~ archived since 2018 ~
~ archived since 2018 ~
| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 9 | Safe space? PleaseIf you committed infidelity which led to the divorce, you might find r/supportforwaywards the best spot. I, like a lot of men here, were cheated on by their wife/ex. I'm happy to support those who were betrayed. I don't have any desire to spend my energy helping someone who destroyed their family the way mine was. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/26 12:16 PM |
| 5 | I think I’m doneI haven't had to deal with nearly the number of issues you have, but I have ended up in a very similar place after learning of my wife's infidelity and trying to keep the household together a few more years until he's out of the house. The romantic side of the relationship is over. I feel that same sense of hopelessness and am pretty sure I will be alone the rest of my life, as well. I went through a period of planning to end things around the beginning of the year. Method and a rough idea of pl… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/26 07:11 PM |
| 2 | I keep blaming myself. I need an outside perspectiveYou could be describing exactly what I was going through last year, with the exception that I left my role when the company was unable to meet the obligations it had made. I had noticed a change specifically in the spring. She became mean, dismissive, and, when I brought up her tone and attitude, she would explain how it was all my fault for not doing enough/leaving her with too much "mental load"/etc. Mind you, she was travelling for work 10-15 days a month, during which time I was taking care … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/26 04:44 PM |
| 10 | How do I get over the thought of another man with my kids?Dad to dad. How do you not understand? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/26 11:35 PM |
| 6 | My (30m) wife (35f) has told me she’s moving out next month, after 12 years married. Canada.I understand it you may believe this, but the behavior you describe in her is of someone who has another relationship set up. In order to justify the cheating, it is extremely common to exaggerate every negative behavior of the betrayed partner. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | It was my fault. I feel so much guilt.This sounds like a case for mixedorientation or straightspouses. Is she right that you don't want to be there? If not, is her anxiety well-founded-- that is, did you cheat physically or emotionally or register for hookup apps? If it is for your kids, because you think you and your wife will be able to provide them a loving and stable home that would be better for them than separate households, I'd really suggest looking at mixedorientation and seeing the wide range of situations that such marria… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 10:46 PM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter