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Did you even watch this documentary?
/r/MensRights19/03/26 12:37 PM
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This sub is fucking stupid. But I’ll put in my two cents. The more you try to sleep with women and make it a major focus in your life, the more likely women will hate you and think you’re a pig. Because you are. Enjoy life, have hobbies, get enough sleep, eat well and exercise, be a kind man, RESPECT WOMEN - these are all ways to attract women because these are all things good women value. And when I say “good women” I mean women who are healthy in all the ways that matter - physically, mentally…
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:36 PM
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Historically speaking a man who sleep with lots of women (and he’s definitely not committing to most of them) is seen as a “pimp” or “the man”, his buddies give him praise and high fives, he’s admired by other men. Women who use men are seen as gold diggers and that’s about it. From a cultural standpoint no one looks up to these women nor are they admirable. I can’t really think of any character like this in movies, books, etc that women want to emulate. What I’m trying to get is that men always…
/r/MensRights14/08/21 03:28 AM
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Using women for sex is not seen as terrible. It happens a lot and men are praised for having a high number.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 03:05 AM
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Given that men use women for sex all the time then I’d say it is widely accepted as okay.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 02:02 AM
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The thing is that many men do…not trying to justify FDS take here but yes, men use women for sex. All the time.
/r/MensRights13/08/21 11:42 PM
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Nah I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we met on Bumble. Same with many of my friends. Psychopaths and narcissists are everywhere. Hiding your career on dating profiles will filter out users but it will also filter out high quality women looking for a good man with a good job. But if online dating isn’t someone’s jam I can’t blame them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:57 PM
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To women looks don’t matter nearly as much as other things. Not quite sure why you think women don’t also want to be loved for who they are rather than just a hole for some guy to put his dick in. Like, I get it, people regardless of gender don’t want to be used. But being used is not solely a problem men face. Women face the same problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 10:08 PM
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I’m not being obtuse. I’m trying to explain how stupid and futile it is to hide an occupation from a dating profile because you think some women out there will only want to meet up because they’re gold diggers. As if they’re just sooo prevalent in society that he’ll end up committed to someone only after his money. It’s very unlikely, and he’s only hindering himself by hiding an absolutely desirable trait about himself. As he is, women have no reason to match with him, unless you think looks are…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 11:40 AM
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He’s outta luck, won’t leverage his status as a doctor and sounds like he’s attracted to women who aren’t attracted to him 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:03 AM
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Okay, and? Is he supposed to hide his career forever? After the first date she’ll know. Sounds to me like he’s in a pickle. Either that or he literally has no faith that he has any other qualities that could attract and keep a woman. To him she’ll only like him for his money. What a sad way to see yourself. You guys are so obsessed with gold diggers. It’s like when women believe men are only with them for their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 02:02 AM
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I’m referring to the MD that is posting about his experience with online dating. If it’s so horrible then don’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:39 AM
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Where do you get the idea that women only like doctors for their money? It’s a given that doctors are intelligent, compassionate, hard working, and good with people. Those are all traits women want in a partner. And let’s be real - not all doctors are wealthy. Primary care doctors do not make that much when you factor in how much debt they carry and how much schooling they have. Finding someone attractive because of what they do for a living is probably more noble than just being attracted to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 01:38 AM
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And how do you think you can just “be you” in the online dating world? Literally every guy who’s ever matched with me did so because he thought I was hot. And every guy who’s approached me in person did so because he liked what he saw, not because of who I was. I accept it for what it is. No one is going to initially like you for you. I suggest you also start accepting that now if you ever want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 02:27 PM
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Why do people always say stuff like this? I see many men on here say “I don’t want women to only want me for x”, usually in the financial sense. It’s silly because OLD is literally choosing people based on looks. How is that any better?? Like, which factors are women supposed to base their attraction on? Because if you’re not putting up your profession (which says a great deal about who you are), then she’s going to pick based on what you look like. And if you’re not attractive, then good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 10:28 AM
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:55 AM
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I enjoy reading your comments, you seem like a level headed guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 12:47 AM
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Extreme levels of social isolation have been shown to be bad for emotional and mental health. It’s up to each individual, though. I’m pretty introverted but I know when I’m more social I feel more connected to my community.
/r/MGTOW222/05/21 04:33 PM
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Solutions for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:46 AM
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What does that have to do with welfare programs being eliminated so women have to stay with their husbands...?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 12:14 AM
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I didn’t say that. I listed many other reasons. Do you really think the majority of women enjoy casual sex? I have many female friends and the only sex they were ever having was with men they were dating and were serious about. The odd hook up would happen occasionally but it was never spoken about positively.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:24 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:12 PM
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I’m a woman and I don’t like casual sex. I really don’t think many do. I think many women have casual sex because it’s socially acceptable. I also think many young women do it because they’re experimenting, trying to figure out what they like, how they fit in to society, etc. But after some growth it’s pretty common for women to trust themselves and do what they think is best - and the general consensus is that having sex with someone not emotionally invested in you is a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 09:09 PM
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You’re replying to me, but good to know you don’t consider yourself “socially better” Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:43 PM
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Where the hell do you guys come up with this garbage? Go out into the real world and look at couples. I’m relatively young and so many of my friends are just average people dating or married to other average people. Stop listening to what you read on the internet. It’s spewed from other lonely horny men trying to justify why they can’t find a partner. Nice taking to you. Good luck out there!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:43 PM
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Lol social betters. You don’t even know me. Take a chill pill dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:41 PM
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So sad when lonely men need to compliment themselves. But good for you for earning internet points.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:25 PM
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Then they’re average husbands shouldn’t be complaining because they were never hot either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:24 PM
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Right? What I’m seeing in these comments is that women should have to choose between staying with a man who possibly abuses her or cheats on her, and being able to feed herself and her kids. I mean what in the actual fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:18 PM
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You spend an arguably unhealthy amount of time arguing on this sub though. Something tells me you’re bitter over your dating status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 01:14 PM
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I don’t even know what SMP means. Sounds like a bunch of incel language tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:01 PM
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And there are men who want an exceptional woman despite being ordinary themselves 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 10:01 PM
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You’re literally using tons of speculations to justify women dating just about anyone. Top 1%. Believing women won’t date men in their “league”. It’s all bullshit and half truths. Either that or men do the exact same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 07:35 PM
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Why do you think that’s the case? Why do you think women don’t deserve good men? Do you realize many of the women on FDS have been hurt by awful men? Are they supposed to settle for just anyone? I follow FDS. I have a great boyfriend. I have no idea if he falls into the 1% of men because I don’t really categorize people like that. It’s weird to do so. We are looking to buy a home soon. We have a two bedroom apartment (not sure why this matters....). We both make decent money. I’m not pathetic no…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 11:53 AM
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But the women on FDS don’t care if they don’t find a man. They’re not willing to settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 03:34 PM
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So men leaving women based on looks is the exception to the rule, but women leaving men because of money is the norm? You’re so jaded. Good luck finding a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:54 PM
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Ha, ok. And the reverse is never true. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 12:09 PM
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That’s like saying attractive women can’t bond with their partners because they know these men are only with them because of their looks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 11:50 PM
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When I say “attractive” I mean as a whole - looks , personality, and character. Body weight is just one small piece of the puzzle. Middle class is average, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 01:49 AM
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Lol k, good luck with all that. You sound like you have it all figured out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 12:57 AM
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I never said be yourself, especially if you’re not an attractive person. And “attractive” is not limited to the physical body. Ways to improve yourself and/or be attractive to the opposite sex: Get a good education, secure a reliable and good paying job, work towards goals, be hardworking, eat a nutritious diet, exercise regularly, be kind to everyone, be fun/funny, be a good conversationalist, be well versed in a variety of topics, be emotionally available, be a good listener, etc, etc... It is…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 11:17 PM
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I mean you can keep telling yourself that woman don’t value monogamy and just want to fuck chads all day if that makes you feel better. I don’t know what else to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:36 PM
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The more we like a man, the more likely we are to have sex fairly early. That doesn’t mean a woman can’t fall head over heels for a man she waits to have sex with. Some women try out hook ups when they’re young, or even throughout their lives, but that doesn’t necessarily mean the particular man they have sex with early on is some top tier guy. A lot of it has to do with what is going on in her life. For example, my first boyfriend took his life when I was 21. I was a mess for at least a year. a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:35 PM
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Casual sex as a means to get into a relationship is not true casual sex. It’s on the basis that there will be more of a commitment down the line. Women aren’t out perusing bars and tinder just to get laid. They’re looking for partners. Just because women like hot men doesn’t mean they JUST want to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:42 PM
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You do realize that if women valued casual sex more than sex in relationships we’d all stay single, right? Women enjoy sex with men who value them, respect them, love them, and try to make them happy. Engaging in casual sex with men does NOT provide that. I’m going to assume that as a man who follows MGTOW, you’re not very experienced with women. As an average woman I can promise you that we do not typically enjoy sex with no strings attached. We are not men. We bond easily with men we are intim…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:29 PM
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Lol so am I the exception to this rule you have that women value casual sex? None of my friends engage in casual sex. They might have tried it when they were younger and experimenting but the general consensus is that we don’t enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 08:18 PM
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But women don’t value casual sex. The hottest man in the world could stop me on the street and suggest we have sex and I would say no. Women are not men. We don’t value looks nearly as much as you do. There needs to be something else to inspire attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:41 PM
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It’s all superficial though. What difference is there between a man who is attracted to a beautiful face and big tits and a woman who is attracted to a fat wallet? Both lack emotional depth. Let’s just admit that everything that’s gets you through the front door is going to be everything but personality. You need to be hot, or rich, or powerful, or have a desirable job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:39 PM
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No, I do not have sex with men just to have sex. I have sex with men I want to date, with the intention of turning it into a relationship. Men I want to date generally have a multitude of characteristics that I admire. I don’t look at an attractive man and think “sex”. Women don’t really work that way. Again, men on here severely over estimate the number of women who mess around with men just for kicks. If we’re sleeping with you, it means we like you and want to be with you long term. As for ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 05:11 PM
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I am not nor have ever been only interested in fucking a man. If I’m having sex with someone it’s because I want a relationship with them. Men on here waaay overestimate the number of women who are just looking to mess around. If we’re having sex with you, it most likely means we want a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 03:38 PM
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Attractive as in I would date them if I were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:53 PM
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I highly doubt 70% of 20-30ish year olds are considered overweight/obese. I don’t have the statistics but from what I see most of them are a normal weight or maybe a tad pudgy. Edit: I should add that if all men have to do is lose weight in order to be attractive, then they can do that. Men on here are constantly saying that women only have to be thin to be attractive. It’s the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 12:33 PM
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I’m 5’7”. Some of them are my height and I still find them attractive. I can’t think of any men I work with who are shorter than me. If they are it’s just barely and I can’t tell. If you’re asking if I find men who are in working class jobs attractive, then yes, physically I see men who are good looking everywhere. Would I date them? No. I’m a 30 year old professional woman. I would like to date someone in my social class or higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 11:41 AM
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Why would all these men I work with be stereotypically good looking? I live in the Midwest. Statistically speaking most of them are just average. Although some of them are really hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 11:37 AM
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You guys really lose your minds over this stuff. All I’m saying is I find many of my coworkers attractive. Some are short. Some are super tall. Most of them are married so clearly it’s not just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:34 AM
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Yeah, I work in healthcare and men my age (30s) are mostly all pretty attractive to me. I’d say upwards of 75%. Men on here try to say we only find 20% of guys attractive but that is definitely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 01:01 AM
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You must have been hurt my a single mother. I can’t figure out why you care so much about what single mothers do with their lives. Either that or you’re really young.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:38 AM
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Single mothers are single for literally thousands of reasons. Do you honestly think women are leaving their husbands because these men are just “average”? Or do you think it could be due to infidelity, abuse, addiction, mental illness? Did you know many single mothers are single because their husbands left them or even died?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:32 AM
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Women avoid most men in general. We aren’t looking for anything other than a long term partner most of the time. So I don’t know why women would pursue an incel or lvm. Lvm date women all the time, though, but I digress... You’re stating an opinion on fat single mothers as if it is true. It is not. Maybe some fat single mothers look down on average men and believe they deserve better, but it is not some scientific fact that you can prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:22 AM
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The hate you see from women is generally in response to what incels and lvm do to women. Incels tend to congregate on the internet and talk about how much they hate women, call them sluts, etc. Some even go so far as to kill women... Fat single mothers get a lot of hate for being, what, fat and single? They aren’t hurting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:11 AM
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It’s not that it bothers us that you don’t want to DATE them....it’s the hatred and vitriol towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 01:05 AM
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You mean making money and working is hard? I think it beats marrying the first guy who shows interest in you, and then doing everything he says because without him you’ll end up penniless and without any job skills. Being a human sucks. Working for a living sucks. Popping out kids and raising them sucks. Women have never been promised the world. We’re just trying to get by in this shit world.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:23 PM
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I think this just proves men are happier than women when both coupled and single. And it doesn’t hurt if you’re rich. Are we having a competition about who suffers more? Did women win?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 12:21 PM
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And how is that not the same for men? If you’re obese you’re less attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 05:06 PM
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I see tons of ugly and average people all the time. The funny thing is is that you likely just don’t notice them. Statistics prove that most of us are just average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:54 PM
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Finally a man who gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:51 PM
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You have no statistics to back up that claim. Most people have average faces. Just like men, women can be ugly without being fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:47 PM
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Why do men keep insisting that all women need to do to be desirable is to lose weight? I got into it a couple weeks ago on here about Sarah Jessica Parker. Many men agreed that she has always been ugly. Well guess what - she’s got a bangin body. And she’s not even ugly!!! She was hot in her younger years!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:40 PM
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I would date either. It depends on what he looks like and the level of attraction I have for him. Trying to make a black and white statement like this doesn’t make sense. I’d date a guy with a dad bod, I’d also NOT date a guy with a dad bod. You have to be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:57 PM
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This is fit https://hips.hearstapps.com/hmg-prod.s3.amazonaws.com/images/gettyimages-841195990-1555344319.jpg?crop=0.438xw:0.657xh;0.187xw,0.294xh&resize=480:* Oh and this is fit https://qph.fs.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-198e09de3e0b97ee940a5f7c6780f3c1.webp And this too https://us.123rf.com/450wm/prometeus/prometeus1605/prometeus160500431/56933467-portrait-of-a-sexy-young-man-with-perfect-muscular-body-slightly-smiling-invitingly-at-camera-gray-b.jpg?ver=6 None of them look the same and are all var…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 10:37 PM
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No? I just said I wouldn’t date a gym rat. You can google “dad bod” and it’s not like it means these guys are super fat. They’re just a bit fluffy. And by “fit” you need to be more specific. There are various levels of being fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 07:10 PM
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I don’t like gym rats because they’re hyper focused on their looks. They’re vain. They probably lift because they’re trying to attract women. The very thought of a man trying to attract women with the way he looks is so lame. He probably doesn’t have much else going for him. Men who are active, eat relatively healthy, but don’t obsess over carbs or going to the gym every day are 1000x more attractive than super fit muscular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 01:35 AM
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Most women just don’t care. Just don’t be super fat. If you have other things going for you women won’t care if you’re pure muscle or not. Frankly, being a fitness fanatic can be a turn off for a lot of women. It takes a lot of time and energy to look super fit. Take care of your health but don’t do it for vanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 12:25 AM
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But we’ve never lied to them? Women like men with high social standing. That’s not new.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:51 PM
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Women’s social status has never really mattered because we’ve always been the lesser gender. We only were allowed to start our own bank accounts like 50 years ago. All these men up in arms over basic biology. Men want the prettiest women. Women want the richest men. Men want to spread their seed. Women want resources so they can raise their children. Duh. Big fucking whoop.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:06 PM
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It beats being with a dude who’s not only poor but a bad husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 09:00 PM
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This is something incels on this sub like to ignore. To them, women are sluts and men are angels who just want to commit to a lovely woman. In reality if they had it their way they’d fuck hundreds of women in a heartbeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:56 PM
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Go outside. Look around at couples. Then come back and tell me only attractive men get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 08:48 PM
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You’re acting as if the majority of single mothers are just careless. No, the majority of women don’t just pop out a baby without careful consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:36 AM
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She’s a piece of shit because she had a baby and is raising it alone? Wtf is wrong with you. And you’re lumping all single moms together. So a widow is a piece of shit now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 02:25 AM
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She’s not ugly though https://images.app.goo.gl/yqdav6nVKWGf7NvV6 If that’s considered ugly god help us all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:45 AM
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I love how men on here are adamant that you only have to be thin to be attractive, yet think SJP is ugly. If SJP is ugly then most women will never live up to mens’ expectations - thin or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:33 AM
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They wouldn’t be parasites if the dead beat father was an active participant in raising his damn child.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 01:03 AM
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I think she was pretty when she was younger. Honestly can’t believe people pick on her. She’s pretty old now so she’s just a normal looking woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 12:56 AM
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THANK YOU!! I spend $80 a month getting my crotch waxed. It hurts like hell. And that’s on top of everything else you mentioned. My boyfriend gets his hair cut every 2 months and shaves his face once a week. That’s it. I spend literally thousands of dollars on beauty and maintence stuff. Men on here can stfu
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 05:09 PM
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Raising children is hella expensive. You’re going to run into a lot of stress if you’re not making decent money. My point is that feminine women who don’t want a career are looking for high earners. There are far too many men who demand a feminine women but don’t hold up their end of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 02:33 PM
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Except normal jobs don’t pay that well, and are worked by people who do them because they need the money. Having a career on the other hand usually pays better than just a job, and people pursue a career because they’re passionate about what it entails. I live in the US so maybe it’s different elsewhere. Anyone with just a job is likely very underpaid and probably has a side job to make ends meet. True ultra feminine women aren’t going to be happy in this role. That’s why feminine women need a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:36 PM
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So you want a woman that works (because you don’t want to shoulder the responsibility of raising a family) but doesn’t have a career... You’re the type of man feminine women AND career minded women DON’T want to date. Feminine women who want kids don’t want to work. They want to raise their children. They want to do all the wifey stuff. They want a man who brings home the bacon!! Career women want men who are supportive of their career. If she loves her job and likes making money why would she d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:12 PM
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Most PEOPLE don’t have the motivation to put in effort at the gym. Most of us work 40+ hours a week. Not to mention our food system is absolute shit. What you eat has a much greater impact on how you look than what you do in the gym does. It’s harder to be thin now because everything we eat is worse for us than it was 50 years ago. And that’s coming from someone who goes out of her way to eat healthy and study nutrition. It’s hard as hell to truly eat healthy today, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 12:57 AM
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Nurses make 70-150k a year. Historically they haven’t been high value but that has been changing. BSNs are the new norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 01:29 AM
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Yep you can make what ever boundaries work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/21 10:42 AM
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that’s exactly why women shouldn’t be putting out early on when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/21 09:29 PM
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I’d give you an award if I had any. This sub is so ridiculously toxic and it gives socially inept people the wrong ideas about the opposite gender. Anyone with friends of the opposite sex, who have dated and been in long term relationships, realize so many individuals who spend a lot of time on PPD and Reddit in general must be either 13 years old or socially and emotionally stunted. I appreciate those on here trying to talk sense into this community.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 12:17 PM
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It’s a little hard to take a man seriously when he regularly visits subreddits sexualizing rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 01:50 AM
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I don’t think many women accept dates from men they’re not attracted to. Usually we’re pretty picky about which men we choose to spend time with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:42 PM
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What are orbiters? I don’t argue that there are women out there who use men for a free meal, with no intention of dating him further, but I think this is less mentally damaging then it is for women being used for sex. Unfortunately men will just have to take the brunt of this unfortunate reality. To be fair though, if a woman decides she doesn’t want to pursue anything further with you after a date, she may have initially been interested but somewhere along the line saw some red flags. So again,…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:49 PM
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On average I’d say men take advantage of easy sex more often than women take advantage of....what? A free meal? I don’t even think men are necessarily malicious with using a woman for sex. I think men can have that “post nut clarity” and realize she’s not the one for him. That’s why women have to gauge a man’s interest carefully. Usually a strong interest is correlated with effort and courting, and less likely to be “pumped and dumped”. What do you want from women exactly? Do you want women to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:39 PM
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Men are the gatekeepers to relationships and marriage. Women are the gatekeepers to sex. If I pursue a man it is likely he will take advantage of my interest and lockdown easy sex with out committing to a relationship. This sounds crass but men are slutty. Women will not pursue a relationship with a man she isn’t interested in NOR will she want sex with him. So if one gender has to “prove” his interest it’s the male gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:21 PM
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Because men need to love a woman a little bit more than she loves him for a relationship to work. And if he initiates and pursues, that requires effort. And effort generally indicates a strong desire for a relationship. I’ve been watching 90 day fiancé and there are some women who chase and chase and it’s pretty pathetic. Now I have no problem with starting a conversation with a man I find attractive, but if he can’t take the hint from there then why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:10 PM
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Libido is highly influenced by metabolism, nutritional status, overall health, and stress. When your hormones are balanced you’re more likely to feel horny. If you have no libido it could mean something is wrong physically. And in the US it’s very hard to be healthy. Most women are chronically stressed and deprived of important nutrients because our diet is terrible. I was vegetarian for years and had no sex drive. I eat a very prob metabolic diet now and my sex drive has gone up significantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 11:47 PM
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Well, yeah, most women do. I was spit in the face by a stranger a couple days ago for no reason. But I’m asking how often this topic comes up. Is it frequently?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:19 PM
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How often do the women in your life talk about how scared they are of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:13 PM
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I think the internet and Reddit in particular does a good job of causing a lot of bitterness and resentment towards the opposite gender. That’s why I said this sub is so jaded. Women in real life don’t talk about how threatened they feel all the time. Some might feel that way and yes, on some small level women are weary of male strangers. I didn’t even mention anything about this, though, and your springing infanticide on me. Of course I’m going to think “wtf”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:24 AM
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That’s sad. Idk what that has to do with anything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:33 AM
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There’s an epidemic of pregnant moms killing their 4th trimester babies...spread the word!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:39 AM
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Ya’ll are busy killing us IRL instead 😶
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:36 AM
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Oh jeez, because men have never wished death upon women. Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:33 AM
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When I read comments like these sometimes I feel like I’m living in another universe. I’m 30, know plenty of women. Most of us aren’t cheaters. We’re all dating or married to normal, nice guys. I feel like Reddit is an echo chamber of men and women accusing the other of unrealistic expectations that don’t really exist in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 12:04 AM
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This sub is so jaded
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 11:34 PM
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Only? Really? If you find the right woman she will provide good sex, love, and partnership. Help with dumb shit like cleaning and cooking. I hate that I say this but a good woman can amplify the status of a man. Think of all the great men in history. A lot of them had supportive and intelligent women right beside them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:15 AM
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Don’t get married if that’s what you want. There are plenty of men unhappy with their marriages, but I’m betting on average, married men do benefit from having a wife. Just gotta find the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:09 AM
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I’d actually argue most women want this, deep down. Society has told us to want something entirely different, though. I do like that my career allows me to move on from a man if I wish, but I hate working 40+ hours a week. I’d much rather play house and pursue other interests. I’m 30 and I’m sort of over the boss bitch shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:07 AM
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I’m going to assume that means you can’t give me a good answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 02:01 AM
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Why should we rely on your anecdotal data though and not the provided studies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:44 AM
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Yeah probably a bad word. I’d swap insane for delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:10 AM
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Yikes. Maybe it’s just where I’m from but plenty of 40 year old men are neither attractive nor rich. It all depends on how well you take care of yourself in your youth. I’m from the Midwest and so many men drink themselves into oblivion when they’re young. It’s not pretty and it doesn’t end well. Eat healthy. Minimize stress. Exercise. Sleep well. Avoid drugs, alcohol, and cigarettes. Just take care of yourself and regardless of your gender you will be doing better than most people once you hit …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 01:08 AM
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It is if you’re in love with the guy and want commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 12:29 AM
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I’ve argued these same points with this guy under a different username. They’ll never get it. To them, casual sex with as many beautiful women as possible is the end goal... They’re mad because they’re not Chads. They don’t care that women don’t fall in love with Chads because they themselves don’t care about love or emotional intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:44 PM
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I follow FDS, not to a T but I’m in a healthy relationship with a great man. I do think a lot of its members have suffered their fair share of abuse from men. I can see why many of them are bitter and snarky over men as a whole, but that’s women everywhere. They’re definitely not limited to FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 09:18 PM
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I honestly don’t know how many women actually do this. I never did. My friends never did. We usually only have sex with men we’re interested in being with long term. Maybe they exist? Maybe one will chime in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 06:10 PM
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Since some men do have a Madonna/whore complex, women have to figure out which ones they are. Usually that comes with building some sort of relationship, whether it be friendship or romantic. But if it is romantic, you’re going to end up heartbroken, since you likely already slept with him. I’d rather choose friendship first, figure out what kind of man he is (ahem, a good one), and then have sex with him. It’s about self preservation. Women don’t like getting hurt, you see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/21 05:20 PM
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