she had kids to look after so we couldn't really see that working. So we just went with Chad. He's reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:34 PM
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Are you deluded? Look around - it's not like there are hoardes of unemployed white men struggling to survive. Also, if a woman has been a SAHM and has no experience working (and has nobody to care for her children), "diversity hiring" isn't going to get her anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:27 PM
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Oh yes sure, you're right. As long as we're under 25, have a job, but not too good a job, want kids, but don't want to stay home with the kids, look gorgeous at all times, but never wear makeup, down to fuck whenever, but not a slut. Anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:35 AM
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"you fall for trolling" lol Isn't this whole sub one giant troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:46 AM
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Omg it's like you've listened to nothing. WHAT YOU'RE DESCRIBING IS NOT A LOVING RELATIONSHIP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:31 PM
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You want me to go and listen to a comedian to find out about how this works? You understand what comedy is, right? Here's a tip, you're not meant to take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:30 PM
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Why are you bothering with lining up chicks if you find women so intolerable and transactional? I hope none of them take you for the $150 you have in your savings account.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:27 PM
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Why do you have to make up a new phrase for what is essentially the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:26 PM
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I've never heard anyone call someone a human doing. Did you just make that up or is it a RP thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:25 PM
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Him, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:24 PM
2

Him, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:23 PM
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Oh how dare someone tell you what you think. /s What a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:37 PM
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What does "human doings" have to do with anything? It's any person's nature to require resources. Why is it only women who need to get them from men? I'm not sure why you made this post as a "question for women". Since all you're doing is telling us all that we're lying and don't know our own "nature". No wonder nobody will sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:34 PM
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Because, per my and everyone else's comments, we're not prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:29 PM
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You could write this whole diatribe again, replacing "man" with "woman" and it would have the same meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 12:10 PM
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You seem to think that the only need a woman has is to be financially secure, and the only way she can get that is through a man. You're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:29 AM
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Why can't women make their own comfortable lives? I have my own career and ability to earn money. I don't need to prostitute myself to live a comfortable life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:26 AM
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As a real life woman, I would say no to this question. And so would most of the others on this thread apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:25 AM
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Why are you so certain that women are, by nature, "transactional"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:24 AM
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You don't know me, yet you're accusing me of lying because of my "nature". That's pretty stupid. Why did you ask the question if you were going to accuse women who respond of lying? Do you know anything about how happy relationships work? Or women? You're saying that women would happily live with someone who constantly cheats on them, yet she has to remain faithful, just so she can be a SAHM with lots of money? You really believe that all women see men as is a pay cheque and a way to have kids. …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 11:16 AM
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What a stupid question. Of course not. But then, I'm a real life woman not the imaginary 2D cut out of a woman you've conjured up who just sees men as a way to get money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:33 AM
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So, you only see a woman as a means to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 06:30 AM
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If you were 31 you wouldn't take a woman seriously over the age of 25. What happens when you're 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 05:04 AM
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You'd better hope you don't age in that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:58 AM
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Mate, every post in this sub is written this way. And most of them are men making broad generalisations about women. I've said before that women make sweeping generalizations based on minorities and outliers, and this post just confirms my belief. So one woman making a sweeping generalisation confirms your belief that all women make sweeping generalisations? See how circular your logic is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:56 AM
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A man who thinks I'm valueless once I'm over 25 is a man who is valueless to me. Why would I even consider him to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:52 AM
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You need to change your mindset on this. Go into relationships with an open mind, not thinking "I'll just treat you as 'semi-casual' (whatever that is) and as a placeholder until I'm ready for the real thing".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:14 AM
2

And yet this sub is still full of men trying to manipulate one into having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 04:02 AM
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Right about what? That women are malicious and bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:08 AM
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🙄 they’re defending themselves from revenge porn. They’re not the ones starting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 10:03 AM
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FFS, I never suggested that women were malicious or bitter. I said they’d ask for pics in exchange for pics of them, because women realise they need to protect themselves from men who can potentially turn on them in a second if they don’t behave the way they want. This isn’t malicious, it’s smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:58 AM
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Out of touch with what? Our own gender? I can guarantee women here understand more than men do about how women feel and what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:46 AM
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“You must be a treat of a woman”. Not insulting at all. I never suggested women were malicious or bitter or petty. I just said they don’t like pictures of dicks. Because they don’t. Ask any group of women and you’ll get a similar response. Of course there are exceptions, but most women do not enjoy seeing photos of your dick. If you’re actively in a relationship with someone and she’s into it, then sure, go your hardest. But women in general would prefer not to see your dick. Have you noticed th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:45 AM
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Mate, no trauma here. Just a woman who knows many other women and none of them enjoy a dick pic. And I’m not suggesting a circle of women giggling over your videos. That may be your fantasy but it’s pretty unrealistic. And you don’t need the insults. Really doesn’t add to your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:32 AM
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Oh FFS, nobody wants your unsolicited pic. Seriously. It’s considered sexual assault for a reason. What positive reactions have you received?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:29 AM
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Yeah right. After you begged her for nudes first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:19 AM
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So I refer you to my earlier comment: she’s making sure she has something of yours up her sleeve in case you leak her pics or try to use them for revenge porn. And she’s laughing at your ridiculous jerking off videos with her friends. Guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 09:13 AM
1

Were they also sending you photos or videos of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:57 AM
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Exactly re TikTok - people will post anything on TikTok to get views. The stupider the better. Most people realise this, but some gullible idiots actually take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:44 AM
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Where the hell are you going with your last question? How does sex drive have anything to do with fear of being raped? Are you trying to suggest that if women are hornier than men they’d enjoy being raped? That’s pretty sick. And no, women don’t accuse most men of being rapists. Just the ones who actually rape them. This whole post is terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:41 AM
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She really doesn’t. No women wants a dick pic. Ever. Especially an unsolicited one. If she asks for one she’s just making sure she has something of yours in exchange for pics she might share with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 08:38 AM
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Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:49 AM
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Oh and men are always so ready to take accountability and admit when they’re wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 06:45 AM
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I think it's not so much the 30 and 40 year olds who are terrified of aging. It's the 20 year olds who are constantly online listening to the vitriol about older women who are terrified. They're the ones getting botox and lip fillers at 22. As a 40 year old woman, while I'm not exactly delighted about the physical signs of aging, I'm comfortable enough in myself to not let it bother me. I can focus on the good things in my life and just get on with it. Being 40 is much better than being 20 IMO, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 02:24 AM
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Not to mention, why are men only getting married to improve social status? I thought you were all sad and lonely and needed a woman to rescue you from a lifetime alone /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:23 PM
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Why are men still doing it if it’s reducing their social status? Maybe that’s how it is on the internet, but IRL that just isn’t the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 10:21 PM
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That’s not “the real world” though. Fathers are only considered “buffoons” if they’re hopeless partners and parents. If they do a decent job of these things (and let’s be honest, the bar is low) they’re congratulated and revered.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 09:52 PM
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I'm sure it's the case for men too. But the post was specifically related to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:57 AM
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Exactly. Women generally aren't so desperate for company that they'll date someone undesirable (and I'm not just talking about looks here - they don't want to date assholes either).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:18 AM
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One woman on a podcast proves that female loneliness or dating problems are all fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 03:41 AM
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Every mum group I'm in online (which are usually created for people to talk about baby/kid stuff) there are women asking for help with their male partners/husbands. Stuff like: "I asked him to put a load of washing on when I was busy with the sick kid and he messed it up. When I tried to explain it to him he threw up his hands and yelled at me for criticising him all the time. He still doesn't know how to put on a load of washing." Or "He got the kids all riled up before bedtime and it took me 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:05 PM
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What women are you talking about? I don't know any women who expect this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 09:01 AM
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Christ on a motorbike, can we stop with the paternity test posts, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 03:29 AM
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I said "maybe it's because you're not a nice person to be around". That doesn't mean you're a bad person, or that you're evil. You might be, but that's not what I said. However, if you spend all your time whining online about how lonely you are because you can't find a woman who will let you reenact your favourite porn scenes with her, then yeah, you're a bad person. Relationships need to go both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 11:32 PM
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Let me get this straight. Men are shamed by other men for showing “negative” emotions (not sure what makes an emotion negative, but ok). Women tell men to let out their emotions. But then when they do, women shame men for letting our their emotions? So I have questions. 1. Why are women being blamed for men being horrible to one another? 2. Why would women invite men to let out their emotions if they're going to then criticise them for it? 3. Who is saying men have to tolerate people saying "men…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:10 PM
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Why would I (or any other woman) be empathetic towards men who clearly hate us? You do nothing but toss insults our way, and then have the nerve to suggest that we should be nice to you. It goes both ways. Not to mention that anytime we try to speak to you logically you shut us down with the “but women are so mean to men and all they want is our money wah” rhetoric. Perhaps try showing some empathy to the women you encounter, rather than just thinking of them as someone to add to your “body coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:53 PM
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I don’t think you’re evil because you’re lonely. I’m not sure where you got that idea from.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:48 PM
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So… what is the point then? How do you propose to solve this so called problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:00 AM
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“Literally common knowledge” - in misogynist men’s rights subreddits. The fact is, there are men who are idiots and there are women who are idiots. You can’t tar everyone with the same brush.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:33 AM
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Ok, I don’t disagree with you there. So whose job is it to raise them right and help them develop?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:26 AM
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An article with relevant sources linked that prove my point? I’m not sure why that’s a problem. You’ve provided no sources to back up your claims that marriage is so awful for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:44 AM
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You’re the one scared of getting married because you think someone is going to “divorce rape” you. Maybe don’t give them reason to do that in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:41 AM
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And I didn’t say that lesbians break up because they were incompatible. Maybe one of them is at fault. And I never said women were never at fault when heterosexual marriages don’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:36 AM
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Wtf, divorce raped? You seem very bitter about something. Did a woman take you for the $50 you had saved up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:34 AM
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lol no benefit for men to being married? Studies on this show that men do far better from marriage than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:29 AM
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Of course it does, but it doesn’t happen everywhere or in every relationship. All these posts and comments make out like every woman is a gold digger just waiting for the chance to lay around at home while her husband toils around the clock to keep her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:26 AM
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You’re talking about two different issues. I don’t know about lesbian relationships, but I’d imagine it’s partly because women realise they don’t have to stay together and are smart enough to get out when they realise it’s not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:25 AM
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Nobody owes you their company. If you’re lonely maybe it’s because you’re not a nice person to be around. You certainly can’t force women to spend time with you just to stop you being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:16 AM
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The question doesn’t say they only care about lesbian marriages. They cite stats on all relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:11 AM
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Of course they do - they have to find a new servant/sex slave/child care worker to pick up the slack. Divorced women, however, realise they dodged a bullet and enjoy having one fewer child to take care of. And no, or course I’m not suggesting this applies to “all men” or “all women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:10 AM
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It’s not misandry. It’s reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 03:52 AM
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What? Are you suggesting that women usually expect men to pay for everything? 1960 called, it wants its attitudes back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:54 AM
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Oh and men aren’t “selfish AF” in relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:39 AM
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It’s because women are waking up to the fact that marriage is a scam designed to keep them in servitude to dopey, ungrateful men. Marriage is far better for men than it is for women. Why would we stay with men who don’t appreciate us, treat us as servants and expect us to have sex with them on demand? Sure, plenty of men are fine and decent partners. Those relationships are more likely to survive. But as a woman, if you find yourself married to a man who isn’t a decent partner, you don’t have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:36 AM
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To be honest mate, I can’t even make sense of the word salad in your posts. Maybe work on forming reasonable arguments backed by actual data, and then try again later.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:13 AM
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Agreed. Don't share stats without a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 12:53 AM
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I swear, reading this sub you could think that every man was asking for a paternity test and every woman was getting upset about it. I'm 40 years old and I've never encountered anyone in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 03:07 AM
4

In bars in or near hotels full of corporate travellers? Plenty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:02 AM
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I've been to bars alone when traveling for work. I am neither a cop nor a prostitute. I would be fine to chat with a man in a bar, but I wouldn't accept a drink from him. I can buy my own drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 11:09 PM
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“It’s feminine to let a woman drive you”?? Imagine your masculinity being so fragile that it can be damaged by a woman driving a car. What do you do if a woman is driving your Uber? Honestly, the trash people write on this sub never ceases to amaze me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:14 PM
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I don’t know why you’re arguing about this. Illiterates like you aren’t likely to ever be in a situation where you could earn enough to support a partner and children at home anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:13 AM
2

Have you ever had a baby to care for, all on your own? Or a baby and a toddler?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 10:00 AM
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You’re working full time while supervising two small children, alone? What are you drugging them with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:59 AM
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Nice try, super clever. Did you take English lessons from Donald Trump? If you’re not talking about all women as a group, then who are you talking about when you say “women never…”?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 09:08 AM
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I'm obviously talking about women staying home with babies. Not school aged kids. You don't seem like a very nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:31 AM
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Lying? What are you talking about? Do you think stay at home mothers get weekends off?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:24 AM
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How can you say "women never..." about anything? Do you know every woman and how they behave in relationships? Of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:48 AM
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Why do men on these subs always think I'm talking about myself? I'm not a stay at home mother. Plenty of women stay home because it's not financially feasible for them to go to work when their kids are small. So yes, they do sacrifice their careers. It's pretty rare for men to step up and offer to stay home with kids in these scenarios, because they realise how boring it is and don't want to miss out on career progression. They just assume women will do it, and a lot of the time they do. Also, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:25 AM
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Yes the woman is paying half of that, by contributing her time. You're making my argument for me. No actual money needs to change hands, this is a hypothetical scenario. If one person stays home with kids while the other person works 40 hours a week, the working partner should contribute equally when they're home. Otherwise they're getting significantly more leisure time than the non-working partner, which will lead to resentment and a breakdown in the relationship. And btw, I'm not a stay at ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:22 AM
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It takes two people to make a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:08 AM
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What stay at home mother expects her partner to do 50% of all the tasks? Obviously that isn't possible if he's working outside the home. However, he should pull his weight when he's home. Otherwise he's working 40 hours per week and she's on call 168 hours. A man having a job doesn't mean he gets to tap out when he's not at work while his stay at home slave manages the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:07 AM
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Ha, of course they don't hire a team of people. They just find a new, unsuspecting woman to take over her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:03 AM
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Are you suggesting that women who stay at home don't know how to drive? And that all women just cook hamburger helper? Try finding someone to run your household and look after your children 24/7 for $30k a year. I wish you luck. And if you value women so little, why would you want one in your home in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 04:01 AM
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She's sacrificing her career by staying home with kids (which TBH isn't that fun 80% of the time) so that he can go out and have a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:58 AM
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"the woman sits at home and doesn't make money" Have you ever looked after children? It certainly doesn't involve just "sitting at home". If you believe that, perhaps you should try finding a paid employee who will work 24/7 to look after children, cook, clean, do all the mental labour related to children and a household. It'll cost you a lot more than $100k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:56 AM
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Ooh a collage on YouTube of a bunch of women with main character syndrome wondering why no man wants to date them. You realise those women aren't the norm, right? They're idiots putting their life online trying to be influencers. In reality very few people think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:25 PM
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Did you mean solipsistic? Nice try on the big words there, you must be very high value. But if you want to insult me you might like to get the word right. Unlike you though, I have actually met and formed meaningful relationships with real life women, so no, I am not solipsistic when it comes to understanding how women think. I don't have time to read through all the drivel posted here, so I haven't read the comments you keep referencing. I was talking in general about people who make gross gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:20 PM
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Deflect what? Pretending what wasn't said? You're not making any sense. As a women, no, I've never had a list of things I wanted from a man. Other than "not spending his time writing rubbish on Reddit" I suppose. If a man wants to make little lists in his notebook I guess that's his choice. However, he shouldn't be surprised when women find him strange and creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:09 PM
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And what are you on about with the Pearl Incident ? I don't think social media existed in 1848.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:05 PM
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Do you think women should hide under blankets as soon as they turn 30? I don't understand your point. Why can't they enjoy themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:02 PM
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They're talking about men like you. Most men have plenty of "value". But men who consider women as commodities and assign value to them based on their age? Those women are correct, those men have no value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:01 PM
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What on earth are you talking about? Nobody talks like this in the real world. I have literally never considered what someone's value is based on their age or gender. Get off Reddit and meet some real people. You might learn something useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:54 AM
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Imagine thinking this was a clever thing to post omg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:58 AM
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But why do you think that the way the woman works is less efficient than the man? Have you ever seen a child? You can't make them more efficient so that they need less of your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 11:10 PM
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You lost me at office jobs are a female dominated industry haha. Not too many women CEOs out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:18 PM
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You're talking about two completely different jobs. Taking care of a baby is nothing like working in an office all day. It sounds like you're trying to suggest that unpaid labour is just people being lazy and not completing their tasks efficiently. Try telling a baby that when they wake you up in the middle of the night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 09:14 PM
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